I was used to staying on honor roll throughout middle and high school. This first semester of my freshman year of college tho??... Dropped half my classes and still ended up failing the rest anyways. :( You’re not alone girl keep pushing 🥺
i’ve never related to something more. i work full time. i was in an accident a couple of days before the start of fall semester and that threw me off completely. now i failed all of my classes and i have no idea what will happen with my financial aid and what will happen with my classes
I hear you. Honestly, I have no words of wisdom. In fact, I'm scrolling through the comments in search of some right now. I know exactly what you're saying. I feel like a failure. Scared im gonna keep going down the mine until im nothing, just a social reject and utter disappointed to my family.
I’m so scared I’ve been depressed and acting like everything is okay but I haven’t been to my online classes because of quarantine in 3 weeks. This is my first year and I already failed math last semester, I’m scared I might fail it again and some other classes. My sister graduated college already with a good degree and it’s just me. I want to help my parents so they can stop working but I keep on failing them. I just want to prove them I can do but I keep letting them down. I don’t know what to do and no one knows. I’m so overwhelmed and lost.
I’m sorry, I know how hard it can be to get yourself through online classes especially during this time. Your feelings are valid and I was feeling the exact same way. I would suggest speaking with counseling and psychological services at your college or university. They should have video session appointment and it should be included in your tuition. They can help you and point you in the right direction. I hope you can find some help and don’t feel like you are alone! Good luck and hope things work out for you.
Don't worry your in the same boat as me i pretty much failed all three of my classes because of this whole COVID thing plus im work i got nothing done now im stressing and scared to tell my parents
Yeah I slacked my first semester 1.7 gpa. Tried to rebound semester 2. Instead with remote learning and struggling with mental issues I have done significantly worse. I don’t want to fail out of school but now I have to repeat a class for the third time and will fail all but 2 classes this year
Snippin Tendies hey I’m going through the same thing did you have to fill for an appeal or did you transfer like what did you do next that help you I seriously need help ?
Hello, my daughter is going to this stress you describe, online classes might not be for all. The covid thing is affecting lives in so many ways. We as parents need to understand the difficult times for the young generation. Getting psychological help is necessary to avoid getting to a point of being hopeless. Your parents love you, talk to them.
I failed every ap class I took senior year because it was online 😂 this generation can’t stay on task on electronics they’re basically setting us up for failure
first semester and i failed all of my classes. i felt like a fucking failure i cried myself to sleep and prepared for the worst case scenario on how my parents will react about this situation. during the first semester, i was loaded with anxiety then my grandfather's death came in and i had no motivation to attend my classes. i ignored my assignments, schoolworks, exams and projects. my anxiety was about to blow up and everything was rough for me at that time. Update: my parents found out that i failed most of my classes. of course they were furious but they didn't gave up on me though they transferred me to another university where i am now doing a bit well. i got friends and studied hard. i also break down a lot but i'm seeking out professional help for myself mentally.
Oh girl I feel you! I failed all of my classes too and literally felt worthless crying myself to sleep too like... I can relate to you on a spiritual level. Next semesters are ours!💪🏼 we can do this sis!
Went from having almost all A’s to literally failing everything except English. Online school is not good, I can’t learn anything through a screen and all the work feels like homework because it basically is.
Online is trash I can't even understand Probability and Statistics properly even with extra hours tutoring with the TA. 😪 I hope the Homework gets easier for you!
Bro I did so well my freshman year then I had to transfer cause I moved and now I failed 3/5 classes mostly cause of 1 professor how fucking lied to me about late work and would let handle in a big assignment cause I was a day late.( was literally passing the classes until the final week)
Can someone please tell me ,how many fail and you didn't receive any more financial aid, failing two for this semester the teachers are rude they're are saying college-ready to drag me down my grade other 2 classes passing
I’m failing my computer science class, but I don’t want to drop because I waste my money on, but trying my best, learn the skills because I don’t have computer skills, and then take it again. Failing is a stepping stone to success.
I failed 3 of my classes last semester (fall of 2019) and I just got back to the spring semester and it’s already hitting me. I feel the same, way I feel depressed, lonely (also a 1st generation) my parents don’t know understand college and I feel like I can’t even talk to anyone :( but I know that this semester I will be retaking the classes I failed and I know it’s a learning experience. We got this!!
exactly the same situation. I failed two classes this semester and I feel so lost. I will be retaking the classes that I failed in community college. hopefully fall 2020 will be a changing game
Elizabeth Castillo update : I passed my classes with a 3.0 🥺 even with the situation we are all in it was hard but I’m getting back up I’m finally adjusting to college. It does get better ! Good luck to everyone next semester!
I failed not only once but twice because I can't even listen to classes. I have major depression which doesn't allow me to do anything at all. I don't even wanna see anything about school. Going from straight a's student in hs to this mess is just so hard for me. And nobody understands me. I wanna drop out so bad yet I'm so fucking scared. I'm trying to study but I just can't. It is torture. I just deeply wish from the bottom of my heart, this pain will pass away someday. For all of us who are trying our best to keep sane.
I hope you are doing well now. School is the root cause of my mental suffering. I want to drop out but there's nothing else I can do. Just hang in there girl. It always gets better.
@@rachaelrachael7440 Yes! I'm failing so so bad and I want to drop out but my second semester starts in January and I hope I can do much better. I just hope I can finish my 1st semester in some peace even tho I failed all of the courses and withdrew from lots of them..
@@cherryblossom2169 hii💗 So, I came to the conclusion of no matter what I do I have to finish school in the end so I started studying last year even though it’s hard for me (it still is) and I started to get better grades. The thing is it’s so difficult to focus on something you hate this much but my will to get out of this situation is bigger than my hatred so if I don’t get messed up again I will graduate by next year hopefully. And everyone who is in a similiar situation, I can promise you that you are the one who is going to save yourself and I’m begging you to do it. You are better than whatever you are going through. Sending you guys all my love 😽💜💜
I failed 2 out of my 4 classes this current semester (Fall 2020). I'm in the same position honestly and I feel so ashamed for it. I'm taking all online classes because of COVID and some are more difficult then others. I made the mistake of prioritizing the harder classes and did little in the others. I'm nervous because I don't know what's going to happen to me. My mistakes have only given me motivation to try harder during the spring. I have only signed up for 3 classes during the spring so I can focus more on putting out good quality work to make it though the first half of 2021. After that I'll go back to full-time.
Me too this is my first year of college and I failed two classes out of four, so do you know what you are going to do? I need as much advice as I can get
Hi guys I’m justice, 19 years old. I do full time work plus online school. I failed math this semester, my semester ends December. I failed even though I used my calculator haha. I’m not stressed about it I know God will take me wherever he wants me to go. I was doing bad before I got the calculator so now that I have it I think I’ll do good if I retake math. It sucks because the online crap is wak. Typing in stuff was unclear but its done now. Haven’t told my parents yet so that’s gonna be fun I have 9 credits so far out of the 15 because I’m still doing some classes. Good thing financial aid paid for my school. If I decide to drop out and do a trade like welding or become a firefighter I’ll update y’all haha. Everything else I’m fine because I have quizlet lol.
Hey guys, I feel depress because I have 6 failed classes in community college, right now I’m changing myself to become better and work harder to have successes in the future.
I have 5 failed classes across the past two years in community college. I'm retaking the classes now and fixing the problem because there's nothing that I can do other than succeed. I am still struggling with depression and social phobia, but I'm trying my best.
I failed my first college English class last semester, withdrew from my stats class w a notation, & failed the easiest psychology course ever. Now I’m currently failing the same English class again, and I just feel so stuck. I knew I should’ve taken a gap year to gather myself before going. I want to take a gap year before my 2nd year bc I just can’t deal with this with my current mental health. I can’t keep failing my classes. And it’s community college, so these grades matter when it comes to transferring. The work isn’t even hard, I just get so overwhelmed and procrastinate and then freak out even more bc I only have an hour left to do something but it’s so bad that I can’t even do it.
I can relate I work hard for my English class and teacher is so strict with grading and I literally stay up every day to get work done for her class and she still gives me low grades and it’s community college I was planing to transfer and if I fail this class (I still have to take final) if I fail this course than it gonna impact me when I transfer and I don’t wanna take her class again cuz I’m for sure she gonna fail me
Also it’s online and in person class but she expect me to show up to class everyday and it’s hard whenever I join online lecture she won’t let me In which I end up missing class I need 70 to pass the class and I have 66 for months it keeps dropping but it won’t go up
My gpa has never been lower than a 3.0 in high school always had good grade but soon as I start online college I failed 5 classs in 2 semesters I fell so dumb bruh 😩so depressed
@@jordynsimmons1107 my first. I think they gave me a letter saying I have three more semesters to get my gpa back up or I will get kicked out. Right now, I transferred to a community college hoping it’ll be easier and cheaper
This made me tear up. I can relate to what you're going through. I am also first gen and the adjustment can be SO difficult. My last quarter was the worst thing I have ever gone through and it sucks that not a lot of ppl understand us. Right now I am trying to recover as well and this video makes me feel understood and gives me hope :). Thank you.
I just failed two classes and I'm trying so hard not to cry because I'm so worried they'll take my financial aid for next semester away and that I'm going to have to pay back what they gave me already because my family is so financially unstable (which is why they gave me financial aid in the first place) and there is no way I will be able to pay back and I'm also so scared that I'll get kicked out of the university. P.s my university is in a semester system and I'm in my first semester. The financial aid covers the whole year (two semesters) and I'm worried they'll take away the aid for my spring semester 😭
alive n Have you tried emailing your professors? I did and I had a 68 with one if them and I told him I was really worried and I told him about my situation and he curved my grade up so I passed with a C at least. The other one had graded extra assignments that he wasn't supposed to grade. We were supposed to do 19 but he graded like 30 so J had a bunch of zeros in my grades which was giving be a really low grade so I emailed him and asked him why he had graded more if he had only told us to do 19 and that I didn't want to fail, etc, etc, and he fixed it and now I have a B in that class. So I didn't fail any class which I'm super thankful for, but I also emailed my school's financial aid office and told them my situation and what would happen and what I could do and they cleared up any questions I have so definitely talk to someone, it helps!
alive n Mine didn't reply back either but they changed the grade by the time grades where due (yesterday) so maybe yours will curve your grade? What system does your school have? My financial aid office told me if I failed two classes then what I could and should do was aim to get the required GPA that financial aid requires for the full year. In other words that they weren't gona take my financial aid for the Spring semester away but that I had to do really well so my gpa didn't go low cause that's when they would take it away. But our system is semester so financial aid covers the full year, so at the end of the two semesters (and summer semester if you go to that one) they check your over all gpa and grades and if you passed 75% of the classes with a certain gpa then you keep the financial aid and they'll provide for the following year, idk how it works when it's a quarter system :/
alive n maybe it'll be the same for you. Definitely email the financial aid office they will help and if your school's system is like mine then just work really hard on the second semester and you should be fine
you have made me feel a lot better about telling my mom about my failed class and my scholarships being revoked for a quarter. this whole online schooling as an art student is extremely hard and frustrating. the pit in my stomach only seems to be growing
Just some advice. The moment you fail is the moment you stop trying. Failing isn't falling into the mud, failing is sitting in the mud and not pushing agianst it's weight
To all the ones who are struggling with this situation, I just want to say, you don’t need college to be successful. So many jobs now a days actually don’t even require a college education. It’s 2021 not 1980. We are in an entrepreneurial era. Things change people!
