As an 18 year old, I can not imagine losing my virginity to someone who isn't gonna be my husband. I expect the same from him ofc, which is rare these days. It's about being pure and untouchable, not just virginity. BUT I DO NOT SUPPORT VIRGINITY TESTS (like that stupid bedsheet test) AS IT IS A GIFT OF SEXISM. VIRGINITY IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT TO DEMEAN AND SL'T SHAME WOMEN , having a preference is fine but demeaning those who are not virgins is dehumanizing. Purity here means purity of thoughts , morals and character, not only your body count.
I am a 22 year old. Until now, I haven't smoked, drank alcohol, or done any other addictive substances. I have a lot of close friends who drink and smoke - during my 4 years of hostel life, 99% of the guys would smoke or drink. But I didn't, because I feel it's not right. I know that if I ever did those things, I would be ashamed of myself, and I don't want that. Let's talk about virginity. I am still a virgin. I do feel natural cravings sometimes, but I just can't ruin my character. I've had chances to lose my virginity but told myself not to, just to satisfy some cravings. So many people tease me for that, saying I'm not living life to the fullest. But really, they are ruining their lives. I am old school - I will stay pure for my future wife. Yes, I am still single, because I don't want meaningless relationships or flings. We old school people are always looking for something pure and permanent.✌️
Baat jism ki nhi hai baat trust,emotional attachment ki hai kya faida ek ladka cha kar bhi apni non virgin wife ko accept nhi kar pa Raha or kya patta un dono ka agge jakke divorce ho jaye esse bhatar hai ki shadi se phele sab clear ho Jana chaiye taki agge chal kar dikkat na aye ..I think ladkiyo ko vha shadi karni chaiye jha kisi ladke ko uske past se koi mtlb na ho unse kabi shadi mat Karo jo kese ladki ke past ko accept hi na kar paye
Point is that after being physical with someone its very difficult to loose memory of them out of your mind and body. That means your relationship gets more deeper and this could be harmful if married to someone else.
I'm virgin and will only do it after marriage. Intimacy is between a husband and wife. This is what you should promote. Premarital sex causes lots of problems with unwanted pregnancy and multiple partners.
We all are doing that. And those who have done so far, will justify those things here. And then will cry later in life, when those idiots will remain devoid of real love.
In my personal opinion loosing virginity is not cool. Accepting others culture is totally fine but it doesn't mean you should put up questions on your own culture. If you can't control your hormones your body than how can you control a nation? The youth of India is the future of india. I don't know what is wrong with the mentality of today's youth like we are living in the generation in which being toxic is cool, in which women prefer to call themselves bad b*tch , chick, s*xy etc... We really need to save our culture ..... whoever read this please remember " ek aurat ki izzat uski mariyada sabse zaroori hoti hai, ek aurat ki izzat ke peeche puri Mahabharat ki shuruwat Hui thi..."
Because of casual sex, people just don't know now what true love is. That's the saddest part!! People these days just don't know what emotional bonding is & the amount of youngsters watching adult content is growing at a fast pace. No wonder divorce rate is increasing at such a rapid pace.
There is nothing wrong in casual and hookup... There are some guys who always face rejection.from college day but selected during arrange marriage process. And most of the girls who are used by her ex goes through arrange marriage. They agree to marry thise guys whom they used to reject in past. Those girls get love and intimate and fullfill their sexual needs. Then what would those guys do to fullfill their sexual needs?? Those guys should sit snd wait for marriage to get love from those girls?? Don't those guys have sexual desire?? So there is nothing wrong having casual,,if premarital sex is okay
The last point she said about validation is very on point!! We(as Indians) never had such vulgarity, such hook-up culture! This is just and just because of western culture and it's ruining the youth of India.
Actually no. Western culture went on a downward spiral only from the 70s - flower power culture when they steered away from religion, family values. Upto 60s they were a very traditional society.
Its really horrific that children are getting exposed to such adult content at an age when you don't understand the outcomes. Extremely important for parents to be taught child psychology, Extremely important.
Connection with multiple people creates confusion and unwarranted expectations with the other partner , This is the reason divorces are pretty common in the west If you don't want to marry and form a meaningful connection , These coaches are your get go ( They can help you feel proud of something you did that is disastrous for yourself )
Sex is utmost thing in a relationship and ultimate form in love . Doing it casually with anyone makes it less valuable and once anything is less valuable people do it easily and hence cheating became very common . Physical stuff is meant to be in between two couple . And also if you share your body with anyone then just like every thing in the universe if it is accessible to anyone around or you can say to more people it is obvious the body becomes less worthy and be it any gender. If a guy had many relationships in past but want someone to be pure than it is wrong but if any of gender believed in genuine relationship and wants the same quality for their partner then there is nothing wrong. Now i would also like to say who is at fault , i believe we all are . Mostly actors - how ? -. They do physical stuff and intimacy and justify it in the name of art or job but i would say job is not the ultimate thing in the world that you can do anything in the name of it. Common people watch it and repeat the same thing and again like i said before it makes utmost thing less valuable.
I don't know whether anyone agree with me or not.. The casual relationships are actually ruining our youth. Everyone is running after sex and move on, which is really bad for our own future. Whereas in serious relationship people are suffering because of either society or boredom. And there are many boys who are great, not only because they emotionally connect well but also because they are raised well.
Exactly...aapne ekdam sahi bola h Aajkal k time me pyaar ka kya mtlb h ye kisiko ni pta bas sex k piche log bhaag rhe h aur jo insaan chahe wo ladka ho ya ladki agar sacha pyaar krna janta ho to wo bechara ek kone me baith k ro rha h qki jo log sacha pyar karna jante h wo log sex ko itni priority ni dete h aur fir aise log ko koi importance bhi ni deta h
As a 90s kid I totally relate to it. Casual dating is a big problem. It is not our culture still we are doing it. The sexual relationship is not bad.. But it should not be one the first day. Emotional bonds are missing now days. Guys are bragging about their body count. This is totally destroying our culture.
Instead of discussing pre-marital sex, we should discuss ways to control our sexual desire. We are influenced by the West because they introduced sex as our utmost desire. We must mediate so that we can change our mindset🙃it's my opinion may be I'm wrong 🧘
Nhi karna bhai mujhe, main khush hun aise hi.. but again, its my opinion. What I respect the most about u after reading ur comment is you are not calling others wrong, u r just stating ur opinion. Likewise, i am not right or wrong, its my opinion.
@@harshitwadhwa7348 bhai tu khush nahi hai, tujhe ab aadat hogayi hai inchizo ki isliye tu man na nahi chahta, deep down you also know ki kya side effects hai inchizo ki, I' ve been through this and still going through it little bit but i never feel proud about these things like you did! change it before it will change you!
I am 1969 born now in my 50s. Back in 1988 during my graduation years in Pune, most of friends decided to experience sex for the first time. Somehow my conscience told me that you will not go for having sex. My friends made fun me, but I was firm on my decision. Later many of my friends became addicted to sex and continuously watching porn films, which eventually led to self-destruction. Their outlook towards a normal woman was just as a sex object. This even impacted our friendship forever, was never in touch with them again. A concept very well explained in the film “Pretty Women”. In my life I fell in love with 3 women at different stages of life. Once you fall in love with someone with genuine feelings you will never even think of having sex with your partner. This is sensuality and nothing wrong in having such feelings for anyone. I did express my love for them not with the idea of marrying them such, which it would have led to the 2 states like situation. Looking back today after 35 years, I would say that was my best decision.
@@biggboss9780 bhaav ignore karna sikhna padta hai. Agar har kisi ke bhaav ko accept karne lage na, to ladkiyo ke saath-saath ek din gali ke kutiya ke saath bhi sotey hue mil jaoge tum🤣🤣🤣
@@ironpurush how you compared girls with street dogs, shows your mentallity. By the way I am a girl and bby your statement I can surely tell that Virgin men are even more disgusting and they don't respct women.
As a girl in my teens, I think that being “pure” or a virgin does matter. I am clean and I demand someone clean as well. This generation has made the intimate connection of bodies a casual thing. And about premarital intimacy,I think it is valid if you know your partner very well and are comfortable enough with them. Nevertheless,if I were to ever have premarital intimacy, then first I would want myself to be confident enough that I am going to marry them
gf jab khud hi sex karwaygi to kaise bachenge? khol k samne aagayi aur penis ko ragarne lagi aur apna vagina me dalne lagi... uske pas sab chije thi pahle se...😅😂
There is nothing wrong being virgin and wanting a virgin partner. Problem arises when people demean other people without knowing anything what it's like for other people. Life humbles everyone. Every arrogant person. Again the problem arises when you sre yourself not virgin, but you demand virgin. Problem arises when people validate men to be fuckboys and still make them beleive they have a free pass for a virgin woman. If you are not Ram, don't demand Sita.
@@yot-y8t Well spoken! Such people who are genuinely not okay with having an “unclean” person who are themselves not a virgin are the problem here. They should be made aware of the fact that the world does not revolve around them,especially not when you’re demanding what you yourself don’t have. Not only men but it applies for women as well. But considering this fact,it’s mostly men who demand a virgin women just for “pleasure” is disgusting.
"Clean"? Are we humans or objects Because the way it's referred, it sounds as if we are instruments. We should be clean. Lol. Sex is just normal, and we are just giving so much of unnecessary importance to it by talking about it so much. Virigin or not, it doesn't define someone's worth. Does it? What actually matters is how a person is, ig. :)
Very true. Dont accept these second handed men. They manipulate saying a key which opens many lock is good bla bla.. But who needs a second handed spare key😂😂😂
People in the comment section have more intelligence than this content questionnaire . Thank God there are still people out there who knows difference between good and bad. Sex is sacred and should be only with your married partner not any random person.
Finally I found poeple in this comment section who still have shame who still have a good charecter. And know what is correct. Conclusion is all these people are trying to hide their LUST in the name of modern culture western culture and all those non sense things🙏🙏🙏
Sab kuch sanskar ki baat hai . Ghar par jo sikhoge wohi karoge. Call me typical conservative or whatever , sex before marriage is sin. Mai jitne v modern dresses kyu na pehenu lekin har cheez ki maryada hoti hai .
