Emily Baldoni: The Invisible Work of Women | The Man Enough Podcast

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  • Emily Baldoni brings her compassion and power to a transparent conversation about her marriage to Justin, the importance of communication, and the invaluable-and too often invisible-work of mothers.
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    Emily Baldoni: The Invisible Work of Women
    How can we start having more honest conversations so that our relationships are connected, balanced, and ultimately, more fulfilling? Actress, entrepreneur, and co-founder of Amma, Emily Baldoni opens up about her marriage to Justin and how becoming parents revealed the stereotypical gender roles that are at play in their partnership. With compassion and urgency, Emily challenges us to see the invaluable and invisible work of mothers and invites us to communicate in a way that deepens our connection and creates space for growth.
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  • @ieshamaethomas6050
    @ieshamaethomas6050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +561

    I personally would LOVE Emily to have her own podcast. Such an intelligent, compassionate soul, could listen to her talk about anything

    • @sarah-p6v7v
      @sarah-p6v7v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YES YES YES!!

    • @jordanrzt2204
      @jordanrzt2204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree 100%

    • @dalyhealthandwellness9625
      @dalyhealthandwellness9625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES!!!!

    • @Lillyspost
      @Lillyspost 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Dear Emily,
      if you read this please seriously put it into consideration to start your own platform through which you share your wisdom and thoughts. This could be through a podcast, but it could also be a different channel that suits your lifestyle with the kids, like a blog, etc.
      Your voice is important and healing for the world.

    • @amruthareshi2719
      @amruthareshi2719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg yesss!!

  • @blue2day013
    @blue2day013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    My husband and I watched maybe 15 mins and had to pause this episode. We ended up having a deeeeeeep conversation around the first 15 mins of this that lasted about 1-2 hrs. 😌 If you want to learn more about your partner have them listen to this and then ask their opinion on the points they're making! 😉👍👌 Forever learning thank you 💕

  • @Yoitsabelina
    @Yoitsabelina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    As a woman- this has become my favorite podcast. I am continuing to learn so much about men and finding compassion and grace. I am in awe of badass women -like Liz and Emily- who have decided to take back space and to hold their ground and hold men in their circles accountable and to a higher standard. This is helping me do this in my own life with my husband and family. Thank you for the work that you guys are doing here!! 💖

  • @rosseryankeegirl
    @rosseryankeegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    If only more men knew that being able to feel safe with them is one of our top desires in relationships. ❤ I really love Emily, she is a woman's woman.

  • @stephtaylor6292
    @stephtaylor6292 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I am officially an Emily Baldoni fan now! Please give her more of a platform to speak more often, if she wants it! Because this is really important and valuable to everyone. mothers voices need to be heard! And please really LISTEN to what she has shared, and actually take action in all the little and big ways, daily, in the every day, rather than JUST listening. I appreciate all of you so much. THanks all of you for making this podcast a thing and being willing to grow. Love x

  • @lisamarron7590
    @lisamarron7590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    WOW, I love how transparent, inspiring and relatable the Baldonis are! Mothers and their work are not only underrated but consciously and continuously discredited by society, and I'm so grateful to see such a powerful woman like Emily speak up for them - because usually the norm, like she said, is "no one wants to hear my story". So glad you invited her on the podcast! Love her voice, her wisdom and how she creates spaces for growth and understanding!

  • @sanaganjoo2648
    @sanaganjoo2648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    When Emily said to Justin that he was the first true safe space for her, I felt that so deeply. I literally saw myself in her (like a future version of myself). I have yet to find my own safe space but have faith I will be blessed with it when the timing is right. Thank you for the vulnerability in this podcast

  • @hellentatendakajawu
    @hellentatendakajawu ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I as a stay at home mum i deeply felt Emily's words when she started speaking about how mothers are not celebrated enough.
    It would be lovely if she can have her own podcast we can learn more from her.

  • @jaysplan5527
    @jaysplan5527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Before Emily even finished her sentence about mother's being forgotten I immediately started crying because as a mother I knew where she was going and just a flood of emotions came at me.