I’ve been putting off going to college for a year just because I was so scared of not being able to do it or just fail completely. This video gave me so much motivation, you are amazing & such a strong person ♥️
I had the same way of thinking. I ended up NOT going at all and now I have so many regrets and ''what if '' in my mind. This feeling is worst than being afraid of failing. At the end of the day, it's normal to be scared and what's the worst thing that can happen? FAIL? At least u will know that u tried but some reason it didn't work out for u. Not going at all, the guilts u will have later for the rest of ur life and ppl will never stop telling u how clever u r, what a big mistake it was, how great u would have become..!!! Take my advice plz. God bless u!
I'm like stressing cuz im taking finals right now and im basically failling 4 courses out of 6 this semester. Working and studying full time is hard. Not only that but online classes is the thing that's making it harder because I have to teach myself everything..
I just saw your video and I find it very useful these moments. It gives me hope. I am not a student, but the mom of a 17 year old facing the stress of taking all online classes in college. Thank you for sharing your experience!
I am currently failing one of my classes. I am extremely depressed. I think I am going to drop out and come back later when I am more financially stable and have my life in order. It just feels like the right thing to do.
Im a first gen and Im going to community college and I have fafsa, I failed 2 classes, and I just failed another 2 classes. i came onto youtube for comfort lmao and literally crying rn. Idk what to do I feel like a failure... I hope I don’t have to pay back FAFSA ?? Also I love school and I want to be a teacher LIKE WTF i was super good in hs i took ap classes and got good grade but idk wat to do. Im so sad and lonely and I just don’t like this feeling im gonna re take the classes but im just super scared. I can’t talk to anyone about this and Im just super mad ik if I tell my parents they will be super mad. I just don’t know what to do.. I know its okay to fail but dk what to do know
Daniela Puentes omg I’m in the same boat with you. I failed 4 classes and struggling taking online classes I’ve never thought I would fail a class until now they’re saying I have to retake them. It surely sucks honestly but we can look at it as a learning lesson
nessadafinessa im glad I’m not the only one and yes it is a learning experience. Everyone fails and its okay as long as we get back on track and that we r fine then thats all tht matter wish u luck
I’m a junior in hs and I always flew by high school easily getting As and Bs. Junior year I took dual enrollment at cc to experience college and get college credits but I didn’t know what I wanted to do after hs. I started out fine but I wasn’t fine mentally. I had no motivation and no support. I was feeling depressed for a very long time and ended up failing two classes. Being stuck in home during quarantine makes it hard to take my mind off of everything. I feel like a failure but I’m slowly trying to get better. I learned a lot about myself and figured out I wanted to be a nurse. I’m also realizing that I already messed up my college transcript and probably won’t get into a nursing program.
Daniela Puentes you’re right everyone fails. But not everyone try’s again and keep pushing by retaking that class that they failed or else. It’s best to take it a learning lesson and keep pushing bc what doesn’t kill you, does make you stronger. A lot of people tend to just give up when faces tribes and tribulations but the key is to keep pushing no matter what until you get it.
@@najat4339 It's definitely not going to be easy to get into a competitive nursing program but if you can bounce back get good grades and retake those classes you definitely have a shot
This is me rn. I'm about to pass only one class. Depression and suicidal thoughts came back, been living in so much fear and anxiety it left me sleepless and in bed all day. I will try again next year. Hopefully my gpa from last semester balances things out and I will still be allowed financial aid. It sucks because this is the third time I've been held back academically. The first time due to other reasons and the last two due to depression and suicidal ideation. My mental health has always held me back💔
I've been feeling like a disappointing failure since I started my fall semester in college. And I'm struggling to finish my finals and it's only my freshman year. I'm glad to feel like I'm not alone in this, and my most of my classmates felt that way too. I want to tell my family my true feelings of college, how I felt alone and stupid since day one, but I'm still scared of how they'll react. I come from a chill family, my mom is a relaxed parent, but there are still some things she's strict about and academics is not an exception. I felt even worse when my mom told me how much my tuition bill is. I know she told me that I was never burdening her and she meant it, but I still feel like I am.
I really needed this today. I just keep failing my bio exams I don’t know what it is but that class just makes me unmotivated and I’m scared to fail the class and fall behind. Like you said parents who went to college are able to provide the support their college students need but parents like ours don’t know & you’re so lucky your parents are supportive. I’m struggling to have a support system. I’m so happy for you!!! It’s amazing how you changed it around!!
I failed my freshman year, went back to college 3 years later, actually became a straight-A student for two years and completed all my Gen-Eds and then junior year I started struggling again and failing classes again. Idk college is really really tough. I honestly don’t know what to make of it. Now it has been 6 years and I want to go back but I am afraid of failing a third time.
This is what I'm afraid of. I'm almost done with my 1st semester in college and failed so much. I feel like I'm not capable of passing and graduating. It's so hard
Relatable.. I am a first year living at home and with covid going on all my classes are online and it’s hard to get into contact with my classmates and teachers
Yes, even if your parents went to college; if they were first generation, there is only so much they can tell you. I think everyone's college experience is different and valid, and loniliness is very isolating on the human brain. It is hard, but little by little, we will all achieve our goals.
I just failed my first semester of college and my mom essentially told me that if I don't get all A's next semester she will no longer financially support me so I'm freaking out. My dream school ended up closing so I made the last minute decision to go to college across the country and fell into a really bad depression and when I first started I thought that I would do great, ace all my classes, graduate and get a good career but now I'm just not sure where to go from here.
My father told me the same thing. I am 8 classes away from graduation. I made a D in one of my classes last semester and my dad is disappointed in me. He said between now and graduation if I make anymore classes less than a C, he is done. I will be financing these classes on my own. I am supposed to graduate in December 2021, but a current class I am taking online I am at risk of failing. I have been completing my assignments back to back. Then here comes this 1 paper that I completed and missed the deadline because the online instructor wasn't clear and it's worth 100 points. Now my grade will be from a B to now an F. It's frustrating and I keep failing my father.
I failed this semester and now my gpa is gone I didn’t any help from my family and I feel like crying right now I just wanted to come and see if I could get some inspiration from somebody😔 I feel like a failure 😕
Hey I feel you. I’ve failed a couple classes throughout my college career. I’m a junior now and I still feel like a failure. I’m also in a major I no longer like and have no idea what I’m gonna do after I graduate. I’m trying not to give up or lose hope. Lol feels really good to say this. Hopefully we both have a positive future ahead and college will be but a memory lol
This is exactly what I'm dealing with, but because of online school. I have no motivation after I come home from work, so I put things off. On my days off, I have zoom meetings, which was such a poor choice on my end when enrolling since it's hard for me to actually retain the information, so I don't pay full attention because I'm in the comfort of my own home, and although the class that I am failing is not a required class, it's a prereq, and I just feel so overwhelmed and stressed. I really appreciate how you opened up and showed me that it is possible, that I actually can do it, maybe it's the job that I need to fix, maybe it's my environment when it comes to learning, but I thought I was going to hit a dead end until now, so thank you.
Online classes really suck. Before the pandemic, I was aiming for passing remarks so I didn't pay that much attention at classes and did everything with enough effort and determination. But now, I feel nothing. I barely do good on my tests and sometimes my internet just gives out so I couldn't go on my classes. It really sucks. I failed my first sem and am trying to get by it but my heart was breaking when I saw that message. I pray for everyone here for all the troubles you had to endure. And I pray that the school will allow face-to-face soon. Very, very soon.
I love your story I’m feeling the same way at this moment I started my first year of college in a four year quarter system and I found out I fail my classes I’m really sad and I’m glad I was able to find your videos. Thanks for sharing your story 💕
I failed in all the classes I’ve been in for my 1st semester of college. After the 1st week of classes I just gave up at trying to do better or get good grades, it all felt like too much and it crushed every ounce of energy and motivation out of me. I don’t even have any interest in the major I have been taking. I constantly find myself lying to my parents and other close friends and family about my progress in school, saying I’m doing well and enjoying college when secretly I’m obviously not. I’ve never felt so hopeless and empty in my life, and I don’t really see any reason to keep going anymore.
This is me right now 😢😢😢. I retook Biology 3 times . This semester i have just failed my Microbiology class again. And honestly throughout i have been struggling and i am really not enjoying it . I feel motivated when my parents tell me about the beauty of my future profession but like Am i really into it ??? The classes just bore me so much. I try to push but it just doesnt work
You sound EXACTLY like me! I’ve been lying to my mom about my progress in school during the spring semester. Now she’s telling me to apply for the fall semester, I failed all of my classes & idk if I’d even be able to get financial aid again bc I hadn’t received anything negative about it. I was depressed and stressed the hell out! 😭
This is what I needed to hear. I started to prioritize my mental health over my school during quarantine and I think I may fail all of my online classes
my mental health just kind of consumed me I’m just getting out of it now but that’s because I’m deciding to take a break or quite I honestly have so much guilt and I’m overthinking and I feel like all the teachers and students look at me as a failure but my mental health is super bad and 1000x worse during school I’m pretty sure I failed all my classes too
@@Thee.journey honestly, this is so relatable. Are you in a university? This is my first semester and thinking of withdrawing all my courses but I feel so much guilt and the overthinking is killing me and no one to turn to that I won’t feel judged. My depression has gotten the best of me.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, especially as a first year. This video reassured me that I am not alone and that there are many people that are going through the same circumstances. This video was a big help to me!
Thank you for this video, this spring semester was jot it for me, having to do a full time job and then school I just couldn’t find the motivation this semester and this video is showing me it’s not the end of the world so thank you.
It felt so amazing hearing you talk.Its my first year as an undergrad student coming from a hard working class.Thank you for sharing your experience really gave me hope
My mom got diagnosed with breast cancer in Fall 2019, and I didn’t know about it until coming home. Covid caused her cancer surgery to be delayed several months until the spring. This Fall 2020, I am failing so many classes. I feel like my life is over. I have been talking to my professors but it still all feels so futile. I don’t know what to do anymore with my life. I hope I can look back on this sometime in the future from a good place, but right now it looks incredibly bleak. I wish people could see what was inside my head, instead of suffering like I am.
I am deeply sorry that this situation is happening to you. There is always help out there both psychological and academic. I really hope your mother gets better and overcome her illness.
I feel so much better that I am not alone in this!! I am doing community college and having a part time job because I don’t know what the hell I wanna do with my life… my major is Computer Information Systems cause I love computers and stuff, but I feel like I made a huge mistake with all the classes that’s required and I am so bad at coding and math… I don’t even know what to do anymore, but this video brought me hope and it shows that everyone struggles, and at least that were all in this together, and we’re gonna look back at this 5-10 years from now and say we made it!
