You didn’t expect the man you’ve been waiting for a long time was already married (Perfect & Casual)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ก.ย. 2024
- A very sad unrequited love story of Lin Chuchu and Zhang Sinian (prtrsyed by Miles Wei and Joy Sheng)
Drama: Perfect and Casual (Chinese, 2020)
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Just because you’ve loved someone for years doesn’t mean you have authority over their love life and doesn’t mean they are obligated to like you back.
yea they have right to cheat on you anytime
That's what a lot of so called 'childhood friends' don't seem to understand.
@@Lalit02Dhanwani..
Huh...when...🤔🤔
Aww...cheater experience...maybe
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Unrequitted 🤔👍
@Lalit02Dhanwani you understand that they were never a couple, right? She has chosen to wait for him and nurture this one-sided 'love' she has. His wife came in and unexpectedly turned his life upside down. 😊 He was shooketh by his cute wife.
@@neodeshahendley2578 but you have right to cheat👍 i never said he cheated 😂😂
Ohh I like how he set his boundaries. "I already have someone I want to hug." I am so tired of those cliches where they let the person clearly infatuated with them to initiate intimate contact creating misunderstanding for the couple.
And not just a hug, he even kissed her. That’s a big slap to the other girl
I'm glad when he only hold out his hand when she want to hug farrewell
It's hilarious cause she is Lin Man in cute programmer doing exactly that! And I agree with you!
@@elisabeth73 Same thoughts! What are the chances that you'll get the same role again? Hahaha
I agree 100% with you on that
I hate girls who go after guys they know have partners, they irritate the hell out of me
Ikr...but their past was very deep so that explains...
@@bgos1374 they just were friends they weren't in relationship or he told her he liked her
@@Kookiepookie2025 I know,it's the real picture,but from chuchu's perspective...she really liked him...and also thought Zhang likes her back and is only avoiding relationships due to his research work but when she saw Yun shu,she would have been confused and heartbroken...so she approached him for reasoning
@@Kookiepookie2025 but I do agree she is at fault...if she would have come with him to China , they would have definitely been together but she didn't so she should've accepted her fate.Its not wrong to go for career but she should stick to what she wants more.
@@bgos1374 but even if they got together they are not suitable I know they both love mathematics or something but if the 2 are the same they will be so boring tbh😂
The fact that they have a healthy relationship is something I admire about this show. Sinian doesnt want Yunshu to feel insecure/uncomfortable about how he treat other women & Yunshu trying her best to become a better and supportive wife to Sinian. This hits Diff ❤️
This show deserves 1000000000/10.
What I liked about this show was even though they had a contract marriage, he always treated her with respect and dignity. Even though she really is a nit-wit, he never looked down on her. He appreciated her ability to make the best of even bad situations.
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Perfect and casual c drama
There is absolutely no way all these women failed to spot his wedding ring. It's very visible. Women spot these with birds of prey vision within seconds.
But he is really cool in how he sets boundaries and how he behaves. Good man.
She's in a unrequited love bubble - the delusion is real😂. It will never have crossed her mind that he was married or the ring is related to marriage. Even his colleagues were shocked. Her shocked face when he said he was married.
I know he wears his wedding ring but these air heads who are supposed to be intelligent academics didn’t notice, it’s pretty obvious when people are wearing wedding rings!!!!
I agree. Those woman are supposed to be smart, but they immediately seemed to be gossipy. Just because you went to school together and worked on the same project doesn’t mean you were a couple.
What I don’t understand is later on she tells the lawyer friend that they are in a contract marriage. How did she find that out-I know he didn’t tell her and neither did the lawyer, so how did she find out.
🤣🤣 It's the "spot them with birds of prey vision" for me.
@@tarrysmile After watching this for the umpteenth time, I realized the math colleague should have broken out in shocked tears without realizing it. Not sobbing, just shocked pikachu face with tears quietly rolling down her face. The actress didn't even scrunch her eyebrows in confusion, or give many other micro expressions. The actress was just as dry when she played Li Man in Cute Programmer.
He is a king of marriage first love later theme 😂❤️❤️
😂😂
King of contract marriage lol
And also health bracelet
In unforgettable love also
But he is really suitable for playing this type of role. I really think that falling in love with someone after marriage is really romantic.
If that ain't a perfect example of setting classy "friend zone boundaries," then I don't know what is. Just because a person may/may not be in love with their spouses, does not mean they are in love with you..
Damn not even a hug. That's how you know you're forever deep into the friend zone.
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That is just sad 😢😢
Deep in friend zone😂😂😂
Yeah... He never even saw her.