  • @IntrovertDad
    @IntrovertDad ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm gonna share this video with as many people as I possibly can.
    I was/am a man on this journy... I went from a lvl 1 or 2 to a lvl 4 just by listening through all of this podcast..
    Every PERSON man or woman should listen through this talk about The Invisible Work of Women and Mental Load..
    I appreciate you, all 4 of you..

  • @MichelleEstrada
    @MichelleEstrada 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I love what Emily said about canceling each other might feel good *in the moment* but the long term essentially only separates us even more as a whole from the end goal which is connection

  • @andyroybal4678
    @andyroybal4678 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Baldoni’s for the win! Emily is such an honest and earnest leader in the motherhood sphere and I am so glad she came to speak about her experiences as an individual, a wife, a mother, and an entrepreneur. Great episode!

  • @utkarshnigam1464
    @utkarshnigam1464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This podcast is amazing, I'm a 19-year-old guy and I get so inspired when I listen to you guys talk about these topics, these conversations are so important and it is definitely true that listening to the conversations you guys are having will genuinely make people better, a lot of guys will question themselves and that's amazing, its a step in the right direction, I can say that because I am on the path like Justin and Jamey and listening to this podcast has made me realize that I might have to work on some areas myself and hopefully see self-improvement in the near future. Thank you so much for the work you guys do.

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for sharing and for being here. We really hope it has those effects. The fact that it reached you that way is enough.

  • @JuneJulyA.
    @JuneJulyA. ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What she explained at 31:26 is the absolute truth. The thing is, women are defined based on men and it is what presents an identity
    crisis for many women, especially in the reproductive age. You know, we are asked so often when will you marry, your name, your child's name, and so on to the point where women become invisible. Thank You for putting it so well and I am sorry that you had to go through that experience.

  • @bnidalgar1662
    @bnidalgar1662 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Childhood moments it's so so so countable, it is a blessing to enjoy them, organize them, and thrive through them. “PRESSURE IS PRIVILEGE”
    And raising our children is life joy, not a duty, it is all about perspective

  • @jkjhgfterxpppoppp
    @jkjhgfterxpppoppp 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am an English Literature student and also study journalism and I think this is the best podcast I have ever come across with.

  • @jenniferlopez8961
    @jenniferlopez8961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Honestly….I have seen ALL of your podcasts and have even shared it amongst my male circles who are embracing growth. I was begging internally that you would interview Emily, and holy s&$! this episode was THE MOST uncomfortable, yet so deeply felt and powerful to have seen the grace of all you four enter extremely deep issues that women have kept quiet for generations. The part that broke me open in tears was in minute 58 onwards when Emily spoke her (our) truth with such realness, utmost transparency and power that I cried hard (and I’m not even a mother yet). She explained so eloquently how and why women mother leaders would thrive and so witness hearing both of your journeys into this Union unfold was miraculous and sooooo refreshing. There was something that just hit different with this podcast; having two very strong women and two very opinionated and humble men truly put so many topics on the table that is necessary to hear for both parties. Justin, thank you so so much for allowing Emily to have a voice and share what so many woman face on the daily and yet, to radically be able to see you two men as husbands to show up better for your wives. I have always supported your Man Enough journey back from the HBO mini series, to the TedTalk, but this was on such another elevated level.
    WHOLEHEARTEDLY, thank you so so so much! I have advocated for the masculine to rise and show up better *but* as a collective from our female counterparts. Hearing this made me feel not so alone as a woman deeply honoring this path as an individual and collective 💗💗💗💗

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank YOU so much. This means the world to us.

  • @vaishalivaidya7978
    @vaishalivaidya7978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Love this group. Such heart stirring beautiful brutal conversations should be made a part of our every day conversations.
    Conversations that give us insight into ourselves, into each other. Conversations that help us connect and not a distraction to avoid real connection 😊🙏.
    Would love you guys to bring on Glennon Doyle and Brene Brown.

