Re: How To Make a Good Apology
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Riley J Dennis tell us how to make a proper apology.
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No one should apologize unless they are genuinely sorry...
This whole thing kinda reminds of how when someone's a young kid, and they do or say something that upsets another kid, and an adult forces said kid to apologize to the upset kid...
I feel that forcing someone to apologize doesn't do any good. They say they're sorry, but do they mean it? Probably not. They're more likely to feel bitter and angry.
1. make it exactly 10 minutes long and 1000 ads on it
2.avoid actually apologizing in any way
3.repeat yourself 10000000 times
4 .brag about what good you did
5.continue to do the exact same thing in the future
Andrei Craciun He didn't add 10000 ads, said very sensible and important things. please go outside of ur narrow and silly mind.
The video is not exactly 10 minutes long. It is 10 minutes and 1 second long.
Charles Bingley those were steps to make a good apology video, repzion isn't making an apology video
also where in the video did he brag about himself??
lil kitty rants OP isn't talking about Repzion
If someone hates coffee and is offended by anyone who drinks it should I, a person who loves coffee, give it up and apologize to them for my offense? Or should they grow the fuck up and realize that not everyone believes the same thing, likes the same thing, or has to live by their ideals?
Crissy Moss If someone hates coffee, make 'em drink covfefe
You should give up coffee and apologize for your offense.
Crissy Moss random, crazy question. Your comment says 13 hours ago, but the video says it was uploaded 3 hours ago, how?
Crazy Countess as a wontkins, I demand you apolgi.... Disappears before sentence is completed.
I'm a patreon supporter. I get to see it as soon as he uploads it.
To quote my mom: you are only responsible for your own happiness. Everyone else is responsible for their own happiness.
Your mum sounds like a smart woman.
I've always thought it made people look really stupid when they apologize for something they aren't sorry for.
Everybody is here complaining about how Rep should put out his video about Joy now and it's stupid because I don't think he cares about the hype of it? How many views it gets? Also he has a life? I think he has the right to do any video he wants to, and nobody here complaining has the right to tell him what to put out when. Stop complaining. His life and youtube channel doesn't revolve around Joy.
YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!! woo!
You shouldn't get hyped over a youtube comment, that's your fault dumbass.
But what do you expect tho ? People get hyped over anything this day n age over TH-camrs , celebrities ect but there is one thing that people like and that's drama . That's why people want the vid to come out so bad . We all know he has a life of his own and he can do what ever he wants with his time but the majority are hyped about this because it's just drama . That's all it is
Jennifer Pollitt I'm not saying there's anything wrong with people who are hyped about the video. It's not what I'm saying at all. The thing that kind of bugs me is the people telling him what to do with HIS channel, telling him to put it out when obviously he isn't ready to or else he would have done it. It just kind of reminds me of those people who click on somebodys video just to tell them that they hate that person? Like of course it's not the same thing but it doesn't seem like they care about what he discussed in the video, it seems like they simply clicked on it just to push the fact they want him to hurry up with the Joy video.
I don't think there's anything wrong with them wanting the video to come out at all, and I'm sorry if it came across that way :) and I'm sorry if I repeated some things.
Fool Of Hearts I 100% agree and understand that but even me and other people that have made the argument if she did something wrong that he would come out with it and bring awareness of her own actions . But yeah I guess I understand maybe something is going on in his life or his busy and now that I gave it thought, it takes 2 days or more to edit hours of footage so that could be it or it takes awhile to upload
Plus people make alot of vids on joy and I'll admit I don't like her because of her racist remark and I use to be a fan of hers and I love repzion and I've seen him be kinds annoyed with his fans and it just has me concerned is all
You can't control how people feel or react to something you say or do. If you genuinely feel bad about something you did or said and apologized for it but sometimes people will be hurt and offended over things that we're not intended to be that way and maybe some Dialogue on clearing up the misunderstanding may be appropriate but apologizing for the misunderstanding is not a necessity
Riley's ego is so damn big she's almost becoming the next Onision.
