Just got a D (52%) on a test I studied so hard for. Hurts even more because I felt that I knew the topic inside and out and I believed that the test went really well. Guess I was wrong.
i feel you gal, i literally just got some essay feedback and i got 57 (2.2 in UK grading), cried for a bit but now I'm looking to Jordan peterson for some strength and wisdom so i don't become pessimistic and complacent.
@@crawfordbrown75 Okay, so you have assumed their pronouns are not s/he dichotomy - which is assuming their pronouns, only in line with your own personal ideology and ideolect. What is there to gain from making this statement and assumption? Are you not committing the same act you are condemning?
There’s no such course. It’s impossible to teach or learn how to fail without going through failure. Failure is inevitable and constant but so is success. The question isn’t how do we avoid failure but rather how do we measure failure/success and what does that constitute.
First year of Uni I had no idea about ratemyprofessor and foolishly never read course descriptions. For gen eds, I took a anthropology, philosophy and religion class and man those classes were depressing as hell
whew i had to grind through calculus. I'm studying to be a software dev, and calculus really isn't that important, it's the discrete maths which is important
One thing I learned as a failing student to a A plus student is that intelligence isnt based on your test scores. Intelligence is the way you combat your internal emotions and the way you challenge thos challenges into making better outcomes with critical problem solving skills. The way I went from failing to passing is practice, recall, analyse, and just told my self to do it. If others can do it you probably can to. Dont let your gaurd down. And dont beat your self up.
I've always used the scientific method as a way of looking at life. When you test a hypothesis, you step through possibilities and correct things based on outcome and evidence Life is the same way. When you do something that fails, it's important to not focus on the failure itself but rather the reason behind the failure, and correct it based on the evidence you find.
if its any consolation, people tend to associate 'intelligence' with letter grades- when really they have almost nothing to do with one another. The only relation they have, is that higher intelligence allows someone to learn, retain and apply information my quickly than others. (think of it like having more RAM on a computer. A 16gb RAM would have less lag when opening multiple tabs on a browser than an 8gb computer, but thats about it) "if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid" @@hayab9453
Dr. Peterson does a great job of generalizing very personal feelings. Its nice to know that everyone goes through the same feelings when confronted with difficult opportunities. If you convince yourself that it is a special circumstance, you may be inclined to "make an exception" for yourself. Recognizing that everyone goes through the same conflict may just help you push ahead of it rather than throwing in the towel preemptively.
He absolutely nailed my point of view on life, if you've got a problem the solution isn't giving up, it's working harder. Literally anything that's causing stress, find it's source and do anything you can to get rid of it
Yeah school isn't for everybody. I dropped out of college because I hate being taught something by someone especially something I don't want to learn. Instead I learned how to start my own business and do something I love which is art. What I learned from self teaching myself was learning how to get better at something and how to improve, rather in school it's learn how to memorize. It's a nice feeling fail at something compared to school. When you fail you know you can improve and your going the right direction. But in school failure isn't so good. Your parents and teachers scold you asking you "you have no future". School can teach you a lot stuff too like how to manage time, how to memorize things more effectively and drama.
@@yellowspike3344 yeah that’s what I don’t like schools. But I am in college and want to drop but I get stress and overwhelmed bc I don’t plans to start. I have social anxiety and worry about that I may not find a good job for not having a degree. I don’t know if I can manage to survive and plus I am afraid of my family opinion. What if they are right, what if I am wrong.
@@beverlybarrera8921 you hit the nail with all these worries, you know what you DONT like which is college but also have no idea on what you DO like or at least what you can do (in terms of abilities)
I just failed my calculus class today. I was very confident that I would pass my final, but I completely fumbled the bag. Weeks of studying and got slapped in the face with an F. I’m still in shock, but I won’t give up. Still can’t believe I failed my first class 😢
I had to repeat a year of college. The entire experience was horrific. At that stage in life I was still low on meaning, drive and purpose in life. I was still bouncing walls. What I can tell you is that I managed to remount myself and finish my studies and what I learned on the way is more important to me than the knowledge taught in the classes. I learned about things in life that straight A students maybe will never know because they will never be in a situation like that. Not saying you should flunk your exams, I'M saying that being in such a low point in life and managing to climb your way out of that makes a person stronger. Beware that the saying "what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" is wrong or better say incomplete. I might've as well raise my arms and quit and who knows where I might've end up. Just by getting out alive from a bad experience is not enough. There are people who can't recover from something bad that happened to them and God, family, friends or doctors can't do anything for them.
Almost in the same situation. Its weird what runs through your head. And when tough times hit and the people around me struggle or crumble and my mindset is 'meh, not the first time shit happened'. Then I go on and power through situations that I know would have broken the younger me before all the knocks life was given. The thing is bad things now could prepare you for a larger better success that you then need to be able to handle. So connecting to your final sentence, when no one can help you. That's when you as a person needs stand up and fight for yourself.
constrictum currently there now. I failed a whole semester and if I fail a few more classes I’ll have to completely change my major and start over again. I’m a sophomore though becoming a junior so I was wondering if it’s even worth it to continue to waste more years and then fail :/
That situation sucks nghhhh you just feel like a worthless piece of trash but there's more to life than a failure; luckily I have great friends that helped me to understand that and not quit so i'm okay now :D. If someone is going through that please look up for help and don't give up!
Repeating coursework in school because you didnt quite grasp it the first time was your "low point" in life talking bullshit about "making it out alive" when there are 18 year olds at war, people dealing with the loss of a loved one, search and rescue crews performing CPR for hours on a Dead child in the wilderness knowing full well they cant be resuscitated. Of course you were going to get through it if repeating homework was your low point. Your are too self important not to. Sure it's not fun but this is fucking ridiculous.
That's what happened when Colleges decided to monopolize acedamia into having everyone attend Colleges just to be able to do jobs that didn't previously require any degrees. As it turns out, the average person who's in College just because they want to work a job rather than them being genuinely passionate about academics just want to sing and party.
I'm failing microbiology right now and I'm stressing out so much. The drop date already passed so I can’t drop it, so it all relies on my final test grade now. I also want to go to med school so failing a class will really ruin my chances. I'm so down right now
@@thaidesigns9138 I retook the class this semester and passed it with an A. It’s ok to fail as long as you learn from it and do better next time. Retake it and give your all this time, and everything will be fine. If you’re planning on applying for med school, I talked with some doctors and they told me that a failed class is not a big deal, but they want to see that you do better next time and can prove to them that you can handle med school. If other people can do it, so can you! Just remember that it’s ok to fail, we all fail at some point in our lives!
A very smart man once told me, "Failure is the greatest teacher you will ever have." He was speaking about learning through failure in BJJ but I think that applies to anything in life.
This came up on my recommended and I’m happy it did. Last semester, I took a precal course and my first exam was a 57%, I felt so ashamed of myself and I was filled with anxiety, especially since I had just started my first semester in that college (I graduated from a 2 year community college). But then my next exam I got at 69% and with some extra credit I got a 5% boost. Third exam I got a 90, and the second around an 80. I always dropped the course and fell into a pit over that first 50, but then I ended up getting a B. Now I’m in calculus and I just got my first exam, 50%. Thanks for the TH-cam algorithmic system for recommending me this. I’ll keep pushing forward.
You’ll do fine man, honestly just make sure you touch up on your algebra and you’ll do well in calc-also did the classes you took let you use calculators?
Hello guys I’m sorry I never got to reply! I got my lowest grade so far on my degree from that calc course. I got a C. But then I took calc 2 and I got an A! Not only did I learn from my mistakes from calc 1 but I also had a brilliant professor who reignited my ability to do math! Keep going guys!
I had a major college failure over ten years ago that still haunts me over ten years later. Every now and then it gets brought up when someone wants to put me down. I need God's help to get over it and am praying I will be healed from that shame and disappointment of not being good enough when I had the chance to follow what had been my dream through even though I tried so hard
I failed first year of medicine and it gets brought up all the time by my family.... especially my mother.... Now I have failed again and I don't know how to tell them
@@wafiya1449 bro, don’t do it for them do it for you failure is not a bad thing. You are doing great don’t let your parents make you feel bad. Most people you see doing great things have failed before. I don’t know you but know that God loves you
I dropped 4 classes while I was a biotech major and stayed in classes and got Fs. What this guys says is right. Surrendering yourself to chaos is scary. It just created more problems for me.
I’m failing calc 3 and not sure if I should drop it or let the F go towards my gpa. I’m afraid my gpa drop is worse than the financial hit I’ll take from dropping.
I was actually kinda fucking scared when I clicked this because I was feeling anxious about my failed class I am taking again and he starts analyzing *EXACTLY* my thoughts as examples. I have never heard anyone even acknowledge that these are common thoughts, and he just went through my thought process in exact detail as an example. It fucking blew my mind. The thought of just "fuck it, I don't wanna deal with all this anymore, I don't know what I can do/I don't feel prepared to do it" is exactly what I feel, and just as I clicked this I was in the process of visualizing suicide again. He absolutely nailed it. I still have no idea what the fuck to do though.
stop analyzing by yourself and start asking others for guidance. college/university should offer study guidance. or at least someone to talk to, about how you can improve your work ethics etc. Also friends&family can give wonderful insight. dont keep wondering by yourself
Trust me I used to do this often, never worked. Motivational videos don't work because motivation comes from within, not what someone else on the Internet says.
