Classic Divorce Court: He Won't Shower
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Karl’e and Jerome both feel their relationship is at a major crossroad where they don’t know if they should remain together or go their separate ways. Karl’e is sick of his bad hygiene, and not taking a daily shower or washing his clothes. She wants him to do laundry, clean up his dishes, cook, and basically make it nicer for her when she comes home from work, especially since he just lost his job, and she’s working two jobs. Jerome says her controlling nature has taken over their relationship and she constantly thinks he’s cheating when he says he’s not. On top of that, he doesn’t even know if it’s worth working on their relationship when she won’t even have sex with him
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When you dont love a man anymore anything he does is irritable.
If men was to say the same thing about women we would be label misogynist, bashing women or gay. Double standards.
Facts. I thing is she met another man, probably a coworker that she likes and she’s comparing her boyfriend to him. The other man works and probably smells good all the time and her man doesn’t so it irritates her. She wants her current boyfriend to pick it up so she wouldn’t have to leave him for the other dude. The current dude needs to just leave her alone cause he won’t last.
Very accurate!!!!
Malachi El Sigma but when you stop loving a man because the Money slowed temporarily, that makes you a gold digger
Yup. Been there
She is private but she is coming on national TV and say he smells. If my man smells I wouldn't tell no one , I mean no one. We'll work on that by ourselves.
SoniYah Yisreal Ok!
lol
Agree and that's embarrassing she better change before he finds him someone else
cyn acevedo, I'm sure he soon will; the first lady he talks to will latch unto him in a heart beat.
@@Liger._King true
When I was depressed I didn't shower starved myself, didn't want to go to high-school let alone work, HES DEPRESSED
Yup. Indeed--I feel you
Ikr
I thought the same thing. When you are depressed it's hard to do anyting. Depression will hold you down. It has a stronghold
Exactly
Also when your lazy and think you can be on your girlfriend's back and let her carry the load
Even if you're right, he is a grown man and he could find therapy, and he doesn't seem depressed to me, or sorry about his behavior....
“It’s called being a woman, try it!” Dayum. Honestly didn’t expect her coming full force down on her like that, that shit was needed. Respect.
She had such power lol
She is a free woman she can do whatever she wants.
She doesn't have to support a man.
The judge was biased
@@georgiagenis9563 I bet you're miserable and hate being by yourself
@@ampocalypsew3883 is that all you have? Verbal violence?
A stab in the dark to how I feel?
I think you are incapable of understanding human emotion
Thats why you blame women for everything because you don't want to deal with complexity like emotions so you just project
Project all you want you have issue and if you don't deal with them they will follow you around your entire life
@@georgiagenis9563 I can tell you never been in a relationship and by all what you said, you sound like a simp. When you are in a relationship and one of you is hitting on hard times you don't blame and complain about to her lover you support and chip in. All she did was complain and bitch. And this isn't a woman hate thing cause I believe in true equality, she is grown she needs to do shit for herself sane goes for a man. Stop catering to females or even males thinking you are going to get something out of it, cause your not
Honestly with the hygiene, he might be a little depressed. That’s what happens sometimes when you’re down.
Rasi Wilson especially when she’s not being supportive.
exactly.. and being kicked when you're on the floor will do that to you.
I thought the same. Once I was depressed, I found it difficult to leave the couch, thank goodness I have a loving, caring and knowledgeable spouse. I WAS REALLY DEPRESSED, IT ACHED!
@@MSG515 I hope you're feeling better.
I was thinking just that. He got to be a little down... you feel bad your are not working and then the attitude.of her..sad and frustrating situation
He was blessed by losing those jobs cause he got to see who he was sleeping with and investing in
💯💯💯
Mannn my ex quit his job that I got him and then quit the second one I got him. I didn’t mind cause I took care of him by cooking and cleaning his place and even did his laundry. He got a job as an Uber eats driver and his old car broke and I didn’t mind and I still took care of him. But it got to a point where for months he yelled at me to the point where he made me cry, he wouldn’t eat what I got or made and just smoke and sing. I told him he needs to get better until I got tired of his controlling issues and left. I got better with my mental health and my weight issues and my hair loss issues stopped
Verry true!
Smart comment
@@angelpla5512 I’m so happy you’re in a better place Self Love is the best Love!!
When she started describing his shower routine, I knew immediately that he was telling the truth about her being controlling. That’s so ridiculous.
The look on his face when she says he smelled... He was humiliated. You don't want or like him anymore. Leave him alone, find someone to take of you. He's not what you're looking for.
@@Mason-sg9zf ?
He looked like he was comfortable with the situation
Maybe she stroked a cord
Damn these girls are only both the money
This lady tried to embarrass her man... but she only embarrassed herself! LOL
Maris Ortiz Truth!
This chick sounds like she's like 16 all she does is complain about having to spend her money she should be angry at herself because most men on Divorce Court are douchebags and this guy wasn't she just a nitpicky brat
She needs to take her two jobs and leave his ass broke and homeless. Her life will be so much better.
@@leelew.1462 I'm sure someone will remember that when you fall on Hard Times this man fell on Hard Times and she's yelling about hygiene and having to spend her own money oh my gosh
Judge Lynn let her know who's the judge 🤔
when she talks and moves her head and stuff she reminds me of Hilary Banks. She seems so rude tho. She thinks shes cute but her attitude makes her look a lot less attractive.
