This is a great video; however, I think "Where do you see yourself in five years" is not a good question to ask. I have asked girls before where they see themselves in five years and time after time they responded with "Why are you interviewing me" type answers. In other words all answers I have received made the girl feel like she was being interviewed. I know this because they told me as much. I would avoid this question.
When communicating with a woman from online dating some of these questions should be asked. When talking online it is always like and interview. Then when meeting them for the first time, make it fun and throw in a question and don’t do it in a rapid fashion. Make it fun. Leave your ego at the door and you will have a great conversation. Second date is another time to ask questions since you have found out more about the woman. It would be like three dates. You already found out about each other. First chatting online then the meet and greet. The third date talk and be alittle more romantic.
Finally, men vetting women instead of society viewing the man having to accept whatever decision a woman picks and choose. Glad Appolina recognizes men too have wants and feelings and aren't like picking a toothpaste.
@@AcTaRus-fk6nj If you believe that then why do you bother watching her channel? Clearly you're not getting your desired results and that is reality. 👎
@@ChocolateCherub2765 I have an open mind, I don't only feed myself with information that comfort my existing beliefs (you should do the same ;-) I focus myself on understanding reality and were I fit in it (you should do the same ;-) xx
@@AcTaRus-fk6nj Dude you don't know what I do or don't do? If your mind is as open as you claim you wouldn't feel the need to point it. Why do you feel the need to put stock in what a stranger says. " The mark of an educated mind is to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." Aristotle.
Too few men do this. That's why so many relationships and marriages failed. What's worse is that so many infidelity occurs as a result. If you don't set up a building with a strong foundation, it doesn't matter how great the top looks. It will fall down eventually.
Apollonia informative video the 3 too 5 year question be not a truth teller for a woman whose late bloomer like myself as a man late bloomer would fail that question, but informative as always
How do you manage the energy shifts when you ask these questions ? I feel.really readable when i get delayed answers and usually answer then myself . Adhd vibes lol
Hey, you only gave us six questions. You mentioned how does she deal with conflict, twice. Perhaps it's a question that's so important that it needs to be asked twice. Either way, you gave us some solid advice.
Hey Apollonia.. I got a number from a girl I've been crushing on at my gym. She initially showed interest in me. My question is after I got her number I asked for a hug and she was receptive. I used to shake her hand 😅. After we talked I rubbed her arm subtly as I walked away.. my only concern however is , does that put me in a friendzone category? I've been talking to her since last november and only see her like once a month and finally asked today.
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating. I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s. Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described. It won't surprise me if you are the type of guy or the type of person who has the mindset that it's better to be a man than it is to be a woman at the end of the day. Overall, I will forever be angry and bitter, resentful, that I didn't have a girlfriend until later than normal. I remember when one person told me that I should just be glad that I was able to get a girlfriend or have a girlfriend now and enjoy the fruits of my labor and that just made me more angry and pissed me off even more it sounds like that person has the mindset or mentality that a guy or a man should still be happy that even if he finally managed to get a girlfriend even in his 50s or 60s or as a senior citizen. Yeah I have the mindset that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship but men are not. It naturally feels like women are owed a relationship but men are not, because when you're on the receiving end of sexual attention it means that you always have options and choices or it just means that you are in abundance by default for simply just existing.
I've been dating her since 1.5 months she was always behind me always calling texting everytime in the beginning as i played the role of how to get any girl but once i got her i was normal and giving her my time but now she doesn't respects me doesn't call and msg until i do and shes been talking to other guys and alse hiding her fone from me so its like enough for me and I finally i decided to end the tag of relationship (she allows to be physical from the beginning)
All women will pull back to test to see if you become needy/ unnerved / jealous by this "cold shoulder" per se. With you responding the way you've stated you're showing her you're insecure. Turn it back on her. So next time she wants to hang out tell her you're busy ( make up something) and will catch up with her later ( but don't state the exact time). Wait a day or so. Let her contact you. when she does wait an hour or two to respond back. Basically treat her the way she is treating you at this time and don't criticize her when she reaches out. Drop the issue about the phone. You won't get the truth.
