I agree, excess heat will cause your curls to loosen. but sometimes (not every time) curl patterns can change even if you’ve never used heat on your hair. it can be caused by stress, the environment/climate you live in, or puberty (obviously not the problem for these girls). but yeah I agree with you.
Every 3 weeks is way to much for heat. Especially if you are seeing a change in her curl pattern .. you are going to thin out and damage her already damaged hair .
Bro curls don’t go loose unless they damaged. Hair texture can be different around different parts of your head but I really think you should lay of the heat for a while. Let her love her natural hair
@@kaylag3099 heat damage is literally the follicle thinning out and breaking off. It causes ur hair to be more dry and split more easily….Do u hear urself?
@@onedollarbleach6891 I don’t get how heat can cause a follicle, which is under your scalp to thin. When it isn’t a chemical. But okay. The only “thinning” happening is a looser curl pattern on the actual hair. Not the follicle of it.
Who’s going to tell her the fact that she is flat ironing herchild’s hair every 3 weeks, which is causing her curls to be loosen. When I was growing up, there was no one to teach me how to take care of my natural hair, so there is no excuse for these new moms.
@@kaylag3099 Well not the follicle my bad, but the strand itself will get damaged. Everything is a chemical so heat could technically be considered as such. Either ways It damages the hair bc heat is drying so if ur doing it as often as the mom is to the little girl ur literally drying out ur hair and breaking the hydrogen bonds within the strand. The strand thinning is a direct cause of susceptibility to breakage and split ends because the shaft is now weaker
If her curl pattern has changed ever since getting her hair flat ironed every few weeks... It's probably heat damage. Although the hairstyle is beautiful, you might want to try to incorporate heatless styles sometimes to preserve the integrity of their hair. It might not be bone straight but still beautiful! ☺️
I agree! My hair is a different curl pattern and I think it’s really hard to manage. Many times I consider a relaxer or cutting it, but when I finish and my curls are poppin and locking I can’t help but fall in love haha! My mom did her best and would take me starting in like 6-7th grade to get my hair flat ironed. I loved my hair but it took me at a couple years to get my curls back in a stable place! I would definitely be careful with the heat but they have beautiful hair! I would love to see their curls in action.
Yea I think it's just hard because she's more concerned with keeping it straight because it's easier to manage since the baby is tender headed. Hopefully she grows out of that since the integrity of her curls may depend on it
@@emayan06 because you don't have heat damage. You may not have the same hair type as the girl in the video, may be using 2 different flat irons, and 2 totally different heat settings. Some hair can withstand heat others can't. She's also a little girl and you seem a lot older, just from your pic-the hair type can change during the different developmental stages in life. There are too many differences here for you to claim that her hair is not heat damaged just because yours isn't
Just be careful with the heat sis the girls have beautiful hair it will definitely start to change the texture they should only get it blown out and flat ironed for special occasions I’m only saying this out of love 💕 But it did come out very beautiful 💕💕💕
I totally agree. Using heat on natural hair is tricky. There are very few people who are really trained to use heat and maintain the integrity of the curl pattern.
Is it because of the heat from the blow dryer or from the flat iron 👀 curious because I have a daughter and I get her OWN hair braided maybe once a month and her braiding lady does wash & conditioner it but she just hand blow dry it before she braid it.
@@leaniagarrett8296 that’s true. Excessive heat with damage the hair regardless. I didn’t think to mention that since she said she gets her hair blow dried once a month for the braids.
I know opinions differ but Please PLEASE encourage your daughter to LOVE her own Natural Hair because it is beautiful 🥺❗️💯Break the generational curses of relaxers, texturises, hair loss & HEAT damage 🙏🏾💕
I agree that little girls should be taught to appreciate their own hair. However, I think we as African Americans should recognize that it’s okay if we want to experiment with different hairstyles and do what works for us as an individual. Caucasians get curly perms or beach waves and it isn’t necessarily because they hate their hair as a Caucasian but because they want to try something new. But you have a positive message and I definitely agree. God Bless
@@stephenie3113 do you seriously think that little girl just LOVES to sit there and have all that heat on her head every month ?? Yes experiment with hair but ON YOUR OWN HEAD ...not on your child. Am sure if she can be honest she'll say she wants a cute hairstyle or braided style with multiple colours and beads ..... like other little girls her age.