There is no "next Onision." Onision is the peak of neuroticism
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my father fly in plane as pilot today hes plane crush because of rileys ego may death of this hero shows us "is time to stop" like filthy frank says
Defalt Rat I'm proud of you. That was almost a legible sentence; your hard work is paying off. Keep it up, remain focused, and continue to inspire, Rat.
thank you random internet person that i never meet in real life i shall continue my work in the name of flying spaghetti monster
Why should you apologize for something that you have no remorse for, especially if the apology is not deserved? That's just making an insincere apology to make the other person feel better about what they've done.
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MrRepzion my life is forever changed my favourite youtuber since 2013 just said 'bb' imma dip
Never apologize when you intended no harm, but always be willing to explain.
Don't apologize to someone if you're not sorry.
An insincere apology is far more insulting than a refusal to apologize. If you must apologize, mean it from the heart.
This is why I never tweeted at her saying "oh I'm sorry for calling you a dude :( :(" because she's a never told anyone she was on hormones and she looked like a dude with eyeliner (news flash, her facial surgery doesn't help). I knew nothing good would come out of the asskissing she was getting for being on HRT and she even tweeted nasty shit about the apologies. So no, Riley doesn't deserve the apologies.
Also, to answer your question, I will only ever apologize if it hurts someone close to me. Other than that, have fun with your hurt feels!
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Ben Pie I'm going to request him wear a repsock on one foot. TH-cam search that 😂
The best apology I've ever gotten was a $60 single malt Irish whiskey
can't WAIT for your video on joy sparkle bs 😁😁
Just apologize if you think it's the right thing to do. And don't add a "but" in there. If you're wrong, then you shouldn't need to justify your actions. Just apologize, and move on. Forgive and forget.
Do you think Riley would ever apologize her in own version of sincerity for offending people by claiming that everyone is racist or trans-phobic? Doubtful.
Why did I just get a notification right now, if that video is already online for about 20 hours? XD
Your on point Rep. Love your videos & I just recently started watching you! I love that you don't pull any punches. 😊
Love your videos rep i have been watching your content for years now and you have really helped me to find myself espically when i was growing up and going through a really dark time. I hate that one day you might stop making videos. But super excited to see what you put out. ❤
Nothing says I'm sorry like money.
I'm always kinda happy when I see a new video of Mr.Rep ♥
I'm patiently waiting for your joy video. will watch this while i wait c:
Here's a couple blonde jokes than.
2 blondes, a husband and wife go deep sea fishing. After catching a huge amount of fish, the husband looks at the wife, and goes give me that bucket of paint and that brush, I'm going to swim to the seafloor and mark where we are. She looks at him, and goes you're an idiot neither of us can swim.
What do you call a blonde who dyes their hair? Artificially intelligent.
Roger Hurtubise I'm blonde and find this offensive, you better apologise for hurting my feelings
Roger Hurtubise Me too.... lol jk, It doesn't bother me any, Except maybe there could've been even more funny ones to do also...!!! LOL We need more laughs nowadays than people taking things soooo dang personally, just my own opinion tho!?!? Thanks for the jokes anyways!!! Much Love ❤️
Three blondes are stranded on a desert island. They find a lamp and the genie gives them each 1 wish.
The first blonde wishes to be 10% smarter, so the genie turns her into a redhead and she builds a raft and sails away.
The second wishes to be 50% smarter, so the genie turns her into a brunet and she builds canoe and sails off.
The third wishes to be 100% smarter so the genie turns her into a man and she walks across the bridge.
Inspector Javert HAHAHAHA That was really funny!! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 Thanks for the giggles!!
haha
Offense is taken, not given.
first of all, apologies are shit, the best apology is to just be better than you were before
A lot of people misunderstand me or make up some underlying meaning in my words when there are none and I tell them that I never do that anyway. Am I supposed to apologise in that case? No, of course not. It would not be my fault in the first place.