So unnatractive
I like women like u alot who talks the truth
Hilary Banks was an obnoxious made up charater and this girl is stuck as her self
She seems stuck up. I feel like she is more upset with how it looks to other people with him not working.
Jocelyn King Yes indeedy
She’s only 24? He looks his age, she doesn’t. She look and act like she his mama
I imagine he does look younger the lady working 2 jobs lol being tired ages you lol
Look at his eyes not a single bag lol
@@oneskillpoint4669 maybe why he get to sit at home while she finishes the housework after... I've seen a lot of girls working two jobs and talking about their boyfriends after their boyfriends drop them off at work and use their car all day. If I had to work two jobs I wouldn't tell a single soul that I was in a relationship 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that'll be my little secret lol
@Jamilah Toenailkilla lol what kind of thing is that to say about someone you don't know??
Well he acts like a child who doesn’t know how to clean up after himself
I love that the judge stood up for him. He doesn’t deserve to be treated that way
🙄🙄🙄 hes a wus
I agree. I really liked the way she handeled this case. I LOVE how she's usually fair and can usually see through people's BS!
Was it neccessay for her to talk about his hygiene on national tv. She think she doesnt have any flaws....girl bye.
She called that grown man funky... that was sad. He needs to look elsewhere for a real life partner.
She's silly and don't know how to handle adversity. She's a gold digger. Bro. fell on hard times, now she wanna roll... girl bye!!!
I think she was trying to degrade him
Right
@@anthonyrmoten I think so too
“I’m very private”
*on national television*
“My husband doesn’t shower”
Just like he said "she's private when she wants to be private"
She's the one who looks stank 🤪
Exactly. Just Stupid!
lol!
Gurl
He does shower 🤣 she just admit he shower at the end of the day which make sense🤣🤣🤣 💯 she just picking at everything
My mom always said, if a guy decides to leave the relationship, there is chance he can stay. But if a woman wants to leave the relationship, she is already out the door. She is just physically there.
True, I've always noticed that women are more calculating regarding their emotions. They don't usually jump trains without a good reason, but when they do there's no stopping them because they're long gone emotionally by the time you sense something is wrong.
So true 👍
Women always have an exit strategy.
I dosagree because it a case by case basis
Exactly right.
DAMN, I needed to see this episode. Me and my man are going through something similar. How this woman treats her man is the exact way I've been acting towards mine and it took me watching Divorce Court to see that. Thank you Judge Lynn!
II don’t know if you changed how you talk to your husband after watching this. But I’m happy to hear that you watching this episode helped you. May God bless your marriage
People seem to forget you took vows it stays for better or for worse in sickness and health if she could stop criticizing him in everything that he doesn’t do maybe it would help the situation if she can encourage him to do and love him regardless.. help him along the way sometimes people need help & that’s her job as a wife
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾That is awesome that you acknowledge No problem I’m happy for you and may God Continue to bless you and your husband I hope everything is going well with you guys
Congrats on the wake up ! Best wishes 🙂
Wow I read this and thought the same thing. My fiancé and I are going through tough times and this reminded of how I am treating him as well and I went, “OKAY DAMN!”
When I first read the title I'm thinking he was going days without showering 🤣
Lol meeee toooooo.... this chic was bugging but the judge gave it to her blood raw 😎🤣
I love that Judge Toler doesn't play favorites with the Men or Woman
Everybody gets some!!
She wants to control when he takes a shower too. I thought she meant he smelled like a homeless man. Something is up with her.
Me too😂😂
I don't believe for a second that he stinks. You can shower and go to the gym, work out and come home and just b/c you were sweating doesn't mean you stink or have a funk. As long as you are wearing deoderant it's all good. She's a total B. I too thought she was going to say he was laying on the sofa and not showering AT ALL.
Seems like he is depressed And I see why
Facts.
It's no wonder, He was stuck with that Biatch!
I agree
@@Mason-sg9zf Why?
@@tayloralliease8013 Why?
Him losing his job was a blessing in disguise. She displayed her true character once he fell on hard times.
GIRL!!! You aint' NEVA LIED!!! I soooo agree w/ you!
Toler is an amazing counselor. The whole time, the wife thought Judge Toler was siding with her, and she was just gradually drawing out the truth.
This guy looks completely defeated and I'm guessing he isn't truly happy with his financial circumstances. She belittles him every chance she gets because she lost respect for him once he was unemployed. He needs to pick his esteem up and not fall into depression.
Right because that's exactly what's going on. Dude is showing signs of depression.
He needs to leave her ass. Many women out there are waiting to worship him.
This exactly what it is...I been through it as a man...but he has to pull himself up...but that relationship is over once a woman tries to belittle you
I agree with you. At least he cares and is constantly trying to fix his situation. In my opinion, I don’t believe her when she say he smells. How can she complain in one hand he isn’t doing anything all day and on the other hand he smells from doing “so much” all day. Then when she is asked, “ what is he doing?” She can’t answer🤷🏽♀️. Things happen for a reason and he needs to leave her.
Awww yes that is “sooooooooooooooooooooo” easy.
Judge: It’s called being a woman, try it.
I felt that through the blood cells in the marrow of my bones
😂😂😂😂 you're hilarious but it's truth!