I thought the same thing with my own hair until I realized my curl pattern didn’t change it was heat damage because once my roots grow out it went right back to being tightly curled like it was before I’m pretty sure she has heat damage that’s why her curl pattern changed
And shame on the hair school because they know her curl pattern didn’t change they know its heat damage but they’re going to keep taking your money . you should definitely find someone that specializes in natural hair It may cost a little much but it’s worth it
I'm biracial & when I was their age my mom didn't know what to do to my hair. They would flat iron & relax my hair so it was easier to manage/comb. In middle school & high school all I wanted was straight hair because in a predominantly white area, all the kids had straight hair. At one point I was tired of my mom flat ironing my hair every morning before school. In middle school I told her I'd try to comb my hair myself. I'd just put it in ponytails & gel it down. Eventually my my natural hair grew out & I loved it, but my family would tell me I can't wear my hair like that... I had loved my natural hair so much, that I wore it to school to show off to my friends how pretty my curls were & they all asked me what happened to my hair & why isn't it straight anymore. Eventually I got pressured into relaxing it...Once I left HS I let my hair grow out & clipped off the relaxed ends. I must say that was the best decision I ever made. I love my hair & growing up, I wish I had people that told me nothing was wrong with my hair, and I should appreciate & embrace my natural hair, because I didn't need straight hair to be "beautiful" or be acceptable...sorry for the rant, but yeah, let your daughters (who are gorgeous btw) know that nothing is wrong with their natural hair & flat ironing their hair every three weeks can damage their hair, which is evident from the loosening of the curl patterns
Something about the natural curls on kids I just love it . Puffs, slick backs with the curly ends , twists , braids so adorable . No need to damage their hair like this with all that heat .
Curl patterns can change in the different developmental stages like from infant to toddler to school age to teenage, some change again at puberty and again as adults. I've seen it countless times. Could also be heat damage if curls are significantly loosening. Her hair is very beautiful
Every 3 weeks will cause heat damage on her hair. Try every 6 to 8 weeks at minimum. The type of hair she has is so soft & fine even the 6 to 8 weeks might cause it to be permanently straight eventually.
I wish I could wear blow outs at 5 🙃 BUT in all honesty, they shouldn’t be wearing blowouts so young. Their texture is changing because of the heat damage, just have the stylist blow dry their hair before trimming. And cut out the flat ironing, they probably wouldn’t need constant trims if you did.
When you say her curl pattern is changing, some call it "heat training", some say "heat damage". Depends on what the client is looking for. If you want her curls to spring back, then cut the heat. If you are find with the loser/ less curl pattern, keep your scheduled appointments. Her curl pattern will become loser & lower. Depends on your preference. They are lovely girls!
She is being heat trained her hair will be perfectly fine as long as they use the proper heat protectants, products and techniques. Married to stylist/cosmetology instructor. I have been natural for over 15 years, Been curly and straight, never ever have I had heat damage. I had my hair done every 3 to 4 weeks when I was getting silk pressed. My hair is thick and it grows like crazy it's mid back right now and that's after me getting a trim.
My daughter and myself have long thick hair and we switch up between braids and flat ironing. We take very good care of our hair and use natural products. I’m 70 yrs old and my hair is still growing. Everybody’s hair doesn’t fall out from flat ironing. We never have to use a lot of heat and go once a month
Beautiful girl's with Beautiful hair I would try roller set sometimes too, their hair isn't in bad shape, seems pretty soft I think roller set would be great.
The girls seem to enjoy the pampering and they look great. Mom didn't say her daughters got a blow dry and flat iron every visit. It's also easier for mom to take her daughters to someone to do a wash and dry. I've been natural over 30 years. A weekly wash, condition, and magnetic roller set with lotttabody will straighten my hair and eventually loosen my curl pattern without using heat.
Gotta let you know Mom, these stylists are clueless to caring for " Natural hair". They will fry your girls hair, by flat ironing it so often. All they care about is money. Most stylists are used to " styling " not proper hair care, especially for Natural hair
@@purplenavajo Good stylist? Ask the women that you know with permed or Natural hair (not wig wearers) have a professional stylist ever damaged their hair from styling, perming or coloring their hair? Plenty of Women have suffered from the hands of " professional stylists", Dear
@@donitaballard5928 That sounds like a personal problem,I don't chair hop,and I know my stylist cares for my hair,as a person with a head full of hair,you can just sit in anybody's chair,and I am also a stylist
Looser texture and texture change means there might be heat damage. Be sure they are using plenty of heat protection on their hair. Also check what they are using to wash and condition her hair because those products can contain texturisers.
Your daughters hair is beautiful 😍 Just a suggestion but to prevent possible heat damage maybe get the stylist to stretch your daughters hair via a roller set? You get a similar result but your using indirect heat from the dryer rather than direct heat from the hair straightener. If you wrap the hair well at night it should last just as long as the other method. When my hair gets a bit longer that’s what I’ll be planning to do, as my hair being stretched out works out better for my hair and my overall lifestyle.
No it will not I've been doing the same for over 15 yours my hair is mid back length it would be longer but I cut it. I have also never had heat damage.