I'm taking BSc in Chemistry. I understand how hard it can be. But don't give up . We can do this! I'm in my final semester but I feel the online class make it harder to pass. But try to keep positive .
I have high A’s in all my courses except chemistry. I just decided to drop chemistry a few days ago. Its very difficult and it was an online only course which doesn’t help because I learn best in the classroom but Covid19 changed everything.
Your video was very eye opening in the sense that I guess sometimes it does take reaching out for help & understanding + taking only what you can handle to reach a goal. I'm pretty sure I failed my Business Stats class rn it isn't the first class I've failed but as someone who's been in CC for like 4 years now trying to figure it out it's discouraging. I've already gotten accepted to UNI for my major & I afraid they won't let me in. I'm praying I do but I'm unsure. Thank you for making and sharing this video!
I failed 3 of my classes. This is my second year this year. Whenever I do math I feel like I can't do it, I feel like the teacher will judge me for not knowing this and that. I truly wish wish WISH I could stop thinking this way about myself but I just can't because I have no confidence in myself for any of it. I grew up barely going to school so it's hard for me to catch up in school and reach for help when I need it. When I tell people about this they just shrug it off and tell me to just do it. It's easier said than done fuck.
same here, i'm in my 2nd year and failed two classes. idk if i should drop out because if i fail again i'm going to lose another year or stay and keep pushing. the interest i had for my major is gone and idk if it is because i'm doing bad or because i'm genuinly not interested anymore
@@josefinayurquina3491 It's better to stay enrolled and take fewer classes. If you leave and come back, you have to use the new catalog to determine what you need to take. It could change while you're gone.
Wow this video actually saved me… I’ve been having anxiety attacks because this year of college I have failed through both semesters and my gpa went down and feel like I’ve failed my parents and haven’t told them. I feel a little relieved to know there are people on the same boat as me.
I failed all my classes, i had to do 2 resits and i still have the option to do one more but failing my latest resit has really killed my mental health. I feel like i'm stuck in life
@@TheLightShines I somehow managed to complete my 1st year and got a certificate which proved that i was capable of doing the study. I just view it as a half year delay for my college now. I dont know how old you are, or where you live, but i live in the Netherlands and i live with my parents. I'm 20 years old and college is not that expensive, i'm doing relatively okay. Dont feel hopeless, you wont die lol. As long as you breathe there's countless more opportunities. And i know this can overwhelm people to the point where their brain just shuts off, but in all honesty you learn the most from failure. I felt like i wasted a couple years of my life in that period, but sometimes suffering is necessary in order to become a stronger person (as long as you dont end up harming yourself, you'll always become stronger regardless of the time it would take.). Also, dont feel afraid to ask for help. I know my pride and ego could get in the way because i dont want others to think less off me, but its worse to create a fake image of yourself.
I'm gonna be 28 next month in a month, and im still lost. I dropped out of high school due to depression I took a couple of years off and went back to school to get my HS diploma around 18, I enrolled into college classes, but could never get FAFSA. I failed one class, and got a C in one, I decided to work but man in 2011/12 in CA looking for a job was so hard, I couldn't afford any of my books and my parents were so broke so I took a few years off again and was working, later on I was able to find help through some program named Crossroads, and they helped me get a GED and I ended up getting help to go to ACC I graduated w a certification in MBC. I was so happy I atleast caught up w my age group. I finally had a job but then they decided to let me go since they were closing and moved to a further location. I barely had 6 months of experience, in LA everything you need was 5yrs+ in experience and a BA, so I looked for another school, Fremont college and they ended up closing their LA doors and moved to a further location I couldn't get to since I didn't have a car and expected me to get their with 2 tokens a week. The train ride was atleast 2 hours. So I stopped going, I'm in $15k in debt for trusting them and their sign on counselor aida. So I decided I would keep working until I found a full time job to be able to buy a car. So I can continue my MBC career. It took me over 2 years to get there but I no longer felt I was valid in the career I graduated in, I decided to go back to college, I still wasn't eligible for financial aid! I had to pay everything outta pocket while having a full time job. My car was another thing hurting me emotionally. I signed on to it w a 24% interest rate, so for another 2-3 years I was in debt and the account never lowered. I decided to just travel through those years honestly and had the best time. I am now in a relationship my boyfriend is an English teacher. He wants me to continue pursuing school, but the past times I've tried before I have honestly failed, even in animation. I am am artist, and I do paint leather jackets on the side. I haven't fully been able to focus on that due to work, I am exhausted. I feel like I dont belong in CA and can't keep up here. I feel like I have failed myself and I just don't know where to go anymore. I recently have a hold on my school account and its a school dismissal. Idk where to go anymore. I feel like time is short and I've been saying it and not reaching my goals, I have been able to get rid of my personal CC debt but idk...
I failed my keyboard class TWICE. I was doing so well in the class the second time, but I didn’t turn in one half of my exam because I thought I had until Friday when I actually had until Wednesday at 11:59 pm. I’m so bummed about it.
Byron Hyde I honestly hate that shit... I failed a class too because I forgot to turn in one assignment and my professor didn’t except late work. Like it truly does suck after all the hard work you put in
After reading lots comment people in here made me feel a bit better knowing I'm not alone. I been dealing with lots pressure to be successful since highschool and my depression is getting worse. Because of COVID my first semester is online and it's super hard. I took 7 class because I took animation major. This university is expensive and my family have financial problems. We barely able to live without rent. Our landlord found out my dad have been fired and they told us no need to pay them rent. In the beginning I'm thought I'm going to be fine. I did all my assignment in 1 week. I need to finish 3 assignment in 1 week which is drawing. I'm great at art but I started to hate it. Yes I do my assignment but I never able to finish them. I'm being the worst teammates in group project. I barely attend my class. Lots missing assignments. I regret not taking break before going to university. Because of COVID my highschool live is messed up. I didn't have graduation or anything. I don't get to say goodbye lots my friend. My last day in highschool is an exam day. Now my friend went to different colleges so I have so one to talk about my struggles and I couldn't bring it up. I'm thinking of ending my life and I'm in middle of recovering because I attempted to end my life in highschool but I fail to die. My parents didn't know that. Only my little sister. With financial problems made its worse because of guilt. My parents going on debts to put me in a great university so I can be successful. Both my brothers got scholarship and doing amazing. My cousin take the same major and university and he have no problems. I don't want to let down my parents but I can't do anything because it's too late. I have no motivation to anything. I didn't eat and my sister noticed that. I can't die after promising to my sister but I want to. I didn't talk with my close friends anymore. They all very supportive saying " we understand you're very busy and knowing you, you can do it". But I can't. I let down everyone. I know I'm failing all my classes. This week is final class and I didn't do start doing my final project. My mom is strict and she doesn't understand about mental illness or my struggles. In highschool I told her I cut myself and she sarcastically told me to die. I'm scared. I keep this all in myself without telling any souls . I don't know what to do. I'm lost. I come to the point I don't care about anything. I'm just tired. Reading most of the comment made me feeling I'm not alone. I may got disown and fail all my classes but I will figure something out. I do want to die. Lots of time but for not I will stay alive for the people who love me until I can for myself. For people here struggling you a failure or burdens. You're not a bad person just because of failing all your class or let down everyone.
I failed all my modules in my first sem and felt so fucking lost especially seeing all my peers doing so well. It just hurts and i cant blame anyone but myself for it
I can totally relate I failed the whole fist semester and now I failed in the second one too I feel like I want to cry and just be alone I dont know how to tell my parents about it
@@sixthharmony3670 I told them even though they are strict but they supported me this time cause I've always been good in school and this was my first time
honestly, thank you for this video. I currently in the ball park of the same situation rn and its like so hard. Idk if it was different for you at this point of the video, but Im taking like all online classes because of COVID and its just been so rough. anyways, this is encouraging to hear. with finals ending this week, this video is what I needed to hear. Keep up the work on your YT channel! God bless.
I failed my English class this semester, even though I put the work in and showed up for extra help, even redid my essays and turned all my assignments in. I couldn’t turn my assignments in on time and some were quizzes I missed cause I got locked out of them after some time, I felt like I did everything I could and got most my stuff done but ended up having only half the credits completed for the whole class, I had an 80 my last college class and all my other classes have above 90 but this one class wanted me to write like 2,000 words every week, I get high school online but college online is an absolute joke like why am I paying for a full tuition for an education that I’m not even really getting from the person that I’m paying 🤨. I’m taking the class again this fall, imma get all the help I can and do everything in my power to turn in my assignments in on time, I believe in myself and my ability to overcome this situation🙏
I’m in same position as you and sometimes I submit my assignments late and sometimes get locked out of quiz 😭even after redid assignments she would still give me same grades and I have good grades in my other classes except English now that I was so focused on working for my English class I stopped paying attention to my other classes which I ended up dropping my grades from A to B In Thoes classes
I had less than desirable grades the beginning of the first semester, worked on it, got 85% in my math class, had my 3rd exam yesterday and completely totaled it which brought my grade down to a 70%. Thank you for doing this video, it really helped me push through my experience.
Thank you sm for this!! I am currently DROWNING as u said and dropping out has been on my mind more than I’d like to admit. This video helped me to not give up. I also wanna say girl I love how u to told ur story and u made complete sense the whole time!!
thank you so much this gave me so much motivation am in highschool 9th grade and whew have I tell you this is nothing like middle school and we are in a pandemic it has been hard trying to catch up with all my classes and not get burned out but this really made me realize that I need to really focus and start planning and getting my school and life on track.
Yup, it always sucks when you fail every class in a quarter. Okay I didn't fail every class, but anything C- or lower is pretty much a failure as you are unable to advance. I don't want As, I'll be happy with Bs and Cs and I own all my Ds and Fs. But when you get a quarter of C- in all your classes, it is like I would have been better off not taking classes and saving my time and money. Thing is I am not dead yet so I have to do something with my worthless life.
Hang on I'm on a verge of getting kicked out with me even trying and tutoring. Not trying to scare you but as long as you try in life that's what matters. Parents are saying vise versa but f them. It's going to be okay and I'm trying to do the same myself
I'm passing 2 classes with an A and a B, and might drop 2 classes due to covid online course and work. Then petition it due to covid and it being my first transferred semester to a 4 year university from the community college.
I failed my psychology class last semester, but it was 100% my fault. If I had payed attention to the syllabus I would have seen that the 4 short answers were 25% of the grade. I had completely done ALL of my other assignments, but that bit had screwed me over to a 67%.
I feel ya. I take full responsibility on the fact that I failed so many of my classes this semester. I didn't go to class EVER because of my depression from a death of a family member and my mental health in general. I hope in January, next semester, will go better.
I failed 2 classes my first year. Probably will have my fasfa taken and have to pay back. GPA is so low I don't think any other universities will accept me, I feel so over
It is ALWAYS possible to move forward. Always. A lot of people struggle when starting college, it’s normal, but you have to choose that it’s worth it for yourself. Don’t skip classes, even if you can’t get yourself to do the assignments, it will help you build trust with your professors so they know you are trying. We are all human, it’s normal to be burnt out after Highschool.
