Why I Don't Wear My Wedding Ring Anymore... | The Herbert's

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  • @makennagilbert3191
    @makennagilbert3191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1646

    I didn’t even notice him not wearing a ring 😂

  • @samnoel8264
    @samnoel8264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    I love that you said rings don’t signify marriage because I feel like everyone thinks that and it’s not true. I love you guys and your marriage is seriously such a beautiful thing.

    • @orianamandi
      @orianamandi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I meeeeeean, it's just a freaking ring! Why does everyone make such a big deal about it?!!!

    • @lemimead3231
      @lemimead3231 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      YOU AHOULD TOTALLY NAME HER ACELYN

    • @aubreybiedrycki3659
      @aubreybiedrycki3659 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks now I don’t need to watch it

    • @suaahiraalvarado7774
      @suaahiraalvarado7774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My husband hates rings and we don’t mind him not wearing it. He also tried the rubber ring and he hated it too. It’s all good!

    • @judithargueta290
      @judithargueta290 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@suaahiraalvarado7774 yeaa like my dad doesn’t wear his wedding ring because it’s uncomfortable for him and my mom doesn’t mind and she only wears it when we go out

  • @Blue-mp8hh
    @Blue-mp8hh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +745

    So I came from TikTok for this 👁👄👁

  • @zoyajohn
    @zoyajohn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    My mom doesn't wear her wedding ring anymore because when she was pregnant with me, her finger bloated and the ring got stuck, then she had to get it cut open, then get it resized, but it bloated again a week later and the ring got stuck again 😅 now she destests her wedding ring 😂💍

    • @tanner3569
      @tanner3569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol i shit my panys

    • @belladearmon8795
      @belladearmon8795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      swelled not bloated💀

    • @kaylynmarie4636
      @kaylynmarie4636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah I hope she’s okay

    • @noram8256
      @noram8256 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yea same with my dad haha, but like his fingers are so big

    • @belleringr6377
      @belleringr6377 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or some got the accident from falling

  • @loganseiss6314
    @loganseiss6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    Did no one else notice that Josh isn’t wearing a white shirt. 😂

    • @robertmontoy9226
      @robertmontoy9226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes

    • @doratimp916
      @doratimp916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was so weird there is a first for everything maybe he is sick

  • @timmaes2421
    @timmaes2421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    My father is 66 years old and i never saw him wearing his wedding ring in my whole life. He only wore his wedding ring the day he married my mom and afterwards he put it in a drawer in his nightstand. He doesn’t wear it because he has huge fingers and works with machinery whole days. But although he never wears his ring they are still married after 47 years so i think they’re good. A ring is nice but doesn’t say a thing about a good or bad marriage. It’s literally not a big deal. I actually love that a younger couple still understands what’s important in marriage and doesn’t care to much about the jewellery it involves. You guys are a great power couple and are going to be the best parents ever👍❤️.

    • @judithargueta290
      @judithargueta290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeaa the same thing is with my dad

  • @sophiatancredi702
    @sophiatancredi702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Aren't they so adorable?! Baby Herbert Is going to be the cutest baby ever!🥰🥰❤

  • @icystormi
    @icystormi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    No one:
    Absolutely no one:
    Not even balloons:
    Abbie: ✨WHEEZE✨
    😂😂😂 no hate I love her laugh it’s cute lol

  • @mollywolfe2345
    @mollywolfe2345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Abbie’s little “ohhhhh” at the end of the song is so cute!!

  • @chloegumy
    @chloegumy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Happy and young and full of fun, the Herbert’s are here for everyone !!!!!✨❤️

  • @pessimisticvibes
    @pessimisticvibes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Baby Herbert is gonna be so lucky 🌻

  • @danifranklin5253
    @danifranklin5253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Here’s a helpful trick
    Since you don’t like wearing rings try putting your ring on a necklace and putting it around your neck that way your still wearing it just not on your finger @TheHerberts

  • @amoreslife
    @amoreslife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your explanation on wearing a ring! It’s truly not necessary to define s marriage with one. Your love for one another shows! I absolutely hope I find a love like this...or even remotely close! 🥰

  • @chrisanderson9856
    @chrisanderson9856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such an adorable couple. I've been married for 16 yrs and my wedding ring has been off my hand 3 times. Surgeons said it had to come off because surgeries were on my left shoulder.

  • @catherinebongco5232
    @catherinebongco5232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    can't wait for baby herbert!!

