Such a good question. It's going to be different for everyone - if you feel like you just aren't moving through the grieving process, that would be a good time to try it. I'm sorry for your loss
@@pokemasterlol1945 Your message kicked me in the gut. I feel the same way, my Baby, 23 year old kitty, had to euthanize 2 days ago. I wanna die.....it's killing me. If i just knew She was okay i would feel so much better. I don't wanna "Believe" ....i need to "Know". I pray you were able to make contact with your baby.
You will see the sign within 51 days of your pets passing. You will see the signals by other animals or by finding a lost pet. A person or stranger might also be a sign if they say something to you that only you two knew about. Or if some one you don't know talks to you about their pet. It may be any type of pet.
I have a theory... I feel like the reason why losing a pet is SO hard is because it's (somewhat) similar to losing a child. There's a reason we call them "furbabies". Unlike losing a relative (like an uncle or cousin, I mean) who are bound to us by blood, a pet is bound to us by an extremely strong parent-child connection. They say one of the worst things to experience is burying your child, and that no parent should ever bury their baby. Although they are not connected to us by blood, they, in a way, are our foster babies. And that's one reason why losing a pet is so gut-wrenchingly heartbreaking.
This is exactly what people who don’t understand need to understand. Beautifully put. That helped me a lot with what I’m feeling and why. Thank you for this ♥️
@@noelnatividad1933 I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby and what you must be feeling... :( It won't be easy for a long time... What helps me with my pain (when losing a furry loved one) is that I try to remember they are in a better, more peaceful place where they will always be happy and never suffer again. They can have as many of their favorite treats as they want and feel happy forever... And it makes me feel so happy that they are happy. I'm not sure what you believe, but I believe you will see your baby again someday, and he/she will be SO happy to see you again when you do! :) And you will both live eternally, forever happy and forever together
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I just lost my dog yesterday. My heart aches in pain I miss him so so much. I sleep with his collar. I cry nonstop. He was my best friend I needed him so much more than he needed me. We did everything together .
Melissa same 😭 it’s just too much pain and I’m still a pretty much a child I found an old stuffed animal I got years ago around me and his birthday it has the same Mohawk he had his necklaces and leash he wore to the vet is even on the stuffed animal rip 10/6/2020 worst year of all,
Same I lost my Lhasa apso on September 22nd and I'm just absolutely heartbroken. She was 16 I got her for my 18th and we were together for that whole time. I can't stop crying I'm so lost and lonely with out her. Sending love and hugs to you 💛
I just lost mine today...I understand this feeling. It's terrible. My condolences to you...sorry for your loss and I hope you're feeling a little better by now. 💜
Dude I feel sorry I just lost my dog 7 days ago he was hit by car at night he escaped but he was next to my dad and I thought my dad brought him inside but he wondered to the side walked and was at a stop sign until a car hit him and the car decided to drag him him 10 feet
To loose a pet Is different. The pet was your spirit animal. Your angel on earth. Their whole world revolved around you. It’s just a different type of pain. I don’t feel like I’m on planet earth anymore. I feel like I’m somewhere in between. I need to be with my baby again.
That is so sad and heartbreaking. That has to be a very devastating thing to go through. I am sorry to hear your of your experience with your dog. The love and joy pets bring to a family and owners. Is at a whole other level . And I don’t think that void can ever be filled be a person.
I feel you 😢 about a month ago my dog got hit by a car. He died instantly. I have had dogs in my life forever, but I never lost a dog that way, there are times I can talk about it and not cry, but there’s times I can’t stop crying. I just want you to know reading your comment made me realize I am not alone. ❤🙏
I know what u mean dude I lost mine on Friday todo kidney failure one his kidney gave up on him I lost him Friday 2 nights I had too sleep with his sweater 😢 I still have his bed I can’t just throw it I’m keeping it 😢 till I’m ready too put it away he gave me good 13 years I just wish I could hug him one more time 😢😢 I no longer cry but my heart still can’t understand my feelings are different todo not him being here no more I can’t no longer smile
@Amy Miranda yes I definitely believe I will see my baby again. I will definitely be praying tonight and every night there after for her to visit me as much as she likes. How do you figure they know when their gonna leave us? I so believe they are of a higher beings than us. They definitely come with a purpose and because they already know they don't have to stay around long. 😭 sorry for tour loss as well. I have no plans of another one. She was a class act and another could ever compare!
@Amy Miranda yeah I had others and none of them were like her. This may sound crazy but I would lay my hand on her little body when she was younger and I would feel what I called love surges coming into my body from just touching her. I NEVER HAD THAT WITH THE OTHERS! I absolutely loved her like no other. I will check out those videos you speak of. 😊 thank you for your support and kind words. 🙏🏽
I just lost my Syrian this morning pretty early unexpectedly and I came across this video and saw your comment. This is how I’m feeling right now. I would give anything to hold her just one more time and make sure she knows how much I cared for her and how much I tried to make sure she had a good life..this pain hurts. The emotional pain is giving me physical pain and it’s so hard to not cry.
I'm sorry Rebel, I too have lost a mouse, more than one. They are incredibly sweet, innocent and all with distinct personalities. It hurts just as much to lose them as it does any other animal. It sounds like Carlos was much loved. 💛
Don't you ever let someone minimize your pain. A pet is a family member. It's ok to cry and feel pain. Death is natural, you gave your pet a great life and that's all you can do.
I just lost my dog. I can't imagine a life without him...my heart feels ripped out of my chest...its like I can't breathe. 2 years later, I still can't bear to look at his pictures, I still cry thinking about him. It gets better, but the pain of loss and the void he left behind , I don't think it will ever go away! To everyone who has lost their furry child, I hope u can somehow, somewhere find the strength to endure the pain! even today, I cannot look at another Labrador retriever, or pet one ...I just walk away! Cause the sight of one opens up the wounds !
I had to put my beautiful feline furbaby boy, Sir Biscuit, down this past Friday due to tumors in his bladder that we never knew about until it was too late...😥... He was only 4 years old, wayyy too young and wayyy too healthy to pass away. There are times when the grief and guilt hits me so damn hard in my chest, that it literally feels like I can't breathe... I will see him again at the #RainbowBridge 😭💔😭💔😭💔😭
@@enchantingempressoflight I think we have the same situation but my baby bunny died the day before we could get him to the hospital, it’s been 5months and I still bawl my eyes out. My friends are trying to help me by having me hold cats and kittens but I just cry
I just lost my 16 year old yesterday. Pain like no other. Cannot be explained or measured-it’s crushing. I m sorry for your loss. I hope u are feeling better these days🙏🏼🐾💕
I know the feeling, I won't have my husky boy much longer poor guy has cancer, but he's my best friend and fills such a void in my life, I don't know what I will do when he's gone myself, I really feel for anyone going through this, they say animals cross over to another place as well, I feel crying is part of healing, hope you heal soon 💔
My mum had to get the vet to put her dog down. I had known Clyde since I was a kid and when I first met him as puppy I had a special bond with this little jack russel dog. He passed away not long ago I was crying and I have been struggling to accept the fact that he is gone to heaven and that once he is gone that's it he won't come back but will be with me in spirit. My mum has another dog that's alive that was same colour as the dog that passed away and reminded me of him.
I lost my dog 3 days ago and I can’t stop crying. She is a part of my life. I can’t go on without her. I’m so sad. I totally miss her everyday. I imagine her in every corners of our house.
Sorry to hear this and it will be so raw at the moment. Everything will remind you of your dog. Please try and speak to others who have gone through the same thing. Sending love from the UK
I’m so sorry My baby boy binky Only 3 years old Fell off the balcony of my high rise apartment I feel like this is a nightmare I can’t wake up from My sweet angel never left me alone I was his everything and he was mine I lost my unborn baby last year And now I lost my other baby I feel so dead inside
When you lose a family member it usually results in collective grief, with many people grieving at the same time, but when it's a pet it's often a very personal and lonely grieving process. That's my experience anyway. My Father died and it was terrible, but my grief subsided over a short time, but when my dog passed at aged 15, the grief was just so powerful I couldn't shake it and it's because I was grieving alone.
I know what you mean, my dad died in 2020 and the grief was unbearable too but it was a different type of grief. My dad had helped raise me with my mum and he was in his 70s and enjoying his retirement with my mum. He died of dementia but had been happy listening to jazz music and surrounded by family until the end. My cat in contrast died quite suddenly and I expected our future to be together. We lived alone, she was scared of most other people so our bond was extremely unique and intense, we understood each other deeply. The pain is unbearable and I feel lost now wondering how to live my life without her. She helped me get through losing my father and other bereavements and difficult experiences. Now I face life without her support and joyful wonderful loving incredible presence and its just the worst feeling in the world. She was my main motivation for keeping going in life and now I feel lost.
@@katec9893 I hope it has gotten a bit better, my beloved cat died yesterday, aged 16. Exactly as you say, he was my anchor in life. He helped me overcome a separation, two family deaths and we moved twice together into better houses, the latest is abroad where we now lived since 3 years. What I had overlooked a bit was that when we got him he was 2, when we moved for the first time he was 7, and when we emigrated he was 13,which in cats years is quite a lot and not the easiest thing for them to do, I could imagine, as cats are even more clinging to the place they live instead of to the people there . But as he had mainly only me as friend and brother, we made it and lived three years through Covid and all that, in the sunshine, and had some great new times here. . New people, new sounds, views, experiences, an interesting change and a new life for me and him. I also wanted to have him for ten years more, if possible, as he had never ever had not even a scratch or a sneeze. But something in his lung started failing 2 weeks ago and he breathed more and more heavily and came closer and closer to me each day and night, which made me PANIC, as these are signals of a soon death, and when he finally hid in dark corners of the house, it was over for me almost. I knew he was dying and wanted to be alone, such noblesse was his: he didn't want to bother others with his suffering, I guess. Yesterday he had a sudden attack at mid day and I took him to the balcony into the sunshine, where he died ten minutes later after a few spasms and terrible cramps. I took him to the mountains that very afternoon and buried him in the most beautiful spot in the entire county. I did long walks for 2 days, during which my tears were falling into the grass... A life without him is something I hadn't planned for nor even thought about. My house seems so utterly dead now without him, it's a nightmare. I will now study everything I can find about signs from and the afterlife by our pets.
@@katec9893After losing my mom and losing my job after 23 years I was in a bad place and mentally and physically exhausted. Then I got my consolation prize. A 7 week old puppy that I adopted from the shelter. He was a cocker spaniel and retriever mix who blossomed into the most gorgeous dog I had ever seen. Day by day he grew into a beauty Inside and out. He made me forget my grief and my worries. I suddenly had a perpetual smile on my face because his joy was contagious. I lost him a month ago at 14. My consolation is gone. When I'm not crying I feel empty. I don't feel like me. So your grief is not unusual and you are not alone. Take comfort in knowing you will be reunited with your pet when God dries all tears.
I just lost my beloved cat yesterday in an accident and I’m in completely devastated i’ve never felt so sad and I have been crying all day. My cat helped me so much through major emotional changes.
The same happened to my baby boy cat . He was hit by a car 😓😓😓. He was not even 3 years old . I feel like my world has ended ... I can’t find sense of living at this point . All I want is have him back in my arms😢😢😢 Feel so guilty and depressed 💔💔💔 Sending You peace and strength🙏🙏
It has been almost a year I lost my Joey. The pain that I'm having just like the day I lost him. Did I try to forget him in order to move on? No, not really; cause I still love him so much.
I lost my horse yesterday and it’s so so hard. She’s been with me since I was a child and I miss her so much. She passed in my arms and very peacefully
I love horses! I had my horse 36 of her 40 years. Another 36 years still wouldn't have been enough. Your horse couldn't have lived without u though so it's good they led the way 2 the other side 💞🐴💞
I lost my cat yesterday and I know for a fact they both loved us. Animals are the only pure thing in this world & their love is a special feeling. I really feel like my last 2 cats are still around me
@diapricea4888 I really thought something was wrong with me. These two holidays..Just a bit much for me. I really try to enjoy them. I'm so sorry you and the people here in this comment section feel like I do. God bless you, and I pray for healing of all of us. ❤
my old pup passed away yesterday and my heart is completely torn. She’s been slowly declining for a while but she finally started getting better. She was prancing and eating and being her usual good girl self. She was my childhood dog, I grew up and learned the world with that sweet girl. She got super sick in 24 hours and passed very unexpectedly. i miss her so fucking much.
