Study says Black women pressured into non-required C-sections, panel of women explains

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  • New research suggests Black women are being sent to the operating room for delivery even if the procedure isn't needed.
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  • @jaiyabyrd4177
    @jaiyabyrd4177 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    C-Sections and Hysterectomies are done entirely too much in America

    • @juliennetully4814
      @juliennetully4814 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      And inductions too. Doctors treat pregnancy and birth as a scary emergency, rather than a natural process

    • @tommesiacooper1258
      @tommesiacooper1258 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@juliennetully4814this is very true.

    • @gwensmith6
      @gwensmith6 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Here,here no one is investigating this.

    • @JealousyIsADisease
      @JealousyIsADisease 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My mom passed from an hysterectomy😢

    • @BeautifullyLibra
      @BeautifullyLibra 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@juliennetully4814well it’s dangerous for a baby to remain in the womb for too long

  • @msj793
    @msj793 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +184

    In April they tried to force me to have a c-section at MMH. I stood my ground! They really be trying us! My husband said she’s not doing a c-section!

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      My daughter was not ready to come . They took her anyway via c section

    • @SarahR2D2
      @SarahR2D2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Amen!!! Good for your husband for protecting you

    • @SarahR2D2
      @SarahR2D2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ceceprincess4758😢😢😢 I just went awol to avoid this

    • @jennywakeman3267
      @jennywakeman3267 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@ceceprincess4758 I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • @embracetheerain
    @embracetheerain 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

    We need more black midwives and OB/GYN providers. Education and motivation from the beginning of the pregnancy is vital. I was fortunate of having a black RN when I delivered my last child and she definitely advocated for me when I was in active labor. When I wanted to give up and get an epidural, she helped remind me that I was so close and I’m so glad I had her.

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Just because they are black doesn't mean they'll be any better. I had a black nurse present alongside my BD, and she said I was making faces when I told her I felt my baby coming. The only 2 Doctors on the maternity floor, were in the next room birthing another baby. I had instinctively tried to place my hand in a position to catch my daughter's head, and she moved my hand and said she didn't see anything. Then she took several steps back and chuckled with my BD about the faces I was making. I had no choice but to yell through my contractions to get someone's attention. The Doctors ran in and didn't even have time to put on gloves. I was crowning, and they caught my baby on a blanket. The Doctors were Caucasian. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @mrsrichard7835
      @mrsrichard7835 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @nicoleraheem1195 Although I know many awesome black nurses & docs, I’ve also had mediocre to horrible experiences with some black docs & nurses. We definitely need to love ourselves & each other more.

    • @DeshaunDamon
      @DeshaunDamon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dixie Story was an Earth Angel of a midwife for my youngest. Loving, knowledgeable, experienced - a gift from heaven. She is Not Black - and nor do we have our own Black hospitals yet . The heart and soul of the doula/ midwife/ nurse is paramount. Dixie has soul and I highly recommend her. inbox me ?

    • @tommesiacooper1258
      @tommesiacooper1258 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Black women nurses and doctors did me worse than the white nurse. I prefer white doctors when it comes to that.

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is not having black doctors, your own pol.mess you up, is the integrity behind the person.

  • @84zeej
    @84zeej 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    I was pressured but it was subtle. My doctor said, “let’s get that baby out” and even scheduled around her upcoming vacation. I think it’s a matter of convenience for the doctor and pressure to bill Medicaid (when applicable).

    • @monicanadine
      @monicanadine 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Definitely scheduled around their personal schedules. This is discussed in the movie, “The Business of Being Born”.

    • @SarahR2D2
      @SarahR2D2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯💯💯

    • @tommesiacooper1258
      @tommesiacooper1258 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@monicanadinewhere can I watch that please

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is common where I am from.

    • @adeOLUWA
      @adeOLUWA 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Her upcoming vacation????
      What??😮

  • @Souja7nd
    @Souja7nd 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I don't even have a child, but I definitely recognized this. This could be why the child mortality rate is so high for Black women.

  • @deer.4651
    @deer.4651 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    This happened to my best friend in april! She stood her ground though! She advocated for herself and delivered naturally.
    Now granted , when she was fully dialated and time to push, she tried to charge her mind 😂😂 but it was too late lol.

    • @mrsrichard7835
      @mrsrichard7835 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Trust me we’ve had 7 now having our 8th. Natural birth is the best! The pain during the healing process AFTER the c-section is NO JOKE! Much long & more painful healing process. I’m usually up & moving right after giving birth.