@@smnr_6789 TO PUSH FOR s#x or live in relationships and Destroy our Future also culture .Today's modern S#x education is bane for society this increases Nudity in Human beings 🤬
Indian culture never say that sex is bad thing it's said wait for the right time and increase your mental and body power then you go in relationship and sexual thing 👍👍
Bro if you are hindu than in geeta and in other books it is wrong and if you are christians then in bible it is also wrong and in quran it is also not allowed so first read your cultural book and then speak
Google ko chodh dey, one thing i do appreciate about the net is we can look up information regarding anything in minutes that encyclopedias didn't cover. Agreed with the rest
It is "NOT our body's need". It should be done at the right age (after marriage), with the right person(spouse) for the right thing(procreation). Even animals do it just for procreating and not to enjoy. As we can't expect this from everyone. The least we do is not engage in before marriage. I don't agree with her and such podcasts give teenagers validation. Not only does it ruin our spiritual life but also future relationships. Our bodies have memory and once you do it, it will always affect your long term married life. Our culture has taught us the right things, Jai Sri Ram 🙏
Said correctly .I have a question to u . a few months back a connect to u a girl after chatting with her few days she started liking to me .after few days she shared her past sexual relationship even I didn't ask.i cried after listening this. Is she good for marriage ? Plzz suggest
@@PrinceKumar-uf1bt Don't ask such questions, Use common sense brother, a single choice of choosing partner can change your life. Just a suggestion, don't be desperate as this is life changing decision. Remember a general rule, the more easy a person is, the lower is the quality and standard of that person should be.
@@elveeleven2574 I didn't ask any nonsense questions my dear she says this without asking anything she says to me is virginity matters ? I said yes the girl should be pure ...... She told she isn't virgin . I didn't ask such nonsense questions yaar
Girls are interested in the boy's future and Boys are Interested in the girl's past. It's simple and normal not toxic. Everyone has their own priorities.
Achha mtlb iss hisab se ladki chahti hai ki bhale isne pehle kitni bhi ladkiyon ke sath sex kiya ho lekin age nahi karna chahiye aur ladka chahta hai inse pehle ek bhi ladke ke sath sex nahi kiya hona chahiye age bhale hi kitne bhi ladko ke sath sex kare kya chutiya batein kr raha hai tu🤦
It's true I am 26 years old girl and I have had relationships but none of it really worked out ..my first bf left me because I didn't agree to have sex... because I have always had a firm opinion that I will have sex with only my husband that too after getting married...but now it seems like guys don't want to stay without this...and sometimes it scares me what if I die being alone ...but my mom says people end up with the kind of people they are ..so if I stay a virgin I ll get a virgin...tbh I don't evn care if my partner is a virgin or not but I would not want anyone who tries to disrespect my boundaries.
Point is why are you entering in relationships knowing very well what boys would expect from you? Are you using them as a recreational activity or just to k!ll boredom in life? Or are you using them for their resources? No chaste girl would monkey branch like you are doing. Being a virgin is advantage, but if a girl has been in multiple relationship that alone is a red flag. It makes you seem like a despo
Being physically attached initially can be toxic, but emotional attachment is a must thing one should persuade... before getting physically attached....true relationship ...takes time. ✨
Sex before marriage,sex with multiple partners,casual sex and all kind of sex - these topics are complex and we just cant jump onto a conclusion of good or bad. It can be tool to liberation or a door to hell depending on a lot of various circumstances and actions
Sex is utmost thing in a relationship and ultimate form in love . Doing it casually with anyone makes it less valuable and once anything is less valuable people do it easily and hence cheating became very common . Physical stuff is meant to be in between two couple . And also if you share your body with anyone then just like every thing in the universe if it is accessible to anyone around or you can say to more people it is obvious the body becomes less worthy and be it any gender. If a guy had many relationships in past but want someone to be pure than it is wrong but if any of gender believed in genuine relationship and wants the same quality for their partner then there is nothing wrong. Now i would also like to say who is at fault , i believe we all are . Mostly actors - how ? -. They do physical stuff and intimacy and justify it in the name of art or job but i would say job is not the ultimate thing in the world that you can do anything in the name of it. Common people watch it and repeat the same thing and again like i said before it makes utmost thing less valuable.
Being in relationship doesn't mean have to be physical relation pyar me ye chiz sabse baadme aati hai if there is love only presence of that person only matters growth of each other matters in terms of independence, finance, career and emotions
Easy access to porn and sexually triggered content on social media has destroyed our youth nowadays and it is very alarmingly dangerous. One can clearly see all the cringe content of TikTok are now on Instagram and on TH-cam as well. God bless India 🇮🇳
Being a Gen Z I'll say that I don't support casual relationships or so called one night stands but at the same time I don't think that sex before marriage is bad but it is a huge step honestly so you should be connected on a deeper emotional level with your partner and if you both are sure about your future then go for it. Casual relationships cause problems, one of my very good friend is in a casual relationship rn but he started it after a girl rejected him and we usually talk about everything he told me he got upset because the girl he's with currently was talking to other guys. I simply told him that you knew what you were getting into before so don't complain now. He's getting affected because ofcourse you get connected to a certain level and believe me or not it will affect your relationship with your future partner
True, even i feel similar, sex before marriage is absolutely okay but only when you trust your partner, its been time u guys are dating, and u both want it Don't come under any influence of emotional blackmailing or to prove your love, seriously. Nd yes if u will have multiple partner or say even ex, you just relate with things that happens with u in past and affect ur present so I advice u to understand yourself, give time to yourself, understand whatever happened nd why, what did u learn in a relationship that should be done or not before going for any other relationship One more thing, always prioritize ur career first
@@kennis_zoektocht exactly my friend totally ruined his studies because of that girl who rejected him and now this friend with benefit. I told him so much that don't do it talk to me whatever you are feeling but he's like let's not talk about it. Not to say he had a past relationship where he got cheated by his ex gf. Having multiple partners before in a casual relationship can give alot of insecurity to your life partner honestly.
@@kennis_zoektocht if u really two love someone..then Focus on carrier..spend time to know each other...then get married & be physical. Nobody prevent you to have sex with your lover after you marry her. Then why people can't wait?? I hv seen such couple..who done it with an excuse they have future. But finally they separate. Tgen where is that future?? That was simply just excuse to hide lust character. And premarital sex has so many bad consequences.
Is bhai ne hi ek bnde ka interview liya tha… Usne saaf saaf btaya tha humari body or mind touch, feelings yd rkhti hai aur jb multiple partners ho jate hai to apne khud Smjh ni ata sakun hai kha.😂😂😂 aur ye sach hai bikul… apni gltiyo ko chupane ke liye aaj ke time m sab kch normal hai Bol dete hai… kyu bhai phle kya log jawan nhi hote the😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
8:50 well said Agreed, and i think, In a relationship, exploring the emotional side of each other prior to the physical side, builds the base of pure relationship among couples.
Ye western culture he shame hi he indian culture me ye sab nahi tha kya bol rahi ho madam. Need shadi ke baad bhi puri kari ja sakti he 🤬 ap wait kar sakte ho bakwas mat karo western society tabah kardi in chizo ne history dekh lo ek bar phir bolna ek logic dedo mujhe ki karna kyu he and body ki koi need nahi hoti apne need banai he maam body ne nahi
words and phrases like " exploring " , " exploring his/her sexuality " , " relieving the stress " etccc are one of the many reasons I looooovvvvveee english .
At the age of 13 I was more into my studies, playing cricket, happily enjoying my life with overthinking. I'm 23 now , boarded bmtc bangalore, a 13 yr school guy & girl were smooching, liplocking in the bus , where these big balls generation heading towards 🤡
Podcasts like this will encourage more teen-aged boys & girls to go on this track. Because you are not only justifying premarital sex but in fact promoting it. I didn't expect it from you Ranveer.
the thing is that mr allahbadia had sex before marriage so he only wants to listen that its not wrong ,to justify himself . so if a guest says that its wrong then he changes the guest not his perspective 😂
s@x be4 marriege is not wrong but having s@x with somebody else and getting married to somebody els is wrong , have s@x with someone who you truely in love with and planning on getting married with. dont give in and go with flow , have some self pride and understand the value of your body talk abt spiritual thing , pyaar andha nahi hota use banaya jata he.
PLEASE NOTE THIS: Its ok to have but unfortunately our bodies build permanent strongest memories while having sex.. these memories are so strong that it will take you to them one day again and these memories might affect your future life and cause big problems in your life that you couldn't be able resist and finally it would lead to unnatural things which are against the law of nature.
Exactly - Connection with multiple people creates confusion and unwarranted expectations with the other partner , This is the reason divorces are pretty common in the west
But is the western world immune to this? Why do we oriental people feel that only through this particular activity can certain strong emotional bonds be created which even long term association cannot create
If you and your partner can control till marriage, nothing is more wonderful than that.. ofcourse there are insecurities having sex before marriage as no one knows what the future holds.. But people fall in love .. they get intimate.. It's absolutely their personal choice and no one has the right to judge them.. But if you are having more than one partner, something is really wrong going with the body , mind and soul.
Body main control honi chahiye ..or itni aag kyun hai bf banane ki pyar main doobne ki or sex krne ki..wait for the perfect time...itni hawas hai to saadi kr lo sinple
@@sudhanshukumar-ow9dgon't worry,You can stay sexless for your entire life ,no problem with that.Even if yours cucumber goes bigger you can use it hanging calender.
words and phrases like " exploring " , " exploring his/her sexuality " , " relieving the stress " etccc are one of the many reasons I looooovvvvveee english .
@@sohailahamed8829 habsi wo bante hai jinko chadhi hoti hai pura time aur sath me milta bhi nahi, jo chilled hai wo habsi nahi bante, sochne ka tarika badlo
2:35 Non Virgin looking out for virgin might be toxicity, HOWEVER a virgin(in majority) looking out for a virgin is not a toxic thinking , Not sure why people always give an example of non virgin guy looking for virgin girl to justify pre marital sx 😂, i guess because they know if they give an example of virgin guy demanding for virgin girl then they cannot win a debate.
If a vrgin guy asks for a virgin girl, they will still shame him and say stuff like why are you so regressive and past doesn't matter. Basically all these women are used up and tgey wouldn't want to be rejected by virgin guys because most of the virgin guys have worked hardin their youth and have a lot to offer.......
Not just social media nowadays consumption of Junk and Food injected with various chemicals so that it can last longer is also responsible for this, you know if cow is not able to give milk, she is injected with certain hormones in excessive amount to be productive but that results in milk being spoiled and it's consumption also causes various chemical changes in body and it's also one of the main reason children's hit puberty early today!
I always like your podcasts and learn from them, but this is where I would draw the line. She said there is no problem with pre-marital sex but there is. A high-value woman would never offer herself to a man she does not see as her husband. It should go both ways, the man as well as the woman.
Yeah, you’re right. I feel like premarital intimacy is totally fine IF you are sure that you will marry the same person. If you’re not, it goes otherwise. (No hate to you though)
@@satorugojo__34there is nothing sure in life anything can happen in life in next minute next second u can not control it so thinking that sure ill marry this girl so we can get into physical lets goooo like this everybody thinks everyone doing the same no body is sure they'll marry or not ... Then both marry others 😊😊😊 🤡 that innocent guy or girl dont know these two are experienced...
There's one point I couldn't agree on, that your chemistry "completely" depends on your emotional intimacy. It doesn't completely depend. You can have the perfect chemistry with a person with whom you hardly connect emotionally. This is very common.