I have high A’s in all my courses except chemistry. I just decided to drop chemistry a few days ago. Its very difficult and it was an online only course which doesn’t help because I learn best in the classroom but Covid19 changed everything.
I'm depressed, feel worthless, anxious blah blah all that. I can finish 3 of my classes fine but it's my prerequisite that scares me. I have no idea what I actually want to do or pursue.
My gpa dropped so much and I'm on probation for my financial aid now and I'm so fucking scared i can't even look at my transcript. All my friends are smart and from an organization that i might lose now. I want to kms...I'm so damn depressed
@@itsmia5440 it's not so much as failing one class but more like you are below the gpa and credit hour requirement stated in the scholarship program. The first time is just a warning, the second is you're still in the program but won't get paid that semester until you prove yourself, the third time you're kicked out. That's pretty much the standard i think, if not, i guess, just in my case specifically.
We are not alone ! I failed two courses back to back and finally passed it on my last try. Failed my nursing course but I’m still trying. It’s hard it’s so freaking hard I cry after every other assignment I miss
Also a first generation college student, just failed this computer science class and paying dorming bills alone. I'm also having a hard time asking for help, but maybe I'll actually reach out to my college resources this time. I lowkey needed this, so thankyou :)
I failed all my my first semester classes and never went back. Went through really dark times with addiction and overdoses. I have worked my ass off and started working in customer service. Now I have a good full Time job making 20 an hour. So you can shape your future without college
I'm probably going to wind up an addict and overdose if I'm being honest with myself. I worked my ass off in school to get a job and I have nothing but failure to show for it. 20 an hour is really bad where I am the cost of living is ridiculous.
I just failed one course. I don't want to seem to be making excuses but my best friend and my literal study partner since schooling (My Grandmother) died. I had COVID, could barely use my computer screen. Missed work for a month and was behind in almost everything, also fell back on my TH-cam Channel, almost lost track of time!!!!! I am so flustered and I feel terrible, LITERALLY. I am just considering the fact that I will have to pay tp redo/resit this course I hope everyone just sorta figures out what to do better for the sake of passing
My semester is coming to an end right now and I bombed my essays for my ENGL class...I’m about to fail that class and I can’t even drop it before I get this grade submitted in. Online classes do work for some, but when your coped at home, it doesn’t really feel the same compared to going to classes in person. I think having some failed classes could eventually affect my financial aid, but idk if you guys could give out some input on that it would be appreciated. I want to recover from this, and good luck to you all with college.
Im in third year now. Chem engineer major but im failing my chem class so bad that i dont even know if i want to drop out that class. I study like crazy but only to find out that i fail my chem exam yesterday so bad that i cried after i got out from the class. Any advice?
I’m in the same situation too I failed my global studies class and I’m too scared to tell my parents I failed 1 class. I don’t know I just need to retake it and talk to my counselor.
I understand completely I was struggling badly at college I wanted to become a nurse so badly to make my parents proud and to show everyone I can do it and be successful since a lot of people thought I wouldn't be able to. My parents were proud of me went I got accepted to do nursing let me tell you I spend three weeks at college doing nursing. I was lonely had no friends I felt down and out of it. The teachers try to help but I was struggling . One day I sit down with my mom and told her I'm struggling badly I can't do this anymore I break down crying. Exams I failed I couldn't even pass exams my classmates were passing. I sign the papers that day and I dropped out I remember the moment I told my doctor she was disappointed I suffer from anxiety I remember she told me so your going to use that as a excuse forever. I felt sick hearing my own doctor telling so I decided that you know what college wasn't the problem it was nursing didn't really liked it I did it for everyone else. I applied to university to do a bachelors in education accepted and I just finished my degree this month. And I'm still shock my doctor talk to me like that I'm not seeing that doctor anymore by the way. She was the best of he best but not a good doctor for me. I'm seeing a new doctor that supports me in whatever I do and I'm currently treating my anxiety and I'm currently looking for a teaching job. Let me just say you can do it don't stay in a situation that your not confident and comfortable in doing. Don't live for others it will physically and mentally hurt you like it did me. You will fail don't give up dropping out is okay not going school is fine.
Im not in college but in high school and it’s all online school. This is the first year im doing genuinely terrible and my parents dont understand its because of online. I just want to go back I don’t learn well like this
Why we even take an online class. It's better to face to face classes because you can learn much better and better experience with the teacher. Every online class there's a new assignment to work with.
I’m about to fail my nursing class, and there is only two weeks left to the semester. I don’t think I can do it guys... I just want to cry. I’ll update you when I’ll have my grade, but I don’t have any motivation for this anymore...
@@aangelox1130 I did fail😅 But I just retook it this semester and it went well, so everything end up great. I just needed to get over the fact that failing something for once isn’t the end of the world 😊 There is so much things more important!
I just started college recently and I found out I am failing 2 classes... the problem is though I'm the type of person that isn’t really motived to do anything or keep up with work and I'm also a slow learner it's hard to catch up with work sometimes but hopefully ill do better.
Wow she srsly bounced back academically & is swimming in career opportunities 👀 truly incredible considering what happened in her early college yrs 🔥 live ur best life
Elena, I had flunked out of college in 1975; I returned home and went to a career college not long afterwards. I was almost a straight A student there. I had just chosen a career path which was all wrong for me; there's nothing wrong with being technically inclined
Just finished my first semester of college at my local Community College. I passed my classes and have a 3.7 gpa. But im worried since next semester im taking college algebra online for an 8 week term. Math has always been my weakness and fearing of failing it makes me worried even when I havent even started the class. I had already dropped the class this semester bc my professor accused me of cheating, and im scared and refuse to drop it again since I don't want to have 2 W's on my transcripts for when I transfer, yet alone an F and have to repeat the course. I genuinely have a fear of failure bc im a first gen hispanic and my parents have big dreams for me along with my brother whos still young and has autism, i just want to be an idol to him. Every day I stress and cry and fear because of this..... im just scared of my future at this point which causes me to have mixed emotions about why am I even still alive if i worry to much. For now I just have to keep pushing somehow... lets hope i can last
We just finished our 1st trimester in college and I'm having a mental breakdown because i failed all my classes and i don't know how to tell my parents about it.. Mechanical Engineering is so hard specially online. I just hope i could catch up🙏🏻
I feel ya. My 1st semester is about to end in a few weeks and I failed ALL of my classes and can't change it so I have to with draw from one course. College is so so hard. I wish I had people to talk to. Wish u the best!'
Thank you so much for posting your experience and situation and everything that happened to you , because girl Im in the same boat right now. But this just gave me a wave of relief and faith that I can get back on track. Love you girl and god bless you. GO Elena!
I failed my math class first semester, because I just simply didn't understand what I was doing wrong, I would finish the tests and feel good and confident about how I did, but then I would get the score back and it would be like a 50 or 60%. I nearly failed two more clases that year because I simply just wasn't doing the work, somehow I managed to get a B in one and a C- in the other, idk how that even happened. Online classes were hard and I hated my roommate, she wasn't even a bad person we just had VERY different living styles, she liked to party and get drunk all the time and she frequently had boys over overnight while I was quiet and preferred to focus on my academics. Doing homework with her in the room became increasingly difficult. But then I moved out with almost no notice to her ahead of time(she was gone the day before I decided to move, I still regret it to this day) and I moved in with this awesome person that shares my values, unfortunately the people next door were even louder than my first roommate and they liked screaming in the middle of the night at like 2 AM but I didn't live with them and I was happy about that. I retook my math class and got a C, I'm about to start my second year on monday, I'm looking forward this year to having a somewhat normal college experience and normal roommates that don't keep me up at night. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that no matter how hard things seems now, they do eventually get better.
How has things been going? I'm a first time student about to finish my 1st semester and I failed all my courses. any support or wise words to keep me going? i feel like giving up but I'm scared
@@sixthharmony3670 what is ur major if u don’t mind me asking ? And honestly I’ve seen so many people fail and come back stronger! If time off is needed than go for it and you’ll see how much better it is coming back !
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I feel like a complete failure . I failed all my classes . Working and going to school full time I just wanna roll over and cry .
I was used to staying on honor roll throughout middle and high school. This first semester of my freshman year of college tho??... Dropped half my classes and still ended up failing the rest anyways. :( You’re not alone girl keep pushing 🥺
@@shayemerson1831 I’m currently failing all my classes in college and I don’t know what to do😞😞
i’ve never related to something more. i work full time. i was in an accident a couple of days before the start of fall semester and that threw me off completely. now i failed all of my classes and i have no idea what will happen with my financial aid and what will happen with my classes
I hear you. Honestly, I have no words of wisdom. In fact, I'm scrolling through the comments in search of some right now. I know exactly what you're saying. I feel like a failure. Scared im gonna keep going down the mine until im nothing, just a social reject and utter disappointed to my family.
Same girl and it’s making me feel like I’m wasting money like I don’t need to be in college 🤧🤦🏽♀️
I’m so scared I’ve been depressed and acting like everything is okay but I haven’t been to my online classes because of quarantine in 3 weeks. This is my first year and I already failed math last semester, I’m scared I might fail it again and some other classes. My sister graduated college already with a good degree and it’s just me. I want to help my parents so they can stop working but I keep on failing them. I just want to prove them I can do but I keep letting them down. I don’t know what to do and no one knows. I’m so overwhelmed and lost.
I’m sorry, I know how hard it can be to get yourself through online classes especially during this time. Your feelings are valid and I was feeling the exact same way. I would suggest speaking with counseling and psychological services at your college or university. They should have video session appointment and it should be included in your tuition. They can help you and point you in the right direction. I hope you can find some help and don’t feel like you are alone! Good luck and hope things work out for you.
Don't worry your in the same boat as me i pretty much failed all three of my classes because of this whole COVID thing plus im work i got nothing done now im stressing and scared to tell my parents
Yeah I slacked my first semester 1.7 gpa. Tried to rebound semester 2. Instead with remote learning and struggling with mental issues I have done significantly worse. I don’t want to fail out of school but now I have to repeat a class for the third time and will fail all but 2 classes this year
Snippin Tendies hey I’m going through the same thing did you have to fill for an appeal or did you transfer like what did you do next that help you I seriously need help ?
Hello, my daughter is going to this stress you describe, online classes might not be for all. The covid thing is affecting lives in so many ways. We as parents need to understand the difficult times for the young generation. Getting psychological help is necessary to avoid getting to a point of being hopeless. Your parents love you, talk to them.
Online college is sooo fcking trash..... I’m soo behind on everything I’m trying to get motivated but I sincerely cannot 💀
Yeah I'm never doing online again I pray I get through this psychology class
@@youknowwhatflav9916 Same🥺 Good luck
Facts!!!!!!
I failed every ap class I took senior year because it was online 😂 this generation can’t stay on task on electronics they’re basically setting us up for failure
Im taking math and American gov't online and it is so frustratin!!!!!
first semester and i failed all of my classes. i felt like a fucking failure i cried myself to sleep and prepared for the worst case scenario on how my parents will react about this situation. during the first semester, i was loaded with anxiety then my grandfather's death came in and i had no motivation to attend my classes. i ignored my assignments, schoolworks, exams and projects. my anxiety was about to blow up and everything was rough for me at that time.