Remember years ago I got a bad grade on the 1st test, immediately dropped retook the class with a different instructor and got As on everything, sometimes it's best to drop
At school and later in my college, I used to be a high scorer but things took a 180 degree turn when I got into the university life. I have failed in 16 subjects and failed again in many of them while repeating and failed thrice in a couple of them but the good thing is, I never gave up or even think of quitting. Sometimes, we understand a subject more than anyone in the class but perform terribly in exam. One simple solution to tackle this situation is to waste lesser time in just understanding and put more time into the exam perspective. Check for the past/previous papers from the previous sessions prepared by the same teacher for the same course. You'll get an idea what is required in the exam for the most of time. Give extra attention and solve the previous papers. Talk with your seniors and learn the psychology of the teacher. You'll get better grades and much more easily. Secondly, practice the problems by hand as much as possible. Best of luck
Good . Is it true you failed 16 subjects . I just cant believe this can be true .. is it true? Im not making fun of you or anything but i am not just being able to believe that you failed 16 courses
Well the dumb thing is, I study a lot everyday and most of my time in my day were spent trying to understand physic's concepts, practice doing mathematics and memorizing biology facts. But I failed those class! I used to fail a lot in high school. Because most of my time were spent doing anything other than studying. It seems to me now that, studying and not studying doesnt make a difference. I ask for consultation from my lecturers and ask for extra exercises. They expected me to do very well in my examinations because I always send my work in time, I ask a lot, I practice a lot. Well, the look of disappointment in their faces when they found out about marks really hurt me. Im just dumb and below the average. I dream of becoming a veterinarian and I know I have to work hard and go through many failures in life and school to achieve my dream. But I'm getting very very exhausted. Hanging myself actually sounds like a good idea
DON'T (please) you're inteligent in a different way (or your current study method doesn't work that well on you). Maybe you're burned out and should rest for a bit before taking any decision
I think educator's should teach kids not to be Afraid to make mistakes, to fail. Because that's how we learn, from making mistakes and learning from them. To be more resilient against adversity, so they can overcome the challenges they face.
He is right. You bypass one obstacle,....you get away from that one thing but you don't actually resolve the problem in another form, and you train your brain and self to say that "it's ok" and continue to reinforce the behavior.
There is so much truth to this. This very same lecture can be used when discussion depression, anxiety, or PTSD. You can throw out all investments, or you can learn from the mistake.
Yocontra elmundo I don't think being cryptic is necessarily a sign of intelligence. Sure, it can be an indicator. But it takes a good deal of intelligence to be able to explain complex concepts to a layman. As the saying goes, you don't really understand something until you can explain it to a 10-year-old.
There's something profoundly captivating about Mr. Peterson's method of teaching that compels me to give him my undivided attention without any instance of interruption. I can only surmise that it may be a combination of his speech-form, the way he presents himself in an aesthetic sense I suppose, and my acknowledgment that he is a well-cultured (if the word were to mean anything at all) and well-read man, which is the type of persona I look up to. I can only wish to one day be able to even partially emulate that type of influence and put my own personal spin on it, for I love the notion of being able to teach others the knowledge I've accumulated, and in turn being able to positively affect the lives of the people around me through that avenue.
I like to think the Romans would have appreciated his magnificent oration skills. Like Cicero. Amazing natural talent and a few other mystical elements.
I had a professor like him in college who got his PhD at Oxford - polished, professional, authoritative, and VERY easy to follow. I copied his lecture style note for note and use it whenever I give presentations - but not his English accent. :P
Literally going through all this right now, just failed an exam and everything. Only difference is I can't replace this class, have to take a series of them to advance my career. Or find another career, and at 38 I am not seeing many options. And all the things I imagined, it was exactly that, amazing how spot on he is. I just have to get through it and try harder, really I have no other option. Goddamnit.
I once, through some bad choices such as initially choosing the wrong major (ended up hating it) and going on an academic exchange on the 2nd year of my third choice major (but which I was loving and still love), ended up losing 2 years of my life, just wandering desperately and desolately. Those 2 years taught me more about myself and the world and life than I would've ever learn at university. I wouldn't change it. University is good for some kind of training (I study engineering), but most kids there wouldn't know how to react in the best way possible given the circumstance if faced by the failures of life that we all go through as stepping steps. Today, I know I've grown, seeing how I would act different, maybe better, when faced with uncertainty, than before. All can be a lesson if you're determined to overcome the obstacle.
This is a big dilemma for me. How do you know when you're being lazy or you've actually lost passion and shouldn't be compromising your time for something you don't enjoy? I guess it depends on how much value you place on the desired outcome. But does anyone really want to do anything difficult? I want to drop my calculus class because I'm failing and have forgotten most of the prerequisite material. It's tough whenever you don't know whether failure should be a point of redirection or motivation to work harder. I thought about being an engineer, but now I'm reconsidering, and I don't know if this is a sign that I should do something else I actually enjoy, or if feeling uninterested and detached is just part of it.
I was in the last class I needed to have a minor in math. It was very difficult and thought I’d have to drop it but decided I’d through some good effort into it anyways since if I pass it I’ll have that math minor. Managed to pass the second exam and stayed in the course. Wasn’t that interested in the material but I’m glad I made myself get through it. Later on in grad school I signed up for this chemistry class which I did end up dropping even before the first exam. In this case I already was having a pretty loaded semester and felt even if I were to put the effort into it it would leave me with pretty much no time left in the day. Also I was not interested in the material and did not see it helping me get anywhere, so I dropped the course. Just my experiences with class dropping.
i started studying engineering last year and I'm stuck in the second stage even when i study hard it doesn't work and started questioning life instead of answering questions
What if i don't have any plans for my future and I'm going through life like some legless bug without any optimism or whatever people have that I don't understand ?
I think your broken... Its not that you can be fixed, it's that nobody knows how to help you. You can do it yourself, but only if others quit stamping out your spark
@@Kap01 I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I WANT TO BE IN THE FUTURE. I'm in Grade 11 right now and almost going to college. I feel like I have no talent towards any particular subject and I don't know what job would fit me.
I lost my pointer lmao I got raped by all but one of my classes. Well time to drink! I have a crate of bourbon, a carton of smokes, and my tuner car. Let’s see how fast I can drive into the night.
Epic Rants hey man the first programming class is always the hardest hump to get passed, once you get the fundamentals down everything comes much easier trust me!
I recently failed Composition 1 for the second time. This is only my second semester and I'm in community college so I get this feeling like something is wrong. My first semester was a 16 week and about half way through I stopped going because I lost all motivation for that class. I retook it this semester for the 8 week session to see if that works. I'm gonna sign up again for after spring break for another 8 week class so I can finally move on to Comp 2. I like college, at least I don't struggle so hard in my other classes like I do in this one, and it's not really that I suck at writing (even though, that is true too) I just can't motivate myself to write, even when I sit down with zero distractions and focus souly on that work. I hate this class, but I know I have to get past it so I can do the ones I actually want to do.
I completely understand. For now, English is my intended major, but I have no motivation for my current class. It's all about research papers and I just can't force myself to write out those out. By the looks of it, I'm going to fail and have to take it again. I'm more of a creative writer, but I have to pass my current class in order to take an intro class on creative writing. I'm focusing on my other classes so I don't fail any others, but it just sucks.
I understand where you’re coming from. I’m currently failing composition 2 due to a complete lack of motivation. I can’t focus when writing and just find essays mind numbingly boring. I have been considering dropping the class to let my mind be free of the problem for now, but today I am meeting with my professor to see if there’s any way I can pass. The feeling sucks because I am so tired of thinking about this class but I need to get it done eventually. Either way it goes, it does not make me a failure and I am capable of getting up and pushing through as much as I can.
Im in a very similar situation with my composition class, except I still don’t know what I want to do, so a lot of the times I feel I’m just aimlessly going through the flows of college with no real purpose
Sticking to your framework because you've already invested in it is a sunken cost fallacy though. So he's right that you should be careful about blowing up the framework but the amount of effort invested in it should not be an argument.
Well it's assuming the reasons for investing that effort were correct in the first place. Analyzing those reasons for the framework would be within the bounds of a healthy response to failure.
OP, this is wrong. The amount of effort you put in entirely matters because what he said touches on the development of a person's ability to handle failure. You can know that getting this degree is good for you, but you just don't care. To suceed requires effort.
If the endeavor is pointless, harmful or otherwise unnecessary or incorrect, adding more investment of time and effort just because you started is a sunk cost problem. Throwing good time after bad is not useful. But again, it depends on the initial rationale and if it was incorrect or if something regarding that rationale has changed. I might discover that my choice of underwater basket weaving over engineering is a poor one. Reversing course/quitting/changing majors is a good choice. Following underwater basket weaving through to the bitter end just because you started is not.
Yes, that's correct. What he said does not limit the reasons of no effort. In fact he already did cover that right after. Amount of effort is merely a scale that ranges from 0 to infinite. You can be a 0 out of laziness, or 0 because you are a capable person who decided to input no effort without the small tinkling feeling of doubt.
There is a danger of that fallacy in such situations, but the analysis is not as simple as, "is there a better option?". If you've already sunken time, energy and resources into one course of action, you may not have those resources available to use on another, and hence it's better to stay with your current course than fail at another.