Every cause has an effect. Casual hookups increased now days just because of premature/premarital sex... we totally adopted the western culture and forgot our own culture.Now days If someone reads Gita then he/she is old fashioned while reading so called love stories novels is the sign of modernity.
I am 27 and Single and never had a girlfriend, moreover virgin too! My friend still makes fun of that but I am okay with it. I think it’s personal choice and it’s chemistry and understanding between both. Cheers to all of you, if you read this comment.
I have often been labelled as narrow minded and orthodox but I'm very clear on this that I will never marry a woman who has slept with multiple men before marriage. Even once my cousin said why do you expect your wife to be a virgin, it's not right to expect such thing to which I responded that why shouldn't I expect it, had I been a person who had slept with multiple women then obviously me expecting a virgin wife doesn't make sense. But when I maintained that state of not indulging into pre marital sex then it's valid for me to expect the same from my partner. But the fact is that nowadays it's almost impossible to find such woman. However this lady has stated some valid points as well.
@@anweshabhatta5951 definitely not. See for me it doesn't make any difference whether it was one man or multiple men you have slept with, its about your choice and how much control you have got over yourself. Having sex nowadays isnt a big deal, causual sex has become too much prevalent. I remember once Sadhguru had been asked the same question about pre marital sex and multiple partners to which he responded that what's the difference between animal and a human if you're unable to control your senses.
Such questions should be asked to Spiritual people only. Because Psychologists with their limited 'western outlooking' education cannot really justify answering them. Young Indians should not take these.. "Our body has its needs... " type answers & justify premarital sex. There are a lot of things beyond our understanding which go wrong with such decisions. Lets look at all societies practicing premarital sex vs all which refrain from these. (Eg. Asian countries Vs. western) we see the diff in a lot better social structure present in Asia🙌🏻 Sadhguru has answered this beautifully.
Atleast they are happier than Indian people. You people are getting married but slowly women are not dealing with your shit they will leave you. Things are changing either you change or adapt.
@@jarhead11691 lol 😂. Who said we are not happy???. When a virgin boy and girl get married, they are eventually leading a happy life. . Keep your western shit with yourself. Don't ruin our sacred indian culture. If you call this patriarchy, yes we are happy in this patriarchal society. Not like the one which you see on social media.
Thing is relationship goes to a next level after physical .....then we get too much attach to her or him....I think before marriage this much of attachment is really dangerous emotionally
Also please don't marry such person who already had sex, cuz you don't wanna invite unnecessary drama of their past life in your life. Choice of your partner can either make your life or really break it so choose wisely and don't be desperate.
Kaliyuga...truly ..what I feel the more you become casual the more casual will become everything ...but once in your life when you are mature for a relationship you will regret you had those flings .. because body never forget body.. and this casual relationship create cringe in you! And complications too!
I am 20 year old woman now, and i can't imagine marrying a guy who is in his mid 20s with zero sexual desire and capacity, aur haan main clean mujhe clean chahiye, agar tum kisi ke sath sex karte ho toh ussi ke sath shaadi karlo na, kyun uska time waste kiya aur mera krne chaley??!!!! Like whyyy, yeh kya duniya hain yaar!!!!
Because boys want to try different girls It's just for fun I'm 24 still virgin because I want love and respect from my wife so I haven't did it even with my gf. We just talk casually.
"Our body has needs" it's a sentence that's a silent killer actually to do things whatever one wants irrespective of others emotional involvement. There are tons of things body wants after taking or doing it for a period that includes drug as well but we know for right things it's not good then how come you always want to justify "our body needs it" " we are only himan" one who can't control on their mind, hormones shows nothing but weakness. Some things are under control bit we always wants to hide behind it. People in today's time are literally bowing down to hormones when they can control it with Deciplined lifestyle. This man has no solid grounds he will just call people on his show and talk to them as if he follows everything they say and then in other videos he will be completely out of context💀and will agree to them as well. Like dude stick to one thing. Isko dono nav me sawaar hona hai.
Yes, very true bro, I can understand. One of my cousins is still a virgin and he is waiting for a life partner. Bro, even I am a virgin, but I am much younger than you.
Sex before marriage or after marriage both shouldn't be done.. i mean .. just getting stamp that we are married now we can do sex .. even without any feelings... Does that even make sense🤐🤐.. What if that person leave after doing deeds with you after some months of marriage.. Choose wisely the partner.. who is worthful for u .. and ur future
If we cannot control our urges and give the tag to everything our body needs as 'natural' then what is the difference between humans and animals . These kind of people who have sex before marriage are pretty similar to animals in our scriptures it is clearly mentioned that one should be able to control their 6 indriyas . But afterall it is kaliyug so we cannot expect these things from anyone...
100% true. Justifying your lust by tagging it as a need of body is disgusting..just accept it you can't control your lust and your desire. And if you can't control it you're nothing better than an animal that's slave of his lust. Shitty western culture
@@dhruvshashwat5102 but that's harmful. And sex is good for health. If we can hv sex after marriage what's wrong if we do before marriage. This is completely personal choice. You're not forced if u don't want to. Let PPL do if they want to .
I've never had sex, and I want to be with someone who's the same, who also hasn't had sex before. I can't be with someone who's been with lots of other people before. I'm worried they won't love me as much as they loved their first partner. And there are plenty of other guys out there who might be better for them. So, I stick to what I believe.
रणवीर आप एक ध्यानी हैं और आध्यात्मिक जीवन में विश्वास करते हैं.. आपको युवा पीढ़ी को बताना चाहिए कि आप कैसे अपना मन वासना से अपने लाइफ के गोल की तरफ ले जा सकते है।
@@balmiki5345 there nothing wrong or illiterate in it , its just a choice if having sexual partners before marriage is someone's choice then saving up myself and having virgin partner is my choice.thats it.
@@ipreet6850 brother, there should be a valid reason for any choice one could make. There's a cause/reason behind your choice - ask yourself! And I don't know if you watched the video or not but having intercourse before marriage is more of biological/hormonal. So in that case there's only one choice - if you want to do it or not , unlike something filtered* choice you've been keeping .
@@balmiki5345 pardon us with your enlightened knowledge sir! We are Fine if someone is so biological or so stuck to their animal instincts. humans are more than mere biology, having control over lust is noble if someone can do that and is rational and considerate in behavior and expects the same from the partner then what's wrong?
culture means sanskar , agar ache ghar se honge to pre marriage sex should be sin for u... agr bahut hi pyaar krte h apne bf ya gf se to shaadi ka wait kiya ja sktah . but if u cant control then ye pyaar ka jaadu nhi hormones ka jaadu h...
Yeh sab logon ne hi ye sab western cultures India me laya hai.. no strings attached very normal every day sleep with people very normal.. in all or sastras and ved it is written that if u have any attraction twards an opposite gender then get married live life be a grihastha and then take snyas or u and ur parter do Hari nam or krishna bhakti And also these pre married s.x is sinful and have punishments for it.. as you are doing it for sense pleasure ya kam ko tript kar rahen ho usko ar badha rahenho
The one who has done it will definitely be right but having sex before marriage is absolutely wrong Having sex is not wrong if you want to have sex then get married and if you think that sex and marriage are two different things then what is the need of marriage keep having sex all your life but It's like cheating on your future partner, it doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl, it applies to both. Edit :- And if it is the desire of the mind, the desire of the body, then it is the desire of the mind, then there is also the desire to kill someone, sometimes what can be done, can't do it?
Kamasutra ke anusar sharirik sambandh(sex) sirf husband aur wife ke bich Hona chahie, isse husband wife relation aur Jyada majbut aur Madhu Hota Hai. Lekin sharirik sambandh shaadi se pahle ya FIR annye stre ya Purush se nahin Hona chahie.
Agr sadi se phle sex galat nhi hai to phir sadi nam ki sanstha ka ant hona chahiye..... and I think if a boy or girl is virgin then to expect a virgin partner is very natural it is not toxic....as per your view.....this thing will end the era of true love
Non-virgin woman can never love whole hardheartedly When sex happens out of pure deep love, the souls unite. When souls unite, the love blossoms in multiple folds. That’s why when two people deep in love have sex they tend to look similar. Their facial gestures also begin to imitate each other. In such a case, when a person leaves another, it’s ultra hard for the left one to move on. Why? Because they made a strong connection at soul level. Their souls are still one. It take years and sometimes forever for the other person to move on, and sometimes people are not able to move on because they have been tied together. That’s why in many religions, sex is suggested only after marriage to make the bond deeper. If you are a virgin then better thing is to marry a virgin woman. Please ignore those guys and girls here who are insulting you by saying that you a narrow-minded person for expecting a virgin wife even when you are virgin yourself. They are saying this because they have already had sex with multiple partners. Now when it is their time to settle down they want to fool other guys by saying that virginity is no big deal. 70% of guys in the arranged marriage market are virgins who will never accept a non-virgin wife. So the numbers are on your side. Now, why should you not marry a non-virgin woman? This has more to do with sexual compatibility. If you marry a non-virgin partner then it is not only about virginity but the amount of sex and the number of sexual partners she already had. Most probably she was having sex almost twice or thrice a day for many years (2-3 years at least with each year having 365 days) with her then bf. You can imagine the amount of sex she already had. Now she has satisfied their sexual curiosity and is looking for a partner who she can settle down with. She doesn’t have much sexual excitement left in her, at least not as much as you in any case. But since you are a virgin, you probably want to have a lot of sex and would be expecting great sex life after marriage. But let me burst your bubble because what you are gonna get after your marriage from your sexually satiated non-virgin wife is ‘Honey, I am not in the mood right now.’ even though during her prime times with her boyfriends they were having sex in every position, multiple times a day, everywhere (parks, hotels, hostel rooms). So some people (read pseudos) will say that accept her because she has more experience than you but the truth is that experience will not come much use to you. In fact, what will happen is that you will have very limited sex and since you are a virgin you will not get enough sex from your partner to match your performance with her bf, who she had sex with when both were inexperienced. If you don’t believe me ask any psychologist that a huge difference in the past sexual experience of two partners can cause trouble and resentment in a marriage. So by not marrying a non-virgin, you are doing yourself and the girl a favor by avoiding an unhappy marriage. For now virgin folks out there (both boys and girls) who are bashing virgin guys for expecting virgin wife, you will never ever understand how important is virginity for a virgin guy in an arranged marriage. They may marry a non-virgin wife after so much hate and bashing from ultra-liberals but they will not be happy and will not be able to keep their partners happy.
