Can you be single and happy? The answer is yes. If you have a job or other options like books, video games or something else ( or even your dreams) you can be happy without a partner.
me too..sometimes I cant believe this year I am 30..and single..still feel like young inside..but need to find someone now..time fly so fast..know know already 35
Nothing wrong doing shit alone ah, chances are people don't even notice you at all. You do you; happy can alr. It is also perfectly fine to date yourself and treat yourself well from time to time; don't even need to go through the entire bullshit of acting diplomatic and deciding what your date like to do or to eat what fuck, you want just go only. Besides, walking into "fancier" places alone feels a lot more baller leh :>
I hate the idea that my happiness needs to be define by another person. I am single and am really happy. People who think that relationship or marriage is a must in life , there is nothing wrong but don’t judge people who is really happy with being single. Not everyone feels the same way or need to live a stereotypical life.
I think that if someone is single for too long and is used to everything going only their way, it will be difficult for them to compromise if they ever date. This may not be true to all but I think the older a person is, the more likely true this is.
I'm 31 and still haven't get a relationship not more than 1-2 month relationship as well. I feel like I wasn't ready yet but in the same time I carving for comfort sometimes. So when I go dating app and it kill the carving straight away.
Embrace whatever comes along the way. Eventually if you are single then fine, or if you get into a relationship then make the best out of it. Its not like if you dont have a relationship you will have a worse quality of life and vice versa. A relationship is more of a "want" than a "need".
companionship is crucial for healthy individually n society...being single and having meaningful relationship with beautiful people around still a good foundation..whats matter is soul ties u have in ur lifetime,not just with spouse.
They might as well ask me... I've always been single and happy as a clam. Helps if there are other things in life you find really meaningful and enjoy tremendously. I love eating alone - a great way to try any restaurant you want at a price point you're comfortable with, at any time!
Single and don't really understand the process of being into someone. Consider myself to be an old soul, empath. Possible Reason : difficult past which I managed to overcome. Dream : Every girl is pretty I want something more. Now : Don't really think about it. Acceptance of singlehood, possible future of meeting soulmate and standby to apply BTO 2 room single scheme :D
What if , you are attached but unhappy? Isn’t that worst ? So it’s better to be single. at least you have options. But for ladies, time is ticking. Meeting a bad , unsuitable guy is a waste of your time.
I agree that maybe it is trauma and you dont want to evaluate your past in order to move on.... Am too just waiting and focusing on myself. Not rushing to find someone, not feeling like something is missing. Bring myself out for a good dinner and ok to watch movie alone. :) Have been doing it before I got attached hehe.
Nope, you are not alone. At 32, I do enjoy being single yet hanging out w friends/family without that extra commitment :) And I have had about 5 exes throughout my life.
I love being out alone (most people are just OK to be alone if no choice). I’m married btw. I love to watch movies alone, eat hotpot alone, walk around alone. I think the only activity I don’t do like to do alone is go KTV alone. I got excited at the thought of travelling alone also but don’t dare haha so I prefer to go with my husband
I do agree with Farah. The insecurities about yourself and dumping that baggage onto your partner. also what the Mandonlorian said in a Zula vid I could not have said it better myself. I also dunno how to say but I get it. and where the heck did that dress come from ?
To be honest, you can find a partner anywhere. At a gym, cooking class, shopping mall, dating apps etc. It's not the location but rather taking the first step to knowing someone and letting it progress.
This life you have, Please live it for yourself, not for others, not for society, not for your parents wanting a grandchild. Marriage is a calling and its not for everyone. Make solid plans for your golden years, have good insurance and don't be a burden to society next time. Don't ever get married cause all your friends are doing so, And dont have children because you're afraid there'll be nobody to send you off on your last journey. The world is pretty wicked anyways.
im 28, ive dated over 130 females since my early 20s. for guys, i think as you date more, your expectations will go higher cause you have been seeing ugly sides of human nature. For girls, it's advisable to settle down before age 30. Once you over 30s and being an 'independent' woman, i tell your, jialat liao....no successful guys desire a controlling, feminist woman who tries to boss him around.
130.. that’s quite a big number haha. True, woman 35 and above, if still single, will be left on the shelves forever.. only options left are divorced man or undesired man.
Uh... I can tell you, even if become in 30s and single.. we still can be submissive and act like 小女人 to the ones we love. We even can bring in extra money to suit to your convenience. Heck, you don’t even in to commit and pay so much in having a family. Even buy hdb flat, women also pay half, divorce also split half. depends how guys treat us well. Not all are feminist ok 👏🏻
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Can you be single and happy?