Tanada Garmon thanks and right loll I wanted to begin to feel bad for this gold digger but my bones wouldn’t let me 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think helping out in the house when you are UNEMPLOYED & YOUR SPOUSE IS WORKING 2 JOBS IS CALLED BEING A MAN & A PARTNER but I think the judge missed that part due to the pettiness in ole girl. He said some dumb shit like I don't clean up but I washed some dishes when she asked. LIKE WHAT
hahahahahahah i was like "ooooooooo"
sis was hotter than hell
When you fall out of love, everything that person does will annoy the living sh-t out of you. It's sad but it's extremely true.
The damn truth. I know first hand...
Yep
What I’m experiencing now
My sister graduated 3 years ago (she is one of the smartest people I know) and could not find a job with her degree. She now has a job doing something she likes without her degree... sometimes it just takes a while to figure things out. But also people should help out a bit if they’re home all day.
She's classic example of a woman with pretty face with bad character. very selfish and narcissistic. She needs to stay single.
On point narcissistic
Pretty face? Barely. If you ask me, he can do SO much better
She was annoying TF outta me, her attitude stank !
Narcissistic personality disorder is real people!
@@Obeox o
Ikr
She has another dude
For sure
I hope so. He’s got a bad attitude and not working he’s gotta go. I wish I was working two jobs and he bumming around he’s gotta leave
@@angelacooper8973 HE has a bad attitude? did you watch the same show? because loool
Angela Cooper, you have no common sense. Did you even watch the video? Blind feminist!
IThink_ BLM, I know; she's stupid.
When you fall out of love with someone, everything will be an issue.
If you stop ‘loving’ someone because they are broke temporarily, you never loved them to begin with.
Trust I bet she would still loves that man if he was doing all he was supposed to do at home as what us women who stay home has been doing and don’t be stinky
Period!
Preach.
He hit it right on the head. When everything is good, then no complaints...but when he's struggling, then the problems arise.
Isn't it like that in every relationship? If a girl stop having sex with you would you stay? Also she disrespect you fight with you, lie, and talk over you? Or would you say I deserve someone better? I feel sorry for his next girlfriend, he is the worst boyfriend
@@georgiagenis9563 stfu
@@georgiagenis9563 you clearly didn't learn nothing from what the judge said. Do better!!
@@georgiagenis9563 put your question if men at her place. Would u ask the same? Ofcourse not, dumbas$
If this were a man saying these things about a woman.....it would garner ALOT more outrage! She just wants out...she should be honest and say so. 🙄
If he showers every day, what’s the problem lady? I thought she was going to say he don’t shower but every two days or something.
He’s 24. He will get another job!
Shes nuts
I thought that when I heard this two years ago she once stated that he would go 3-4 days and not bathe but I see that this broad is a nitpicker and what I feel is that she probably got somebody on the side and she just want to pick a fight to really break up with him this man needs to dump this bitch because she's ungrateful she'll be satisfied when she meets a man that I lied to her cheat on her take her money and then beat her ass that's what the type she seems like she likes he is a good brother that's trying to may have depression issues she should have gotten a chance to know him before getting married you don't get married and then whine about it but in this case you need to cut his losses he can do bad by itself he's a good-looking well-educated young man you'll do just fine🚿🚿🚿🛀🛁💈⌛️🤥⏳🎭😪🛌🛏️🤧🤑🤐🤡🤢😷🐯🐯🎭🛀🛁🚿😑⌛️🚿🚿🚿🚿🚿🚿
Judge Toler got it right. It’s the money, but she doesnt wanna sound materialistic so she added stuff
She just hates that shes working two job and he has no job
Aint no man living in my house with no job. Better go shake your ass on the corner.
Her true colors came out at the end. The judge read her!!👏👏👏
If a woman stays home it's expected that she'll clean and take care of the household, when a man stays home he should do the same.
@Lee Brown excellent point.
He actually did. It was just not to her liking
THANK YOUUUU
@Lee Brown Has he been diagnosed or are you just speculating 🙄 . People always love to assume stuff just to try to prove a made up point.
Im on unemployment . loosing a job can make you feel useless, angry, sad, stressed. Its a grieving process and can take a tole. She needs to give him a little break but needs to go thru the process of finding a new job or even go back to school
Paige Dutcher losing*
Toll***
Dude I’m out a job and I’m not even on unemployment I need a job and it’s hard
Yeah he said he was in school too
Exactly. It seems like she hasn’t considered his mental health at all.
She showed her true colors after Judge Toler said she was being extra. "Clap it up"!
She had no problems until he lost his job, now all of a sudden he isn't man enough, or not doing enough. I've been in that situation before.
They love you when you have it, and hate you when you dont. FOH wit that trash.
That’s human nature though. And they don’t have children so the toleration isn’t there. If I’m splitting bills and rent with a spouse then they lose their job because of stuff they did and I have to do 100% of everything for months then I’m going to feel some type of way as well. I think we all would. It’s stressful. I just don’t think she should deal with him if she’s going to knit pick everything he does. She should just leave him if she clearly doesn’t want him anymore. Don’t keep him around but whine and bitch 24/7.
