@meerasm6849 that's good. And so true. One of my relative is a doctor and also works at home. And her mother in law always gossips/batching about her, saying she doesn't spend money at usme not even puja and that she has to pay money(whoch ofcourse she doesn't earns). That's how she talks shit about her😢
@@tanjirokamado6396 soo true . Mother in law's think that by getting their son married they get a free maid and they raise their son with so called men's logic that is men doesn't do house chores . Mother in law's are the biggest bully in the world. But I can also see some mother's who brought their sons well And stands for their daughter in laws . Hope there comes a change in the upcoming years . Its upto every young mothers today to raise their sons well and teach the right thing to bring a better future for next generation daughters .
@@exploringnature3122 अरे तो ना कौन कह रहा है लेकिन अपनी बात रखने का भी एक तरीका होता है। लडके ने हां कहा था अगर उसके परिवार से शांति से बात करती तो सब हल हो जाता। 😏
@@Dharmik459 your comment shows u don't know equality.... Usne aaram se h bola h ki aapko kamane Wale naukari chahiye ,and that's what they expect... And that's good she soon made decision to make out of that toxic rishta
I wish if women start marrying guys who earns same as them and same property inheritance or less so by her logic every girl wants an luxury Life style and just an atm i really wish girls contribute same as husband in terms of finance girls ko bhi bas or bas amir bada ghar gadi paisa wala chahiye what do girls bring to the table for relationship apart from their beauty nowadays majority girls don't know any chores
@@PoojaKumari-ty6shI don't know kab sikhoge tumlog that for household chores you could hire a maid and cook. And don't tell me that not everyone can afford it cause if both persons are working then you should afford domestic helper.
@@Rk76742 domestic helper has a fixed timing pura din aake kam nhi krte wo. Aur her ek kam nhi krte plus unki cleaning achhi nhi hoti. Apna ghar smjh kr kam nhi krte wo. Maid m alawa ek baar to ghar and washroom ki safai apko khud krni padegi. Bartan bhi thik se nhi dhote bs unke dimag m yhi rehta h ki jldi se kam krke nikle. 30-40 minutes me ghar saaf kr deti h wo. Jitna fast krti h utni gandagi chhod deti h wo. Weekly once apko pura ghar saaf krna hi padega to understanding se kam divide krke kr sakte ho.
@@Rk76742 Looks like u have lived ur life pretty sheltered 😅 all in a small bubble...Living in filth and poverty does give u a very different perspective and fear. Moreover there are many obvious reasons why u might wanna avoid hiring a maid even if u can afford it. Think about it.
I am really glad to see that the new generation aka genz actually do care about these issues, I think they can become a great generation if guided properly and given the appropriate skills, education and opportunities.
Mothers inlaw need to change and not bring up their sons like princes. My MIL would chase away my husband from the kitchen, yet my father in law always helped her.
Best generation bnegi dekhte jaa bhai😂😂Ye to sab boht age ki baat ho gayi yhn tak phnchne se phle jo ye genz kar rhi hai wo bhi great hi hai😂..thoda corporate world me aao aur inke jse genz, married men/women kya kar rhe hai ake dekho tab mje ayenge🤣🤣basic ethics, moral values hai nhi ek stereotype ko overcome krke great ban jaygi ye genz? Character bro character ye khn se daloge is genz me? This patriarchy is a dwarf issue in front of what this genz is doing rn..Grow up to think on a broader prospect.
The irony is that even the girl' s father had a problem when his daughter spoke his mind where she was questioning the general norms. And of course people take it as an insult so that their faulty behaviour can hide under their anger.
@@AmishKumar-lc7zs At least we don't need to encourage you, as you are already following the NORMS. Let's hope for less or no marriages to continue with no stress from the norms followers 😀
@@AmishKumar-lc7zs no relationship at all with norms followers, either partners have to understand each other and find out a way to manage their home or no relationship at all. Stay single stay chaos free. Bina pyar wyar k bahat sare life objective hain life main. Shadi karna /partner rakhna should not be the primary goal.
Ladka hoke mai ne bhi dekha hai its still exists ... Didi wakesup at 5 jadu pocha , breakfast, banati hai for her husband, he wake up at 7 am she leaves home early and also at night she has to cook meal ...muje itna gussa ata hai ki ladkiyan apna ghar parivar, name , sab kuch chodke vishwas ke saath jati hai ki mera pati muje samjega... aagar shadi karni ho sab kuch puch lena..no adjustments
Thenku being a man you commented like this but don't mind yaha bhi ladko ko mostly apni bhn ka kasht dikhta hai but wahi same ladke apni wife k saath wahi karte hain... Telling this with my personal experience... Mere husband ko bhi apni bhn k liye bht dukh hota tha aur wo shadi se phle mujhse share karta tha... Aur yahi dekh k Maine usse shadi ki k uski soch kitni acchi hai... But shadi k baad wahi ladka aur mere saath bhi exactly aisa hi karta hai aur apni family k saamne bhi kuch nhi bolta... Ladke mostly dogle hote hain...sorry
@@nidhisingh4221 mene apni maa se e sikha ki ladkiyon ka life bahut difficult hota hai unko us type ka freedom nahi milta jaise ek ladke ko milta hai ... we were neighbours usne mujhe rakhi badi hai hum jyada baat bhi nahi karte lekin me use apni sagi manta hu ... Dusre ladko ka pata nahi maine soch liya hai agar kabhi shaadi karneka plan Raha tho sab kuch equal muje bhi khana banana Ghar ka kaam sab kuch ata hai saath me manage kar lenge,aur ladi ke mata pita ko agal rehena ki jarurat nahi hai Saath me reh lenge ...pata nahi reality me hoga kya nai
@@nidhisingh4221 Haa yeh baat 100% sach hai coz mene bhi dekha hai bhot si families mein esa hota hai.....they want ki unki beti ya bhen k husband unki help kre, unko samajhe and ghar k mamlo mein bhi apni wife ki side le....lekin ye sb wo apne Bete se kisi or ki beti k liye expect nhi krte, aur agar fir unka beta kre thho kh dete hai ki joru ka gulam hai 😂🙂
Tum apni didi ki side kyu nhi lete uske pati se bolte kyu nhi. Kuch ladki Wale konsa kam hote hai ladki se picha chudwane ke chakkar ma rehti hai fir chahe ladki dukhi rhi Vo uski biwi ha ma nhi Apni didi se kaho apne liye stand le Do din breakfast na bnake samaj aa jayega
Mere mummy papa dono teacher hai aur dono ek sath 4 baje uthte hai aur papa fresh hokar sabzi chop karte hai aur mummy aata knead karti hai fir papa sabzi banate hai aur mum roti banati hai, dono lunch lekar school chale jate hai fir dono aakar aaram karte hai aur utne me dadi chai banati hai fir mai aur meri family baate karte hai aur fir lunch ke baad dinner sath me banate hai meri dadi ki duty raat ko roti banane ki hai aur mummy sabzi banati hai,,,, itne saal ho gye lekin mai, mere dadaji aur dadi aur papa khana apne aap se lekar khate hai... Ye maine apne family se seekha hai aur future me mai apni wife ke sath aise hi rahunga... Kyu ki equality soch me hona chahiye 😊
And women want a kaamwala jo sirf yes ma'am no ma'am karta rahe...you need to understand both have different set of responsibilities..and if you don't think so..we would happily switch roles and just order you to provide money...and do not tell us the outside daily struggles we face everyday...maybe you haven't looked inside your house how you father fight with the world so that your family won't have any troubles...and all that without even complaining a word😢
@divyapoduval4402 I am boy that's why I learning how to cook and also daily chores of cleaning, dishwashing so that o don't want to depend on partner for anything.
@@jaykangtani6394 so let me let you about my father My father never wanted a maid as a wife My mother is working women They both earn nd both do household chores till today they have completed 40 beautiful yrs together Now we are 4 daughters nd 1 brother My both elder sister nd jiju is working they both earn nd do household work together… Nd my father always taught us nt to be nly maid in someone house Be a dignified women who get self respect in maika nd sasural too… Mei jis generation mei hu app jaise ladko ke comment dekhe lagta nhi Jiju jaisa yaa mere dad jaisa ab milega koi bahut mushkil hai…😅
Every saying that both the partners should contribute equally in all expenses needs to understand that when two people come together there can never be 50-50 in everything, can a man share the pain a woman goes through during child birth??? Can he share her monthly periods pain? Can he share the post partum depression a woman goes through after childbirth, even a woman does not expect 50-50 household work, they just want their partners support and help when needed, a woman just needs a person who will be with them and won't hesitate in doing household work.... It could be 40-60 or even 30-70. But do you think it is right if a woman works and then comes back from her work and goes straight into the kitchen to cook food for everyone while a man goes for a nap or to take rest, instead wouldn't it be better if both of them rest for a while and then cook together while chatting? Even i can understand this, why can't these egoistic men understand the context Stop taking everything literally 🤣
@@Sandwich-h1e so basically women will take all the load , financial and physical, emotional for children? And I'm really sorry to say but when men earn less than their woman most of them are very bitter
Duniya me aise ladke bhot kam hai jo is simple si chij ko samajhte hain ki mil bat kr kam karna chahiye jyda tar ulte hai unke liye ladki ko compulsory free service dena hi achi ladki ki pechan hai afsos to is bat ki hai ki padhe likhe kaphi ache post pe pahuche ladko ka bhi yahi hal hai
Ye reality h aj ki... Log sachme chahte to h kamau biwi aaye ghr me.. pr ghr ka kaam b aurat hi kare .upr se sasural wale aise hote h ki maid b rkhne nhi dete h... Hard but reality... Kama k b do, kaam b karo, bache paida kar k wo b palo
Q ki jo ladkiya hai na wo bhi provider hi dhundhti hai inspite of being they have a good job from which she earns a good money to if u want traditional mard then tumko to traditional hona hi hoga like ghar ka kam karna and uske alawa agar tum bahar ja ke kamana chati then good for u and if not then still it's ok because tumne ladke pasand hi liya uska financial ability dekh ke to it's the husbands responsibility to provide u
As a guy, I can work at both places. I don't even want to marry..I just like kids. Marriage ek bandhan hai jo dono taraf se barabar hota hai. Agar meri wife kamayegi tobhi ghar ka kharcha nahi mangunga. Uske badle use save karke apne bacho ko ujwal bhavish ke liye tayar rakhenge. Wo Paisa apne upar aur apne parents par use kare bas itna hi chahiye. I want to show my children that their parents are the best in the whole world.