The answer is yes. If you have a job or other options like books, video games or something else ( or even your dreams) you can be happy without a partner.
Single without marriage. Yes.
Single without socialising. Absolutely not.
i m one of the legend... y not?
im 30 & still single..its okay as long as u pursue ur life with positive thinking
me too..sometimes I cant believe this year I am 30..and single..still feel like young inside..but need to find someone now..time fly so fast..know know already 35
Nothing wrong doing shit alone ah, chances are people don't even notice you at all. You do you; happy can alr. It is also perfectly fine to date yourself and treat yourself well from time to time; don't even need to go through the entire bullshit of acting diplomatic and deciding what your date like to do or to eat what fuck, you want just go only. Besides, walking into "fancier" places alone feels a lot more baller leh :>
Hope one day someone will agree with Farah
Which one's Farah? And what are we agreeing on? 😂
maybe one day.........
I hate the idea that my happiness needs to be define by another person. I am single and am really happy. People who think that relationship or marriage is a must in life , there is nothing wrong but don’t judge people who is really happy with being single. Not everyone feels the same way or need to live a stereotypical life.
Agree. Anyone can be happy, regardless of their circumstances. If they title this video can I be poor and happy, will receive so much backlash.
I think that if someone is single for too long and is used to everything going only their way, it will be difficult for them to compromise if they ever date. This may not be true to all but I think the older a person is, the more likely true this is.
100%
Eric trying to fix his spot with John is a mood
I'm 31 and still haven't get a relationship not more than 1-2 month relationship as well. I feel like I wasn't ready yet but in the same time I carving for comfort sometimes. So when I go dating app and it kill the carving straight away.
Craving or carving
We need more insights from Farah!! Her analysis really strikes a cord with me ❤️
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I'm 32 and single , Pursue your career and indeed Godwilling you fall in love naturally
i been single for 9 year already. Single is the best thing to happen.. you can do what ever you wish..
Embrace whatever comes along the way. Eventually if you are single then fine, or if you get into a relationship then make the best out of it. Its not like if you dont have a relationship you will have a worse quality of life and vice versa. A relationship is more of a "want" than a "need".
Who agrees this is too short ? 😭😭😭
yes because no one cares about us and our lonely ass
companionship is crucial for healthy individually n society...being single and having meaningful relationship with beautiful people around still a good foundation..whats matter is soul ties u have in ur lifetime,not just with spouse.
Damn, this is too short a video for such a relatable topic in society
They might as well ask me... I've always been single and happy as a clam. Helps if there are other things in life you find really meaningful and enjoy tremendously. I love eating alone - a great way to try any restaurant you want at a price point you're comfortable with, at any time!
Vice versa! No expectations
yes, i am singale and very happy being with myself. i dont think anyone can love me more than i love myself
Single and don't really understand the process of being into someone. Consider myself to be an old soul, empath.
Possible Reason : difficult past which I managed to overcome.
Dream : Every girl is pretty I want something more.
Now : Don't really think about it. Acceptance of singlehood, possible future of meeting soulmate and standby to apply BTO 2 room single scheme :D
This was a really great discussion! Good valid points from everyone. Thanks for posting even on CNY Day!
What if , you are attached but unhappy? Isn’t that worst ? So it’s better to be single. at least you have options. But for ladies, time is ticking. Meeting a bad , unsuitable guy is a waste of your time.
I’m in my forties but definitely not sad watching movies alone in one corner. Haha
Single for 28 years hahaha 😅
I agree that maybe it is trauma and you dont want to evaluate your past in order to move on.... Am too just waiting and focusing on myself. Not rushing to find someone, not feeling like something is missing.
Bring myself out for a good dinner and ok to watch movie alone. :) Have been doing it before I got attached hehe.
Am i the only one who thinks that once you reach a certain age (e.g 28-35) you wanna remain single for life ?
Nope, you are not alone. At 32, I do enjoy being single yet hanging out w friends/family without that extra commitment :) And I have had about 5 exes throughout my life.
I wanted to be single since I was in primary 1. Bc I’m asexual and my parents showed me how toxic marriage can be.