  • @bellamadeya8509
    @bellamadeya8509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love how she’s pregnant and still gorgeous!! 🥰🥰

  • @djb6313
    @djb6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are both such a cute, wholesome couple. Josh is so friggin’ handsome - incredible jawline and love his sense of humor. I know you’re married and I respect that but I can’t help having a crush on that man!

  • @lizzydelmonte1808
    @lizzydelmonte1808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Have you ever thought of putting your wedding ring on a keychain that way it’s still technically on you

  • @alicemessamore7101
    @alicemessamore7101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is so true Josh we dont believe in jewelry... And thats one that i was happy to hear that soneone has the same opinion. I dont understand why people think if you dont have a ring ur not married. You are so right with or without the ring you love will not change that you have for that person a ring does not make you loyal its the love. I'll be praying for you Abbie.. Gods hand is not to short.

  • @kristieharmon1313
    @kristieharmon1313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    My husband has an allergy to anything other than cotton, so he can’t wear his. Its really not a big deal. Happy y’all can laugh about it!!

    • @rachele.3229
      @rachele.3229 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow. Makes me wonder if there's a nice looking alternative. Just a random thought. My brain is tickled by challenges lol

  • @kenziepayne0720
    @kenziepayne0720 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I definitely agree with Josh’s explanation. Nothing is stronger than the bond two people share ring or not. 💯

  • @minnakhalili3067
    @minnakhalili3067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how she keeps talking and not letting him talk🤣🤣🤣

  • @sarahe.5368
    @sarahe.5368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I CLICKED SOO FAST U HAVE NO CLUE!!! ALSO ABBIE UR LAUGH IS SOOO CUTE!! AND JOSH LOVE UR SASS BAHAHAHA

  • @gdawg3973
    @gdawg3973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love that he said, so when i’m at a bar

  • @cheyennepriest9288
    @cheyennepriest9288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    LMAO his "Who says" *looks up and down* SENT ME at 6:01

  • @elizabethpestke
    @elizabethpestke 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love that you don’t need a ring 💍 and if you are true to each other and loyalty

  • @rachelsherman9480
    @rachelsherman9480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I would totally get a nice tattoo ring so it wouldn’t bother you!

  • @hannafraley9623
    @hannafraley9623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish your videos were longer!! I love you guys!

  • @jahmillabrunson1523
    @jahmillabrunson1523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE THE INTRO SONG SO MUCH I SING ALONG every time

  • @aliciasilva4687
    @aliciasilva4687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love Abbie’s Laugh 😂😂

  • @gabbyclark_
    @gabbyclark_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    2 uploads in 2 days? we should feel lucky! 😍🤣

  • @yuikodera9573
    @yuikodera9573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can’t wait for the baby Herbert’s

  • @adriii.831
    @adriii.831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I swear this is my favorite family❤

  • @applesopena7710
    @applesopena7710 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband and I don't wear our wedding bands either.. we only wear it if we go out for date night or some special occassions.. 7 years married, 13 years together 🥰🥰

  • @adelinekeith5537
    @adelinekeith5537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    8:49 Abbie: I don’t even know what that means 😂😂

  • @hayzellelagunero7125
    @hayzellelagunero7125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    No one not even a single soul:
    Abbie: ✨WHEEZE✨
    I just love abbie’s laugh 🥰

  • @paigehoffman7959
    @paigehoffman7959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She’s going to be a shining star

  • @iamok5417
    @iamok5417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so open minded that makes me to love you guys even more more and more. Can't wait to see your baby daughter.

  • @claraolpin2487
    @claraolpin2487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can’t remember my mom wearing her wedding ring because it got too small when she got pregnant with my younger brother. She started wearing her engagement ring, which I do remember. Then she got pregnant with her last kid and it got too small. Hasn’t worn any ring since. 🤷‍♀️Rings don’t have to be a symbol of your love I guess.❤️❤️

  • @tacinunnya22
    @tacinunnya22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I didn't even notice him wearing a ring either

  • @amandaneves7780
    @amandaneves7780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I rather wear a bracelet than a ring. I'm with ya, Josh! I like my hands free of jewelry.

  • @thapelodani1814
    @thapelodani1814 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with them about the ring thing, my grandparents have been happily married for 46 years and my grandpa has never gotten a wedding ring cuz they couldnt afford to buy rings for the both of them.
    a ring is just a material object to signify marriage but it does not define the bond within the marriage💘❤ lysm and may your marriage stay blessed
    yhe best couple on youtube!!!

  • @arkoz7679
    @arkoz7679 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You really make me feel better with your vids, my grandpa just passed away yesterday. Now living w only my grandma but try to stay positive

  • @katiesmith5682
    @katiesmith5682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Abbie you’re going to have to stop wearing yours really soon, that killed me! Pregnancy thing, don’t want to have to have it cut off.