Mere yaha bhi yehi tha...so na mai karta na woh ...maid laga li as time nahi rehta...on weekends she cook and i clean ...she put clothes in the machine and i make them dry... Then we celebrate an intimate movie watching together
She is Correct, What he Really in this Marriage is He wants a Maid, Baby Sitter, Personal Chef, Personal Assistant, someone to have his children, intimate partner to also contribute with financial expenses for the children and Household expenses, yeah this sounds very Unfair for the Woman.
🙂 reality of every house... I work, they appreciate it but now my mom, especially my aunt taunt me every now and then and tell me to do house chores no matter even if im dying of exhaustion after my whole day work. My cousin would be sitting, scrolling through phone but no body would say a single word to him. I hate this society, i hate to be born here
Don't hate to be born here. Mentality ko change krne ki suruat khud se hi kr skte h. Mere ghar me 3 sisters 1 brother h but bhai hmari help krta h. Hmesha nhi but hum teeno ghar pr na ho to mother ki help krta h. Jharu pocha cooking sb me help krta h. Apki aunt jo kr rhi h wi aap mat krna. Apne bachcho ko brabar sikhsha dena, ladka ho ya ladki. Tbhi smaaj badlega
2 option hai either tum atm ka talash band kar do in the name husband Or U can quit your job and do household chores. Because usne to kabhi bola nahi ki tumko Ghar ke bahar bhi kam karna hi hoga usne bola ki if u want u can do it. It's upon u if u want to do it or not.
Like me who want a working women, that means she must be working outside like me so in this situation I must share app the household chores or hire a maid because my preference is working women not housewife so I can't ask her to do household chores but it's not the case here they prefer a housewife but if she want to earn by herself she can that means she has a choice to do it or not to do it and also not to marry him
As a Boy, I am naturally attracted to Independent females 😅😅😅 I never thought about this aspect of equality, but now that I have, I am sure that is the kind of relationship I want 😊😊😊 where we share the chores and do them together in the meantime 😊😊😊
@@DalaluddeenHalalaaisi kharab marraige life se single rehna bohot accha hain. I am seeing my mother apparently it is the worst matraige life btw aap nahi samjhoge....jo sach boltahain wo feminist banjatahain.
This has become a trend nowadays, working maid.. if guys help wife in house hold stuff then its an extra effort from them what about a women who has less strength & expect to balance work life, satisfy husband & family.. soch wht a definition
What she said was definitely right. But the way she said was disrespectful, who knows if she could be calm and soft she could changed their mentality. This is the problem of today's generation including me. We are too aggressive and always ready to get into arguments but that's not how change is bought about. This is not a hate comment but just a reality both for me as well as those reading it.
But I didn't think she was "agressive" at all. She didnt raise her voice, or stand up, or leave the room or anything. She sat down and calmly explained her veiws(on HER role, if I may add). Its not her fault it hurt the other guy's fragile ego😅
@@phalgunanmaster4186 The way she spoke was not confidence but more like offensive than been defensive. Like oh do you want a working maid? Does that sound calmness to you? My mentor once said me, be humble while speaking it shouldn't hurt people's ego as you want to put forward your point not smash their ego. So all in all, humbleness wilk create alot of way and change a lot of perspectives we as a generation need to work alot on this area.
Because ladkiyo ka preference hi hota hai kamau ladka for shadi to ladka kamane pe dhyan dega ya Ghar ke kam karne me. So isiliye wajah se kam e gender based ho chuki hai. If a man is doing household chores then it's commendable by society only if he is earning money but if a man only do household chores and not earning then usi ko society na mard bana degi including u and feminists jo ki din bhar equal pay, equal household chores ki bate karti rehti hai.
Main ghar mein 5 baje utha hu. Morning walk par jaata hu. Ghar aata hu toh mummy kitchen mein sabke liye breakfast tyaar karrhi hoti hh. Aane ke baad jhadu pocha main karta hu. Usii time meri behen uthi hh. breakfast karke, agar koi gravy vaali sabji hh toh main tyaar karke deta hu. Uske baad apna padhne bait tha hu. Mere kapde week mein ekbaar dhulte hh, aur vo m khud dhota hu. Do baar nhahta bhi hu🤣. Phir shaam ko evening walk Ghar aake Baad mein dinner bhi kabhi kabhar mein hii bnata hu all by myself for everyone. Bas roti bnani nhi aati +aata goothna nhi aata( wife se hii sikhunga😂). phir lunch ke ya dinner ke ek time ke bartan main dhota hu. Par koi nhi dekhta. 🤣 Par jab 5 min. phone haath mein kiya liya, pados vaale bhi aake sunadete hh.😅
Every one should do whatever they can, to be ease with each other to maintain that relationship balance Tali do hat se bajati hai bhai 😂😂 Equality real world main khali ek word hai bas😅😅
100% sahi h aaj ke samaj me adhikaratar log ki soch aisi h ..padhai ke sath ghar ka pura kam sasural me ..late night sona subah jaldi uthna ..chhoti chhoti galti pr ghante bhar sunna ...😢😢
Marriage is understanding between 2 people and a responsibility to work together until end. No matter whether it's limited to home or outside. Liberty should be given to both
It's good to work in home... It's good to have paid maid in home... It's good to support and co-operate with your spouse... But it's not good to have unnecessary attitude to start a relation. The way these contents and social media is potraying things , is one of the main reason everyone is running away from marriage... Because they get views on potraying one as Villian ... There is less positivity on social media.. Don't ruin your life for someone's views .
Men and women, both should contribute 50% equally in house chores only if both are earning equally. But, if women are not ready to marry equally earning men,, and she only wants to marry men who are earning 4 times her own salary, then she should not expect her richer husband to do 50% housework. Her richer Husband will do only 12% of housework.
Richer husband, atleast you are honest. Men want women who are young but still earning same. Richer husband doesn't give all money to his wife. Money which is earned by husband is mostly saved in his name minus the home expense, which is otherwise also spent at home. So people who think they are giving food shelter etc should understand she had it before marriage in her or hers parents house. She comes to you to start a life and have kids. Marriage works on mutual love, respect and sacrifice. With this attitude marriage will end in divorce. Pls dont bring equality in marriage. Appreciate efforts not results.
Yeah business deal todi na hai whoever earns more is king ,if situation is reversed than if woman earns more she gets to do only 12per work and if men lose job suddenly due to recession etc she can divorce him
@@Saltbrush0521 what a logic 🤣🤣🤣🤣 But you forgot that if she is earning less that does not mean she will work less hours to earn that less money. Work hours will be equal even if the amount is more or less. (For example if she is a School teacher and he is a Headmaster, both will work equal hours though because of the positions their earning amount is different but does that mean wife is not tired?) Of I forgot according to men's logic only males have the right to be tired....
See it's very simple thing yaar kaam , jimmedari, sukh ,dukh, batane ke liye hi jiwan sathi hota hai bas perticular chizz kisi par bhi thopna nahi chahiye maa baap and jiwansathi dono ki ijjat ho, pyaar mile , problems kitni bhi aaye doesn't matter apane har baar sath ho jo apako judge na kare , apaki care kare , ek dusare ke sapne ko udne mai madat kare 😊 and haa even after child she gives birth then it's important to take care of both 😊 agar woh periods par bhi ho toh thoda sambhaal lena iss wajah se toh sathi kaha jata hai
It's good to work in home... It's good to have paid maid in home... It's good to support and co-operate with your spouse... But it's not good to have unnecessary attitude to start a relation. The way these contents and social media is potraying things , is one of the main reason everyone is running away from marriage... Because they get views on potraying one as Villian ... There is less positivity on social media.. Don't ruin your life for someone's views .
@@Satyam_Mehta agar sari important baateh jo society ke nazaro mai choti baat hai unhe pehele hi discuss kar lena chahiye because yeh baat choti hai but jindagi ki harr din mai isse Anna hai
@@shwarisartshwarisartye baate sabko pata hai isliye ye video ban paati hai. It is a portraying of attitude by girl is wrong and elders marriage ko bandhan ki jagah samjhota samajh rahe hai. Ladke ka kya galti kya sahi kuch samajh nahi aaya. Jeevan pyar se chalta hai, attitude ko last resort mein rakhna chahiye.
