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Women we really have a problem. Let us stop giving priorities over male children as if female children are not human beings forgetting to know that it is still the same female who conceive male and female. Let us stop all this gender bias. That means if those women have both boy and girl they will treat their sons better than their daughters that is silly. It is really annoying when I hear how women talk about how important male children are, my dad valued me so highly and same way with my brothers and that is how life should be. No child is superior over another.
You've said it all. To think women are the ones pressuring themselves. It is well
Our African marriage is to much base on children, that nonsense has to stop. A faithful man will always be faithful wheather children or not, boy or not and a cheat will always be a cheat, even if u have 10boys, if he wants to cheat he will cheat. We don't manufacture babies. God gives what is right to u, and who says girls can't inherit!!
You said it all Harriet. To think that it's women who do this the most is sad.
A lot of men who want boys, also do so because they want a "mini" them...same way we women want girls to be "mini us". Not because it helps their ego.
Even the Agbero that smokes weed on the street is looking for a male child that will inherit their bad behaviour. Even the once that cannot feed theirself for a day are talking about male children that will inherit their ancestors..... come to think of it Linda Ikeji .... is she not a woman and she has brothers ooo but she was the one that flew his father in a peivate jet.... Oh God help us we have a long way to go..
Thank you.. A lot of women don’t have sense.
Dear women,
You're enough
You can complete a family
You're perfect
You're not just another child
Pls pls value yourself and teach your daughter to value themselves
My dear not only Ibo men all Africans are same with this male child. I am 54 and have 3 beautiful and well raised girls and if my life has to begin again my husband and myself will wish only for the girls we have.
Wow... That's so good to hear. ❤❤
God bless you! Some people are still so ignorant and they want to advice others with their ignorance.
Abi o. I know of an igbo family. Only two girls and the man is blessed. His family pressured him to marry another wife who will bear him heirs, he no gree. Now almost 70, his girls fly him round the world when he wants. He shuttles between their homes with his wife in America. A blissful life.
Nonsense... A child is a child.
God bless you ma, I have 3 girls too and to be honest i really want a boy but my husband said No that he is done with kids, i asked him if he doesn't care about a boy and he told me that if it is God's will then it will happen but if it is not the will of God, then we should not push it. By the way we are Igbos.
i have trademarked "all that good stuff' so come and pay me
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My grandma, had 4 Girls. A lady always told her she had nothing/ she was poor, because she only had Girls. My grandma never argued. On her 70th birthday, she invited this lady to her birthday, and served her with the best of the best. The lady was enjoying herself. My grandma asked her how she feel, she was verry happy and celebrating. My grandma smiled and said this great/big party is all organized by my 4 nothings(daughters) every 5 years. My grandma is Borne in 1914
You have lovely daughters, children are a gift from God whether girls or boys. my dad is an igbo man he has 3 girls and he loves all his 3 daughters and son equally.
Adeeze you are such a vibe and I love the way you see life... You are blessed to have an husband that vibe with you in such way.
Women are their own problems.. Plus can we all just do what makes us happy and stop telling others how to live. It is so sad.
yes o..First flight all the way...lovely video Adaeze!
This is very profound and mature. I’m just here taking notes❤️.
This hair is just so beautiful, it brings out your glow too.
Thank you dear❤❤
You’re a great motivational speaker who speaks with facts. I wish a lot of young girls and women would listen to you and learn how to behave.
You’re glowing! Watching you on my phone right now hence my ring able to comment. I watch all your stuff.. love how you research and attach from all angles
Thank you dear! ❤❤
Im here shouting preach sis preach sis!!! The kind of sense you are talking here ehn!! Profound!!!🙌🙌🙌
“It’s 2020 the world is about to enddd” LOL. Seriously, God bless you for this video. Having wisdom and understanding is extremely important. After building a family based on societal expectations, society will still not help in the maintenance of that family.