Thank you! I like the "what would you do if you hit the lottery" question. I think that can be fun and to see if she is materialistic. Relationship with her family? Does she have an only fools? lol
Full back ground checks after first few dates, you dont ask them anything , " what ever it takes" i love women but nope they eill not tdll yiu the truth no where close, just enjoy the date n events n dont snswer her questions either n full nlood work up n dtd tests before you do the backgrounds oone eithrr of iu n have yours ready for her
It depends on how big the Circle is. If the Circle is bigger than the Square it will fit. You contradicted yourself when you said 7 Must-Ask Questions Men Need To Ask Women Before Dating! (SCREEN HER LIKE THIS) At (6:46) you said this question is more about getting to know each other when you have been dating. But you said Men Need To Ask Women Before Dating! make up your behind. You should also ask her how many men she has slept with and had sex with. Are you naughty or a good girl. Do you, have any tattoos hiding. is a woman faithful and loyal to men. Is she honest with men? Does she plan on not getting a divorce and working it out? Are you a gold digger and only with me because I have a house to the '9s because I am well off and make great money. Why are you with me? Where do you see yourself with me in five years. Do you plan on having any children and how many. What do you want and look for in a man. What does your ideal man look like. Is he a Chad that is ripped with chiseled 6-pack abs 6 foot tall big arms or just average looking. What type of job do you think he should have. These are things to ask women. Women need to be challenged and tested and held accountable if they are not truthful about their answers. Woman need to know what you are about and what you stand for and the type of man you are and that you don't take any of her Crap. Women need to know you are the ideal man to be with. You need to ask women the same questions.
Um, so if she believed man was the head why would she have to pay half the bills? Still trying to figure it out. LOL FYI- I believe a woman can pay half the bills but then the both of you would lead the relationship in different ways. The man wouldnt be just the "head"
@@ApolloniaPonti THE WOMAN WOULD PAY HALF THE BILLS BECAUSE THATS COMMON SENSE (ITS CALLED HELPING YOUR MAN) AND BECAUSE THE MAN SAID SO.I ASSUME BY YOUR COMMENT YOU DON'T PAY BILLS. SAD ON YOUR HUSBAND'S PART.
@@Jimmy911ismTHERE ARE TROLLS SURE,BUT IM A REALIST.I HAVE A RIGHT TO GIVE MY OPINION LIKE ANYONE ELSE, INCLUDING YOU. THERE ARE GOOD MEN OUT THERE WHO NEED TO HEAR THIS INFORMATION.
Didn’t practice what I preach end up getting played. Infuriating suppose to go into early retirement, never trust, take financial advice from anyone, dont sign important financial issues online. Have them mail it in physical form. dont care if it’s your pop’s or mom or anyone who is not already been there done that b.s. trust in yourself dont let anyone pressure you who care about them they will get over it. ex. Get a car cause you want it w/ out an expert opinion (mechanic) end up getting a lemon. I’m on a rampage
Beautiful video!💕🙏🌹
❤Thanks!
Thank you!
This is a great video; however, I think "Where do you see yourself in five years" is not a good question to ask. I have asked girls before where they see themselves in five years and time after time they responded with "Why are you interviewing me" type answers. In other words all answers I have received made the girl feel like she was being interviewed. I know this because they told me as much. I would avoid this question.
If you're firing off question after question, yeah it will become an interview lol.
Wanna see you reach a million subscribers ❤been listen you for years
Wow, thank you so so much, John. :-)
Thank you ! I like the open ended question the best: “ what are you looking for?”
I also enjoy your advice here and yeah, this is important to screen for quality girls!
Agree!
Also, She also has to be free of a history of DWIs, creditors chasing her, domestic disturbances, etc.
@Apollonia Ponti Hello from Norway...And thank you
When communicating with a woman from online dating some of these questions should be asked. When talking online it is always like and interview. Then when meeting them for the first time, make it fun and throw in a question and don’t do it in a rapid fashion. Make it fun. Leave your ego at the door and you will have a great conversation. Second date is another time to ask questions since you have found out more about the woman. It would be like three dates. You already found out about each other. First chatting online then the meet and greet. The third date talk and be alittle more romantic.
I've heard it said "we make decisions with our emotions, than try to use logic and reasoning to justify the choice..."