I lost my beautiful dog today after 14 years. I'm 18, we got him when I was 4 so he's been a huge part of my childhood and memories of growing up. I'm heart broken. He was so beautiful. I hope he's happy up there x
I'm 18 too! My cat was almost 11 and I cared for him a huge part of my childhood through. I miss him so much, I feel like I've failed him, I've lost so much, life seems unbearable without him...
I lost my dog today, and I feel so devastated. She was my companion, the one always by my side no matter what. I am not a sociable person, so I don't have friends to hang out with or spend time with. My full free time was dedicated to her and my other dogs. She was my first dog, the one I was not happy about my dad bringing home. He thought she would be a great companion for me because I've always been a loner. I was frightened by her tbh. I didn't wanted her at all, but somehow she kept following me everywhere. I was never mean to her, but I just felt annoyed by her following me around. All that following around paid out for her. I noticed that she wasn't an aggressive dog or harmful in any way, so I started to pay more attention to her and discover the great dog that she was. She became my best friend to the point that I probably have never talked to anyone as much as I talked to her. I would greed her good morning, good night, asked her if she was having a good day. She was 17 years old already. I knew this day was coming soon, but still, I can't helped but cry like a little baby for her lost😢😢😢😢
I lost my dog(Oso) 3 days ago and I feel so sad . I've been crying all these days. I think the hardest part is that he was my only friend and he's gone forever. 😭💔💔💔
I lost my dog last night....first dog pet...my husband adopted him as an older dog when we were dating. I wasn’t that crazy about the dog at first either Because he was soooo excitable. At some point we bonded and now I can’t stop crying over losing my little buddy
That's kinda how it was with mine. He was dropped in my lap by a friend and I was nervous about having a rescue pitbull. He was my first dog. It all worked out and my life has been centered around him bc I to am a loner. He was my best friend. Today I put him down and it's the worst feeling. Now mind you I've lost my mother, both sets of grandparents, aunts, friends and this heartbreak is alot different. I loved them but it was different. He got me through some dark times but also got to experience some epic moments in my life as well. His life was a gift to me and I'm so happy ppl like us get to experience that kind of love. Especially since we're not very social.
Hi my story is I was drinking myself to death lost all hope in life and one day this dog appeared a puppy he was alone had nobody just like me..he turned out to be a pitbull staff so I fed him made a bed he was unwanted we went on walks he loved people he had this lust for life and for me we had great fun I stopped drinking he tuck up so much of my time I found myself starting to feel happy again..that was 15 years ago now sadly my best friend deano that's his name passed away I miss him so much that puppy saved my life he lived to 12 years old I never drank again I have a lust for life..thank you deano my best friend
Wow! This is the second comment I read that gave me chills! What you're describing is exactly what I talk about in my Animal Lessons book. I LOVE LOVE how much you learned from Deano!
Thank you that's really nice of you to say..I have other dogs now and my life has never bin the same form that first day with deano...the dogs in my life are happy and I love them the same as deano...funny how a moment in time can change a person...
@@jazzyt1151 thank you that's really lovely of you to say...all I can say God has a plan for everyone it just wasn't my time to go...thank you again peace and love
Tony Chuter very true. It’s really amazing how these little angels can change us and like Danielle said they teach us unconditional love. I just lost my little fur baby recently. Loved him dearly he helped me after My fiancé and I had a miscarriage. Everyday that I was sad comforted me and gave me kisses.
@@surajitchatterjee5633 oh my friend I am sorry to hear this . It’s such sad news . Your little friend will be with you in spirit and know that your cat is playing so much with new friends over the rainbow bridge . I still cry at the loss of mine , only seeing her in my mind playing in the wind with her new friends and her sweet little face happy makes me feel some comfort . Blessings to you friend x
Kids don’t follow u every sec of every min of every day. Kids are close but it’s not the same. Dogs don’t get upset, judge, hold resentment they love u unconditionally regardless. Once u truly open ur heart to a dog It’s a bond stronger than u can ever have with any human. It’s impossible to have that kind of bond & relationship w/a human. I’m so sorry to say but it’s the truth. I just lost my yorkie, bean unexpectedly & I swear its killing me. He was 8. I’ve never felt this kind of pain- ever! I love u beanie boo, rip. 🥺😢😇😇🥰🥰
Completely agree, My cat Mittens passed only a few days ago. Mittens followed me everywhere. I worked from home for the past 2 years, she laid by my feet or sat on my lap all day when i worked. When i would go upstairs to eat or end my work day she would follow. If i left the house she would often wait for me with in ear shot of the door. When i went to bed and didnt let her sleep with me she would cry at the door. I had Mittens for 16 years and the bond i had with Mittens and my other cat Freckles that passed 6 years ago is 100% completely different from the relationship i have with my kids. I am sorry for your loss and hope you are hanging in there.
My sweet 7 year old cat passed this morning. I’m absolutely shattered and don’t know what to do with myself. It’s comforting reading everyone else’s stories, but I am devastated that my sweet girl isn’t here with me anymore. She was my baby and a little piece of my soul.
It’s been 4 months since my beloved dog died. The pain is hard to describe. Although my dear parents and other relatives have died, the grief I went through was nothing compared to what I’m going through now. He was my child. A child who loved me and looked up to me all his life.
I just had to put my 15 yr old dog to sleep. He was battling heart disease and recently diagnosed with bladder cancer. The pain I'm feeling is unbearable 💔 I don't know how to go on without him. He was with me 24/7 I keep replaying over and over that horrible day and question myself did I make a mistake. I just wish I could go back in time and get him back 😭 the grief and pain consumes me daily. I'm so lost without him.
I lost my 12 year old Toodles 3 days ago... Yep funny he was named that. The worst thing people say is oh he died old... That makes me feel like his death was acceptable. I don't cry incessantly, but tears just flow out at certain times during a day. My dad on the other hand is a lot more devastated... I think he was closer to him as he spent more time with him. One more thing is a lot of people have told me over the years that your dog is not really a dog... His eyes were different... His actions were different. People who were most afraid of dogs would get close to him after a couple of meetings. He was often called the gentleman. I was taking care of him for the last 4 weeks. Literally nursing care. I slept in the other room this particular night and the next day he was barking loudly... I checked on him but I was angry that he was barking unnecessarily. So I scolded him. Had a tea and a cig and went back to check on him to feed him... He was gone. People around me are now saying that he called me out one last time to see me before dying. He was quadriplegic so he couldn't walk. This is the extent of love and affection he had. Dogs are a whole new species which are unlike any other... Humans don't have what dogs have in abundance.
I just had to have my shih Tzu down. He was my little boy and I loved him so much it's breaking my heart he's gone. I think about him all day and all night. I'm having a hard time sleeping. Everything I look at in the house it makes me think of him. I've never had to do that before he was very sick I keep thinking that I do the right thing maybe I should have waited a little bit longer.
My cat, Mila, passed away yesterday. I haven’t cried so hard in so long. I’m so thankful for my time and relationship with her. I feel so alive with her passing and knowing that I am capable of love. ❤️
My baby girl just passed away in my lap last night and I’ve had her since I was 6. It’s truly heartbreaking, the grief of losing a dog is so painful but the joy they bring you is so worth it
i lost my cat last week and im so lost, ive had him since i was 7 and im into adulthood now and it feels so weird without him. so painful right now. rest in peace baby
@@milky5294 im so sorry for your loss, it took time for the pain to really hit me as well because i was just in shock at first. i hope time heals your wounds well and you know your baby loves you in life
I totally feel your pain right now. my cat died yesterday. I had my cat my entire life, even when I was just born. it’s so hard and weird to continue on without her. I wish you the best of luck
My puppy passed away in the middle of the night on Sunday after experiencing a seizure that her vet believes was caused by liver cancer. She was only 2 years old. I feel like my life is empty.
The reason it hurts so much and is hard to get over is because their love is so unconditional. They are completely devoted to us, unlike people can be. When we lose that it is like losing a huge part of your heart.
im so sorry. my cat theo passed 1 week back. I know your pain, i would give my right arm just to be with him for 1 more time. Im broken!, and its so quiet in our house. I am so so broken! 😥😥😥😥
I can't stop crying. My cat of 11 years had to be put down yesterday as she was so ill. The last ten days she became so ill and could not fight the cat flu and may have had other conditions too. I am distraught completely. I miss her so much. She is everywhere, I have memories of her in the last few days everywhere.
Lost my darling boy on Dec 3rd each day since is a heart aching struggle..I have to believe he is still around me I cant deal with this any other way, never felt such grief I've lost loved ones and grieved for them too but this loss hurts like nothing else ...I feel your pain take care of yourself xx
No he is not alone....please watch some videos of near death experience and what happens to our souls and theirs (our beloved pets) when we all cross over, the love and comfort experienced on the other side is something too look forward to. This gives me great comfort even though my grief is still strong xx
My dog died 2 days ago by a car accident. The worse part of this is that i looked for him in the wrong places. I haven’t even get the chance to save him but i saw her body and burried him near our home. I hope he isn’t alone right now
I am so sorry for the loss everyone on this thread. I just lost my dog Benji yesterday morning. He was with me for 12 years. Its been so heartbreaking and painful that i wasnt there in his final moments by his side as i was waiting for him outside the hospital. The guilt and horrific image i have of him suffering alone or missing me right then is killing me. I cant explain the void i feel. It was so sudden i thought he was coming home. I dont know how i will get thru this but i know hes no longer suffering anymore and that he wanted so much to stay w us longer but couldnt anymore. The pain i feel is unbearable. Thank u so much for this video.
Don't feel guilty, your Benji knew you were trying to help as best as you could. My little maltese girl named Candy was right in my lap when she passed and the pain isn't any less nor is the guilt.
There is an old saying: the more people I know, the more I like my dog/cat. This is for a reason. People’s relations are very complicated, but not to your pet. The only thing they do is loving you unconditionally. My cat passed away today, I was so said. I cried all day.
We put our baby girl to sleep tonight. It was very tough and we cried so much before and after. But I feel like it was a humane way to end the pain. Rest In Peace my best friend
This is happening with me right now .. I lost my beloved cat about 8 months ago and I still cry .. I still feel so much grief, I miss her so much. I miss her sleeping next to me and her purr, her eyes.
I lost my dog today and the pain I’m feeling is immeasurable. The thought of his absence in my world hurts beyond words. I know I’ll never stop missing him 😞
I lost my doggy today He got hit by a car , I hate seeing die so soon ,he was still young I miss u junior , Rest In Peace 🖤 I’m crying while writing this.
My dog got ran over yesterday, I kept yelling for her to get up but she just laid there. I’m not handling it all and I just can’t do anything without her. She was my only friend.
@@owenguerrero8992 still not good, I still have her collar and it’s hard moving on without her. She was my only safety and so it’s like trying to figure out how to be happy without her.
@@honeymallow2184 i won’t tell you that it’s gonna get better but let me just tell you that you are not alone, it has happened more then a week ago nos and the first few days i couldn’t stop thinking B it 24/7 so i would just cry all day, eventually i couldn’t take it anymore so i started taking lots of xanax and now i’m living like a zombie, absolutely no thoughts but at least i can move on a littlest
I had that one in a million angel dog. I always loved a dog but Savannah was like a child very connected to my heart and brain. We read each other. No other dog can replace her I will get a dog again one day and hope she helps me find the right animal. We had a soul connection. She passed away 16 months ago. At night sometimes I see her laying in the doorway of my bedroom I see her it's her spirit.
Ah, then this might be a good technique for you to try. I'm sorry for your loss Tina. I hope this helps! Remember to give it time (it could take a full month to get to 2 feet!). Sending you love
Danielle I feel ur pain I lost my cat December 30 2019im still crying every day I'm so sorry for your lost hope we will meet our pets again sorry for ur lost again
I lost my dog Moose in a tragic accident 3 months ago. I have been having such a hard time moving through the grief. This hit home with me because he was literally my shadow for 4 years almost always in my lap. And loosing him is by far been the biggest heart break of my life. I've heard people say they get messages, but I haven't had that. It has honestly made me so sad. This makes so much sense. He always took care of me. He was my best friend and the greatest protector. I was out of town when he passed. He was hit by a car. I just have so much anger and guilt.
I can understand that feeling totally. When you have loved a pet that was so special, after their death life seems to make no sense anymore. No kidding. We listened to music together, ate together, slept together, what shall I say....
I feel like my bunny who passed away last week is attached to my chest. I remember telling my mom the other day that I can feel him in my heart. The grief is not any easier but it has not been that long yet. Well... a bit easier, I am not crying all of the time anymore.