Not sad for me I do not like this girl actor
This is one of my favorite c-dramas, it's relatively light and mostly conflict free, they have a contract relationship to start with but it's super nontoxic and he's really supportive of his wife.
Title plss
@@annsalvador2699 Perfect and Casual (2020)
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funniest thing is he is sitting there with a wedding ring on did no-one notice that!, hes been married for a year. I love the way he was totally blunt and honest with her, he has a wife whom he loves, end of story. I too hate these women who chase after married men.
And what is more annoying is when they ask "why her, what is so special about her?" "she's ordinary"
I was wondering the same thing. He has a ring on, and he does not hide it.
I don't blame her for liking him earlier but, he always friend zoned her.
I also don't think they would be together even if she came with him to China.. Becz all I remember is he always saw her as colleague or as friend..The time I started hate her is Even, after knowing he is married she tried to break his marriage... I believe she needed to love herself and understand reality.. 💜But, got a appreciate how he loved his wife 💜totally loved this drama
True
That other woman is just a delusional home wrecker!! Glad he sets clear boundaries not just by words but also actions. Love the pulling his seat next to his wife, put out hand instead of hug and telling her he has someone he wants to hug already and kissing his wife in front of her!
The actress played almost the same character in Cute Programmer (Li Man).
He is not responsible for her expectations; he never showed interest in her or asked her to wait for him until 'this thing' happened, she just set her sights on him and assumed no-one else would want him or he wouldn't notice anyone but her even when he didn't notice her romantically.
As anyone in science/maths especially knows; you make choices based on the current data you have, when the data changes so can the choice. He wasn't interested in anyone so he didn't have a romantic relationship and didn't *plan* to until he earned the Fields Medal. Then he met someone he was interested in, so his plans changed. I know there was more than that to their relationship, but it still holds true. When he got real feelings for his wife, his choices changed with it. Scientists and mathematicians (along with *many* other fields, just using those two because of the characters professions) have to learn to adapt with new data or risk becoming obsolete.
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Rewatching Perfect and Casual while waiting for Unforgettable love to update episodes
Same
Where can I watch this drama with english subs?
sameeeee! the chemistry in unforgettable love is as good as this one. he really picked great drama and has amazing chemistry with FL.
Same
Same here
He was just giving her a signal to back off yet she refuses to receive the message.
Her antenna must be out of service 😂😂😂
She hasn’t seen him in years and tried to tell the woman he has been building a relationship with how he eats….so rude, disrespectful and presumptuous. Love how he shuts her down, though.
Her best friend is a real BFF!
His grandfather is right, they are not meant to be. Look how boring it will be if they'll be together
So true 🙁
Sorry but I really hate this kind of thinking. It might be boring for you to watch but in real life it could be more comfortable for a couple.
@@mx.n.3682 I don't think so. Having the same future plans but different way of thinking are completely different. Some might just argue what is right or wrong because of their own perspective or perception.
@VoO mAn my auntie and uncle does😂i think the two not shy people but just “calm” people
Yeah i also like and most loved it how he set his boundaries with other women and doesnot let create misunderstanding between him and his wife...this drama deserves to be in no.1 list of popular dramas...
When Zhang Sisian sits closer to Yun Shu, he hit the perfect trifecta: supports his wife, reminds the vamp that he's married AND throws a KO punch to the lawyer's, lol !
The way he had his leg stuck over the railing made me spit out my tea 🤣
😅😅😂😂😂😂
When I first saw this scene, I felt bad for her. But then after she became all “He deserves better blah blah” shit. I would rewatch this and be like “Take that!”
Same 😂
🤣🤣yeahhhh who the heck is she to tell a person who is worth for who
What pissed me totally off was her asking the same question from all kind of angles, exactly like someone I know irl.
😂 totally agree
Watched this drama months ago and I love them both, he's handsome and she's pretty...I always comeback to rewatch clips ♡
Is it just me or is this woman always playing the unwanted third wheel? 🤧🤣
She was in "cute programmer" stealing a man.
Yes and to me she isn't that great of a an actress either
@@MJGMA her acting is one-note. She literally plays the exact same character in the exact same way.
No.
omg yesssssssss. and everytime she pops up, im like "here we go again". coz y does she needs to steal the man after she hurt them
Wow what a man! I absolutely love the way he handled that with his friend. This is so refreshing to see in C-Dramas give me more of this please!🤗🤩
This drama was fantabulous ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰 love it ❣️. I so enjoy Miles Wei. He does excellent work. His leading lady was fantastic. ❤️ Grandpa he has a wonderful smile 😃. Thx a million for a great drama❣️
BEST on screen kiss ever. Love this guy. He didn’t care at all that she was checking on him.
