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Keep them thinking thats my moto...

We don’t ‘like’ to ghost people. We feel guilty when we have to. It’s done to protect us from difficult people and situations.

Great video!

Pretty sure I’m an INFJ. Still not sure how it’s works.

To slow, try harder 😊

In short: infj are perfect fit for conspiracy theoretist

I excel in creative problem solving to realise my vision. As an affirmation

INFJs are not emotional

No INFJs that I know of is unhappy. On the contrary.

What's infj?

Thing is, we automatically are going to be less confident in the things a majority of people are so confident in, because we are not wired to excel in those things, situations, and areas. The problem is, we are judged for that lack of confidence, and when we are confident in what we are wired to excel in, it's like it's to late, and we are overlooked, or not believed.

Ngl i wasn't expecting this video to be so good lolz, i needed to hear all that, thanks💪

Im getting a lot of insecure bata male vibes. And most of you that are saying you are infj are not. We infj men are not woe is me babies we may be nihilistic at times but not woe is me. And statistics say its impossible for there to be so many infj men in the comments soooooo which of you is lying to yourself saying you are infj but in reality youre just a big negative baby with no game? Be honest because infj men have some good game, we tend to avoid relationships and hookup culture until we feel we are in a spot worthy to date and fool around we dont look at TH-cam videos and justify why we single. We already know why

This is very true.

Again, concise and absolutely accurate. Please keep going!!!

empathy is sometimes biggest asset and sometimes worst trait to have when it comes to taking tough calls

Lovely video! Thank you 🙏🏾

I'm a fearfull avoidant.. but my longest relationships were with avoidants so anxious traits did manifest there. But a lot of the traits I relate with immensely. And it definitely is linked with being infj! Good insight!

“Siri” is a wonderful feature of the iPhone, enables you to ask questions like you just ask and find the answer. It is a rare personality type among the 16 types described by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Now, go look it up yourself to find out the details

Helpful vid, but the end was… jarring. “Stay safe and see you in the next one!” Not if you yell at me like that.. 😂

Of course I am an INFJ. What else could I be? Make sure you score the points. And of course my relationship is toxic. Greatest toxic relationship on the planet. All you have to do is ask. I'll tell you what you need to know. 👍

It`s a hard personality to have and lonesome but also very fascinating.

You might have started by telling us what an INFJ is.

Some very true observations. Insightful video

The Myers-Briggs test is nonsense, though.

So true! Thanks

My #1 reason for not wanting to be a leader: People are arseholes.

Lol. Im intj and my DM is a infj. Crazy true...this has been going since few months. Every single word is so true

Infj here, sometimes I don't understand myself, not saying that it's impossible to someone else to, but hard... it must be that at least, we are humans too 😅

For me there are three main reasons behind INFJs being misunderstood. The first is the combination of Ni and Ti. Introverted intuition working with introverted thinking. We don't always think about patterns they just have meaning and information. Second, you couple that with introverted thinking where an INFJ fully understands his/her conclusions made in their brain. They understand something to their bones. But when it comes to putting those thoughts into language they don't have, or can't find the words to express all of these thoughts with brevity. For those reasons INFJs do not like being put on the spot, but they can prepare a presentation or notes for a meeting. Intuition isn't something you can easily explain. If you have advanced timing to think about how to phrase something that can be done easier. Even having thought about and talkled about a topic in the past will make those words flow like a river. I would say we all have some thoughts that don't equate to language. Trying to explain that as an INFJ can be overwhelming. There is also the concept of resignation to conversation. Knowing it would take a long time to explain an idea when the other person is not familiar with the topic can lead to the INFJ not trying a whole lot to be concise. Extraverted feeling is another consequential component to INFJs being misunderstood. We know if someone doesn't believe what we are saying and that can make INFJs anxious. Most of the time people don't think its hard to understand you, they just completely misunderstand you, and that can easily be read by an INFJ in conversation. THE NUMBER ONE reason for these misunderstandings is that the 98% of people who are not INFJs refuse to believe there are people out there who are honest and have pure intentions. When the 2nd party in the conversation would not do something unless it beneits them, they believe the INFJ doing or saying it is being deceptive and trying to gain something. It's that simple more times than not. I guess it depends on the audience. But this is why INFJs seek deep and meaningful connections over casual acquaintances. I guess that is more than three. Apologies.