Thanks, Apollonia.
Finally, men vetting women instead of society viewing the man having to accept whatever decision a woman picks and choose. Glad Appolina recognizes men too have wants and feelings and aren't like picking a toothpaste.
Of course! This is an extremely important topic. :-)
Great video. 2024 is going to be the year I hopefully make your catch phrase true and find someone awesome to love me.
You got this! Wohoo!
Hi Apollonia thanks for you video. I like more shorter one rather then too long...
Noted! Thank you so much for watching!
Thank you Apollonia, you have reinforced what I've always believed. 😊
You are so welcome!
Are you beliefs reality?
Appolonia has great speeches but they haven't much links to reality, unfortunately
@@AcTaRus-fk6nj If you believe that then why do you bother watching her channel? Clearly you're not getting your desired results and that is reality. 👎
@@ChocolateCherub2765 I have an open mind, I don't only feed myself with information that comfort my existing beliefs (you should do the same ;-) I focus myself on understanding reality and were I fit in it (you should do the same ;-) xx
@@AcTaRus-fk6nj
Dude you don't know what I do or don't do? If your mind is as open as you claim you wouldn't feel the need to point it. Why do you feel the need to put stock in what a stranger says. " The mark of an educated mind is to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." Aristotle.
Too few men do this. That's why so many relationships and marriages failed. What's worse is that so many infidelity occurs as a result. If you don't set up a building with a strong foundation, it doesn't matter how great the top looks. It will fall down eventually.
Great insight
Thank you!
Nice ❤
Apollonia informative video the 3 too 5 year question be not a truth teller for a woman whose late bloomer like myself as a man late bloomer would fail that question, but informative as always
Excellent advice...unfortunately way too many women place lust and chemistry above the more important traits
Absolutely
How do you manage the energy shifts when you ask these questions ? I feel.really readable when i get delayed answers and usually answer then myself . Adhd vibes lol
Hey, you only gave us six questions. You mentioned how does she deal with conflict, twice. Perhaps it's a question that's so important that it needs to be asked twice.
Either way, you gave us some solid advice.
Oops really? I will have to review. Sorry about that.
A Low Quality Woman watching this Video: I'm can never be one of those Low-Quality Women 😂
Hey Apollonia.. I got a number from a girl I've been crushing on at my gym. She initially showed interest in me. My question is after I got her number I asked for a hug and she was receptive. I used to shake her hand 😅. After we talked I rubbed her arm subtly as I walked away.. my only concern however is , does that put me in a friendzone category? I've been talking to her since last november and only see her like once a month and finally asked today.
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him.
He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way.
Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women.
He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long.
Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past.
Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel.
Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male.
Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning.
So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men
But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating.
I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s.
Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described.
It won't surprise me if you are the type of guy or the type of person who has the mindset that it's better to be a man than it is to be a woman at the end of the day.
Overall, I will forever be angry and bitter, resentful, that I didn't have a girlfriend until later than normal.
I remember when one person told me that I should just be glad that I was able to get a girlfriend or have a girlfriend now and enjoy the fruits of my labor and that just made me more angry and pissed me off even more it sounds like that person has the mindset or mentality that a guy or a man should still be happy that even if he finally managed to get a girlfriend even in his 50s or 60s or as a senior citizen.
Yeah I have the mindset that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship but men are not.
It naturally feels like women are owed a relationship but men are not, because when you're on the receiving end of sexual attention it means that you always have options and choices or it just means that you are in abundance by default for simply just existing.
Omfg bro
Ok…
If she can’t answer the question “what gets her excited in life” how is it a red flag? In what way? Thank you again 🙏🏽
I love your content as a matter of fact...I love you
You NEED help.
Appreciate you so much. Thank you. 🙏
I've been dating her since 1.5 months she was always behind me always calling texting everytime in the beginning as i played the role of how to get any girl but once i got her i was normal and giving her my time but now she doesn't respects me doesn't call and msg until i do and shes been talking to other guys and alse hiding her fone from me so its like enough for me and I finally i decided to end the tag of relationship (she allows to be physical from the beginning)
All women will pull back to test to see if you become needy/ unnerved / jealous by this "cold shoulder" per se. With you responding the way you've stated you're showing her you're insecure. Turn it back on her. So next time she wants to hang out tell her you're busy ( make up something) and will catch up with her later ( but don't state the exact time). Wait a day or so. Let her contact you. when she does wait an hour or two to respond back.