Moreover what you said about the girl 's experience. According to me girls don't need experience as they just need to spread legs, all the work is to be done by men. So, I strongly think it is men who should gain sexual experience
oh bro, I we all know hum log abhi tak virgin isiliye h kyunki humse koi pati nahi. Its all about demand and supply market, jiski demand h vo shaadi se pahle hi kar liye..ab aise gyaan dene se kuna nahi bas man ki santushti karlo
I am now 20 and virgin ,i intimate only with my wife ,i think if you indulge in such things,you lost most precious time of your life ,this time is only to make carrier as in india you are aware of compitition in any national level entrance . If you do then it impacts on academic, concentration, you do not achieve milestone in whole life and at age of 40 when you see your friends achieve milestone, then you regret why you not work on you and indulge in foolish things ,
@@arpit.sharmaatleast they respect there religion and culture While you stupid are criticizing them without even knowing the reason and blaming there religion, even our religion does not supports sex before marriage
These modern day india cant proudly say we are indians because if we leave our roots behind and forgot our culture then we are same as of western. I hope lots of young generation will understand this concern and keep our culture alive because thats what makes us different from rest of tye world
My life without children is empty and meaningless. You may think that your career is important, but the truth is that your job can fire you without a second thought. When you're past 50 with no grandchildren, living alone in a house while your friends are surrounded by their families, you'll realize that the few extra Gucci bags you could afford won't bring you true happiness. I attended my grandmother's 93rd birthday and was struck by the fact that she had nine children, who in turn had many more children. There were 70 people in the room, all descendants of one woman who dedicated herself to being a good mother and wife. Nobody cared about her career or her hobbies; what mattered was her family. Women who have children and a husband to support them are the happiest people on earth, I guarantee it. Just ask your own mother if she regrets having you. I bet she'll say that you're the best thing that ever happened to her. Now, you're going to end your own bloodline just because you don't want to sacrifice your selfish desires. Your ancestors survived the dangers of the past just to ensure that you could have a comfortable life, and you're wasting it on strip clubs and beach vacations. It's an insult to your entire bloodline and all the struggles they faced. You should have kids and continue your family's legacy.
the marxists and the social engineers are forcing ideologies that males must not have such expectations from their female partner . Mental oppression of males in the name of feminism , thus promoting or influencing girls into these sexual pattern , all so in the name of Equality and Freedom because it ultimately promotes the Consumer Culture , implying Paisa hi Paisa for the cartels and conglomerates.
@@anonymous-l4c exactly. Better stay single than accept a girl with multiple relationships. Ase ladkiyan attention seeker hoti hai..inko ap thoda attention nahi doge to they will go sleep with someone else.
Awareness can comes at any age we must take knowledge first... People having multiple partners after marriage is also a bizzare thing... We are becoming slaves to someone else and not loving our mental health that much... Thank you to j krishnamurthi who gave me clarity of thoughts
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As an 18 year old, I can not imagine losing my virginity to someone who isn't gonna be my husband. I expect the same from him ofc, which is rare these days. It's about being pure and untouchable, not just virginity.
BUT I DO NOT SUPPORT VIRGINITY TESTS (like that stupid bedsheet test) AS IT IS A GIFT OF SEXISM. VIRGINITY IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT TO DEMEAN AND SL'T SHAME WOMEN , having a preference is fine but demeaning those who are not virgins is dehumanizing.
Purity here means purity of thoughts , morals and character, not only your body count.
Good to see girls at this age having this mentality.
Respect 👑
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same dude 😁😁
Pure untouchable iss jindagi mein nahi milega XD
I am a 22 year old. Until now, I haven't smoked, drank alcohol, or done any other addictive substances. I have a lot of close friends who drink and smoke - during my 4 years of hostel life, 99% of the guys would smoke or drink. But I didn't, because I feel it's not right. I know that if I ever did those things, I would be ashamed of myself, and I don't want that.
Let's talk about virginity. I am still a virgin. I do feel natural cravings sometimes, but I just can't ruin my character. I've had chances to lose my virginity but told myself not to, just to satisfy some cravings. So many people tease me for that, saying I'm not living life to the fullest. But really, they are ruining their lives.
I am old school - I will stay pure for my future wife. Yes, I am still single, because I don't want meaningless relationships or flings. We old school people are always looking for something pure and permanent.✌️
I'm 32 & same like you, from your age till today
@@Pranjal90 man of culture ✌️
I am 78 and same😢
Is comments ko padne se pehla lagta tha ki mai akela hi aisa hu
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sad to live in a society where sex without love is promoted and love without sex is just not acceptable.
Xctly
Very well said 👍
❤❤❤ Kiya bat hai
Baat jism ki nhi hai baat trust,emotional attachment ki hai kya faida ek ladka cha kar bhi apni non virgin wife ko accept nhi kar pa Raha or kya patta un dono ka agge jakke divorce ho jaye esse bhatar hai ki shadi se phele sab clear ho Jana chaiye taki agge chal kar dikkat na aye ..I think ladkiyo ko vha shadi karni chaiye jha kisi ladke ko uske past se koi mtlb na ho unse kabi shadi mat Karo jo kese ladki ke past ko accept hi na kar paye
Its really sad .....
Point is that after being physical with someone its very difficult to loose memory of them out of your mind and body. That means your relationship gets more deeper and this could be harmful if married to someone else.
true ❤
Sooo true completely agree with you!❤
This is also harmful because it’s CHEATING 😂 Don’t mormalise cheating!
@@divyauppal905 yes ofcourse! Harmful for both the parties 😅
Ha. That's why many marriages are lasting more than a year.
I'm virgin and will only do it after marriage. Intimacy is between a husband and wife. This is what you should promote. Premarital sex causes lots of problems with unwanted pregnancy and multiple partners.
Great
@@Preetsdiaries you are also virgin
Correct
And STDs
@@ayonticabanerjee8326 right 👍
Glad to see comment section filled with comments opposing this western sex culture strongly
We all are doing that. And those who have done so far, will justify those things here. And then will cry later in life, when those idiots will remain devoid of real love.
Yes
Only men are opposing that. Women are getting more promiscious. I'm going into himalayas
Bloody satisfaction 🤗😉
In my personal opinion loosing virginity is not cool. Accepting others culture is totally fine but it doesn't mean you should put up questions on your own culture. If you can't control your hormones your body than how can you control a nation? The youth of India is the future of india.
I don't know what is wrong with the mentality of today's youth like we are living in the generation in which being toxic is cool, in which women prefer to call themselves bad b*tch , chick, s*xy etc... We really need to save our culture ..... whoever read this please remember " ek aurat ki izzat uski mariyada sabse zaroori hoti hai, ek aurat ki izzat ke peeche puri Mahabharat ki shuruwat Hui thi..."
Well said👍
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Social media is running things
Women🗿
Wow !
Chand na badla, suraj na badla , na badla aasman , kitna badal gaya insaan , vo kitna badal gaya insaan, ❤
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Because of casual sex, people just don't know now what true love is. That's the saddest part!! People these days just don't know what emotional bonding is & the amount of youngsters watching adult content is growing at a fast pace. No wonder divorce rate is increasing at such a rapid pace.
There is nothing wrong in casual and hookup...
There are some guys who always face rejection.from college day but selected during arrange marriage process.
And most of the girls who are used by her ex goes through arrange marriage. They agree to marry thise guys whom they used to reject in past.
Those girls get love and intimate and fullfill their sexual needs.
Then what would those guys do to fullfill their sexual needs??
Those guys should sit snd wait for marriage to get love from those girls??
Don't those guys have sexual desire??
So there is nothing wrong having casual,,if premarital sex is okay
@@Sebastian.6851 lol a lot of girls are scared of it.
@@codeytherex5954 don't those lot of of girls get scared when they sleep with fckboy in the name of love??
Accha
Thik hai
Samajgaya😂
We should avoid sweets sugar chocolate watermelon etc to avoid lust feelings.😊😊😊
The last point she said about validation is very on point!!
We(as Indians) never had such vulgarity, such hook-up culture!
This is just and just because of western culture and it's ruining the youth of India.
Actually no. Western culture went on a downward spiral only from the 70s - flower power culture when they steered away from religion, family values. Upto 60s they were a very traditional society.
Truth
How this is ruining the youth, what wrong in casual hook ups?
@@deepmazumder1619 Everyting is front of ur eyes
Indians have Kamasutra. Not western culture
Its really horrific that children are getting exposed to such adult content at an age when you don't understand the outcomes. Extremely important for parents to be taught child psychology, Extremely important.
Sahi kaha
They need to know this things at this age
Correct
Parents phone pkda dete hai bacho ko taaki unhe zyada mehnat na krni pde pr uska nuksaan bhi bhut zyada hota hai
+ sex education to the kids too so they can differentiate the right from wrong
I don't like this video but I like the comment section of this video where everyone are oppose for pre marital sex👍🙏
Dont take him too seriously, 20 years later he will be giving us knowledge why divorce is good after having 3 divorces, he is just a youtuber
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I don't want to think that but , you are damnn right .
Haha...🤣🤣
😂😂😂 best comment!! Afterall opinions change with time
Oh bhai 😂
Connection with multiple people creates confusion and unwarranted expectations with the other partner , This is the reason divorces are pretty common in the west
If you don't want to marry and form a meaningful connection , These coaches are your get go ( They can help you feel proud of something you did that is disastrous for yourself )
i was expecting this point but they just ignored it
Sex is utmost thing in a relationship and ultimate form in love . Doing it casually with anyone makes it less valuable and once anything is less valuable people do it easily and hence cheating became very common . Physical stuff is meant to be in between two couple . And also if you share your body with anyone then just like every thing in the universe if it is accessible to anyone around or you can say to more people it is obvious the body becomes less worthy and be it any gender. If a guy had many relationships in past but want someone to be pure than it is wrong but if any of gender believed in genuine relationship and wants the same quality for their partner then there is nothing wrong. Now i would also like to say who is at fault , i believe we all are . Mostly actors - how ? -. They do physical stuff and intimacy and justify it in the name of art or job but i would say job is not the ultimate thing in the world that you can do anything in the name of it. Common people watch it and repeat the same thing and again like i said before it makes utmost thing less valuable.
If you are having a lot of casual hookups, it is extremely hard to pair bond
Right bro
@@doncorleone3901 do boys face this?
I don't know whether anyone agree with me or not..
The casual relationships are actually ruining our youth. Everyone is running after sex and move on, which is really bad for our own future.
Whereas in serious relationship people are suffering because of either society or boredom.
And there are many boys who are great, not only because they emotionally connect well but also because they are raised well.
Right i completely agree with you
agree
Yes
Exactly...aapne ekdam sahi bola h
Aajkal k time me pyaar ka kya mtlb h ye kisiko ni pta bas sex k piche log bhaag rhe h aur jo insaan chahe wo ladka ho ya ladki agar sacha pyaar krna janta ho to wo bechara ek kone me baith k ro rha h qki jo log sacha pyar karna jante h wo log sex ko itni priority ni dete h aur fir aise log ko koi importance bhi ni deta h
couldn't agree more , the reason why I personally hesitate to marry .
I am 19 years old and pure, and i want my future husband to be virgin and Krishna conscious too. Thats it!!