This actually helped me reframe my situation and break out of the negative spiral I was going down during this entire term. After taking a step back and looking at my new required courses needed to complete my major as I had changed it at the beginning of the term (but unsurprisingly the school only updated their systems to reflect said change near the end of term) and am now able to do things I wasn't able to before and more importantly, drop a course that was no longer mandatory to take. Now I have freed up so much time to actually finish the rest of the courses I have for this term and will take a different make up course for the summer. Fortunately, I have put myself in the financial position to take these kinds of hits, so all that negative spiraling was all for naught. I'm really glad youtube put this video into my feed when searching for advice on failing classes because sometimes having someone to remind you that all you need to do is lay out all your options and go through them one by one is all the push you need to realize that you're not doomed, you just need to try a new approach.
Your time isn't wasted. You are still learning, there is nothing with that. Just because you don't ace your classes at the first try doesn't mean you're hopeless. Never give up.
@Reloaded Past Godamn same thing happened to me. Im studyin eng physics and last semester didnt do shit(literally i Was the laziest mf there) so I lost calc2, chem2 and linear algebra. I took em again now and I studyin a lot holy shit. The thing is if I lose calc2 again i will change to economics coz i dont wanna lose my time in eng physics if im no gonna be able to pass even studyin hard.
Are you watching this because you've either failed an assignment, exam, you're at the lowest point in your life and you do not know what to do.... Because I am.....
@@Kurisuchaaaan same here.... I get worried about the what ifs, like what if I don't pass or don't succeed, what if I fail again. Its always this negative energy which makes everything worse......
I was in CRNA & was failing my classes. Only 2 C's are allowed during the entire program so instead of taking failing grades i just withdrew. Life happens, and I couldn't recoup. No matter how much I studied and how hard i tried i couldn't pull it together. This really made me question whether I'm good enough to go back.
So true, I hated this one professor a lot. But at some point I realized it was just my reaction to not passing the exam. He actually was a pretty cool guy
Failing a class for the first time in my life right now, i studied hard as hell for the midterm. I had the midterm today, worth 40%, and there was 4 questions. Got the first two easily , but the third a fourth were a weird system moment couple problem I’ve never seen, and 4 was balance the third part in equilibrium. Failed the test and now I can’t pass the class with anything more than a C , would be the lowest grade of my academic career, I don’t know what to do
This is what the world needs. Everyone experiences these feelings, very little know how to properly deal with them. That calls for someone to explain how to deal with such events! Why is there such a lack of content in this category?! Imagine if JP hadn't blown up because of politics! We would have missed out on such profound wisdom as this, which for me personally has come many years too late. Everybody in school, especially everyone who fails a class, should watch this video and learn about what they are feeling and how to deal with it.
I had a bad grade in my class and decided to stay in the class and studied and did the assignments still got a c- which is a non passing credit. So it’s true I’m questioning everything. I’m going to try again see what happens.
Was in a terribly bad place at university after the 2nd year...went to about 20 percent of the classes I had and in my disorientation I managed to scrape through the dirt and landed at the feat of my final two senior courses. GPA was too low so they understandably guillitined me. I'm not sure if I was clinging to a severely compromised frame, abandoning ship, or dancing between their murky waters. Dont do that. It sucks.
I feel like people forget that college isn’t like high school. People start and finish at varying times and no one really cares what year you’re in as long as you’re advancing.
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I don’t know if you are still struggling with it, but something that has always helped me is recording the most important things you need to remember and putting it on play when you are doing something or going to sleep.
its not just that I failed my first math quiz, its that I barely made it into this school, I barely made it into this class, I need this class for my desired major, my parents are breathing fire down my back to succeed, I just got an email from the school wanting to talk about that quiz with me, I just want to be like the other smart kids, Theres nothing wrong with me, Im loosing sleep over this, Im procrastinating more and more, all my other classes are starting to intensify, I keep digging the hole for myself, if watching as I destroy my future and more than half of me wants to say fuck it and jump of the cliff into a mad descent into desperation and poverty, a small portion of me is telling me to ignore the piercing attention of my elders and teachers and study harder, keep going, but this is one of the worst experiences of my life, and its all because I was too lazy to put in the time and effort to study. Like this is only the third week of my next 4 years... I already want to quit
Been following Peterson for about a couple of weeks from now cuz I just felt that he had something to say about school. Now that im in the verge of dropping my course, i hadn't entered a single zoom meeting of any of my subjects since the semester started. And its like every word he says is piercing through my soul right now. Damn it hit me alot.😔
Heh, I've dropped so many classes while attending junior college. I did eventually get a degree, but it's worth saying that some teachers just aren't great at presenting information. I had a calculus teacher that would repeat the same thing when you didn't understand a concept, without any variation, utterly useless for teaching me. I found more help at khan academy online than that particular professor.
This is just my first year of college and I'm so lost. I worked so hard this term but I still failed my class. I have never failed a class in my life, this failure just hit me. I feel so disappointed in myself, I'm a failure to my family... I know that the only step to take now is forward and do better. But I just don't know where to start. Please...help...I don't wanna give up, but this feeling is too painful.
Bean studying for the careers I really want I keep failing I’ve used all types of learning techniques trying to stay positive but it hurts I don’t know where to go from here
I failed a class from hydromechanics yesteraday by the set of mistakes in study plan and underestimating the role of mental stamina. Evening before exam I had absolute mental breakdown. Now just trying to recover before next semestr through few days off and paying emotional debt from these 5 months
Here's me in my college experience; whenever it seemed like I wasn't doing good in a class by the time we took our first exam, and I failed that exam - I dropped it...and I'm glad for it, because that saved my grade point average. AND it cleared up the time that I would've had to spend in that class, which allowed me to both focus on my other classes more or have more leisure time to handle the work-load better. The only semester where I COULDN'T do that, because the bookstore screwed me over, I ended up failing a class. But that was years ago, and I've long since gotten past it. And I've continued to drop classes that I didn't like and didn't care about almost every semester, and always felt better for having done it. Now here's the conundrum I'm in...I'm in my final semester and my family is expecting me to graduate, and because it's kind of a complicated process, I've had to get help from them to figure everything out. And worse, my father who lives in Mexico is taking a plan THAT weekend to be there for my graduation. And the senior seminar I'm in is taught by a leftist professor that I hate, because she keeps inserting her politics into the class and she LIES about a whole lot of things - Lies I've caught her in and called her out for - so much so, that I tend to tune her out, if I bother showing up to class at all... The thing is, I know that ignoring her and not showing up to class is not good for my ability to pass the class, but I honestly can't stand her as a professor. Plus the topic that we have for our final paper feels mind-numbingly mundane that I can't believe it's for - not just a college-level course - but for what should amount to be my FINAL college-level course. And yet, she's treating it like it's somehow going to be a difficult thing, and keeps assigning tertiary assignments, just to force students to actually do research on this topic before the final paper is even assigned yet. I can't stand it. At present, with me ignoring this woman and being psychologically drained by the sight of her and sound of her voice, I think I might have to accept that I won't be graduating this semester, so sorry dad, but god forbid you get on a plane to spend time with your son for Christmas without him having to graduate, huh?
Sometimes dropping a course is necessary because there is such a huge emphasis placed on GPA and maintaining as high a GPA as possible or you’re fucked, etc. with future programs. there’s a lot of pressure placed on the way a transcript looks, and that’s why dropping a class sometimes is the best thing to do.
So, what should I do? I have now more than 10 exams starting next month throughout the year, including resits. I'm in a path to an inevitable failure as I have lost my will to even try anything but sleep and play video games. I don't know what to do, or I don't know how to make myself get up to study even when the odds are against me. Oh and believe me, I have worked hard to get an A but still failed. That was the beginning of when my will died
hey, you need to quit video games. You have to accept that it's the same type of addiction as alcoholism, masturbation and heroin. View it as an evil that warps you neurologically and keep trying to quit. You most likely wont succeed on the first tries, but as long as you are trying, you will look back a few years from now and be grateful
You need to break the cycle. Since you don't think working will result in success, you sleep and play video games to relieve yourself of having to work and then fail. That relief is an addictive feeling. The bigger the task, the more relief you get. So leaving a massive, daunting task alone will only make you want to work on it even less. I'm stuck in it too, but I'm levering myself out. Set super small goals related to school. You gotta fix it, because not fixing it is even worse than failing school. It'll never stop and it will only get harder to break the habit. Get someone to monitor you. TALK with someone about it. If you need to use someone as a crutch to hold you accountable, do it. Eventually, you'll be able to stand on your own again.
I was on the verge of keeping books to the side because I prepared so much and the proffessor ended asking questions unrelated to the topic. I searched through videos and Jordan Peterson's lecture is most convincing.. so! We're maintaining a frame and never give up.
Aside from the philosophy advice we receive from watching these lectures I very much appreciate the sociological perspective. Why we do the things we do and how our minds work. To paraphrase if there is an issue we can't deal with for whatever reason, perhaps it is destructive to our own identity, we move up the chain of importance and try to obliterate the higher reasoning so we don't have to deal with it. So the people who are lazy and can't deal with the fact that they are lazy will move up the chain because they can't accept that they are lazy and that THEY need to change and obliterate that reasoning. "Well it's not my fault; it is 'X's' fault" It seems like this is the reasoning people who believe in the patriarchy use. It isn't my fault I can't do 'X' or 'Y' it is the patriarchy's fault. Next is the idea of why I hate swimming in lakes. I'm pretty sure there are no carnivorous fish in there, but I can't see everything and I'm not in a domain where I am ABSOLUTELY in control. I'm out of my element and as the controlling person I am it feeds into my discomfort. So I dislike it when my ordered world is thrown into disarray, because I seek structure and order. It is this rigidity of habit that keeps my habits, good or bad, very strong.