Thank you for taking her to a school. Students need the experience because a lot of time they have the passion for natural hair, but aren't exposed to it. And I'm speaking from someone who was in that position. Your daughters are beautiful and the stylist did a great job. :)
@@brittanywilliams8653 That's what I was thinking. The stylist should know the little girl has heat damage. Little girls don't need flat iron every 3 weeks. A roller set and blow out would be better. My Aunt does hair and she always tells mothers flat iron is for special occasions. Not sure why the stylist would recommend this so often.
I graduated from that hair school🥰🥰 to anyone who is freaking out over her using heat that often, those girls in there are guided by licensed professionals and I'm not talking just any kind of hairstylist helping the students, the instructors have to go through so much extra training and state board exams just to work there. Trust me they know what they are doing!
This is teaching the young girls their natural hair pattern isnt good enough and their hair has to be straightened. They're so young why not kid friendly styles like braids, cornrows, bows and beads
Back in the day, growing up, mama used to press and curl hair from the stove every Sunday, so heat every 3 heats is not damaging her hair. A perm would. Keep up the GREAT work mama! Much love and blessings and have a beautiful Christmas 🎄 🎅🕊🥰🤗🤎🖤💜
Good job mom and relaxers has been out for over a decade if not longer. Harsh chemicals are not needed a simple Silk Press will do! Absolutely gorgeous girls
Definitely the heat. I took my teen to get her hair done for an event. She wanted a ponytail and the stylist straightened her hair and it was bone straight. My daughter is a natural curl girl. My child knew she had heat damage when her curls wouldn’t come back after she washed her hair. She told the stylist and the stylist tried to tell her she didn’t have heat damage. My daughter refused to go back to her. We had to eventually cut her hair cause her roots were curly but her ends were bone straight.
Please make sure she is using a heat protector on her hair, even if you have to bring your own. If her hair pattern is getting looser it is because her hair is occurring heat damage. She should be able to retain her curl pattern without causing damage to the hair. Heat damage doesnt only cause the hair to be looser, it can cause even more damaging results in the long run.
Speaking from a woman who has curly hair and straightened my hair all the time. My curls became loose and then parts of my hair became straight because it was heat damaged. Looking at baby girls hair it is beautiful and healthy and looks very manageable. You may want to learn from the stylist how to care for it or get protective styles that last 3 weeks instead of the straightening. Signed, a curly girl who wishes she never damaged her curls. (I had to do the big chop a few years ago and start over)
Precious So Pretty!!! Yes her curl pattern is loosening up from heat & getting hair straightened with the irons. & If you are taking them to get straightening done (which is pretty) make sure to get some great product for their curly hair (when wearing hair natural). Carols daughter (called milk) will bring out the pretty curls in her hair.
U should embrace her curl pattern rather than give it heat damage to make it more manageable for you. Shes too little to be taken to a hair school salon letting people who are learning do her hair rather a professional who knows how to deal and manage her hair texture
Please make sure they don’t damage her hair to make it manageable because my hair is like 3c and my mom is Hispanic with 2c/3a curls and she got my hair straightened a lot as a child and Dominicans snuck a texturizer into my hair! My mom didn’t really do much too it because it was “unmanageable” now as an teenager im trying to get my pretty curl pattern back so I have to do big chops to remove the damage! My hair thinned out and everything but the curls are coming back slowly but surely! I want a curly fro which I’m getting their but it’s hard because my hair is still trying to thicken up
I did the big chop in 2006 and in 2010 I begin flat ironing it regularly. It was so long (past my bra strap) and healthy. After 3 months I realized I had applied too much heat to my natural hair and my curl pattern never reverted back. I had all these random straight pieces mixed with wavy curls and tight spirals. It was a disaster. I finally bit the bullet and cut off all the damaged hair over time. I finally took the time to learn how to care for my hair and now it’s near my belly button when it’s flat ironed only twice a year 😊 Good luck to your girls on their natural hair journey.
Instead of blow drying have them do a roller set. Ince that's done, no straightening is needed before curling. They can reinforce the curls with the curling iron or flat irons on a low setting. Pin the curls up and let her sit under the hood dryer for a "cold shot". The cold shot will lock in the curls to make them last longer.
If your heat training you can actually apply heat every two weeks. There's nothing wrong with it if you know what your doing . It's better than getting a relaxer.
Between washings if you can try finger curling her hair to see if you can bring some of those curls back and ask her to brush her hair out with the conditioner in it and rinse her conditioner out with cool water ! This is what saved my curls . And I’m also a cosmetology graduate❤️
This is going to be a long lasting relationship/friendship that she have with these girls. The stylist will get to see them grow up as she continue to do their hair. Hopefully she remains their stylist throughout the years.