I'm here 😌
@@beats_elitez5709 😂😂
@@beats_elitez5709 Gaon basa nahi lutere pehle aa gaye
@@Anonymous_NANU hum pura gaon bhi basa denge tension na le
@@beats_elitez5709 thik hai bhai bas mujhe parshad bana diyo fir bhajan karna bhi seekhana hai bacchon ko
As a 90s kid I totally relate to it. Casual dating is a big problem. It is not our culture still we are doing it. The sexual relationship is not bad.. But it should not be one the first day. Emotional bonds are missing now days. Guys are bragging about their body count. This is totally destroying our culture.
I totally agree 💯
Why are you so attached with culture?
@@JustGotALife because culture keeps the society intact. The society will collapse without culture Like it is collapsing now
@@diehardernxgt2161 it's collapsing with culture also. Also, there is no one culture.
@@JustGotALife what?
Boys who are against pre-marital sex, i am in their group.
Jinko milta nhi h wo aise bolega ...😅
@@duskysky3184haa to whores n manwhores hone se to better h na hi kre ...
@@duskysky3184paise ho tho sab milega cheap rate me bhi miltha hey par nahi chahiye ....
@@duskysky3184 charitarhin aur randibaaz hone se to acha hi hae
@@duskysky3184300 rupees jyda bdi baat nhi baki aap samjdar hai 😊
Instead of discussing pre-marital sex, we should discuss ways to control our sexual desire. We are influenced by the West because they introduced sex as our utmost desire. We must mediate so that we can change our mindset🙃it's my opinion may be I'm wrong 🧘
no wrong, u said it correctly
Nhi karna bhai mujhe, main khush hun aise hi.. but again, its my opinion.
What I respect the most about u after reading ur comment is you are not calling others wrong, u r just stating ur opinion. Likewise, i am not right or wrong, its my opinion.
@@harshitwadhwa7348 bhai tu khush nahi hai, tujhe ab aadat hogayi hai inchizo ki isliye tu man na nahi chahta, deep down you also know ki kya side effects hai inchizo ki, I' ve been through this and still going through it little bit but i never feel proud about these things like you did! change it before it will change you!
@@adarshkashyap2587 how is it gonna affect me?
@@harshitwadhwa7348 are u atheist?
Sex before marriage can and with multiple partners decreases emotional bond. It is ok to have but it has consequences. It results in more divorce.
Very well said.
True
Nonsense , How they hell it is related to divorce ? Divorce happens when you don't get along with partner.
@@BatmanWayne-mv8ck It's a big story and the platform is short. so can't tell you here that how it is related to divorce. 😁
I am 1969 born now in my 50s. Back in 1988 during my graduation years in Pune, most of friends decided to experience sex for the first time. Somehow my conscience told me that you will not go for having sex. My friends made fun me, but I was firm on my decision. Later many of my friends became addicted to sex and continuously watching porn films, which eventually led to self-destruction. Their outlook towards a normal woman was just as a sex object. This even impacted our friendship forever, was never in touch with them again. A concept very well explained in the film “Pretty Women”. In my life I fell in love with 3 women at different stages of life. Once you fall in love with someone with genuine feelings you will never even think of having sex with your partner. This is sensuality and nothing wrong in having such feelings for anyone. I did express my love for them not with the idea of marrying them such, which it would have led to the 2 states like situation. Looking back today after 35 years, I would say that was my best decision.
absolutely you had done a nice decision
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Yess ...sex is addictive
you are Real women
I have seen the same thing happening. God saved u.
Bro if u are virgin that means u have strong self control
Many Indian guys, I'd say majority don't even have a chance to get laid. Nothing about self control lol
Thanks bro 😄
that means tumhe kisi ne bhaav nhai diya
@@biggboss9780 bhaav ignore karna sikhna padta hai. Agar har kisi ke bhaav ko accept karne lage na, to ladkiyo ke saath-saath ek din gali ke kutiya ke saath bhi sotey hue mil jaoge tum🤣🤣🤣
@@ironpurush how you compared girls with street dogs, shows your mentallity. By the way I am a girl and bby your statement I can surely tell that Virgin men are even more disgusting and they don't respct women.
As a girl in my teens, I think that being “pure” or a virgin does matter. I am clean and I demand someone clean as well. This generation has made the intimate connection of bodies a casual thing. And about premarital intimacy,I think it is valid if you know your partner very well and are comfortable enough with them. Nevertheless,if I were to ever have premarital intimacy, then first I would want myself to be confident enough that I am going to marry them
gf jab khud hi sex karwaygi to kaise bachenge?
khol k samne aagayi aur penis ko ragarne lagi aur apna vagina me dalne lagi...
uske pas sab chije thi pahle se...😅😂
There is nothing wrong being virgin and wanting a virgin partner. Problem arises when people demean other people without knowing anything what it's like for other people. Life humbles everyone. Every arrogant person.
Again the problem arises when you sre yourself not virgin, but you demand virgin. Problem arises when people validate men to be fuckboys and still make them beleive they have a free pass for a virgin woman.
If you are not Ram, don't demand Sita.
@@yot-y8t Well spoken! Such people who are genuinely not okay with having an “unclean” person who are themselves not a virgin are the problem here. They should be made aware of the fact that the world does not revolve around them,especially not when you’re demanding what you yourself don’t have. Not only men but it applies for women as well. But considering this fact,it’s mostly men who demand a virgin women just for “pleasure” is disgusting.
"Clean"?
Are we humans or objects
Because the way it's referred, it sounds as if we are instruments.
We should be clean. Lol.
Sex is just normal, and we are just giving so much of unnecessary importance to it by talking about it so much.
Virigin or not, it doesn't define someone's worth. Does it?
What actually matters is how a person is, ig. :)
Very true. Dont accept these second handed men.
They manipulate saying a key which opens many lock is good bla bla..
But who needs a second handed spare key😂😂😂
People in the comment section have more intelligence than this content questionnaire . Thank God there are still people out there who knows difference between good and bad. Sex is sacred and should be only with your married partner not any random person.
Finally I found poeple in this comment section who still have shame who still have a good charecter. And know what is correct.
Conclusion is
all these people are trying to hide their LUST in the name of modern culture western culture and all those non sense things🙏🙏🙏
Sab kuch sanskar ki baat hai . Ghar par jo sikhoge wohi karoge. Call me typical conservative or whatever , sex before marriage is sin. Mai jitne v modern dresses kyu na pehenu lekin har cheez ki maryada hoti hai .
If you are a woman, then really hats to you kyunki you are rooted to our system.
Aur yeh maryada both ladke and ladkiyon ke liye lagu hoti hai.
The best solution is to r
Educate the generation in sex education
@@smnr_6789 TO PUSH FOR s#x or live in relationships and Destroy our Future also culture .Today's modern S#x education is bane for society this increases Nudity in Human beings 🤬
you sound like a Muslim lol. Hinduism isn't as restrictive and barbaric as Islam, sex before marriage is not a sin in Hinduism
Sahi baat h dekhna nhi living mein rehne ka natija shraddha wala case jisme ladki ko 35 pieces mei. Kat dia....
Indian culture never say that sex is bad thing it's said wait for the right time and increase your mental and body power then you go in relationship and sexual thing 👍👍
Bro if you are hindu than in geeta and in other books it is wrong and if you are christians then in bible it is also wrong and in quran it is also not allowed so first read your cultural book and then speak
@@mazeemrehmat356 only Geeta isn't our Indian culture bro
Why I am watching this I am a teenager.but knowledge is important regardless of the age
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Media control your hormones and i am also religion
i have an advice for you, consume less content, avoid friends who only talk on such topics
If world looses, Google, Facebook, Whatsapp and Instagram...World will be a better place in just 6 months time...
Google ko chodh dey, one thing i do appreciate about the net is we can look up information regarding anything in minutes that encyclopedias didn't cover. Agreed with the rest
It is "NOT our body's need". It should be done at the right age (after marriage), with the right person(spouse) for the right thing(procreation). Even animals do it just for procreating and not to enjoy. As we can't expect this from everyone. The least we do is not engage in before marriage. I don't agree with her and such podcasts give teenagers validation. Not only does it ruin our spiritual life but also future relationships. Our bodies have memory and once you do it, it will always affect your long term married life.
Our culture has taught us the right things, Jai Sri Ram 🙏
People with attitude and mentality like you are really rare. I'm pretty sure, Every mens dream would be to have someone like you as wife.
Said correctly .I have a question to u . a few months back a connect to u a girl after chatting with her few days she started liking to me .after few days she shared her past sexual relationship even I didn't ask.i cried after listening this. Is she good for marriage ? Plzz suggest
@@PrinceKumar-uf1bt Don't ask such questions, Use common sense brother, a single choice of choosing partner can change your life. Just a suggestion, don't be desperate as this is life changing decision. Remember a general rule, the more easy a person is, the lower is the quality and standard of that person should be.
@@elveeleven2574 I didn't ask any nonsense questions my dear she says this without asking anything she says to me is virginity matters ?
I said yes the girl should be pure ......
She told she isn't virgin .
I didn't ask such nonsense questions yaar
Yes, that's very true. Otherwise, there won't be any difference between humans and animals.🥲
Girls are interested in the boy's future and Boys are Interested in the girl's past.
It's simple and normal not toxic. Everyone has their own priorities.
Achha mtlb iss hisab se ladki chahti hai ki bhale isne pehle kitni bhi ladkiyon ke sath sex kiya ho lekin age nahi karna chahiye aur ladka chahta hai inse pehle ek bhi ladke ke sath sex nahi kiya hona chahiye age bhale hi kitne bhi ladko ke sath sex kare kya chutiya batein kr raha hai tu🤦
Bro is living in the podcast of America
@@PreetiYadav-fc6ww yeah cuz its a fact,
Very logical and true statement !
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Some open minded people destroying Indian culture. But we emotional Bhartiya preserve our beautiful culture .
Proud to be an INDIAN MUSLIM.🇮🇳
@Lieutenant_Rajput bhai jabh usne tumhare culture ke liye kuch nahi bola toh tum ulta kyo bol rahe ho yar
@Lieutenant_Rajput thank u for protecting us🙏 but plz thoda sa lenient ho jao sir
Btw Indian culture aka Hindu culture doesn't restrict pre marital sex and polygamy. It's says do whatever and with whomever.
@@askerman3wrong. Premarital relation is a paap in Hinduism. Physical intimacy is said to be preserved for marriage with the partner only
@@jancyvargheese5351 there is really no such restrictions
It's true I am 26 years old girl and I have had relationships but none of it really worked out ..my first bf left me because I didn't agree to have sex... because I have always had a firm opinion that I will have sex with only my husband that too after getting married...but now it seems like guys don't want to stay without this...and sometimes it scares me what if I die being alone ...but my mom says people end up with the kind of people they are ..so if I stay a virgin I ll get a virgin...tbh I don't evn care if my partner is a virgin or not but I would not want anyone who tries to disrespect my boundaries.