One thing i really understood very well watching the lectures of Prof. Peterson is That i could listen to his lectures all day long.... I wish i was his student
Not all scenarios can be applied. People drop classes for a reason. While dropping hurts pace progress, those who pay out of pocket may benefit from withdrawing. For example, I have a disability. If I am thinking I'd dropping a class, I base things in these criterion: 1.) Am I up crap creek by week 5? 2.) Is this class really needed that I'm doing poorly in? If yes, will dropping the easy class to focus on the hard class benefit me? Or is staying in the hard class most likely going to result in a 0.0 to 1.0 grade for the course? 3.) If it is not needed yet I'm taking the class that I'm doing so-so in, does it still interests me? 4.) Do I have the time to meet the demands of the workload? A person with a disability has to work harder at classes unless they have already taken similar courses in which they already have some knowledge. Just because a student comprehends basic algebra and can draw f (x) = x^2 +2 or the general graph of f (x) = 3sin( x +12) + 10 , doesn't mean they can do Calc 1. It just means they are prepared for Calc 1, possibly. It doesn't mean they will comprehend everything just as fast as the slowest person without a learning disability. If a student really wants to take Calc 1 but does not necessarily need it yet wants to pass such a weed out class to impress themselves, then dropping an easy class might actually make sense. This will help to devote more time. However, if said student can't possibly pass it by week 7, reversing by dropping the hard class in favor of the easy class makes sense.. However, if said student is in the 67% area in week 5 out if 10, will staying in this class benefit you? Replacing a class with another class dies not always make sense. It's am individual matter and hard to generalize.
When I was in college you needed 15 credit hours per semester (4 semesters per year) for 4 years to graduate with a Bachelor's degree. I always took 18 credit hours with the knowledge I will drop the worst class. The other classes I would buckle down on. There is no issue dropping a class. Heck, I dropped classes several times (sometimes more than once) and still graduated in 4 years because I always kept 15 credit hours.
Passed my cats ,and did my final exams. The results I got really gave me a shocker as I was so committed attending all the classes and also reading .I am motivated and want to better myself and to be proud of me
I've just found out that I failed my final year subject. I'm surprised cos no one in the past three consecutive years failed the final year. I'm having a meeting with my subject coordinator and see why I failed. I wanna graduate so bad and I just don't want to repeat this whole bs again.
I was so focused on passing that I forgot to enjoy learning what I was studying. I'm at the acceptance stage where failing only means I get to understand the subject better next time.
Be real with yourself. You came after you failed an exam/quiz which you have studied for it at the last minute, or the day before. Now, you’ve failed. You didn’t fail because you’re dumb. You failed because you didn’t put in work. Can’t cut corners and expect to be perfect!
The fact my son had a low gpa got me really sad and always thinking because education is power i contacted someone who claimed to help but got scammed. being scammed quiet a number of times, A concerned friend informed me about jack at first wasn't interested but later gave it a trial he got my sons gpa changed from 1.2 to 5.0 all A's i cant thank@ jack.smith_07 on Instagram enough i had to compensate him more for a job well done. we equally chat on whatsapp @+121399353727
im so lazy, when it comes to revision. I could spend a 1 hour a day and could pass everything at 90%+ but I decide to revise 9 hours before the exam....
Passed my cats ,and did my final exams. The results I got really gave me a shocker as I was so committed attending all the classes.I am motivated and want to better myself and to be proud of me
@@fbiclose6874 I don't know how legitimate your comment is, but I'm going to reply as if it is: I know in high school it seems like the entire world is what your world is, it feels like school, grades, and friends are everything, but it's not. I'm sorry to hear that you had a bad semester, and I know that has some unpleasant consequences, but you can come back from this. It might feel like everything is out of control, but if you break it down piece by piece, it becomes less scary. One semester of failed classes likely won't delay your graduation, I don't know how your school's scheduling works, but you likely will be able to make it up over the summer or instead of elective classes. Failing several classes will likely have hurt your GPA, that's not everything. What college you go to does not matter nearly as much as the school system seems to think it does. But break that down even further - what do you want to do? Do you need a 4 year degree for that or a 2 year degree, apprenticeship, or something else? Facing your parents likely won't be a fun time, and I don't know what your parents are like, but having a plan going forward will likely help. (i.e., this is what I will do differently next semester to have a better outcome.) I don't know your individual circumstance, and I'm sorry that you are in the position you are in, but you will be okay, you will be able to come back from this. High school is only 4 years of your life, you have everything ahead of you still, things will get a lot better. That may not seem like it means a lot coming from someone who left a comment saying she failed her first exam in one of her classes, and that's fair enough, but it's also coming from someone who is near the top of her class, and applying to medical schools. The world does not end with one bad semester.
Just got a D (52%) on a test I studied so hard for. Hurts even more because I felt that I knew the topic inside and out and I believed that the test went really well. Guess I was wrong.
Exact same thing im going to. It hurts more then normal because I put in the extra effort just to fail harder.
all the time
same thing happened to me, it hurted my motivation real bad
You’re not alone my friend. Studied to the best of my ability for a Calc II Test and it came out as a 66.
i feel you gal, i literally just got some essay feedback and i got 57 (2.2 in UK grading), cried for a bit but now I'm looking to Jordan peterson for some strength and wisdom so i don't become pessimistic and complacent.
The thing is. No one talks about the camera man or women who follows him around during his lectures. Thank you mysterious camera person.
Thank you mysterious camera robot
Ahem Camera *PERSON* Christ stop assuming gender pronouns...
@@crawfordbrown75 ur joking right?
@@SteamShinobi lol no??
@@crawfordbrown75 Okay, so you have assumed their pronouns are not s/he dichotomy - which is assuming their pronouns, only in line with your own personal ideology and ideolect. What is there to gain from making this statement and assumption? Are you not committing
the same act you are condemning?
Imagine the feeling of failing a course that teaches you how not to fail.
At that point I would just drop out and hang myself
probably pretty successful
I failed a semester because I didn't get the minimum grade on a course who is supposed to help you prepare your future
I did that
There’s no such course. It’s impossible to teach or learn how to fail without going through failure. Failure is inevitable and constant but so is success. The question isn’t how do we avoid failure but rather how do we measure failure/success and what does that constitute.
Imagine failing a class with a subject that you will never use in life just because that's what the system requires.
Especially if it’s not required for your major
History of grammar structure of English class for me. That class is ruining my life
First year of Uni I had no idea about ratemyprofessor and foolishly never read course descriptions. For gen eds, I took a anthropology, philosophy and religion class and man those classes were depressing as hell
@@karimzakaria9621 Lol I took anthropology and hated that class. The professor sucked and the tests made no sense. I got a B though.
whew i had to grind through calculus. I'm studying to be a software dev, and calculus really isn't that important, it's the discrete maths which is important
I was hoping this was a video showing Peterson announcing that he was giving everyone in his class a failing grade.
was expecting that fom the titel, got disappointed.
Maybe that's what he does after the video gets cut off and what we see here is him prepping them up for the big bombshell.
If not for the dash between his name and the title I would have thought that too, I bet that video is out there though lol
Zervus that would be funny "so you see the reason I brought this up is cause well.... yeah you all failed. Better luck next time" lmaooo
That's a bit sociopathic.
One thing I learned as a failing student to a A plus student is that intelligence isnt based on your test scores. Intelligence is the way you combat your internal emotions and the way you challenge thos challenges into making better outcomes with critical problem solving skills.
The way I went from failing to passing is practice, recall, analyse, and just told my self to do it. If others can do it you probably can to. Dont let your gaurd down. And dont beat your self up.
Are you for real because I'm really in a bad state and I really need to improve
I've always used the scientific method as a way of looking at life. When you test a hypothesis, you step through possibilities and correct things based on outcome and evidence
Life is the same way. When you do something that fails, it's important to not focus on the failure itself but rather the reason behind the failure, and correct it based on the evidence you find.
I got B- today and since it is 2 years masters class it will affect my grades,I felt like I was stupid because most people in my class got A
Practice, recall, analyze
Good Choice
Reminds me of flashcards but with the author, date, and item
if its any consolation, people tend to associate 'intelligence' with letter grades- when really they have almost nothing to do with one another.
The only relation they have, is that higher intelligence allows someone to learn, retain and apply information my quickly than others. (think of it like having more RAM on a computer. A 16gb RAM would have less lag when opening multiple tabs on a browser than an 8gb computer, but thats about it)
"if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid"
@@hayab9453
Dr. Peterson does a great job of generalizing very personal feelings. Its nice to know that everyone goes through the same feelings when confronted with difficult opportunities. If you convince yourself that it is a special circumstance, you may be inclined to "make an exception" for yourself. Recognizing that everyone goes through the same conflict may just help you push ahead of it rather than throwing in the towel preemptively.
Tyler Farmer a
Tyler Farmer that's true but my situation is unique and that sucks.
c I doubt it lol
c try me.
c I went there barefoot. DUH NUH NUHHH!
He absolutely nailed my point of view on life, if you've got a problem the solution isn't giving up, it's working harder. Literally anything that's causing stress, find it's source and do anything you can to get rid of it
Sometimes you have to give up though.
Yeah school isn't for everybody. I dropped out of college because I hate being taught something by someone especially something I don't want to learn. Instead I learned how to start my own business and do something I love which is art. What I learned from self teaching myself was learning how to get better at something and how to improve, rather in school it's learn how to memorize. It's a nice feeling fail at something compared to school. When you fail you know you can improve and your going the right direction. But in school failure isn't so good. Your parents and teachers scold you asking you "you have no future".