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your support and feedback. Glennon Doyle was our second episode. Check it out:
      th-cam.com/video/Zc2nYtH-exM/w-d-xo.html
      be.manenough.com/glennondoyle

  • @mylaughingeffect3459
    @mylaughingeffect3459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This dude Justin is really the 🐐. Man the inspiration he and cast are taking. The conversations are raw and really legit. My respect for him not just as a actor as grew tremendously more as a person. He’s one of my favorite people now. I hope listeners really gain knowledge and use these tools in everyday life. Rafael from Jane the 🐐 too😉💪🏽. What a podcast❤️👍🏾

  • @shayleeB
    @shayleeB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Emily after listening to Justin's book via audiobook, my main thought was "I can't wait until Emily comes out with a book". Also first time listener of the podcast because you are the guest. We DO want to hear your story, I'm sorry to hear the sadness that you feel and perception people aren't interested. I guess I can't speak for people, but I'm very interested in your story as a woman and I bet many others are also xoxo

  • @lindseyedward9775
    @lindseyedward9775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm just blown away by all the things this married couple have achieved so far. It's refreshing and helps me think of ways I can not only get my independence back, but also how to work on my marriage. Even if it's one sided, even if my husband isn't responsive, I can honestly say this helped me personally. This podcast and the book... thanks so much. Also of course Jamey and Liz , the three of you have already taught me quite a bit. 🌸

  • @ingrid5973
    @ingrid5973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    omg emily needs to have her own podcast, or at least be in more episodes of Man Enough cause she's so wise and i just learned so much from her, i could listen to her for hours!!

  • @eleonoramarchioni6293
    @eleonoramarchioni6293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Definitely the best episode ever! There were so many important topics on the table. My favourite part (hard to choose one) was when Liz explained how we overemphasize fathers. In that moment I had to admit to myself that I was part of the problem, since as a woman, I have been often surprised by men/fathers doing their bare minimum. That's because it is so rare to see fathers doing something that automatically we say "Wow, he pays so much attention on his kids! As he comes home from work he is totally focused on talking with the kids, playing with them ect". This part of the podcast really makes me wonder that I should encourage such good behaviour (as Jamey said, to go from 1 to 3) yet keeping in mind that overemphasize could be counterproductive. Finally, as someone on the comment has already suggested, all these deep conversations on the podcast and reflections on those topics as well as Justin's book should really get translated as much as possible. Here in Italy, this book could represent a real earthquake yet it is necessary to bring some positive change on a cultural basis.

  • @annechawe8363
    @annechawe8363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My goodness......this podcast is God sent. I love the rawness, the authenticity, the vulnerability.....Everything about this podcast is super amazing

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We appreciate you being here with us Anne!

  • @brittniriane
    @brittniriane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Men should just do. We don't need your "help" because these are not solely our responsibilities. We need you to DO because you're an adult who should share these responsibilities with your partner.

    • @laboheme125
      @laboheme125 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Communication is key in relationships. If we just expect our partners to just do how do they know if what they're doing is right? Expectations between partners requires communication.

  • @helenstevensactress
    @helenstevensactress 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Liz talking about dating has been my experience. I have been on dates with men where they don’t ask me any questions about me. Honestly I used that dynamic to decide this guy isn’t for me. I figured it was showing me his capacity to consider me as a human. I don’t want to teach my date, I’m not a teacher like that.

  • @novialcazar6597
    @novialcazar6597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OMG! First I admire how much love there’s between Emily and Justin. 💜✨
    In my country which is Mexico the reality is different… here in Mexico or in latinamerica, I
    Think first we need to make understand women that been a mother and a housewife it ain’t just doing the laundry, it’s taking care of your house been a safe space for you and your love once, the work of mom’s it’s so important and with so much love….
    Second, we need to teach man not to accept as a fact that women cooks and do the laundry.
    We need to teach on the new couples to be a team just as Justin and Emily are.💜✨

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Novi. There's so much work to do. Eugenio Derbez talks about these themes in Mexico in his episode, and we have some more Mexican and Latin American perspectives coming soon. There's still so much work to do here in the US and all over the world.