Update: my parents found out that i failed most of my classes. of course they were furious but they didn't gave up on me though they transferred me to another university where i am now doing a bit well. i got friends and studied hard. i also break down a lot but i'm seeking out professional help for myself mentally.
Oh girl I feel you! I failed all of my classes too and literally felt worthless crying myself to sleep too like... I can relate to you on a spiritual level. Next semesters are ours!💪🏼 we can do this sis!
Can we all be friends because I’m in the same situation and I would really like people to relate to
@@franchescaretault5810 me too
How did your parents react?
Damn i feel you
Went from having almost all A’s to literally failing everything except English. Online school is not good, I can’t learn anything through a screen and all the work feels like homework because it basically is.
Online is trash I can't even understand Probability and Statistics properly even with extra hours tutoring with the TA. 😪 I hope the Homework gets easier for you!
Bro I did so well my freshman year then I had to transfer cause I moved and now I failed 3/5 classes mostly cause of 1 professor how fucking lied to me about late work and would let handle in a big assignment cause I was a day late.( was literally passing the classes until the final week)
Bro I honestly was like bet it's online how hard could it be little did I know this would bend me over and fist me lol
😂 damn english was my worst subject and it’s my highest grade
Shits tough
Can someone please tell me ,how many fail and you didn't receive any more financial aid, failing two for this semester the teachers are rude they're are saying college-ready to drag me down my grade other 2 classes passing
I’m failing my computer science class, but I don’t want to drop because I waste my money on, but trying my best, learn the skills because I don’t have computer skills, and then take it again. Failing is a stepping stone to success.
I feel you, I am going thru that right now
Same
I failed 3 of my classes last semester (fall of 2019) and I just got back to the spring semester and it’s already hitting me. I feel the same, way I feel depressed, lonely (also a 1st generation) my parents don’t know understand college and I feel like I can’t even talk to anyone :( but I know that this semester I will be retaking the classes I failed and I know it’s a learning experience. We got this!!
Stay strong! Keep that positive attitude going, and best of luck! You're right, you got this!
exactly the same situation. I failed two classes this semester and I feel so lost. I will be retaking the classes that I failed in community college. hopefully fall 2020 will be a changing game
Elizabeth Castillo update : I passed my classes with a 3.0 🥺 even with the situation we are all in it was hard but I’m getting back up I’m finally adjusting to college. It does get better ! Good luck to everyone next semester!
Elizabeth Castillo I failed all of my classes during quarantine day bc I chose to work 2 jobs and I’m planning to go back, is that okay?
I know exactly how you feel. I'm probably going to be here another year. We can get through this. I promise
I failed not only once but twice because I can't even listen to classes. I have major depression which doesn't allow me to do anything at all. I don't even wanna see anything about school. Going from straight a's student in hs to this mess is just so hard for me. And nobody understands me. I wanna drop out so bad yet I'm so fucking scared. I'm trying to study but I just can't. It is torture. I just deeply wish from the bottom of my heart, this pain will pass away someday. For all of us who are trying our best to keep sane.
I hope you are doing well now. School is the root cause of my mental suffering. I want to drop out but there's nothing else I can do. Just hang in there girl. It always gets better.
@@rachaelrachael7440 Yes! I'm failing so so bad and I want to drop out but my second semester starts in January and I hope I can do much better. I just hope I can finish my 1st semester in some peace even tho I failed all of the courses and withdrew from lots of them..
@@rachaelrachael7440 I'm going to keep trying to move foward.
How are you doing now? Are you still here with us?
@@cherryblossom2169 hii💗 So, I came to the conclusion of no matter what I do I have to finish school in the end so I started studying last year even though it’s hard for me (it still is) and I started to get better grades. The thing is it’s so difficult to focus on something you hate this much but my will to get out of this situation is bigger than my hatred so if I don’t get messed up again I will graduate by next year hopefully. And everyone who is in a similiar situation, I can promise you that you are the one who is going to save yourself and I’m begging you to do it. You are better than whatever you are going through. Sending you guys all my love 😽💜💜
I failed 2 out of my 4 classes this current semester (Fall 2020). I'm in the same position honestly and I feel so ashamed for it. I'm taking all online classes because of COVID and some are more difficult then others. I made the mistake of prioritizing the harder classes and did little in the others. I'm nervous because I don't know what's going to happen to me. My mistakes have only given me motivation to try harder during the spring. I have only signed up for 3 classes during the spring so I can focus more on putting out good quality work to make it though the first half of 2021. After that I'll go back to full-time.
Yo I feel you it’s a lot smh
Me too this is my first year of college and I failed two classes out of four, so do you know what you are going to do? I need as much advice as I can get
Same here!! I was so upset, I ended up making my first TH-cam video. I honestly feel like a failure.
@@gxrach I am simply planning on retaking the 2 classes in the summer
Yes you try focusing on the harder classes and the other classes end up suffering.
Hi guys I’m justice, 19 years old. I do full time work plus online school. I failed math this semester, my semester ends December. I failed even though I used my calculator haha. I’m not stressed about it I know God will take me wherever he wants me to go. I was doing bad before I got the calculator so now that I have it I think I’ll do good if I retake math. It sucks because the online crap is wak. Typing in stuff was unclear but its done now. Haven’t told my parents yet so that’s gonna be fun I have 9 credits so far out of the 15 because I’m still doing some classes. Good thing financial aid paid for my school. If I decide to drop out and do a trade like welding or become a firefighter I’ll update y’all haha. Everything else I’m fine because I have quizlet lol.
Yeah absolutely bro
Hey guys, I feel depress because I have 6 failed classes in community college, right now I’m changing myself to become better and work harder to have successes in the future.
How has it been going? I'm in the same position as you were right now
I have 5 failed classes across the past two years in community college. I'm retaking the classes now and fixing the problem because there's nothing that I can do other than succeed. I am still struggling with depression and social phobia, but I'm trying my best.
I failed my first college English class last semester, withdrew from my stats class w a notation, & failed the easiest psychology course ever. Now I’m currently failing the same English class again, and I just feel so stuck. I knew I should’ve taken a gap year to gather myself before going. I want to take a gap year before my 2nd year bc I just can’t deal with this with my current mental health. I can’t keep failing my classes. And it’s community college, so these grades matter when it comes to transferring. The work isn’t even hard, I just get so overwhelmed and procrastinate and then freak out even more bc I only have an hour left to do something but it’s so bad that I can’t even do it.
I can relate I work hard for my English class and teacher is so strict with grading and I literally stay up every day to get work done for her class and she still gives me low grades and it’s community college I was planing to transfer and if I fail this class (I still have to take final) if I fail this course than it gonna impact me when I transfer and I don’t wanna take her class again cuz I’m for sure she gonna fail me
Also it’s online and in person class but she expect me to show up to class everyday and it’s hard whenever I join online lecture she won’t let me In which I end up missing class I need 70 to pass the class and I have 66 for months it keeps dropping but it won’t go up
And now there is nothing left to submit and tomorrow is last day of class and than final
I suffer from the same ailment. This is my fourth attempt. FOURTH!!! I have never passed a class. It’s really bad.
Hi how are you doing now? Did you keep going and transfer or did you drop out? I’m going through a similar situation.
My gpa has never been lower than a 3.0 in high school always had good grade but soon as I start online college I failed 5 classs in 2 semesters I fell so dumb bruh 😩so depressed
Right now I have 4 Fs…. It’s just so hard, I would believe that I know the assignment and I feel confident and then at the end, I keep failing
Was this during your 1st or 2nd semester? If it was 1st do they kick you out of college?
@@jordynsimmons1107 my first. I think they gave me a letter saying I have three more semesters to get my gpa back up or I will get kicked out. Right now, I transferred to a community college hoping it’ll be easier and cheaper
Me too I failed 3 subjects today and I feel lost at this moment I want to give up I feel so disappointed 😔
I failed 4 major classes and i have to retake it all over again...that fact that my parents was so angry is so depressing 😣😢
do you have to pay for that?
@@danagarcia8244 yes
This made me tear up. I can relate to what you're going through. I am also first gen and the adjustment can be SO difficult. My last quarter was the worst thing I have ever gone through and it sucks that not a lot of ppl understand us. Right now I am trying to recover as well and this video makes me feel understood and gives me hope :). Thank you.
I just failed two classes and I'm trying so hard not to cry because I'm so worried they'll take my financial aid for next semester away and that I'm going to have to pay back what they gave me already because my family is so financially unstable (which is why they gave me financial aid in the first place) and there is no way I will be able to pay back and I'm also so scared that I'll get kicked out of the university.
P.s my university is in a semester system and I'm in my first semester. The financial aid covers the whole year (two semesters) and I'm worried they'll take away the aid for my spring semester 😭
Im in thw same situation right know. I dont know what to do.
alive n
Have you tried emailing your professors?
I did and I had a 68 with one if them and I told him I was really worried and I told him about my situation and he curved my grade up so I passed with a C at least.
The other one had graded extra assignments that he wasn't supposed to grade. We were supposed to do 19 but he graded like 30 so J had a bunch of zeros in my grades which was giving be a really low grade so I emailed him and asked him why he had graded more if he had only told us to do 19 and that I didn't want to fail, etc, etc, and he fixed it and now I have a B in that class.
So I didn't fail any class which I'm super thankful for, but I also emailed my school's financial aid office and told them my situation and what would happen and what I could do and they cleared up any questions I have so definitely talk to someone, it helps!
@@MadMax-us9ih yes i sent him 2 msgs already and also txt him and he doesnt replay back😕
alive n
Mine didn't reply back either but they changed the grade by the time grades where due (yesterday) so maybe yours will curve your grade?
What system does your school have?
My financial aid office told me if I failed two classes then what I could and should do was aim to get the required GPA that financial aid requires for the full year. In other words that they weren't gona take my financial aid for the Spring semester away but that I had to do really well so my gpa didn't go low cause that's when they would take it away. But our system is semester so financial aid covers the full year, so at the end of the two semesters (and summer semester if you go to that one) they check your over all gpa and grades and if you passed 75% of the classes with a certain gpa then you keep the financial aid and they'll provide for the following year, idk how it works when it's a quarter system :/
alive n maybe it'll be the same for you.
Definitely email the financial aid office they will help and if your school's system is like mine then just work really hard on the second semester and you should be fine
you have made me feel a lot better about telling my mom about my failed class and my scholarships being revoked for a quarter. this whole online schooling as an art student is extremely hard and frustrating. the pit in my stomach only seems to be growing
How did you break it to your mom? I need advice
Just some advice. The moment you fail is the moment you stop trying. Failing isn't falling into the mud, failing is sitting in the mud and not pushing agianst it's weight
To all the ones who are struggling with this situation, I just want to say, you don’t need college to be successful. So many jobs now a days actually don’t even require a college education. It’s 2021 not 1980. We are in an entrepreneurial era. Things change people!