On point, well said dear
Lovely video 😍 I enjoyed watching
This video is just on point about how women think about themselves very sad who is she to give advice on how many kids to have. My sister great video.
Thank you. I can't imagine thinking that any boy in this world is more valuable than me and my daughters. God forbid.
I'm a recent subscriber- but you have preached a WHOLE sermon.
I love that scripture you put in between, I also learnt that from my Dad. I usually tell my Dad that I want a sister since I have brothers and he tells me that he already vowed to himself from his young age that he won't bring any child to this world to come and suffer. Periodt. That teaching still rings in my brain till this day
You are so real adaeze and i love that about you. Your kids are lovely
You speak with so much Wisdom.
God bless this your intellectual medulla oblongata 👍👍👍👍
Woah, that oil was much! Food looked good.
I keep learning from your channel,am not married but l have learnt alot from you 🙏all your advice sounds like your a big sis to me 😘❤️😘😘 thanks sis
Ok how u melted that seasoning cube makes sense!
Greeeeeeat video! Loved it! Awesome.
Thanks Joy❤
I so much love this discussion. Your belief as a Christian, and your faith is top notch. "There is power in the tongue".
New subscriber here❤
Finally, God bless us all with what we want😊 & our desires.
Another lovely content, Adaeze space😊✌️❤️.
I like the way u addresses that comment 👍, I like ur point of view too,love ur channel
I AM GLAD YOU ADDRESSED THIS SO, MATUREDLY👌. MAY GOD HELP SOME NIGERIANS FROM REASONING AWKWARDLY.
Dear God holds your back. Am proud of my daughter's,
Ada, with this video, l now know that you think analytically, love your Analytical mind, much love
You look so pretty 😍😍😍😍love the makeup
Hahahahaha African magic stories !!! Chai i thoroughly enjoyed this video 🙌🏽♨️
Adaeze, let me start by saying I love your hair. The side part fits you well.
Secondly, I love the fact that you put out the previous video on tubal ligation.
The truth is some women will always treat themselves as second class citizens no matter what.
My husband doesn't bear his family name nor his father's names 😂 guyman changed his last name to his first name. It was simply what he wanted. The Bible says a good name is better than riches. Leaving a good name for your children is what is utmost.
The value placed by some on male children is why boys will always be treated better than girls in some homes.
By the way, congratulations on your beautiful princesses.
I love you so much💞. You are so on point.
Some people don't even know that some people like me are praying to have one, whether boy or girl. Ada don't mind them, may your heart desires be granted by God
Your testimony is near sis. I know how I prayed for a child. Gender was not even on the list. God will give you your miracles very soon. Amen. 🤗🤗
You are already pregnant...start calling your child's name
Manifest it my Dear...start calling your child’s name.
You will testify!!! Don't worry. It will come in his due time.
@@AdaezesSpace amen in Jesus name
Adaeze, May God almighty grant your heart desires, Amen! But this your moimoi makes sense ooo😍
Thanks for saying the truth, people should born what they can take care of, period. Thanks for this video. 🇨🇭
I just stumbled on your channel and I'm loving it already 🙂❤️
Children are gifts from God and people need to stop seeing male children as better
Yes ooo we have ice cream trucky in PH 😂😂
Awwnnn, happy to see you and your babies
Aww ..welcome. thanks
This is so spot on!!!
Wow U look good adaeze! I love the hair😃
I enjoyed it I like the way you address tat person..
God has given you a beautiful healthy family. We are very happy for you.
Adaeze's space I like the way you speak you sounds like a very intelligent woman
Your kids are beautiful and adorable 😍 female kids are blessings they are more of heart of gold ,,, I like the recipe good one
I love your opinion about these social issues!
I love your mindset. Omg.
Seee Brother Charles oooo 🙌🏽
😂 😂 😂 “going by Africa Magic...”. 😆 and it’s so true. Nigerian movies have really formulated people’s ideas of various cultures.