HEAT LIFER no all of us would not! It’s life. No matter what happened, unless the spouse quit because they didn’t like to work. That was not his issue. If you’re in that relationship 100% then EVERY hiccup rides the same. You take up slack. But that’s also why shared bills should be in a marriage where it’s supposed to be real. 🤷🏽♀️
Felicia Hepburn you cant see through his bullshit . He got fired because of a Mohawk and because he worked so fast he didn’t have anymore work? Nah. Dude was just lazy on the job. He did the minimum and decided that was it for the rest of the shift. Went on 15 interviews in 3 months and no job? That’s 5 interviews a month: at least 1 per week. Like I said you can’t see through his bullshit. You probably got a baby daddy you support as long as he don’t cheat on you 😂
HEAT LIFER now I know you’re ridiculous 😂 I don’t have that. Ofc you resort to insults when you can’t get someone to agree! 😂 Hilarious ppl I don’t dignify the rest of your trash w attention. But I still don’t agree. Guess all you want at my life because yours is less than what you want and your desires haven’t been attained yet! You still got time hun! Don’t be so frustrated 😉
Felicia Hepburn nah. Only a woman that justify this type of behavior is a woman that would hold a man down that gets fired for bullshit reason and can’t find a job after that her damn self. Only a woman that don’t work would justify his behavior. Look in the mirror.
You can tell she doesn’t want to be in the relationship because she literally came on tv to talk about small nonsense that could have been discuss at home .
"It's called being a woman, try it!" Spat my food out damn
lmaooo , i was like "WOOOO DAWGIE, SHE GOT EM THERE MA` "
His braces are cute. Love seeing adults with braces, it’s never to late to work on your smile 😬
Wonder whos paying for them🤔🤔😅
Lak. Tra Davis His insurance was no doubt. His insurance should have been valid for 30 days past his termination.
I thought so too ❤
Youre so adorable you have chubby cheeks
Asabi Fatosin He had to have paid the majority because insurance doesn’t even cover a 1/3 of the cost. Braces are considered a cosmetic dental feature since you can live without a perfect smile, so insurance companies hardly put a dent in the overall cost.
Her issue is she works and he’s not. She feels superior. They’re relationship is 80/20.
Exactly! If she was any type of good woman & HIS wife; she would assist him in finding employment! But NO! She continues to tear him down! 😒smh
Cecilie Noble exactly. Marriages aren’t always 50/50, life happens and sometimes you need a like boost from your loved one. She sucks
@@Chutney1luv girl, if he wanted a job he would get one. What grown adult needs help getting a job? Thats not a good woman thats somebody's momma. I never needed anybody to help me find a job.
I wouldn't say superior she is reacting out of frustration.
@@Chutney1luv he didn't marry her why is she expected to do wifely and husband duties for a dude that's not working
I can understand with the whole cooking and cleaning thing. I mean, I’d be pissed off too if my man was home while I was working and I had to come back to a sink full of dirty dishes AND to cook. I didn’t like the whole, “I’m a man, we don’t really do dishes” thing because it’s not the 1900’s anymore. Housework should be done by everyone who lives in it. But, the fact that she took it upon herself to say he has bad hygiene on national television and made him feel like shit about the job thing is out of line. She obviously has no compassion about that. If your s/o has bad hygiene, speak to them about it in private. Don’t go blasting him on public television, like wtf?
She has a lot of issues, but SO DOES HE and I feel like a lot of people in the comments aren’t recognizing that. Her attitude isn’t helping her case, I agree. She lacks compassion and does seem to be nit picky HOWEVER, a lot of her complaints aren’t wrong. She’s working two jobs to support them and he can’t blame her for wanting to save money. When you’re struggling, two dollars isn’t just “two dollars”. Two dollars is “i could put that money towards food had I not spent extra on that wallet”. He throws around “I’m the man” a lot and that leads me to believe he was raised to think that his say has more power over hers and I don’t like that at all. Relationships are an equal partnership and once you treat it like that, you won’t have much problems. If she’s working, the LEAST she can do is make sure the house is in order. He’s being hypocritical. Yes, your woman is supposed to hold you up in your time of need, but he isn’t doing the same for her.
Exactly. There were a lot of “pick me’s” (for a lack of a better term) in this comment section. I’d like to see them work 9-10 hour shifts and still come home to do housework while their unemployed partner sat around doing nothing. It’s exhausting and tiring. Can she work on her attitude? For sure. But she sounds tired and depressed as well. The comment about his hygiene is disgusting though & she is definitely nit picky.
If he thinks he shouldn’t pick up some of the domestic labor because he’s a “man,” he needs to find a side hustle or something and start becoming the breadwinner again so the lady could rest in her femininity & take care of the domestic work.
Exactly I had one & was feeling EXACTLY like her.
I agree with you, but also I feel like that's what happens when we switch our gender roles. Too many problems arise and resentment pops up
He actually said washing dishes are not a priority but he will do it if she mentions it. Whilst it would be annoying not sure he is being sexist.
The man has been out of a job for 3 months and actively searching for another, they are in their early 20s if she is reacting like that now imagine how she’ll handle ‘real life’ Situations e.g. babies, no sleep, tiredness, budgeting and so on. I sense some over identifying with your comment IJS
@@charls5834 exactly.. Her attitude was trash. Most immature girls with the same trash mentality and who lacks accountability for their trash actions will resort to calling grown women "pick mes" when we don't agree with toxic traits of other women. They belong to the streets.
She is selfish and high maintenance AF! Jerome seems like a bright intelligent young man. He can do BETTER!
She is a good woman, she found a secound job to help with his bills while he acts up, even the judge had to put him in place by telling him that he will be removed from court.
I'm sorry for the next poor soul that will have to baby his a**
She souldn't payed his bills she's not a wife she is only 24 she doesn't know what she wants yet why is she forcing herself a role that she is too young for?
@@georgiagenis9563 do you know this woman?
@@fernandasoares7645 no, but how she reacts shows her maturity
@@georgiagenis9563 so starting arguments in public is mature to you? You sound stupid and why you commenting on everybody's post with the same nonsense. We heard your stupidness the first times.