  • @ginayoung4174
    @ginayoung4174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazed! The vulnerability in this podcast is mind blowing. Love that you are opening up the conversation Justin. Also, Emily is amazing!!! So strong, speaking on behalf of mothers, speaking on behalf of women and expressing herself so eloquently. Even as a woman, hearing this conversations helps me learn about men, about what mothers go through. I am a single woman, no kids, and to me listening to this podcast is still very impactful.

  • @katieelmas6371
    @katieelmas6371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Both male hosts are great listeners.

  • @mariumashraf3349
    @mariumashraf3349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Liz brought up some very common dating issues. Its so rare you get a guy who actually asks questions in the dating world

  • @vlaf9
    @vlaf9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of my favorite episodes, just because Liz's air time is longer than usual. She's sooo great.

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Liz is truly amazing. The hosts show up more/less across episodes. It's pretty free-flowing.

  • @yasminfarhoumand4675
    @yasminfarhoumand4675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am so inspired again, thank you from the heart dear Emiliy, Liz, Jamey and Justin, for lifting us up with such an authentic, true, profound and compassionate conversation. This work you are doing is supporting me (and so many others) in my endless journey to heal and become a better version of myself, day after day. So good not to feel alone, to see that everywhere, more and more humans are sincerely working their way to deeply transform individually and collectively, daring to show and share their vulnerability. Am feeling very grateful, as your podcast is helping me to weave so many threads in my life into a more and more coherent, meaningful and beautiful tapestry. It offers a safe and inspiring space to do so. Thank you . Yasmin from Switzerland

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your beautiful words. We're glad that this conversation touched you and is helping you to grown in your own life. We're so happy you're on this journey with us.

  • @zuleighapatel2713
    @zuleighapatel2713 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a 22 year old woman who has never been in a relationship or a mother, I still find this so profound and meaningful. It really touched something inside of me, and I feel like this is advice that can be used in all aspects of life

  • @lightlyfallingrain
    @lightlyfallingrain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What's the best part of being with her? Growing. What's the most difficult part of being with her? Growing.
    This and other parts really sound like what I had going with Emilia. Sadly, she lives no more.

  • @audreynova1826
    @audreynova1826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favorite episode so far!!
    One heart for each of you ❤️+❤️+❤️+❤️=
    ✌🏼 ☮️ This one should go all the way viral!! It would save a multitude of relationships. Thank you all for your honest and helpful comments that help make us all regardless of gender, look at ourselves and try to be better.

  • @jillingtondubz
    @jillingtondubz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This really validated a lot of the experiences I've had as a hard working women learning how to navigate society. I've had a lot of trouble trying to confide in my male friends about these experiences and having my perspective shut down. Really grateful to have heard this discussed and to not feel like I'm crazy for wanting to be treated better or at least acknowledged for the efforts I make.

  • @RhondaBerlino
    @RhondaBerlino หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The involvement of fathers is more than a sharing of the responsibility and workload. Children get their definitions of humanity, formation of identity and how men and women grow through life. The investment of time and energy in relationships, even self-love, is one that repeats generation after generation. This is a beautiful conversation between all 4 of you. Yes, keep being more of yourselves …judge less, pave your way with these adventurous and kind understanding conversations ❤

  • @ShiningWithLove
    @ShiningWithLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When reading Justin’s book, one of my primary thoughts was that I wanted to know Emily’s story! I loved the book but as a woman I often feel more connected to other women and relate to them more, so I was really interested in hearing Emily’s perspective. I would love to hear her talk about spirituality, sexuality, being a woman, being a mother, and being human!

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We're sure to have Emily on again. Also, we encourage you to read Liz's book, For The Love of Men.

  • @aishakhanam569
    @aishakhanam569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is my favorite so far, Emily was so raw specially about motherhood. Being a women and a mother in tech industry, I cannot emphasize enough on YOU will be lucky to hire mothers, they bring so much value. And yes yes yes! partners need to have this conversation, and NO father cannot do bare minimum and get all the appreciation and mothers giving everything get judged on smallest things ever! Liz and Jamey thank you for bringing value to this podcast.