My dad as well always say that a girl should learn to cook manage , be courageous go outside, do house chores, earn do job as well i wonder that if i say why cant y say the same to a boy?? But unlucky i dont have any brother to make my dad understand 😢 equality is different from feminism and pseudo feminism ppl should betr understand it
mai to kisi ki nahi sunongi but i will ask the person who wants to Marry me these things 1. does he pray everyday 2. does he believe in Allah 3. respecting my parents and his parents 4. will he help me doing house chores 5. does he accept me as working women 6. does he accept me as a wife not a maid 7. hmmmmm aur bhi conditions hai meri I will ask him when the time comes .....
Didi, specially Humanity, Respect, Expressions on different situations and Time Spending mein dhyaan rakhna. Aap jarur question karna. May god give you happy life.
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Haa reality yeh hai ki agar ladko ko ghar pai apana comfort zone nahi mila toh problem hoti hai I mean usane galat kya kaha ghar dono ka pariwaar dono ka shadi dono child dono ka toh Ghar kaa kaam bas ek ka hi kyu
Thik hi kah rhi h. Mere sasural Wale job wali job wali kar rhe the phle job wali mil gyi to kaamwali nhi. H karke tana maarte rhte h. Salary b do kaam b kro tana b suno bacha pati saas job kitchen sab ladki hi smbhalegi isse to acha h shadi hi n krti bohot pchhta rhi hu ab
Bura lga sun kar apke bare mein 😢, bhagwan ke Daya se wo ldka khud hi Tod dia roka aur Mai Bach gyi apke sasural ke tarah ke galeez logo ke yaha shadi krne se . Shadi fix krne se phle bade meethe ban rhe the baad mein sachai pta chli hame.
She was a bit rude if u ask me and arrogant. I understand what she's saying but she couldve been a bit more respectful in her answer. This is why i don't like arranged marriages. Let your daughter and sons choose who they want as their life parther... its best and easier.
@@Saurabh-adc to talk about her own rights are not combative. Only the boy's side decided that ladki sanskari hai and hume rishta manjoor hai, they didn't even bother to ask the girl if she had any questions, they asked the boy and thought it was the only necessary thing. C'mon, can't you see the hypocrisy?
@@ishjain49 It seems like you don't go out and have never talked with anyone. That is how you talk to people you hate, not someone you are trying to befriend. She was looking for a fight and she got one. That's what happened in this video.
Women should pay 50% of the cash required to buy the house in which they are living or pay 50% of rent. (If the house costs 1 crore, she should pay 50 lakh), Women should pay 50% of all household bills and expenses,, if she wants her husband to do 50% of all housework. Only then there will be true gender equality.
N what do you think when bith husband wife earn to what happens to money? My mom dad both earned ... both made a house.. one saved and one spent .. it was easy to assume only one income and then spend.. mother used to save all her income and after 20 years wen we made home mother gave the saved part n father knew .. agar dono kharch karte to itni saving nahi ho pati.. bith independent and apna kharcha khud uthao is a strategy by market where in they want women to spend unnecessarily on makeup n dresses which are not necessity .. hence this narrative ki mai apna kharcha khud utha sakti hu... but in a household u both contribute and plan together.. dono ko ek sath chalna hota h.. dono ka ek hi goal hota hai.. 20 saal me ghar banana hai to aj se save karna padega aur dono kharch karenge to nahi hoga.. father or mother keep one pay in bank and use the other..it is an advise for ur future as husband.. n trust karo ek dusre pe.. alimony wali to waise bhi sab le jaegi.. shadi se pehle ladki ko dekho ki wo apke sath apna future dekhti hai ya apna akele ka future dekhti hai.. same for boy also.. dono milke dekhenge to shadi chalegi warna divorce pakka hai..and family bht bada role pay karti h shadi ke baad.. mummy papa agar galat bolenge to rishta toot bhi sakta hai.. so be sensible and trust each other choti choti batein ignore karo So don't get afraid.. just trust once u get married U cant change people and elder generation... aur jin aurton ne job nahi ki hai wo aisi baatein karti hain.. meri mummy aj bhi bolti hain beta job karke paise to kamaye but i always was in a loss ghr ka n duty dono karna padta tha ..
I earn but monthly kharcha mai aur husband milke plan karte hain n mai dresses makeup pe koi kharcha nahi karti husband se puchti bhi hu ki budget exceed hoga kya.. wo bhi aise hi plan karte hai apne kharche.. dono ek dusre ko respect karte hain n aur ek dusre ke shaukh ka b khayaal rakhte hain.. ek mahine maine kuch kharida to mai unke liye le leti hu next month aur aise hi ghar chalta hai.. Bhaiya ghar youtube videos se nahi chalega.. ye sab falti batein hain dono ek dusre ko samajna.. jb bhi jhagda ho ye dialogue yaad nahi rakhna.. samne wala kya kehna chahta h kis baat se pareshan h wo dekhna... koi rulebook mat dekhna har insaan alag hota h
Even I have same POV. The wife should be a working wife who contributes equally to house financially and we can have a cook and a maid for such purposes👍
Hello guys, I have a question our mothers the housewives who give their 100% to make our homes happy by giving seva to the elders, loving the whole family, and educating the children, and giving them sanskara are they bai For me all the housewives(the mothers) in the whole world who are may be highly educated or not all of them are the primary root of a family So if a woman who is highly educated and also does all the kartavyas for her family, that woman is the most respected in society and also near the lord
Off course but iska yeh matlab toh nahi ki woh apani khushiya maar de 😊 dekho iss duniya ki ek sacchai hai tum kitna bhi kar lo , but agar tum earn nahi karate tab tumhe koi ijjat nahi deta Haa sanskar dena , achhi parwarish karna , education yeh kya bas ek maa ki hi jimmedari hai pita ki nahi santaan dono ki hai toh jimmedari ek ki hi Har baar aane sapno ka gala ghotana kya jaruri hai tumhe koi kahe abb tak jitni bhi mehnat , exam ke liye assignment ke liye tum ne ki hai woh sab bhool jao and ghar baitho bacche sambhalo bina kuch kahe , bas tumhara gender dekh toh kya sahi hai I mean sapne , dil , sabke pass hota khuul kar jio
Men must also be given this chance to live near the lord by washing their own underwear and changing diapers of their lovely kids that her wife gave birth risking her life❤😊. We can't let this society snatch the fatherly love and quality time from a family. This is a partnership after all.
@@shwarisartshwarisart dekho hamare iss duniya me adhiktar chisen galat hai, in sabhi ke bich mein jo bhi achhai hai humen usika hi samman karni chahiye aur akhir kar samman usiko milega Jo bhi Satya mein hoga Aur tumhe essa kyun lagta hai ki samman sirf unhi ko milta hai jo paise kamate hain, iss prakar ki bhavnaye sirf or sirf ek mansik roop se bimaar society main hi ho sakta hai. Agar society ki demand ke anusar hum sab chalne lage toh ek vyakti ya ek mahila ka paise kamana bhi kam pad jayega Lekin tumhare anya baton se main sahmat hu
@@PoojaKumari-ty6sh hello mam, do you think all these works are coming under a lower catagory of work, and who told you a man never does this type of works you mentioned
@@PoojaKumari-ty6sh but making condition for these types of household works when you are going to marry someone is like a cheap behaviour If there is pure love between a couple then everything can be done, a man can also do what her wife does it's just about love and there understanding
People who cook food,clean, dust are not necessarily maids. I'm a bodyguard and I cook, clean for my family doesn't mean I'm a servant. And if you're interested in marrying the person,then the questions should be asked in person without involving his father and family. There's no need to create a drama if you don't want to marry. There's is something like polite refusal and calm tone.
My friend married a man earning 4 times her salary. Then she asked her husband who was working 10 hours a day, to do 50% of housework after his office time. Her Husband refused to do housework. So, she left her husband's house and tried to buy her own house using her own money. Then she realises that she does not have 2 crore rupees to buy a house similar to her husband's house and she cannot pay 50,000 rent per month to rent a similar house.. So, she returns to her husband's house, starts doing housework and stays rent free in her husband's house all her life.
Agar ek dusre ko respect karte h aur samajte hain .. feel karte hain ek dusre ki problems to ye sab problems nahi ayengi.. jaha sirf competition ho maine ye kia tune wo.. wo ghar nahi chalega Jb husband thaka ho u do 80 n job nahi karti jo ladkiya to ghar ka kaam unhi ko karna chahiye.. whi 50-50 hua.. he gets money u run the house Jaha dono job karte hain just see timings and sensibly help karo If i am good in cooking i cook.. husband bas sath me baatein hi karle Kapde washing machine me daal de Choti choti help karde Wo ladkiya galat h jinko job bhi nahi karni aur ghar ka kaam bhi adha adha chahiye Job karne wali bhi ye dekho ki kya ap job sirf isliye kar rhe ho ki ghar ka kaam na karna pade ya wakai ap fonancially contribute kar rhe ho ghar me means acha kama rhe ho
What she earns mostly goes to kids and family most of the time. 90 percent woman dont give much money to their parents and have strong financial boundaries unlike men who spend huge chunk of their money in managing his parents. Not wrong but bringing the fact that ladies usually dont do that. So whatever she earns is for the family.