Yeah like Burger King 😂
Yeah we can start buisness
I’ve been putting off going to college for a year just because I was so scared of not being able to do it or just fail completely. This video gave me so much motivation, you are amazing & such a strong person ♥️
I had the same way of thinking. I ended up NOT going at all and now I have so many regrets and ''what if '' in my mind. This feeling is worst than being afraid of failing. At the end of the day, it's normal to be scared and what's the worst thing that can happen? FAIL? At least u will know that u tried but some reason it didn't work out for u. Not going at all, the guilts u will have later for the rest of ur life and ppl will never stop telling u how clever u r, what a big mistake it was, how great u would have become..!!! Take my advice plz. God bless u!
I'm like stressing cuz im taking finals right now and im basically failling 4 courses out of 6 this semester. Working and studying full time is hard. Not only that but online classes is the thing that's making it harder because I have to teach myself everything..
I failed all my classes this whole year; it was 5 guys 😪 I came from an alternative school no prep
I just saw your video and I find it very useful these moments. It gives me hope. I am not a student, but the mom of a 17 year old facing the stress of taking all online classes in college. Thank you for sharing your experience!
I am currently failing one of my classes. I am extremely depressed. I think I am going to drop out and come back later when I am more financially stable and have my life in order. It just feels like the right thing to do.
Im a first gen and Im going to community college and I have fafsa, I failed 2 classes, and I just failed another 2 classes. i came onto youtube for comfort lmao and literally crying rn. Idk what to do I feel like a failure... I hope I don’t have to pay back FAFSA ?? Also I love school and I want to be a teacher LIKE WTF i was super good in hs i took ap classes and got good grade but idk wat to do. Im so sad and lonely and I just don’t like this feeling im gonna re take the classes but im just super scared. I can’t talk to anyone about this and Im just super mad ik if I tell my parents they will be super mad. I just don’t know what to do.. I know its okay to fail but dk what to do know
Daniela Puentes omg I’m in the same boat with you. I failed 4 classes and struggling taking online classes I’ve never thought I would fail a class until now they’re saying I have to retake them. It surely sucks honestly but we can look at it as a learning lesson
nessadafinessa im glad I’m not the only one and yes it is a learning experience. Everyone fails and its okay as long as we get back on track and that we r fine then thats all tht matter wish u luck
I’m a junior in hs and I always flew by high school easily getting As and Bs. Junior year I took dual enrollment at cc to experience college and get college credits but I didn’t know what I wanted to do after hs. I started out fine but I wasn’t fine mentally. I had no motivation and no support. I was feeling depressed for a very long time and ended up failing two classes. Being stuck in home during quarantine makes it hard to take my mind off of everything. I feel like a failure but I’m slowly trying to get better. I learned a lot about myself and figured out I wanted to be a nurse. I’m also realizing that I already messed up my college transcript and probably won’t get into a nursing program.
Daniela Puentes you’re right everyone fails. But not everyone try’s again and keep pushing by retaking that class that they failed or else. It’s best to take it a learning lesson and keep pushing bc what doesn’t kill you, does make you stronger. A lot of people tend to just give up when faces tribes and tribulations but the key is to keep pushing no matter what until you get it.
@@najat4339 It's definitely not going to be easy to get into a competitive nursing program but if you can bounce back get good grades and retake those classes you definitely have a shot
..two years later, the message is soo inspiring. Thank you.
This is me rn. I'm about to pass only one class. Depression and suicidal thoughts came back, been living in so much fear and anxiety it left me sleepless and in bed all day. I will try again next year. Hopefully my gpa from last semester balances things out and I will still be allowed financial aid. It sucks because this is the third time I've been held back academically. The first time due to other reasons and the last two due to depression and suicidal ideation. My mental health has always held me back💔
I've been feeling like a disappointing failure since I started my fall semester in college. And I'm struggling to finish my finals and it's only my freshman year. I'm glad to feel like I'm not alone in this, and my most of my classmates felt that way too. I want to tell my family my true feelings of college, how I felt alone and stupid since day one, but I'm still scared of how they'll react. I come from a chill family, my mom is a relaxed parent, but there are still some things she's strict about and academics is not an exception. I felt even worse when my mom told me how much my tuition bill is. I know she told me that I was never burdening her and she meant it, but I still feel like I am.
I really needed this today. I just keep failing my bio exams I don’t know what it is but that class just makes me unmotivated and I’m scared to fail the class and fall behind. Like you said parents who went to college are able to provide the support their college students need but parents like ours don’t know & you’re so lucky your parents are supportive. I’m struggling to have a support system. I’m so happy for you!!! It’s amazing how you changed it around!!
I failed my freshman year, went back to college 3 years later, actually became a straight-A student for two years and completed all my Gen-Eds and then junior year I started struggling again and failing classes again. Idk college is really really tough. I honestly don’t know what to make of it. Now it has been 6 years and I want to go back but I am afraid of failing a third time.
This is what I'm afraid of. I'm almost done with my 1st semester in college and failed so much. I feel like I'm not capable of passing and graduating. It's so hard
Relatable.. I am a first year living at home and with covid going on all my classes are online and it’s hard to get into contact with my classmates and teachers
Yes, even if your parents went to college; if they were first generation, there is only so much they can tell you. I think everyone's college experience is different and valid, and loniliness is very isolating on the human brain. It is hard, but little by little, we will all achieve our goals.
I just failed my first semester of college and my mom essentially told me that if I don't get all A's next semester she will no longer financially support me so I'm freaking out. My dream school ended up closing so I made the last minute decision to go to college across the country and fell into a really bad depression and when I first started I thought that I would do great, ace all my classes, graduate and get a good career but now I'm just not sure where to go from here.
Same with me my first freshman semester of college i got 2 c 2 d and one f and a grand total of 1.2 GPA
My father told me the same thing. I am 8 classes away from graduation. I made a D in one of my classes last semester and my dad is disappointed in me. He said between now and graduation if I make anymore classes less than a C, he is done. I will be financing these classes on my own. I am supposed to graduate in December 2021, but a current class I am taking online I am at risk of failing. I have been completing my assignments back to back. Then here comes this 1 paper that I completed and missed the deadline because the online instructor wasn't clear and it's worth 100 points. Now my grade will be from a B to now an F. It's frustrating and I keep failing my father.
I failed this semester and now my gpa is gone I didn’t any help from my family and I feel like crying right now I just wanted to come and see if I could get some inspiration from somebody😔 I feel like a failure 😕
Hey I feel you. I’ve failed a couple classes throughout my college career. I’m a junior now and I still feel like a failure. I’m also in a major I no longer like and have no idea what I’m gonna do after I graduate. I’m trying not to give up or lose hope. Lol feels really good to say this. Hopefully we both have a positive future ahead and college will be but a memory lol
I have a 1.2 GPA after my first semester 🤪
This is exactly what I'm dealing with, but because of online school. I have no motivation after I come home from work, so I put things off. On my days off, I have zoom meetings, which was such a poor choice on my end when enrolling since it's hard for me to actually retain the information, so I don't pay full attention because I'm in the comfort of my own home, and although the class that I am failing is not a required class, it's a prereq, and I just feel so overwhelmed and stressed. I really appreciate how you opened up and showed me that it is possible, that I actually can do it, maybe it's the job that I need to fix, maybe it's my environment when it comes to learning, but I thought I was going to hit a dead end until now, so thank you.
I shouldve had a gap year instead og going to uni right after middle school. I wasnt really prepared for uni life 🥴😟
Online classes really suck. Before the pandemic, I was aiming for passing remarks so I didn't pay that much attention at classes and did everything with enough effort and determination.
But now, I feel nothing. I barely do good on my tests and sometimes my internet just gives out so I couldn't go on my classes. It really sucks.
I failed my first sem and am trying to get by it but my heart was breaking when I saw that message.
I pray for everyone here for all the troubles you had to endure. And I pray that the school will allow face-to-face soon. Very, very soon.
Amens's Lords's.
I love your story I’m feeling the same way at this moment I started my first year of college in a four year quarter system and I found out I fail my classes I’m really sad and I’m glad I was able to find your videos. Thanks for sharing your story 💕
Sometimes we have to fail in order to succeed. Don’t feel sad, just find ways to get help and be better! Good luck to you and thank you for watching 💛
@@ELENAOFFICIAL how many times do colleges allow you to retake the same class???
I failed in all the classes I’ve been in for my 1st semester of college. After the 1st week of classes I just gave up at trying to do better or get good grades, it all felt like too much and it crushed every ounce of energy and motivation out of me. I don’t even have any interest in the major I have been taking. I constantly find myself lying to my parents and other close friends and family about my progress in school, saying I’m doing well and enjoying college when secretly I’m obviously not. I’ve never felt so hopeless and empty in my life, and I don’t really see any reason to keep going anymore.
Hi how are you? Are you still in college?
Oh dear. What you said is relatable for me too. Can't help it, but I am crying now after hearing that. 😢
This is me right now 😢😢😢. I retook Biology 3 times . This semester i have just failed my Microbiology class again. And honestly throughout i have been struggling and i am really not enjoying it . I feel motivated when my parents tell me about the beauty of my future profession but like Am i really into it ??? The classes just bore me so much. I try to push but it just doesnt work
You sound EXACTLY like me! I’ve been lying to my mom about my progress in school during the spring semester. Now she’s telling me to apply for the fall semester, I failed all of my classes & idk if I’d even be able to get financial aid again bc I hadn’t received anything negative about it. I was depressed and stressed the hell out! 😭
I found out just yesterday I fail two modules and this was supposed to be my final seminar. I really wanted to graduate with honors.
This is what I needed to hear. I started to prioritize my mental health over my school during quarantine and I think I may fail all of my online classes
my mental health just kind of consumed me I’m just getting out of it now but that’s because I’m deciding to take a break or quite I honestly have so much guilt and I’m overthinking and I feel like all the teachers and students look at me as a failure but my mental health is super bad and 1000x worse during school I’m pretty sure I failed all my classes too
@@Thee.journey honestly, this is so relatable. Are you in a university? This is my first semester and thinking of withdrawing all my courses but I feel so much guilt and the overthinking is killing me and no one to turn to that I won’t feel judged. My depression has gotten the best of me.
I’m also not doing good this year at all, been crying all day yesterday and today. I feel like I’m a failure.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, especially as a first year. This video reassured me that I am not alone and that there are many people that are going through the same circumstances. This video was a big help to me!
Thank you for this video, this spring semester was jot it for me, having to do a full time job and then school I just couldn’t find the motivation this semester and this video is showing me it’s not the end of the world so thank you.
Reading these comments honestly making me feel better about failing my one math class and I'm I'm barely passing all the others
It felt so amazing hearing you talk.Its my first year as an undergrad student coming from a hard working class.Thank you for sharing your experience really gave me hope
My mom got diagnosed with breast cancer in Fall 2019, and I didn’t know about it until coming home. Covid caused her cancer surgery to be delayed several months until the spring. This Fall 2020, I am failing so many classes. I feel like my life is over. I have been talking to my professors but it still all feels so futile. I don’t know what to do anymore with my life. I hope I can look back on this sometime in the future from a good place, but right now it looks incredibly bleak. I wish people could see what was inside my head, instead of suffering like I am.
I am deeply sorry that this situation is happening to you. There is always help out there both psychological and academic. I really hope your mother gets better and overcome her illness.