    • @AlannaJackson-lz1fk
      @AlannaJackson-lz1fk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So 8 kids. You're a moron

    • @JamieModelvsDirector
      @JamieModelvsDirector 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😩😭😭😭😂😂🤣🤣🤣💖💖💖

    • @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_
      @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How old is she, if you don’t mind me asking

    • @Steph-lc7hy
      @Steph-lc7hy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What do you recommend?

  • @212Brittany
    @212Brittany 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Having a C Section causes the body to go through so much trauma especially when they’re cutting through different layers of skin in order to get to the baby. It takes the body years to heal and you will most definitely feel the pain throughout your years of living . 😩

    • @mskaymart
      @mskaymart 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I definitely agree. I still have some excessive itching and random pain. I had my son 5 years ago.

    • @212Brittany
      @212Brittany 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@mskaymart don’t forget about the numbing in the abdomen area 😩

  • @mastergirl922
    @mastergirl922 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    Every black woman i know has had a c-section

    • @ari3lism
      @ari3lism 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      same im 25 all my friends have had c sections im the only one with natural births I think its because during my births im pretty much telling them what to do lol

    • @taunyb5429
      @taunyb5429 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Wow. I don't know many myself.

    • @Mimi-ht6xr
      @Mimi-ht6xr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      All of mine were vaginal. My first was delivered after a day of labor pains. 😂😂😂 The others were easier on me but no way was c-sections mentioned to me or my husband. 😮

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not all I know

    • @ghettoghost305
      @ghettoghost305 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I don’t know many that have had them unless absolutely necessary. Now, the Latino/Hispanic women, especially from the Carribean, Central and South America, the push for them instead of giving birth vaginally. Idk if it’s a cultural thing or not, but it’s a huge thing that goes on in S. FL.

  • @sweetsunshineplaytime
    @sweetsunshineplaytime 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    This is interview needs to be longer so much to discuss in a short period of time.

  • @lvelfe3415
    @lvelfe3415 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Enjoyed listening to the interview. THANK YOU to the nurse who confirmed that there IS FINANCIAL gain on behalf of the hospitals the more surgeries they schedule. Also, thank you to the Doctor in the video Who discussed about how important it is to have health literacy. Doctor’s do not like it when you are well-informed. The greatest weapon that you can arm yourself with in the U.S as a black person is education (formal and informal)

  • @Nobleshield79
    @Nobleshield79 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    They tried it with me. I said no thank you. My doctor said I’ll just schedule it and I said OK but I won’t be there. 😂She then left it alone and I had my baby vaginally. 😊

  • @siddycity101
    @siddycity101 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Wow this wasn’t long enough. The insight these women gave is so helpful.

  • @froggybug
    @froggybug 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    Please know… the earlier you get to the hospital the higher your chances are of having a C-section. I’ve had one emergency C-section and 4 VBACs (vaginal birth after C-section) I’ve had a white male doctor and a black male doctor for the VBACs. You have to shop for an OB…before you get preggers. You want a smart and compassionate doctor.

    • @AdaezeNwangwu
      @AdaezeNwangwu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's if you have private insurance

    • @froggybug
      @froggybug 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@AdaezeNwangwu even with state assistance you can shop.

    • @AdaezeNwangwu
      @AdaezeNwangwu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@froggybug depends on your state and the contracts they have with the hospitals/ Dr.s

    • @froggybug
      @froggybug 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@AdaezeNwangwu there’s no state contract that doesn’t have multiple providers available. When I say shop I don’t mean go to them, I just mean look them up, research them, believe reviews if they say the doctor is garbage.

    • @JACKtheSEXYPIRATE
      @JACKtheSEXYPIRATE 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really great advice

  • @t.twashington4001
    @t.twashington4001 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I was pressured and when I spoke up about it, they tried to act like I was crazy

  • @Cantetinza17
    @Cantetinza17 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    They wanted to give one to my mom because my sister hadn't dropped yet. There was no distress on her or my mother, but they needed the bed. My mom said no and as soon as she dropped my mom pushed like 3 times and she was out. When I was born they wanted to give my mom a c-section because I didn't turn my mom said no and told them to turn me. They turned me and I shot right out. We're both known as cannon ball babies.
    I think that anyone who has a medical license they should do a side gig where they can be someone's advocate. Ask the questions that maybe they don't know to ask.