People like Riley just want to guilt people and it's absolutely disgusting.
I love this! It's so true you have every right to say whatever you want and if people get offended It's whatever like you said people are always going to be offended
Wow, this was a really great video. I agree with pretty much everything you have said and it has made me reflect on certain aspects of my life.
Whenever I apologize, I truly mean it. It's never flashy and it is always between me and the person/people it involves because I don't see the need to show anyone on the internet my private business. Another thing is that I am very blunt with my apologies, I state what it was that I did wrong and ask of their forgiveness and if I'm lucky in that situation they'll forgive me. I try to admit my faults so they know it's sincere and not just an empty apology.
The part that made me reflect was when you were talking about how you pretty much lose yourself if you try to tip toe around issues and please everyone. Growing up, I've been a people-pleaser and just in these past few years I've seen how much it has damaged my growth as an individual. When I tried to make others happy there was no more room to make myself happy, or realize what it was that makes me happy.
Because of people like you, I am reminded why I love TH-cam. You're not involved in the unnecessary drama and you have helped me improve myself to be a better person. I just wanted to say thank you for posting videos that challenge me to improve (by thinking deeper into certain topics). I really appreciate your eloquence in this video.
P.S. It is also very refreshing seeing a response video that doesn't have a clip of the original video inside of it.
-Patricia
Why are there comments commented hours ago when this video was released just now?
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MrRepzion Sorry I dont understand.. Can you explain that?
MrRepzion Lucky bastards. Oh hey, scaly lord pasty ghost cheek man replied! Yahoo!
Good
When you were talking about saying a joke and a person being offended, I immediately thought about keemstar being offended when you made a joke about his daughter. 😂😂
I'm not really a fan of TH-camrs who make a large chunk of change plugging their patrons but you're one of the ones who really deserves it. I can't believe your subscriber count, I feel like it should be WAYYY bigger with more views. I love hearing your opinions so much. Even though i don't agree with everything you say (but i agree with like 99% of it), I've always thought your channel was under appreciated. Sucks that some you tubers are stuck barely scraping by now. Always told myself I would never donate to Patreon, but you're the only one i'm excited to be a a patron of (starting the 3rd lol) I just want you to keep making good content dude! Pls don't give up
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Soren Sorensen Then he buttfucked george bush
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I'm not saying that Repzion did 9/11, but...
Repzion did 9/11
It was the Jews and elites!
I think for me it all comes down to "intentions matter".
If you make a joke without knowing that it would make the one you are talking to offended, whatever, shit happens.
If you know what effect it's gonna have and do it, you are kinda responsible. Though that by itself doesn't mean that you can't do it, just gotta own up to it ... I guess ?
Idk, I would not apologize to someone who I deem is being unreasonable.
I swear everything you say every video you make I always agree with it all somehow. you're my fave
I think the huge thing people aren't taking into account is INTENT. Spot on. You're responsible for yourself and your own actions. What kind of world are we living in where we have to walk on eggshells? You can't say anything these days without someone calling you out for being some ignorant ape. Do things with good intentions, don't intentionally be a jackass and that should be it.
Let's create an even bigger society of people that have trouble feeling remorse.
Stay strong Rep !!!!!
To apologize means if you would go back in time, you wouldn't say/do the same thing. This is brought on by a realization of being wrong.
MrRepzion, spreading wisdom since '10
This is what I've been saying for years. Certain groups of people have become ultra sensitive to everything and deemed everything as offensive. Life is too short to live that way.
I had a room mate once that was a continual victim it felt like. Once I remember we were walking to the grocery store together and she brought up a joke I'd made months prior. This joke was at her expensive as she didn't like it so at the time I had apologized because it really wasn't the best joke. But now it's months later were walking to the store I'd forgot I'd even made this joke by this point and she starts going off about how much I hurt her and how shitty I was. I don't remember what brought up this topic but I do remember thinking why are you getting pissed at me now? I would've thought we'd moved past a stupid joke from months ago. But no some people just have to make themselves a victim to make others feel bad. Honestly being friends with her was toxic.
this is a very respectful response
watch youtube demonitize it
MrRepzion :( demonitisation is dumb as hell dude
doesn't mean you shouldn't make a living just cause youtube thinks your video isn't "PC enough"
unless you intended to hurt someone's feelings then there's no reason to really apologise.