Lindsay, I'm so sorry that you're experiencing this. It sounds to me like you're experiencing normal grief (which is SOOOOO hard). Sending you and your bunny love
Lindsay I told my sister the same thing just last week! My rabbit passed 2 months ago and I told my sister that I feel like she's attached to my chest and that I can feel her in my heart. It's incredible to see someone describe how I feel. I'm still in tears by the end of the day because I miss her so much! 💛
Sameena Shah hi! So nice to hear you feel the same. It’s been almost four months since my bunny has passed away and around a month ago I started to receive white feathers almost every day! I also started to see angel silhouettes on my walls and I’ve seen orbs and sometimes the angels will come up in-front of my face and I can see a heat wave (their energy) I believe it’s the angels who have left me the feathers, the one time it sounded like a hummingbird when it flew up and dropped it off in-front of me. I can’t believe all of this has happened since my bunny passed away. I truly believe the angels want me to know he’s okay and I believe our rabbits are with us still. The more you talk to them the more they’ll come through and give you signs. A few weeks before I received the feathers I asked my angels to give me a feather so I know he’s okay... and they delivered! I’ve gotten the messages from the angels that he’s happy and loves me and waiting for me in heaven ♥️ they also say “stay close to God.” Another cool thing is I received a rainbow cloud out my window before the feathers started to appear! I was even able to get a picture of it. Keep talking to your bunny, they hear us!
Lindsay B Lindsay thats amazing!! I can't believe how similar your experiences sound just like the ones I've encountered within the last month! One morning I found a white and light brown feather in my bed. It's the exact color of my rabbit Princess. I looked all around my room to see where it could've came from. Nothing.. Then last week on the night of the full moon I saw a white orb sitting right outside of my window. I showed my mom the video and she was also amazed! It's been hard to wrap my mind around these things but your message just confirms it all! Also, the night or two after Princess passed I saw her energy racing into my room as she usually did. I hope to receive more. 🙏🏼 Thankyou!!
Sameena Shah oh my goodness! That’s amazing! I can’t believe you’re experiencing similar things. I didn’t expect you to say so many similar things have happened to you. I hope we both keep getting messages ♥️
My Pup Pup Passed away this morning at 6:10 am,July 15th I was with her till her last breath It was so unexpected The day before she was a happy go lucky dog I will always love you Pup Pup thank You for being my best friend You will always be in my heart and mind. I will see you again one day honey till then....
@@beigehues It has been 20 days since And I cant get my mind off of her Im always thinking about her But I am doing better But at first I didnt want to eat or do anything It hurts Just push through
My puppy died after my mom accidentally hit him while driving I was so devastated he made us really happy and every day since his death I’ve writes down the days since her death I wish he was here he brought my family back together I hope I see him one day and please stay strong ik it hurt
I just lost my baby girl yesterday and it comforts me that ppl here understand the pain i’m feeling rn. I’m losing my mind, i miss her. I don’t know what to do with my life without her
I lost my 14 year old Scottish terrier to cancer last month, I knew the day was coming but wasn’t expecting it so soon. We were told the year before that he would only have a few months to live (if that) and he lived a whole year after that diagnosis. I had got him as a gift from my parents at the age of three years old and I’m so heartbroken, he was my best friend through thick and thin, always. I was hoping for another Christmas with him, but he was needed more on the other side of the rainbow. 🤍 I feel that the ache and pain in my heart will always remain, i had went to bed early the night before he had passed. If I would’ve known that when I woke up I would only have 5 hours left with him, I would’ve stayed up all night and held and let him know how much I loved him. Pepper, thank you for making my life so wonderful. I can’t wait to reunite with you someday. I know that grandma, grandpa, and cousin mike will be by your side till that day comes. 🤍 Rip Pepper. My sweet boy. Sept 2008 - Oct 2021 🐾❤️🐾❤️🐾❤️🐾
My dog died a horrible death...It's been 6 years and I'm still distant with every dog because if I get too close I burst into tears and people find it weird. I'll never have another dog even though I love them so much. I can't lose another one.
My beautiful baby was put down tonight. He was my childhood cat of 9 years and helped me and my family so so much after my dad passed away. I can’t believe you can lose such a precious life so suddenly. I love him so much and will always miss his sweet face and presence
This is so true! I grieved the passing of a cat for 15 yrs. I finally sat down. And just told him it's time to be free and he left. I hvnt cried since. I put down a cat 6 months ago. I. Cried every day for 5 months. I contacted him and with regard to the euthanasia he said, thank you for setting me free. I still think of him daily but the grief is finally gone. I will subscribe and watch yr other videos. You are the real deal. Thank you.
I don't wanna lose my grief, my pain doesn't matter, but his existence must remain fresh in my consciousness. I would have died to save my cat, if it was promising. I am loyal to him and this loyalty is eternal.
My dog of 15 years just passed away Tuesday. She was my one of a kind fur love child. I feel I've been led to your page for a reason. I feel comforted listening to your experiences and advice.
I lost my little rat terrier last Thursday. He was 13. Had him since he was six months old. I have never felt this alone. My wife tries, but she was never a pet owner before I came along, she had one dog and some outside cats but that was really about it. She loved our dog, but he was really more animal than anyone else's. I've gotten a few little signs here and there but I still horrible. Tuff was my best friend. Slept with me everyday, hung out with me. I have alot of stress in my life and he was sort of my service dog. I've had animals pass away before, but this one is really hurting. I just want a sign hes ok now.
I know the feeling all too well. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve gone through so many emotions of grief already. Dealing with my brother’s insensitive comments and it hurts.
My job only let me miss a few days. The day before yesterday we had to put my beloved kitty down. I'm on my way to work now unable to keep the tears in and I just want to be home under the covers crying through it. This is the worst and I am so sorry for everyone going through this. Sending you all so much love. ❤
On January 16th I said goodbye to my greatest love, Henry. He was my rock through periods of loneliness, and from multiple moves, broken hearts, and many nights home alone. He wasn’t just faithful and loving to me, but he also extended his faithfulness and love to everyone in my life when they all entered his life. After his third seizure I realized Henry wasn’t completely “there” anymore, I had to make the hard decision of letting him continue to live like this or put him down. It was one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make. I can only hope Henry had an amazing life, and that he knew how much I cherished and loved him. I'm so lucky Henry got to spend so much time travelling and making precious memories with me. Thank you everyone who loved Henry as much as he loved you. Rest In Peace my sweet boy. You deserve it. 💙 I miss you so much already 💙 My heart is broken in a million pieces
I think the major part of my grief was the guilt I felt over my having to have him put to sleep. That was the worst thing ever, though I swear he SMILED the exact moment he passed! I will love you forever my sweet Porky Pug... ❤🐶❤
I lost my little guy (cat) yesterday. I’m having a really hard time with it, like we all are. It was just the two of us for such a long time and now it’s just me and I feel so lost. I’m glad this video was here, and I’m grateful for everyone who came before me and told their story in the comments because reading them is helping me feel less alone. Thank you for this video.
My dog of 18 years passed yesterday. I knew it was coming but the associated loss was more than I anticipated. I feel like I lost my own child in a way. I pray for closure, healing, and faith that I will be a better person because of this loss even though the tears just on coming.
My 17 year old dog passed away a little over a week ago, had him since I was a small child...he seen me getting married and was able to meet my children... so this has been a very hard time for me. I'm so glad I found your channel, now I truly feel that I'm grieving in the right way and will be able to receive signs from him soon. Thank you!!! ❤️🌈🐾
Oh I got chills when I read this @Mrs.N! I'm so sorry for your loss, but I love your outlook. Come back and share the signs when you can. Sending you love and light
@@DanielleMacKinnon My husband and Father immediately received a sign after his passing in a short dream, now after getting off the phone with my soul sister today... She told me she had a dream last night about him and she told me he looked like he did as a puppy ( he had skin issues his whole adult life) so she believes he is now "restored" and very happy where he is based on his happy squinting doggy eyes he had. During her dream she picked him up and she naturally felt he was walking to me . I'm laughing because I think he's taking his sweet time visiting everyone else, like he always did, just to say "'Mom', I'm okay...you need to stop worrying about me, I'm waiting for you." I'm planning on taking your classes, can't thank you enough ❤️ This has been life changing on so many levels ✨
This is my story too. My dog passed away last night. He was my best friend. He was my ESA went through the loss of my husband with me, going to the army, the birth of two children, and a remarriage with me. I can’t breath without him. But, he was peeing blood and was in so so much pain. I feel so guilty but, he lived an amazing 15.5 years and I’m so happy he experienced life with me. But, I don’t know how to cope with life without him... because he was my coping skill. Cuddling him, kissing him, that was my coping skill. He was my first true love, my first best friend, my only sibling, and my only child until I had my boys.
@@TheAgilani11 I understand and hope some grief has lessened. I lost my esa and my best friend of almost 17 yrs yesterday. I haven't ate,drank or slept in 2 full days. I am shattered and broken.
Danny Mercedes I’m very sorry 😞I just lost my baby girl pug 1 month ago, it’s been so hard 😭😭 your dog IS in heaven rainbow 🌈 bridge 🐾 they both are . 💕
My 7 year old German Shepard passed away when we had to put her down due to cancer 3 days ago. This video along with her other helped me quite a lot because it showed me that I shouldn’t be guilty for the things I didn’t do but be proud of what I did do. I just want to say thank you for all the help
It's been almost 2 yrs. since my 14 yr old dog passed but it still feels like yesterday. I had bugzy since the day he was born because we had his mother. He was with me during my divorce and with me while my 4 kids grew up and out. He was older than any of my grandkid's. I feel so blessed to have had him. He truly was my best friend. He was the gentlest 85lb pit bull you ever came across. My big baby who would cry from the moment I walked out the door until I walked in. The last 2 yrs of his life he couldn't digest dog food so I cooked his meals. One day I was watching him sleep and I thought to myself I am going to have to let him go soon, he picked his sleeping head up, looked right at me like he heard my thought and within 48 hours he was near death. My son called the vet and made the arrangements. I couldn't take him because I couldn't bear what was happening. My son took bugzy and stayed with him till he passed. Bugzy was also very close with my son. I can't think about him, look at a picture of him without breaking down. I haven't connected with him since he passed and I know it's possible because we lost a dog when my kids were younger and we heard him and felt him for 3 days after he passed. I think of him somewhere crying and howling for me like he did when I would go somewhere. I always considered myself a strong and independent person but since bugzy has been gone I have realized all my strength came from him. I have never felt lonely in all my 56 yrs until bugzy passed. If I can connect with him and know he is okay then I will be okay. I will try this.
Having a hospice vet come in a few days to relieve my fur baby of 18 years of his pain. I never knew I was capable of feeling this kind of pain. It’s unbelievably gut wrenching. I feel a small part of me is dying with him. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone with these kinds of feelings. Our pets are our family members. Sometimes even better than the ones we share blood with.
My cat died 2 days ago from a cardiac arrest. It was so devastating to hear. It was so sudden and unexpected. He was a happy healthy cat. Just thinking about him makes me cry. I had such a deep connection with him.
I lost my dog yesterday😭😭😭 he was like a child to me. I just want to sleep all day long hoping that I could see him even just in my dreams. My heart is still in pain. It's hard for me to move on coz everything I do, reminds me of him😭😭😭 I miss you so much, Rocco💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭
Danielle, how I am feeling after losing my buddy Marius (companion cat) is just as you described how you felt when you lost your dog. The grief, guilt and missing him are huge.
My wife and I lost our dog Charlie 3 days ago. Almost 6 years to the day after he came into our lives. I knew I would be hurt when his time came but I was not prepared for just how bad I would feel. I cry. I move on for a bit but can't get him out of my thoughts, so I cry some more. A vicious cycle. Seeing all of your comments and stories helps some. Thank all of you for sharing and for listening.😢😥
My dog passed away a year ago and I still sob uncontrollably every night..she showed up in my dream letting me know she's everywhere. But I can't feel her most of time...so I am just sad missing her and crying so much when I think about her and I think about her every day...Maybe she lives in my heart, my heart trembles so much when I think about her. I don't have a courage to ask her for a separation.
