Getting Married This Fall, When Should We Buy a House?

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  • Getting Married This Fall, When Should We Buy a House?
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  • @kirkraszman7998
    @kirkraszman7998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Why do people think that as soon as they get married they need to buy a house. Why not wait a year or two, and pile up a bunch of money.

    • @perotal
      @perotal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Because home ownership is a religion

    • @christinebutler7630
      @christinebutler7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Because most people who.take the trouble to get married want kids.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@christinebutler7630
      Most already started having kids before getting married.

    • @bigman8130
      @bigman8130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God forbid people live

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Because society brainwashed and scammed everyone into thinking they need to buy a house as soon as possible.

  • @PhilosphyCore
    @PhilosphyCore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Imagine being able to buy a house with 40k a year. Definitely not in California, Hawaii or NY city

    • @caitlinlorea912
      @caitlinlorea912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or Utah

    • @blessedwifeandmama
      @blessedwifeandmama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Def not NYC 😭😭

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      During the Great Recession, 30+ houses in my PHX subdivision sold $40K- $100K.
      I was making $37K take home, I bought a house, but I had 20% down.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Subiendo Voz
      Plenty of places to buy a home making $40k a year.

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @truthseeker6370
    @truthseeker6370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Did I hear correctly, that they have 20-25k saved because of unemployment assistance?

  • @clockwork9825
    @clockwork9825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Whenever you can afford one! ☠️ duhhhh

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @apeacefulmcadory1627
    @apeacefulmcadory1627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Those degrees made me cringe.

  • @Corkfish1
    @Corkfish1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Buy a house when you can do it without having to get in a bidding war.

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @josephcoatofmanycolors
    @josephcoatofmanycolors 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Dave scream at 3:18 reminds of Peter griffin.

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @louib716
    @louib716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Idk what the going rate for Boston houses is, but if he's gonna be there for a while, knows the area, and has a down payment, getting a house once his life settles down is fine. They are a super awesome couple.

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @amorestperpe
    @amorestperpe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey now.... I was renting when I was 32.

  • @multistack1502
    @multistack1502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    First as usual and don’t be in such a rush!!

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @GabrielMartinez-sd8pc
    @GabrielMartinez-sd8pc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Never underestimate the power of renting for a short season to recalibrate your finances to save for bigger, long term investments like a house. I know people say you're throwing money away renting but in the aggregate, renting is a good short term solution until you find that house you can afford.

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @miketheyunggod2534
    @miketheyunggod2534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Imagine being a married adult and not able to make your own decisions.

    • @williamsfletcher6911
      @williamsfletcher6911 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Alison Rodriguez wow, you have achieved a lot and I'm happy for you man🤝.

    • @davidcarl7812
      @davidcarl7812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Alison Rodriguez I'm so happy for you... I have always wished I could buy those comfortable houses for my family

    • @jonesmariah4292
      @jonesmariah4292 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also want to buy my own house, please can you help me, I have a minor business I want to boost financially 🙏

    • @matteocarl5005
      @matteocarl5005 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Alison Rodriguez congratulations..... Would you mind share your success I need to tap from you. Lol

  • @karinhansen4281
    @karinhansen4281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good information

  • @special_k-hvac
    @special_k-hvac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In before all the comments come in saying renting is a bad idea, that they should just buy a house blah blah blah

    • @dedalliance1
      @dedalliance1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean, renting is typically a bad idea.

    • @special_k-hvac
      @special_k-hvac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dedalliance1 is it though? For long term wealth home ownership is a good idea but for a number of reasons several of which were mentioned in the video renting is a better idea

    • @Corkfish1
      @Corkfish1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dedalliance1 i have a friend who bought his house in 2005 for just over a million dollars. He sold it in 2019 for $835k. He only wishes he had rented

  • @tomdrummy4984
    @tomdrummy4984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Should be an easy decision compared to deciding who to spend your life with. 🙂

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @vinodkpgowda
    @vinodkpgowda 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Mr. Ramsey, I have been binge watching your videos for a week now, I find them very simple, informative and helpful.
    My father agrees with you on avoiding debt and he lived his life the same way.
    But, I recently found out about, "house hacking", which millennials are digging it to acquire rental properties through FHA loan and renting different portions of house to different people and earning more than monthly mortgage.
    Personally, I think this is very complicated and risky.
    What do you say?
    I'm not from USA, so asking here in comment section, I don't know how else I could connect with you?
    I would be glad, if anyone else can explain/discuss about this.
    Thanks

  • @ProfessorFinanceOfficial
    @ProfessorFinanceOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'd buy the shirt

  • @jeffdorris5321
    @jeffdorris5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice work 🎇✨🎆

  • @Hustle_And_Grow23
    @Hustle_And_Grow23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Buying a house was the best financial decision I ever made!

    • @Corkfish1
      @Corkfish1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My house was the worst investment I ever made!

    • @santiagoperaza967
      @santiagoperaza967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Corkfish1 explain why ?

    • @nczioox1116
      @nczioox1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@santiagoperaza967 could be anything but some houses require extensive repairs and maintenance

    • @santiagoperaza967
      @santiagoperaza967 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nczioox1116 how about a new house ?

    • @santiagoperaza967
      @santiagoperaza967 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nczioox1116 you hire a construction company to build it for you?

  • @Matthew-et6lc
    @Matthew-et6lc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Buy a house after you get divorced.

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @Crew4Life
    @Crew4Life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😁ahhhhh whenever you can afford 20% plus for a down payment!

  • @bigd3721
    @bigd3721 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have a friend who bought a house months before the wedding 🤦‍♂️

  • @discorabbit
    @discorabbit 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 36, renting, and 300k in debt. 😅

  • @ImSimplyLegit
    @ImSimplyLegit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Housing might crash soon too

    • @shareworthy5720
      @shareworthy5720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its not going to happen. Atleast not for years..