It’s either the hot comb or a perm, mom needs something that is manageable. Some women just don’t want to deal with textured hair. Yes, with the proper routine it’s easy, but you have to realize that she has two girls and herself to care for. I can tell you, I would personally just do braids with added hair towards the ends instead of heat, however, mom found something that works for her and her household. The most important thing is that her children are well taken cared of.
When my daughter was little. I would wash her hair every week and do a pretty style in cornrolls. Her hair was well down her back. She cried for a perm in junior high. She started adding color after that. Hair now stays just below shoulder length. Too much heat and chemicals. When I was a girl, we only got our hair pressed for special occasions, easter, christmas, etc. Your daughters have a head full of beautiful hair. I would protect it at all costs. That's my two cents. ❤💚❤
I have very tight curls too and after getting a good trim my natural hair feels amazing, i love using not your mothers detangling spray for easy pain free detangling
Every 3 weeks will damage her natural curl pattern. Unless that is what you want to do, you will have to cut back the flatiron. She can do roller sets too and maybe even tap crinkled roots
Looking at it it I can Definitely see it is heat damage. It may be more manageable now but it will come a time where the curl will be so inconsistent and won't look right unless straightened.
I hope they not putting chemicals in the shampoo. Curl patterns should not go loose and all the heat isn't good. You will notice a difference in her new growth hair texture once you stop taking her.
Love the hair, but I will tell you if baby girl curls are becoming more loose it's because it's picking up heat damage trust me .
I was thinking this, but I wasn't sure...
I agree, excess heat will cause your curls to loosen. but sometimes (not every time) curl patterns can change even if you’ve never used heat on your hair. it can be caused by stress, the environment/climate you live in, or puberty (obviously not the problem for these girls). but yeah I agree with you.
Yep those of us that have been there can testify
For sure !
You read my mind. They need to learn how to do baby girls hair at it’s natural state instead of straightening it.
Every 3 weeks is way to much for heat. Especially if you are seeing a change in her curl pattern .. you are going to thin out and damage her already damaged hair .
Exactly damaging her own child hair .
Too much. Poor baby being subjected to that every month
EXACTLY! Ugh I hope she stops or at the very least spaces out the visits
Dont think the stylist would say its to often neither, shes making alot of money🤷🏿♀️👀
Was saying the same things! My daughter got so much hair and it takes hours on wash day but I haven't yet put any heat in her hair. She is 12 now.
Bro curls don’t go loose unless they damaged. Hair texture can be different around different parts of your head but I really think you should lay of the heat for a while.
Let her love her natural hair
Her curl pattern shouldn’t be getting loser. That’s an early sign of heat damage. She’s gorgeous nevertheless
@@kaylag3099 it is a bad thing, at least for me, completely lost my curls through that and just had paper straight hair
@@kaylag3099 heat damage is literally the follicle thinning out and breaking off. It causes ur hair to be more dry and split more easily….Do u hear urself?
@@onedollarbleach6891 I don’t get how heat can cause a follicle, which is under your scalp to thin. When it isn’t a chemical. But okay. The only “thinning” happening is a looser curl pattern on the actual hair. Not the follicle of it.
Who’s going to tell her the fact that she is flat ironing herchild’s hair every 3 weeks, which is causing her curls to be loosen. When I was growing up, there was no one to teach me how to take care of my natural hair, so there is no excuse for these new moms.
@@kaylag3099 Well not the follicle my bad, but the strand itself will get damaged. Everything is a chemical so heat could technically be considered as such. Either ways It damages the hair bc heat is drying so if ur doing it as often as the mom is to the little girl ur literally drying out ur hair and breaking the hydrogen bonds within the strand. The strand thinning is a direct cause of susceptibility to breakage and split ends because the shaft is now weaker
If her curl pattern has changed ever since getting her hair flat ironed every few weeks... It's probably heat damage. Although the hairstyle is beautiful, you might want to try to incorporate heatless styles sometimes to preserve the integrity of their hair. It might not be bone straight but still beautiful! ☺️
I agree! My hair is a different curl pattern and I think it’s really hard to manage. Many times I consider a relaxer or cutting it, but when I finish and my curls are poppin and locking I can’t help but fall in love haha! My mom did her best and would take me starting in like 6-7th grade to get my hair flat ironed. I loved my hair but it took me at a couple years to get my curls back in a stable place! I would definitely be careful with the heat but they have beautiful hair! I would love to see their curls in action.