  • @BiancaG1999
    @BiancaG1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The thing that bothers me about the word 'help' in this kind of conversations is like it implies that housework and/or childcare is the mother's job and the father's just 'helping' when they are actually partners

  • @alexmariethegreat
    @alexmariethegreat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    YES! This is what I have been waiting for. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Emilyyy for the win. 🙌🏼 I also L O V E the dynamic of the conversation with two women and two men. The ways in which women communicate differently are obvious like this, but that’s precisely why it is the perfect contrast for this topic. Love love love. Best episode yet.🔥

  • @sarajesus744
    @sarajesus744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Such important opinions that we should think more. Everyone should listen this podcast. And I agreed with Emily the world need more women leaders!

  • @GypsyInFenra
    @GypsyInFenra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This really made me think about the work my mother did for us as a kid. It seems like most families don't raise kids to understand and value the work of keep a household running. As a kid I had no idea how many different chores my mom did to keep things going each week so I never valued her for it and I never thanked her for it. We can't appreciate what we don't see. Girls and boys need to be involved in housework so they grow up understanding that it is real work and part of normal life.

  • @lilli4392
    @lilli4392 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the book and also emilys and Justins honesty and vulnerability. Älskar hur öppna de är med varandra och visar kärlek passionerat till skillnad hur svenskar gör det.

  • @happyimpressions8902
    @happyimpressions8902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have to add that the part around minute 30 is multiplied when your kids have special needs. We become unpaid therapists, teachers, caretakers, nurses, and house managers / secretaries on top of what was expected of us with neurotypical children.

  • @desireewatts6270
    @desireewatts6270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So authentic, raw, vulnerable. This needed to be discussed, and it was done so beautifully. Thank you for delivering this important message to the masses. So much heart.

  • @myaalberto2959
    @myaalberto2959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Emily needs a PODCAST!!!!! ASAP!!!!

  • @LorenCz1617
    @LorenCz1617 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you guys for this episode. Emily is such an empathetic person, and her perspective is needed.

  • @malgorzataszczygiel3241
    @malgorzataszczygiel3241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I absolutely love this podcast! Emily you are amazing soul ❤ Justin is the very lucky one to have you as a wife and mother of his children♡
    You are amazing couple 💑

  • @liricabox
    @liricabox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wuoh! This episode was raw. I dont have a partner, but i can extrapolate a lot of this things with the experience that i have living with my parents. I love them, they are the best parents in the world, but sometimes, i dont show my love in a way that they can feel it. I can give them kisses, hugs, tell them that i love them (i really love them), but then, i dont clean the kitchen, or maybe i dont do the laundry... This kind if actions are also love gestures, respect gestures nd even independence, mature gestures.
    This episode reminds me that i have to balance the love words that i tell to my parents with my actions. Respect my home, make the place comfortable for everybody its an amazing sign of love and respect. Not always letting others to take the iniative and do the fucking job. Cleaning, do the laundry, say love words... All this is an integral part of loving your community (and also loving yourself because you learn to be more independent and learn to value the different tedious jobs because you have 'suffer' it, its learning respect and honoring other).
    Thank you for remind me that! Probably i will fail a lot of times, i will be lazy, i will be stupid, but i always try to find the good way to respecting my family and do the work. Thank you emily for your words! I really appreciate more the work that my mother and my fatherdid (and still doing) for me. Thank all of you for make this content accessible with subtitles and give me perspective. I will try my best, i hope my actions speaks louder than my words.
    Love to all! Have a good day! Thank you!

  • @irenehumphries1910
    @irenehumphries1910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG, Emily, you made understand my saying when I was a young mother with hubby and said, sometimes there is nothing lonelier than being in the same room with someone you love. It is that disconnect that caused that lonely feeling.

  • @annmaryantony1155
    @annmaryantony1155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enlightening old soul that's what it is to me as a 19 year old girl . So deep deep I am so happy to start that journey early. Lots of love. You guys are helping me and many other . Believing that these words will be a true treasure in my heart for future✨❤❤sharing this maximum to reach this to all men out..... Understand the real FREEDOM

  • @elisabethlourens6626
    @elisabethlourens6626 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys are brilliant...intelligent.....and wise. Yes amen we do not do things to get things.....we do not need stars when we have done something......i would have loved flying to the Usa and meet these folks in person...love these talks.❤

  • @alessiasutherberry
    @alessiasutherberry ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow Emily is so inspiring. I really feel a certain way after listening to this. I had to check myself, at first I jumped to thinking wow Emily is a little harsh. I almost instantly realised that is the internal sexism coming to the surface. Emily is a person, a human, with feelings and needs to express, we just don't give women the space to do that. Woman aren't objects, we aren't here to be silent smiling angels. Thank you for opening my eyes some more.❤ I love being challenged.

