How to LOVE & EMBRACE your short natural hair & Be Confident After getting a Big Chop

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @graceHumphreyy
    @graceHumphreyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    There's no "one" way to be beautiful and so all you need do is fall in love with the way that you look, carry yourself gracefully and the world will be your runway. I see what you're doing and I love ittt ❣

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this is it!

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much

    • @avasd59
      @avasd59 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love this!

  • @Nazfash8
    @Nazfash8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This your short hair looks so beautiful on you like eiii

  • @amirarenay4502
    @amirarenay4502 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got a haircut a month before I got baptized and graduated because I had my deep spiritual awakening. And I got my hair cut I've had long hair but now it's cut I haven't been a fan of my real hair ever since I was in the 4th grade. This is the new me with short hair I'm still trying to find ways to love my hair the way it is some times I feel ugly but sometimes I don't. I just hate today's hair beauty standard people make it seem like you have to have all hair to be beautiful but I want to challenge myself so I'm staying strong.

  • @Realtor_evelyn
    @Realtor_evelyn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    About 4 years ago, I had a big chop because relaxer damaged my hair. I was left with no choice but to cut my hair and I became so insecure. I wish a video like this was available then.. it definitely would have helped. Watching this video now, has changed my perspective about short hairs in a positive way😊. I really do prefer your hair like this even. It seems like the big chop came with a whole new glow that has got me tripping🙈. I just might cut my hair again👀

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww I’m glad this video helps
      Thank you so much ❤️

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope your hair is flourishing now

  • @mzres85
    @mzres85 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just cut my hair last Saturday. It was a life changing..scary..decision, but one of the best decision I’ve ever did in my life! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Bl4ckJade
    @Bl4ckJade 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Needed this so so much, cause I just cut my shoulder length hair😭, I just followed recently and I'm in love with your channel!! Thank you for what you dooo🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww 🥺❤️
      🫂

    • @Olivs_
      @Olivs_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🥺🥺🥺

  • @tintamanengu
    @tintamanengu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You've turned this into actual lemonade. So beautiful to watch.

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thank you 🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️

  • @nordicpink
    @nordicpink ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gawd, you are so pretty! Wow, dimples, eyes, skin!

  • @diamondpug
    @diamondpug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your haircut looks so absolutely amazing on you you’re really stunning and for sure you do like a supermodel❤️

  • @tictokworld1620
    @tictokworld1620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember when I cut my hair for the first time it came with a glow my other three sister followed and do the same I wore my shaved head for about a year and half and started to grow it out now my hair is about little pass shoulder length and I do miss the buzz cut days love your hair in all lengths

  • @abena7810
    @abena7810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man, I’m advocating for this short hair! Keep it foreverrrrr! You look beautifullllll 😍😍

  • @akeemt.ketlogetswe5567
    @akeemt.ketlogetswe5567 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you for the advice I am going to big chop my hair with confidence anf feel the best that I can

  • @timiade6647
    @timiade6647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You freaking do not need anybody's validation!!!!!! 😍😍

  • @alanataylor6180
    @alanataylor6180 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look genuinely beautiful. Thank you for this video💜

  • @Okpohjnr
    @Okpohjnr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love how positive you've been on this new journey. Well done ❤️❤️

  • @ginette.kofigah
    @ginette.kofigah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look amazing though oh wow 🤩

  • @rosalee1047
    @rosalee1047 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this ❤ I’ve always had long hair and decided to do a tapered cut. Although I love it I’m still trying to adjust and tell myself I’m just as beautiful and to not feel masculine 😢

  • @AfricanFhairlady
    @AfricanFhairlady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very well said. Adding an eye glass that suits the face shape also helps to enhance one's TWA look.