Yea I think it's just hard because she's more concerned with keeping it straight because it's easier to manage since the baby is tender headed. Hopefully she grows out of that since the integrity of her curls may depend on it
Curl pattern change? Yep it’s been adulterated 🤨🤨
No true I flat iron my hair every two weeks and my curls are still so tight
@@emayan06 because you don't have heat damage. You may not have the same hair type as the girl in the video, may be using 2 different flat irons, and 2 totally different heat settings. Some hair can withstand heat others can't. She's also a little girl and you seem a lot older, just from your pic-the hair type can change during the different developmental stages in life. There are too many differences here for you to claim that her hair is not heat damaged just because yours isn't
Just be careful with the heat sis the girls have beautiful hair it will definitely start to change the texture they should only get it blown out and flat ironed for special occasions I’m only saying this out of love 💕 But it did come out very beautiful 💕💕💕
Agree. Not too much heat.
I totally agree. Using heat on natural hair is tricky. There are very few people who are really trained to use heat and maintain the integrity of the curl pattern.
I agree but Not the “special occasion” bc we were erroneously taught that special occasions were not meant for natural hairstyles
Agreed!!
🙄
That's why her curl pattern is different (The Heat).
Is it because of the heat from the blow dryer or from the flat iron 👀 curious because I have a daughter and I get her OWN hair braided maybe once a month and her braiding lady does wash & conditioner it but she just hand blow dry it before she braid it.
@@nemolife451 if she’s using heat protectant when she’s blow drying the hair it shouldn’t cause any damage
@@leaniagarrett8296 that’s true. Excessive heat with damage the hair regardless. I didn’t think to mention that since she said she gets her hair blow dried once a month for the braids.
I know opinions differ but Please PLEASE encourage your daughter to LOVE her own Natural Hair because it is beautiful 🥺❗️💯Break the generational curses of relaxers, texturises, hair loss & HEAT damage 🙏🏾💕
❤️👏🏾
And recent studies are showing relaxers are causing cancer
I agree that little girls should be taught to appreciate their own hair. However, I think we as African Americans should recognize that it’s okay if we want to experiment with different hairstyles and do what works for us as an individual. Caucasians get curly perms or beach waves and it isn’t necessarily because they hate their hair as a Caucasian but because they want to try something new. But you have a positive message and I definitely agree. God Bless
The hair damage is there.
@@stephenie3113 do you seriously think that little girl just LOVES to sit there and have all that heat on her head every month ?? Yes experiment with hair but ON YOUR OWN HEAD ...not on your child. Am sure if she can be honest she'll say she wants a cute hairstyle or braided style with multiple colours and beads ..... like other little girls her age.
Tight curls are beautiful! Teach her to embrace them. She will thank you later
I thought the same thing with my own hair until I realized my curl pattern didn’t change it was heat damage because once my roots grow out it went right back to being tightly curled like it was before I’m pretty sure she has heat damage that’s why her curl pattern changed
And shame on the hair school because they know her curl pattern didn’t change they know its heat damage but they’re going to keep taking your money . you should definitely find someone that specializes in natural hair It may cost a little much but it’s worth it
I'm biracial & when I was their age my mom didn't know what to do to my hair. They would flat iron & relax my hair so it was easier to manage/comb. In middle school & high school all I wanted was straight hair because in a predominantly white area, all the kids had straight hair. At one point I was tired of my mom flat ironing my hair every morning before school. In middle school I told her I'd try to comb my hair myself. I'd just put it in ponytails & gel it down. Eventually my my natural hair grew out & I loved it, but my family would tell me I can't wear my hair like that... I had loved my natural hair so much, that I wore it to school to show off to my friends how pretty my curls were & they all asked me what happened to my hair & why isn't it straight anymore. Eventually I got pressured into relaxing it...Once I left HS I let my hair grow out & clipped off the relaxed ends. I must say that was the best decision I ever made. I love my hair & growing up, I wish I had people that told me nothing was wrong with my hair, and I should appreciate & embrace my natural hair, because I didn't need straight hair to be "beautiful" or be acceptable...sorry for the rant, but yeah, let your daughters (who are gorgeous btw) know that nothing is wrong with their natural hair & flat ironing their hair every three weeks can damage their hair, which is evident from the loosening of the curl patterns
The heat is what’s loosening her curls. 🥺
Please encourage her to rock her natural!
Something about the natural curls on kids I just love it . Puffs, slick backs with the curly ends , twists , braids so adorable . No need to damage their hair like this with all that heat .
It is the most beautiful thing to see!!!
Curl patterns can change in the different developmental stages like from infant to toddler to school age to teenage, some change again at puberty and again as adults. I've seen it countless times. Could also be heat damage if curls are significantly loosening. Her hair is very beautiful
Their hair is beautiful
♥️♥️
Just gorgeous. Kudos to the stylist.
Yes!!! This is the new version of heating the curling irons the old way was with actual fire. They tripping!
New day, new way!!
Hello
Every 3 weeks will cause heat damage on her hair. Try every 6 to 8 weeks at minimum. The type of hair she has is so soft & fine even the 6 to 8 weeks might cause it to be permanently straight eventually.