Ol girl didn't walk out of the court room....she stormed out!!!! LOL Judge lit that ass up!!!
Sweet Sweet Joy dwl😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂yes she did!!
Right 😂
The judge was wrong
She's foolish if she thinks it doesn't take 3-4 for a job. Even being well educated and such....it can take up to a year or more at time. Especially if you want decent or good 💰. I have a Master's and when my company relocated it took me 12 months to find another job comparable.
She's losing out more in leaving him smh and she doesn't know it. I feel a bit sorry for her lol
@@truebut3243 by the time she sees it, he will have a better woman. her loss
@@truebut3243 she sounds really ungrateful
What did you do in the meantime?
@@onegreenenvy I worked part time at a job that was almost an hour away until I got hired at an engineering firm .
He seems like a nice young man. I hope he has since been able to get a good job and becomes very successful.
N find someone to love im unconditionally
what got me is when she said she has 2 jobs to pay bills and he said "that's what you're suppose to do". My ex said that. I was about to leave his funky ass because he said that. Should have when he did lmao.
She 'liked' him while he was ticking all her boxes. That's artificial. Not genuine love.
He can't smell that bad if I've stayed 4yrs
👏👏👏
The poor girl she’s exhausted :( they’re both depressed
Then she can leave. Ain’t nobody holding her hostage.
She's exhausted and angry. I've been there - but that is a struggle she must have with a higher power - this, or any other man, is powerless to make her happy with her lot in life.... what you do with joy resonates; what you do with resentment, resonates, too! but it took a lifetime for me to learn this: make ALL with praise and joy, and you can change your situation...
She’s annoying af! She don’t want to be around when the chips are down.. Run cutie run...
Funny how she said he don't want to shower and he looked so clean 😃😃
Beatrice Loss
for the show..of course..
Well duh he's on tv
@lockstam 🤣🤣
He couldn’t be too stinky..she stayed all those years.
@lockstam LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yoooooo lol
She deserved every piece of that READ!!! 💁🏾♀️🤣
No she surely didn’t 🤦🏽♀️
She sure did!!
@@hotgitl17 Not to say he didn't have some blame, but I had to remind myself he has been unemployed for just 3 months. She acted like hever worked before. All of what annoyed her should've annoyed her when he did have money.
@@PrePre_ we can say the same thing about him.
She was too hasty but I had to remind myself they are 24!
Would you stay with a guy that you don't feel that he is responsible at age 24?
And he said it was his "crib" so pay the bills
Sure did...you can tell she's a beeeotch just by demeanor
you know the judge feels passionately about something when she curses lol
Hillary Banks needs more money. “Daddy, I need 300 dollars”
HILARIOUS!
She's private but on divorce court🙄🤔and telling the young mans buisness like that omg 😶
And boom goes the dynamite.
@Mojo Jaye I'm like really girl lol she just high mentainance and can't deal with him not working that's it.
She acts like she's up in her 50s or her early mid-forties because no 24 year old and would really be just this obnoxious but then again this is a difference in time I see this young man and I said this cuz this show came out in 2017 I say this man should leave her Is 2020 he shouldn't even be with her plenty of women that he can be with that will look out for him until we get on his feet I agree he should washes behind the snow no excuse for that no matter what but at the same time he is a human being he's respectable he's decent and she's going to regret it she's nothing but a whining nitpicking bitch and she needs the type of man that a cheat on her beat her ass and then she'll be happy,,🚿🛁🛀⌛️😎🤐😪🛌🛏️😑🤡🤧🤑😷🤢🕍💈🚿🚿🚿🛁🛁🛀🚿
Exactly
@@revlaird6979 yeah people don't wanna be patient , loyal and compromising these days trust me it's crazy what if the tables turned but guess she isn't thinking of that her hoarse is very high but she will learn the hard way
She has another man and no longer wants him
As she should lol
rip to the other man
@@kari_sims damn imagine being her man. What fucking terrible luck
@@hotgitl17 fuck wrong wichu?
@@thatboynice143 nothings wrong, y’all just mad cuz she knows her standards and her self worth
When he said to her that she’s supposed to work two jobs..my sympathy for him blew away with the ‘wind’.
Roles reversed so I guess the guy must do it when a woman is down as well? And she not holding down the homefront either? Haha right
What would you say if she said that to him???? You can't expect him to do something she doesn't want to. The attitude she has she wouldn't work two jobs to help but he would work two jobs to support her explain that one
@@BigGucciAli of course he must. Are you dumb? 😂😂😂 that’s what a LEADER does Tf?
@@latoyatmissdivasupplies4504 nah make everything equal. Ik women that leads better than most men in these type of situations. If you aint been doing it or went thru it, your opinion is highly irrelevant
If you’re down, your spouse is supposed to step up and hold it down for you. So yeah, she’s supposed to work two jobs to keep it together.
I been in her shoes for years.. he’s to comfortable not working He feels like she owns him .. everything gets old
It’s been 2 months out of four years. Dang. Shit happens. Literally most people could be laid off from their job at any moment and not even know. Also she bullies him. She does not talk to him like a partner.
@@SnapszDuhh he bullies her too. Did you miss the part where he complained about her cooking healthy food & bought strangers into their argument? He didn’t hold her down for 4 years, she was still working and going 50/50 on bills yet 100% on domestic labor. He doesn’t even help out around the house because “he’s a man.”