Basically treat her the way she is treating you at this time and don't criticize her when she reaches out.
Drop the issue about the phone. You won't get the truth.
Thank you! I like the "what would you do if you hit the lottery" question. I think that can be fun and to see if she is materialistic. Relationship with her family? Does she have an only fools? lol
Love those screening questions!
Full back ground checks after first few dates, you dont ask them anything , " what ever it takes" i love women but nope they eill not tdll yiu the truth no where close, just enjoy the date n events n dont snswer her questions either n full nlood work up n dtd tests before you do the backgrounds oone eithrr of iu n have yours ready for her
Your message is very good. Thank you.
You might ask the question "Right?" less often.
It depends on how big the Circle is. If the Circle is bigger than the Square it will fit. You contradicted yourself when you said 7 Must-Ask Questions Men Need To Ask Women Before Dating! (SCREEN HER LIKE THIS) At (6:46) you said this question is more about getting to know each other when you have been dating. But you said Men Need To Ask Women Before Dating! make up your behind. You should also ask her how many men she has slept with and had sex with. Are you naughty or a good girl. Do you, have any tattoos hiding. is a woman
faithful and loyal to men. Is she honest with men? Does she plan on not getting a divorce and working it out? Are you a gold digger and only with me because I have a house to the '9s because I am well off and make great money. Why are you with me? Where do you see yourself with me in five years. Do you plan on having any children and how many. What do you want and look for in a man. What does your ideal man look like. Is he a Chad that is ripped with chiseled 6-pack abs 6 foot tall big arms or just average looking. What type of job do you
think he should have. These are things to ask women. Women need to be challenged and tested and held accountable if they are not truthful about their answers. Woman need to know what you are about and what you stand for and the type of man you are and that you don't take any of her Crap. Women need to know you are the ideal man to be with. You need to ask women the same questions.
Should u ask these through text or in person??
I HAVE A BETTER LIST.......
1.ASK HER DOES SHE BELIEVE THE MAN IS THE HEAD
2.DOES SHE COOK
3. IS SHE GOING TO GET A JOB AND PAY HALF THE BILLS.
Um, so if she believed man was the head why would she have to pay half the bills? Still trying to figure it out. LOL FYI- I believe a woman can pay half the bills but then the both of you would lead the relationship in different ways. The man wouldnt be just the "head"
@@ApolloniaPonti THE WOMAN WOULD PAY HALF THE BILLS BECAUSE THATS COMMON SENSE (ITS CALLED HELPING YOUR MAN) AND BECAUSE THE MAN SAID SO.I ASSUME BY YOUR COMMENT YOU DON'T PAY BILLS. SAD ON YOUR HUSBAND'S PART.
@@ApolloniaPonti BY THE WAY, THESE ARE BIBLICAL PRINCIPLES
@@ApolloniaPontiI've seen this guy on a few threads. I'm fairly sure he's trolling.
@@Jimmy911ismTHERE ARE TROLLS SURE,BUT IM A REALIST.I HAVE A RIGHT TO GIVE MY OPINION LIKE ANYONE ELSE, INCLUDING YOU. THERE ARE GOOD MEN OUT THERE WHO NEED TO HEAR THIS INFORMATION.
No, you're always loved, Apollonia. ❤
LOL, thank you .
Those is basic questions
What makes you come alive?
Didn’t practice what I preach end up getting played. Infuriating suppose to go into early retirement, never trust, take financial advice from anyone, dont sign important financial issues online. Have them mail it in physical form. dont care if it’s your pop’s or mom or anyone who is not already been there done that b.s. trust in yourself dont let anyone pressure you who care about them they will get over it. ex. Get a car cause you want it w/ out an expert opinion (mechanic) end up getting a lemon. I’m on a rampage
This pretty much rules out 99% of woman lol good luck
Here's a MUST ASK question: IS YOUR KID'S FATHER STILL IN JAIL???