I don’t think you need to ask for a separation yet, I don’t think a year is an unreasonable amount of time to still be grieving. I helped both my dogs transition a year ago today (they were both very ill) so I find myself a total mess today reaching out for connection & helping through TH-cam! I think this video is talking about if it’s been several years. I feel like I see my dogs all the time so I think they are in a good place, I’m just having a hard day w/ it’s being the 1st anniversary- sorry for the rambling
My cat got put down 4 days ago now, he was my everything. I had a dream last night that he was still alive I woke up this morning and realised he was actually gone 😭
I’m so happy I found your channel. I feel so so so guilty. My pup chiquis passed last night. He was my SA for 15 years. He went through so much with me. A medical discharge, the loss of a husband, the loss of my best friend, the birth of two children, a new marriage, miscarriages, and has been my rock through everything. He was my coping skill and rock throughout life and now I feel lost without him. I miss his smile and his stinky breath and smell. I can feel a pit in my stomach and I have no idea what to do to fill it. I’ve lost a husband and a friend and as horrible as it sounds losing my Service animal hurts a lot more. He literally saved my life everyday of his life.
Your dog will always ALWAYS be with your in spirit. He gave you his all his every second of his life till he left. You were the best mother he could ever dream of having. Think that now you have sent off your child well safe and without any more pain from this world. And you will join him there one day he will play there and be strong csuse he knows you will go to him again. You have saved him. Live now get another sibling for him and tell that dog about his/ her elder brother. And love again. Sending you so much love. My dog has kidney failure and im going to lose him soon. And this thoughts is what is helping me.
Man, that is one incredible head of hair! Gorgeous! I'll tell you why it's easier to grieve people, because they're often annoying af. My cat never annoyed me, even if she woke me up, she was so damn cute, I never could be annoyed. No human was 100% joy for me like she was.
I lost my baby max a couple days ago. It’s been the hardest thing I’ve ever dealt with he was like my best friend. I’ve had him since I was 10 and I’m 21 now so we basically grew up together. The connection I had with that dog was crazy he was like an angel sent to me from heaven. it really is such a painful thing to go through. sending love to anyone that has lost a pet.
I recently put my 9 year old cat down, on September 21st. She was my baby and my best friend.. it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life but I’m glad she’s no longer in pain. I could no longer watch her suffer.. I miss you Tegan, Rest In Peace my sweet girl. I love you, forever and always 🤍❤️
I had to put two down last year due to kidney and cancer...father and son. Another son just passed right after Christmas. I feel so devastated because he became ill, had to have surgery and passed away a few hours after surgery. I didn't have a chance to say goodbye to him. My heart is still so heavy, and I feel so much guilt about his death. I am so sad. I take care of his mom and sister. I have also been taking care of my son's cat who is deployed overseas. I am trying to be happy around them because they are also sad too. He wasn't a lap dog, but he was always close by me and followed me all over the house.
I love that you consider them part of family, just like I do. I'm so sorry for your loss @BlueRose. Remember though -animals feel our emotions (we can't hide from them!). You may have an easier time if you're transparent about how you're feeling. Sending you love and light
Blue Rose so sorry for your loss I am going through the same thing with the passing of my dog. The pain is so hard, he was with me 24 hrs a day & was my best friend. Miss him dearly 🙏🏼
My dog Mooey died yesterday. My eyes are filled with tears I can’t stop crying. She was so unique. I haven’t ever seen a single dog like her before. We named her mooey because she had black spots like a cow. It’s a weird name but it fits her so well. It was so hard today having it be my first day without her and I feel like she took a piece of me with her. I can’t stop crying. She has been with me almost my whole life. We had to put her down because she had 3 big tumors and it was spreading. She had trouble breathing too. I feel like we could have saved her but since the tumor was spreading there wasn’t a way to stop it. If she wasn’t so old we would have gave her medication or steroids or anything to keep her alive at least a day longer. I feel like I could have stopped this but I felt in my gut it was the right thing to do. I just can’t bare the thought of not having her anymore. I can’t even go 16 hours without her how am I supposed to go the rest of my life without her? I’ve just been crying in my bed nonstop hugging her stuffed animal we got her. It smells like her and i love it and hate it at the same time. My life will never be the same again. I feel like my house is empty without her. She would always wag and her tail would hit on the walls. Her nails would clip clop around. She was always so happy no matter what. In her last breaths she put her paw on me to make me feel better. But the only way she can make me feel better is if she felt better too. I love you Mooey you have served me good these years. Please don’t forget about me I will never forget about you. Fly high my sweet girl ❤🕊️🐾 I’ll see you again some day.
Virtually any grief I’ve experienced is with me almost always with me as fresh as the day I experienced the loss, be it person or furbaby. I probably cry once a week over grief.
Same Danielle, May 12th 2020, we had to put are dog now, she was my favorite dog, I can't stop crying all the time, everything reminds me of her.. I just want her back so badly..
I feel ya, I just lost my little girl. She was 15 and I adopted her when she was 10 so she spent her twilight years being loved and spoiled. It literally just happened last night as she just laid on her side and moved on in a matter of seconds, the vet said she had cancer and wouldn't survive too long. It's been killing me inside watching all the places she would hang around in and seeing them empty so my wife and I have been really struggling to get adjusted to the empty feeling in our home.
My little black cat Peter passed, with my vet's kind help in my home, on February 25, 2022 just shy of his ~15th birthday. I adopted him at 6 y.o. through my vet who was fostering him after his guardian Mom had died. Unlike with Michael and Jennie before him, I have not had the ear of a good-listener type of friend to "speak through" my grief and I think that is why I'm still crying frequently, thinking about him always, and having a hard time thinking about adopting again. Also little Peter and I were *very* attached to each other (I'm Abolitionist vegan and retired, living alone and always had him in my thoughts if I had to go out grocery shopping, etc). He was always *very* gentle and by my side or on my lap night and day. MY QUESTION: I have tried to tell him since his passing that my heart is broken without him and I'm so sorry that I could not cure him in the end. And because I am still worried that he may feel that I have "abandoned" him, I have told him that *if he wants*, I would love to have him stay in my emotional heart forever. But I follow that with if he is content wherever he is, that is ok with me too and he should just be assured that I will hold his memory in my heart always. Do you think I am causing him to stay and not fulfill his spiritual path? I would not want to cause him any interference.
As Dr. Sarah Hoggan said "Grief is a natural price we pay for loving". I miss my Bailey who passed in our home on 06/17/23, RIP my love, Daddy misses you so much.
My dog is dying of cancer. The diagnosis three weeks ago was a real shock and surprise to us. She probably only has a few weeks to live, and she's only 11 and a small breed. I'm going through the stages of grief, but they don't end, the keep repeating themselves. I'm in denial, the next day I'm accepting it, the very next day I'm crying my eyes out again, then I'm angry, and then back to denial, and so on and so on. I can't imagine what it'll be like without her. She was a full member of our family. We all love her so dearly, especially my dad, who didn't want her in the beginning. We used to eat dinner together while she was sitting on the couch, trying to get a view of the table, and then one of us would start looking at her and just laugh because she was being so cute, and soon the rest if the family would start laughing and teasing her a bit too for being so adorable. And then we'd talk about her and share stories of when she was silly and did something funny. She's such a solid part of our lives that we never thought about her leaving us. I miss her although she's not gone yet. I don't know how I'll get through when she will be.
I lost my 12 yr old baby on Tuesday. I am devastated. I have been sobbing for him. My chest feels like it has a gaping hole. I have no idea how to live with out him. Sigfrid (my kitty who has passed) led me to your videos. Your videos have brought me so comfort. I can’t thank you enough. 9:40
At what point in time should we think about applying this practice? How long should we allow ourselves to naturally grieve before trying this?
Such a good question. It's going to be different for everyone - if you feel like you just aren't moving through the grieving process, that would be a good time to try it. I'm sorry for your loss
Please, I need someone to come and read my cat has passed away and I need to know if she’s okay
@@pokemasterlol1945I pray you have had your answer 👋💚👍
@@pokemasterlol1945 Your message kicked me in the gut. I feel the same way, my Baby, 23 year old kitty, had to euthanize 2 days ago. I wanna die.....it's killing me. If i just knew She was okay i would feel so much better. I don't wanna "Believe" ....i need to "Know". I pray you were able to make contact with your baby.
You will see the sign within 51 days of your pets passing. You will see the signals by other animals or by finding a lost pet. A person or stranger might also be a sign if they say something to you that only you two knew about. Or if some one you don't know talks to you about their pet. It may be any type of pet.
whoever is dealing with a pet loss right now,
i’m so incredibly sorry! i know how you’re feeling, thinking of you all❤️
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Thank you xxx it is so heartbreaking 💔
thank you, my cat (13) has been arounf for my life (i'm ten) she had too get put down...
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Thank you for that.
Thank you.
I have a theory... I feel like the reason why losing a pet is SO hard is because it's (somewhat) similar to losing a child. There's a reason we call them "furbabies". Unlike losing a relative (like an uncle or cousin, I mean) who are bound to us by blood, a pet is bound to us by an extremely strong parent-child connection. They say one of the worst things to experience is burying your child, and that no parent should ever bury their baby. Although they are not connected to us by blood, they, in a way, are our foster babies. And that's one reason why losing a pet is so gut-wrenchingly heartbreaking.
This is exactly what people who don’t understand need to understand. Beautifully put. That helped me a lot with what I’m feeling and why. Thank you for this ♥️
What you said makes so much sense...we just lost our beloved cat today and the pain & emptiness is so strong...thank you.
@@noelnatividad1933 I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby and what you must be feeling... :( It won't be easy for a long time... What helps me with my pain (when losing a furry loved one) is that I try to remember they are in a better, more peaceful place where they will always be happy and never suffer again. They can have as many of their favorite treats as they want and feel happy forever... And it makes me feel so happy that they are happy. I'm not sure what you believe, but I believe you will see your baby again someday, and he/she will be SO happy to see you again when you do! :) And you will both live eternally, forever happy and forever together
@alex 3800 mi poteruali svoju docku 17 tova oktebria 💔 mne tabletki toze nepamagajut, kazdij den plachiu I moliu shtob ona vernulas v liubom obraze. Jest kompanija katoraja delaet almazi is pepla ili valos vasheva pitomca, eta nediosheva no chot kakto ona budet vsegda samnoj♥️
@alex 3800 jesli ona verniotsa ja eta pochiustvuju ona dast znak, nichevo nesluchiaetsa prosta tak (dumaja tak mne legche zit ♥️)
I just lost my dog yesterday. My heart aches in pain I miss him so so much. I sleep with his collar. I cry nonstop. He was my best friend I needed him so much more than he needed me. We did everything together .
Melissa same 😭 it’s just too much pain and I’m still a pretty much a child I found an old stuffed animal I got years ago around me and his birthday it has the same Mohawk he had his necklaces and leash he wore to the vet is even on the stuffed animal rip 10/6/2020 worst year of all,
Same I lost my Lhasa apso on September 22nd and I'm just absolutely heartbroken. She was 16 I got her for my 18th and we were together for that whole time. I can't stop crying I'm so lost and lonely with out her. Sending love and hugs to you 💛
@@missloublou4628 hugs 🤗 🥰
I just lost mine today...I understand this feeling. It's terrible. My condolences to you...sorry for your loss and I hope you're feeling a little better by now. 💜
Dude I feel sorry I just lost my dog 7 days ago he was hit by car at night he escaped but he was next to my dad and I thought my dad brought him inside but he wondered to the side walked and was at a stop sign until a car hit him and the car decided to drag him him 10 feet
To loose a pet
Is different.
The pet was your spirit animal.
Your angel on earth.
Their whole world revolved around you.
It’s just a different type of pain.
I don’t feel like I’m on planet earth anymore.
I feel like I’m somewhere in between.
I need to be with my baby again.
Yes. My heart is completely broken right now too.
@@DigitalDuelistI’m so sorry for your loss. I just put my 16 year old dog down. I’m beyond devastated.
That is so sad and heartbreaking. That has to be a very devastating thing to go through. I am sorry to hear your of your experience with your dog. The love and joy pets bring to a family and owners. Is at a whole other level . And I don’t think that void can ever be filled be a person.
I feel you 😢 about a month ago my dog got hit by a car. He died instantly. I have had dogs in my life forever, but I never lost a dog that way, there are times I can talk about it and not cry, but there’s times I can’t stop crying. I just want you to know reading your comment made me realize I am not alone. ❤🙏
I know what u mean dude I lost mine on Friday todo kidney failure one his kidney gave up on him I lost him Friday 2 nights I had too sleep with his sweater 😢 I still have his bed I can’t just throw it I’m keeping it 😢 till I’m ready too put it away he gave me good 13 years I just wish I could hug him one more time 😢😢 I no longer cry but my heart still can’t understand my feelings are different todo not him being here no more I can’t no longer smile
The pain is making me physically sick. My dog died four days ago. Unbearable strong pain. No one can replace her.