  • @whitneyallman8365
    @whitneyallman8365 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    God protect all mothers ❤

  • @D_DivineEmpress
    @D_DivineEmpress 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I’m soooo glad that we are finally starting to open up to these facts. They’ve been doing us so dirrrttyy for years. Educate yourself on natural birth ladies it’s the way to go & YES!!! You can do it.

  • @sunnyctv7526
    @sunnyctv7526 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I been saying this

  • @millennialodyssey5956
    @millennialodyssey5956 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I was so blessed to not be forced with my first. They were very patient with me. I was so tired in so much pain and wasn't progressing at 28 hours of active labor I actually asked them for a C-section. But when I went to another hospital that was advertised as "Vbac" friendly for a Vbac they tried to rush me into another C-section. I wouldn't let them and they didn't like it at all.

  • @elleshaw9837
    @elleshaw9837 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    They are pressuring Black women because WW are onboard. I have met so many WW who are happy to schedule major surgery to have their babies. Although there are no complications and no obstacles preventing them from having natural child birth.

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😉👍🏻Well this is one 🤍 lady that isn't having any of that unnecessary 💰 grubbing 💩.I'm planning on going with a midwife at home for my little ones...The 🏥s for the most part are just 💰 making factories &/or struggling with being too understaffed so most of them push C-sections too much.A lot of 🚺 in general are terribly undereducated about their bodies & that's likely why you're 👀 so many of them following along with the 🏥's BS.Education & critical thinking skills are vital for mothers.It's especially bad if they 💭 you're uneducated because a lot of them will try to take advantage of that for profits/convenience.

    • @Steph-lc7hy
      @Steph-lc7hy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah I think the c section epidemic is too much in todays world
      It used to be if you needed it
      Now people just doing it
      Their choice though

  • @zori8191
    @zori8191 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    A placenta is sold at the highest rate if it doesn’t pass through the birth canal.

    • @ChiOfo
      @ChiOfo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      But why would going through the birth canal change anything? Just genuinely wondering. Is it less “fresh” that way?

    • @bluetinsel7099
      @bluetinsel7099 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@ChiOfo
      Going through the abdomen keeps certain bacteria from getting on the placenta even though it’s typically a healthy bacteria in most cases. That bacteria also boost the babies immune system when they are born vaginally.

    • @brendabennettsgxcoach7747
      @brendabennettsgxcoach7747 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What?? Is this real?!! This is sickening! 😮

    • @prayerpower1585
      @prayerpower1585 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sold for what?

    • @PhemeTells
      @PhemeTells 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@prayerpower1585 oh man, you don't even want to know. Just take a guess who has the money to buy one with low cost of 50k each

  • @cerissabrown3487
    @cerissabrown3487 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    And I needed a c-section and they refused and forced me to deliver my baby. He was over 10 pounds and he ended up having a brain hemorrhage being forced through the vaginal canal. My son has life long brain damages being denied a c-section. I think it’s their individual medical care model with in the bigger medical care system that’s not working. They can’t look at details of each situation to make a best independent medical plan.

    • @pretty-mimi36
      @pretty-mimi36 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Im so sorry

    • @flashylights
      @flashylights 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yep i think it depends on insurance too i had to beg for one and the min i started complaining that i was in fear of a health issue due to denial of c section they rushed my to OR within 5 min. I never seen them get on their job so fast. But i also had a few family members present in room when i said all this. My doc was a bw and was awesome❤

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry

    • @miskiin236
      @miskiin236 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sorry about that,
      Did you sue the doctor?

    • @yahsbeatrice7490
      @yahsbeatrice7490 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sis you got to look into the medicine they give to induce the labor, it’s to make the baby have side effects and the mom

  • @shepineypineapples8506
    @shepineypineapples8506 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I was pressured! I know they pressured me

  • @TierneyWashington1983
    @TierneyWashington1983 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I had 2 c sections but my husband, mom and stepmom questioned if I really needed it. They used my previous heart issues as a reason to do a C-section

  • @K-MoneyOutDaBricks
    @K-MoneyOutDaBricks 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is what I’ve been itching to ask black women so much. Ive had a surgery where they didn’t give me proper pain medication. And made an extra cut on my body. I felt like the surgeons did this outta irritation of me being black. SMH

  • @Amanda-zd7ei
    @Amanda-zd7ei 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This happened to me by a black nurse and a white doctor stopped her nonsense

  • @lanalove2780
    @lanalove2780 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I was forced too. They told me it’s safer for my baby. The doctor threatened to call cps on me if I didn’t show up to my c section appointment. Now I’ve got scar tissue and pain every day years later.😢

    • @sadea.8224
      @sadea.8224 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I am so sorry you went through that.

