1. Focus on what you can control 2. Have a bias for small choices that provide quick feedback 3. Have a bias for choices that reinforce your sense of control 4. Take responsibility for everything that happens in your life 5. Develop your decision making and problem-solving skills 6. Model people with an internal locus of control 7. Create an implementation intention for particularly challenging situations - Develop mindfulness - A response is different from a reaction 1. Remember that everything is a choice 2. When you react to something, ask yourself a set of questions 3. Identify what you can do that will improve the situation 4. Remember that no one can make you think or feel anything 5. Notice how you talk to yourself when you're uncomfortable or happy 6. Celebrate situations where you were able to influence an outcome
Another strategy is to listen to, and choose, your use of language. For example, "We can't afford that." or "We aren't choosing to spend our money on that right now."
It’s really an outstanding video, thanks, I have a question for you? How to develop decision making and problem solving skills? I would say at work. Any techniques or tips , kudos
This is very interesting. I have been thinking about this for sometime. I think I have an external locus of control. I would like to develop an internal locus of control. I am looking for the previous parts could you please direct me to the location.
I'm glad you found it valuable. This video is part six of a 7-part series on the topic. Here are the other ones: Part 1: th-cam.com/video/DxGCSUkI31Y/w-d-xo.html Part 2: th-cam.com/video/ywc2QaA9TvA/w-d-xo.html Part 3: th-cam.com/video/o6r2T1w9rIQ/w-d-xo.html Part 4: th-cam.com/video/Afr1Q-iSZHc/w-d-xo.html Part 5: th-cam.com/video/3ZnY7r4yLkw/w-d-xo.html Part 7: th-cam.com/video/0ZsPbcFWNv0/w-d-xo.html
It's very HARD to accept responsibility for everything that happens in my life when anything that goes wrong at work my boss puts all of it on me. I can recognize the role I played in the situation, but he never can, and when he pushes it all on me there's some natural opposing resistance there.
You are right, it is definitely not easy. I want to point out an important distinction, though. Your comment about how your boss puts things that go wrong at work on you sounds more like blame than responsibility. While those two things are definitely related, they are not the same. You should not accept blame for things that aren't your fault. But at the same time, you can accept responsibility for your own actions, even if only for choosing to stay in a job that (presumably) makes you miserable. I hope you are able to find a resolution to your difficult situation.
1. Focus on what you can control
2. Have a bias for small choices that provide quick feedback
3. Have a bias for choices that reinforce your sense of control
4. Take responsibility for everything that happens in your life
5. Develop your decision making and problem-solving skills
6. Model people with an internal locus of control
7. Create an implementation intention for particularly challenging situations
- Develop mindfulness
- A response is different from a reaction
1. Remember that everything is a choice
2. When you react to something, ask yourself a set of questions
3. Identify what you can do that will improve the situation
4. Remember that no one can make you think or feel anything
5. Notice how you talk to yourself when you're uncomfortable or happy
6. Celebrate situations where you were able to influence an outcome
Amazing video. In the span of 14 minutes you have conveyed incredible amount of valuable information. I hope more people see this and benefit from it
Thank you Rishabh. I appreciate the feedback and I'm very happy you found it helpful.
Another strategy is to listen to, and choose, your use of language. For example, "We can't afford that." or "We aren't choosing to spend our money on that right now."
This is very helpful, thank you. I appreciate your teaching style with solid points/facts without overexplaining.
Thank you so much for this
The video was very helpful! Thank you 😊
I'm glad I found this, very useful. Thank you so much!
Loved the video! Amazing value you’ve given here!
This was ridiculously valuable! Thank you so much for this.
Amazing!!
Thanks for this wonderful piece of work.
Thank you for the kind words, Sachin. I appreciate it. I'm glad you found it valuable.
Awesome video, super helpfull! Thank you :)
Thank you so much for this information!
It’s really an outstanding video, thanks, I have a question for you?
How to develop decision making and problem solving skills? I would say at work. Any techniques or tips , kudos
look at his channel for other great videos th-cam.com/users/TheMotivationMindsetvideos
This is very interesting. I have been thinking about this for sometime. I think I have an external locus of control. I would like to develop an internal locus of control. I am looking for the previous parts could you please direct me to the location.
I'm glad you found it valuable. This video is part six of a 7-part series on the topic. Here are the other ones:
Part 1: th-cam.com/video/DxGCSUkI31Y/w-d-xo.html
Part 2: th-cam.com/video/ywc2QaA9TvA/w-d-xo.html
Part 3: th-cam.com/video/o6r2T1w9rIQ/w-d-xo.html
Part 4: th-cam.com/video/Afr1Q-iSZHc/w-d-xo.html
Part 5: th-cam.com/video/3ZnY7r4yLkw/w-d-xo.html
Part 7: th-cam.com/video/0ZsPbcFWNv0/w-d-xo.html
It's very HARD to accept responsibility for everything that happens in my life when anything that goes wrong at work my boss puts all of it on me. I can recognize the role I played in the situation, but he never can, and when he pushes it all on me there's some natural opposing resistance there.
You are right, it is definitely not easy. I want to point out an important distinction, though. Your comment about how your boss puts things that go wrong at work on you sounds more like blame than responsibility. While those two things are definitely related, they are not the same. You should not accept blame for things that aren't your fault. But at the same time, you can accept responsibility for your own actions, even if only for choosing to stay in a job that (presumably) makes you miserable. I hope you are able to find a resolution to your difficult situation.
I just realized how external my locus is
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i like it but you speak too fast
Valuable information but...speak slower please.
This goes against all feminist ideology, haha
Lovely work, keep it up Richard, hope to meet some time.
Thank you for the kind words, Dr. Kimo.