Mine just died 5 days ago and I have knots in my stomach. I pray this feeling goes away
@Amy Miranda I've been praying to see her in my dreams. Just need some kind of confirmation she knew I was there when she was passing. 😭😭😭😭
@@AmyMirandaBeauty thank you for this beautiful advice. I'd do anything to hold and talk with her one last time
@Amy Miranda yes I definitely believe I will see my baby again. I will definitely be praying tonight and every night there after for her to visit me as much as she likes. How do you figure they know when their gonna leave us? I so believe they are of a higher beings than us. They definitely come with a purpose and because they already know they don't have to stay around long. 😭 sorry for tour loss as well. I have no plans of another one. She was a class act and another could ever compare!
@Amy Miranda yeah I had others and none of them were like her. This may sound crazy but I would lay my hand on her little body when she was younger and I would feel what I called love surges coming into my body from just touching her. I NEVER HAD THAT WITH THE OTHERS! I absolutely loved her like no other. I will check out those videos you speak of. 😊 thank you for your support and kind words. 🙏🏽
I just want to see him and feel him with me one more time 💔 it’s unbearable
Amen to that!
I feel exactly the same. Desperately looking for ways to communicate with him, to hug him and see him even if it is in dreams.
I'm so sorry. Have you received your sign yet?
Im so crushed I wanted him to forgive me..and tell me in my dream that he forgive me...My baby.. he is such a good boy..
I just lost my Syrian this morning pretty early unexpectedly and I came across this video and saw your comment. This is how I’m feeling right now. I would give anything to hold her just one more time and make sure she knows how much I cared for her and how much I tried to make sure she had a good life..this pain hurts. The emotional pain is giving me physical pain and it’s so hard to not cry.
My mouse died today. I’m still in shock. He was the most amazing and beautiful hearted mouse I’ve ever met. His name was Carlos
I'm sorry Rebel, I too have lost a mouse, more than one. They are incredibly sweet, innocent and all with distinct personalities. It hurts just as much to lose them as it does any other animal. It sounds like Carlos was much loved. 💛
michelle rodriguez bruh I rlly hope this is a joke 💀
TCL ..and what about it I had a dog to die the same day I made that comment 😒
I lost my bird Peter.I miss him.
🐁⚘💗
Don't you ever let someone minimize your pain. A pet is a family member. It's ok to cry and feel pain. Death is natural, you gave your pet a great life and that's all you can do.
I wish our pets could live longer lives
It's so hard because it's pure unconditional love we received from our animal ❤️
I just lost my dog. I can't imagine a life without him...my heart feels ripped out of my chest...its like I can't breathe. 2 years later, I still can't bear to look at his pictures, I still cry thinking about him. It gets better, but the pain of loss and the void he left behind , I don't think it will ever go away! To everyone who has lost their furry child, I hope u can somehow, somewhere find the strength to endure the pain! even today, I cannot look at another Labrador retriever, or pet one ...I just walk away! Cause the sight of one opens up the wounds !
I had to put my beautiful feline furbaby boy, Sir Biscuit, down this past Friday due to tumors in his bladder that we never knew about until it was too late...😥... He was only 4 years old, wayyy too young and wayyy too healthy to pass away. There are times when the grief and guilt hits me so damn hard in my chest, that it literally feels like I can't breathe... I will see him again at the #RainbowBridge 😭💔😭💔😭💔😭
@@enchantingempressoflight I think we have the same situation but my baby bunny died the day before we could get him to the hospital, it’s been 5months and I still bawl my eyes out. My friends are trying to help me by having me hold cats and kittens but I just cry
I lost mine today. She was my entire world. Sending love.
I just lost my 16 year old yesterday. Pain like no other. Cannot be explained or measured-it’s crushing. I m sorry for your loss. I hope u are feeling better these days🙏🏼🐾💕
I know the feeling, I won't have my husky boy much longer poor guy has cancer, but he's my best friend and fills such a void in my life, I don't know what I will do when he's gone myself, I really feel for anyone going through this, they say animals cross over to another place as well, I feel crying is part of healing, hope you heal soon 💔
I don’t even want to say anything because I’m crying
I lost my cat yesterday at the age of 20
@LukeAndGamez 434 same here. My thoughts are with you. I'm so sorry for you loss.
Same here. My cat was only one year and eight months.
She died because of poisoned food.
I feel so sad.
I lost my boy this morning. My grief is unbearable
My mum had to get the vet to put her dog down. I had known Clyde since I was a kid and when I first met him as puppy I had a special bond with this little jack russel dog. He passed away not long ago I was crying and I have been struggling to accept the fact that he is gone to heaven and that once he is gone that's it he won't come back but will be with me in spirit. My mum has another dog that's alive that was same colour as the dog that passed away and reminded me of him.
I feel like it's way easier to lose a relative than a pet.
Not really it's the same for me.
It’s because they never judge you and the always love you unconditionally.
I totally agree with you 👍
@@kayleeanastasi3704 Absolutely
Yeah
I lost my dog 3 days ago and I can’t stop crying. She is a part of my life. I can’t go on without her. I’m so sad. I totally miss her everyday. I imagine her in every corners of our house.
Sorry to hear this and it will be so raw at the moment. Everything will remind you of your dog. Please try and speak to others who have gone through the same thing. Sending love from the UK
I’m so sorry
My baby boy binky
Only 3 years old
Fell off the balcony of my high rise apartment
I feel like this is a nightmare I can’t wake up from
My sweet angel never left me alone
I was his everything and he was mine
I lost my unborn baby last year
And now I lost my other baby
I feel so dead inside
@@Xoyaga ♥️ I’m on Day 9 since my dog passed and also grieving, I’m so sorry for your loss also
@@XoyagaI’m so sorry for all of your loss.
@@stephaniepittaluga5057 ❤️❤️❤️
When you lose a family member it usually results in collective grief, with many people grieving at the same time, but when it's a pet it's often a very personal and lonely grieving process. That's my experience anyway. My Father died and it was terrible, but my grief subsided over a short time, but when my dog passed at aged 15, the grief was just so powerful I couldn't shake it and it's because I was grieving alone.
I know what you mean, my dad died in 2020 and the grief was unbearable too but it was a different type of grief. My dad had helped raise me with my mum and he was in his 70s and enjoying his retirement with my mum. He died of dementia but had been happy listening to jazz music and surrounded by family until the end. My cat in contrast died quite suddenly and I expected our future to be together. We lived alone, she was scared of most other people so our bond was extremely unique and intense, we understood each other deeply. The pain is unbearable and I feel lost now wondering how to live my life without her. She helped me get through losing my father and other bereavements and difficult experiences. Now I face life without her support and joyful wonderful loving incredible presence and its just the worst feeling in the world. She was my main motivation for keeping going in life and now I feel lost.
@@katec9893 I’m so sorry for your loss..
@@katec9893 So sorry for your loss. Always remember she is there with you and it does get easier to live with. Take care
@@katec9893 I hope it has gotten a bit better, my beloved cat died yesterday, aged 16. Exactly as you say, he was my anchor in life. He helped me overcome a separation, two family deaths and we moved twice together into better houses, the latest is abroad where we now lived since 3 years. What I had overlooked a bit was that when we got him he was 2, when we moved for the first time he was 7, and when we emigrated he was 13,which in cats years is quite a lot and not the easiest thing for them to do, I could imagine, as cats are even more clinging to the place they live instead of to the people there . But as he had mainly only me as friend and brother, we made it and lived three years through Covid and all that, in the sunshine, and had some great new times here. . New people, new sounds, views, experiences, an interesting change and a new life for me and him. I also wanted to have him for ten years more, if possible, as he had never ever had not even a scratch or a sneeze. But something in his lung started failing 2 weeks ago and he breathed more and more heavily and came closer and closer to me each day and night, which made me PANIC, as these are signals of a soon death, and when he finally hid in dark corners of the house, it was over for me almost. I knew he was dying and wanted to be alone, such noblesse was his: he didn't want to bother others with his suffering, I guess. Yesterday he had a sudden attack at mid day and I took him to the balcony into the sunshine, where he died ten minutes later after a few spasms and terrible cramps. I took him to the mountains that very afternoon and buried him in the most beautiful spot in the entire county. I did long walks for 2 days, during which my tears were falling into the grass... A life without him is something I hadn't planned for nor even thought about. My house seems so utterly dead now without him, it's a nightmare. I will now study everything I can find about signs from and the afterlife by our pets.
@@katec9893After losing my mom and losing my job after 23 years I was in a bad place and mentally and physically exhausted. Then I got my consolation prize. A 7 week old puppy that I adopted from the shelter. He was a cocker spaniel and retriever mix who blossomed into the most gorgeous dog I had ever seen. Day by day he grew into a beauty Inside and out. He made me forget my grief and my worries. I suddenly had a perpetual smile on my face because his joy was contagious. I lost him a month ago at 14. My consolation is gone. When I'm not crying I feel empty. I don't feel like me. So your grief is not unusual and you are not alone. Take comfort in knowing you will be reunited with your pet when God dries all tears.
I just lost my beloved cat yesterday in an accident and I’m in completely devastated i’ve never felt so sad and I have been crying all day. My cat helped me so much through major emotional changes.
I lost my childhood pet yesterday as well . I dont know what your personally going through but i know how you feel . Rip
Sorry for your lost
The same happened to my baby boy cat . He was hit by a car 😓😓😓. He was not even 3 years old . I feel like my world has ended ... I can’t find sense of living at this point . All I want is have him back in my arms😢😢😢 Feel so guilty and depressed 💔💔💔 Sending You peace and strength🙏🙏
@@Niuniany im sorry for your loss . I cant imagine what your going through but i understand how how you feel . Rip
So sorry 💜
I loved my dog so much. The pain is unbelievable.
I understand your feeling. So sorry for the loss...I’m positive they felt the love 🙏🏼
So unbelievable 😭😭😭
I just lost mine this morning the pain is immeasurable
Angels will be on the other side to take of him. I know how you feel. Try to make contact through meditation or dream.😇🙏
It has been almost a year I lost my Joey. The pain that I'm having just like the day I lost him. Did I try to forget him in order to move on? No, not really; cause I still love him so much.
I lost my horse yesterday and it’s so so hard. She’s been with me since I was a child and I miss her so much. She passed in my arms and very peacefully
I’m so sorry :,((
I love horses! I had my horse 36 of her 40 years. Another 36 years still wouldn't have been enough. Your horse couldn't have lived without u though so it's good they led the way 2 the other side 💞🐴💞
I'm so sorry. I hope you get some signs soon that her energy is still with you. 💗
I lost my cat yesterday and I know for a fact they both loved us. Animals are the only pure thing in this world & their love is a special feeling. I really feel like my last 2 cats are still around me
You’re so lucky you could be there for her last breath. If I’d know the last time I petted my cat was the last I would’ve lingered.
Reading these comments helps me realize that I'm not experiencing this pain alone. Words can't express how much I miss her...
I get you.
Def aren’t alone❤
I definitely here what your saying
It's horrible, Thanksgiving and Christmas.
@diapricea4888 I really thought something was wrong with me. These two holidays..Just a bit much for me. I really try to enjoy them. I'm so sorry you and the people here in this comment section feel like I do. God bless you, and I pray for healing of all of us. ❤
my old pup passed away yesterday and my heart is completely torn. She’s been slowly declining for a while but she finally started getting better. She was prancing and eating and being her usual good girl self. She was my childhood dog, I grew up and learned the world with that sweet girl. She got super sick in 24 hours and passed very unexpectedly. i miss her so fucking much.
Mine passed away today. 13 years too. We are lucky to have out best friends. I hope you are doing well. God bless :)
I lost my beautiful dog today after 14 years. I'm 18, we got him when I was 4 so he's been a huge part of my childhood and memories of growing up. I'm heart broken. He was so beautiful. I hope he's happy up there x
I’m 18 and just lost my dog who was 14 years today.. hope you are coping well 🤍
Also 18, just lost my dog who was 14. Very hard. Playing for you all
I'm 18 too! My cat was almost 11 and I cared for him a huge part of my childhood through. I miss him so much, I feel like I've failed him, I've lost so much, life seems unbearable without him...
I lost my dog today, and I feel so devastated. She was my companion, the one always by my side no matter what.
I am not a sociable person, so I don't have friends to hang out with or spend time with. My full free time was dedicated to her and my other dogs.