Point is why are you entering in relationships knowing very well what boys would expect from you?
Are you using them as a recreational activity or just to k!ll boredom in life? Or are you using them for their resources?
No chaste girl would monkey branch like you are doing. Being a virgin is advantage, but if a girl has been in multiple relationship that alone is a red flag. It makes you seem like a despo
U choose a wrong guy one one who is right for u is doing hardwork now
Good thing to protect ourself
You did the right dumping him. He clearly just wanted pleasure.
Same story 😢
Being physically attached initially can be toxic, but emotional attachment is a must thing one should persuade... before getting physically attached....true relationship ...takes time. ✨
10- 12 saal dating kar lo aur samjh lo phir shadi karna
Yesss
Exactly
Non sense , an independent women takes no time and has multiple partners significantly
Sex before marriage,sex with multiple partners,casual sex and all kind of sex - these topics are complex and we just cant jump onto a conclusion of good or bad. It can be tool to liberation or a door to hell depending on a lot of various circumstances and actions
Very intellectual answer brother
Prostitution is encouraged by this video in smart way.
Right👍👍👍👍
Sex is utmost thing in a relationship and ultimate form in love . Doing it casually with anyone makes it less valuable and once anything is less valuable people do it easily and hence cheating became very common . Physical stuff is meant to be in between two couple . And also if you share your body with anyone then just like every thing in the universe if it is accessible to anyone around or you can say to more people it is obvious the body becomes less worthy and be it any gender. If a guy had many relationships in past but want someone to be pure than it is wrong but if any of gender believed in genuine relationship and wants the same quality for their partner then there is nothing wrong. Now i would also like to say who is at fault , i believe we all are . Mostly actors - how ? -. They do physical stuff and intimacy and justify it in the name of art or job but i would say job is not the ultimate thing in the world that you can do anything in the name of it. Common people watch it and repeat the same thing and again like i said before it makes utmost thing less valuable.
@@bhavdeeppatel6919 This is what west suffering. There is no love, lust only.
born in 2001 still nt believe on casual relationship got periods at 14 years of age so glad that i have shielded my self from it
Born in 2006, still not believe in hookup culture & relationships before marriage...
Sare Genz same nahi hote 🥲
Agree 😂@@PureLucifer-l8h
Being in relationship doesn't mean have to be physical relation pyar me ye chiz sabse baadme aati hai if there is love only presence of that person only matters growth of each other matters in terms of independence, finance, career and emotions
What’s your age? This is the truth
Easy access to porn and sexually triggered content on social media has destroyed our youth nowadays and it is very alarmingly dangerous. One can clearly see all the cringe content of TikTok are now on Instagram and on TH-cam as well. God bless India 🇮🇳
Access is not the bad thing .... Lack of knowledge is
@@balmiki5345 access IS a bad thing.
Being a Gen Z I'll say that I don't support casual relationships or so called one night stands but at the same time I don't think that sex before marriage is bad but it is a huge step honestly so you should be connected on a deeper emotional level with your partner and if you both are sure about your future then go for it. Casual relationships cause problems, one of my very good friend is in a casual relationship rn but he started it after a girl rejected him and we usually talk about everything he told me he got upset because the girl he's with currently was talking to other guys. I simply told him that you knew what you were getting into before so don't complain now. He's getting affected because ofcourse you get connected to a certain level and believe me or not it will affect your relationship with your future partner
True, even i feel similar, sex before marriage is absolutely okay but only when you trust your partner, its been time u guys are dating, and u both want it
Don't come under any influence of emotional blackmailing or to prove your love, seriously.
Nd yes if u will have multiple partner or say even ex, you just relate with things that happens with u in past and affect ur present so I advice u to understand yourself, give time to yourself, understand whatever happened nd why, what did u learn in a relationship that should be done or not before going for any other relationship
One more thing, always prioritize ur career first
@@kennis_zoektocht exactly my friend totally ruined his studies because of that girl who rejected him and now this friend with benefit. I told him so much that don't do it talk to me whatever you are feeling but he's like let's not talk about it. Not to say he had a past relationship where he got cheated by his ex gf. Having multiple partners before in a casual relationship can give alot of insecurity to your life partner honestly.
Premarital sex leads to casual hookups.
@@diehardernxgt2161 probably, you might get used to with such things, that will affect you for sure.
@@kennis_zoektocht if u really two love someone..then Focus on carrier..spend time to know each other...then get married & be physical. Nobody prevent you to have sex with your lover after you marry her.
Then why people can't wait??
I hv seen such couple..who done it with an excuse they have future. But finally they separate. Tgen where is that future?? That was simply just excuse to hide lust character.
And premarital sex has so many bad consequences.
If a virgin boy expects his future wife also to be virgin. Kya woh bhi toxic hai?
No bro
Nope
Nope
Even if the boy is not virgin he can expect his girl to be virgin. Nowhere in the constitution it is written that it is illegal.
Absolutely not
Is bhai ne hi ek bnde ka interview liya tha… Usne saaf saaf btaya tha humari body or mind touch, feelings yd rkhti hai aur jb multiple partners ho jate hai to apne khud Smjh ni ata sakun hai kha.😂😂😂 aur ye sach hai bikul… apni gltiyo ko chupane ke liye aaj ke time m sab kch normal hai Bol dete hai… kyu bhai phle kya log jawan nhi hote the😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
abe bhai ye pagl he...au ye apne podcast me aisi bakti karne wali ladies ko hi lata hai. 😂😂
8:50 well said
Agreed, and i think,
In a relationship, exploring the emotional side of each other prior to the physical side, builds the base of pure relationship among couples.
Ye western culture he shame hi he indian culture me ye sab nahi tha kya bol rahi ho madam. Need shadi ke baad bhi puri kari ja sakti he 🤬 ap wait kar sakte ho bakwas mat karo western society tabah kardi in chizo ne history dekh lo ek bar phir bolna ek logic dedo mujhe ki karna kyu he and body ki koi need nahi hoti apne need banai he maam body ne nahi
If sex is the only need for a teenager then he/she is unawair of his perspective in life
words and phrases like " exploring " , " exploring his/her sexuality " , " relieving the stress " etccc are one of the many reasons I looooovvvvveee english .
Whole life they stuck in this chakra
दिक्कत तब है जब चूदी किसी और से और शादी किसी और से।
Agree then like
Asi ko randi kehte hai
kuchh radde jydatar ladkiyo ko fasa lete
exactly.. but feminsts simps are promotes it
Sahi hai yaar use and throw 😂😂
At the age of 13 I was more into my studies, playing cricket, happily enjoying my life with overthinking.
I'm 23 now , boarded bmtc bangalore, a 13 yr school guy & girl were smooching, liplocking in the bus , where these big balls generation heading towards 🤡
Podcasts like this will encourage more teen-aged boys & girls to go on this track. Because you are not only justifying premarital sex but in fact promoting it. I didn't expect it from you Ranveer.
Completely Agree !!
Then what u want just ignore it
No 10 yr kid will watch him bro
@@kanishk3528 Ten year old kids are not teens FYI
Right
Ap log kya smjty ho ranveer boht cool or gora dikhnay k lye ye sb krta jesy ye start se he goro ki olaad hay
the thing is that mr allahbadia had sex before marriage so he only wants to listen that its not wrong ,to justify himself . so if a guest says that its wrong then he changes the guest not his perspective 😂
Abso fuckin' lutely
True
😂
जो कानों को अच्छा लगे वो सुनना चाहता है ।😂
Nothing is toxic for being clean before marriage coz our hindu mythology says to follow celibacy or to live the normal life before marriage
s@x be4 marriege is not wrong but having s@x with somebody else and getting married to somebody els is wrong , have s@x with someone who you truely in love with and planning on getting married with. dont give in and go with flow , have some self pride and understand the value of your body talk abt spiritual thing , pyaar andha nahi hota use banaya jata he.
I totally agree with you
Right Bro
PLEASE NOTE THIS: Its ok to have but unfortunately our bodies build permanent strongest memories while having sex.. these memories are so strong that it will take you to them one day again and these memories might affect your future life and cause big problems in your life that you couldn't be able resist and finally it would lead to unnatural things which are against the law of nature.
Exactly - Connection with multiple people creates confusion and unwarranted expectations with the other partner , This is the reason divorces are pretty common in the west
I will remember this ✋
source of your conclusion?\
But is the western world immune to this? Why do we oriental people feel that only through this particular activity can certain strong emotional bonds be created which even long term association cannot create
@@sarthaksoni20 indian have habbit to assume many stereotypes also habbit of never providing the actual evidence if asked about the source
If you and your partner can control till marriage, nothing is more wonderful than that.. ofcourse there are insecurities having sex before marriage as no one knows what the future holds.. But people fall in love .. they get intimate.. It's absolutely their personal choice and no one has the right to judge them.. But if you are having more than one partner, something is really wrong going with the body , mind and soul.
Exactly , virgin deserves virginthats all
@@Akash-ve4oltere baap ki bhi alg alg biwiya h kya??? Tu konsi biwi se paida hua h.....tujhe 10 relationship bnane h bna bhai apne bekar gyan mt de
Body main control honi chahiye ..or itni aag kyun hai bf banane ki pyar main doobne ki or sex krne ki..wait for the perfect time...itni hawas hai to saadi kr lo sinple
@@sudhanshukumar-ow9dg nothing wrong in sex before marriage
@@sudhanshukumar-ow9dgon't worry,You can stay sexless for your entire life ,no problem with that.Even if yours cucumber goes bigger you can use it hanging calender.
People who are doing casual sex or pre marital sex and other stuffs will agree to it but who arent doing it they wont agree
Yess
Still I don't understand, why this generation feels premarital sex is normal ...
Yes as if their parents had it 😂
words and phrases like " exploring " , " exploring his/her sexuality " , " relieving the stress " etccc are one of the many reasons I looooovvvvveee english .
@@sohailahamed8829 ekdum sahi
@@sohailahamed8829 habsi wo bante hai jinko chadhi hoti hai pura time aur sath me milta bhi nahi, jo chilled hai wo habsi nahi bante, sochne ka tarika badlo
Jinki niyat sahi ho wo habsi nahi bnte
2:35 Non Virgin looking out for virgin might be toxicity, HOWEVER a virgin(in majority) looking out for a virgin is not a toxic thinking , Not sure why people always give an example of non virgin guy looking for virgin girl to justify pre marital sx 😂, i guess because they know if they give an example of virgin guy demanding for virgin girl then they cannot win a debate.
Same thinking vro🤣
These days being a man is toxic but women are doing whatever they want if we do it's toxic? women are makeing everything negative these days.
Straw-Man arguement hain.....