I wish I could wear blow outs at 5 🙃 BUT in all honesty, they shouldn’t be wearing blowouts so young. Their texture is changing because of the heat damage, just have the stylist blow dry their hair before trimming. And cut out the flat ironing, they probably wouldn’t need constant trims if you did.
The way she walks to the car to show off her hair lol 😂
I noticed that too, she was walking different than in the beginning, she gotta get that hair swing going lol.
That hairstyle is too GROWN-UP for little girls . That's why she walks different .. next they'll be twerken! 🙄
Beautiful❤, please don't ever use a chemical relaxer on their hair🙏🏽
When you say her curl pattern is changing, some call it "heat training", some say "heat damage". Depends on what the client is looking for. If you want her curls to spring back, then cut the heat. If you are find with the loser/ less curl pattern, keep your scheduled appointments. Her curl pattern will become loser & lower. Depends on your preference.
They are lovely girls!
Thank you 😊
She has such beautiful full hair 😍
Thank you 😊
She is being heat trained her hair will be perfectly fine as long as they use the proper heat protectants, products and techniques. Married to stylist/cosmetology instructor. I have been natural for over 15 years, Been curly and straight, never ever have I had heat damage. I had my hair done every 3 to 4 weeks when I was getting silk pressed. My hair is thick and it grows like crazy it's mid back right now and that's after me getting a trim.
My daughter and myself have long thick hair and we switch up between braids and flat ironing. We take very good care of our hair and use natural products. I’m 70 yrs old and my hair is still growing. Everybody’s hair doesn’t fall out from flat ironing. We never have to use a lot of heat and go once a month
She did a great and beautiful job on your daughters hair beautiful beautiful hair your daughters have blessing
Beautiful girl's
with Beautiful hair
I would try roller set sometimes too, their hair isn't in bad shape, seems pretty soft I think roller set would be great.
The girls seem to enjoy the pampering and they look great. Mom didn't say her daughters got a blow dry and flat iron every visit. It's also easier for mom to take her daughters to someone to do a wash and dry. I've been natural over 30 years. A weekly wash, condition, and magnetic roller set with lotttabody will straighten my hair and eventually loosen my curl pattern without using heat.
My mom used to press my hair with a hot comb from the STOVE, and curl my hair from 8 years old. No lost curl pattern at 67!!!
Gotta let you know Mom, these stylists are clueless to caring for " Natural hair". They will fry your girls hair, by flat ironing it so often. All they care about is money. Most stylists are used to " styling " not proper hair care, especially for Natural hair
These are Cosmo Students, please know what you are talking about before you speak,good stylist treat peoples hair with care
And they love to cut saying it’s a trim.
They aren't the problem here. The mum is by letting her kid do this nonsense every month.
@@purplenavajo Good stylist? Ask the women that you know with permed or Natural hair (not wig wearers) have a professional stylist ever damaged their hair from styling, perming or coloring their hair? Plenty of Women have suffered from the hands of " professional stylists", Dear
@@donitaballard5928 That sounds like a personal problem,I don't chair hop,and I know my stylist cares for my hair,as a person with a head full of hair,you can just sit in anybody's chair,and I am also a stylist
Love how she walked out swinging her hair. They are gorgeous girls and have beautiful hair.
Looser texture and texture change means there might be heat damage. Be sure they are using plenty of heat protection on their hair. Also check what they are using to wash and condition her hair because those products can contain texturisers.
Your daughters hair is beautiful 😍
Just a suggestion but to prevent possible heat damage maybe get the stylist to stretch your daughters hair via a roller set? You get a similar result but your using indirect heat from the dryer rather than direct heat from the hair straightener. If you wrap the hair well at night it should last just as long as the other method.
When my hair gets a bit longer that’s what I’ll be planning to do, as my hair being stretched out works out better for my hair and my overall lifestyle.
Love seeing little girls rocking their hair with no foreign extension matter intertwined.
Whew yes! No extensions yay
3 WEEKS? HER HAIRS GOING TO FALL OUT!
Exactly! She’s saying her hair texture has changed like that’s a good thing! Her hair texture is changing because of heat damage!
For real
that’s so dramatic
No it will not I've been doing the same for over 15 yours my hair is mid back length it would be longer but I cut it. I have also never had heat damage.
If you maintain it every couple of weeks it won’t. Only if you stop using heat completely.
Baby girl was feeling cuuuttte! She has to swing that hair when walking out. 😆😆🥰
They are so beautiful 😍 she looks just like your husband.
😊 thank you I get that ALOT 😩😂
The girls hair is beautiful. The Stylist did a fantastic job 👏.