  • @delfinagou2404
    @delfinagou2404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is such an important conversation to have and you guys do it from a place of empathy, compassion, support and love and thats so beautiful thank you so much

  • @MilaErives
    @MilaErives 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have been watching since the first episode and have learned so much, reflected , and today my partner and I were talking about our own gender roles etc and it sparked a great conversation ! I love this podcast thank you to all of you for doing this ! ❤️

  • @kadiarakingai
    @kadiarakingai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cannot wait to get your book and honestly just binge on it! Been waiting a long time and I'mna keep waiting. 😊Your wife??????? 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿She is everything I see for myself, how I'd like to be, how I'd like to communicate and it is so easy to see how the two of you are together. Emily Baldoni, you are amazing!!!! Thank you for who you are, thank you for paving the way, thank you for leading me to truths I've always had somewhere at the back of my mind but never quite knew how to being them to light! Thank you!

  • @kathleengeraty7926
    @kathleengeraty7926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This podcast episode is SO helpful ~ especially the vulnerability for both Emily & Justin which gifted me hugely. I learned a lot and learned about ways I still help keep patriarchy intact by my own biases. Ugh. So thank you for showing me where I still need to grow & be responsible. Specifically I need to support women & women with children. And support companies & employers to seek out & employ women with children. I’ve had biases “against” women with children being hired because it feels like there will be more complications. The “gifts” of the challenges I see will bring helpful growth & richness to companies & businesses. Emily thank you for helping me listen & make changes. Definitely I have more & more to learn. One thing I felt like was SO important to hear is for men not to “ask” what to do in the home but to just come in and do stuff…like chores. And if they don’t know what to do, look, learn, bumble & go for it anyway. (I want to know how doing the laundry is going too! 👍🏼)

  • @taylorcatherinetobias
    @taylorcatherinetobias หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved this episode! 💛

  • @Sheldon1411
    @Sheldon1411 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just discovered this podcast and wow this episode was POWERFUL!! This is the type of content we need, more of this. Finally, Emily needs her own podcast, she is someone who we can learn a LOT from!!!

  • @namratajoshi9277
    @namratajoshi9277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my gosh!!! This episode is EVERYTHING. Revelatory, healing, overwhelming. BEAUTIFUL 💜 THANK YOU 💖

  • @radiosystem124
    @radiosystem124 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless u for these convos because i cry every time as the little boy in me hurts and heals. and, the deflection// comments like, "I'm an idiot," "I'm not doing enough. she does more," "without u, i'd be lost," "thank u for not giving up on me," "the wonderful question, the amazing so-and-so said," make me sad, angry, and hurt. i hear the humility and reverence for women, yet the self-deprecation in them contributes to setting the bar low for men and makes people feel like they aren't enough no matter what they do. celebrate ur greatness, regardless if it's the bare minimum, give credit to who taught u and uplift them, then move on. frequently this humility hurts u more than it uplifts women. and, from white people especially, it's used to mask our need for approval, and becomes a way to demand more approval without seeming like we want it-- "I am the humblest because I rag on myself," isn't healthy, especially for young men to hear. u are great, own that shit.

  • @cat21o6
    @cat21o6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is always a great episode to return to!

  • @jacquelinereyes5473
    @jacquelinereyes5473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I look forward to this podcast every Monday, I love you guys!

  • @poojayakanalli7864
    @poojayakanalli7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was just so wholesome I wish this conversation was heard by just everyone ....

  • @ורד-אה
    @ורד-אה 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    כ"כ יפה ומרגש לשמוע אנשים מפתחים מודעות וחשיבה מעמיקה.
    תודה על ההשראה.