If a vrgin guy asks for a virgin girl, they will still shame him and say stuff like why are you so regressive and past doesn't matter. Basically all these women are used up and tgey wouldn't want to be rejected by virgin guys because most of the virgin guys have worked hardin their youth and have a lot to offer.......
😂 correct 💯
Not just social media nowadays consumption of Junk and Food injected with various chemicals so that it can last longer is also responsible for this, you know if cow is not able to give milk, she is injected with certain hormones in excessive amount to be productive but that results in milk being spoiled and it's consumption also causes various chemical changes in body and it's also one of the main reason children's hit puberty early today!
true .
Yes
I always like your podcasts and learn from them, but this is where I would draw the line. She said there is no problem with pre-marital sex but there is. A high-value woman would never offer herself to a man she does not see as her husband. It should go both ways, the man as well as the woman.
Yeah, you’re right. I feel like premarital intimacy is totally fine IF you are sure that you will marry the same person. If you’re not, it goes otherwise. (No hate to you though)
@@satorugojo__34there is nothing sure in life anything can happen in life in next minute next second u can not control it so thinking that sure ill marry this girl so we can get into physical lets goooo like this everybody thinks everyone doing the same no body is sure they'll marry or not ... Then both marry others 😊😊😊 🤡 that innocent guy or girl dont know these two are experienced...
Exactly it's not being conservative but about being a high value woman ! Same goes for mens !
There's one point I couldn't agree on, that your chemistry "completely" depends on your emotional intimacy. It doesn't completely depend. You can have the perfect chemistry with a person with whom you hardly connect emotionally. This is very common.
Ranveer justifying his past 💀💀💀
Bhai iska gardan(neck) fracture hua hai kya?
Bhai Bhai Bhai 😊😊😊😊😊
😂😂
That was Ranbir
Every cause has an effect. Casual hookups increased now days just because of premature/premarital sex... we totally adopted the western culture and forgot our own culture.Now days If someone reads Gita then he/she is old fashioned while reading so called love stories novels is the sign of modernity.
I am 27 and Single and never had a girlfriend, moreover virgin too! My friend still makes fun of that but I am okay with it. I think it’s personal choice and it’s chemistry and understanding between both. Cheers to all of you, if you read this comment.
I have often been labelled as narrow minded and orthodox but I'm very clear on this that I will never marry a woman who has slept with multiple men before marriage. Even once my cousin said why do you expect your wife to be a virgin, it's not right to expect such thing to which I responded that why shouldn't I expect it, had I been a person who had slept with multiple women then obviously me expecting a virgin wife doesn't make sense. But when I maintained that state of not indulging into pre marital sex then it's valid for me to expect the same from my partner.
But the fact is that nowadays it's almost impossible to find such woman.
However this lady has stated some valid points as well.
What if that girl has only slept with one man in a serious relationship and eventually they broke up. Will u still not marry that girl
@@anweshabhatta5951 no we'll not
@@pritech8302 bhagwan kre apko aisi ldki mile jo virgin ho aur nature wise bhi acchi ho
@@anweshabhatta5951 u 2
@@anweshabhatta5951 definitely not. See for me it doesn't make any difference whether it was one man or multiple men you have slept with, its about your choice and how much control you have got over yourself. Having sex nowadays isnt a big deal, causual sex has become too much prevalent. I remember once Sadhguru had been asked the same question about pre marital sex and multiple partners to which he responded that what's the difference between animal and a human if you're unable to control your senses.
No one should have s*x before marriage and people should not make bs/gf without parents permission every things should be done at the right time 🙏
Abay kuch galat nahi hai sex before marriage bus dono agree karna chahiye sab chalta hai
@@sumitsharma4706 tujhe khuli hui milegi shadi ke baad😂 aur tu usi se mza krna
@@olidon May shadi nahi karunga tu apna hila 🤣🤣🤣
@@sumitsharma4706barbaad h tu bhai ...aage regret krega
@@kartikpathak2136girlfriend nhi bani na?
Such questions should be asked to Spiritual people only. Because Psychologists with their limited 'western outlooking' education cannot really justify answering them. Young Indians should not take these.. "Our body has its needs... " type answers & justify premarital sex. There are a lot of things beyond our understanding which go wrong with such decisions. Lets look at all societies practicing premarital sex vs all which refrain from these. (Eg. Asian countries Vs. western) we see the diff in a lot better social structure present in Asia🙌🏻 Sadhguru has answered this beautifully.
Atleast they are happier than Indian people. You people are getting married but slowly women are not dealing with your shit they will leave you. Things are changing either you change or adapt.
@@jarhead11691 lol 😂. Who said we are not happy???.
When a virgin boy and girl get married, they are eventually leading a happy life.
. Keep your western shit with yourself. Don't ruin our sacred indian culture.
If you call this patriarchy, yes we are happy in this patriarchal society. Not like the one which you see on social media.
@@jarhead11691 who said it to you dear that they are happy if sex is the only thing which makes one happy then the are only sick of these
@@jarhead11691 Bro, who said they are happier. Look at the mental health and depression rate in US.
@@rahuldeore49 same in India. Married men are committing suicide more than unmarried men. Look at the number of rises in divorce rate.
Me 25 saal ka hun andrew tatto aj pata chala😅
Bhai kuch bachho ko pata hai jo under 13 hai 😊
I was 8 when I got my phone and I knew Andrew tate at 11 😅
age of 15-25 is crucial.
Perform Brahmacharya for 10 years is best for whole life .
At age of focusing on carrier it is wrong to do such love things.
Thing is relationship goes to a next level after physical .....then we get too much attach to her or him....I think before marriage this much of attachment is really dangerous emotionally
ofcourse its basic psycology..
Also please don't marry such person who already had sex, cuz you don't wanna invite unnecessary drama of their past life in your life. Choice of your partner can either make your life or really break it so choose wisely and don't be desperate.
@@fixerrr98 100% agree with u
Yes obviously true
@@fixerrr98 I believe if you truly like that person and that person likes you, then whether she/he is virgin or not does not matter at all.
Kaliyuga...truly ..what I feel the more you become casual the more casual will become everything ...but once in your life when you are mature for a relationship you will regret you had those flings .. because body never forget body.. and this casual relationship create cringe in you! And complications too!
Keep your conclusions to yourself
True I am experiencing this now .
@@mehar4351 how old are you?
source? i would like to have some empirical data before coming theh such conclusions
@@sussybaka9937 I am 20 now
I am 20 year old woman now, and i can't imagine marrying a guy who is in his mid 20s with zero sexual desire and capacity, aur haan main clean mujhe clean chahiye, agar tum kisi ke sath sex karte ho toh ussi ke sath shaadi karlo na, kyun uska time waste kiya aur mera krne chaley??!!!! Like whyyy, yeh kya duniya hain yaar!!!!
Because boys want to try different girls
It's just for fun
I'm 24 still virgin because I want love and respect from my wife so I haven't did it even with my gf. We just talk casually.
Ha yar treu 😢😂
Great sister....there are plenty of guys of your thoughts......if you are pure choose pure
I'm 24 male I'm virgin and pure. i didn't even made eye contact. Just with the wife only
Relax trust the God. You will get the same as you r
The irony is,
Ranveer has a 16 minutes long video of semen retention
Now, he is saying that pre-marital sex is completely ok🤣
Faltu ldki se baat krega aisi hi boligi na q wo shadi se phele sex krwa li hai isliye sahi hai uske liye
Hypocrisy
He asked the question, don't accuse him.
@@sandeshpandit5540 tu bhi pre-marital sex is ok waala hai
Abe ranveer chuthiya hain 😂..... Bass sala accha accha guest Lata hain kabhi labhi
"Our body has needs" it's a sentence that's a silent killer actually to do things whatever one wants irrespective of others emotional involvement. There are tons of things body wants after taking or doing it for a period that includes drug as well but we know for right things it's not good then how come you always want to justify "our body needs it" " we are only himan" one who can't control on their mind, hormones shows nothing but weakness. Some things are under control bit we always wants to hide behind it. People in today's time are literally bowing down to hormones when they can control it with Deciplined lifestyle. This man has no solid grounds he will just call people on his show and talk to them as if he follows everything they say and then in other videos he will be completely out of context💀and will agree to them as well. Like dude stick to one thing. Isko dono nav me sawaar hona hai.
Bhai ekdum sahi😂
Very true
Speaking about ramayan mahabharath spirituality to casual sex and multiple partners..😂😂
Damn true
Having sex with anyone is like a freedom to them that is why they are promoting and saying body needs it. 😁😁
I am 36.I am still single.I don't have any past relationship. Not all have past.
Muthi ha tho kiyai fikar 😂
@@tusharsharma12346 bhai yea larki hui toh ?
@@ad-gg toh ungli hai 😂😂
Yes, very true bro, I can understand. One of my cousins is still a virgin and he is waiting for a life partner. Bro, even I am a virgin, but I am much younger than you.
@@user-ek2uq8by8k Central Govt.
Sex before marriage or after marriage both shouldn't be done.. i mean .. just getting stamp that we are married now we can do sex .. even without any feelings... Does that even make sense🤐🤐..
What if that person leave after doing deeds with you after some months of marriage..
Choose wisely the partner.. who is worthful for u .. and ur future
Both is okay if you love eachother and are emotionally involved before phisical
@@dhruvg023 in my opinion before one will not be good .. even partners are emotionally involved... #myopinion🙂↕️
@@nehasinha5315 it's personal preference and choice. None is right or wrong.
@@nehasinha5315 to tu mat kar .. jo log ek dusre ke consent le kar karta hain .. wo absolutely normal hain sis
If we cannot control our urges and give the tag to everything our body needs as 'natural' then what is the difference between humans and animals . These kind of people who have sex before marriage are pretty similar to animals in our scriptures it is clearly mentioned that one should be able to control their 6 indriyas . But afterall it is kaliyug so we cannot expect these things from anyone...
100% true. Justifying your lust by tagging it as a need of body is disgusting..just accept it you can't control your lust and your desire. And if you can't control it you're nothing better than an animal that's slave of his lust. Shitty western culture
The difference is you can have protected sex in a bedroom compared to monkeys on trees
We should do things what makes us happy. Why do we need to suppress our urges.
@@brightmusic4235 by this logic bro drugs also makes people happy...
@@dhruvshashwat5102 but that's harmful. And sex is good for health. If we can hv sex after marriage what's wrong if we do before marriage. This is completely personal choice. You're not forced if u don't want to. Let PPL do if they want to .
As per Bhagvat Geeta, Illicit sex is a sin...
Sex between a true soulmate is not a sin. But yeah casual sex is a sin
@@animedc69 its sin b4 marriage
@@animedc69 : In this kalyug, do you feel you will find soul mate ? It is rare.
Show me the reference
@@pritech8302 Not sin b4 marriage but extramarital affairs
Humble request to make a podcast with one n only sudhanshu Trivedi sir ...🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
I've never had sex, and I want to be with someone who's the same, who also hasn't had sex before. I can't be with someone who's been with lots of other people before. I'm worried they won't love me as much as they loved their first partner. And there are plenty of other guys out there who might be better for them. So, I stick to what I believe.