    • @politereminder6284
      @politereminder6284 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢

    • @princesssheabutter
      @princesssheabutter 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow. I'm sorry you went through something so traumatic. Is there a way to get a lawyer involved? What state do u live in if you don't mind me asking?

    • @sistahb5159
      @sistahb5159 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is shameful‼️ I'm sorry you went through this. I wished you could've sued. And now you're suffering from the aftereffects. I pray for your healing. They will answer to God.

  • @mrs.ogbuagu
    @mrs.ogbuagu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great segment! 👏👏👏
    My experience with doctors (and other institutions) is that they always seem to desire to “put me in my place”. Its seems so weird but I always get a vibe that they feel they need to “handle” me.
    I’m very tall and dark skinned so I feel they are often intimidated by me. I notice people get aggressive or passive aggressive with me even though I am a feminine and soft spoken woman.
    I am not a “challenge” or a “threat” just by being black. I wish more people would stop being so uncomfortable around me. It’s not everyone but I do know when it’s happening.
    It’s definitely more than hospitals. I’ll tell you that right now. It’s systemic.

  • @RoseNZieg
    @RoseNZieg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    if they had to ask you to do an operation that you are pretty sure you don't need, just tell them I'll take my chances. you are the one paying for the operation, not them.

  • @HeyitsDebb
    @HeyitsDebb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My question is ...if I feel that I was unfairly forced into a c-section how do we hold the doctor accountable ?

    • @ghettoghost305
      @ghettoghost305 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You weren’t forced into it not being insensitive, you could’ve said no or refused. No one can force you into anything and I am pretty sure you signed something agreeing to it. Therefore, you will have a long, endless fight.

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@ghettoghost305Actually the correct word would likely be "coerced" into it meaning being manipulated in various ways🤢.

    • @90ejb
      @90ejb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@malwads1836 And when it gets to that point, you have every right to choose your hospital and obgyn. It took my entire pregnancy and a lot of prayer but I was lead to a team that took care of my emergency c section(cervix wouldn't open and my son was getting stuck) It's a tiny scar above my bikini line. My situation is different from many women though. It shouldn't be a forced procedure, especially the way it leaves women scarred and in pain.

    • @90ejb
      @90ejb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The only way to hold them accountable is to sue them. These procedures can hurt and damage the babies too

  • @ReinaAfricana
    @ReinaAfricana 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I just had a repeat C-section on September 3 due to preeclampsia. I was going for a VBAC.

    • @4everjazzy
      @4everjazzy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m sorry you didn’t get what u were hoping for but congratulations tho !

  • @shamachelon
    @shamachelon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its almost as if they don’t care

  • @2020Ibrahim
    @2020Ibrahim 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I tell black mothers to always consider a home/water birth in the comfort of ur own home with an experienced midwife ... if you had a healthy pregnancy it's the best way to go ... I watched " the buisness of being born and Vaxxed" those 2 docu changed my view on so many levels

    • @bluetinsel7099
      @bluetinsel7099 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      There are also midwife birthing centers where they do water births and it’s it’s own stand alone facility.

  • @ceegabe1555
    @ceegabe1555 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This goes way back.

  • @user-vu9gd8ed1h
    @user-vu9gd8ed1h 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Giving younger generations even more of a reason to be childfree…

  • @roudiamondgh92
    @roudiamondgh92 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I wasn’t pressured but I’m thankful I had a C-Section. At my 39 week appointment I still wasn’t dilated. We considered discussing induction at my 40 week appointment. I never made it to that appointment because my water broke on my due date. I went through labor for 12 hours with no progress. My cervix must be made of iron because I was not dilating at all even when they gave me a pill to induce labor…and my baby’s heart rate was rising and dropping. They decided to do a C-Section in hopes of saving him. When they got him out the cord was wrapped around his neck twice. If I delivered vaginally he would’ve been strangled! I’m saying this to say, before you decide to do one or refuse one look at what’s really going on during labor. Forget a birth plan! The only plan you should have is walking out of the hospital alive with your baby. You worked to hard being pregnant for nearly 10 months to walk out empty handed. Use wisdom!