He is wearing his wedding ring. 0:21 you can see it on his hand. How did no one notice it? Women clock that information all the time. And considering how popular he is I am very surprised no one noticed the new addition.
Hated how that woman went to his house after he told her he loved someone else, and not only demanded an explanation but expected some level of intimacy (a hug) that could be easily misunderstood by all and I'm sure she would've tried something more daring cause this would validate her false claims. Loved that he showed time and again that he wanted only that other woman. First, by stating it, then showing it by his actions behind the words. When he confessed to all that he wanted the other woman then this woman should've backed off. But if the restaurant scene didn't show her, that passionate kiss in front of her surely did. I hope she'll leave him and his wife alone after all that.
That kiss was the exclamation point! Any more questions?
Ma'am, you forgot "periodt" .......hehehe
Omg, his confession of love is too much cute........by calculating mathematically 😂😂
She's the type of girl that with a little less attention she will get in trouble...yikeeessss!!!!!!love it😭😭😭💋💋❤️❤️❤️ it's hurting my singlenessss🤧
I don't get a statement... Can u explain what exactly he explained about her
So basically Chuchu confused his kindness and friendliest acts as interest; but he was always clear he wants to accomplish goals before being in a relationship, but he forgets the "probability" even in math the answer can be something you don't expect.
Even if their relationship start with a contract is like he said it's not being good enough or anything else if two people are too similar like two parallel lines they would hardly interact, that's why Yun Shu and him can "interact". ❤
Sinian is a romantic guy with his acts, not only by words
I just know this drama last week, and I'm melted watched their romantic scenes❤
Why does she think she has any right or claim over him? They never dated so it has nothing to do with her if he wants to get married.. I loved it when hubby sat with his wifey at the table…🤣🥰🤣
Me too i loved it when he said he eats spicy food now, and he moved his seat closer to his fabulous wife.
Ikr, she even claims that she knows him better than Yun Shu 😅
I enjoyed this drama. I liked how the characters worked through misunderstandings in kind ways.
Loved how he scooted his chair closer to his wife, yay!
Most of these ladies think if they become friends with males for a long period of time they should date or have a relationship with them.Why can't they just have them as friends without expecting a more than friendship relationship...
Mostly in dramas, I have males friends that are just friends never thought to date them
I have The opposite exp with dudes😂
@@gigir4162me too. But whatever op has written is what I saw with dudes NOT ladies. Dudes expected more
Drama name: perfect and casual
This is the 2nd drama I've seen her in being the outside woman. I guess she has the perfect stare from a distance face.
"I really can't figure out why you like Yunshu".. why??? Do you think you are more likeable? You don't even know how to smile brightly 😅 and Sinian doesn't need to explain to you. 😂 Why do you act like Sinian needs to justify his every action to you?
Although she liked him he never liked her and to be honest, I think he was aware of her feelings towards him due to other’s comments and chose to keep it strictly professional as to not give her ideas; the fact that she believes he would’ve got with her during the trip to China shows how cocky she is, all she would’ve done is make the trip uncomfortable cause you can’t force someone to have feelings for you let alone love and with her character she would’ve tried based off her later in episodes behaviors.
To think she believes they are perfect for each other due to being exactly alike when in truth he would’ve been absolutely miserable; for her to come up to him and ask about his wife in such a way already crossed the line but he gave her that and with that you would think it would be enough to stop her from making advances on a already married man but that wasn’t the case, she chose not to only try to disrespect his wife, make it obvious that she has feelings for him as well as to say she isn’t worthy of him while trying to make moves on him.
His wife in that situation had a right to spy on their meet and feel the emotions she was feeling since at that point in their relationship they weren’t secure in their feelings toward each other.
I can’t feel sorry for someone who purposely made moves on a married man.
I like how he put his hands in his pockets so there’s no chance she can touch him.
She acts like very nicely like a vamp...she is vamp in ' cute programmer ' too
Yess! I thot no one recognized this lol
That woman, every time I see her she always s trying to get between a guy and his gf or wife. She sure asks a lot of questions that are none of her business. She just can’t take no for an answer.
That’s true. Thats all I ever seen her do 😖
The drama writer's and society really needs to stop romanticising the creepy behavior of women in the name of unrequited love.
The man clearly told her NO but the delusional girl keeps pestering him and trying to meddle in his relationship. If the gender were reversed then that guy would be deemed as stalker and would have been on the way to prison.