I feel so much better that I am not alone in this!! I am doing community college and having a part time job because I don’t know what the hell I wanna do with my life… my major is Computer Information Systems cause I love computers and stuff, but I feel like I made a huge mistake with all the classes that’s required and I am so bad at coding and math… I don’t even know what to do anymore, but this video brought me hope and it shows that everyone struggles, and at least that were all in this together, and we’re gonna look back at this 5-10 years from now and say we made it!
I failed Chemistry in my first semester of college and im retaking it but i feel like im going to fail again😭
I'm taking BSc in Chemistry. I understand how hard it can be. But don't give up . We can do this! I'm in my final semester but I feel the online class make it harder to pass. But try to keep positive .
I have high A’s in all my courses except chemistry. I just decided to drop chemistry a few days ago. Its very difficult and it was an online only course which doesn’t help because I learn best in the classroom but Covid19 changed everything.
Chemistry is hard!!!
Same with neuroscience. This is my first time failing a course and I’m sad
Your video was very eye opening in the sense that I guess sometimes it does take reaching out for help & understanding + taking only what you can handle to reach a goal. I'm pretty sure I failed my Business Stats class rn it isn't the first class I've failed but as someone who's been in CC for like 4 years now trying to figure it out it's discouraging. I've already gotten accepted to UNI for my major & I afraid they won't let me in. I'm praying I do but I'm unsure. Thank you for making and sharing this video!
I have failed almost all my classes and I’m scared because I’m a first generation college student
Dang I just failed a test today and lost motivation
Eruna I failed algebra
@@nfv9039 O.o don't worry I'm sure you will do well if you retake it!
I just gave up half way on a test and now I know will fail this paper uni is so hard
You not the only one but I'm studying for the Asvab test for the national guard
Same
I failed 3 of my classes. This is my second year this year. Whenever I do math I feel like I can't do it, I feel like the teacher will judge me for not knowing this and that. I truly wish wish WISH I could stop thinking this way about myself but I just can't because I have no confidence in myself for any of it. I grew up barely going to school so it's hard for me to catch up in school and reach for help when I need it. When I tell people about this they just shrug it off and tell me to just do it. It's easier said than done fuck.
same here, i'm in my 2nd year and failed two classes. idk if i should drop out because if i fail again i'm going to lose another year or stay and keep pushing. the interest i had for my major is gone and idk if it is because i'm doing bad or because i'm genuinly not interested anymore
J Y I feel the exact same. We all got this but it's hard to want to do something sometimes.
@@josefinayurquina3491 It's better to stay enrolled and take fewer classes. If you leave and come back, you have to use the new catalog to determine what you need to take. It could change while you're gone.
Wow this video actually saved me… I’ve been having anxiety attacks because this year of college I have failed through both semesters and my gpa went down and feel like I’ve failed my parents and haven’t told them. I feel a little relieved to know there are people on the same boat as me.
I failed all my classes, i had to do 2 resits and i still have the option to do one more but failing my latest resit has really killed my mental health. I feel like i'm stuck in life
How did it effect your financial aid (if you had any)?. I'm only passing 1 class this semester. I feel hopeless.
@@TheLightShines I somehow managed to complete my 1st year and got a certificate which proved that i was capable of doing the study. I just view it as a half year delay for my college now. I dont know how old you are, or where you live, but i live in the Netherlands and i live with my parents. I'm 20 years old and college is not that expensive, i'm doing relatively okay.
Dont feel hopeless, you wont die lol. As long as you breathe there's countless more opportunities. And i know this can overwhelm people to the point where their brain just shuts off, but in all honesty you learn the most from failure. I felt like i wasted a couple years of my life in that period, but sometimes suffering is necessary in order to become a stronger person (as long as you dont end up harming yourself, you'll always become stronger regardless of the time it would take.). Also, dont feel afraid to ask for help. I know my pride and ego could get in the way because i dont want others to think less off me, but its worse to create a fake image of yourself.
I'm gonna be 28 next month in a month, and im still lost.
I dropped out of high school due to depression I took a couple of years off and went back to school to get my HS diploma around 18, I enrolled into college classes, but could never get FAFSA. I failed one class, and got a C in one, I decided to work but man in 2011/12 in CA looking for a job was so hard, I couldn't afford any of my books and my parents were so broke so I took a few years off again and was working, later on I was able to find help through some program named Crossroads, and they helped me get a GED and I ended up getting help to go to ACC I graduated w a certification in MBC. I was so happy I atleast caught up w my age group. I finally had a job but then they decided to let me go since they were closing and moved to a further location. I barely had 6 months of experience, in LA everything you need was 5yrs+ in experience and a BA, so I looked for another school, Fremont college and they ended up closing their LA doors and moved to a further location I couldn't get to since I didn't have a car and expected me to get their with 2 tokens a week. The train ride was atleast 2 hours. So I stopped going, I'm in $15k in debt for trusting them and their sign on counselor aida. So I decided I would keep working until I found a full time job to be able to buy a car. So I can continue my MBC career. It took me over 2 years to get there but I no longer felt I was valid in the career I graduated in, I decided to go back to college, I still wasn't eligible for financial aid! I had to pay everything outta pocket while having a full time job. My car was another thing hurting me emotionally. I signed on to it w a 24% interest rate, so for another 2-3 years I was in debt and the account never lowered. I decided to just travel through those years honestly and had the best time. I am now in a relationship my boyfriend is an English teacher. He wants me to continue pursuing school, but the past times I've tried before I have honestly failed, even in animation. I am am artist, and I do paint leather jackets on the side. I haven't fully been able to focus on that due to work, I am exhausted. I feel like I dont belong in CA and can't keep up here. I feel like I have failed myself and I just don't know where to go anymore. I recently have a hold on my school account and its a school dismissal. Idk where to go anymore. I feel like time is short and I've been saying it and not reaching my goals, I have been able to get rid of my personal CC debt but idk...
I feel you
I really do 😫😭
I failed my keyboard class TWICE. I was doing so well in the class the second time, but I didn’t turn in one half of my exam because I thought I had until Friday when I actually had until Wednesday at 11:59 pm. I’m so bummed about it.
Byron Hyde I honestly hate that shit... I failed a class too because I forgot to turn in one assignment and my professor didn’t except late work. Like it truly does suck after all the hard work you put in
keyboard class?
@@BenDover-mo4jd It must be related to business management where they use Word and PowerPoint I think
After reading lots comment people in here made me feel a bit better knowing I'm not alone. I been dealing with lots pressure to be successful since highschool and my depression is getting worse. Because of COVID my first semester is online and it's super hard. I took 7 class because I took animation major. This university is expensive and my family have financial problems. We barely able to live without rent. Our landlord found out my dad have been fired and they told us no need to pay them rent. In the beginning I'm thought I'm going to be fine. I did all my assignment in 1 week. I need to finish 3 assignment in 1 week which is drawing. I'm great at art but I started to hate it. Yes I do my assignment but I never able to finish them. I'm being the worst teammates in group project. I barely attend my class. Lots missing assignments. I regret not taking break before going to university. Because of COVID my highschool live is messed up. I didn't have graduation or anything. I don't get to say goodbye lots my friend. My last day in highschool is an exam day. Now my friend went to different colleges so I have so one to talk about my struggles and I couldn't bring it up. I'm thinking of ending my life and I'm in middle of recovering because I attempted to end my life in highschool but I fail to die. My parents didn't know that. Only my little sister. With financial problems made its worse because of guilt. My parents going on debts to put me in a great university so I can be successful. Both my brothers got scholarship and doing amazing. My cousin take the same major and university and he have no problems. I don't want to let down my parents but I can't do anything because it's too late. I have no motivation to anything. I didn't eat and my sister noticed that. I can't die after promising to my sister but I want to. I didn't talk with my close friends anymore. They all very supportive saying " we understand you're very busy and knowing you, you can do it". But I can't. I let down everyone. I know I'm failing all my classes. This week is final class and I didn't do start doing my final project. My mom is strict and she doesn't understand about mental illness or my struggles. In highschool I told her I cut myself and she sarcastically told me to die. I'm scared. I keep this all in myself without telling any souls . I don't know what to do. I'm lost. I come to the point I don't care about anything. I'm just tired. Reading most of the comment made me feeling I'm not alone. I may got disown and fail all my classes but I will figure something out. I do want to die. Lots of time but for not I will stay alive for the people who love me until I can for myself. For people here struggling you a failure or burdens. You're not a bad person just because of failing all your class or let down everyone.
I failed all my modules in my first sem and felt so fucking lost especially seeing all my peers doing so well. It just hurts and i cant blame anyone but myself for it
I can totally relate I failed the whole fist semester and now I failed in the second one too I feel like I want to cry and just be alone I dont know how to tell my parents about it
@@knarse7868 Did you tell your parents? I want to hide it from them cause I'm so scared. They're really really strict
@@sixthharmony3670 I told them even though they are strict but they supported me this time cause I've always been good in school and this was my first time
honestly, thank you for this video. I currently in the ball park of the same situation rn and its like so hard. Idk if it was different for you at this point of the video, but Im taking like all online classes because of COVID and its just been so rough. anyways, this is encouraging to hear. with finals ending this week, this video is what I needed to hear. Keep up the work on your YT channel! God bless.
I failed my English class this semester, even though I put the work in and showed up for extra help, even redid my essays and turned all my assignments in. I couldn’t turn my assignments in on time and some were quizzes I missed cause I got locked out of them after some time, I felt like I did everything I could and got most my stuff done but ended up having only half the credits completed for the whole class, I had an 80 my last college class and all my other classes have above 90 but this one class wanted me to write like 2,000 words every week, I get high school online but college online is an absolute joke like why am I paying for a full tuition for an education that I’m not even really getting from the person that I’m paying 🤨. I’m taking the class again this fall, imma get all the help I can and do everything in my power to turn in my assignments in on time, I believe in myself and my ability to overcome this situation🙏
I’m in same position as you and sometimes I submit my assignments late and sometimes get locked out of quiz 😭even after redid assignments she would still give me same grades and I have good grades in my other classes except English now that I was so focused on working for my English class I stopped paying attention to my other classes which I ended up dropping my grades from A to B In Thoes classes
Let’s work hard if we ended up retaking the class and update each other on it 💪
I had less than desirable grades the beginning of the first semester, worked on it, got 85% in my math class, had my 3rd exam yesterday and completely totaled it which brought my grade down to a 70%. Thank you for doing this video, it really helped me push through my experience.
Thank you sm for this!! I am currently DROWNING as u said and dropping out has been on my mind more than I’d like to admit. This video helped me to not give up. I also wanna say girl I love how u to told ur story and u made complete sense the whole time!!
thank you so much this gave me so much motivation am in highschool 9th grade and whew have I tell you this is nothing like middle school and we are in a pandemic it has been hard trying to catch up with all my classes and not get burned out but this really made me realize that I need to really focus and start planning and getting my school and life on track.