  • @commentpoliceofficer7991
    @commentpoliceofficer7991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm gonna be getting a trim (possibly baby haircut) because I have damaged ends so it won't be like a full on high chop but I still clicked on this video anyways because shrinkage is a thing and sometimes I need a confidence on just wearing my natural hair out in general and feeling like I'm being stared at by everyone 🥴

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww I hope the video helps 🥰🫂❤️

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They can stare all they want.. just do you

  • @tniia_6771
    @tniia_6771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She literally looks like a model fr

  • @Olivs_
    @Olivs_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The hair cut really looks good on you sis ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🥰🥰

  • @chinah6724
    @chinah6724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you're beautiful, I love your smile, voice, and vibe, and you're speaking about something that is very important to me. I'm definitely subscribing!

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you ☺️

  • @mauikaimalone
    @mauikaimalone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    okay wait tho you are gorgeous!😍i feel like your cut really brings out your face. my hair used to be soooo long and i was forced to cut it due to salon damage, and now my hair is about the same length as yours. i gotta learn to love how i look too.

  • @Daakie9362
    @Daakie9362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On a more serious note , my lady you look so so so beautiful with this beautiful hair💕💕💕❤️❤️💃💃✌🏼✌🏼

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 🥺

  • @iab4501
    @iab4501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed all your words today as I am cutting all my hair down to a TWA today and I had lost my confidence. Thank you for the reminders!

  • @Nazfash8
    @Nazfash8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And a big congrats on 11k subies dearie

  • @moesha2647
    @moesha2647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    omg.. YOU ARE THE DEFINITION OF GORGEOUS!

  • @kaybrixx2072
    @kaybrixx2072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Here after the Dominicans snuck perm in my hair and it’s thin lifeless and damaged now I’m forced to cut it .

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my goodness 💔
      I’m so sorry that happened to you. No natural deserves that behavior from stylists. I have seen so many comments about stylists secret adding relaxers and it hurts so much.
      So sorry you have to cut your hair.

    • @Sunny-cp1ir
      @Sunny-cp1ir 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg that is actually abuse! 🤦

  • @obeauty
    @obeauty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look beautiful! 🤍

  • @hatinisbad1
    @hatinisbad1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes! This video is for me lol.

  • @jenniferperalte3952
    @jenniferperalte3952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THE BEAUTYYYY!! 😍😍😍

  • @ki.nichelle
    @ki.nichelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re stunning

  • @gabrieladu352
    @gabrieladu352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are stunning.

  • @ikejiakuchisom8596
    @ikejiakuchisom8596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We are here for this 🌹🥰

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 🥺

  • @hopeemah
    @hopeemah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yup! Needed this. Thank you so much for all you do Debbie❤️

  • @Lulubeauty21
    @Lulubeauty21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Looking beautiful forever babe 😍😍👌🏽

  • @camilia198773
    @camilia198773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Step 1. Have a gorgeous smile.
    Step 2. Have really cute dimples.
    Step 3. Have even , glowing skin.
    Step 4. Be a beautiful woman.
    😋💜

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww 🙈🙈🙈🥰

    • @deborahboms
      @deborahboms  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much

    • @camilia198773
      @camilia198773 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the tips too.

  • @actuallyjuliee
    @actuallyjuliee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are glowing, gurlll ☺️❤️

  • @aCldAng34
    @aCldAng34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 😊

  • @booneybaby3862
    @booneybaby3862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yessss it’s cute I’m new to your page

  • @julia9.3252
    @julia9.3252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so beautiful!!!

  • @_noblepeace
    @_noblepeace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @m.southern9113
    @m.southern9113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for making this

  • @BrittEsco
    @BrittEsco 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are super gorgeous 😍🥰 wow you must be a model queen sista 😍🔥

  • @ojiugo.o
    @ojiugo.o 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please how did you get your hair to be this curly at the beginning of the video

    • @Lori_g70
      @Lori_g70 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why do you want curly hair?

  • @queenlyke1108
    @queenlyke1108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @aurelieamable6243
    @aurelieamable6243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    one like just because you're beautiful :)

  • @kaydeep7880
    @kaydeep7880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Keep this hair, don’t grow it you look so much better like this you literally look like a Victoria secret model

  • @valerie.
    @valerie. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yourre insanely beautifull. i thought you were ghanaian