When it comes to apologies, I will apologize for wrongs I commit, but never for having opinions and never for the wrongs of others.
I gave up giving apologies long ago!! Because no matter how sincere you really are, if they are libtards especially, they'll think you're not being sincere at all. So, it's best not to apologize to anyone at all.
im surprsied no one is mentioning that riley made the whole video because of blaire
whether or not I apologize has nothing to do with what I did or what the other person/people feel about what I did, it only matters how *I* feel. I apologize when I feel bad, if I don't feel bad then I don't apologize.
Something you didn't mention (If I remember correctly), but it's also not beneficial for the person who wants the apology. If you go around and expect everybody to apologise to you if you tell them so, it's gonna affect you if someone doesn't give it to you. Don't expect or demand an apology from people. They don't owe it to you.
Be thankful when someone do sincerely apology to you, because they aren't obliged to do so. It's also important to remember that just because someone apologises to you, that doesn't mean you have to forgive them straight away or even at all. You don't owe somebody your forgiveness just because they said they're sorry.
Basically only apologise if you actually feel sorry, and only forgive if you have actually forgiven :) You have to feel it otherwise it means nothing.. It's just empty words!
I think it's half and half, like if you say something obviously hurtful to someone you're half accountable but half not. I don't think accountable is the right word though. But only if u say something that is truely hurtful. I see ppl using examples like "well if I like coffee and that offends u, I'm responsible for your feelings?" That's such an overly simplified and dumb example. If u tell someone "your fat and stupid" then yes you're half accountable for their feelings being hurt since u said something truely hurtful. If u say "I like coffee" and that offends someone then you're not accountable because that's silly. I would say it just depends on what you say (if it is objectively hurtful), your intentions (if you're trying to put someone down on purpose), and if u know / are aware that it's a sore topic for someone. Cuz u can't just say something really rude or put someone down and if they're hurt say "well I'm not responsible for your feelings". It would be a good excuse for emotional abusers "I'm not accountable for your feelings when I say mean things to u"
It's funny that this video came up. Cuz I just now got into an argument with someone cuz they misinterpreted what I meant by something and were offended on the behalf of someone else.
Awww I was expecting a joy sparkle rant.
People are so sensitive these days. You cant talk about politics or share your different views without people feeling attacked. Its fucking ridiculous
You sell foot photos? That's fucking brilliant!
How to Make a Bad Apology: Do anything Jake Paul does
I couldn't even get through her whole video. With her line of reasoning, no one should ever have any sort of contact with another person because if I do something that ANYONE take offensively, it's my fault for not realizing that it was wrong. If I compliment a friend's shoes or car then someone could be offended that I didn't comment on their shoes or car and I'm automatically in the wrong. It's ridiculous.
love your video's
If it's a half-ass apology, don't bother!!
I'm blonde but I find blonde jokes funny
I think you missed the point of her video. She's not saying you should apologise. She's saying if you apologise, do it properly
thanks!
You made some good point. Regarding the internet, I do agree that it's not your responsibility for other people's feelings whenever you upload your own opinion in internet. I also believe that we can't easily dismiss things like what we feel as we use the internet. Any chance you might discuss digital dualism vs augmented reality? Cuz I see alot of people seems to be too much emotionally invested in the internet, while at the other side some people disregard so many things because "it's internet".
Anyway keep up the vids!