School can teach you a lot stuff too like how to manage time, how to memorize things more effectively and drama.
@@yellowspike3344 yeah that’s what I don’t like schools. But I am in college and want to drop but I get stress and overwhelmed bc I don’t plans to start. I have social anxiety and worry about that I may not find a good job for not having a degree. I don’t know if I can manage to survive and plus I am afraid of my family opinion. What if they are right, what if I am wrong.
@@beverlybarrera8921 you hit the nail with all these worries, you know what you DONT like which is college but also have no idea on what you DO like or at least what you can do (in terms of abilities)
@@chickennuggets1837 right, I'm really thinking about "what else can I do?" "What other options are there"
I just failed my calculus class today. I was very confident that I would pass my final, but I completely fumbled the bag. Weeks of studying and got slapped in the face with an F. I’m still in shock, but I won’t give up. Still can’t believe I failed my first class 😢
Same bru
same
Same
same issue landed me here
Hey can I ask you how it is going on now? Have you improved? If yes then how?
Is it bad that I am amazed by his lecture, but even MORE amazed by the sound he makes at 3:00?
wow that is trippy
i loved that that sound was so important that it got captioned in the subtitle :D
Feels great.
*pop*
It's such an easy sound to make tho ?
I had to repeat a year of college. The entire experience was horrific. At that stage in life I was still low on meaning, drive and purpose in life. I was still bouncing walls. What I can tell you is that I managed to remount myself and finish my studies and what I learned on the way is more important to me than the knowledge taught in the classes. I learned about things in life that straight A students maybe will never know because they will never be in a situation like that.
Not saying you should flunk your exams, I'M saying that being in such a low point in life and managing to climb your way out of that makes a person stronger.
Beware that the saying "what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" is wrong or better say incomplete. I might've as well raise my arms and quit and who knows where I might've end up. Just by getting out alive from a bad experience is not enough. There are people who can't recover from something bad that happened to them and God, family, friends or doctors can't do anything for them.
Almost in the same situation. Its weird what runs through your head. And when tough times hit and the people around me struggle or crumble and my mindset is 'meh, not the first time shit happened'. Then I go on and power through situations that I know would have broken the younger me before all the knocks life was given. The thing is bad things now could prepare you for a larger better success that you then need to be able to handle. So connecting to your final sentence, when no one can help you. That's when you as a person needs stand up and fight for yourself.
constrictum currently there now. I failed a whole semester and if I fail a few more classes I’ll have to completely change my major and start over again. I’m a sophomore though becoming a junior so I was wondering if it’s even worth it to continue to waste more years and then fail :/
That situation sucks nghhhh you just feel like a worthless piece of trash but there's more to life than a failure; luckily I have great friends that helped me to understand that and not quit so i'm okay now :D. If someone is going through that please look up for help and don't give up!
Repeating coursework in school because you didnt quite grasp it the first time was your "low point" in life talking bullshit about "making it out alive" when there are 18 year olds at war, people dealing with the loss of a loved one, search and rescue crews performing CPR for hours on a Dead child in the wilderness knowing full well they cant be resuscitated. Of course you were going to get through it if repeating homework was your low point. Your are too self important not to.
Sure it's not fun but this is fucking ridiculous.
Failing a class and having to retake a semester fucking terrifies me.
every uni orientation should speak about this. not about singing and partying
meshayurena yes!!
meshayurena Yes.
Yes
That's what happened when Colleges decided to monopolize acedamia into having everyone attend Colleges just to be able to do jobs that didn't previously require any degrees.
As it turns out, the average person who's in College just because they want to work a job rather than them being genuinely passionate about academics just want to sing and party.
I'm failing microbiology right now and I'm stressing out so much. The drop date already passed so I can’t drop it, so it all relies on my final test grade now. I also want to go to med school so failing a class will really ruin my chances. I'm so down right now
Me too I failed my human biology this semester and I am ashamed of myself. I know how you feel.
@@thaidesigns9138 I retook the class this semester and passed it with an A. It’s ok to fail as long as you learn from it and do better next time. Retake it and give your all this time, and everything will be fine. If you’re planning on applying for med school, I talked with some doctors and they told me that a failed class is not a big deal, but they want to see that you do better next time and can prove to them that you can handle med school. If other people can do it, so can you! Just remember that it’s ok to fail, we all fail at some point in our lives!
@@Lalabooey Thank you for the update, this really helped me
Glad I'm not the only one failing med classes
failing one class won’t ruin your chances, keep your head up and good luck this semester
A very smart man once told me, "Failure is the greatest teacher you will ever have." He was speaking about learning through failure in BJJ but I think that applies to anything in life.
However, academia has much greater punishment for failure and no one wants to help you. I also do BJJ, can’t wait to get back! Fuck school
This came up on my recommended and I’m happy it did.
Last semester, I took a precal course and my first exam was a 57%, I felt so ashamed of myself and I was filled with anxiety, especially since I had just started my first semester in that college (I graduated from a 2 year community college). But then my next exam I got at 69% and with some extra credit I got a 5% boost. Third exam I got a 90, and the second around an 80. I always dropped the course and fell into a pit over that first 50, but then I ended up getting a B.
Now I’m in calculus and I just got my first exam, 50%. Thanks for the TH-cam algorithmic system for recommending me this. I’ll keep pushing forward.
Galjo Feratovic how is calc going?
You’ll do fine man, honestly just make sure you touch up on your algebra and you’ll do well in calc-also did the classes you took let you use calculators?
How did calc go ?
Hello guys I’m sorry I never got to reply! I got my lowest grade so far on my degree from that calc course. I got a C. But then I took calc 2 and I got an A! Not only did I learn from my mistakes from calc 1 but I also had a brilliant professor who reignited my ability to do math! Keep going guys!
I'm doing PreCal right not and I'm barely passing
I had a major college failure over ten years ago that still haunts me over ten years later. Every now and then it gets brought up when someone wants to put me down. I need God's help to get over it and am praying I will be healed from that shame and disappointment of not being good enough when I had the chance to follow what had been my dream through even though I tried so hard
What kind of failure was it, if I may ask?
God is with you , try to speak with people about it. People that you trust
I failed first year of medicine and it gets brought up all the time by my family.... especially my mother....
Now I have failed again and I don't know how to tell them
@@wafiya1449 I'll be praying for you :) What is important is that you tried
@@wafiya1449 bro, don’t do it for them do it for you failure is not a bad thing. You are doing great don’t let your parents make you feel bad. Most people you see doing great things have failed before. I don’t know you but know that God loves you
I dropped 4 classes while I was a biotech major and stayed in classes and got Fs. What this guys says is right. Surrendering yourself to chaos is scary. It just created more problems for me.
I’m failing calc 3 and not sure if I should drop it or let the F go towards my gpa. I’m afraid my gpa drop is worse than the financial hit I’ll take from dropping.
@@zacharykelso6264I’m in the same situation but taking calc 1 . What did u chose to do?
@@zacharykelso6264in the same situation for Calc 3 what did you do?
Crazy how that “micro-failure” can derail your whole education process....
I imagined that Dr. Peterson is giving this little lecture right before passing back term papers or something and it made me bust out laughing.
DUDE BAHAHAHHAHAHAH
IM LAUGHING BAHAHAHA this comment wins
I was actually kinda fucking scared when I clicked this because I was feeling anxious about my failed class I am taking again and he starts analyzing *EXACTLY* my thoughts as examples.
I have never heard anyone even acknowledge that these are common thoughts, and he just went through my thought process in exact detail as an example. It fucking blew my mind.
The thought of just "fuck it, I don't wanna deal with all this anymore, I don't know what I can do/I don't feel prepared to do it" is exactly what I feel, and just as I clicked this I was in the process of visualizing suicide again. He absolutely nailed it.
I still have no idea what the fuck to do though.
stop analyzing by yourself and start asking others for guidance. college/university should offer study guidance. or at least someone to talk to, about how you can improve your work ethics etc. Also friends&family can give wonderful insight. dont keep wondering by yourself
2:00 I like how "oh" was its own finger and point
It symbolises the time it takes for you to realise "what just happened" after getting your grades.
*everyone fails test*
50% Class: I didn’t like it anyway
Other 50%: gotta work harder
Me: Let’s get the will by watching TH-cam...
Søren Steiniche Lmao that’s exactly what I’m doing right now
Trust me I used to do this often, never worked. Motivational videos don't work because motivation comes from within, not what someone else on the Internet says.
Same here,but im gonna work hard,its not gonna appear from nothing.
I’ve maintained a 4.0 for 9 weeks in chem and I just failed the 3rd test really bad. All the hard work about to not count
yep same thing happened to me with exams
For me, failing an exam only means room for trying a different route and learning about what you did wrong in the first place.
Remember years ago I got a bad grade on the 1st test, immediately dropped retook the class with a different instructor and got As on everything, sometimes it's best to drop
It feels like he's talking to me
He is.
At school and later in my college, I used to be a high scorer but things took a 180 degree turn when I got into the university life. I have failed in 16 subjects and failed again in many of them while repeating and failed thrice in a couple of them but the good thing is, I never gave up or even think of quitting. Sometimes, we understand a subject more than anyone in the class but perform terribly in exam. One simple solution to tackle this situation is to waste lesser time in just understanding and put more time into the exam perspective. Check for the past/previous papers from the previous sessions prepared by the same teacher for the same course. You'll get an idea what is required in the exam for the most of time. Give extra attention and solve the previous papers. Talk with your seniors and learn the psychology of the teacher. You'll get better grades and much more easily. Secondly, practice the problems by hand as much as possible.