Ya vi este drama y es hermoso lo recomiendo..Espero lo pasen completo para que muchas personas lo disfruten..la pareja divina ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The friends cranked me up 😂😂
One question why these friends from the past think they’re girlfriends when there’s no confirmation for the guys they claim to love.? Ridiculous 🤨
Cause they always together?
@@blackneko9401 that’s never a reason to expect marriage at all. I don’t care how warm fizzy one may feel unless it’s a promise made… even then things change. We can never assume anything in life it’ll get you in trouble. This girl was presumptuous anyway.
Esta chica siempre hace de tercer rueda. El mismo papel en cute programmer!!
When I first saw this video without watching the drama, I had taken chuchu's side and hoped whoever the wife is, will be out of his life soon,...now that I've watched...I think sinian and Yun shu are perfect couple but I honestly feel bad for chuchu...if she would have accompanied sinian to China,they would have been together..but work was more important to her(and there's nothing wrong with that but she should keep her priority straight)...so yeah there is chuchu's fault...
But like both Yeye and Zhang laoshi said, "2 parallel lines are hard to intersect"
Because all she know was Sinian's goal was to win fields medal before 35 and any emotion shall not be considered by him. He never liked her anyway. Even tho she told him that she likes him, I don't think he will consider. His grandpa was his only family left and that is more important to him including mathematics.
They wud nt have married for sure..the guy never had any feelings for this girl..
I meam he never treated her as a love interest
I don't think it's anybody fault. its all about fate or u can say destiny and ..if they were in love he would have wait for her..or they will fall in love even after his contract marriage... He is in love with yunshu because she is completely different from him as you know..opposite attract and because of love he had for her...he changed completely...whereas he always treated chuchu as a friend he doesn't have any feelings for her..even if she had confessed to him..I don't think they can be together... Chuchu decision about going to china is perfect.. even if she is with him they can't be together... He was willing to wait for yunshu when she is going for job in abroad.. love is not about distance.. or falling apart.. it's all about destiny and true love which is present in one's heart.
I’ve seen this poor girl in 3 other dramas where she lusts after the MLs but they’re all NOT interested!😂😂
I didn’t watch this drama yet so idk what’s happening but the short haired girl saying “ConTrAcTuaL ReLaTiOnShiP” ? Tf? Even if they have a contractual relationship it’s between them and it’s still a relationship/marriage even without love, there’s respect. A marriage isn’t just love so idk what does she mean with “But they have a contractual relationship...” I REPEAT, IT NONE OF HER BUSINESS. 🙃
FR, like even if its a contractual relationship, you should still respect the fact that they’re still legally married, and you throwing urself at someone like that just makes u look like the stupid one. the “contractual relationship” ended up turning into true love anyways soo ✌🏻
I want to know how she knew they had a contract. I’m sure he didn’t tell her, so who else would have. The lawyer looked shocked when she said it, so it definitely wasn’t him. There were only five people who knew about it, him, her, the lawyer, his best friend and her sister. None of them would have mentioned it to that woman.
This is a lovely , feel good drama , love it 😊
This is one of my fav chinese drama.. everything is clean n clear❤😎
Not even a good bye hug but only handshake would h accept that we called a guy knows how t protect hs own marriage and his wife peace of mind ..he knew how t st boundaries already ❤
Good for him.
I hate that this chick thinks she can tell if he loves her and feels as though she needs an explanation on him falling in love with someone that isn't her. She needs to get over herself. She had a crush on him in college, and he never liked her back, so who is she to feel his relationship needs justification? Mind your business.
Why are some people so meddlesome? There is no reason for that personal business to be brought up in the context... The single girl is made to look needy by a person who has no involvement in the relationship.... SMH
Shes got nothing to do than to cause trouble and break up marriages ... what is with these people behaving like this? 🙄🤔
Siya yung tipong husband na kaya mong pagkatiwalaan kasi alam mo sa sarili mo na hindi ka niya kayang lokohin. Sana lahat katulad ni sinian. 😐😐
Kilig ka ano 😂😂😂 same here 😂😂😂😂
Watch it for the 4th times hahahah kakilig parin 😅😍😍😂😂
sana may PART 2 🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰 MAMATAY AKO SA KILIG KAY YUNSHU AT MR ZHANG🥰🥰🥰🤣🤣🤣
This was such a cute movie I loved it adorable
Philippines! There's a lot of good Chinese dramas.
Drop a name.
I thought she was a ex-gilrfriend but she is just a school when they were college..
She has a one-sided love to the guy but too bad the boy is married already although it's just a contract they learn to love each othher and they love each other very much...