The fact Riley gave steps to follow to make a 'sincere' apology was laughable. If you need to follow steps to appear that you're being sincere, you're not being fucking sincere, so just don't bother! There are a few things I'm smart enough not to say in public, regardless of my personal opinion on them, but in general, I say what I think and I won't apologize for it unless I'm actually sorry and feel I was wrong at that time I said it.
I love the way Daniels hair looks in this video 💙😍
"Then you're a bad people"
Your grammar has offended me
Too many people want others to cater to their needs. It's more productive to realize that there's always going to be people who rub you the wrong way, either intentionally or not. Learning how to deal with this makes you a more ready for the world and makes you a better person.
My mother was a great liar. She lied from the moment she got up to the moment she went to sleep. You shouldn't apologize, they could be lying. In which case, you'll be wasting your time. Just say, "OK, noted." Then move on.
Words of wisdom! I agree, people are too sensitive. I only apologize, if I did something wrong, not because, somebody get hurt over little things.
I'm sorry that i'm white dad
Sorry.
Best apology.
*sighs* The internet is the internet, not real life.
People make videos, people aren't accountable for your feelings.
YOU are accountable for your feelings.
Frankly, we aren't going to apologize unless we make a mistake or we make a point that's incorrect.
It's silly why someone would demand an apology for nothing.
If anything, grow up. It's the internet. If you want to ignore the stuff that people say, then ignore them. Seriously, live for you, live for yourself. Don't live for others. My response to this, is to live for yourself . Do what you want to do. You are accountable for your actions.
Why will nobody take responsibility for themselves anymore?
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This video reminded me of this story (because of the topic of apologies):
I once read in a book called the Little Midrash Says (a book that's for kids, mind you) a story about a rav who got in a fight with a butcher. Right before Yom Kipper (the Jewish holiday where God decides how your year is going to go), despite the fact it was the butcher that started the fight, the rav decided to go to the butcher's place to give the butcher a chance to apologize to the rav. When the butcher saw the rav, he got angry, and told him to leave. God than proceeded to have the knife the butcher was using to slip out of his hand, and decapitated the butcher.
offence is taken not given, unless of course you are meaning to hurt someone by such jokes. you shouldn't have to say sorry, like i would as i care too such what people think tbh, i'll say sorry if i did hurt them but i'd tell them it was a joke.
I don't think you should be obligated to apologize to anyone you offend, but I think it's worth taking a moment to consider their point of view and how you might have been perceived instead of just being dismissive of anyone who calls you out. I'm willing to consider that maybe I said or did something wrong and maybe apologize, but you sure as hell aren't getting any apology on demand alone.
if you ment to hurt someone than yes you are accountable. but if your intentions arent to hurt someone one than no apology should be done.
I can't know for sure, so Riley can feel free to correct me, but considering the timing their video seems a lot more like "How you should apologize to ME" than just "How to apologize". And that's so fucking entitled it makes my head hurt.
It's like this... If someone demanded an apology from me for offended them. I could go with the route where they offend me with that statement, and demand an apology right back. Then they could either go the route I took and get offended at that, or try the whole "Well, you offended me first" strategy, of which I could just take the route where I got offended at them trying to take the pole position and not being seen as equal.... XD
I am laughing at what I typed in here. It could never end.
I agree, you can't really apologize to everyone who is offended by something you say. I believe an apology is warranted when you decide that you were in the wrong. If you're not sorry, you don't apologize. Simple. I agree with Riley about the insincere apologies, but the way I see it is, if the only way for you to apologize is insincere, then you should not apologize
great video!
Well said...
Mr. Repzion i heard you're making a video on joy sparkle on the 20th of august maybe sooner well my birthday is on August 17 lol just thought you should know you know it be a great birthday present just sayin it be a great day to release the video 😉 no pressure tho i understand you got things going on i respect that i don't want to come off as entitled I'm just really exited about it and i apologize in advance if i came off that way love ya !!!
You like puppies? Why do you want to beat kittens to death? You owe me an apology.