There's no duality to being an INFJ. These things are relevant for immature or unhealthy INFJs. A healthy/matured/detached/whatever you want to call it INFJ has learned that leaning into their strengths and behaving accordingly will not face these unfortunate occurrences in any kind of meaningful way. Instead they see the world for what it is, and what will happen before it does. It bothers me when this distinction is not made. The world of a young INFJ and an INFJ who has learned his lessons are mutually exclusive.

Great video! Love this channel!

Why can I not fully understand what type am I? It seems like I'm both INTJ and INFJ, because there are several things from both types that are true about me and several that aren't so what do I do with it?

The true reason is that N heros have more integration of heaven which is why they are more idealized by people. Their S is rather bad however, revealing to the person they date, eventually, that they have attachment problems and may not be able to hold onto relationship. They are like unreachable souls, hard to maintain 🤭 Check Kataronics for more

Don't let this make you believe you can't do it. Through my compassion and ability to talk them through it, I got one person who had been let go from previous jobs to be someone who has grown as a dedicated team player.

In my case, all true! 😝

This is the best video that I have seen that addresses this topic. Hybrid INTJ/INFJ. When I was at the top of my career in my late-thirties, I was offered, most times without an interview, VP and director positions in both Marketing and Engineering positions at both my employer and our customers. I left Intel after 15 years (started directly out of college) when they forced me to become a manager. Then I left the next company I worked for just as I was being promoted to a Divisional VP position (most likely 100 employees or more). At the same time, I was offered an executive VP position at one of my customers, a Director of HW Engineering at a Billion Dollar company and a couple of VP positions at other companies I worked with including a company that had 500 mil of VC that was going to create a new company based on the work I was doing in the industry if I was willing to join as the executive VP. This all happened within six months. As much as I was flattered by these offers, I could not do it even though it meant losing out on these six to seven figure opportunities with stock options. The irony is that I never had even manager in my title before I got all these promotion attempts and outside offers. To be honest, I have not for a minute regretted turning these opportunities down. They would have made my life miserable!!! Your observation about feeling like an imposter was spot on. I could not imagine why these companies were nuts enough to make these offers.

Some of the best advice I have received was from a friend when I was very concerned about my niece which is a sociopath was marrying a very kind good man. My friend asked me if I was close to either my niece or her soon to be husband. I said no, which was the fact of the situation. He told me that since I was not close to either of them that it was not responsibility. He impressed on me that I need to focus my attention on people that I was close to and make an impact in their lives. When I get overwhelmed by what is going on in my big or small world, I apply this standard, and it really helps me to focus on what I can affect and ignore my desire to affect what I can't.

I am an INTJ/INFJ hybrid. I have these conversations in my head all the time. I worked in high tech as an engineer where I was mostly INTJ. In my personal life I was mostly INFJ. I took the test when I was an Engineer at Intel. The Test Coordinator was flustered when she interviewed me going over my results. She even tried asking me questions to see if I fell on either side of the divide with no luck. Out of the 500 employees in the division I was the only one that was either an INTJ or INFJ. She told me that I should find an occupation that matched my personality better. The irony was that I was in the top 1 or 2 percent in rankings over the years even though I tried my best to stay under the radar and would not move into management. I finally after doing much research of the personality types have come to accept what I am can even enjoy it now. Seeing both sides of things can be very wearing.

INFJs naturally have a high frequency. Egocentric people will react bad to them because of it. INFJs are authentic and they don’t do small talk with pleasure nor cooperate with narcissists games.

Oh My God Oh My God. This is stunningly and incredibly true !!!

As an INTJ I'm offended by the first one. I don't feel a sense of superiority unless it's merited. And there's a huge difference between arrogance and confidence. We are are confident in our ability by using logic, rationality, and past experiences before teach any conclusions. We don't blindly feel superior or confident.

Any INFJ T to give me company..i feel alone.. preferably someone unmarried in 30s

This video is great!

This is so true ... very accurate

I was recently deeply betrayed. I have not once mistrusted my judgment. I still haven't. I Did, however, become deeply offended - and angry. I rolled out an exceedingly rare, slowly gathered monster. I both did and did not mean to. It took on a written, and shared, life of its own. I'm still really ticked of for having been pushed that far. The only thing than makes me more angry than being angry is being unnecessarily pushed there.

None of these characteristics is a surprise to me. The surprise came recently when I discovered there is a label for me.

Amazing ❤️😘 I love this 👍

Thank you. This is all true.

Gotta stop caring what people think, their opinion is irrelevant 🔥🔥