Listing a Wife's Responsibilities Will Get You DRAGGED By Your Edges!
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Truth is most of us are wounded! And so every little thing triggers us
May we receive complete healing and healthy relationships.
We’re in a time and age where women don’t want to be told what to do even if it is the truth or helpful
Well we have always been told what to do. All the points she stated are a no brainier.
Why don't you tell men what to do?
@@JosephineEze79 my sister it’s neither here nor there
@@bolu101 I agree that’s why women don’t want to hear it any longer
Women are tired of being told what to do yet marriages are not getting better. The post was triggering to a lot of women especially in Nigeria.I am a believer of balance. I get some of us can’t relate to some marital struggles but it does not mean they don’t exist. Our reality are different and some women nowadays also work full time jobs outside their homes, contributes financially to the home and are also expected to do almost all of not all the house chores on their own. I believe women in that situations are the ones that are triggered. Adaeze you are in a healthy, Christian marriage hence you can’t relate. I bet you some African aunty and mummies won’t survive a day in my house because they will definitely say I’ve turned my husband to a house boy because of the way we run our home.😅. Everybody’s home is unique and different
We literally grew up hearing all these so I don't get the need to make content about it again.
Adaeze Dear, come close and take this bottle of wine🍾
One day we will talk about women that 'go out to work' but contribute shishi to the home. All resources to aid the 'going out to work' still falls on the man, from fueling the car to buying recharge cards. Yet, those set of women will hang shoulders and belittle SAHM.
Everyone should do what works for their home, there's no general rule.
I love this. I was just laughing all throughout this video 😂. The problem many people have with the video is that she didn't mention the man's responsibilities.
Please, must we drag man into everything?
Please if people are talking about a partnership, they should talk about both ends of the stick or shut up. If men were getting half of the unsolicited advice women got, there would not be so many divorces in Nigeria.
You're really full of wisdom, Adaeze. God bless your union
Adaeze you have a serious problem.
Your problem is that you too get sense 😁😅
Lol
It is really not wrong to discuss our responsibilities. Such convos are important for the sanity of everyone in the home generally
I totaly agree with you. It's a swinging from one extreme to another. Both extremes are not good. Society continues to evolve but we, as women, shouldnt lose our feminity. My opinion.
I even struggle with the words to use cause even that can be misinterpreted. Na wa
Adaeze - you have done it again! you have come with your wisdom. I am here for everything you discussed.
Whenever you speak it’s clear that you came from a healthy environment and are creating one
A lot of people are coming from toxic environments, abusive environments
Some watched their mothers be psychologically physically and mentally abused
They watched her cook and clean and be the devoted wife and so the association with the devoted wife is hell and they assumed that all women were suffering in said role alongside their mother
There’s a lot of healing that needs to be done
The baggage many are carrying is too much 😅
Facts.......Majority of women want to be in their soft girl era but you have to move according to the environment that you are in. We have to be careful assigning task based on tradition because just because something is traditional do not make it comfortable or right for everyone.
Another reminder that I’m following the right page 👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️
Some people are not blessed with a good spouse like the others they ended up making the good ones act weird sometimes so when I found myself in a conversation with such people I don't argue much with them because I understands where they are coming from
there has been gender war for years now. Thank God for the kind of fiance I have. He is a christian conservative. we absolute have discussed everything; from what are our roles to how many kids, name it. As for me thats the right thing to do.
I love your videos, you are full of wisdom. Keep up the good job What a lot of people do not realize is that as they make their bed so they lie on it. A happy home takes a lot of planning and partnership from the husband and wife. Behind every functional family is a sensible couple working together to move the family forward. People want to reap a happy marriage without putting in the requisite hard work, I wish them well.
I love this Woman🤭👏👏
Preach Ma🙌
Thank you🤗
Well said Adanze, we that have the balance actually need to speak up and speak out more so that the younger(social media) generation will learn.
you have said it alll my dear. I can't add or subtract from any thing you have said. May God continue to grant us wisdom to navigate our homes Amen.
It’s the laundry man for me! 😂😂I saw that post and knew “they” were going to have Ify’s head! 😅 I wish more of us can boldly comment this kind of balanced opinions even amidst those warrior comments on posts like this. People are now too woke and get easily triggered on issues that are “commonsensical”! It’s also very important to know what works in your own specific situation and what is considered rather general. I second your analysis 💯
I saw the reel too and I was waiting for the sarcasm that never came..I knew she would receive it oo😅😂
No it's not bad at all
I listened to one podcast a lady was saying she will never cook when she marries.. I love soft life but we really need to checkmate these excesses that are rising.. maybe they do it for the gram but there are gullible ones out there too
It's easier said than done o
I agree, its easy to neglect the husbands that "gat this". A wholistic husband is so neglected, talking from my experiences..