She was my first dog, the one I was not happy about my dad bringing home. He thought she would be a great companion for me because I've always been a loner. I was frightened by her tbh. I didn't wanted her at all, but somehow she kept following me everywhere. I was never mean to her, but I just felt annoyed by her following me around. All that following around paid out for her. I noticed that she wasn't an aggressive dog or harmful in any way, so I started to pay more attention to her and discover the great dog that she was. She became my best friend to the point that I probably have never talked to anyone as much as I talked to her. I would greed her good morning, good night, asked her if she was having a good day. She was 17 years old already. I knew this day was coming soon, but still, I can't helped but cry like a little baby for her lost😢😢😢😢
I'm sorry for your loss, my pet also died today.. but I remember it's now in a better place, don't be sad 🙂
I lost my dog(Oso) 3 days ago and I feel so sad . I've been crying all these days. I think the hardest part is that he was my only friend and he's gone forever. 😭💔💔💔
I lost my dog last night....first dog pet...my husband adopted him as an older dog when we were dating. I wasn’t that crazy about the dog at first either Because he was soooo excitable. At some point we bonded and now I can’t stop crying over losing my little buddy
That's kinda how it was with mine. He was dropped in my lap by a friend and I was nervous about having a rescue pitbull. He was my first dog. It all worked out and my life has been centered around him bc I to am a loner. He was my best friend. Today I put him down and it's the worst feeling. Now mind you I've lost my mother, both sets of grandparents, aunts, friends and this heartbreak is alot different. I loved them but it was different. He got me through some dark times but also got to experience some epic moments in my life as well. His life was a gift to me and I'm so happy ppl like us get to experience that kind of love. Especially since we're not very social.
Same exact story with me.
Hi my story is I was drinking myself to death lost all hope in life and one day this dog appeared a puppy he was alone had nobody just like me..he turned out to be a pitbull staff so I fed him made a bed he was unwanted we went on walks he loved people he had this lust for life and for me we had great fun I stopped drinking he tuck up so much of my time I found myself starting to feel happy again..that was 15 years ago now sadly my best friend deano that's his name passed away I miss him so much that puppy saved my life he lived to 12 years old I never drank again I have a lust for life..thank you deano my best friend
Wow! This is the second comment I read that gave me chills! What you're describing is exactly what I talk about in my Animal Lessons book. I LOVE LOVE how much you learned from Deano!
Thank you that's really nice of you to say..I have other dogs now and my life has never bin the same form that first day with deano...the dogs in my life are happy and I love them the same as deano...funny how a moment in time can change a person...
This is a beautiful story. Sending deano light and love
@@jazzyt1151 thank you that's really lovely of you to say...all I can say God has a plan for everyone it just wasn't my time to go...thank you again peace and love
Tony Chuter very true. It’s really amazing how these little angels can change us and like Danielle said they teach us unconditional love. I just lost my little fur baby recently. Loved him dearly he helped me after My fiancé and I had a miscarriage. Everyday that I was sad comforted me and gave me kisses.
My cat died yesterday and I have been crying out in pain for her . Literally crying out for her . I’m in agony
Jimney Sweep I lost my cat Ossy 🐈 a week ago and it hurts me too .. I know how you feel it's hard bruhh... 😪 😕
@@pickles4394 I’m sorry to hear this . Much love friend
I too lost my little kitten due to an unexpected accident...I do miss her a lot...and feeling the pain of losing her😭💔...rip
@@surajitchatterjee5633 oh my friend I am sorry to hear this . It’s such sad news . Your little friend will be with you in spirit and know that your cat is playing so much with new friends over the rainbow bridge . I still cry at the loss of mine , only seeing her in my mind playing in the wind with her new friends and her sweet little face happy makes me feel some comfort . Blessings to you friend x
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dog last night and I feel this pain. I am going through the same experience. It is so painful.
Kids don’t follow u every sec of every min of every day. Kids are close but it’s not the same. Dogs don’t get upset, judge, hold resentment they love u unconditionally regardless. Once u truly open ur heart to a dog It’s a bond stronger than u can ever have with any human. It’s impossible to have that kind of bond & relationship w/a human. I’m so sorry to say but it’s the truth. I just lost my yorkie, bean unexpectedly & I swear its killing me. He was 8. I’ve never felt this kind of pain- ever! I love u beanie boo, rip. 🥺😢😇😇🥰🥰
Completely agree, My cat Mittens passed only a few days ago. Mittens followed me everywhere. I worked from home for the past 2 years, she laid by my feet or sat on my lap all day when i worked. When i would go upstairs to eat or end my work day she would follow. If i left the house she would often wait for me with in ear shot of the door. When i went to bed and didnt let her sleep with me she would cry at the door. I had Mittens for 16 years and the bond i had with Mittens and my other cat Freckles that passed 6 years ago is 100% completely different from the relationship i have with my kids. I am sorry for your loss and hope you are hanging in there.
My grief is so bad now that I don't feel like being alive anymore without my baby. This is why I'm here...
I am really struggling
Same here. I feel your pain.
Hang in there Friend ❤
Me too. Hang in there. I barely can but just one hour at a time
Same
I am in the same thing. I can’t even put it into words. I just want to go be with my furbaby.
I'm ready to die too bc of this my life is already over
My sweet 7 year old cat passed this morning. I’m absolutely shattered and don’t know what to do with myself. It’s comforting reading everyone else’s stories, but I am devastated that my sweet girl isn’t here with me anymore. She was my baby and a little piece of my soul.
My heart is so empty without our little Rylie in it. I miss her so much. So so much. I love her more then anything in this world.
It’s been 4 months since my beloved dog died. The pain is hard to describe. Although my dear parents and other relatives have died, the grief I went through was nothing compared to what I’m going through now. He was my child. A child who loved me and looked up to me all his life.
I just had to put my 15 yr old dog to sleep. He was battling heart disease and recently diagnosed with bladder cancer. The pain I'm feeling is unbearable 💔 I don't know how to go on without him. He was with me 24/7 I keep replaying over and over that horrible day and question myself did I make a mistake. I just wish I could go back in time and get him back 😭 the grief and pain consumes me daily. I'm so lost without him.
So true and so very difficult .
I lost my 12 year old Toodles 3 days ago... Yep funny he was named that.
The worst thing people say is oh he died old... That makes me feel like his death was acceptable. I don't cry incessantly, but tears just flow out at certain times during a day. My dad on the other hand is a lot more devastated... I think he was closer to him as he spent more time with him.
One more thing is a lot of people have told me over the years that your dog is not really a dog... His eyes were different... His actions were different. People who were most afraid of dogs would get close to him after a couple of meetings. He was often called the gentleman.
I was taking care of him for the last 4 weeks. Literally nursing care. I slept in the other room this particular night and the next day he was barking loudly... I checked on him but I was angry that he was barking unnecessarily. So I scolded him. Had a tea and a cig and went back to check on him to feed him... He was gone.
People around me are now saying that he called me out one last time to see me before dying. He was quadriplegic so he couldn't walk. This is the extent of love and affection he had. Dogs are a whole new species which are unlike any other... Humans don't have what dogs have in abundance.
I just had to have my shih Tzu down. He was my little boy and I loved him so much it's breaking my heart he's gone. I think about him all day and all night. I'm having a hard time sleeping. Everything I look at in the house it makes me think of him. I've never had to do that before he was very sick I keep thinking that I do the right thing maybe I should have waited a little bit longer.
Hi just want to ask did you euthanize him?
My cat, Mila, passed away yesterday. I haven’t cried so hard in so long. I’m so thankful for my time and relationship with her. I feel so alive with her passing and knowing that I am capable of love. ❤️
That’s beautiful
My baby girl just passed away in my lap last night and I’ve had her since I was 6. It’s truly heartbreaking, the grief of losing a dog is so painful but the joy they bring you is so worth it
Coco died 2 years ago it feels like yesterday
I want her back, still the pain is horrible
i lost my cat last week and im so lost, ive had him since i was 7 and im into adulthood now and it feels so weird without him. so painful right now. rest in peace baby
rexnote I am so sorry. I feel your pain. I lost my cat Posh, after 13 years on Christmas Day. My deepest condolences 😢💕🌸
I’m so sorry :( my cat died today and it does feel weird it hasn’t
even hit me yet
@@milky5294 im so sorry for your loss, it took time for the pain to really hit me as well because i was just in shock at first. i hope time heals your wounds well and you know your baby loves you in life
I totally feel your pain right now. my cat died yesterday. I had my cat my entire life, even when I was just born. it’s so hard and weird to continue on without her. I wish you the best of luck
I had my beagle since i was 7 too, she was put down yesterday. I know how you feel! I’m so sorry.
My puppy passed away in the middle of the night on Sunday after experiencing a seizure that her vet believes was caused by liver cancer. She was only 2 years old. I feel like my life is empty.
glowy bear My deepest condolences to you 💕
Mine to
Had the same thing today with my pug only 3 and was fine last night
I'm so sorry you had to experience this!
Same
The reason it hurts so much and is hard to get over is because their love is so unconditional. They are completely devoted to us, unlike people can be. When we lose that it is like losing a huge part of your heart.
My dog died 2 days ago and I’m in so much pain, every time I think about him I start to cry. I can’t believe his gone.
My heart is in one million pieces. I do feel it’s like the end of the world. I can’t wait to see my “precious cupcake” again one day.
My 21 year old cat was put down 2 hours ago . I’m heart broken I love her so much
im so sorry. my cat theo passed 1 week back. I know your pain, i would give my right arm just to be with him for 1 more time. Im broken!, and its so quiet in our house. I am so so broken! 😥😥😥😥
I can't imagine my 16 years old Dori passed away 1 month and a half ago and I still cry a lot.
I can't stop crying. My cat of 11 years had to be put down yesterday as she was so ill. The last ten days she became so ill and could not fight the cat flu and may have had other conditions too. I am distraught completely. I miss her so much. She is everywhere, I have memories of her in the last few days everywhere.
i lost my dog yesterday never been this sad in my life i just want to go with him, he never liked to be alone and now there is noone with him
Me too. I just lost my baby boy yesterday and I can't stop crying
He’s not alone
Lost my darling boy on Dec 3rd each day since is a heart aching struggle..I have to believe he is still around me I cant deal with this any other way, never felt such grief I've lost loved ones and grieved for them too but this loss hurts like nothing else ...I feel your pain take care of yourself xx
No he is not alone....please watch some videos of near death experience and what happens to our souls and theirs (our beloved pets) when we all cross over, the love and comfort experienced on the other side is something too look forward to. This gives me great comfort even though my grief is still strong xx
My dog died 2 days ago by a car accident. The worse part of this is that i looked for him in the wrong places. I haven’t even get the chance to save him but i saw her body and burried him near our home. I hope he isn’t alone right now
I am so sorry for the loss everyone on this thread.
I just lost my dog Benji yesterday morning. He was with me for 12 years. Its been so heartbreaking and painful that i wasnt there in his final moments by his side as i was waiting for him outside the hospital. The guilt and horrific image i have of him suffering alone or missing me right then is killing me. I cant explain the void i feel. It was so sudden i thought he was coming home. I dont know how i will get thru this but i know hes no longer suffering anymore and that he wanted so much to stay w us longer but couldnt anymore. The pain i feel is unbearable. Thank u so much for this video.
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Don't feel guilty, your Benji knew you were trying to help as best as you could. My little maltese girl named Candy was right in my lap when she passed and the pain isn't any less nor is the guilt.
There is an old saying: the more people I know, the more I like my dog/cat. This is for a reason. People’s relations are very complicated, but not to your pet. The only thing they do is loving you unconditionally. My cat passed away today, I was so said. I cried all day.
It's been 3 months im crying 40 times a day I'm so lost without my baby
I know what you are going through, so sorry for your loss ❤️
🙏🏽😭
We put our baby girl to sleep tonight. It was very tough and we cried so much before and after. But I feel like it was a humane way to end the pain. Rest In Peace my best friend
This is happening with me right now .. I lost my beloved cat about 8 months ago and I still cry .. I still feel so much grief, I miss her so much. I miss her sleeping next to me and her purr, her eyes.
I lost my dog today and the pain I’m feeling is immeasurable. The thought of his absence in my world hurts beyond words. I know I’ll never stop missing him 😞
My little kitten passed away 2 days ago. He was very very ill and this helped. I feel his presence on my chest and my neck. Figrao 🌹
😭😭😭I too lost my little kitten....it's very painful 😢😥😣😭
i lost my kitten today. does it get better?
I lost my kitten last week. I have the same question, does it get easier?
i lost my kitten 3 months ago & still miss him like it happened yesterday. it may get easier but it'll take longer than u think.. 🤍
You know why we love dog because their love for us is real, is so unbelieveable!