How many months does the kids spend in the father's womb... Compared to mother... How much father breastfeeds the child than the mother... Shut the fuck up... Bastard
That guy's attitude is calm. He is just stating his point. But the girl is in the mood of arguments and show attitude. The guy saved from a toxic girl. 🙏
Will any boy be calm in such situations?? Where he is forced to be binded in only household work or anything...the girl is just taking a stand for herself...to protect herself from being binded!! There's a difference between arguing and taking stand for yourself
Women chose to do housework. I always tell my mom not to work or cook & let me order all 4 meals through online home delivery apps or hire a housemaid. Yet, she won't listen🤷♂️
यहां पर गलती दोनो side से है,, 1. लड़के के पापा को समझना पड़ेगा की, एक पति को घर की कामों में अपनी पत्नी की मदद करनी चाहिए, यह उसका उसकी पत्नी के प्रति एहसान नहीं, उसका कर्तव्य है पति-पत्नी एक दूसरे के बिना अधूरे हैं । 2. लड़की को ध्यान रहना चाहिए था अपनी behaviour पर, क्योंकि लड़के वाले तबसे इतने खुशी से बात कर रहे थे, इतना अच्छा माहौल था, लड़की ने भी जो कुछ भी सवाल किए, वो सब बिलकुल जरूरी भी था पूछना, लेकिन,,,,,,वो सब सवाल एक छोटीसी मुस्कुराहट के साथ भी तो पूछी जा सकती थी, थोड़ा नम्र होकर भी तो पूछी जा सकती थी लड़की के बात करने के तरीके से वो scene याद आ गया जैसे , देवसेना ने अहंकार में आकर शिवगामी देवी को कितने उल्टी सीधी बात कही थी बाहुबली movie में कृपया दोनो तरफ ध्यान रखें ।
Some people are blaming the guy's father for her attitude. But that guy is supporting equality. This thing can be solved with a normal conversation. Her attitude is absolutely wrong in any way. 🙏
@Anisole23 Actually, the guy's father was putting their point and the girl was barking. If she has a problem with the thinking of the guy's parents she could say no calmly. She is absolutely wrong here. Every woman should not react this way. If they don't agree with something they have the right to say no. 🙏
@Anisole23 So Now girls will teach to a person of their father's age 'तमीज'. This is how टॉक्सिक फेमिनिजम is dangerous. That's why I say everything is justified for women. But men are easy to make villains. 😏🙏
@Anisole23 So Now girls will teach to a person of their father's age 'तमीज'. This is how टॉक्सिक फेमिनिस्ट is dangerous. That's why I say everything is justified for women. But men are easy to make villains. 😏🙏
@Anisole23 So Now girls will teach to a person of their father's age 'तमीज'. This is how 'Toxic Feminism' are dangerous. That's why I say everything is justified for women. But men are easy to make villains. 😏🙏
Equality and broad mentality only for finance not for house chores 😂
Same situation, That's why I won't spend any penny on House expenditures.😅
Men's logic 😆
@meerasm6849 that's good.
And so true. One of my relative is a doctor and also works at home. And her mother in law always gossips/batching about her, saying she doesn't spend money at usme not even puja and that she has to pay money(whoch ofcourse she doesn't earns). That's how she talks shit about her😢
@@tanjirokamado6396 soo true . Mother in law's think that by getting their son married they get a free maid and they raise their son with so called men's logic that is men doesn't do house chores . Mother in law's are the biggest bully in the world. But I can also see some mother's who brought their sons well And stands for their daughter in laws . Hope there comes a change in the upcoming years . Its upto every young mothers today to raise their sons well and teach the right thing to bring a better future for next generation daughters .
Yy😊8😊7y😊y7y7yy77y878iiuiîiioiî ii ii iiuui8uyy7yy@@mainwork5118
Maid who earns money… hard truth
This is the reality check girls..sad but true
So girls wants a slave who earns for her 😅😅
Exactly
Maid who earns money.... And acgivates my life my rules my miney is my money and your money is our money....
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The fact is she can politely put her points with confidence.
Could you please share polite way to put this point... I would like to learn
Right 👍🏻@@abhilashagupta80
Good @lifequotes359 No reply is the best reply. If she has to understand she didn't ask .🙏🏼
There is no sweet way of putting a bitter truth because truth is always bitter and people don't like it
@@whitelotus2960exactly...truth is bitter...samne nhi to bad me bura lagega.... kaise bhi bolo politely ya normally..
Girl roasted them in seconds 👑✨️
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Shi to bola girl ne jb earning dono krenge to ghr pe work v dono ko krma chahiye ar children ki upbringing v zimmedari dono ki hoti h
Par enko ye samaj nhi aayega , 🤡 dimang m gobbar jo h 😂
@@exploringnature3122 अरे तो ना कौन कह रहा है लेकिन अपनी बात रखने का भी एक तरीका होता है। लडके ने हां कहा था अगर उसके परिवार से शांति से बात करती तो सब हल हो जाता। 😏
@@Dharmik459 ha uske aaba ki batto se pta chl rha tha ,kaisa toxic Buddha h ...
@@Akansha-e1h Your behaviour shows you don't know Normal Conversation. 🙏
@@Dharmik459 your comment shows u don't know equality....
Usne aaram se h bola h ki aapko kamane Wale naukari chahiye ,and that's what they expect...
And that's good she soon made decision to make out of that toxic rishta
She gave them straight forward answer ❤❤❤
A man doesn't lose his masculinity for helping the wife in doing house chores.
Not helping. Its doing or sharing
Not helping, he need to do his duties
I wish if women start marrying guys who earns same as them and same property inheritance or less so by her logic every girl wants an luxury Life style and just an atm i really wish girls contribute same as husband in terms of finance girls ko bhi bas or bas amir bada ghar gadi paisa wala chahiye what do girls bring to the table for relationship apart from their beauty nowadays majority girls don't know any chores
@@dhirajpawar6501Very true!
@@dhirajpawar6501so sad. Please don't marry a girl 😂
Both Should Do Household work!!!
Yes, also both should do work in jobs
If both r doing jobs then they should divide chores responsibly.
No work is feminine aur muscline.
@@PoojaKumari-ty6shI don't know kab sikhoge tumlog that for household chores you could hire a maid and cook. And don't tell me that not everyone can afford it cause if both persons are working then you should afford domestic helper.
@@Rk76742 domestic helper has a fixed timing pura din aake kam nhi krte wo. Aur her ek kam nhi krte plus unki cleaning achhi nhi hoti. Apna ghar smjh kr kam nhi krte wo. Maid m alawa ek baar to ghar and washroom ki safai apko khud krni padegi. Bartan bhi thik se nhi dhote bs unke dimag m yhi rehta h ki jldi se kam krke nikle. 30-40 minutes me ghar saaf kr deti h wo. Jitna fast krti h utni gandagi chhod deti h wo. Weekly once apko pura ghar saaf krna hi padega to understanding se kam divide krke kr sakte ho.
@@Rk76742 Looks like u have lived ur life pretty sheltered 😅 all in a small bubble...Living in filth and poverty does give u a very different perspective and fear.
Moreover there are many obvious reasons why u might wanna avoid hiring a maid even if u can afford it.
Think about it.
I am really glad to see that the new generation aka genz actually do care about these issues, I think they can become a great generation if guided properly and given the appropriate skills, education and opportunities.
Let them get over from dumbness & cringeness first😂😂.
Mothers inlaw need to change and not bring up their sons like princes. My MIL would chase away my husband from the kitchen, yet my father in law always helped her.
Best generation bnegi dekhte jaa bhai😂😂Ye to sab boht age ki baat ho gayi yhn tak phnchne se phle jo ye genz kar rhi hai wo bhi great hi hai😂..thoda corporate world me aao aur inke jse genz, married men/women kya kar rhe hai ake dekho tab mje ayenge🤣🤣basic ethics, moral values hai nhi ek stereotype ko overcome krke great ban jaygi ye genz? Character bro character ye khn se daloge is genz me? This patriarchy is a dwarf issue in front of what this genz is doing rn..Grow up to think on a broader prospect.
This generation is good in few things like these but absolutely worst in majority
@@Z71990 cant agree more
The irony is that even the girl' s father had a problem when his daughter spoke his mind where she was questioning the general norms. And of course people take it as an insult so that their faulty behaviour can hide under their anger.
Not just him
Mostly every girl father is like that only
If i say this
My father give me a tight slap in front pf them only sad but true 😢
Bcz the father know how amazing was previous norms . We should all encouraged that.
@@AmishKumar-lc7zs At least we don't need to encourage you, as you are already following the NORMS. Let's hope for less or no marriages to continue with no stress from the norms followers 😀
@@susmitaray7524 yep that's also good. Either traditional gender roles or something like live-in, open relationship 😍.
@@AmishKumar-lc7zs no relationship at all with norms followers, either partners have to understand each other and find out a way to manage their home or no relationship at all. Stay single stay chaos free. Bina pyar wyar k bahat sare life objective hain life main. Shadi karna /partner rakhna should not be the primary goal.