You speak so much sense! So sad that people particularly women still think this way 😭
My dear me that have male all through really need a female child.
Children are blessings from God manage anyone God gave you.
Female kids are performing more wonders everywhere.
The man says “what are you tagging “ 😂😂😂
Adaeze! Wow!! God will bless you, you are an inspiration.Keep speaking out.
Ada baby this your glow de33333....... I'm jealous ooo😍
Thank you sis for addressing this issue, some women are living in ignorance
Thank you for this. I have 2 daughters and the comments about having a male child has started coming.
Sweet heart, just let it go, & focus, Gods time is the best. Human beings always be human beings so far in life.
Tatashe helps the moi moi thicken. I'm allergic to crayfish so I use Titus or sardine fish.
I couldn't love you less. This is gold.
Am a mum of two boys and people are already reminding me that I need a girl that who will take care of me in old age, like is it the duty of the child to care for you or you plan for your old age? May God help us.
Hmmm some people never cease to amaze me with their advices and knowledge deficits about certain issues. I’m glad you waka pass those comments my sister. However, I’m glad with the way you enlightened us on your thoughts of not choosing one gender over the other. God bless your family. Amen
Exactly its just to know how it feels to have both male and female children. That's the feeling.💞
25:07 Preach baby .
Nwa bù Nwa it doesn't matter what gender.
Kora being helpful in the Kitchen is sweet 😁😁💖💖
Wow Adaeze, I love how you answered that lady. I wish we women will understand that first of all, it rests on the man to produce the male gender. If we don't have female children, then who will give birth to males that they want? Please every child male or female is important
People find it hard to mind their business in 9ja. They think they mean well, but they don't think of the effect their words would have or the way their unsolicited advice will come across.
Thank you. Imagine if I was one of those women who already feel bad for not having a son. They will now come and add fire. From there, high BP😂
Children came from the god will... You don't have to worry about... Your child are so cutty...
I have 2 daughters. I can relate with all of these messages you get. Its funny when people compel you to have a male child. We already knew the number of kids we wanted irrespective of the gender. All we wanted were healthy kids that we could pay as much time and responsibility towards . People just need to know having kids is big time responsibility as this has a reflection on how they turn out in future not all these gender talks and numbers.
Wow❤️❤️❤️..... your girls are amazing 😍😍
God is will surely give you your heart desires , I just love you sis 🙏
Thank you for this talk,, you have spokes well,, my dear is God that gives Male ND female children , forget about what people says,,, a child is a child
My dear boy or girl they are all God’s gift thank God for what you have
That first flight🤣🤣I get that thing a lot about having a male child. I also have 3 girls. Sending you love from Ghana 🇬🇭.
Nwanyioma Adaeze, you are absolutely on point my dear. You do things that pleases you first, that's me too. Hear me! my hubby and I , have two children, and he pleaded that its ok for him. He needed to train them well to our taste and capabilities. And to glory of God, they are living well as suppose. Most idiebeanyi, are still leaving an archaic life style and thinks backward. Abi, na you dey form pigin for your belle? Afterall, girls seems more caring to their parents whether they are married or not. See! our Igbo have to change these mindset oooo, when family lands are been sold, only the men shares it , as if the female folks are not human. Which way Igbos?
Don’t stress yourself! People are very bad! I have three girls, don’t mind them! Do what is best for you n your family.
I feel triggered hearing read that message from another woman! I'm proud of you for your answer and explanations. Nothing more to add.
I love your hair its beautiful😍😍😍😍
lol they are playing lottery. I had to talk sense into a friend who came to advice me on the need to have more kids in other to give brith to another male child for hubby. she even found time to remind me that anything can happen and I need a backup.
People will just open their mouth 'waaaaaaaaaaa' and be talking nonsense!
And a big yes to not bringing children into this world and hoping to take care of them by God's grace! That is my ideology right now!!