  • @crazyflirty13
    @crazyflirty13 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m happily engaged; getting married this October. I love wearing rings so I haven’t taken my engagement ring off since I got it. My fiancé is the same as me he wears his everyday. But honestly I would be totally cool if he doesn’t wear his, I respect it. We actually picked out two different type of wedding rings for us. One is more like an everyday wear and the other is more fancier. I totally agree yall should do tattoos

  • @jade5141
    @jade5141 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My auntie is really tall and it was her fist baby and she barely had a baby bump. Love you guys ❤️🤍🥰

  • @addisonnewhouse4334
    @addisonnewhouse4334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can’t wait to see baby Herbert!!!!

  • @Bubblegum14689
    @Bubblegum14689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can relate. I have never liked wearing any type of jewelry specially rings. It is just so uncomfortable to wear.

  • @aimeehale6698
    @aimeehale6698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely get a ring tattoo!! My fiancé has that for his because the work he does !

  • @j.k.b5030
    @j.k.b5030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was going to suggest the tattoo. My hubby doesn’t wear his often either. We’ve been married 24 years.

  • @daniellepriorello7846
    @daniellepriorello7846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can see that actually because my dad hasn’t wore his wedding ring for years. He’s a mechanic and his fingers are really swollen as well so it’s really small on him now. And he actually almost had his ring finger cut off because of it. He used to wear it around his neck but with the near death experiences he has had with wearing jewelry while working on machines and doing mechanical work he just took it off completely.

  • @gabbiesteele180
    @gabbiesteele180 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    try putting it on a necklace/chain!! i’ve heard that is such a great solution for people who don’t like wearing rings!

  • @izzyreid6722
    @izzyreid6722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my gosh I’m from West Virginia too! I feel so much better now😂

  • @raelinjamison9851
    @raelinjamison9851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My dad doesn’t like wearing his either so he got his tattooed on his ring finger

  • @jenschuler2769
    @jenschuler2769 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are just so happy! I cannot wait to see Baby James Herbert (bean)

  • @danellahnick
    @danellahnick 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my country most of the married man doesn't even wear a ring and it's perfectly fine , i don't really understand why people ask you such a question but anyways i love you guys !!! I've watched all of your videos and it was all hilarious i love it !! Can't wait for the Bean's arrival !! ❤️

  • @avacittadino7181
    @avacittadino7181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Abbie is so pretty and I love watching you’re guys videos also I can’t wait to see baby bean!💖💖

  • @3am_ang3l
    @3am_ang3l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can’t wait for the baby

  • @sandraadu5216
    @sandraadu5216 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The dog was like.... no dont answer it, dont do it man!!!

  • @whitneyschacherbauer8673
    @whitneyschacherbauer8673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Completely AGREE! My hubs and I got tattoos because I hate wearing anything on my fingers, hands & wrists! 💜🤘🏼

  • @foreverme6613
    @foreverme6613 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love how real you guys are 😊❤️

  • @majakastelic601
    @majakastelic601 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you so much. Can’t wait for baby bean to arrive 💖

  • @almagodinez8323
    @almagodinez8323 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband doesn’t wear his wedding either. I guess you could say he doesn’t like rings in general. We been happily married for 17 years and 3 kids. We have great communication and trust and loyalty so it really doesn’t bother me.

  • @sonialopez1248
    @sonialopez1248 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband and I both don’t wear our rings ...but we do both where them if we’re going out to events .. dinner dates.. family parties.. holiday gathering..special occasion etccc

  • @rhiannatrujillo7846
    @rhiannatrujillo7846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi herberts you guys are the most funniest couple and the best. I am so excited for the baby and you guys are going to be amazing parents love you guys🥰😘

  • @sophianelms9043
    @sophianelms9043 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't wait for baby Herbert

  • @francisvasquez6190
    @francisvasquez6190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love when she laugh is Contagious 🤣🤣

  • @danjerrysvazquez5338
    @danjerrysvazquez5338 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn’t notice lol I look forward to seeing your uploads!! Do twice a week more often when you’re feeling well and rested enough to do so.