    • @tasha9650
      @tasha9650 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not all the time. I delivered naturally & the cord was wrapped around my daughters neck twice but she's just fine; she'll be 16 in November. I get that you're happy with your decision though.

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      See, in your case it was needed.😢 I am glad you are both alive!! I agree with you 1000%. I wasn't gonna opt for cesarean and to make life easier on me, the doctors didn't attempt those games on me. But if something happened, I wasn't gonna deny it. I even asked for a cesarean in the middle of labor and the doctor said it was too late and that I was capable of giving normal birth. But I am Hispanic and gave birth in Puerto Rico.

    • @roudiamondgh92
      @roudiamondgh92 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@candyluna2929 this was my approach too. As natural as possible unless intervention is absolutely necessary. I’m worried some women will refuse intervention and regret it later

  • @kiradagod3308
    @kiradagod3308 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yes i have been called everything from stupid to a bad mother for not agreeing to c sections, i been told they wasn't going to deliver my baby if i dont agree , they even called cps. They pulled dad to the side and asked him how could he let me make stupid decision starting arguments between us.I have 5 children no c section, why do they want me to have c section you might ask.. because my 2nd child was 11# but this was right before a diabetes diagnosis and they let me go 2weeks over do with her, they say its a 10% chance of me having another big baby, which i havent because im now be treated for diabetes but in their mind everything you say is a lie, the trauma of how i was treated will always have me at odds and untrusting towards doctors.

  • @MangoMelly
    @MangoMelly 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    😢 I hate the target we have on our back. It’s heartbreaking.
    I’m a mom of two and both births were c-section. At 21, I was strong enough to push a child. However, I couldn’t deal with the contractions. So, I asked for the epidural and bam…like the last lady said, I wasn’t able to feel anything where it made it hard for me to push my first born out. So I ended up having an emergency cs.
    I’m happy to be alive but after my first experience, I was so afraid to have another child. I felt voiceless, powerless and alone. My second child was 6yrs later.. and I asked to have a natural vaginal birth and I was told that it would be high risk because I already had a hard cs pregnancy the first time.
    Yes I shopped around, but in my city/area..it’s very very very hard to find a black OBGYN or midwife.

  • @Israelite1130
    @Israelite1130 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Black women need black husbands. Period
    You need your husband there to stand up for you in that vulnerable time. Let me tell you the time they sing when your husband is in the room versus when he isn't is COMPLETELY different!

    • @tranquility9325
      @tranquility9325 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wrong. Most men are narcissists. Especially black men who get catered to from childhood. My so called previous black husbands were a total waste of space. One is emotionally unavailable. The other is a malignant narcissist.
      I strongly encourage women to date outside their race. Although many men either married or in serious relationships are still trying to get with other women! The world has turned into Sodom and Gomorrah. That's why in SC there are 15,000 new positive HIV cases as of August 2024.
      Ppl are gross and never happy with one person.
      Women are sick and tired of being abused by men, many are being eliminated by their partners, they are single mothers despite being married bec their husbands just occupy space and don't help with the children.
      Many women are leaving men the hell alone.

    • @glambyportia3100
      @glambyportia3100 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True! I had mine both deliveries on the army base. That could’ve made a difference but I completely agree

    • @Israelite1130
      @Israelite1130 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@glambyportia3100 I had my husband for my first delivery but for my second it was during COVID and they wouldn't allow my then toddler so he stayed home with her because we didn't have anyone to watch her. Needless to say they tried to pressure me into everything under the sun and when I denied? They called CPS and said they were "suspicious" of why I wanted to go home so badly. Mind you I had my husband and toddler at home whom they wouldn't let see me and it's during COVID with my newborn🙄 I literally had a doctor, a white male, come in and try to argue with me about vaccinations while my placenta and cord was still hanging out.
      NEVER would've went down like that had my BIG BLK husband been allowed in.
      Needless to say for our third daughter we did a homebirth

  • @SarahR2D2
    @SarahR2D2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thats why there are more deaths. I said no and left ama

  • @nottodaylilbaldhead
    @nottodaylilbaldhead 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is sad. I thank God and the angels that watch over me I have never been forced into anything when giving birth.