Damn he is a fine brother
Eew
He is cute.
You can work 2 jobs while he lives in your house with no job funking up the place.
@@ammabthedigitallynomadic3385 lolololol
@linkclicker we don't know that he cheated
When babe say “it’s time to go “ Ima go
Maritza .
Ale kat yes!
That part!
Right...👍🏽
Yup
Bet when he gets on his come up she gonna be trying to get him back
EXACTLY!!! Or when her side-boo finally used her up and ditches her...
Oh my that walk at the end was serious! She was big mad😂
Straight talk🤣🤣
I love how insightful the judge is.
“What are you really mad about?” She’s nit picking instead of elaborating what the real issue is.
Sn: he’s really well spoken and good lookin. Somebody will look out for you young man. Hang in there
Yea until he's up on their couch all day with pink eye and funky
The downside of being catch! Sometimes you don't see how shallow your partner really is
@@misslove7698 I swear. I guess they all missed the part about he SAYING IT"S HER JOB 2 WORK TWO JOBS HOLDING HIM DOWN but ALSO COOKING & CLEANING... like bruh.. the judge should have told his ass to BE A MAN ALSO. If your girl working 2 jobs to hold yo ass down. CLEAN UP, MAKE A MEAL..hell who can't cook tacos or something..LOL. Run her some bath water...SHOW APPRECIATION INSTEAD OF DEMANDING SHIT.. Holding a person down is HARD WORK TOO
You and all the people who liked your comment are pickmes. This man is lazy and doesn't even keep the house or cook, she works 2 jobs, she is tired and fed up, she is talking about his hygiene coz he isn't even doing anything so why can't he shower?? 🙄
@@babygee.02.01 she isn't doing anything extra since he lost his job.. so no that's not really a valid excuse since she's been doing the same for 4 years... She just doesn't view him the same now he ain't got his bread
I think ol girl thinks it’s beneath her to help her man when he’s down...... she feels like she can do bad all by herself !
Its the truth . she prob dont want him no more
I would rather do bad by myself. I would rather struggle by myself.
Wait she will see that there are some true losers out there.
@Ty The Great It’s only a couple months
She can.
"it's called being a woman, try it" Judge Toler is such a boss
I went to high school with bro. He’s a fool 😂😂😂
Damn 3 months? She acts like its been 3 years. Chill out. I been w my husband 13 years, i worked for 8.5 yrs up til i had our son and i took 5 years off to be a SAHM w him. I know different circumstances but still. He is trying and its not been that long. She is one of those shallow females that only cares about money and sees it as taking care of a man instead of holding the house down while hes down.
My husband had gotten hurt on the job 5x in 6yrs. Was off anywhere from 6-8 weeks each time. Workmans comp took 4 weeks to send check and it was only like 50% of his salary so during that time i paid everything including his truck note and his insurance. I didnt complain once! When they released him one time i was actually mad bc it was too soon since he still had pain. But thats the difference, i am a woman and a wife she is a materialistic, brat who wants to play wife only when the gettins good.
good wife!!!
There is no “but still,” in her situation; now, your circumstances was different. First, you and your husband have a child; they do not. Homeboy should and could have saved his money prior to be letting go so he could still be providing for his household.
Also, within those months he was unemployed, he couldn’t file for unemployment?? Start a small business?
@@sunshinesunflowerz1647 start a small business? why don't you start a small business then since it's so easy to do in 2-3 months. And savings? How much could you possibly save. Shouldnt she have a savings then, too, by your logic? Not having children doesn't automatically mean you can afford having a savings, and even if he had one, what difference would it make? Maybe it would help, but she would still resent the man. And unemployment takes months sometimes. I've been waiting 3 months already. Sounds to me like you're one of those uppity, shallow women like the one in this case.
You do know that 3 months is a lot longer than 4 weeks, right?
I don’t necessarily believe she is wrong for not wanting to hold him down during his difficult period. They’re not married if I’m not mistaken. Yes they’re in a relationship, not they are not legally tied to each other. You and your husband clearly love each other and are committed to each other, I think that’s the difference. She’s working two jobs, dude doesn’t really cook or clean and they’re just boyfriend and girlfriend. Also it’s clear she’s lost respect for him. They should’ve ended the relationship much sooner. The showering thing could either be he’s depressed or just lazy. She does not like this man anymore and it’s obvious
SHE SOUNDS LIKE SHE WANTS TO CONTROL HIM LIKE SHES HIS MOMMA! “NOW GET IN THERE AND WASH THEM DISHES!” SHE DON’T RESPECT HIM.
So she’s not complaining that he doesn’t shower daily but at the time of day that she desires. She truly is despicable.
That lady was also a hypocrite as she claims to be a private person yet she runs her big mouth about her lover's personal hygienic issues all over live national television.
She'll find a man that treats her bad and then treat him like a king.
Yep, and she’s going to miss having to only worry about if her man showered. You’re correct! He’s a good man-that’s why she’s had enough. She’s bored. Women really do want a roller coaster, not a relationship. She’ll realize that if she either dates a douche bag or winds up 35 and still single...
She was suppose to hold him down temporarily on hard times
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I don’t hold men down. If he can’t take care of me then he’s gotta go. Let the man be a man. You wanna be the man act like it. Cause I’m independent I do my own thing
Angela Cooper that’s true but then a lot of men like to take advantage I delt with men like that it’s time that I fine a men that has a job
Jessica Newman but I also gotta do my part
Jessica Newman wow I’m sorry to hear that
I get what ur saying cuz a lot of men like to lie a lot n that’s why I can trust them
Somebody already digging in her guts that’s why she tripping bout every little thing and him not having a job is just the icing on the cake.