Best of luck
Good . Is it true you failed 16 subjects . I just cant believe this can be true .. is it true? Im not making fun of you or anything but i am not just being able to believe that you failed 16 courses
@@x22972 I counted some D grades as F too as I had to repeat them anyways. Do you need any help?
@@sardarosamamaken5652 how long did the degree take
This is what I needed for failing this semester only talking one class that I hated
Same, I got an exam soon
I failed. Damn I feel like I try but not hard enough.
I spent 50h on an assignment for the lecturer to not read it properly and give me a d- on it
I can listen to Jordan all day. I don't even care what he speaks about at times.. it just has that energy.
Steve Duplantie agreed
Well the dumb thing is, I study a lot everyday and most of my time in my day were spent trying to understand physic's concepts, practice doing mathematics and memorizing biology facts. But I failed those class!
I used to fail a lot in high school. Because most of my time were spent doing anything other than studying.
It seems to me now that, studying and not studying doesnt make a difference.
I ask for consultation from my lecturers and ask for extra exercises. They expected me to do very well in my examinations because I always send my work in time, I ask a lot, I practice a lot. Well, the look of disappointment in their faces when they found out about marks really hurt me.
Im just dumb and below the average. I dream of becoming a veterinarian and I know I have to work hard and go through many failures in life and school to achieve my dream. But I'm getting very very exhausted.
Hanging myself actually sounds like a good idea
DON'T (please) you're inteligent in a different way (or your current study method doesn't work that well on you). Maybe you're burned out and should rest for a bit before taking any decision
DO IT
Im in high school rn and im failing everything because im not doing anything. Im a dumb fuck
@@bilalrahim2076 this is was 2 years ago, how do you feel when you see your old comment
yep ima hang myself as well, or just run away or something
I think educator's should teach kids not to be Afraid to make mistakes, to fail. Because that's how we learn, from making mistakes and learning from them. To be more resilient against adversity, so they can overcome the challenges they face.
He is right. You bypass one obstacle,....you get away from that one thing but you don't actually resolve the problem in another form, and you train your brain and self to say that "it's ok" and continue to reinforce the behavior.
There is so much truth to this. This very same lecture can be used when discussion depression, anxiety, or PTSD.
You can throw out all investments, or you can learn from the mistake.
This man is unbelievably smart
If even someone like you can understand him, he is not that smart
/r/iamverysmart
Yocontra elmundo I don't think being cryptic is necessarily a sign of intelligence. Sure, it can be an indicator. But it takes a good deal of intelligence to be able to explain complex concepts to a layman. As the saying goes, you don't really understand something until you can explain it to a 10-year-old.
Smart people communicate well
Huschibaba You just restated the first comment with more and bigger words.
There's something profoundly captivating about Mr. Peterson's method of teaching that compels me to give him my undivided attention without any instance of interruption. I can only surmise that it may be a combination of his speech-form, the way he presents himself in an aesthetic sense I suppose, and my acknowledgment that he is a well-cultured (if the word were to mean anything at all) and well-read man, which is the type of persona I look up to.
I can only wish to one day be able to even partially emulate that type of influence and put my own personal spin on it, for I love the notion of being able to teach others the knowledge I've accumulated, and in turn being able to positively affect the lives of the people around me through that avenue.
I like to think the Romans would have appreciated his magnificent oration skills. Like Cicero. Amazing natural talent and a few other mystical elements.
I had a professor like him in college who got his PhD at Oxford - polished, professional, authoritative, and VERY easy to follow. I copied his lecture style note for note and use it whenever I give presentations - but not his English accent. :P
u talk like ur trrying very hard to come off as smart.
@@klickj26 thought the same thing
@@klickj26to me too. "Profoundly captivating compels undivided attention instance interruption surmise combination speech-form aesthetic sense I suppose, acknowledgment well-cultured persona partially emulate personal spin notion knowledge accumulated positively affect avenue."
Literally going through all this right now, just failed an exam and everything. Only difference is I can't replace this class, have to take a series of them to advance my career. Or find another career, and at 38 I am not seeing many options. And all the things I imagined, it was exactly that, amazing how spot on he is. I just have to get through it and try harder, really I have no other option. Goddamnit.
I once, through some bad choices such as initially choosing the wrong major (ended up hating it) and going on an academic exchange on the 2nd year of my third choice major (but which I was loving and still love), ended up losing 2 years of my life, just wandering desperately and desolately. Those 2 years taught me more about myself and the world and life than I would've ever learn at university. I wouldn't change it.
University is good for some kind of training (I study engineering), but most kids there wouldn't know how to react in the best way possible given the circumstance if faced by the failures of life that we all go through as stepping steps. Today, I know I've grown, seeing how I would act different, maybe better, when faced with uncertainty, than before. All can be a lesson if you're determined to overcome the obstacle.
This is a big dilemma for me. How do you know when you're being lazy or you've actually lost passion and shouldn't be compromising your time for something you don't enjoy?
I guess it depends on how much value you place on the desired outcome. But does anyone really want to do anything difficult? I want to drop my calculus class because I'm failing and have forgotten most of the prerequisite material.
It's tough whenever you don't know whether failure should be a point of redirection or motivation to work harder. I thought about being an engineer, but now I'm reconsidering, and I don't know if this is a sign that I should do something else I actually enjoy, or if feeling uninterested and detached is just part of it.
I was in the last class I needed to have a minor in math. It was very difficult and thought I’d have to drop it but decided I’d through some good effort into it anyways since if I pass it I’ll have that math minor. Managed to pass the second exam and stayed in the course. Wasn’t that interested in the material but I’m glad I made myself get through it.
Later on in grad school I signed up for this chemistry class which I did end up dropping even before the first exam. In this case I already was having a pretty loaded semester and felt even if I were to put the effort into it it would leave me with pretty much no time left in the day. Also I was not interested in the material and did not see it helping me get anywhere, so I dropped the course.
Just my experiences with class dropping.
My exact feelings.
Hey I'm experiencing the same thing I'd love for you to update us on your situation
Thanks I needed this today after a terrible exam
i started studying engineering last year
and I'm stuck in the second stage
even when i study hard
it doesn't work
and started questioning life instead of answering questions
What if i don't have any plans for my future and I'm going through life like some legless bug without any optimism or whatever people have that I don't understand ?
This speaks to me.. I am in the same exact situation. I have no idea what I'm going to do in life and I have no idea how other people do it too.
Wohu Manah legless bug, my spirit animal.
you gotta find a goal or something that gives you hope without it you will feel miserable
I think your broken... Its not that you can be fixed, it's that nobody knows how to help you. You can do it yourself, but only if others quit stamping out your spark
@@Kap01 I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I WANT TO BE IN THE FUTURE. I'm in Grade 11 right now and almost going to college. I feel like I have no talent towards any particular subject and I don't know what job would fit me.
TH-cam showed me this days after I got raped by my calculus exam.
Same here
I lost my pointer lmao I got raped by all but one of my classes.
Well time to drink! I have a crate of bourbon, a carton of smokes, and my tuner car.
Let’s see how fast I can drive into the night.
I got beaten and strangled by my first programming class, you're not alone man
Epic Rants hey man the first programming class is always the hardest hump to get passed, once you get the fundamentals down everything comes much easier trust me!
@@Mostdope691 alright thank you
I recently failed Composition 1 for the second time. This is only my second semester and I'm in community college so I get this feeling like something is wrong. My first semester was a 16 week and about half way through I stopped going because I lost all motivation for that class. I retook it this semester for the 8 week session to see if that works. I'm gonna sign up again for after spring break for another 8 week class so I can finally move on to Comp 2.
I like college, at least I don't struggle so hard in my other classes like I do in this one, and it's not really that I suck at writing (even though, that is true too) I just can't motivate myself to write, even when I sit down with zero distractions and focus souly on that work. I hate this class, but I know I have to get past it so I can do the ones I actually want to do.
I completely understand. For now, English is my intended major, but I have no motivation for my current class. It's all about research papers and I just can't force myself to write out those out. By the looks of it, I'm going to fail and have to take it again.
I'm more of a creative writer, but I have to pass my current class in order to take an intro class on creative writing. I'm focusing on my other classes so I don't fail any others, but it just sucks.
I understand where you’re coming from. I’m currently failing composition 2 due to a complete lack of motivation. I can’t focus when writing and just find essays mind numbingly boring. I have been considering dropping the class to let my mind be free of the problem for now, but today I am meeting with my professor to see if there’s any way I can pass. The feeling sucks because I am so tired of thinking about this class but I need to get it done eventually. Either way it goes, it does not make me a failure and I am capable of getting up and pushing through as much as I can.
Im in a very similar situation with my composition class, except I still don’t know what I want to do, so a lot of the times I feel I’m just aimlessly going through the flows of college with no real purpose
So a lot of the time I find it hard for me to keep pushing myself
This guy is incredibly well-spoken. Explained a complex idea with concise reasoning.
1:13 I literally laughed so loud after Dr. Peterson said that.
I feel like it's a good idea right now lol
Sticking to your framework because you've already invested in it is a sunken cost fallacy though. So he's right that you should be careful about blowing up the framework but the amount of effort invested in it should not be an argument.