Ladka hoke mai ne bhi dekha hai its still exists ... Didi wakesup at 5 jadu pocha , breakfast, banati hai for her husband, he wake up at 7 am she leaves home early and also at night she has to cook meal ...muje itna gussa ata hai ki ladkiyan apna ghar parivar, name , sab kuch chodke vishwas ke saath jati hai ki mera pati muje samjega... aagar shadi karni ho sab kuch puch lena..no adjustments
Thanks.. this small comments restores my faith in men ❤️🩹
Thenku being a man you commented like this but don't mind yaha bhi ladko ko mostly apni bhn ka kasht dikhta hai but wahi same ladke apni wife k saath wahi karte hain... Telling this with my personal experience... Mere husband ko bhi apni bhn k liye bht dukh hota tha aur wo shadi se phle mujhse share karta tha... Aur yahi dekh k Maine usse shadi ki k uski soch kitni acchi hai... But shadi k baad wahi ladka aur mere saath bhi exactly aisa hi karta hai aur apni family k saamne bhi kuch nhi bolta... Ladke mostly dogle hote hain...sorry
@@nidhisingh4221 mene apni maa se e sikha ki ladkiyon ka life bahut difficult hota hai unko us type ka freedom nahi milta jaise ek ladke ko milta hai ... we were neighbours usne mujhe rakhi badi hai hum jyada baat bhi nahi karte lekin me use apni sagi manta hu ... Dusre ladko ka pata nahi maine soch liya hai agar kabhi shaadi karneka plan Raha tho sab kuch equal muje bhi khana banana Ghar ka kaam sab kuch ata hai saath me manage kar lenge,aur ladi ke mata pita ko agal rehena ki jarurat nahi hai Saath me reh lenge ...pata nahi reality me hoga kya nai
@@nidhisingh4221 Haa yeh baat 100% sach hai coz mene bhi dekha hai bhot si families mein esa hota hai.....they want ki unki beti ya bhen k husband unki help kre, unko samajhe and ghar k mamlo mein bhi apni wife ki side le....lekin ye sb wo apne Bete se kisi or ki beti k liye expect nhi krte, aur agar fir unka beta kre thho kh dete hai ki joru ka gulam hai 😂🙂
Tum apni didi ki side kyu nhi lete uske pati se bolte kyu nhi. Kuch ladki Wale konsa kam hote hai ladki se picha chudwane ke chakkar ma rehti hai fir chahe ladki dukhi rhi
Vo uski biwi ha ma nhi
Apni didi se kaho apne liye stand le
Do din breakfast na bnake samaj aa jayega
Mere mummy papa dono teacher hai aur dono ek sath 4 baje uthte hai aur papa fresh hokar sabzi chop karte hai aur mummy aata knead karti hai fir papa sabzi banate hai aur mum roti banati hai, dono lunch lekar school chale jate hai fir dono aakar aaram karte hai aur utne me dadi chai banati hai fir mai aur meri family baate karte hai aur fir lunch ke baad dinner sath me banate hai meri dadi ki duty raat ko roti banane ki hai aur mummy sabzi banati hai,,,, itne saal ho gye lekin mai, mere dadaji aur dadi aur papa khana apne aap se lekar khate hai... Ye maine apne family se seekha hai aur future me mai apni wife ke sath aise hi rahunga... Kyu ki equality soch me hona chahiye 😊
Wow❤
Wow it's so nice
Acha laga comment pad kar....aisi kind n achi family bhi hai india mai
Full time maid and ATM machine chahiye
Yes Aaj kal Aisa hi ho gaya and no respect also for that
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And women want a kaamwala jo sirf yes ma'am no ma'am karta rahe...you need to understand both have different set of responsibilities..and if you don't think so..we would happily switch roles and just order you to provide money...and do not tell us the outside daily struggles we face everyday...maybe you haven't looked inside your house how you father fight with the world so that your family won't have any troubles...and all that without even complaining a word😢
@divyapoduval4402 I am boy that's why I learning how to cook and also daily chores of cleaning, dishwashing so that o don't want to depend on partner for anything.
@@jaykangtani6394 so let me let you about my father
My father never wanted a maid as a wife
My mother is working women
They both earn nd both do household chores till today they have completed 40 beautiful yrs together
Now we are 4 daughters nd 1 brother
My both elder sister nd jiju is working they both earn nd do household work together…
Nd my father always taught us nt to be nly maid in someone house
Be a dignified women who get self respect in maika nd sasural too…
Mei jis generation mei hu app jaise ladko ke comment dekhe lagta nhi
Jiju jaisa yaa mere dad jaisa ab milega koi bahut mushkil hai…😅
Every saying that both the partners should contribute equally in all expenses needs to understand that when two people come together there can never be 50-50 in everything, can a man share the pain a woman goes through during child birth??? Can he share her monthly periods pain? Can he share the post partum depression a woman goes through after childbirth, even a woman does not expect 50-50 household work, they just want their partners support and help when needed, a woman just needs a person who will be with them and won't hesitate in doing household work.... It could be 40-60 or even 30-70. But do you think it is right if a woman works and then comes back from her work and goes straight into the kitchen to cook food for everyone while a man goes for a nap or to take rest, instead wouldn't it be better if both of them rest for a while and then cook together while chatting? Even i can understand this, why can't these egoistic men understand the context
Stop taking everything literally 🤣
Just marry lower earning husband than you in relationship.......You will have upper hand...
@@Sandwich-h1ethat's the worst possible thing in marriage. When a man is not protecting, he is not loving.
@@poojaganguli2624 Why not protecting??
@@Sandwich-h1e so basically women will take all the load , financial and physical, emotional for children? And I'm really sorry to say but when men earn less than their woman most of them are very bitter
Exactly 😂 now they will bring stereotypes. Women don't pay for family expenses I mean 😂
Yhi line mene boli.... Larke wale 4 sunakr chle gye... Aur ghrwalo ne alg sunaya... Galt kya bola mene 😞
Well done didi you r right
Don't mind these people
Tumne sahi Kiya
Kam se Kam tumhare maa baap ki aukat to pata chali
Tumhe
Ki wo tumhari side na le kar
Tumhare dushman ki side le rahe hai
You did what I couldn't. I wish you a truly equal relationship in future.
I love you for this didu❤
Duniya me aise ladke bhot kam hai jo is simple si chij ko samajhte hain ki mil bat kr kam karna chahiye jyda tar ulte hai unke liye ladki ko compulsory free service dena hi achi ladki ki pechan hai afsos to is bat ki hai ki padhe likhe kaphi ache post pe pahuche ladko ka bhi yahi hal hai
The way the groom's father's face has turned after she says"I have some questions" show girls should not have right to speak😢
Income ke liye equality aur ghar ke kaam ke liye inequality 😂
True side of society
Equality honi chahiye yrr sacchi👍🏻🥲🙂
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@@DalaluddeenHalala😂😂😂😂
@@AshwinKumar-g8u 😂
@@DalaluddeenHalala Chigma 🤡
It is reality and reality always differs
Had her parents supported her, it would have been a different scenario.
shi bola to chubh gya ye he reality hai
Finally someone speaking about it too😌👍🏻👏🏻🎉
Ye reality h aj ki... Log sachme chahte to h kamau biwi aaye ghr me.. pr ghr ka kaam b aurat hi kare .upr se sasural wale aise hote h ki maid b rkhne nhi dete h... Hard but reality... Kama k b do, kaam b karo, bache paida kar k wo b palo
Q ki jo ladkiya hai na wo bhi provider hi dhundhti hai inspite of being they have a good job from which she earns a good money to if u want traditional mard then tumko to traditional hona hi hoga like ghar ka kam karna and uske alawa agar tum bahar ja ke kamana chati then good for u and if not then still it's ok because tumne ladke pasand hi liya uska financial ability dekh ke to it's the husbands responsibility to provide u
To apne paiso se mad ralh lo na yar and sach kahu to mai bhi yahi prefer kar Karunga. Ki maid rakh lo 50 tum dena 50 Mai dunga.
@@sumanmajumdar7884agree
Ye ab ldko ka nya trend bn gya h ldki working chahiye jo ghr bhi smbhal le jaise hmare pas body nhi machine h hm to thakte hi nhi h 😂😂
Vahi karamchari jaise soch tabhi tho badhega india
As a guy, I can work at both places. I don't even want to marry..I just like kids.
Marriage ek bandhan hai jo dono taraf se barabar hota hai.
Agar meri wife kamayegi tobhi ghar ka kharcha nahi mangunga. Uske badle use save karke apne bacho ko ujwal bhavish ke liye tayar rakhenge. Wo Paisa apne upar aur apne parents par use kare bas itna hi chahiye.
I want to show my children that their parents are the best in the whole world.
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Music shop murthy
The savage reply of girl great ❤👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😇 well said. Thanks and this social msg is for all 😇👍🏻👏🏻
She was absolutely right
He is a man how can do work👿then don't let him eat,otherwise he's cooking the meal😂
Mere yaha bhi yehi tha...so na mai karta na woh ...maid laga li as time nahi rehta...on weekends she cook and i clean ...she put clothes in the machine and i make them dry... Then we celebrate an intimate movie watching together
Good job! If u earning good...then try resting well and enjoy ur quality time together ❤.
Good day😊
Dil jeet liya, apni wife aur baki mahilaon ka! ❤
Yep that's how things work
You are good couple ❤
@@PoojaKumari-ty6sh ❤️❤️❤️
She is Correct, What he Really in this Marriage is He wants a Maid, Baby Sitter, Personal Chef, Personal Assistant, someone to have his children, intimate partner to also contribute with financial expenses for the children and Household expenses, yeah this sounds very Unfair for the Woman.
🙂 reality of every house...