Yup, it always sucks when you fail every class in a quarter. Okay I didn't fail every class, but anything C- or lower is pretty much a failure as you are unable to advance. I don't want As, I'll be happy with Bs and Cs and I own all my Ds and Fs. But when you get a quarter of C- in all your classes, it is like I would have been better off not taking classes and saving my time and money.
Thing is I am not dead yet so I have to do something with my worthless life.
But why is my fall 20 semester worse than my spring 20 semester... I can’t even talk to my parents because I told them I wouldn’t fail another class😭
Hang on I'm on a verge of getting kicked out with me even trying and tutoring. Not trying to scare you but as long as you try in life that's what matters. Parents are saying vise versa but f them. It's going to be okay and I'm trying to do the same myself
@@amcb2035 Thank u for this advice! I'm so stuck in life in college and it's all so stressful. I feel like a failure. ugh
I'm passing 2 classes with an A and a B, and might drop 2 classes due to covid online course and work. Then petition it due to covid and it being my first transferred semester to a 4 year university from the community college.
Thank you so much .May God give us peace and guidance in everything in our life
I failed my psychology class last semester, but it was 100% my fault. If I had payed attention to the syllabus I would have seen that the 4 short answers were 25% of the grade.
I had completely done ALL of my other assignments, but that bit had screwed me over to a 67%.
I feel ya. I take full responsibility on the fact that I failed so many of my classes this semester. I didn't go to class EVER because of my depression from a death of a family member and my mental health in general. I hope in January, next semester, will go better.
I failed 2 classes my first year. Probably will have my fasfa taken and have to pay back. GPA is so low I don't think any other universities will accept me, I feel so over
It is ALWAYS possible to move forward. Always. A lot of people struggle when starting college, it’s normal, but you have to choose that it’s worth it for yourself. Don’t skip classes, even if you can’t get yourself to do the assignments, it will help you build trust with your professors so they know you are trying. We are all human, it’s normal to be burnt out after Highschool.
I have high A’s in all my courses except chemistry. I just decided to drop chemistry a few days ago. Its very difficult and it was an online only course which doesn’t help because I learn best in the classroom but Covid19 changed everything.
I'm depressed, feel worthless, anxious blah blah all that. I can finish 3 of my classes fine but it's my prerequisite that scares me. I have no idea what I actually want to do or pursue.
If you don’t know , take time off and use that time to find it ma’am ! It’s a marathon not a sprint!
My gpa dropped so much and I'm on probation for my financial aid now and I'm so fucking scared i can't even look at my transcript. All my friends are smart and from an organization that i might lose now. I want to kms...I'm so damn depressed
Can you tell me about probation ,like how does it work ?Do you automatically get put on it for failing ?
@@itsmia5440 it's not so much as failing one class but more like you are below the gpa and credit hour requirement stated in the scholarship program. The first time is just a warning, the second is you're still in the program but won't get paid that semester until you prove yourself, the third time you're kicked out. That's pretty much the standard i think, if not, i guess, just in my case specifically.
yeah, what I learned from my tough time is that getting help is critical.
I totally understand the full time student and full time worker lifestyle. It IS so rough to go through. You are or were never alone.
Thank you Elena for sharing your story, you are helping me so much with this. Thank you! I really hope you succeed in everything !!
We are not alone ! I failed two courses back to back and finally passed it on my last try. Failed my nursing course but I’m still trying. It’s hard it’s so freaking hard I cry after every other assignment I miss
Also a first generation college student, just failed this computer science class and paying dorming bills alone. I'm also having a hard time asking for help, but maybe I'll actually reach out to my college resources this time. I lowkey needed this, so thankyou :)
I failed all my my first semester classes and never went back. Went through really dark times with addiction and overdoses. I have worked my ass off and started working in customer service. Now I have a good full Time job making 20 an hour. So you can shape your future without college
I'm probably going to wind up an addict and overdose if I'm being honest with myself. I worked my ass off in school to get a job and I have nothing but failure to show for it. 20 an hour is really bad where I am the cost of living is ridiculous.
@@centipedekid9824 overdose, life is material. Material is not everlasting. Allah is forever 🙌
I just failed one course. I don't want to seem to be making excuses but my best friend and my literal study partner since schooling (My Grandmother) died. I had COVID, could barely use my computer screen. Missed work for a month and was behind in almost everything, also fell back on my TH-cam Channel, almost lost track of time!!!!! I am so flustered and I feel terrible, LITERALLY. I am just considering the fact that I will have to pay tp redo/resit this course
I hope everyone just sorta figures out what to do better for the sake of passing
My semester is coming to an end right now and I bombed my essays for my ENGL class...I’m about to fail that class and I can’t even drop it before I get this grade submitted in. Online classes do work for some, but when your coped at home, it doesn’t really feel the same compared to going to classes in person. I think having some failed classes could eventually affect my financial aid, but idk if you guys could give out some input on that it would be appreciated. I want to recover from this, and good luck to you all with college.
Im in third year now. Chem engineer major but im failing my chem class so bad that i dont even know if i want to drop out that class. I study like crazy but only to find out that i fail my chem exam yesterday so bad that i cried after i got out from the class. Any advice?
Omg I’m sorry I just failed my business exam and it is a class where you had to pass the final in order to pass the class
I’m in the same situation too I failed my global studies class and I’m too scared to tell my parents I failed 1 class. I don’t know I just need to retake it and talk to my counselor.
I understand completely I was struggling badly at college I wanted to become a nurse so badly to make my parents proud and to show everyone I can do it and be successful since a lot of people thought I wouldn't be able to. My parents were proud of me went I got accepted to do nursing let me tell you I spend three weeks at college doing nursing. I was lonely had no friends I felt down and out of it. The teachers try to help but I was struggling . One day I sit down with my mom and told her I'm struggling badly I can't do this anymore I break down crying. Exams I failed I couldn't even pass exams my classmates were passing. I sign the papers that day and I dropped out I remember the moment I told my doctor she was disappointed I suffer from anxiety I remember she told me so your going to use that as a excuse forever. I felt sick hearing my own doctor telling so I decided that you know what college wasn't the problem it was nursing didn't really liked it I did it for everyone else. I applied to university to do a bachelors in education accepted and I just finished my degree this month. And I'm still shock my doctor talk to me like that I'm not seeing that doctor anymore by the way. She was the best of he best but not a good doctor for me. I'm seeing a new doctor that supports me in whatever I do and I'm currently treating my anxiety and I'm currently looking for a teaching job. Let me just say you can do it don't stay in a situation that your not confident and comfortable in doing. Don't live for others it will physically and mentally hurt you like it did me. You will fail don't give up dropping out is okay not going school is fine.
Im not in college but in high school and it’s all online school. This is the first year im doing genuinely terrible and my parents dont understand its because of online. I just want to go back I don’t learn well like this
Why we even take an online class. It's better to face to face classes because you can learn much better and better experience with the teacher. Every online class there's a new assignment to work with.
i did amazing last semester but this semester was terrible
I love this video, very inspiring and in these tough times w online school I am struggling so I really loved this video.
I’m about to fail my nursing class, and there is only two weeks left to the semester. I don’t think I can do it guys... I just want to cry.
I’ll update you when I’ll have my grade, but I don’t have any motivation for this anymore...
How did it go ma’am ?
@@aangelox1130 I did fail😅 But I just retook it this semester and it went well, so everything end up great. I just needed to get over the fact that failing something for once isn’t the end of the world 😊 There is so much things more important!
@@marie-evecloutier931 I’m so glad to hear that ! It’s okay to fail a class and come back stronger for it , in the end its about how you finish
I just started college recently and I found out I am failing 2 classes... the problem is though I'm the type of person that isn’t really motived to do anything or keep up with work and I'm also a slow learner it's hard to catch up with work sometimes but hopefully ill do better.
Wow she srsly bounced back academically & is swimming in career opportunities 👀 truly incredible considering what happened in her early college yrs 🔥 live ur best life
I’ve been thinking about making a similar video. Motivation to do it because college is ROUGH
Thanks for sharing your story it was really inspiring can u list the products u used ?
Of course love! They are listed and available for view in the description box. Thank you for comment 💛
This gal blows my mind how she talks and applies her makeup at the same time
Elena, I had flunked out of college in 1975; I returned home and went to a career college not long afterwards. I was almost a straight A student there. I had just chosen a career path which was all wrong for me; there's nothing wrong with being technically inclined
Watching this cuz tomorrow I might have a test from geography and biology and i got no motivation
Just finished my first semester of college at my local Community College. I passed my classes and have a 3.7 gpa. But im worried since next semester im taking college algebra online for an 8 week term. Math has always been my weakness and fearing of failing it makes me worried even when I havent even started the class. I had already dropped the class this semester bc my professor accused me of cheating, and im scared and refuse to drop it again since I don't want to have 2 W's on my transcripts for when I transfer, yet alone an F and have to repeat the course. I genuinely have a fear of failure bc im a first gen hispanic and my parents have big dreams for me along with my brother whos still young and has autism, i just want to be an idol to him. Every day I stress and cry and fear because of this..... im just scared of my future at this point which causes me to have mixed emotions about why am I even still alive if i worry to much. For now I just have to keep pushing somehow... lets hope i can last
We just finished our 1st trimester in college and I'm having a mental breakdown because i failed all my classes and i don't know how to tell my parents about it.. Mechanical Engineering is so hard specially online. I just hope i could catch up🙏🏻
I feel ya. My 1st semester is about to end in a few weeks and I failed ALL of my classes and can't change it so I have to with draw from one course. College is so so hard. I wish I had people to talk to. Wish u the best!'
Are you guys interested in joining a discord ? I’m literally a first year in engineering and struggling too ! It would help to build an environment
Thank you so much for posting your experience and situation and everything that happened to you , because girl Im in the same boat right now. But this just gave me a wave of relief and faith that I can get back on track. Love you girl and god bless you. GO Elena!
I failed my math class first semester, because I just simply didn't understand what I was doing wrong, I would finish the tests and feel good and confident about how I did, but then I would get the score back and it would be like a 50 or 60%. I nearly failed two more clases that year because I simply just wasn't doing the work, somehow I managed to get a B in one and a C- in the other, idk how that even happened.
Online classes were hard and I hated my roommate, she wasn't even a bad person we just had VERY different living styles, she liked to party and get drunk all the time and she frequently had boys over overnight while I was quiet and preferred to focus on my academics. Doing homework with her in the room became increasingly difficult.
But then I moved out with almost no notice to her ahead of time(she was gone the day before I decided to move, I still regret it to this day) and I moved in with this awesome person that shares my values, unfortunately the people next door were even louder than my first roommate and they liked screaming in the middle of the night at like 2 AM but I didn't live with them and I was happy about that. I retook my math class and got a C, I'm about to start my second year on monday, I'm looking forward this year to having a somewhat normal college experience and normal roommates that don't keep me up at night.
Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that no matter how hard things seems now, they do eventually get better.
How has things been going? I'm a first time student about to finish my 1st semester and I failed all my courses. any support or wise words to keep me going? i feel like giving up but I'm scared
@@sixthharmony3670 what is ur major if u don’t mind me asking ? And honestly I’ve seen so many people fail and come back stronger! If time off is needed than go for it and you’ll see how much better it is coming back !