Well it's assuming the reasons for investing that effort were correct in the first place. Analyzing those reasons for the framework would be within the bounds of a healthy response to failure.
OP, this is wrong. The amount of effort you put in entirely matters because what he said touches on the development of a person's ability to handle failure.
You can know that getting this degree is good for you, but you just don't care. To suceed requires effort.
If the endeavor is pointless, harmful or otherwise unnecessary or incorrect, adding more investment of time and effort just because you started is a sunk cost problem.
Throwing good time after bad is not useful.
But again, it depends on the initial rationale and if it was incorrect or if something regarding that rationale has changed.
I might discover that my choice of underwater basket weaving over engineering is a poor one. Reversing course/quitting/changing majors is a good choice. Following underwater basket weaving through to the bitter end just because you started is not.
Yes, that's correct. What he said does not limit the reasons of no effort. In fact he already did cover that right after.
Amount of effort is merely a scale that ranges from 0 to infinite. You can be a 0 out of laziness, or 0 because you are a capable person who decided to input no effort without the small tinkling feeling of doubt.
There is a danger of that fallacy in such situations, but the analysis is not as simple as, "is there a better option?". If you've already sunken time, energy and resources into one course of action, you may not have those resources available to use on another, and hence it's better to stay with your current course than fail at another.
This actually helped me reframe my situation and break out of the negative spiral I was going down during this entire term.
After taking a step back and looking at my new required courses needed to complete my major as I had changed it at the beginning of the term (but unsurprisingly the school only updated their systems to reflect said change near the end of term) and am now able to do things I wasn't able to before and more importantly, drop a course that was no longer mandatory to take.
Now I have freed up so much time to actually finish the rest of the courses I have for this term and will take a different make up course for the summer. Fortunately, I have put myself in the financial position to take these kinds of hits, so all that negative spiraling was all for naught.
I'm really glad youtube put this video into my feed when searching for advice on failing classes because sometimes having someone to remind you that all you need to do is lay out all your options and go through them one by one is all the push you need to realize that you're not doomed, you just need to try a new approach.
I'm studying and still failing
Same idek what to do
But do you have a social life or sleep well? You cant say you “study” until those 2 are gone aswell
Harry Gerry what is your new major just curios
Your time isn't wasted. You are still learning, there is nothing with that.
Just because you don't ace your classes at the first try doesn't mean you're hopeless. Never give up.
@Reloaded Past Godamn same thing happened to me. Im studyin eng physics and last semester didnt do shit(literally i Was the laziest mf there) so I lost calc2, chem2 and linear algebra.
I took em again now and I studyin a lot holy shit.
The thing is if I lose calc2 again i will change to economics coz i dont wanna lose my time in eng physics if im no gonna be able to pass even studyin hard.
Are you watching this because you've either failed an assignment, exam, you're at the lowest point in your life and you do not know what to do.... Because I am.....
Yeah, it so sad to think about I get anxious everyday because of it
@@Kurisuchaaaan same here.... I get worried about the what ifs, like what if I don't pass or don't succeed, what if I fail again. Its always this negative energy which makes everything worse......
@@munaasd How are you doing now man?
@@Kurisuchaaaan How are you doing now man?
Yes
I was in CRNA & was failing my classes. Only 2 C's are allowed during the entire program so instead of taking failing grades i just withdrew. Life happens, and I couldn't recoup. No matter how much I studied and how hard i tried i couldn't pull it together. This really made me question whether I'm good enough to go back.
So true, I hated this one professor a lot. But at some point I realized it was just my reaction to not passing the exam. He actually was a pretty cool guy
I've read a couple of books on behavior and psychology but watching these videos just distills the information in a much better way. Brilliant.
Failing a class for the first time in my life right now, i studied hard as hell for the midterm. I had the midterm today, worth 40%, and there was 4 questions. Got the first two easily , but the third a fourth were a weird system moment couple problem I’ve never seen, and 4 was balance the third part in equilibrium. Failed the test and now I can’t pass the class with anything more than a C , would be the lowest grade of my academic career, I don’t know what to do
Aye just finished mine and got 42%🙃 dropped it
Accounting?
This is what the world needs. Everyone experiences these feelings, very little know how to properly deal with them. That calls for someone to explain how to deal with such events! Why is there such a lack of content in this category?! Imagine if JP hadn't blown up because of politics! We would have missed out on such profound wisdom as this, which for me personally has come many years too late. Everybody in school, especially everyone who fails a class, should watch this video and learn about what they are feeling and how to deal with it.
I had a bad grade in my class and decided to stay in the class and studied and did the assignments still got a c- which is a non passing credit. So it’s true I’m questioning everything. I’m going to try again see what happens.
0:14 so important and really relatable graph for me
The thing is i didnt even study hard in the beginning, i cant bring myself to open the book, how do i solve that problem?
Was in a terribly bad place at university after the 2nd year...went to about 20 percent of the classes I had and in my disorientation I managed to scrape through the dirt and landed at the feat of my final two senior courses. GPA was too low so they understandably guillitined me. I'm not sure if I was clinging to a severely compromised frame, abandoning ship, or dancing between their murky waters. Dont do that. It sucks.
I feel like people forget that college isn’t like high school. People start and finish at varying times and no one really cares what year you’re in as long as you’re advancing.
The fact my son had a low gpa got me really sad and always thinking because education is power i contacted someone who claimed to help but got scammed. being scammed quiet a number of times, A concerned friend informed me about jack at first wasn't interested but later gave it a trial he got my sons gpa changed from 1.2 to 5.0 all A's i cant thank@ jack.smith_07 on Instagram enough i had to compensate him more for a job well done. we equally chat on whatsapp @+121399353727
sometimes it's pressure from family
Thank you jordan, of the 9 tests ive taken ive gotten 5 Fs 2 Cs and 2 Bs and im so homesick and stressed that i needed this
I don’t know if you are still struggling with it, but something that has always helped me is recording the most important things you need to remember and putting it on play when you are doing something or going to sleep.
its not just that I failed my first math quiz, its that I barely made it into this school, I barely made it into this class, I need this class for my desired major, my parents are breathing fire down my back to succeed, I just got an email from the school wanting to talk about that quiz with me, I just want to be like the other smart kids, Theres nothing wrong with me, Im loosing sleep over this, Im procrastinating more and more, all my other classes are starting to intensify, I keep digging the hole for myself, if watching as I destroy my future and more than half of me wants to say fuck it and jump of the cliff into a mad descent into desperation and poverty, a small portion of me is telling me to ignore the piercing attention of my elders and teachers and study harder, keep going, but this is one of the worst experiences of my life, and its all because I was too lazy to put in the time and effort to study. Like this is only the third week of my next 4 years... I already want to quit
Same situation here man I hate it, I already dropped my math class i might drop my chemistry class too because I’m stressed out
Been following Peterson for about a couple of weeks from now cuz I just felt that he had something to say about school. Now that im in the verge of dropping my course, i hadn't entered a single zoom meeting of any of my subjects since the semester started. And its like every word he says is piercing through my soul right now. Damn it hit me alot.😔
Heh, I've dropped so many classes while attending junior college. I did eventually get a degree, but it's worth saying that some teachers just aren't great at presenting information.
I had a calculus teacher that would repeat the same thing when you didn't understand a concept, without any variation, utterly useless for teaching me. I found more help at khan academy online than that particular professor.
Had a C a whole semester then it dropped down last second and got a D+, I need to change my major or something. College is pissing me off
Damn I just failed 3 of my 4 classes and I do feel a lack of importance on education crazy how I stumbled on this
@Max dang bro
The way he locks his attention on the students or his audience in general is soo coool
1:14
Doesn't sound like such a bad idea, now when I think about it
This is just my first year of college and I'm so lost. I worked so hard this term but I still failed my class. I have never failed a class in my life, this failure just hit me. I feel so disappointed in myself, I'm a failure to my family... I know that the only step to take now is forward and do better. But I just don't know where to start. Please...help...I don't wanna give up, but this feeling is too painful.
I'm going through the same thing.
@@yotiexclusive8939 We can do it bro. We just have to keep looking forward :)
3:00 that perfect sound xD
Bean studying for the careers I really want I keep failing I’ve used all types of learning techniques trying to stay positive but it hurts I don’t know where to go from here
When you click on the more bite sized videos and end up wanting the whole lecture
Thank you sir, you helped to get over this chaos.
Failed? Either retake it or move on. No big deal.
Get ‘er done
I discovered civilization it is a big deal if it effects your gpa
It is a big deal for financial aid dummy
I discovered civilization or fail multiple classes in the same semester.
I’m going to drown out the demons
ree me right now😭😭😭
I failed a class from hydromechanics yesteraday by the set of mistakes in study plan and underestimating the role of mental stamina. Evening before exam I had absolute mental breakdown. Now just trying to recover before next semestr through few days off and paying emotional debt from these 5 months
Here's me in my college experience; whenever it seemed like I wasn't doing good in a class by the time we took our first exam, and I failed that exam - I dropped it...and I'm glad for it, because that saved my grade point average. AND it cleared up the time that I would've had to spend in that class, which allowed me to both focus on my other classes more or have more leisure time to handle the work-load better.
The only semester where I COULDN'T do that, because the bookstore screwed me over, I ended up failing a class. But that was years ago, and I've long since gotten past it. And I've continued to drop classes that I didn't like and didn't care about almost every semester, and always felt better for having done it.