  • @belenmartinez2910
    @belenmartinez2910 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are such goals tho🥺❤️much love☺️

  • @carolineharper9875
    @carolineharper9875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Y’all should change the TikTok to Herbert family

  • @brooksidk1829
    @brooksidk1829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    this is gonna be good and spill some tea 😌✋

  • @orianamandi
    @orianamandi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's ok if you get sweaty and smell. You're carrying a freaking human!!! Please stop apologizing and keep being the queen that you are!!💗💗💗💗

  • @danawalls-white4040
    @danawalls-white4040 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yea,Wv repp'n!! Fairmont here💗

  • @shilohabrahams1754
    @shilohabrahams1754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You guys make amazing vids

  • @evamiselem7820
    @evamiselem7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What josh can do is he can wear a chain and attach like his wedding ring so he is always wearing it. Btw can’t wait for baby bean

  • @jackielowrey3032
    @jackielowrey3032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband and I have matching Infinity signs on our ring fingers. ♾

  • @valenthegay
    @valenthegay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My mom never wears her wedding ring. in fact my mom and dad have drifted apart of the years.

    • @darlingplease6708
      @darlingplease6708 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meaning divorced??

    • @valenthegay
      @valenthegay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@darlingplease6708 They haven't. My mom yells at my dad most of the time and they fight a lot. They always sound mad talking to each other. I think they havent to prevent me from struggling with it. Idk tho

    • @darlingplease6708
      @darlingplease6708 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@valenthegay oh sorry I just didn't get. I hope all things get better for you at home 🙂🏘️

    • @michellehyppolite5853
      @michellehyppolite5853 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@valenthegay I pray that all is well with your family and that your parents mend with each other. God bless you and your family!! God loves you and so do I!

  • @kendallivy8739
    @kendallivy8739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love yall

  • @lesliepliego2920
    @lesliepliego2920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You could always put it on a chain and where it as a necklace if you want to wear if rings are uncomfortable.

  • @mzpisces78
    @mzpisces78 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time watching!!! You guys popped up on my fyp on TikTok. So fun to watch you guys! Love your vibe. Just got one more subscriber!!!!

  • @kaymar7875
    @kaymar7875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whoa this kinda reminded me of the Sticklers recent TikTok. I am writing this while watching. I can tell by the comments it's the usual Sass King stunt. Love the Herbert's!

  • @KingSaf....
    @KingSaf.... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    With the hall pass question i knew. He was gonna say her mom 😂😂

  • @kimberlysharp2578
    @kimberlysharp2578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WV girl 💙💛💙💛💙💛 I had no clue you both was from WV

  • @ismailhossain8478
    @ismailhossain8478 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really beautiful couple 🥰

  • @taylerjohns3910
    @taylerjohns3910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you guys❤️

  • @Traveling_poet
    @Traveling_poet 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’all are so cute!

  • @Yourlefteyeball_
    @Yourlefteyeball_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The people who hated on this video are haters And this family gives me hopes that one day I will be a mom

  • @mikhaelapreticiaespena3639
    @mikhaelapreticiaespena3639 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Put background music in your vids! it gives the vid a life! :) but you guys are great tho :) ive been following you for a months now :)

  • @kristenbelli2361
    @kristenbelli2361 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aw the dog is so cute

  • @sofiaarpaia318
    @sofiaarpaia318 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't wait for little bean

  • @amberj3941
    @amberj3941 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband also doesn’t wear a wedding ring for the same reason. It started because he used to play a lot of basketball pre-Covid and it would bother him to have the ring on. He is trying all of them hates all of them equally it just never worked out. Same as Abbie I wear mine because it was well WAY more expensive and I don’t want to lose it plus I don’t mind the feeling of it on.

  • @syakirah06
    @syakirah06 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't wait to see baby bean!!

  • @ThePinksFamily
    @ThePinksFamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    love you guys!

  • @athenagwynethtullao5060
    @athenagwynethtullao5060 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the intro song 💛

  • @tinakbakken
    @tinakbakken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I actually don’t like wearing my wedding ring and it’s not because I don’t want to show that I got married young, it’s mainly because I don’t like wearing jewelry. It annoys me & like josh said, you don’t need a ring to signify your marriage.

  • @khushipatidar6107
    @khushipatidar6107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you guys❤️❤️❤️

  • @muskaanauzim2721
    @muskaanauzim2721 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Abbie is like the most outspoken person of all time then you have Josh, Not really an introvert, but doesnt speak much. Perfect couple❤

  • @yelitzacortes9442
    @yelitzacortes9442 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My parents have been married for 25 years and they don’t wear their wedding rings, I agree with what josh says, my parents don’t like to wear any type of rings on their fingers, but they’ve been together for 25 years

  • @MALPAL19514
    @MALPAL19514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    the west virginia part 😂😂😂

  • @g.517
    @g.517 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:30 😂😂😂 y’all are hilarious