I have very narrow interests and I'm very passionate about it, and from my past experiences not many tends to enjoy talking about it with me. So to engage with others I needed to attempt to talk about something I'm not interested in, or force myself to listen to something I'm not interested in, which makes me feel pretentious and tired.
I don't know if others see me as intelligent but I do set myself very high standards and am never pleased with what I achieve, which I always downplay. This does mean that I constantly put myself under pressure. As for boredom, I see life as a constant learning process and am interested in almost everything, apart from what interests the majority of people. Yes, it can be a lonely life as we are all looking for that special someone to whom we can fully relate. Chameleons, we can and do relate to others on a superficial level for short spells but it is very draining.
I am an INFJ. I loathe small talk I have found that my best friends tend to be extreme extraverts. That way in a group I can sit back and chill I do challenge people and they definitely do not like it and I am challenged myself on TH-cam chatlogs about things. I am fair and kind but there comes a point when people simply do not respond. I see that as them I was an easy win but was better prepared to make my case than they thought I would be.
I enjoy watching these to see the variations. I'm not so organized but health challenges can slow that for me. I relate to quite a bit and find some people exhausting, I love when I come across other's who are similar sometimes and glad to know you guy's are out there.😁I get distracted so easily, I wonder if others do as well.
I’m exhausted when having a conversation and the other person completely bypasses my input. But they don’t see what I see and I can’t explain to them why I know it. I’m on the outside looking in and wishing they could see past the window . I guess that’s an abstract thought. I usually have to watch them crash and burn, when the solution was right there…
I’m lebanese watching from France. I don’t know how changing language can affect our behavior and how we should evaluate our personality. I’m currently a little bit depressed but I liked your video . I’m questioning myself a lot and I’m seeking for a purpose in my life. I have a great diploma in france ( Maybe the best or one of the best) I have many choices because I’m generalist somehow, but I don’t know what to do and what is meaningful, I want to achieve big things but I lost self confidence recently and this affected my relations with people.
@@samiizzat4442 Do you have an elder whom you respect and who knows you well? This would be an ideal person to provide counsel. As a young person, I often sought the counsel of my local librarian. My counselor would listen and ask a few questions. He would tell me that I already knew the answers to my questions. He would tell me that I was allowing fear of choosing wrong to block my willingness to create my life. Sami, you will make mistakes. Sometimes, the mistakes will seem to be too big to recover from. If you consistently act to respect and care for others as much as for yourself, you will look back on your life as an old man and realize that you have done "big things". You will realize that failure is never final. Go ahead and create your life, Sami.
@@pauladuncanadams1750 Do you appreciate all the INFJ attention YT gives? I find it way overdone. And I'm suspecting that people are living to the characteristics.
@@pauladuncanadams1750 Are you willing to allow me to guess that you are a T type? I was. Somehow I flipped, over a span of 15+ years, and now type as INFJ. I am The Golden Couple with myself. 🙃 I meant Golden Pair.
Phycology? 8:48 = the study of algae, a large heterogeneous group of chiefly aquatic plants ranging in size from microscopic forms to species as large as shrubs or trees. How on earth did you know I like that?!? :)
I have very narrow interests and I'm very passionate about it, and from my past experiences not many tends to enjoy talking about it with me. So to engage with others I needed to attempt to talk about something I'm not interested in, or force myself to listen to something I'm not interested in, which makes me feel pretentious and tired.
Thanks Morning Coffee for sharing your story with us.
Same here.
What interests are they? Me personally is the search for absolute truths which leads to some very difficult subjects to comprehend for most minds...
@@thedude5740 Truth is beyond perception.
I don't know if others see me as intelligent but I do set myself very high standards and am never pleased with what I achieve, which I always downplay. This does mean that I constantly put myself under pressure. As for boredom, I see life as a constant learning process and am interested in almost everything, apart from what interests the majority of people. Yes, it can be a lonely life as we are all looking for that special someone to whom we can fully relate. Chameleons, we can and do relate to others on a superficial level for short spells but it is very draining.
I am an INFJ.
I loathe small talk
I have found that my best friends tend to be extreme extraverts. That way in a group I can sit back and chill
I do challenge people and they definitely do not like it and I am challenged myself on TH-cam chatlogs about things. I am fair and kind but there comes a point when people simply do not respond. I see that as them I was an easy win but was better prepared to make my case than they thought I would be.
Thanks for sharing your story with us Sheltered Sparrow 🙂
I like debate bc I want to be proven wrong. If I can be proven wrong, I gain a new perspective. It is extremely difficult to prove me wrong...
I enjoy watching these to see the variations. I'm not so organized but health challenges can slow that for me. I relate to quite a bit and find some people exhausting, I love when I come across other's who are similar sometimes and glad to know you guy's are out there.😁I get distracted so easily, I wonder if others do as well.
I’m exhausted when having a conversation and the other person completely bypasses my input. But they don’t see what I see and I can’t explain to them why I know it. I’m on the outside looking in and wishing they could see past the window . I guess that’s an abstract thought. I usually have to watch them crash and burn, when the solution was right there…
I'm suffering from trivial tasks now, that's why I'm watching this video now XD.
Got bored, did not finish.
Probably the most accurate in my opinion
I’m lebanese watching from France. I don’t know how changing language can affect our behavior and how we should evaluate our personality. I’m currently a little bit depressed but I liked your video . I’m questioning myself a lot and I’m seeking for a purpose in my life. I have a great diploma in france ( Maybe the best or one of the best) I have many choices because I’m generalist somehow, but I don’t know what to do and what is meaningful, I want to achieve big things but I lost self confidence recently and this affected my relations with people.
Thanks for sharing your story with us. I suggest you go for counseling . All the best Sami Izzat 🙂
@@ebline what type of counseling could fit a generalist engineer profile . Counseling is not more for psychology students?
@@samiizzat4442
Do you have an elder whom you respect and who knows you well?
This would be an ideal person to provide counsel. As a young person, I often sought the counsel of my local librarian. My counselor would listen and ask a few questions. He would tell me that I already knew the answers to my questions. He would tell me that I was allowing fear of choosing wrong to block my willingness to create my life.
Sami, you will make mistakes. Sometimes, the mistakes will seem to be too big to recover from. If you consistently act to respect and care for others as much as for yourself, you will look back on your life as an old man and realize that you have done "big things". You will realize that failure is never final. Go ahead and create your life, Sami.
@@melodypaz7247 Thank you for your support❤️🥰
Ok now make one about the struggles of dumb INFJs
The hallmark of INFJ is high emotional IQ. This video is off the mark.
Known as EQ. (not watched yet)
@@m2pozad Yes. I could have explained that but didn't feel the need. Those that know don't need it, those that don't know understand long hand.
@@pauladuncanadams1750 Do you appreciate all the INFJ attention YT gives? I find it way overdone. And I'm suspecting that people are living to the characteristics.
@@m2pozad I find much of it inaccurate and overblown. Thanks for asking. And for sharing your opinion? 🍻
@@pauladuncanadams1750 Are you willing to allow me to guess that you are a T type? I was. Somehow I flipped, over a span of 15+ years, and now type as INFJ. I am The Golden Couple with myself. 🙃
I meant Golden Pair.
My Door Knob..needs re-pair…
Phycology? 8:48
= the study of algae, a large heterogeneous group of chiefly aquatic plants ranging in size from microscopic forms to species as large as shrubs or trees.
How on earth did you know I like that?!? :)
9:15 doesn't reflect me at all, it's not so emphatically
3%??🤨
Males are far less.
To slow, try harder 😊
@stevenjohns-savage7024, thank you for sharing