Spot on Dezzy, oil dey ya head!
please review the ultimatum south africa!!!
No truer words ma💯💯you spill facts!
The way I love listening to your views on different topics eh
Adaeze saying good morning guys😂😂😂 feels wierd. Feels like you've said a lot of things that you didn't like the intro before you now finally used good morning guys🤣🤣
Video is crispy clear
Brilliant delivery as always 👏🏽 ❤
Adaeze some of these your videos should be made into clips for shorts oh. Too much gems you're spitting here
Thank you for this. Balance is important
Aunty Adaeze, it really is not about being triggered. The things she put out only carry water in a situation where the husband and wife agree that the wife should stay at home. The problem here is this blanket firm statement of what women should do this because they are women. Your worth as a woman does not come from you being domestic or working. It comes from you being in the image of God. It's about a rigid, work-based definition of femininity. A woman who leaves child care to her husband is worthy, a man who is the primary care-taker of children is not less masculine because of it. People need to re-evaluate what they define femininity to be.
Nothing sounded triggering for me that’s why when I wanted to comment and I saw other comments I just deleted my comment because I don’t want wahala, I think what you said is what many people under that post were missing, the fact that she stated the woman’s responsibility doesn’t mean it’s not also the man’s responsibility, social media now wants people to put all the disclaimers and always drag men into every post which isn’t necessary sometimes. I wish I can share this video to all of them 😅
I couldn't have said it better🙌❤️
😂😂😂 lemme enjoy this video first , I saw the video and wanted to comment but then again my views are so different and people will come for me because I am single 😂 funny how i saved the video to react but I’ve not penned down my thoughts. Now to your question , should we discuss the roles of women or not? I feel like we should discuss it, and I believe it should be discussed by fellow women.. 😂😂😂😂😂 the way you said those people that say women are better than men,,, I could pay a huge amount to just see what goes on in your mind you are sooooooo wise, like the way you think and articulate your thoughts. God blessed you so much chai
well stated as always💞
Virtuous woman 100,000 yards❤❤❤
You just said it all!
You always make sense.
This is so refreshing and enjoying❤❤❤
Need you on a panel with feminist 😂you’re so good at articulating your point
Honestly Adaeze is sooo articulate! She’s brilliant
True many of people are bitter.
Good evening from Abuja Nigeria right now 😅
I love you adaeze..you said it all
Honestly, I don’t know why people are triggered. What she listed is the normal effortless responsibility to do.
I saw a post on twitter today where a man said “ he’s been awake since 3am washing everyone’s - his, his wife and children clothes”
He then said but on twitter “every man is the head of the house and only provides”, but in real life, every one is facing their reality. If it was a woman that said she’s been awake since 3am washing, it will become enslavement.
Everyone should know what works for their family, it’s not a one size fits all.
Most times, it’s single people or broken married/divorced people that actually comment the most. The single ones would face their reality when they are married.
Love eettttt!!!!!!
Too much sense in one video, thanks @Adaeze'space
I think people interpreted this list as exclusively a woman’s responsibility and that’s where the pushback came from. The list is normal especially when shared…knowing that one person (is) in fact the primary doer of those things.
I’m not done watching but let me just say this, the part you were explaining that because they are addressing women and we feel the need to say ehn what about the men nko? that’s how I used to be but now it’s like let the person address who they are addressing and leave the other gender first, I usually just roll my eyes when I see men telling women their responsibilities
👏👏👏Well said ❤️
You look good as well ❤
You spill fact all the time
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lol!
Please people need to leave women alone. Femininity is not the same as domestic labour. Making domestic labour a feminine thing is highly harmful and annoying. Domestic skills are skills every human being should have. Women that come with this nonsense advice are encouraging men to see women as sources of free labour. Marriage is a partnership. Let people split responsibilities in marriages based on their judgement. There should be reciprocity, not this constant encouragement of taking from women. The woman should rest abeg.
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Hi Adaeze, like your videos. I live here in London. Pls can i have your email. I want to email you to discuss something with you. Thx and God bless.