Fred Reed I felt the same way! It’s obvious she has a new boo so at this point she’s mad about everything having to do with him! She probably mad she can’t put his ass out right now!
Beatrice Roberts right you can see it all in her face
Facts🤗🤗😎😎😎😎🤗
This is why I say marriage is for fools even with your wife the booty is not yours it's just your time to get it somebody else will when it's their time marriage or not
@@BernardBethea6339 Don't be dumb. Most marriages don't work out because persons don't take the commitment seriously if you're so serious about being committed and staying loyal to your partner it can work. Probably ur speaking from experiece.
Having a woman putting you down instead of lifting you up can be depressing. I bet he is working now ( if they aren’t together).
When you marry a psychopath, you're not concerned about taking a shower.
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Well she’s not entirely in the wrong. If the roles were reversed, y’all would probably get on the man. If a woman was jobless and didn’t cook and clean for a man that was out working and paying the bills, y’all would throw a fit.
@@guesswho9791 Yes but he’s still trying his best.The man just lost his job over something that wasn’t in his control and has to watch his relationship fail because of it.This isn’t her being a little frustrated that he didn’t wash some dishes.She picked at him for everything constantly and then proceeded to belittle and humiliate him on national television.She’s messed up for that.
@@serotonin4323 nah. I still stand behind what I said. Personally I think they’re just not a good match. They don’t know how to communicate well, but still. I’m sure he’s not looking for a job every hour for 24 hours of the day. She’s paying bills. He can at least find time to cook and clean.
I've never ever seen Judge Toler that hot!!! Sooo hot...she did the "This black woman ain't havin' it, (not today) NECK ROLL"👀👊🏼👑
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Judge lake does it too whenever she's pissed. 😂😂😂
I think the judge was mocking the girl. She rolled her neck a few times
She was so wrong. At least he was trying. But now she’s going to leave him after the show.
Sade Luton GOOD! He need to tell that trick so long!
Felicia Hepburn Agree. She really disrespected him.
Sade Luton yeah she did. I’m so glad the judge went off on her like she did!
Ya sis very sad.😩
Good riddance!!!
Him showering last minute or when she comes home honestly sounds like he may be down in the funk and feeling depressed about not being able to find a job and having his partner there is the encouragement in his head
My mother used to do the “ask the stranger an opinion “. About me breastfeeding my daughter. I stopped going anywhere with my mom. People need to just stay out of it.
Other than for attention what's the point of doing that in public and if you need to use your child to get attention something very wrong
I strongly believe that she was seeing someone else or at the threshold of seeing someone else 😏
She couldn't even keep still at the end to hear about herself. The Judge should have sat her down too.
Judge Toler was giving her rope to hang herself & let her look stupid... genious! She does everything for a reason.
For whaaat !! Clearly that Judge was wrong for this and that young lady didn’t deserve all of that , she had go thru enough with that bum
It’s easy to say hold him down. These men don’t appreciate you when you do. You get them to where they are doing good then they either cheat or leave. I vowed to never help another man get on his feet. I did it twice. Never again!
Facts. I feel the same way. That's not her job. Why didn't he have money set aside? Why didn't he ever invest in other streams of income?
So true!! My ex was homeless and suicidal, none of his friends or family took him in but they were encouraging him to stay safe. I helped him get himself back on his feet, later on down the line he spoke about having a family with me on 4 different occasions eventually we planned a family and I fell pregnant for him then he turned around to say he's not ready to settle down and months later he quietly disappeared Changed his number and everything. I'm not saying all men are bad and it shouldn't stop a woman from showing love but things have to be done with wisdom and the man has to also show the same amount of love and support.
@@prettypoppin_552 Preach!
Do you think that if she lost her job her man should hold her down? Because most women would say “he’s a man, he’s suppose to provide and hold her down” but yet he’s struggling for 2-3 months and she can’t hold him down? We are not talking 2-3 years. He literally just lost his job.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You go Judge. She’s pissed cause she can’t go shopping. 😡
Rinky dink jobs?? It’s better than no job at all IMO. 🙄🙄 They’re young they both have time to figure it out. Man we give up too easily nowadays. I’m glad the judge let her know how a marriage works. She’ll miss him one day for sure( and I’m a woman saying this) sad!
Karma will give her a cheating scam that doesn't work for real, then she'll know how wrong she was.
what if she gained weight or lost her hair/beauty and he started treating her differently. It's the same thing, Women like security men like beauty. if you love each other you should be patient and loving while he gets his financial situation together.
Judith Kryztals it’s not the same a person is in full control of there own appearance same cannot be said about financial matters and trust me beauty is easy to come by a good woman is not.
@@chriswash12
True dat!
Best comment I've read
@@chriswash12 they're definitely comparable sentiment wise. I mean ask a man would he feel differently towards the woman he fell in lust with if he woke up and she was 3 sizes bigger and not the same hygiene wise. Watch his response.
@@chriswash12 Chris, many times a woman is not in control of her appearance. She might have hormone problems and gain weight, she might suffer an outbreak of acne from hormones, she might have gained weight from a pregnancy etc
"I'm very private." Good thing your not on a nationally televised program, that happens to be one of the longest running live court shows, being broadcast to millions of people.