  • @brendabennettsgxcoach7747
    @brendabennettsgxcoach7747 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was told by my mom who is a BSN that they give drugs to keep the labor going (not in pushing stage) until morning so the dr doesnt have to be inconvenienced by coming in middle of night to deliver a baby. In the last 50 years ask anyone what hour they were born.. theres no middle of the night babies who were born in hospital. C section guarantees the dr is scheduled for a morning convenient time slot. Pretty sad state of affairs that drs do not want to do their jobs; they want us to work around their precious schedules while they rake in big bucks 😢 sad state

  • @pwillis7732
    @pwillis7732 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I definitely feel like I was pressured into one in 2018, but it’s like how can I prove it?

    • @miscalotastuff733
      @miscalotastuff733 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This happens to anyone lower middle class on down. In the 70s they tried that on my mother. This has been going for a long time. Unless you have Cadillac insurance your screwed. They want you in and out. The best way to prove it is find other women from the same hospital and interview them.

  • @dollsbymontq2446
    @dollsbymontq2446 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    And this had been going on a long time !!!! My sons born 1982, 1984 natural birth in spite of doctors harassing me to get c-sections. But I stood my ground.

  • @pretty-mimi36
    @pretty-mimi36 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I’ve had 4 and now i cant have any more kids because my uterus ruptured

    • @shawnni3014
      @shawnni3014 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I’m sorry to hear that God bless you ❤🙏

    • @ChiOfo
      @ChiOfo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      How did that happen?

  • @NurseNita444
    @NurseNita444 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That’s my doctor!!! Absolutely love Dr. Cross ❤️

  • @melissavargas4330
    @melissavargas4330 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Absolutely agree! I’m not black but I still felt the pressure of the dr. wanting me to have a c section, I fought and signed a waiver not to.. and they were not happy.

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Of course they weren't happy... Maybe the doctor couldn't pay off their new luxury car as fast🙄?

  • @jadarichardson7600
    @jadarichardson7600 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Maybe if they stop laying us down and stand up to push it out it won't be so many complications

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Toilet chair with a big hole in the middle, that's what I'm planning to use at home👍🏻.In the really old days 🚺 around the 🌎 would use birthing chairs, sit in a hammock with a slit in the middle that was low to the ground with a soft pile of leaves, hold a low tree branch while squatting, etc.

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some hospitals have that stuff

  • @Kiki-xc2zx
    @Kiki-xc2zx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Y’all should do a part 2 and bring in black doulas and black midwives.

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly!I'd love to hear THEIR side of the story in regards to C-sections being doled out like 🍬 practically.It's a serious issue even for 🤍 women & I'm sure it's a real nightmare for the 🖤/🤎 ladies out here.Most of us are terribly undereducated about our bodies in regards to pregnancy/childbirth/post-partum recovery.

  • @zipporah6853
    @zipporah6853 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's either they'll push inductions or c-sections.

  • @august21xp
    @august21xp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Was the father consulted ? Sometimes it helps to have the husband in the room!

    • @DexKnowz
      @DexKnowz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Unfortunately a lot of black women do not have husbands to advocate for them during childbirth. Especially the very young mothers

    • @filmadcamp1512
      @filmadcamp1512 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DexKnowz The person is probably talking about the women in the video. BW need to stop having kids by themselves. Someone needs to be there who is able to advocate for them.

    • @nevergoin28
      @nevergoin28 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DexKnowzthis is what I was thinking as well. I was pressured to get a C section due to complications but I continued to prayed, me and my husband stood in agreement, stood our ground and after 46 hours I delivered normally with epidural.

    • @nevergoin28
      @nevergoin28 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DexKnowzhusband is def needed

  • @ladytaurusonutube
    @ladytaurusonutube 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is how I felt with my last child. Í was so sad and hurt that I was made to have a C-section.

  • @citizencoy4393
    @citizencoy4393 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They tried to force me but I refused!

  • @seanm3691
    @seanm3691 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Yorubapraises
    @Yorubapraises 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Driving 1 1/2, hours to see a black doctor. YEP! that's me, except i travel 2 hrs to Miami to see an Afro-Cuban doctor who i simply adore.

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm 🤍 & my doctor is a 🖤 lady from Africa...At least in my experience she's the best doctor I've ever had, she seems more caring & aware of patient pain/discomfort in general than the 🤍 ladies I've had.I don't know if my experience is unique or if it's just a general issue with the 🤍 healthcare culture overall🤔.

  • @tyjohn3724
    @tyjohn3724 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I believe it, I had three C-sections and with my last c-section I went into shock.

  • @jessinicole7998
    @jessinicole7998 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Looking around for Black doula as we speak.