From pressing combs to flat irons! I remember going to the salon as a young girl to get a wash and press.
Her hair looks healthy and amazing, go ma!
Thank you for taking her to a school. Students need the experience because a lot of time they have the passion for natural hair, but aren't exposed to it.
And I'm speaking from someone who was in that position. Your daughters are beautiful and the stylist did a great job. :)
If her ends were different lengths and uneven, then yes, absolutely her hair was broken off.
Such a precious child, look at all that beautiful hair, she loves it! Strutin her stuff! I know old saying, what can I say, I'm an old lady.
"Her curls are a lot looser, but its much more manageable, the sylist did a good job with not jeopardizing the integrity of her hair" 😬
"If you go to her, let her know who sent you." I don't think sis will have to worry about anyone who saw this video going to her.
@@brittanywilliams8653 That's what I was thinking. The stylist should know the little girl has heat damage. Little girls don't need flat iron every 3 weeks. A roller set and blow out would be better. My Aunt does hair and she always tells mothers flat iron is for special occasions. Not sure why the stylist would recommend this so often.
I graduated from that hair school🥰🥰 to anyone who is freaking out over her using heat that often, those girls in there are guided by licensed professionals and I'm not talking just any kind of hairstylist helping the students, the instructors have to go through so much extra training and state board exams just to work there. Trust me they know what they are doing!
This is teaching the young girls their natural hair pattern isnt good enough and their hair has to be straightened. They're so young why not kid friendly styles like braids, cornrows, bows and beads
Look at her swinging that hair at the end…. Lol too cute 🥰
Back in the day, growing up, mama used to press and curl hair from the stove every Sunday, so heat every 3 heats is not damaging her hair. A perm would. Keep up the GREAT work mama! Much love and blessings and have a beautiful Christmas 🎄 🎅🕊🥰🤗🤎🖤💜
Good job mom and relaxers has been out for over a decade if not longer. Harsh chemicals are not needed a simple Silk Press will do! Absolutely gorgeous girls
HAIR LOOKS GREAT!!
I love to see natural hair just going to the salon is the best thing and letting the girls learn to love their hair, good job 👍
She looks wonderful 😍
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Definitely the heat. I took my teen to get her hair done for an event. She wanted a ponytail and the stylist straightened her hair and it was bone straight. My daughter is a natural curl girl. My child knew she had heat damage when her curls wouldn’t come back after she washed her hair. She told the stylist and the stylist tried to tell her she didn’t have heat damage. My daughter refused to go back to her. We had to eventually cut her hair cause her roots were curly but her ends were bone straight.
You should try kaleidoscope products in their hair. They have great products for detangling. Every 3 weeks is entirely too much heat !
You have some beautiful daughters God bless the sweet angels💕
Please make sure she is using a heat protector on her hair, even if you have to bring your own. If her hair pattern is getting looser it is because her hair is occurring heat damage. She should be able to retain her curl pattern without causing damage to the hair. Heat damage doesnt only cause the hair to be looser, it can cause even more damaging results in the long run.
Speaking from a woman who has curly hair and straightened my hair all the time. My curls became loose and then parts of my hair became straight because it was heat damaged.
Looking at baby girls hair it is beautiful and healthy and looks very manageable. You may want to learn from the stylist how to care for it or get protective styles that last 3 weeks instead of the straightening.
Signed, a curly girl who wishes she never damaged her curls. (I had to do the big chop a few years ago and start over)
I’m sorry you had to big chop
Precious So Pretty!!!
Yes her curl pattern is loosening up from heat & getting hair straightened with the irons.
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If you are taking them to get straightening done (which is pretty) make sure to get some great product for their curly hair (when wearing hair natural). Carols daughter (called milk) will bring out the pretty curls in her hair.
U should embrace her curl pattern rather than give it heat damage to make it more manageable for you. Shes too little to be taken to a hair school salon letting people who are learning do her hair rather a professional who knows how to deal and manage her hair texture
Please make sure they don’t damage her hair to make it manageable because my hair is like 3c and my mom is Hispanic with 2c/3a curls and she got my hair straightened a lot as a child and Dominicans snuck a texturizer into my hair! My mom didn’t really do much too it because it was “unmanageable” now as an teenager im trying to get my pretty curl pattern back so I have to do big chops to remove the damage! My hair thinned out and everything but the curls are coming back slowly but surely! I want a curly fro which I’m getting their but it’s hard because my hair is still trying to thicken up
Omg, they're so pretty!
I did the big chop in 2006 and in 2010 I begin flat ironing it regularly. It was so long (past my bra strap) and healthy. After 3 months I realized I had applied too much heat to my natural hair and my curl pattern never reverted back. I had all these random straight pieces mixed with wavy curls and tight spirals. It was a disaster. I finally bit the bullet and cut off all the damaged hair over time. I finally took the time to learn how to care for my hair and now it’s near my belly button when it’s flat ironed only twice a year 😊 Good luck to your girls on their natural hair journey.