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They physically look good together but hopefully they can make it work
That woman is crazy. I was unemployed for 3 months and didn’t get a job making what I was before the lay off until 5 months. It’s not easy to get a job. Judge hit it right on point, she loved and put up with whatever minor issues he had, but the moment he hit hard times she got hot about it and everything he did just irritated her. Smh gold diggerish
Judge Lynn is so beautiful 🌹
the way she walked out of the court room tells you everything you need to know about her.
There is one thing i don't like about the man he keeps saying the words "respected as a man" people who say that usually feel like when they speak there woman should listen. And that's wrong your woman shouldn't be below you. Both of you should have enough respect for each other and trust each other enough so when one person says something you listen. Not just for the man but also the woman. If the guy says let's leave i think those people are sketchy you should trust him enough to listen. If the girls says i can't really afford to buy you that right now you gonna trust and understand her enough to listen.
From the way she look at him ' i think she's done and he should see it and move on.
She was looking at him with such disgust! She's so over him. 😭
Hiba Anderson she’s lame...
@@knowbeonekanobe5672 She's fed up with him because he's NOT pulling his weight in their relationship and he has body odor.
Hiba Anderson no she’s lame. A man loses his job and been out of work for 3 months, all while actively seeking employment and he’s not pulling his weight? This bitch is delusional as fuck.
@@knowbeonekanobe5672 him seeking employment isn't the problem.
The problem is that his girlfriend comes home after work and STILL has to cook and clean. Plus he's got bad body odor.
WHO wants to return home everyday, to that?
Its irritating to hear the judge asking a question or making a statement and ppl try to talk over her. Come on, be more disciplined.
Gonzy1122 exactly! so arrogant
This is classic divorce court, she was younger and just starting the show
I've been through job loss and taking forever to find another. I hope this brother becomes successful and finds someone who loves him.
I'm So Glad that the Judge Read this Chic Like A Book!!! He's Not the Only One With issues!
She seems superficial and controlling. I think it’s some underlying issues of why she’s so ANGER; something that happened in her life outside of him. Being this anger is very unattractive and even more unhealthy smh.
The underlying issue is she found his replacement already and wants him instead but the other dude has a job and smells good all the time. Most likely a coworker. That’s why she’s angry with him. She’s definitely gonna either cheat on him or leave him after the show.
I feel her pain, but calling him out on the hygiene is so cold. Some things you don't embarrass someone about.
I'm confused to what pain you're talking about?
@@MOOD-mt4kw he’s verbally abused to her , lazy, bum and not doing housework , wasn’t you pay attention?
@@hotgitl17 Yes I watched the video in its entirety and what was clear is that the young man is going through depression and the actions of the woman is simply narcissistic.
@@MOOD-mt4kw depression how ? And how is she narcissistic?
@@MOOD-mt4kw He ain’t depressed, he’s clearly a manipulative and liar , he probably lost that job on purpose once she got a second jobs just so his lazy n bum can try to freeloading off her and on top of that try to controlling her too but she could see thru his bs and didn’t fall for that that’s why he was mad n tried to make her looks all bad.
I almost lost hope for him when he got told to sit down but in the end I was like thank god
He talking about conjunctivitis man just say pink eye making me pause the video to go google it🤦🏾♂️😂
I used to be this girl. I left and been single since. You can’t expect people to do what you want, how you want. She’ll be at peace alone if she loves herself.
At least you've been honest still thinking she's the prize no matter how good you look !!! She has absolutely no empathy or respect for the Man God plans always has a purpose to everything have a blessed day my queen.
And I was that man at time and I am at peace alone
This guy was RUDE when he told his girlfriend that she's SUPPOSED TO WORK 2 JOBS 😮. AND the boyfriend doesn't take care of cooking/cleaning while she works long hours.
I waz VERY surprised by the Judge's ruling. This couple is NOT married, so the girlfriend needs to just breakup with him. She can clearly do better.
Nah, he done good and all he could, when he's back on his feet she will be begging
Thank YOU! I just can't have sympathy for men that don't want to be the man that he was innately to be to begin with...
@@truebut3243 she's NOT even attracted to him anymore due to him being funky, LOL. I doubt she will want him even if he gets a job now.
@@HTAnderson76 I'm sure his hygiene will be back when's he's back working. The only thing that changed was him losing his job.
@@truebut3243 he should have a 2nd job to fall back on since he's telling her that she's SUPPOSED TO have 2 jobs.
Idk how the Judge didn’t see through his narcissism. He’s clearly using this woman. He gets disrespectful in arguments and involves other people, he wants her to spend more money than she needs to on food because he’s lazy, he couldn’t help clean around the house although she pays all of the bills. I see why she’s unhappy. I know a narcissist when I see one. He was loving that his lies were working on the judge and the audience. I really feel bad for her.
This episode was rigged against her. I seriously disliked her in the beginning because of her attitude, but as more information came out, I realized it was him that was unreasonable. How is he gonna say he’s not gonna do the dishes because it’s not his priority as a man, but she works 9 hours a day, and he brings in random couples into their arguments, and this poor girl is trying to use coupons to save money and he wants to buy the expensive stuff? What...
Exactly!!!! I agree the judge seemed to hate her from jump
Exactly! I don’t understand why people are on his side talking about mental health. This bum was living off her she had every right to be mad smh
I think he was a little more immature than judg Lynn thinks. I think she was a little too hard on her.