Me están diciendo que vea otra vez este maravilloso drama?? Ok😂😂😂
Waw!!! I felt that hand shake 😐 it hurt my soul😔
I love this drama😝😝it is time to rewatch this one😝😝😝😝😝i cant resist after see this
I've watched this 2 times😦
@@erlinatyas6831 i watched this 10 times its one of my favorite drama
Drama name
@@WisdomChukwu-lr1yf perfect and casual ..go for it .
What episode?
Brilliant drama . Highly commended . Binge watch
She’s also in Cute Programmer and she’s very into stealing the male lead. She still loses
Omg 1 mint i think this is unfrogtteble love 😂
Nope this is not unforgettable love. This is perfect and casual
@@KAO235 i know dear☺️...
Same😹
@Lifna lifz; I know what you mean, I love UNFORGETTABLE LOVE AS WELL; I don’t think there’s anyone drama with MILES WEI that i did not like, such an excellent actor 💕🥰🙋🏾♀️🇨🇩
@@beatricekadima6766 now i waching unforgtteble love... but youthub recmend this clip😅... then i thought😂...
How I wish I could save this video so that when I have a boyfriend I would show him this video so that he can learn from this about how to keep boundaries 🤣🤣
Oh my god this woman is just a sad embarrassment to the end! She wasn’t even a true friend, she was his classmate that followed him around always and since he didn’t set boundaries then she got ideas. He never had any interest in her ever. She is trying to force herself on him. And he has no interest - girl look at his face when he sees you and that tells you everything. Frozen face. Sees wife a light comes on. I wanted to B slap her every time she came on screen.
What episode??
What a man right in there im married no messing about love a man who puts these women right no beating around bush
your right, he doesn't have a girlfriend he has a wife.
proved that distance and time matters
i feel sad for her, friend zone was terrible things to happen in this life if you have special feelings for your friend. take a step could make you lose your friend and take a step back could make your heart sad or even hurt
There's nothing called 'friendzone'. Just because you like someone, doesn't mean they're obligated to like you back.
i guess this is the sign that i must rewatch this drama again 😂😂😂
He only looks good with her
Just love them
Bagay na bagay omg i like you2 different from chuchu
hes wearing a wedding ring, did no one notice
I loved watching this drama and repeating this scene 😍 ❤️ the many times that it would be played. 😊❤❤❤❤❤
Mr. Zhang king of boundaries!
love the way he claims his territory
Good man hugs only his wife.
Can’t they see the wedding band on his finger!
Name of the drama
Perfect and causual
Why is she always the homewrecker 😂😂😂😂😂
Nice story
Did none of them notice he's wearing a wedding ring?
This drama its amazing ❤❤
What I didn't like...
I think the whole statement to those two girls should have been, "I am already married. And I do not appreciate people attempting to tell me what I should do with or otherwise pry into my personal life. Keep your campus romance manga fantasies to yourself, mind your own business, and focus on your work." Also, I cannot stand the actress who plays Ms Lin. No matter what kind of character she is playing, the scene, or the type of drama - she always looks like she is just on the verge or sobbing her eyes out.
What I did like...
Loved that he was mature and drew a clear and unmistakable line between them. Also, damn boy! step up and lay one on her like you mean it!
The more i watch it the more that irritated me that Chuchu is like " ok you say you love her but i will prove to you that you don't and that i'm a better choice because we are the same" Girl if he have feeling for you he will never let you go out of his life for so long ( what she ever thinking that once he will have win Fields Medal he will come on a white horse to ask her to marry him" And she is supposed to be cleaver ?
oh wow you normally dont see a kiss like that in cdrama 😆
That is a totally embarrassing situation to be put in. I have seen this happen in real life. People should not do this especially if they do not know the situation of each person. This is so embarrassing.
She's always after someone's else's man
He's wearing a wedding band that is clearly visible way before he says "I am already married". Drama logic. 🙄
Seeing this snippet of the movie, I can already tell that it's a...uh no! Loving someone and yet, he or she is already married is a heartbreaker. Its hurtful in every possible way but, its a truth that must be accepted.
Even more, it needs to be a certain understanding between the parties involved. If you know how that person feel about you, dont be general about it. Tell her or him that you only see them as a friend. Some people may have trouble of moving past it but, eventually it will reach them, just as she told him in the movie, Okay, I get it! But, I do give him kudos for standing his ground and kept on repeating to her that he sees her only as a friend. And now, she can move on and meet the one that is waiting to meet her, sort of speak.
Title please❤
They make season 2 ?
I first saw Joy Sheng in cute programmer. It doesn't surprise me that she's in this kind of role. She does it well....she made me hate her more 😅
Is this drama worth watching?
Yes
@@dhevadharshini3885 thank you!!
Yes
Name of the drama