I work, they appreciate it but now my mom, especially my aunt taunt me every now and then and tell me to do house chores no matter even if im dying of exhaustion after my whole day work.
My cousin would be sitting, scrolling through phone but no body would say a single word to him.
I hate this society, i hate to be born here
Don't hate to be born here. Mentality ko change krne ki suruat khud se hi kr skte h. Mere ghar me 3 sisters 1 brother h but bhai hmari help krta h. Hmesha nhi but hum teeno ghar pr na ho to mother ki help krta h. Jharu pocha cooking sb me help krta h. Apki aunt jo kr rhi h wi aap mat krna. Apne bachcho ko brabar sikhsha dena, ladka ho ya ladki. Tbhi smaaj badlega
Then u become the change, teach your son, when you become mother
She said the truth ❤
Ajkal sabko working maid hi toh chaiye 😢 Kam toh dono ek saath karne me aasan ho jate hai barnaaaa...,.....
2 option hai either tum atm ka talash band kar do in the name husband
Or
U can quit your job and do household chores. Because usne to kabhi bola nahi ki tumko Ghar ke bahar bhi kam karna hi hoga usne bola ki if u want u can do it. It's upon u if u want to do it or not.
Like me who want a working women, that means she must be working outside like me so in this situation I must share app the household chores or hire a maid because my preference is working women not housewife so I can't ask her to do household chores but it's not the case here they prefer a housewife but if she want to earn by herself she can that means she has a choice to do it or not to do it and also not to marry him
As a Boy, I am naturally attracted to Independent females 😅😅😅 I never thought about this aspect of equality, but now that I have, I am sure that is the kind of relationship I want 😊😊😊 where we share the chores and do them together in the meantime 😊😊😊
Lrki ne bilkul thek kha
Ab zindagi bhar single rahegi. Hail Feminism
@@DalaluddeenHalalaye log offend ho jaate hai bhai
@@DalaluddeenHalalaaisi kharab marraige life se single rehna bohot accha hain. I am seeing my mother apparently it is the worst matraige life btw aap nahi samjhoge....jo sach boltahain wo feminist banjatahain.
@@DalaluddeenHalalaAcha hai. Single rehna toxic masculinity ki sikhar hone se acha hai. 🤡
@@DalaluddeenHalalaaise ghatiya insan se single hona achha hai
Sachai hmare samaj me kewal filmo ke dialogues me hi achhe lagte Hain radhe radhe 🙏🙇
I don't know why but this story matches with the story *Reedh ki Haddi* of Class 9 Ncert Kritika 😅
Loved it ❤❤ that's how a girl should get educated. A girl who knows equality, yes!!!
This has become a trend nowadays, working maid.. if guys help wife in house hold stuff then its an extra effort from them what about a women who has less strength & expect to balance work life, satisfy husband & family.. soch wht a definition
What she said was definitely right. But the way she said was disrespectful, who knows if she could be calm and soft she could changed their mentality.
This is the problem of today's generation including me. We are too aggressive and always ready to get into arguments but that's not how change is bought about.
This is not a hate comment but just a reality both for me as well as those reading it.
But I didn't think she was "agressive" at all. She didnt raise her voice, or stand up, or leave the room or anything. She sat down and calmly explained her veiws(on HER role, if I may add). Its not her fault it hurt the other guy's fragile ego😅
@@phalgunanmaster4186 The way she spoke was not confidence but more like offensive than been defensive. Like oh do you want a working maid? Does that sound calmness to you?
My mentor once said me, be humble while speaking it shouldn't hurt people's ego as you want to put forward your point not smash their ego. So all in all, humbleness wilk create alot of way and change a lot of perspectives we as a generation need to work alot on this area.
Yhi sahi h ki shaadi k phle hi hm sb clear Krna hi chahiye nhi to bad m kuch nhi kr skte fas jate h
Valid point...they can say we divide all household work and help each other or we keep maid .. marriage is real big responsibility
Household chores is not based on gender, it is basic need that everyone should perform.... But its truly sad many people don't understand
Because ladkiyo ka preference hi hota hai kamau ladka for shadi to ladka kamane pe dhyan dega ya Ghar ke kam karne me. So isiliye wajah se kam e gender based ho chuki hai. If a man is doing household chores then it's commendable by society only if he is earning money but if a man only do household chores and not earning then usi ko society na mard bana degi including u and feminists jo ki din bhar equal pay, equal household chores ki bate karti rehti hai.
If both are working hire maid... This should not be a deal breaker. If not, its a shared responsibility
Man sath me mil k kyu nhi karwa skta kam 😂😂
@@thedaredevils6877 I mentioned it's a shared responsibility
No need to marry a woman and then pay salary to a maid... Better to marry the maid because maid will do all housework without any salary..
Main ghar mein 5 baje utha hu.
Morning walk par jaata hu.
Ghar aata hu toh mummy kitchen mein sabke liye breakfast tyaar karrhi hoti hh.
Aane ke baad jhadu pocha main karta hu. Usii time meri behen uthi hh.
breakfast karke, agar koi gravy vaali sabji hh toh main tyaar karke deta hu.
Uske baad apna padhne bait tha hu.
Mere kapde week mein ekbaar dhulte hh, aur vo m khud dhota hu.
Do baar nhahta bhi hu🤣.
Phir shaam ko evening walk
Ghar aake Baad mein dinner bhi kabhi kabhar mein hii bnata hu all by myself for everyone.
Bas roti bnani nhi aati +aata goothna nhi aata( wife se hii sikhunga😂). phir lunch ke ya dinner ke ek time ke bartan main dhota hu.
Par koi nhi dekhta. 🤣
Par jab 5 min. phone haath mein kiya liya, pados vaale bhi aake sunadete hh.😅
Arre re ye ap meri khani bta rhe ho 😂❤ by the way bhot achi bat h 😅
@@ayushisingh5378 aapko bhi roti bnani nhi aati kya? 🥲
@@aliveghost368 arre bro usme to pro hu mee 😂😂
@@ayushisingh5378 bhot khuub. 🤝
@aliveghost368 Wah itna achha ladka😅
Chamkaa sir 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
bro movie me axa h but real life me aisa koi bol de to bhai sadi hi na mile fir to ......but there really osm gentlemens out there
That's true 💯💯💯💯 paisa kmane Vali Bai hi chahiye sbko 🥺🥺
Crct # nowdays people expct earing maid 👍
Every one should do whatever they can, to be ease with each other to maintain that relationship balance
Tali do hat se bajati hai bhai 😂😂
Equality real world main khali ek word hai bas😅😅
I hate how this is so many people’s reality
Jo mere dimag me chal Raha tha wahi ladki ne boldi..😂😂
100% sahi h aaj ke samaj me adhikaratar log ki soch aisi h ..padhai ke sath ghar ka pura kam sasural me ..late night sona subah jaldi uthna ..chhoti chhoti galti pr ghante bhar sunna ...😢😢
Husband and wife should help each other even in household chores !!!!
Movie name?
Movie : Music shop murthy
Marriage is understanding between 2 people and a responsibility to work together until end. No matter whether it's limited to home or outside. Liberty should be given to both
It's good to work in home... It's good to have paid maid in home... It's good to support and co-operate with your spouse...
But it's not good to have unnecessary attitude to start a relation.
The way these contents and social media is potraying things , is one of the main reason everyone is running away from marriage... Because they get views on potraying one as Villian ...
There is less positivity on social media..
Don't ruin your life for someone's views .
The boy was calm she can discuss these things with him separately but she chose to do chaos....boy is lucky
N He believed in equality...😂😂😂😂😂
Men and women, both should contribute 50% equally in house chores only if both are earning equally. But, if women are not ready to marry equally earning men,, and she only wants to marry men who are earning 4 times her own salary, then she should not expect her richer husband to do 50% housework. Her richer Husband will do only 12% of housework.
Richer husband, atleast you are honest. Men want women who are young but still earning same. Richer husband doesn't give all money to his wife. Money which is earned by husband is mostly saved in his name minus the home expense, which is otherwise also spent at home. So people who think they are giving food shelter etc should understand she had it before marriage in her or hers parents house. She comes to you to start a life and have kids. Marriage works on mutual love, respect and sacrifice. With this attitude marriage will end in divorce. Pls dont bring equality in marriage. Appreciate efforts not results.
Yes and then woman shouldn't have to sacrifice her body, time for pregnancy and children, they should adopt 😊
Yeah business deal todi na hai whoever earns more is king ,if situation is reversed than if woman earns more she gets to do only 12per work and if men lose job suddenly due to recession etc she can divorce him
@@Saltbrush0521 what a logic 🤣🤣🤣🤣
But you forgot that if she is earning less that does not mean she will work less hours to earn that less money.
Work hours will be equal even if the amount is more or less.
(For example if she is a School teacher and he is a Headmaster, both will work equal hours though because of the positions their earning amount is different but does that mean wife is not tired?)
Of I forgot according to men's logic only males have the right to be tired....
What about pregnancies? Is hisab se bacho pe 99 percent adhikar tho wife ka hua na😂😂
What she told was spot on!! It was a slap on their face. 😅
Which movie it is?
Both should share financial matter equally...