  • @JamieModelvsDirector
    @JamieModelvsDirector 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Glad I birth both of my children at a Catholic hospital they don’t even believe in giving medicine. They have it available by request only they did not offer it ❤

  • @miffycarter3876
    @miffycarter3876 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Omgggg 😢😢😢 god please help uusssss

  • @Simoneskyye410
    @Simoneskyye410 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been saying this! Its sad.

  • @Tee-hy9uk
    @Tee-hy9uk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true but let’s also talk about the tube tying from the repeated c sections

    • @juliennetully4814
      @juliennetully4814 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! I heard stories of doctors sneakily tying tubes if they think a woman has “too many kids” With that and the birth control they often push, I feel like they are part of the depopulation eugenics agenda

  • @Life19753
    @Life19753 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I had 6 section-c and I’m doing fine

  • @Charmaine6645
    @Charmaine6645 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is true. I remember with my second child, they were making everyone get c sections at the hospital I went to and the nurse stated was one of the lucky ones who didn't get one that day.

  • @gwensmith6
    @gwensmith6 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They tried it but i refused it.

    • @gwensmith6
      @gwensmith6 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And the Hysterectomy amongst women that were not needed. Stop experimenting!!!

  • @YieldtoYahweh
    @YieldtoYahweh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was at 16, said the baby may die, cord around neck, of course she just didn't want to wait. I was so scared being so young.

  • @pinkishdiamondz
    @pinkishdiamondz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was at my confirmation of pregnancy appointment and the "doctor" was trying to schedule my inducement. First and last appointment with him.

  • @mskaymart
    @mskaymart 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I definitely agree. I had a c-section also.

  • @xxyz321
    @xxyz321 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve always said this too, I was scheduled for one because I’d had one before but went into labor before the date and she came quickly with no problems. Other family members say their drs recommend c sections and I say why, you’re young and healthy???

  • @beeha8133
    @beeha8133 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I had the best birthing experience but I’m learning that it is not a regular occurrence for black women.

  • @somebody6907
    @somebody6907 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had a a C section at Southern Regional hospital, in Riverdale Georgia. The doctors and nurses were great, everything went fine and I felt no pain. I prefer C section because I was scared to push my daughter out. It was an emergency C section because the umbilical cord was wrapped around my baby neck .

  • @aquariuscox3682
    @aquariuscox3682 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I had my first child as a child. They told me that my pelvic area was too small to birth my son who ended up being 10lbs. He was born C-section and so was my next 4 children. They gave me no option after that.

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How old were u

    • @ghettoghost305
      @ghettoghost305 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ppl need to understand, everyone doesn’t qualify for a VBAC. All doctors do not do C-Sections the same. Some do horizontal cuts to remove babies, some do vertical cuts to remove babies. Depending on where the cut is placed and the internal scarring, the uterus can burst during contractions and childbirth with a VBAC.
      I understand now everyone wants to hire doulas and everything but a doula is not a doctor. A lot of people are opting for home births but ppl do not give the statistics of issues arising, not only with babies after a home birth but some women hemorrhaging, developing preemclampsia after giving birth and different things and dying because they’re at home listening to advice from a doula. I feel if your health is top tier, the baby isn’t breached and you’re not of advanced maternal age and your baby doesn’t have any disabilities before being born then yes, have a home birth, say no to C-Section. But with babies over 9 pounds, I would have baby at a hospital for not only my safety but to ensure my baby is safe during delivery. Also, giving birth young, your birth canal probably wouldn’t open enough for the baby’s head and shoulders to manuever through it.

    • @aquariuscox3682
      @aquariuscox3682 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ceceprincess4758 15

  • @Morrisneuro83
    @Morrisneuro83 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had 2 c sections and they saved my life…they were very necessary and I’m black so I question this study…does there need to be specialized care for black women yes there should be to investigate these things…but assuming there is a nefarious motive financially…not in agreement vaginal births are very costly as well. The bad side of the cesarean is the after effects, sagging lower stomach and difficulty losing weight.

  • @ELOAAMinistries
    @ELOAAMinistries 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It has been said that C-section placenta is eorth far more than vaginal birth placenta!?!

  • @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_
    @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for covering this!! I’m 33 and looking to have my first baby a little later than most, and there’s a myth that Black women over 35 need C sections. It’s lack of knowledge. You must shop for your doctor before you even get pregnant!
    Thank you!