Sis you and this year first flight 😂😂😂😂😂 abeg know kill me with laugh
Its a personal thing you, follow your heart.
Sir please come and do hubby tag with Ada for us ooh. I think the last time he visited was the video you guys gave financial advice, I still use some tips from that video till date.
I totally totally agree with all you said dear. Some Nigerian women need their mind/headset change. I really marvel at their level of thinking, on a lot of issues. Hmmmmh, God help them. I just can't with them. Serious prayers needed for that country on all fronts.
Hi sis what a beautiful change you look super gorgeous and that color red looks so nice on you beautiful sis beautiful. Give the girls a big hug and kiss from us in N.Y.
Very true, My husband truely wants a baby girl when we were expecting our Second baby, but it happened to be a Boy, I have two boys now,
I am praying that God will bless me and my husband with a baby girl,
I have always wanted a girl.
Adaeze you nailed it. Don't mind them.
Wow... Ada, as tall as you are... Your hubby is still taller... Your children will be very tall oo....😃😃
This is my first time here. I had to subscribe because of how you handle this issue of a male child. You are really civilized. children are gifts from God weda male or female.
Ada, you said it all. Topic well addressed. I have two boys, my baby is 2months old. When he was barely 3weeks someone was already dropping talk about me trying again for a female child 🙄.
Like aunty, what I do you???
One thing I love about you Adaeze is that you are very deliberate in most things that you do. You plan, you research, you take your time before you make your decision and you stand by it fully.
I love that you addressed this issue and addressed it well.
I had half the mind to attack those comments in the last video but nah, they can wallow in their ignorance because it will not affect you in any way.
Yup. I pity women who such comments get to. We complicate life for ourselves.
When Adaeze dropped Scripture I screamed..Mad oooo!!! Tell them..school them..show them what the word says..🔥🔥
Kanayo.O.Kanayo 🤣🤣
First Flight!! Yes!🔥🔥
Gosh. This video was so edifying!!!
Listen to small madam 'I cannot dirty my hands' 🤣🤣 super cute Kora, Adeaze your girls are so sweet. I wasn't paying attention to your moimoi but was focussing on ur girls reaction. So sweet.
Babes what ever you do with your body is your choice but do research. Nigerians has no respect for boundaries. Who made them advisers in term of having more kids. Male or female will not change how your husband feels about you. Women go exta miles to have a male child because of insecurity. If you re able to adopt a child that will be amazing to be able to give love to another child/children. Much respect for you babes but you need to sometimes ignores some comments ❤💋💋💋💋
Yes o, please we want husband tag. xx
I just love u... In the western world they adopt children for same reason as urs not cos they don't have a male or female child. In Africa, most especially in 9ja some people have really lost it . I always say " the biggest problem a woman has is not a man but her fellow woman"
It is very unfortunate that folks want to tell you how to live your life. My dear just ignore them and waka pass.
Thank you. I always waka pass o. But some of them need to know that it's not ok.
@@AdaezesSpace You are absolutely right my dear sister. God bless you 🙏
Pls how long can one cook moi moi and for example four cups beans tell me quantities of water can I use for it thank
You've said it all my sis, that's why I like you for that, moi moi looks yummy, enjoy
You’re doing well sis
Nigerians will always talk sha so don’t think about it sis. Lol your baby is so cute. I love moi moi damn. Look at these people’s advice oh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 amebo oh
😂 They genuinely think they are helping me o. I just tire. Thanks for eatching dear
You made a lot of point ,I guess u attend christembassey ,we are all aiming for first flight Biko
The world is really about to end
God bless you for this video. Well said and well spoken. Same thoughts here and I m always overwhelmed by how some women think. I feel it bothers on lack of exposure or educated illiteracy. I m yet to understand which is more dominant. Very shallow n myopic. Never left their small environment. From primary, to secondary ,higher institution n still remain there as married women. Travel even from south to west or north within Nigeria, mba. Lol