Now here's the conundrum I'm in...I'm in my final semester and my family is expecting me to graduate, and because it's kind of a complicated process, I've had to get help from them to figure everything out. And worse, my father who lives in Mexico is taking a plan THAT weekend to be there for my graduation. And the senior seminar I'm in is taught by a leftist professor that I hate, because she keeps inserting her politics into the class and she LIES about a whole lot of things - Lies I've caught her in and called her out for - so much so, that I tend to tune her out, if I bother showing up to class at all...
The thing is, I know that ignoring her and not showing up to class is not good for my ability to pass the class, but I honestly can't stand her as a professor. Plus the topic that we have for our final paper feels mind-numbingly mundane that I can't believe it's for - not just a college-level course - but for what should amount to be my FINAL college-level course. And yet, she's treating it like it's somehow going to be a difficult thing, and keeps assigning tertiary assignments, just to force students to actually do research on this topic before the final paper is even assigned yet. I can't stand it.
At present, with me ignoring this woman and being psychologically drained by the sight of her and sound of her voice, I think I might have to accept that I won't be graduating this semester, so sorry dad, but god forbid you get on a plane to spend time with your son for Christmas without him having to graduate, huh?
Sometimes dropping a course is necessary because there is such a huge emphasis placed on GPA and maintaining as high a GPA as possible or you’re fucked, etc. with future programs. there’s a lot of pressure placed on the way a transcript looks, and that’s why dropping a class sometimes is the best thing to do.
So, what should I do? I have now more than 10 exams starting next month throughout the year, including resits. I'm in a path to an inevitable failure as I have lost my will to even try anything but sleep and play video games. I don't know what to do, or I don't know how to make myself get up to study even when the odds are against me. Oh and believe me, I have worked hard to get an A but still failed. That was the beginning of when my will died
You still alive m8? How's it all going?
hey, you need to quit video games. You have to accept that it's the same type of addiction as alcoholism, masturbation and heroin. View it as an evil that warps you neurologically and keep trying to quit. You most likely wont succeed on the first tries, but as long as you are trying, you will look back a few years from now and be grateful
You need to break the cycle. Since you don't think working will result in success, you sleep and play video games to relieve yourself of having to work and then fail. That relief is an addictive feeling. The bigger the task, the more relief you get. So leaving a massive, daunting task alone will only make you want to work on it even less. I'm stuck in it too, but I'm levering myself out. Set super small goals related to school. You gotta fix it, because not fixing it is even worse than failing school. It'll never stop and it will only get harder to break the habit. Get someone to monitor you. TALK with someone about it. If you need to use someone as a crutch to hold you accountable, do it. Eventually, you'll be able to stand on your own again.
I was on the verge of keeping books to the side because I prepared so much and the proffessor ended asking questions unrelated to the topic. I searched through videos and Jordan Peterson's lecture is most convincing.. so! We're maintaining a frame and never give up.
Aside from the philosophy advice we receive from watching these lectures I very much appreciate the sociological perspective. Why we do the things we do and how our minds work. To paraphrase if there is an issue we can't deal with for whatever reason, perhaps it is destructive to our own identity, we move up the chain of importance and try to obliterate the higher reasoning so we don't have to deal with it. So the people who are lazy and can't deal with the fact that they are lazy will move up the chain because they can't accept that they are lazy and that THEY need to change and obliterate that reasoning. "Well it's not my fault; it is 'X's' fault" It seems like this is the reasoning people who believe in the patriarchy use. It isn't my fault I can't do 'X' or 'Y' it is the patriarchy's fault.
Next is the idea of why I hate swimming in lakes. I'm pretty sure there are no carnivorous fish in there, but I can't see everything and I'm not in a domain where I am ABSOLUTELY in control. I'm out of my element and as the controlling person I am it feeds into my discomfort. So I dislike it when my ordered world is thrown into disarray, because I seek structure and order. It is this rigidity of habit that keeps my habits, good or bad, very strong.
Every failure is a stepping stone to success.
One thing i really understood very well watching the lectures of Prof. Peterson is
That i could listen to his lectures all day long.... I wish i was his student
Not all scenarios can be applied. People drop classes for a reason. While dropping hurts pace progress, those who pay out of pocket may benefit from withdrawing. For example, I have a disability. If I am thinking I'd dropping a class, I base things in these criterion:
1.) Am I up crap creek by week 5?
2.) Is this class really needed that I'm doing poorly in? If yes, will dropping the easy class to focus on the hard class benefit me? Or is staying in the hard class most likely going to result in a 0.0 to 1.0 grade for the course?
3.) If it is not needed yet I'm taking the class that I'm doing so-so in, does it still interests me?
4.) Do I have the time to meet the demands of the workload? A person with a disability has to work harder at classes unless they have already taken similar courses in which they already have some knowledge. Just because a student comprehends basic algebra and can draw f (x) = x^2 +2 or the general graph of f (x) = 3sin( x +12) + 10 , doesn't mean they can do Calc 1. It just means they are prepared for Calc 1, possibly. It doesn't mean they will comprehend everything just as fast as the slowest person without a learning disability. If a student really wants to take Calc 1 but does not necessarily need it yet wants to pass such a weed out class to impress themselves, then dropping an easy class might actually make sense. This will help to devote more time. However, if said student can't possibly pass it by week 7, reversing by dropping the hard class in favor of the easy class makes sense.. However, if said student is in the 67% area in week 5 out if 10, will staying in this class benefit you? Replacing a class with another class dies not always make sense. It's am individual matter and hard to generalize.
In a world where we all have free access to Peterson's classes anywhere in the world- I should have dropped out sooner.
When I was in college you needed 15 credit hours per semester (4 semesters per year) for 4 years to graduate with a Bachelor's degree. I always took 18 credit hours with the knowledge I will drop the worst class. The other classes I would buckle down on. There is no issue dropping a class. Heck, I dropped classes several times (sometimes more than once) and still graduated in 4 years because I always kept 15 credit hours.
What do you do if you've done your best, but you fail anyway?
this is very well said. helped me understand my head more. thank you
Why can’t all college professors be this engaging and not solely using E-Learning
Passed my cats ,and did my final exams. The results I got really gave me a shocker as I was so committed attending all the classes and also reading .I am motivated and want to better myself and to be proud of me
I just failed an exam today ..and the worst part every one got great marks exept me..
I haven't failed a class or a subject or a test since 1982. I failed in 1981 and did not like the feeling, so I stopped failing.
I've just found out that I failed my final year subject. I'm surprised cos no one in the past three consecutive years failed the final year. I'm having a meeting with my subject coordinator and see why I failed. I wanna graduate so bad and I just don't want to repeat this whole bs again.
hey did you graduate or repeaat? sort of in the same boat as you.
I was so focused on passing that I forgot to enjoy learning what I was studying. I'm at the acceptance stage where failing only means I get to understand the subject better next time.
Be real with yourself. You came after you failed an exam/quiz which you have studied for it at the last minute, or the day before. Now, you’ve failed. You didn’t fail because you’re dumb. You failed because you didn’t put in work. Can’t cut corners and expect to be perfect!
Get well Dr. Peterson. God Bless.
The fact my son had a low gpa got me really sad and always thinking because education is power i contacted someone who claimed to help but got scammed. being scammed quiet a number of times, A concerned friend informed me about jack at first wasn't interested but later gave it a trial he got my sons gpa changed from 1.2 to 5.0 all A's i cant thank@ jack.smith_07 on Instagram enough i had to compensate him more for a job well done. we equally chat on whatsapp @+121399353727
im so lazy, when it comes to revision. I could spend a 1 hour a day and could pass everything at 90%+ but I decide to revise 9 hours before the exam....
how many times have i come back to this vid
I’d rather fail then give up. At least I tried. This is coming from a human who almost failed 3 classses my first year of university
How's the gpa?
Damn I wanted to hear more , upset it was cut off at 4:36 ahah
Passed my cats ,and did my final exams. The results I got really gave me a shocker as I was so committed attending all the classes.I am motivated and want to better myself and to be proud of me
Helpful to hear after flunking the first Microbiology exam.
I failed all my classes this semester and my parents are going to kill me and I don't know what to do (also I'm not in college, I'm in high school)
@@fbiclose6874 I don't know how legitimate your comment is, but I'm going to reply as if it is: I know in high school it seems like the entire world is what your world is, it feels like school, grades, and friends are everything, but it's not. I'm sorry to hear that you had a bad semester, and I know that has some unpleasant consequences, but you can come back from this. It might feel like everything is out of control, but if you break it down piece by piece, it becomes less scary. One semester of failed classes likely won't delay your graduation, I don't know how your school's scheduling works, but you likely will be able to make it up over the summer or instead of elective classes. Failing several classes will likely have hurt your GPA, that's not everything. What college you go to does not matter nearly as much as the school system seems to think it does. But break that down even further - what do you want to do? Do you need a 4 year degree for that or a 2 year degree, apprenticeship, or something else? Facing your parents likely won't be a fun time, and I don't know what your parents are like, but having a plan going forward will likely help. (i.e., this is what I will do differently next semester to have a better outcome.) I don't know your individual circumstance, and I'm sorry that you are in the position you are in, but you will be okay, you will be able to come back from this. High school is only 4 years of your life, you have everything ahead of you still, things will get a lot better.
That may not seem like it means a lot coming from someone who left a comment saying she failed her first exam in one of her classes, and that's fair enough, but it's also coming from someone who is near the top of her class, and applying to medical schools. The world does not end with one bad semester.