  • @lukesgames8168
    @lukesgames8168 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Having my kid naturally

  • @ranajohnson9995
    @ranajohnson9995 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yep I was, I was young and didn’t advocate my Dr was being lazy

  • @salma_Nella22
    @salma_Nella22 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    It’s not just black women. I promise. C sections are being normalized

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah & it's disturbing because ultimately it IS major abdominal surgery that isn't without it's own set of risks.

    • @salma_Nella22
      @salma_Nella22 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@malwads1836 almost every woman I know who gave birth in the last 4 years were given an option. C sections used to be a last resort

  • @BDGetMoney
    @BDGetMoney 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is so true! It’s sick it should be illegal. When my wife was pregnant they tried to do this to her. They got mad at her because we weren’t having it because we knew what was going on.

  • @awp8331
    @awp8331 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They gave me options: they said whenever i had a contraction my son's heart rate would go down. I was 10 months 1 week and 2 days pregnant with him. My husband and I had a birthing plan and the c section wasn't in it. However with that news they gave us the option and told us the potential harm to my son because he wasn't getting enough oxygen. Once we heard that we prayed and decided to get a c section. I wish it was a natural birth but the circumstances.

  • @bibilym4514
    @bibilym4514 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Another example as to why most us don’t trust doctors. I have to go out of way to find black doctors or providers of color. Even then, I’m always questioning them and try my best to advocate for myself. I shouldn’t have to do all this. God willing when it’s time for me to have a baby I’m 100% gonna advocate for myself and not back down.

  • @Dee-ye2dk
    @Dee-ye2dk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So there’s an incentive for black women to have a c-section. Please provide the evidence. We need to see it

  • @fmc2973
    @fmc2973 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They forced me as well with my daughter and son
    My son had c section indents on the sides of his head for months😢

  • @Morrisneuro83
    @Morrisneuro83 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Cross seems informed and sincere.

  • @jada2708
    @jada2708 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like I was… I understand the first one was needed but my second one, no.

  • @Dene5483
    @Dene5483 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ricki Lake made a whole documentary about this years ago trying to warn all women. It’s too bad not enough women watched it.

  • @Humor-f2g
    @Humor-f2g 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢😢

  • @kayjohnson9786
    @kayjohnson9786 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I had my first child they tried to give me an unnecessary c section.After the doctor left a nurse told me not let them force me to do it because I never needed it. It was very common at Suny Downstate Hospital. When you go to clinics you would hear all the black women in 2010 worried about getting a C-section.

  • @marquiayoung7157
    @marquiayoung7157 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was told that since I had one previously, having my daughter naturally had more risk and it was safer to have a c-section. I was 41 when I had my daughter so her delivery was scheduled due to the increased risk of still births after the 39th week in older women. My first c-section was due to a bad reaction to the epidural and fear of me dying. By the time they got me to the O.R my heart rate had recovered but they did the c-section anyway.

  • @daviyanmcewan4676
    @daviyanmcewan4676 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This happened to me 5 months ago.

  • @Elevated_Frequencies
    @Elevated_Frequencies 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is not an issue only black women face. Many of us were pressured into the unnecessary surgery because they were on a timeframe and the baby wasn't coming out on their own within that window.

  • @s0g1am0rous
    @s0g1am0rous 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is there a difference between patients on private insurance and those on Medicaid?

  • @CGolden24
    @CGolden24 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They tried to forced me to do it for my 2nd baby too

    • @ChiOfo
      @ChiOfo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So what does one do? Just say no & possibly sign a waiver, right?

  • @tonijohnson7804
    @tonijohnson7804 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It happened to me

  • @TheAS687
    @TheAS687 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nurse has beautiful babies. Very interesting many blk women I’ve spoken with had either induced or cesarean births. Ive always wondered if it was really necessary

  • @Getvictd744
    @Getvictd744 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy told me his child mother was slice vertically, and now she's at risk....I was like, why would they do that?

  • @yvettel4553
    @yvettel4553 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    C sections can cause the baby to have a compromised immune system.

  • @sarahc.7400
    @sarahc.7400 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s not just black women. It’s all women.

  • @tygerchickchibi
    @tygerchickchibi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know this goes without saying but medical facilities such as hospitals and clinics shouldn't be a for profit business.
    Too many stories of doctors basically either giving unnecessary diagnosis, surgeries, or medication just to get that insurance money

  • @ellanina801
    @ellanina801 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude! That’s what I’ve been saying…

  • @kaiymariewalker8823
    @kaiymariewalker8823 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This happened to my friend in CA by a black male doctor!!