I lost my doggy today
He got hit by a car , I hate seeing die so soon ,he was still young I miss u junior , Rest In Peace 🖤 I’m crying while writing this.
My dog got ran over yesterday, I kept yelling for her to get up but she just laid there. I’m not handling it all and I just can’t do anything without her. She was my only friend.
@@honeymallow2184 hey are you doing better? i just lot my kitty of 1 year, he was my best buddy ever
@@owenguerrero8992 still not good, I still have her collar and it’s hard moving on without her. She was my only safety and so it’s like trying to figure out how to be happy without her.
@@honeymallow2184 i won’t tell you that it’s gonna get better but let me just tell you that you are not alone, it has happened more then a week ago nos and the first few days i couldn’t stop thinking B it 24/7 so i would just cry all day, eventually i couldn’t take it anymore so i started taking lots of xanax and now i’m
living like a zombie, absolutely no thoughts but at least i can move on a littlest
@@honeymallow2184 Same my 2 cats died 1 day after another It hurts so much they are my only friend 😢
I had that one in a million angel dog. I always loved a dog but Savannah was like a child very connected to my heart and brain. We read each other. No other dog can replace her I will get a dog again one day and hope she helps me find the right animal. We had a soul connection. She passed away 16 months ago. At night sometimes I see her laying in the doorway of my bedroom I see her it's her spirit.
5 months later and I’m still bawling I miss him so much
I actually am grieving my dog who passed away Dec 25 2019 and it’s been really hard.
Ah, then this might be a good technique for you to try. I'm sorry for your loss Tina. I hope this helps! Remember to give it time (it could take a full month to get to 2 feet!). Sending you love
Danielle MacKinnon thank you so much 🙏💖💖
Oo that must have been hard Tina... So sorry.
Anne Walshe it has been really difficult. Thank you for commenting, it means a lot 🙏💖
Danielle I feel ur pain I lost my cat December 30 2019im still crying every day I'm so sorry for your lost hope we will meet our pets again sorry for ur lost again
Thank you… I just loss my dog of 17 years.. and I’m barely hanging on
I lost my dog Moose in a tragic accident 3 months ago. I have been having such a hard time moving through the grief. This hit home with me because he was literally my shadow for 4 years almost always in my lap. And loosing him is by far been the biggest heart break of my life. I've heard people say they get messages, but I haven't had that. It has honestly made me so sad. This makes so much sense. He always took care of me. He was my best friend and the greatest protector. I was out of town when he passed. He was hit by a car. I just have so much anger and guilt.
My cat is crossing the rainbow bridge on Wednesday, my heart it broken. She was my reason for living. She gave me purpose :(
I'm so sorry for your loss
I can understand that feeling totally. When you have loved a pet that was so special, after their death life seems to make no sense anymore. No kidding. We listened to music together, ate together, slept together, what shall I say....
I lost my Bella 3 days ago, and I feel like I can’t breathe. I miss her more as each day passes.
I feel like my bunny who passed away last week is attached to my chest. I remember telling my mom the other day that I can feel him in my heart. The grief is not any easier but it has not been that long yet. Well... a bit easier, I am not crying all of the time anymore.
Lindsay, I'm so sorry that you're experiencing this. It sounds to me like you're experiencing normal grief (which is SOOOOO hard). Sending you and your bunny love
Lindsay I told my sister the same thing just last week! My rabbit passed 2 months ago and I told my sister that I feel like she's attached to my chest and that I can feel her in my heart. It's incredible to see someone describe how I feel. I'm still in tears by the end of the day because I miss her so much! 💛
Sameena Shah hi! So nice to hear you feel the same. It’s been almost four months since my bunny has passed away and around a month ago I started to receive white feathers almost every day! I also started to see angel silhouettes on my walls and I’ve seen orbs and sometimes the angels will come up in-front of my face and I can see a heat wave (their energy) I believe it’s the angels who have left me the feathers, the one time it sounded like a hummingbird when it flew up and dropped it off in-front of me. I can’t believe all of this has happened since my bunny passed away. I truly believe the angels want me to know he’s okay and I believe our rabbits are with us still. The more you talk to them the more they’ll come through and give you signs. A few weeks before I received the feathers I asked my angels to give me a feather so I know he’s okay... and they delivered! I’ve gotten the messages from the angels that he’s happy and loves me and waiting for me in heaven ♥️ they also say “stay close to God.” Another cool thing is I received a rainbow cloud out my window before the feathers started to appear! I was even able to get a picture of it. Keep talking to your bunny, they hear us!
Lindsay B Lindsay thats amazing!! I can't believe how similar your experiences sound just like the ones I've encountered within the last month! One morning I found a white and light brown feather in my bed. It's the exact color of my rabbit Princess. I looked all around my room to see where it could've came from. Nothing.. Then last week on the night of the full moon I saw a white orb sitting right outside of my window. I showed my mom the video and she was also amazed! It's been hard to wrap my mind around these things but your message just confirms it all! Also, the night or two after Princess passed I saw her energy racing into my room as she usually did. I hope to receive more. 🙏🏼 Thankyou!!
Sameena Shah oh my goodness! That’s amazing! I can’t believe you’re experiencing similar things. I didn’t expect you to say so many similar things have happened to you. I hope we both keep getting messages ♥️
My Pup Pup
Passed away this morning at
6:10 am,July 15th
I was with her till her last breath
It was so unexpected
The day before she was a happy go lucky dog
I will always love you Pup Pup thank You for being my best friend
You will always be in my heart and mind. I will see you again one day honey till then....
@@beigehues
It has been 20 days since
And I cant get my mind off of her
Im always thinking about her
But I am doing better
But at first I didnt want to eat or do anything
It hurts
Just push through
My puppy died after my mom accidentally hit him while driving I was so devastated he made us really happy and every day since his death I’ve writes down the days since her death I wish he was here he brought my family back together I hope I see him one day and please stay strong ik it hurt
@Jamie Boyett this was last year 2020
Thanks, Danielle. I'm currently experiencing something like this and wondered why I'm having so much trouble recovering. This explains a lot.
You're welcome Chrystal. Sending you love and give it some time to help
I just lost my baby girl yesterday and it comforts me that ppl here understand the pain i’m feeling rn. I’m losing my mind, i miss her. I don’t know what to do with my life without her
I lost my 14 year old Scottish terrier to cancer last month, I knew the day was coming but wasn’t expecting it so soon. We were told the year before that he would only have a few months to live (if that) and he lived a whole year after that diagnosis. I had got him as a gift from my parents at the age of three years old and I’m so heartbroken, he was my best friend through thick and thin, always.
I was hoping for another Christmas with him, but he was needed more on the other side of the rainbow. 🤍
I feel that the ache and pain in my heart will always remain, i had went to bed early the night before he had passed. If I would’ve known that when I woke up I would only have 5 hours left with him, I would’ve stayed up all night and held and let him know how much I loved him.
Pepper, thank you for making my life so wonderful. I can’t wait to reunite with you someday. I know that grandma, grandpa, and cousin mike will be by your side till that day comes. 🤍
Rip Pepper. My sweet boy.
Sept 2008 - Oct 2021
🐾❤️🐾❤️🐾❤️🐾
My dog died a horrible death...It's been 6 years and I'm still distant with every dog because if I get too close I burst into tears and people find it weird. I'll never have another dog even though I love them so much. I can't lose another one.
I feel this 100%
My beautiful baby was put down tonight. He was my childhood cat of 9 years and helped me and my family so so much after my dad passed away. I can’t believe you can lose such a precious life so suddenly. I love him so much and will always miss his sweet face and presence
So sorry for your loss. Your love can remain just as strong now - and your beautiful baby will feel it!
This is so true! I grieved the passing of a cat for 15 yrs. I finally sat down. And just told him it's time to be free and he left. I hvnt cried since. I put down a cat 6 months ago. I. Cried every day for 5 months. I contacted him and with regard to the euthanasia he said, thank you for setting me free. I still think of him daily but the grief is finally gone. I will subscribe and watch yr other videos. You are the real deal. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your experience here. I know it will help others @TheKat. Sending you love and light
I don't wanna lose my grief, my pain doesn't matter, but his existence must remain fresh in my consciousness. I would have died to save my cat, if it was promising. I am loyal to him and this loyalty is eternal.
Just lost my 14-year-old lil buddy yesterday. Every thought of her brings me to tear deeply.
My dog of 15 years just passed away Tuesday. She was my one of a kind fur love child. I feel I've been led to your page for a reason. I feel comforted listening to your experiences and advice.
I lost my little rat terrier last Thursday. He was 13. Had him since he was six months old. I have never felt this alone. My wife tries, but she was never a pet owner before I came along, she had one dog and some outside cats but that was really about it. She loved our dog, but he was really more animal than anyone else's. I've gotten a few little signs here and there but I still horrible. Tuff was my best friend. Slept with me everyday, hung out with me. I have alot of stress in my life and he was sort of my service dog. I've had animals pass away before, but this one is really hurting. I just want a sign hes ok now.
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I know the feeling all too well. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve gone through so many emotions of grief already. Dealing with my brother’s insensitive comments and it hurts.
My job only let me miss a few days. The day before yesterday we had to put my beloved kitty down. I'm on my way to work now unable to keep the tears in and I just want to be home under the covers crying through it. This is the worst and I am so sorry for everyone going through this. Sending you all so much love. ❤
On January 16th I said goodbye to my greatest love, Henry.
He was my rock through periods of loneliness,
and from multiple moves, broken hearts, and many nights home alone.
He wasn’t just faithful and loving to me, but he also extended his faithfulness and love to everyone in my life when they all entered his life.
After his third seizure I realized Henry wasn’t completely “there” anymore, I had to make the hard decision of letting him continue to live like this or put him down. It was one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make. I can only hope Henry had an amazing life, and that he knew how much I cherished and loved him.
I'm so lucky Henry got to spend so much time travelling and making precious memories with me.
Thank you everyone who loved Henry as much as he loved you.
Rest In Peace my sweet boy. You deserve it.
💙 I miss you so much already 💙 My heart is broken in a million pieces
I think the major part of my grief was the guilt I felt over my having to have him put to sleep. That was the worst thing ever, though I swear he SMILED the exact moment he passed!
I will love you forever my sweet Porky Pug... ❤🐶❤
I've lost 3 girls in the last 5 years. Still breaks my heart. Now without any dogs.
Oh I"m so sorry! Sending you love
That's horrible. I'm so sorry.
Thanks!
I’m so sorry!!
I cant' bear to love again and lose them. My beagle passed last night and i'm devastated.
I lost my little guy (cat) yesterday. I’m having a really hard time with it, like we all are. It was just the two of us for such a long time and now it’s just me and I feel so lost. I’m glad this video was here, and I’m grateful for everyone who came before me and told their story in the comments because reading them is helping me feel less alone. Thank you for this video.
Thank you. I still find myself talking to her like she is here
My dog of 18 years passed yesterday. I knew it was coming but the associated loss was more than I anticipated. I feel like I lost my own child in a way. I pray for closure, healing, and faith that I will be a better person because of this loss even though the tears just on coming.
I lost my beautiful cat of 13yrs. It was such a shock and I feel such heartbreak. I had such a bond with him. Feels like a part of me is missing.
My 17 year old dog passed away a little over a week ago, had him since I was a small child...he seen me getting married and was able to meet my children... so this has been a very hard time for me. I'm so glad I found your channel, now I truly feel that I'm grieving in the right way and will be able to receive signs from him soon. Thank you!!! ❤️🌈🐾
Oh I got chills when I read this @Mrs.N! I'm so sorry for your loss, but I love your outlook. Come back and share the signs when you can. Sending you love and light
@@DanielleMacKinnon My husband and Father immediately received a sign after his passing in a short dream, now after getting off the phone with my soul sister today... She told me she had a dream last night about him and she told me he looked like he did as a puppy ( he had skin issues his whole adult life) so she believes he is now "restored" and very happy where he is based on his happy squinting doggy eyes he had. During her dream she picked him up and she naturally felt he was walking to me . I'm laughing because I think he's taking his sweet time visiting everyone else, like he always did, just to say "'Mom', I'm okay...you need to stop worrying about me, I'm waiting for you." I'm planning on taking your classes, can't thank you enough ❤️ This has been life changing on so many levels ✨
This is my story too. My dog passed away last night. He was my best friend. He was my ESA went through the loss of my husband with me, going to the army, the birth of two children, and a remarriage with me. I can’t breath without him. But, he was peeing blood and was in so so much pain. I feel so guilty but, he lived an amazing 15.5 years and I’m so happy he experienced life with me. But, I don’t know how to cope with life without him... because he was my coping skill. Cuddling him, kissing him, that was my coping skill. He was my first true love, my first best friend, my only sibling, and my only child until I had my boys.