    • @telegramatblain_2479
      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @nczioox1116
      @nczioox1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shareworthy5720 depends. People are buying like crazy because rates are low, which means people are borrowing lots of money to buy, which means a lot of foreclosures to come

  • @grapplerunit
    @grapplerunit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol by the time he is 32. Trying to buy a house in the Bay Area is impossible unless you are making at least 150k-200k minimum

  • @PA-yy8vu
    @PA-yy8vu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dave is funnyyyy

  • @fishercourt
    @fishercourt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This young guy is so jaded. He really believes he knows EXACTLY how much their salaries will be, before graduating? Come on, who ever is giving this young couple advice is full of crap. I’m so glad he called Mr Ramsey, he gave some great insight and advice.
    The fact that this young guy really believes he knows how much they both will make after graduation is a sign that he is not living in a real world scenario.
    Why are they in such a rush to get married, buy a house, and start their new jobs?
    How about slowing down and stop listening to people who are lying to them about their beliefs in their actual salaries. Jobs are not guaranteed, especially when you are a newly graduating.
    I hope they slow down and stop trying to hurry and do everything right out of college, it’s not realistic.

  • @wasteoftimegames
    @wasteoftimegames 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    3:18 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @telegramatblain_2479
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  • @fireseeker4him
    @fireseeker4him 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m pretty sure that in Ancient Israel, the reasoning behind the new husband staying home for a year was to ensure there would be a new generation of soldiers.

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds right. I am sure it wasn't what Dave said, to make a home.

    • @waynejamel6703
      @waynejamel6703 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thr Bible says what the reason was... "to bring happiness to his wife" dueteronomy 24:5

  • @HangNguyen-ih8rf
    @HangNguyen-ih8rf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why do people always talk about “I’m gonna be making etc.” I want to know your income RiGht NOW.

    • @muah214
      @muah214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! Anything can happen.....

    • @telegramatblain_2479
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  • @ladypilliwick8179
    @ladypilliwick8179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    never.

    • @telegramatblain_2479
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  • @offerskirksey2255
    @offerskirksey2255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pay back unemployment????? What????

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      @telegramatblain_2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @joesillamanrs7189
    @joesillamanrs7189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Imagine marrying that early. You don’t even know how to adult yet….

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    • @hopevitale8050
      @hopevitale8050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Clearly they are learning. What’s the harm in learning together?

    • @nczioox1116
      @nczioox1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hopevitale8050 you dont need to be married to be together

    • @hopevitale8050
      @hopevitale8050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nczioox1116 what difference does it make? Most people at that age live together, sleep together, pretend to be married so why not actually be if you know your future is together anyway... it just makes sense to start off combined from the get go.

    • @nczioox1116
      @nczioox1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hopevitale8050 most people are not in that situation at 23, and theres no harm in waiting. Especially since you are still a developing adult new to the world at that age with much to learn

  • @mrsDeborah
    @mrsDeborah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice video!! Very engaging from beginning to end. Nevertheless,businesses and investment are the easiest way to make money irrespective of which party makes it to the oval office

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  • @djpuplex
    @djpuplex 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The sooner you do the sooner the new wife get equity. Congrats for her sounds like she has a real sucker on the hook.

  • @ThePooppantsman
    @ThePooppantsman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Run away dont get married. 60% divorce rate. Get out of the line to lose half your stuff!!! Run!!!!!

  • @josebrown8060
    @josebrown8060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do not buy a house, and DO NOT GET MARRIED!!! answer solved..

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  • @Defy_Convention
    @Defy_Convention 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Run

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  • @christinebutler7630
    @christinebutler7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh Lord. Two people with degrees that have them headed for poverty. Wonderful.

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    • @IINK9
      @IINK9 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A school teacher and a pastor??

  • @christinebutler7630
    @christinebutler7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't get married until you can buy a house!

    • @telegramatblain_2479
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    • @annat6249
      @annat6249 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Depend on where you live. Some states, marriage does not have a separation of assets. Go get a prenup if money is the concern

  • @oshkoshbegone
    @oshkoshbegone ปีที่แล้ว

    Theology is such a waste of time lol

  • @abey6131
    @abey6131 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God condemned Israel through his messiah Jesus, what version of the bible are you reading?

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  • @eatpigsnot
    @eatpigsnot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i don't think people should be allowed to be married before they are 30 years old. and don't buy a house or marry someone you have not lived with for at least a year. there is nothing immoral about living together when not married and it is very practical. no one buys a car without a test drive

    • @MoonMoon-fx1op
      @MoonMoon-fx1op 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just cause you say it's not true doesn't mean it's not true.

    • @eatpigsnot
      @eatpigsnot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MoonMoon-fx1op ditto

    • @MichaelAnderson-wk1no
      @MichaelAnderson-wk1no 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Except people are not cars... And studies still show that the probability of divorce is significantly higher for couples that live together prior to marriage.

    • @eatpigsnot
      @eatpigsnot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MichaelAnderson-wk1no those studies are correlation, not causation. studies could show brown eyed people have higher divorce rates. i have never seen or heard why living together before marriage leads to divorce. i would be open to any explanation, but logic and common sense, and granted those are not always applied in personal relationships, indicates living together pre marriage, and taking a few road trips and vacations together before living together, would be beneficial

    • @terriesmith2616
      @terriesmith2616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@eatpigsnot
      I think people shouldn't have kids before 30.
      Married before 30 is fine, if you get a divorce, then divorce and move on with your life.
      But once kids are involved, it's the worst.
      That's why people shouldn't have kids before they are 30 years old.