रणवीर आप एक ध्यानी हैं और आध्यात्मिक जीवन में विश्वास करते हैं.. आपको युवा पीढ़ी को बताना चाहिए कि आप कैसे अपना मन वासना से अपने लाइफ के गोल की तरफ ले जा सकते है।
He is doing acting to become spritual
There are many Christians in the West who also believe it's wrong to have sex before marriage.
If one is virgin then its nothing wrong to ask for virgin partner
Why do you ask that matters ! If you're concerned about sti/std then it's completely ok.
But if it's not the case - you need to educate yourself
@@balmiki5345 there nothing wrong or illiterate in it , its just a choice if having sexual partners before marriage is someone's choice then saving up myself and having virgin partner is my choice.thats it.
@@ipreet6850 brother, there should be a valid reason for any choice one could make.
There's a cause/reason behind your choice - ask yourself!
And I don't know if you watched the video or not but having intercourse before marriage is more of biological/hormonal. So in that case there's only one choice - if you want to do it or not , unlike something filtered* choice you've been keeping .
@@balmiki5345 pardon us with your enlightened knowledge sir! We are Fine if someone is so biological or so stuck to their animal instincts. humans are more than mere biology, having control over lust is noble if someone can do that and is rational and considerate in behavior and expects the same from the partner then what's wrong?
@@shubhamshejaval8526 well said
culture means sanskar , agar ache ghar se honge to pre marriage sex should be sin for u... agr bahut hi pyaar krte h apne bf ya gf se to shaadi ka wait kiya ja sktah . but if u cant control then ye pyaar ka jaadu nhi hormones ka jaadu h...
Jab khud ki behen ko dusre ke saath oyo me jaate hue dekhoge to kya ye normal hai..?
@Shivam chauhan correct
@Shivam chauhan gaharai ki baat krte ho pr ye bhul jate ho sex Santan utpati ke liye ki jati hai
@@rahulpramanik8681 sex pleasure ke liye karte hai santan to waste product hai 😂
I don't think so , when you are in love , you follow lust. 👍
Yeh sab logon ne hi ye sab western cultures India me laya hai.. no strings attached very normal every day sleep with people very normal.. in all or sastras and ved it is written that if u have any attraction twards an opposite gender then get married live life be a grihastha and then take snyas or u and ur parter do Hari nam or krishna bhakti
And also these pre married s.x is sinful and have punishments for it.. as you are doing it for sense pleasure ya kam ko tript kar rahen ho usko ar badha rahenho
You didn't discuss how pre-marital sex brings less confidence, depressions, divorce, less conjugal intimacy.
The one who has done it will definitely be right but having sex before marriage is absolutely wrong Having sex is not wrong if you want to have sex then get married and if you think that sex and marriage are two different things then what is the need of marriage keep having sex all your life but It's like cheating on your future partner, it doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl, it applies to both.
Edit :- And if it is the desire of the mind, the desire of the body, then it is the desire of the mind, then there is also the desire to kill someone, sometimes what can be done, can't do it?
Point 🤘🏻
Excellent 🎉
She is brutally honest 🔥
Agreed with every point
Marriage at the right age is the perfect solution for these weird situation of pre marital sex in the society..
Same I think this is Indian culture and this culture continue.
Yes
True
Baal vivah?
Kamasutra ke anusar sharirik sambandh(sex) sirf husband aur wife ke bich Hona chahie, isse husband wife relation aur Jyada majbut aur Madhu Hota Hai. Lekin sharirik sambandh shaadi se pahle ya FIR annye stre ya Purush se nahin Hona chahie.
Pre martial sex is wrong 100%
Love is not about Phy love
Love is devine... In love our Enegry lift up... But in sex we loose our engery...
Informative talk.....Thanks Ranveer jee.....God bless you 🙏 ❤
Me who is 23 guy
BC mai toh virgin hu
But agree but she said is absolutely true.
toh kar such r*** se
It's not a shame .....
@@pritech8302 Kyu Bhai tu karta hai kya😊
@@rupamsharma7066 khudka zindegi kyu khrp karna ??🤣🤣
Agr sadi se phle sex galat nhi hai to phir sadi nam ki sanstha ka ant hona chahiye..... and I think if a boy or girl is virgin then to expect a virgin partner is very natural it is not toxic....as per your view.....this thing will end the era of true love
Non-virgin woman can never love whole hardheartedly
When sex happens out of pure deep love, the souls unite. When souls unite, the love blossoms in multiple folds. That’s why when two people deep in love have sex they tend to look similar. Their facial gestures also begin to imitate each other. In such a case, when a person leaves another, it’s ultra hard for the left one to move on. Why? Because they made a strong connection at soul level. Their souls are still one. It take years and sometimes forever for the other person to move on, and sometimes people are not able to move on because they have been tied together. That’s why in many religions, sex is suggested only after marriage to make the bond deeper.
If you are a virgin then better thing is to marry a virgin woman. Please ignore those guys and girls here who are insulting you by saying that you a narrow-minded person for expecting a virgin wife even when you are virgin yourself. They are saying this because they have already had sex with multiple partners. Now when it is their time to settle down they want to fool other guys by saying that virginity is no big deal. 70% of guys in the arranged marriage market are virgins who will never accept a non-virgin wife. So the numbers are on your side.
Now, why should you not marry a non-virgin woman? This has more to do with sexual compatibility. If you marry a non-virgin partner then it is not only about virginity but the amount of sex and the number of sexual partners she already had. Most probably she was having sex almost twice or thrice a day for many years (2-3 years at least with each year having 365 days) with her then bf. You can imagine the amount of sex she already had. Now she has satisfied their sexual curiosity and is looking for a partner who she can settle down with. She doesn’t have much sexual excitement left in her, at least not as much as you in any case. But since you are a virgin, you probably want to have a lot of sex and would be expecting great sex life after marriage. But let me burst your bubble because what you are gonna get after your marriage from your sexually satiated non-virgin wife is
‘Honey, I am not in the mood right now.’
even though during her prime times with her boyfriends they were having sex in every position, multiple times a day, everywhere (parks, hotels, hostel rooms). So some people (read pseudos) will say that accept her because she has more experience than you but the truth is that experience will not come much use to you. In fact, what will happen is that you will have very limited sex and since you are a virgin you will not get enough sex from your partner to match your performance with her bf, who she had sex with when both were inexperienced. If you don’t believe me ask any psychologist that a huge difference in the past sexual experience of two partners can cause trouble and resentment in a marriage. So by not marrying a non-virgin, you are doing yourself and the girl a favor by avoiding an unhappy marriage.
For now virgin folks out there (both boys and girls) who are bashing virgin guys for expecting virgin wife, you will never ever understand how important is virginity for a virgin guy in an arranged marriage. They may marry a non-virgin wife after so much hate and bashing from ultra-liberals but they will not be happy and will not be able to keep their partners happy.
Moreover what you said about the girl 's experience. According to me girls don't need experience as they just need to spread legs, all the work is to be done by men. So, I strongly think it is men who should gain sexual experience
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well said
@@freakingly what are you laughing about ? Kindly let us all know,after all, everyone is welcome to share opinions.
oh bro, I we all know hum log abhi tak virgin isiliye h kyunki humse koi pati nahi. Its all about demand and supply market, jiski demand h vo shaadi se pahle hi kar liye..ab aise gyaan dene se kuna nahi bas man ki santushti karlo
I am now 20 and virgin ,i intimate only with my wife ,i think if you indulge in such things,you lost most precious time of your life ,this time is only to make carrier as in india you are aware of compitition in any national level entrance .
If you do then it impacts on academic, concentration, you do not achieve milestone in whole life and at age of 40 when you see your friends achieve milestone, then you regret why you not work on you and indulge in foolish things ,
i totally disagree with premarital sex for both men and women.
Your name explains why
@@arpit.sharma Yes
@@arpit.sharmaatleast they respect there religion and culture
While you stupid are criticizing them without even knowing the reason and blaming there religion, even our religion does not supports sex before marriage
These modern day india cant proudly say we are indians because if we leave our roots behind and forgot our culture then we are same as of western. I hope lots of young generation will understand this concern and keep our culture alive because thats what makes us different from rest of tye world
woman's are main reason
nobody in gen z gives a f about culture ..coz our culture has not lead us anywhere in the world dominance racec
@@LeviAckerman-by7ym ha ha its not about leading its about sustaining
Yes true hope so
You don't understand that increases in that type of sexual maturity decrease love, masculinity,and our great Indian culture.
Very Informative video...if having disadvantage is wrong then pre marital sex and having multiple partners are wrong...
My life without children is empty and meaningless. You may think that your career is important, but the truth is that your job can fire you without a second thought. When you're past 50 with no grandchildren, living alone in a house while your friends are surrounded by their families, you'll realize that the few extra Gucci bags you could afford won't bring you true happiness.
I attended my grandmother's 93rd birthday and was struck by the fact that she had nine children, who in turn had many more children. There were 70 people in the room, all descendants of one woman who dedicated herself to being a good mother and wife. Nobody cared about her career or her hobbies; what mattered was her family.
Women who have children and a husband to support them are the happiest people on earth, I guarantee it. Just ask your own mother if she regrets having you. I bet she'll say that you're the best thing that ever happened to her.
Now, you're going to end your own bloodline just because you don't want to sacrifice your selfish desires. Your ancestors survived the dangers of the past just to ensure that you could have a comfortable life, and you're wasting it on strip clubs and beach vacations. It's an insult to your entire bloodline and all the struggles they faced. You should have kids and continue your family's legacy.
I will commit my whole life to be a clean man ,
but future partner ke past se bahut darr lagta hai.
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Same here bro 🥺 nowadays finding mature partner or having faith in god or our true culture is very rare 🙏
the marxists and the social engineers are forcing ideologies that males must not have such expectations from their female partner . Mental oppression of males in the name of feminism , thus promoting or influencing girls into these sexual pattern , all so in the name of Equality and Freedom because it ultimately promotes the Consumer Culture , implying Paisa hi Paisa for the cartels and conglomerates.
@@anonymous-l4c exactly.
Better stay single than accept a girl with multiple relationships.
Ase ladkiyan attention seeker hoti hai..inko ap thoda attention nahi doge to they will go sleep with someone else.
Same bro
Yes, because of these things premarital sex is fine 😏
Brahmcharya is the best pleasure 😌
Having sex before marriage is for western culture not indian culture.
Awareness can comes at any age we must take knowledge first... People having multiple partners after marriage is also a bizzare thing... We are becoming slaves to someone else and not loving our mental health that much... Thank you to j krishnamurthi who gave me clarity of thoughts
His book - Freedom of thoughts ✌️✌️is amazing,