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I'm natural. My curl pattern changed, too, since it grew longer
Girls are so beautiful. Their hues are out of this world.
That baby's hair is beautiful!!!
Instead of blow drying have them do a roller set. Ince that's done, no straightening is needed before curling. They can reinforce the curls with the curling iron or flat irons on a low setting. Pin the curls up and let her sit under the hood dryer for a "cold shot". The cold shot will lock in the curls to make them last longer.
Your girls are beautiful little lady's there hair is gorgeous 💕
If your heat training you can actually apply heat every two weeks. There's nothing wrong with it if you know what your doing . It's better than getting a relaxer.
My LORD are they beautiful. She seemed to have that “I know my hair looks good” little skip in her step awww❤
She had me up yo the heat phase but yo each his own
Curl patterns change especially depending on hair length. Especially if hair is fine. My hair goes from spiral curls to just waves at it grows long
Aww! She's so pretty and has beautiful healthy hair . Go baby girl 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Beautiful little girls with lovely hair ❤️❤️
Both girls are beautiful ….
Take care of their natural gorgeous hair..
I love their hair looks super pretty I wish I lived in your state I would go to this lady to get my hair done 😢
Between washings if you can try finger curling her hair to see if you can bring some of those curls back and ask her to brush her hair out with the conditioner in it and rinse her conditioner out with cool water ! This is what saved my curls . And I’m also a cosmetology graduate❤️
Loose curls means the hair is unhealthy or damaged. Maybe stay away from heat
You have some beautiful daughters, and their hair is gorgeous.
Thank you so much
This is going to be a long lasting relationship/friendship that she have with these girls. The stylist will get to see them grow up as she continue to do their hair. Hopefully she remains their stylist throughout the years.
Beautiful!
Thank you!
It’s either the hot comb or a perm, mom needs something that is manageable. Some women just don’t want to deal with textured hair. Yes, with the proper routine it’s easy, but you have to realize that she has two girls and herself to care for. I can tell you, I would personally just do braids with added hair towards the ends instead of heat, however, mom found something that works for her and her household. The most important thing is that her children are well taken cared of.
Heat damage is just as bad a a relaxer…get them a protein treatment…beautiful girls btw ❤️
She looks so beautiful! It was the walk for me to make her hair move side to side 😍💕 goa head pretty girl!
Those smiles!!!!
My goodness her hair looked gorgeous..she so proud....
flinging them curls..🤗
Yes! Thank you!
Such beautiful skin tones ❤ and beautiful, grateful smiles
The way she was flipping her hair after u ate baby love it so pretty 🤍❤️🩹
So sick of the theory that has haunted our community of hair being “heat trained”… no baby, that’s heat DAMAGE!
Their hair is beautiful.
When my daughter was little. I would wash her hair every week and do a pretty style in cornrolls. Her hair was well down her back. She cried for a perm in junior high. She started adding color after that. Hair now stays just below shoulder length. Too much heat and chemicals. When I was a girl, we only got our hair pressed for special occasions, easter, christmas, etc. Your daughters have a head full of beautiful hair. I would protect it at all costs. That's my two cents. ❤💚❤
Her natural curls are so pretty
So Beautiful!!!!! Great stylist!!! Peace and Blessings Beloved take care 🌹
I have very tight curls too and after getting a good trim my natural hair feels amazing, i love using not your mothers detangling spray for easy pain free detangling
Curls "not being as tight" equals loss of protein bonds aka damage.
Beautiful mom you teaching them what it's like to be pamper and to keep their hair done ✔️ ❤️ 💕
Yess thanks 🤗
@Adrianne MG so many negative comments but you know what you doing with your daughters. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
Your kids have Beautiful hair and she does a Beautiful job Thanks for sharing much love and Blessings to you and your family
Every 3 weeks will damage her natural curl pattern. Unless that is what you want to do, you will have to cut back the flatiron. She can do roller sets too and maybe even tap crinkled roots
That’s heat damage, I’d stop going because she could mess up their hair, I’d definitely try organigrow, their products are amazing
They don't need any heat to manage their hair! Good products helps a lot.
Looking at it it I can Definitely see it is heat damage. It may be more manageable now but it will come a time where the curl will be so inconsistent and won't look right unless straightened.
So adorable. Reminds me of my niece at that age.
It’s the bounce to the car for me❤
I act the same way when my hair is done
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I hope they not putting chemicals in the shampoo. Curl patterns should not go loose and all the heat isn't good. You will notice a difference in her new growth hair texture once you stop taking her.