He was your everything.
@@TheAgilani11 I understand and hope some grief has lessened. I lost my esa and my best friend of almost 17 yrs yesterday.
I haven't ate,drank or slept in 2 full days. I am shattered and broken.
my dog just died and hopefully he's in heaven
I know same
He's at the rainbow bridge so sorry for your lost
Danny Mercedes I’m very sorry 😞I just lost my baby girl pug 1 month ago, it’s been so hard 😭😭 your dog IS in heaven rainbow 🌈 bridge 🐾 they both are . 💕
Sorry for your loss. I just lost my baby Zeus on Tuesday. Absolutely torn. 😢
My 7 year old German Shepard passed away when we had to put her down due to cancer 3 days ago. This video along with her other helped me quite a lot because it showed me that I shouldn’t be guilty for the things I didn’t do but be proud of what I did do. I just want to say thank you for all the help
It's been almost 2 yrs. since my 14 yr old dog passed but it still feels like yesterday. I had bugzy since the day he was born because we had his mother. He was with me during my divorce and with me while my 4 kids grew up and out. He was older than any of my grandkid's. I feel so blessed to have had him. He truly was my best friend. He was the gentlest 85lb pit bull you ever came across. My big baby who would cry from the moment I walked out the door until I walked in. The last 2 yrs of his life he couldn't digest dog food so I cooked his meals. One day I was watching him sleep and I thought to myself I am going to have to let him go soon, he picked his sleeping head up, looked right at me like he heard my thought and within 48 hours he was near death. My son called the vet and made the arrangements. I couldn't take him because I couldn't bear what was happening. My son took bugzy and stayed with him till he passed. Bugzy was also very close with my son. I can't think about him, look at a picture of him without breaking down. I haven't connected with him since he passed and I know it's possible because we lost a dog when my kids were younger and we heard him and felt him for 3 days after he passed. I think of him somewhere crying and howling for me like he did when I would go somewhere. I always considered myself a strong and independent person but since bugzy has been gone I have realized all my strength came from him. I have never felt lonely in all my 56 yrs until bugzy passed. If I can connect with him and know he is okay then I will be okay. I will try this.
Having a hospice vet come in a few days to relieve my fur baby of 18 years of his pain. I never knew I was capable of feeling this kind of pain. It’s unbelievably gut wrenching. I feel a small part of me is dying with him. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone with these kinds of feelings. Our pets are our family members. Sometimes even better than the ones we share blood with.
wishing that my cat will come back to me, I still can't get over it, there comes a time that I can't control my tears, it's like I lost my own child😭💔
Lost my dog of 14 yrs Friday. I feel the worse heart pain ever in my life. Hope you hang in there. I'm right here with you feeling the pain.
My cat died 2 days ago from a cardiac arrest. It was so devastating to hear. It was so sudden and unexpected. He was a happy healthy cat. Just thinking about him makes me cry. I had such a deep connection with him.
Same thing happened to my cat last week. I hope you’re doing better now
I lost my dog yesterday😭😭😭 he was like a child to me. I just want to sleep all day long hoping that I could see him even just in my dreams. My heart is still in pain. It's hard for me to move on coz everything I do, reminds me of him😭😭😭
I miss you so much, Rocco💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭
This is the first time I could even face the fact that Im carrying grief over the last two years. Thank you.
Danielle, how I am feeling after losing my buddy Marius (companion cat) is just as you described how you felt when you lost your dog. The grief, guilt and missing him are huge.
My wife and I lost our dog Charlie 3 days ago. Almost 6 years to the day after he came into our lives. I knew I would be hurt when his time came but I was not prepared for just how bad I would feel. I cry. I move on for a bit but can't get him out of my thoughts, so I cry some more. A vicious cycle. Seeing all of your comments and stories helps some. Thank all of you for sharing and for listening.😢😥
My dog passed away a year ago and I still sob uncontrollably every night..she showed up in my dream letting me know she's everywhere. But I can't feel her most of time...so I am just sad missing her and crying so much when I think about her and I think about her every day...Maybe she lives in my heart, my heart trembles so much when I think about her. I don't have a courage to ask her for a separation.
I don’t think you need to ask for a separation yet, I don’t think a year is an unreasonable amount of time to still be grieving.
I helped both my dogs transition a year ago today (they were both very ill) so I find myself a total mess today reaching out for connection & helping through TH-cam!
I think this video is talking about if it’s been several years. I feel like I see my dogs all the time so I think they are in a good place, I’m just having a hard day w/ it’s being the 1st anniversary- sorry for the rambling
My cat got put down 4 days ago now, he was my everything. I had a dream last night that he was still alive I woke up this morning and realised he was actually gone 😭
I’m so happy I found your channel. I feel so so so guilty. My pup chiquis passed last night. He was my SA for 15 years. He went through so much with me. A medical discharge, the loss of a husband, the loss of my best friend, the birth of two children, a new marriage, miscarriages, and has been my rock through everything. He was my coping skill and rock throughout life and now I feel lost without him. I miss his smile and his stinky breath and smell. I can feel a pit in my stomach and I have no idea what to do to fill it. I’ve lost a husband and a friend and as horrible as it sounds losing my Service animal hurts a lot more. He literally saved my life everyday of his life.
Your dog will always ALWAYS be with your in spirit. He gave you his all his every second of his life till he left. You were the best mother he could ever dream of having. Think that now you have sent off your child well safe and without any more pain from this world. And you will join him there one day he will play there and be strong csuse he knows you will go to him again. You have saved him. Live now get another sibling for him and tell that dog about his/ her elder brother. And love again. Sending you so much love. My dog has kidney failure and im going to lose him soon. And this thoughts is what is helping me.
How are you? My dog died yesterday he was my esa. I had him 17 yrs. I can't eat,drink or sleep.
I feel the same way. You’re not in this alone. 😞
Man, that is one incredible head of hair! Gorgeous! I'll tell you why it's easier to grieve people, because they're often annoying af. My cat never annoyed me, even if she woke me up, she was so damn cute, I never could be annoyed. No human was 100% joy for me like she was.
I lost my baby max a couple days ago. It’s been the hardest thing I’ve ever dealt with he was like my best friend. I’ve had him since I was 10 and I’m 21 now so we basically grew up together. The connection I had with that dog was crazy he was like an angel sent to me from heaven. it really is such a painful thing to go through. sending love to anyone that has lost a pet.
I recently put my 9 year old cat down, on September 21st. She was my baby and my best friend.. it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life but I’m glad she’s no longer in pain. I could no longer watch her suffer.. I miss you Tegan, Rest In Peace my sweet girl. I love you, forever and always 🤍❤️
I had to put two down last year due to kidney and cancer...father and son. Another son just passed right after Christmas. I feel so devastated because he became ill, had to have surgery and passed away a few hours after surgery. I didn't have a chance to say goodbye to him. My heart is still so heavy, and I feel so much guilt about his death. I am so sad. I take care of his mom and sister. I have also been taking care of my son's cat who is deployed overseas. I am trying to be happy around them because they are also sad too. He wasn't a lap dog, but he was always close by me and followed me all over the house.
I love that you consider them part of family, just like I do. I'm so sorry for your loss @BlueRose. Remember though -animals feel our emotions (we can't hide from them!). You may have an easier time if you're transparent about how you're feeling. Sending you love and light
Blue Rose so sorry for your loss I am going through the same thing with the passing of my dog. The pain is so hard, he was with me 24 hrs a day & was my best friend. Miss him dearly 🙏🏼
My dog Mooey died yesterday. My eyes are filled with tears I can’t stop crying. She was so unique. I haven’t ever seen a single dog like her before. We named her mooey because she had black spots like a cow. It’s a weird name but it fits her so well. It was so hard today having it be my first day without her and I feel like she took a piece of me with her. I can’t stop crying. She has been with me almost my whole life. We had to put her down because she had 3 big tumors and it was spreading. She had trouble breathing too. I feel like we could have saved her but since the tumor was spreading there wasn’t a way to stop it. If she wasn’t so old we would have gave her medication or steroids or anything to keep her alive at least a day longer. I feel like I could have stopped this but I felt in my gut it was the right thing to do. I just can’t bare the thought of not having her anymore. I can’t even go 16 hours without her how am I supposed to go the rest of my life without her? I’ve just been crying in my bed nonstop hugging her stuffed animal we got her. It smells like her and i love it and hate it at the same time. My life will never be the same again. I feel like my house is empty without her. She would always wag and her tail would hit on the walls. Her nails would clip clop around. She was always so happy no matter what. In her last breaths she put her paw on me to make me feel better. But the only way she can make me feel better is if she felt better too. I love you Mooey you have served me good these years. Please don’t forget about me I will never forget about you. Fly high my sweet girl ❤🕊️🐾 I’ll see you again some day.
Virtually any grief I’ve experienced is with me almost always with me as fresh as the day I experienced the loss, be it person or furbaby. I probably cry once a week over grief.
Same Danielle, May 12th 2020, we had to put are dog now, she was my favorite dog, I can't stop crying all the time, everything reminds me of her.. I just want her back so badly..
I feel ya, I just lost my little girl. She was 15 and I adopted her when she was 10 so she spent her twilight years being loved and spoiled. It literally just happened last night as she just laid on her side and moved on in a matter of seconds, the vet said she had cancer and wouldn't survive too long. It's been killing me inside watching all the places she would hang around in and seeing them empty so my wife and I have been really struggling to get adjusted to the empty feeling in our home.
@@alexanderson4497 Awe, that's terrible! R.I.P That poor fur baby!
@@alexanderson4497 I feel ya, going through the exact same right now, every song has a line in it that sets me off crying and the house is so empty 😢
@@kelgt yeah i feel u, my dog died 2 days ago and i can still smell her, i can't eat and sleep and to be honest i want to die to see her again
My dog died yesterday i also can't stop crying
My little black cat Peter passed, with my vet's kind help in my home, on February 25, 2022 just shy of his ~15th birthday. I adopted him at 6 y.o. through my vet who was fostering him after his guardian Mom had died. Unlike with Michael and Jennie before him, I have not had the ear of a good-listener type of friend to "speak through" my grief and I think that is why I'm still crying frequently, thinking about him always, and having a hard time thinking about adopting again. Also little Peter and I were *very* attached to each other (I'm Abolitionist vegan and retired, living alone and always had him in my thoughts if I had to go out grocery shopping, etc). He was always *very* gentle and by my side or on my lap night and day. MY QUESTION: I have tried to tell him since his passing that my heart is broken without him and I'm so sorry that I could not cure him in the end. And because I am still worried that he may feel that I have "abandoned" him, I have told him that *if he wants*, I would love to have him stay in my emotional heart forever. But I follow that with if he is content wherever he is, that is ok with me too and he should just be assured that I will hold his memory in my heart always. Do you think I am causing him to stay and not fulfill his spiritual path? I would not want to cause him any interference.
As Dr. Sarah Hoggan said "Grief is a natural price we pay for loving". I miss my Bailey who passed in our home on 06/17/23, RIP my love, Daddy misses you so much.
Just lost my boy Max 3 days ago. My boy. 15 years. I am gutted. Bailey - you were so loved xoxo
My dog is dying of cancer. The diagnosis three weeks ago was a real shock and surprise to us. She probably only has a few weeks to live, and she's only 11 and a small breed. I'm going through the stages of grief, but they don't end, the keep repeating themselves. I'm in denial, the next day I'm accepting it, the very next day I'm crying my eyes out again, then I'm angry, and then back to denial, and so on and so on. I can't imagine what it'll be like without her. She was a full member of our family. We all love her so dearly, especially my dad, who didn't want her in the beginning. We used to eat dinner together while she was sitting on the couch, trying to get a view of the table, and then one of us would start looking at her and just laugh because she was being so cute, and soon the rest if the family would start laughing and teasing her a bit too for being so adorable. And then we'd talk about her and share stories of when she was silly and did something funny. She's such a solid part of our lives that we never thought about her leaving us. I miss her although she's not gone yet. I don't know how I'll get through when she will be.
I lost my 12 yr old baby on Tuesday. I am devastated. I have been sobbing for him. My chest feels like it has a gaping hole. I have no idea how to live with out him. Sigfrid (my kitty who has passed) led me to your videos. Your videos have brought me so comfort. I can’t thank you enough. 9:40