Is it necessary to have friends? | LETTERS FROM THE SKY
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It was when I decided to be with the right people that I finally lived a life...my life. Being much more responsible with mt own life and no more blaming. For me, it's okay to cut ties with people that we don't feel the vibe with even if we tried, for as long as respect is still there.
Sa question na "Is it necessary to have friends?"
For me, YES,
only if they are really good friends who care about you, who respect your boundaries, who respects you, if they are good to you, if they treat you well, and of course vice versa, dapat ganun ka din sa kanila.
If you can't find those qualities from friends around you,
then NO,
we don't need one if you can't find one na pasok sa gusto mo.
If gusto mo meaningful friendships, then you don't have to force yourself to be with people who you really don't vibe with. It's better to be alone kaya than to be with a lot of people whom you call friends, but can make you feel lonely naman, or worse uutangan ka tapos di ka babayaran, or ibubully ka sa insecurities mo kasi katuwaan lang/joke lang for them so you'll have to be okay with it. Not all friends are really "true friends" tbh. We are so quick to put titles on people na friends, girlfriend/boyfriend without discerning if they really deserve the title.
If gusto mo lang someone na pwedeng maging companion, someone to have para may pang chika sa mga life happenings mo kahit na di mo talaga sila vibe or you really don't care about them or they don't really care about you, then go.
Basta for me,
you don't need friends to make you happy.
you don't need a boyfriend/girlfriend to make you happy.
you don't need kids to make you happy.
Kasi, if you put conditions on your happiness like you need to have someone to be happy, or you need to achieve something to be happy, if you are putting your happiness on other people or things that are definitely beyond your control, then you will never be happy in your life if you can't find happiness within yourself, if you can't be happy just by being alone. Being alone doesn't mean you're lonely naman.
Maybe, let's not pressure people to have friends, just to sell the idea that it will be better for them.
Same lang din yan sa idea that society is telling na to have pets, kids, and a family because it will be better for them, without considering if kaya ba or willing ba to do the responsibilities financially, mentally, and emotionally just to make the pets, kids, and family happy as well?
I could literally sit here, watch clips of your videos, and guarantee that I will learn something.
Maging mapili sa kaibigan. Kpag may panggagamit at abusado, let go. Ang pinakaimportante ay mas pinapahalagagan mo ung sarili mo kesa sa ibang tao.
Finally a new episode LESGOOOO!!!
Yeah true, I have a friend, pinagkatiwalaan ko pinautang and then nung siningil na puro na lang next week, next month,lahat ng next.How sad to come across this type of person in this lifetime. May pag magkinabuhig nag inusara.
“Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are” kaya umalis nako kase sobrang chismosa,judgemental nila..
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Question: is it necessary to have friends?
my answer is: NO
kay tungod ma OP RA GIHAPON KO TAS DI NA KAAU KO IMBITARON PAG NAAY LAAG OR OKASYON LIKE SA BATCHMATES GANERN OR REUNION ANA TAS PAG NAA KO SES MANGHILOM RABA DAUN SILA TAS AKO NALAY MUUNAY UG CHIKA PRA DI HALATANG AMOY BASURAHAN