I don't know who that person is and don't really have any interest in watching their stuff. From what I heard you talking about makes me really glad I don't invest myself in social media anymore. TH-cam and Reddit are the two sites I use the most. Sometimes Instagram. I mostly lurk because people seem so offended about everything all the damn time.
Krystal R. Riley jenner is another SJW that youtube praises
Apologizing will never work. Because outrage warriors aren't simply looking for accountability from the person that they took offense to. They want control over the person and the situation. "You have to keep apologizing, no matter how many times it takes." That’s basically enslaving yourself to the other person's feelings. Because for them, if you were really that sorry you would feel just as miserable as the offended party did and do anything to be forgiven, which is what they want. And that is some sadistic shit right there.
These are people who want external validation to compensate for the self-loathing that they feel rather than do the hard work and learn how to love themselves regardless of what people say or do. They don't need an apology, they need professional help.
Riley dennis really needs to man up. lmao
Post the video on Joysparkle BS!
lynne crosley I KNOW RIGHT
lynne crosley YEEEESSSSSS
Good. I hate whiny brats. Sorry that my 15 credit summer course, visiting my dad 3 times a week in the hospital, and working a IRL job takes away from my precious youtube time, right? You people are such entitled brats with shit. I'm making the video regardless if i release it on the 20th or not. I made the mistake of announcing i was making a video, i was retarded for doing that.
+MrRepzion AWOOO!!! :D
lynne crosley Who the fuck is Joysparkle? And why the fuck are people hyped for a video? And why are people hyped for a fucking TH-cam video?
Everyone needs to hear this video. People don't hear that pandering to the feelings of everyone around you is actually unhealthy for you. That you matter just as much as the people around you, including if someone is upset over an unintentional action. I am not saying that apologizing is bad if you mistakenly hurt a friend's feelings, but that is not an apology to say you're a bad person and that you're wrong. Its more of a "I hurt your feelings, I will remember this is a sensitive topic for you and I will try to be considerate of this. Because you are a friend and I care about you." motion. Or hell you could just say that instead of just saying sorry. Communication and authenticity/being genuine isn't a bad thing.
It's okay to be an organic living thing with your own ideas, feelings, and actions. You shouldn't a pull-string doll that says sorry because someone thought you looked at them the wrong way through a one-way window. And the cherry on top of that is that when apologies are said that much, they start to lose their meaning. Even if your intention is to truly apologize and you feel like you really should, if this is the 53424th time saying it that day, it doesn't carry the weight of the moment, how you feel or the sincerity of your intent. So it can even be counterproductive. It can possibly make you feel like you can't apologize enough or you need to do more and more.
Anyway, now that I am done writing my novella, off I go! Keep it up Mister Repzion.
-Recovering Serial Apologizer
I am offended by this video, and since you are accountable for my feelings you have to apologise
People who tip toe around others are the most dishonesty people in my view.
Sometimes I wonder if social
networks recognize their own
hypocrisy, I try to do so with
my own, esp after getting caught in it, but then who doesn't? if your behavior doesn't match your words, eventually, no one will take you seriously, I've had to learn this the hard way.
when the people you hang out with respect your boundaries, of course you should return the favor. But on social networks, feeling obligated to filter yourself is ridiculous, and yes, there are exceptions to this principle, which I'll go into later...
I think there's a difference between someone who doesn't like cats and someone being told that something intrinsically part of who they are is enough for them to not even exist at all.
I agree with you, but I also think people should be a little empathetic to sensitive things. If you're calling someone a slur or degrading them knowing that this can and will hurt them, then yeah--you are accountable.
Also, there is only one "right" way to apologize: with empathy and genuineness.
Riley needs to apologize to us for his/her terrible videos.
We live in a world were you can abuse kids on youtube, and all you have to do is apologize and your free to make a gaming channel for kids, make money off of it, and even get more positive comments than negative.
Not that I want to point fingers at people but... *cough* mo5 *cough* do5 *cough*.
I wish I was famous so I could sell my old panties lol
You heard it here first, Rep hates cats