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      תודה רבה לך! אנו אסירי תודה שאתה כאן איתנו.

  • @cynthiaholmes5124
    @cynthiaholmes5124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm really enjoying this podcast today this is something that many people don't talk about this 😁🙂😊🤗👍

  • @sandrameza1644
    @sandrameza1644 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We can live by being charitable. We can ask. We can suggest.

  • @ingridtchekoudeu8941
    @ingridtchekoudeu8941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I completely agree with what Liz Plank said !! On dates, men don't often show interest to you. It is bothering when you have to do the entire conversation. At the end of the date I feel like I know all of his life and he knows nothing about me.

  • @GretchenHewitt
    @GretchenHewitt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Again I find myself going back and watching again. So grateful! Emily 41:00. Whew! This helps me take my nickname for myself "Stands with a fist" (Dances With Wolves) and start to let the fist come down.

  • @michellet.f81
    @michellet.f81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is like the 3rd time I hear this episode, I just love Emily so much, Justin you are so lucky, I would love her to just be my friend

  • @michaelapodaca3239
    @michaelapodaca3239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I feel so seen and connected to what Emily had to say about being a stay at home parent. I would really love to see or hear you all talk about the perspective of men in that role and how it affects masculinity and gender roles.

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We're so happy to hear that! If you haven't listened to our episodes with our incredible guests Kier Gaines and Shaka Senghor, they talk very openly about their journey as fathers and gender roles. Thanks for joining the conversation!

  • @ronsparkman4913
    @ronsparkman4913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There may be an obvious answer to this, but I thought I'd ask the room: Are they any positives to defensiveness? Does it have its own place? I feel that when I get defensive of something it often ties back to something I may not have been reflective about before, but now there's a bit of light on it and I can dive into what's there. Also, how do others determine between when they are being defensive and when they may be being directly attacked or gas lit or the like? I know I struggle with this in a variety of different relationships and I worry about how I'm analyzing the situations, especially with a neurodivergent brain. Thanks, folks.

    • @samanthalangford6325
      @samanthalangford6325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you feel you are being attacked do you think you can take a deep breath and look at where the other persons attack is coming from emotionally? Maybe unravelling that first will allow the space for you to get to a point where you could feel compassion and not feel attacked at all.

  • @AshleyAquilina
    @AshleyAquilina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was my favorite podcast to date! Thank you for sharing!

  • @SASStain
    @SASStain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Got to this podcast via first watching their marriage proposal. Firstly, I work in conservation and specifically behavioural biology (elephants to be exact). My immediate thoughts defaulted to a baseline question: Emily is from Sweden. That is her baseline learning. Coming into the US that is huge and not mentioned once. I struggle to articulate this dynamic because if you have never experienced coming from outside american, into american, then you will not get what I am trying to say. I have the opportunity to work with post grad students from all over the world, some from the states and some from Sweden, and I am always gobsmacked at the difference in mindset. Emily, as a behavioural biologist, I believe it is the Swedish in you that is bringing these questions to the table. And Emily, After watching your TH-cam videos I tried to search for you. I had to go to wiki to search your maiden name and learned that you a Baldoni and very little about you. This is a result of search algorythms simply feeding into what you guys have actually discussed for so long.
    Working with elephants you will be killed very quickly if you assume, if you do not concentrate and do not read their messages. You learn to listen. But then Justin, you have been amazing to break through the American crust that you have all discussed so extensivly.
    Your and Emily's story has helped me , simply because before hearing you guys talk, I was too scared to say what I thought. Well done guys

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your feedback. Emily does discuss coming from Sweden, the difference in approaches for dating/relationships/child-rearing/household chores in the episode. She also discusses her maiden name. Perhaps you hadn't reached those parts when you posted this comment. Thank you so much for being here and we're so happy to hear it has helped you.

  • @sandragonzalez-lopez2855
    @sandragonzalez-lopez2855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are just amazing!! Learning so much through all the podcasts. I love you guys!!

  • @Fernando-fr5cu
    @Fernando-fr5cu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of the best episodes.