See it's very simple thing yaar kaam , jimmedari, sukh ,dukh, batane ke liye hi jiwan sathi hota hai bas perticular chizz kisi par bhi thopna nahi chahiye maa baap and jiwansathi dono ki ijjat ho, pyaar mile , problems kitni bhi aaye doesn't matter apane har baar sath ho jo apako judge na kare , apaki care kare , ek dusare ke sapne ko udne mai madat kare 😊 and haa even after child she gives birth then it's important to take care of both 😊 agar woh periods par bhi ho toh thoda sambhaal lena iss wajah se toh sathi kaha jata hai
It's good to work in home... It's good to have paid maid in home... It's good to support and co-operate with your spouse...
But it's not good to have unnecessary attitude to start a relation.
The way these contents and social media is potraying things , is one of the main reason everyone is running away from marriage... Because they get views on potraying one as Villian ...
There is less positivity on social media..
Don't ruin your life for someone's views .
@@Satyam_Mehtaagreed 💯
@@Satyam_Mehta agar sari important baateh jo society ke nazaro mai choti baat hai unhe pehele hi discuss kar lena chahiye because yeh baat choti hai but jindagi ki harr din mai isse Anna hai
@@shwarisartshwarisartye baate sabko pata hai isliye ye video ban paati hai.
It is a portraying of attitude by girl is wrong and elders marriage ko bandhan ki jagah samjhota samajh rahe hai.
Ladke ka kya galti kya sahi kuch samajh nahi aaya.
Jeevan pyar se chalta hai, attitude ko last resort mein rakhna chahiye.
Ha yrr usse job nahi karne ko bolna chahiye tha sirf ghar ka kaam kare wahi bohot hai ❤
My dad as well always say that a girl should learn to cook manage , be courageous go outside, do house chores, earn do job as well i wonder that if i say why cant y say the same to a boy?? But unlucky i dont have any brother to make my dad understand 😢 equality is different from feminism and pseudo feminism ppl should betr understand it
In kalyug everything is possible then why is it so called kalyug.... 😂
I agree with this girl
Love this brilliant young lady. ❤ Equality by man😅😅
"Sure, you can. But earn as much as me"
Maid in the parellel universe be like : Hike, Bonus, Weekly Offs, Monthly Offs, PL, CL, Shift Allowance Etc. 😂
Maid for each other ♀️♂️
mai to kisi ki nahi sunongi but i will ask the person who wants to Marry me these things
1. does he pray everyday
2. does he believe in Allah
3. respecting my parents and his parents
4. will he help me doing house chores
5. does he accept me as working women
6. does he accept me as a wife not a maid
7. hmmmmm aur bhi conditions hai meri I will ask him when the time comes .....
Marry Hindu boy...He will keep you like princess .....And you will be always happy..
@@bubbleteaea no thanks....... even a muslim boy can do that...... infact the religion does not matter what matters is the heart of the person.....
@@bubbleteaeayuck
Didi, specially
Humanity, Respect, Expressions on different situations and Time Spending mein dhyaan rakhna. Aap jarur question karna. May god give you happy life.
You are going great girl, kisi ki nhi sunna Jo khudko shi Lage vohi Krna , hope u will find that guy soon 👍
She is absolutely right 👍👍👍
Aaj ke time pe ladke walo ko ghar ka kaam karne wali ,paise kamane wali aur dahej lane wali bahu chahiye
Kitne bekaar log hai kisi kaam ke nahi hai
Love her answer ❤❤❤
हे पार्थ, देख रहे हैं ना कैसे समाज तबाह कि तरफ जा रहे हैं lllllll
ओ मेरी संस्कार अब पता चला lll
ये इसकी मतलब ईसा भी समझ सकता हैं कि आपको स्वेच्छा देना चाहता हैं करके llllll
जब अंदर अहंकार भर जाता तो इसी सवाल पैदा होता है llll
हे पार्थ, सुभद्रा जैसी मिलना तोड़ा मुश्किल लग रहा हैं ना lllll
ये कलियुग हैं पार्थ llll
सम्भाल के रहो lllll
अधर्म के अहंकार सीमा पर बैठा हुआ lll जब मेरा पार्थ अंदर कि समस्या से संभाल नहीं पाएगा वो अधर्म के अंधकार देश के धर्म को अपहरण करेगा lll
अपना ख्याल रखना lll
tumhari feelings ko samajh raha hun bhai bas thoda saaf saaf likhna seekho to aur maza aayega.
Yeahhh bro I can also understand you,
It means she never married in future😂😂😂
She is right but this is happening from centuries it will never change
No Marriage, No Wife, No Alimony, No Depression, No Drama, No Kids, No child support = An uncomplicated stress-free life.. ..
@@Saltbrush0521 No Toxic Feminist also. Fact 💯
@@Dharmik459 sincerely what is toxic feminism in given video?
No dahej❤❤❤
I support you bro ❤
@@Dharmik459This guy lives in delusion. Where's toxic feminism in this video? 🤡
bitter reality of society ❤😊
Remember, the only time a modern woman is all for going 50/50, is in a divorce.
Haa reality yeh hai ki agar ladko ko ghar pai apana comfort zone nahi mila toh problem hoti hai
I mean usane galat kya kaha ghar dono ka pariwaar dono ka shadi dono child dono ka toh Ghar kaa kaam bas ek ka hi kyu
Aur alimony bhi milke leni chahiye😂😂😂😂
Thik hi kah rhi h. Mere sasural Wale job wali job wali kar rhe the phle job wali mil gyi to kaamwali nhi. H karke tana maarte rhte h. Salary b do kaam b kro tana b suno bacha pati saas job kitchen sab ladki hi smbhalegi isse to acha h shadi hi n krti bohot pchhta rhi hu ab
Apne liye stand kyu nhi leti
Tell your husband ki woh equal haat btaye vrna chod do
Aisa nark me rehne se acha akele raho
Bura lga sun kar apke bare mein 😢, bhagwan ke Daya se wo ldka khud hi Tod dia roka aur Mai Bach gyi apke sasural ke tarah ke galeez logo ke yaha shadi krne se . Shadi fix krne se phle bade meethe ban rhe the baad mein sachai pta chli hame.
She spoke the truth
She was a bit rude if u ask me and arrogant. I understand what she's saying but she couldve been a bit more respectful in her answer. This is why i don't like arranged marriages. Let your daughter and sons choose who they want as their life parther... its best and easier.
She was calm until she got irked with the guy's father's response and her behaviour was appropriate given how unreasonable his arguments were.
Exactly 💯 @@ishjain49
@@ishjain49 Her behaviour was combative from the beginning
@@Saurabh-adc to talk about her own rights are not combative.
Only the boy's side decided that ladki sanskari hai and hume rishta manjoor hai, they didn't even bother to ask the girl if she had any questions, they asked the boy and thought it was the only necessary thing. C'mon, can't you see the hypocrisy?
@@ishjain49 It seems like you don't go out and have never talked with anyone.
That is how you talk to people you hate, not someone you are trying to befriend.
She was looking for a fight and she got one.
That's what happened in this video.
When boyfriend couldn't find job...then the girlfriend's attitude... 😅
yes, correct
Women should pay 50% of the cash required to buy the house in which they are living or pay 50% of rent. (If the house costs 1 crore, she should pay 50 lakh), Women should pay 50% of all household bills and expenses,, if she wants her husband to do 50% of all housework. Only then there will be true gender equality.
Men should bear child for 9 months and wake up very often its hungry. Stop lecturing on equality. Men want everything on platter.
Okay my mom had a small earning back then. And she paid for my school fees. Dad paid for food and resources.
🤡🤡
N what do you think when bith husband wife earn to what happens to money?
My mom dad both earned ... both made a house.. one saved and one spent .. it was easy to assume only one income and then spend.. mother used to save all her income and after 20 years wen we made home mother gave the saved part n father knew .. agar dono kharch karte to itni saving nahi ho pati.. bith independent and apna kharcha khud uthao is a strategy by market where in they want women to spend unnecessarily on makeup n dresses which are not necessity .. hence this narrative ki mai apna kharcha khud utha sakti hu... but in a household u both contribute and plan together.. dono ko ek sath chalna hota h.. dono ka ek hi goal hota hai.. 20 saal me ghar banana hai to aj se save karna padega aur dono kharch karenge to nahi hoga.. father or mother keep one pay in bank and use the other..it is an advise for ur future as husband.. n trust karo ek dusre pe.. alimony wali to waise bhi sab le jaegi.. shadi se pehle ladki ko dekho ki wo apke sath apna future dekhti hai ya apna akele ka future dekhti hai.. same for boy also.. dono milke dekhenge to shadi chalegi warna divorce pakka hai..and family bht bada role pay karti h shadi ke baad.. mummy papa agar galat bolenge to rishta toot bhi sakta hai.. so be sensible and trust each other choti choti batein ignore karo
So don't get afraid.. just trust once u get married
U cant change people and elder generation... aur jin aurton ne job nahi ki hai wo aisi baatein karti hain.. meri mummy aj bhi bolti hain beta job karke paise to kamaye but i always was in a loss ghr ka n duty dono karna padta tha ..
I earn but monthly kharcha mai aur husband milke plan karte hain n mai dresses makeup pe koi kharcha nahi karti husband se puchti bhi hu ki budget exceed hoga kya.. wo bhi aise hi plan karte hai apne kharche.. dono ek dusre ko respect karte hain n aur ek dusre ke shaukh ka b khayaal rakhte hain.. ek mahine maine kuch kharida to mai unke liye le leti hu next month aur aise hi ghar chalta hai..
