Confessions Of A Guilty Mum | Helen Bartram | TEDxAinleyTopWomen

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
  • Confessions of a guilty mum - in this brilliant TEDx talk Helen Bartram shares and normalises a real life issue which all mums are experiencing yet rarely talk about - GUILT.
    Family wellbeing Leader Helen reveals how to accept guilt in motherhood using the ''3 P's'' at #TEDxAinleyTopWomen event.
    This powerful talk is a must for all Mum's. ''I used to think it was just me that experienced it'' Helen admitted and is passionate about letting other Mum's know they are not alone in experiencing guilt.
    This talk was given at a TEDxWomen event with the theme ‘Bold & Brilliant’ using the TED conference format but independently organised by Cheryl Chapman.
    Credits: Editor - Rebecca Andrews Films
    Camera crew - RAP Media Agency
    About TEDx: In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a #TEDx event, #TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organised Get TED Talks recommended just for you! Learn more at www.ted.com/si.... The TED Talks channel features the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and more. Follow TED news on Twitter: / tednews Like TED on Facebook: / ted Subscribe to our channel: / ted #TEDWomen2019 #TEDxTalk Helen Bartram is a Family Wellbeing Leader Expert
    Helen is passionate about helping other Mum's know they are not alone in experiencing Mum Guilt.
    She is the Author of "Me Time" a practical guide to putting yourself first, so you have the energy to be you as well as a mum.
    Helen also runs workshops and on line courses through "The Blossom Academy"
    To learn more about what Helen offers to parents and their children visit www.blossomacademy.co.uk to find out more, Instagram @blossomacademyredcar, or Facebook @blossomacademyuk This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

ความคิดเห็น • 16

  • @Nico5890
    @Nico5890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    great talk. what a pure blessing! guilt is wearing me out right now.
    gotta remember: "just waf it with ya tea towel" 🖤

  • @leehogarth187
    @leehogarth187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely incredible loved this, helped me so much to have more empathy and understanding when it comes to my wife
    Thank you Helen 🙏

  • @carolefossey2802
    @carolefossey2802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great talk and so true about many Mums. It is a time to be enjoyed (and sometimes endured!) without trying to achieve ‘supermum’. Very inspiring.

  • @bizbily
    @bizbily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Helen, great talk! Im not a mum but I agree with you re over-controlling mums who are overstressed and far from enjoying what they do. I work with such women. Bless them! Trying to explain them the same. Will share your talk with them from now on :)

  • @nurturingparents1456
    @nurturingparents1456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the visual of the smoke alarm. I totally get that feeling that I have an alarming moment, telling me to stop doing something I know I either have to do, or want to do. In future I'm going to wave my imaginary dishcloth over it and do what I know is best even when I feel guilty somehow. It feels sometimes as a parent that no matter what you choose, guilt is waiting in the shadows... thanks for this message Helen! it's helped me SOOO much!!!

    • @blossomacademy8133
      @blossomacademy8133 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for taking the time to watch it and give such lovely feedback

  • @jor1734
    @jor1734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Absolutely amazing talk, I hung on to every single word from this very wise lady!! I think a lot of mums can relate to this.

    • @blossomacademy8133
      @blossomacademy8133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much for taking the time to watch it and leave a comment

  • @lisaking2025
    @lisaking2025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing such an important message, I will be sharing your talk for sure, thanks again :)

  • @lisaviccars8458
    @lisaviccars8458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing message and very well delivered. Thank you for sharing xx

  • @ambersumpton1094
    @ambersumpton1094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a first time mam, I completely relate to this! Such a good ted talk! X

  • @ruthdriscoll6759
    @ruthdriscoll6759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much that any parent can identify with. Love how you express your vulnerability x

  • @sarahsmith1334
    @sarahsmith1334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every mum should get to see this and hear such an important message. X

  • @dominiknewfolder2196
    @dominiknewfolder2196 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guilt is favorite tool of control for majority of mothers.
    I've been around dozens of women and all of them were forcing child into compliance by rejection or guilt-triping.
    What's funny is that child tend to blame daddy for those feeling because it's safer to express feelings this way. Seriously
    So say thanks to mommy 😄

    • @cambriatevis6907
      @cambriatevis6907 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This Ted talk is not talking about mothers using guilt to control. This Ted talk is about mothers who feel guilty not being the perfect mother 24/7.