  • @DirectorAtSomaya
    @DirectorAtSomaya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate this conversation. This helps me have more compassion for the man I'm dating because I totally get the fact that dating is not like it used to be before, men are so emotionally closed off, and sometimes physically too. I really learn what qualities to look for in a man if I see myself settling down one day with a family. Thanks a lot you gorgeous soulful people.

  • @hannahvonhofe8153
    @hannahvonhofe8153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this beautiful conversation !! 💗🙏🏼

  • @melondrop333
    @melondrop333 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so very much for these conversations. They are so incredibly important, necessary and powerful. Would it ever be possible on this format, somehow, to translate the episodes into other languages like French and Spanish? I would love so much to be able to listen to this podcast with my partner, who only speaks French. I don't expect this to happen any time soon necessarily, but if there's any way to make that possible it would be so appreciated and wonderful. In the meantime, I can't wait to continue listening, learning, healing and growing ❤️

  • @gabrielasouzaoliveira6109
    @gabrielasouzaoliveira6109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This podcast is so necessary. Thank you guys 😊

  • @alishablack8190
    @alishablack8190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Emily is one dreamy human ❤️

  • @annjohnson8437
    @annjohnson8437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whew, Emily is speaking everything I'm feeling about being a stay at home mom, but I've always felt it was unacceptable to say. Moms working their butts off at home are so underappreciated and often forgotten.

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sending you love. The world is built and upheld by amazing women like you.

  • @faithngwenya7634
    @faithngwenya7634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oooh gosh I wish everyone could watch this podcast I vote for it to be on every news network and translated to different languages. I'm Zimbabwean and in Malaysia watching

  • @isaseijas9297
    @isaseijas9297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really wanted to show up and say thank you. From the bottom of my heart, you are changing lives.

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for showing up! We're grateful to be in this work together.

  • @allys911
    @allys911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I so appreciate the work you all do ❤️

  • @Sisyck
    @Sisyck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I deeply appreciate what you do, the time and effort you’re putting to share this ideas. You are making the world a better place for all of us, you’re heroes. I would love this podcast to have Spanish subtitle, Hispanic community needs to hear this.

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spanish subtitles are available! Just click the gear icon at the bottom of the screen, select Subtitles, then Auto-Translate, then Spanish.

  • @LillyLBFB
    @LillyLBFB 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Incredible! Love their ability to talk about the real things.

  • @vanhoudtshoorn
    @vanhoudtshoorn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. Beautiful conversation💓. Happy birthday to your son and wfe Jamey🥞

  • @imeecamarador4220
    @imeecamarador4220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im all in,this is amazing and powerful podcast love you guys im looking forward to watch more episode❤️

  • @teamphelly5228
    @teamphelly5228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man enough to me: comfortability in existence and in co-existence in every meaning of the sense.

  • @EvePlamenova
    @EvePlamenova 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    have no idea what you are talking about, mothers are great and I see them as very special and admirable!

  • @Samantha-wu5vn
    @Samantha-wu5vn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in. Thank you for this amazing podcast.🥰

  • @ErikaDeLaRosaYT
    @ErikaDeLaRosaYT 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode is pure gold, thank you for sharing 🙏🏻

  • @SlobArmy
    @SlobArmy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this.

  • @kalaishemopo
    @kalaishemopo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love Emily she's amazing!!

  • @MDNAZMULHASAN-f7s
    @MDNAZMULHASAN-f7s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Emily Baldoni beautifully articulates the invisible yet invaluable work that women often undertake, shedding light on the unrecognized contributions that sustain relationships, families, and society as a whole. Her insights on 'The Man Enough Podcast' offer a compelling perspective on the importance of acknowledging and valuing this essential labor."

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for the thoughtful review. Stay tuned for more from Emily soon!

  • @jazznbluessinger
    @jazznbluessinger ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this, totally feel like this in a current new relationship.

  • @luguy8347
    @luguy8347 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is truth mental health healing.

  • @aravindkrishnasaravu2223
    @aravindkrishnasaravu2223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Hello hello!I'm in alreadyy!Yes lets go!