Bhaiya ghar youtube videos se nahi chalega.. ye sab falti batein hain dono ek dusre ko samajna.. jb bhi jhagda ho ye dialogue yaad nahi rakhna.. samne wala kya kehna chahta h kis baat se pareshan h wo dekhna... koi rulebook mat dekhna har insaan alag hota h
Come out of your basement blud all women are working now and prefer employment than marriage, only men look for free maids and s€x toys
Even I have same POV. The wife should be a working wife who contributes equally to house financially and we can have a cook and a maid for such purposes👍
Hello guys, I have a question our mothers the housewives who give their 100% to make our homes happy by giving seva to the elders, loving the whole family, and educating the children, and giving them sanskara are they bai
For me all the housewives(the mothers) in the whole world who are may be highly educated or not all of them are the primary root of a family
So if a woman who is highly educated and also does all the kartavyas for her family, that woman is the most respected in society and also near the lord
Off course but iska yeh matlab toh nahi ki woh apani khushiya maar de 😊 dekho iss duniya ki ek sacchai hai tum kitna bhi kar lo , but agar tum earn nahi karate tab tumhe koi ijjat nahi deta
Haa sanskar dena , achhi parwarish karna , education yeh kya bas ek maa ki hi jimmedari hai pita ki nahi santaan dono ki hai toh jimmedari ek ki hi
Har baar aane sapno ka gala ghotana kya jaruri hai tumhe koi kahe abb tak jitni bhi mehnat , exam ke liye assignment ke liye tum ne ki hai woh sab bhool jao and ghar baitho bacche sambhalo bina kuch kahe , bas tumhara gender dekh toh kya sahi hai
I mean sapne , dil , sabke pass hota khuul kar jio
Men must also be given this chance to live near the lord by washing their own underwear and changing diapers of their lovely kids that her wife gave birth risking her life❤😊.
We can't let this society snatch the fatherly love and quality time from a family.
This is a partnership after all.
@@shwarisartshwarisart dekho hamare iss duniya me adhiktar chisen galat hai, in sabhi ke bich mein jo bhi achhai hai humen usika hi samman karni chahiye aur akhir kar samman usiko milega Jo bhi Satya mein hoga
Aur tumhe essa kyun lagta hai ki samman sirf unhi ko milta hai jo paise kamate hain, iss prakar ki bhavnaye sirf or sirf ek mansik roop se bimaar society main hi ho sakta hai.
Agar society ki demand ke anusar hum sab chalne lage toh ek vyakti ya ek mahila ka paise kamana bhi kam pad jayega
Lekin tumhare anya baton se main sahmat hu
@@PoojaKumari-ty6sh hello mam, do you think all these works are coming under a lower catagory of work, and who told you a man never does this type of works you mentioned
@@PoojaKumari-ty6sh but making condition for these types of household works when you are going to marry someone is like a cheap behaviour
If there is pure love between a couple then everything can be done, a man can also do what her wife does it's just about love and there understanding
People who cook food,clean, dust are not necessarily maids. I'm a bodyguard and I cook, clean for my family doesn't mean I'm a servant. And if you're interested in marrying the person,then the questions should be asked in person without involving his father and family. There's no need to create a drama if you don't want to marry. There's is something like polite refusal and calm tone.
My friend married a man earning 4 times her salary. Then she asked her husband who was working 10 hours a day, to do 50% of housework after his office time. Her Husband refused to do housework. So, she left her husband's house and tried to buy her own house using her own money. Then she realises that she does not have 2 crore rupees to buy a house similar to her husband's house and she cannot pay 50,000 rent per month to rent a similar house.. So, she returns to her husband's house, starts doing housework and stays rent free in her husband's house all her life.
Agar ek dusre ko respect karte h aur samajte hain .. feel karte hain ek dusre ki problems to ye sab problems nahi ayengi.. jaha sirf competition ho maine ye kia tune wo.. wo ghar nahi chalega
Jb husband thaka ho u do 80 n job nahi karti jo ladkiya to ghar ka kaam unhi ko karna chahiye.. whi 50-50 hua.. he gets money u run the house
Jaha dono job karte hain just see timings and sensibly help karo
If i am good in cooking i cook.. husband bas sath me baatein hi karle
Kapde washing machine me daal de
Choti choti help karde
Wo ladkiya galat h jinko job bhi nahi karni aur ghar ka kaam bhi adha adha chahiye
Job karne wali bhi ye dekho ki kya ap job sirf isliye kar rhe ho ki ghar ka kaam na karna pade ya wakai ap fonancially contribute kar rhe ho ghar me means acha kama rhe ho
How he felt after posting such fake stories : 😎😏👺😈🥶😆😝
@Anisole23actual story
@Anisole23vo mard ban jayega per tu to abhi vhi joker hai😅
@@Krishnaazz-lx2uj fake ×
Real story❤
Heroines father is looking like odia Manoj 😅
How much money does the wife spend for her family and kids compared to the husband? Who pays money to buy the house? 😄😂
What she earns mostly goes to kids and family most of the time. 90 percent woman dont give much money to their parents and have strong financial boundaries unlike men who spend huge chunk of their money in managing his parents. Not wrong but bringing the fact that ladies usually dont do that. So whatever she earns is for the family.
Brother you are salty just like your username 🤣
How many months does the kids spend in the father's womb... Compared to mother... How much father breastfeeds the child than the mother... Shut the fuck up... Bastard
Abhi ladki ne sirf saaf safai ki baat ki hai 😂kitne broad minded or equality hai sabko pata chal gya
That guy's attitude is calm. He is just stating his point. But the girl is in the mood of arguments and show attitude. The guy saved from a toxic girl. 🙏
She was calm until she got irked with the guy's father's response and her behaviour was appropriate given how unreasonable his arguments were.
Tu bhi aisa hi ladka h😂
Jsiki wife job bhi kre aur fir Ghar ka kaam bhi kre? Nalaayak
She saved herself from toxic inlaws 😂😂
Will any boy be calm in such situations?? Where he is forced to be binded in only household work or anything...the girl is just taking a stand for herself...to protect herself from being binded!!
There's a difference between arguing and taking stand for yourself
Ahhh sanskari men spotted 😂 Red flag alert
Power of society, that was in the wrong yet he yelled on girl’s father.
Women chose to do housework. I always tell my mom not to work or cook & let me order all 4 meals through online home delivery apps or hire a housemaid. Yet, she won't listen🤷♂️
Very well said 👏🏻👏🏻
यहां पर गलती दोनो side से है,,
1. लड़के के पापा को समझना पड़ेगा की, एक पति को घर की कामों में अपनी पत्नी की मदद करनी चाहिए, यह उसका उसकी पत्नी के प्रति एहसान नहीं, उसका कर्तव्य है
पति-पत्नी एक दूसरे के बिना अधूरे हैं ।
2. लड़की को ध्यान रहना चाहिए था अपनी behaviour पर,
क्योंकि
लड़के वाले तबसे इतने खुशी से बात कर रहे थे, इतना अच्छा माहौल था,
लड़की ने भी जो कुछ भी सवाल किए, वो सब बिलकुल जरूरी भी था पूछना,
लेकिन,,,,,,वो सब सवाल एक छोटीसी मुस्कुराहट के साथ भी तो पूछी जा सकती थी, थोड़ा नम्र होकर भी तो पूछी जा सकती थी
लड़की के बात करने के तरीके से वो scene याद आ गया जैसे ,
देवसेना ने अहंकार में आकर शिवगामी देवी को कितने उल्टी सीधी बात कही थी बाहुबली movie में
कृपया दोनो तरफ ध्यान रखें ।
@@Discipline_Tradition_Legacy Yahan sab toxic feminist hai ye baat koi nhin samjhega 🙏
@@Dharmik459 Bhai feminist aur feminazi me farak hai, phle wo samjho
No where she was rude, men were
@@breakfastonuranus her "ulti sidhi behaviour'' starts at 0:49
Anyone can see 'Devsena' (of bahubali) in her attitude
Watch again
@@Discipline_Tradition_Legacy they were ulta with her disguised in calmness, she made them seedha by telling what they actually are 🤷♀️
Some people are blaming the guy's father for her attitude. But that guy is supporting equality. This thing can be solved with a normal conversation. Her attitude is absolutely wrong in any way. 🙏
@@Dharmik459 yaa that guy is supporting equality, vo to dikh rha h , 😂🤡
Ghar ka kaam krne m maut aa rhi h 😂
@Anisole23 Actually, the guy's father was putting their point and the girl was barking. If she has a problem with the thinking of the guy's parents she could say no calmly. She is absolutely wrong here. Every woman should not react this way. If they don't agree with something they have the right to say no. 🙏
@Anisole23 So Now girls will teach to a person of their father's age 'तमीज'. This is how टॉक्सिक फेमिनिजम is dangerous. That's why I say everything is justified for women. But men are easy to make villains. 😏🙏
@Anisole23 So Now girls will teach to a person of their father's age 'तमीज'. This is how टॉक्सिक फेमिनिस्ट is dangerous. That's why I say everything is justified for women. But men are easy to make villains. 😏🙏
@Anisole23 So Now girls will teach to a person of their father's age 'तमीज'. This is how 'Toxic Feminism' are dangerous. That's why I say everything is justified for women. But men are easy to make villains. 😏🙏
True words. Great going girl