I think we should have live juicy chats so audience can throw in their two cents and some questions too
I love being out alone (most people are just OK to be alone if no choice). I’m married btw. I love to watch movies alone, eat hotpot alone, walk around alone. I think the only activity I don’t do like to do alone is go KTV alone. I got excited at the thought of travelling alone also but don’t dare haha so I prefer to go with my husband
I do enjoy going out with my husband. Just that I’ll go out EXTRA just to also enjoy it myself hahaha
Been single all my life, 25 this year. It's not that I'm single by choice but it's like i have the worst luck with girls i guess :(
Poor farah is cut off! she looks so sad in the beginning! hahaha
Ifkr?? I wanted to know more about that fabulous outfit
oh noo!! we shot our intro after everything was over! hahaha so no i wasn't sad that i got cut off😂
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Nice and meaningful chats .....
jon at the ending was like in his own world tho..
hope you are fine jon 🙂
Hopefully realtalk have their own podcast on spotify! Please make that happen
I do agree with Farah. The insecurities about yourself and dumping that baggage onto your partner.
also what the Mandonlorian said in a Zula vid I could not have said it better myself.
I also dunno how to say but I get it.
and where the heck did that dress come from ?
THANK YOU!! At least you got what I was trying to say! hahaha
also the fit is from bdiggityislandlife.com/collections/farah-farz-x-bum-diggity hehe
Wtf that was so short
I'm too used to 1hr podcasts tt 8mins feel like nothing...
eric carrying the show big time 😂
I get it Farah 💯
Thank you Samantha!!! HAHA
Farah looks so hot in that dress!
thank you!!
Farah, Farah, you're so funny... In her own world hahahahahahaha
yeaaaaaaaahh :/
When is the part 2 of this topic?
Only when I grew older in my late 20s then I'm okay to eat alone. If not I die also can't sit anywhere alone.
Eric low key wants the dude beside him ... nah scratch that. Eric HIGH key wants him.
But Farah, how does one do the ground inner work? :)
Yas Eric is back!
best way to end the week
Girl in blue reminds me of naya rivera (rip)- beautiful souls
rip :(
I think I like Jon, like if I exercise and all, earn money and make myself better. Whether I do a good job is another kettle of fish.
abit random but what is the brand of the grey teddy bear t shirt
It could be Ralph Lauren
It's Paradise Youth Club. =)
You guys shld do a podcast
What ? No Comments ? They look so funny though . Hahahas .
I hate being single and want a relationship so bad because it is affecting every aspect of my life . Can someone advice where to find a partner ?
To be honest, you can find a partner anywhere. At a gym, cooking class, shopping mall, dating apps etc. It's not the location but rather taking the first step to knowing someone and letting it progress.
CMB. More legit than tinder, and I know a lot of ppl who found long term relationships from there.
Farah in wonderland
spiralled down the rabbit hole
Looks like you people are school kids. I am still single in 45...And there are so many free birds like me . Very busy enjoying the freedom life.😁😁😁
50 and never had a relationship.uhukuhuk......
Eric n John kinda twin
This life you have, Please live it for yourself, not for others, not for society, not for your parents wanting a grandchild. Marriage is a calling and its not for everyone. Make solid plans for your golden years, have good insurance and don't be a burden to society next time. Don't ever get married cause all your friends are doing so, And dont have children because you're afraid there'll be nobody to send you off on your last journey. The world is pretty wicked anyways.
24 years and never dated before... help me...
Sameee
need longer videos!
is farah single?
4:33 why Farah look so pissed like John interrupting her.
Prob her resting
Nooo I wasn't😂
Chim Leh....
it's a question of privilege
Invite Salome Blaque next time please!
no wonder when I wanna laosai the toilet always full 🥲
First!
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Boring
im 28, ive dated over 130 females since my early 20s.
for guys, i think as you date more, your expectations will go higher cause you have been seeing ugly sides of human nature. For girls, it's advisable to settle down before age 30. Once you over 30s and being an 'independent' woman, i tell your, jialat liao....no successful guys desire a controlling, feminist woman who tries to boss him around.
And vice versa, no successful girls desire a fuckboy who waves his dating report around like a trophy
130.. that’s quite a big number haha. True, woman 35 and above, if still single, will be left on the shelves forever.. only options left are divorced man or undesired man.
Uh... I can tell you, even if become in 30s and single.. we still can be submissive and act like 小女人 to the ones we love. We even can bring in extra money to suit to your convenience. Heck, you don’t even in to commit and pay so much in having a family. Even buy hdb flat, women also pay half, divorce also split half. depends how guys treat us well. Not all are feminist ok 👏🏻