Hey man! Saw you on slightly offensive after hearing about you on you are here. Thanks for telling the truth that many of us are hesitant to tell. I myself struggled through identity problems when I was a teen and really dont want anyone to know I ever was perceived as anything other than a normal guy. So youre a brave young man for speaking what you went through! Good luck bro, your life is gonna be great!
Hey John! Thank your for finding my channel from You Are Here and taking time from your day to leave a comment. I may not know what you went through nor what anyone else has and will go through. But I hope that by me making these videos, I can help everyone who has struggled, is struggling and will struggle with their identity as themselves. While these videos are meant to help others I want these to be a form of therapy for myself as well. I will say from personal experience nowadays it's hard to be the perfect image of being a man, but I've learned that we are perfect the way we are and that we need to love ourselves for who and what we are. We are naturally lead to fail in life, but I believe our failures and flaws help us become a better person tomorrow than we were yesterday. I do not believe that I could be the man I am today or in the future if it wasn't for me being the young boy who I was in my younger days who became the woman I was for a few years. While those are mistakes I will have to live for the rest of my life, I believe this path that I took was meant to help not just myself but everyone in my shoes.
@@AbelGarcia04 Hey man! Thanks for the response! I think your mindset is very healthy. Don't focus on being a "perfect man." No man is perfect. At the end of the day all us guys are just regular guys, we all have struggles, and even men who never delved into transgenderism have alot of identity issues nowadays. For myself I think it's helpful to remind myself of that. That Im not any worse or better than any other dude, cause for me my problem was comparing myself to other guys and thinking they were better than me. For some time I rejected manhood because I didnt want to be like my abusive father. When I looked to men for sexual intimacy, what I really wanted was the father, brother, male friends I never had. Once I realized that I found more value in being my real self and embracing positive masculinity, rather than seeking it in strangers on grindr. Don't know if you relate specifically on those points, but I figured Id share as it might help you or others who stumble accross this. I remember you said as you grew and matured you gravitated back towards heterosexuality. I related to that alot! Well, I look forward to other videos or appearances you do, man, and thanks for being strong and willing to tell your story!
Hey Abel. Thank you so much for this intro video. Aside from talking to you on the Twitter group we met on, I plan to listen to your content to get to know your story. It's compelling and necessary for young people to hear. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing your story with honesty and transparency. Many will hear your story and be saved and rescued from the indoctrination madness plaguing our country, but especially here in California.
Thanks for sharing your story. I am also detransitioning MtFtM. I still think about taking hormones so I can look "sexier" sometimes but I feel like that's the wrong reason to do it.
Hey Spiral! I'm glad that my videos have reached another person who's detransitioning. Honestly this path we have taken isn't going to be any easy path, we will always have thoughts of transitioning again to feel/look "pretty/sexy" again. I'd be lying if I said I didn't have those thoughts after detransitioning. But because we are all human we are prone to falling back to our old habits and for us in the detransition community we may still have the urge to transition again. I don't want to transition again and I hope that you don't again, but because we are humans we could transition again. I hope with all the videos I make I can help more people like us on this path.
You are so brave it’s so difficult to tell the truth in the face of total absurdity yelling back at you, knowing that you’re right, even though they won’t listen. Please keep sharing your story you will inspire people. much love to you on your journey. 💜
I first saw you on "slightly offensive" and I hate that channel lol. But it did one great thing, let your story be heard, so other's don't Go down the same path. Thank you for sharing your Truth and it will definitely help other's in that situation as well. Take Care and look forward to your future.
Thank you for sharing your story with us Abel. You are an extremely Brave young man. I'm so proud of you. We need more people like you to speak out about the horrors of this harmful ideology. I have no idea what it's like to experience dysphoria/dysmorphia? But I wish more Drs. Would stop using people who are suffering to line their pockets and offer more therapy instead. I wish they would do everything they could before resorting to surgery. AND DEF NOT FOR ANYONE UNDER 25. When the brain is finished forming at 25 then if their Dr says it's still recommended & they wanna pay for it or @ least half. Then & ONLY then should it be done. They should NEVER EVER give out puberty blockers to children either.
It’s people like you who are the stunning and brave ones!! Keep telling your story!! You may cause someone else to rethink this medical mutilation process.
Thank you for supporting the 'adult detransitioner' community. Our 'gay community' will be forever grateful. I am a 'modern gay' biological male and a Republican.
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry all this happened to you so quickly. You are so young to have gone through so much. I hope you are able to get the help you need. I also hope you learn to love yourself and help other young men to learn to love themselves. This is insane!
Hey man! Saw you on slightly offensive after hearing about you on you are here. Thanks for telling the truth that many of us are hesitant to tell. I myself struggled through identity problems when I was a teen and really dont want anyone to know I ever was perceived as anything other than a normal guy. So youre a brave young man for speaking what you went through! Good luck bro, your life is gonna be great!
Hey John!
Thank your for finding my channel from You Are Here and taking time from your day to leave a comment. I may not know what you went through nor what anyone else has and will go through. But I hope that by me making these videos, I can help everyone who has struggled, is struggling and will struggle with their identity as themselves.
While these videos are meant to help others I want these to be a form of therapy for myself as well. I will say from personal experience nowadays it's hard to be the perfect image of being a man, but I've learned that we are perfect the way we are and that we need to love ourselves for who and what we are. We are naturally lead to fail in life, but I believe our failures and flaws help us become a better person tomorrow than we were yesterday.
I do not believe that I could be the man I am today or in the future if it wasn't for me being the young boy who I was in my younger days who became the woman I was for a few years. While those are mistakes I will have to live for the rest of my life, I believe this path that I took was meant to help not just myself but everyone in my shoes.
@@AbelGarcia04 Hey man! Thanks for the response! I think your mindset is very healthy. Don't focus on being a "perfect man." No man is perfect. At the end of the day all us guys are just regular guys, we all have struggles, and even men who never delved into transgenderism have alot of identity issues nowadays. For myself I think it's helpful to remind myself of that. That Im not any worse or better than any other dude, cause for me my problem was comparing myself to other guys and thinking they were better than me. For some time I rejected manhood because I didnt want to be like my abusive father. When I looked to men for sexual intimacy, what I really wanted was the father, brother, male friends I never had. Once I realized that I found more value in being my real self and embracing positive masculinity, rather than seeking it in strangers on grindr. Don't know if you relate specifically on those points, but I figured Id share as it might help you or others who stumble accross this. I remember you said as you grew and matured you gravitated back towards heterosexuality. I related to that alot!
Well, I look forward to other videos or appearances you do, man, and thanks for being strong and willing to tell your story!
Nice job Abel, I'm proud that you're facing and sharing your challenges.
How dare you use Arthur's face to support this ugly mofo
Just met you in VV’s livestream!! It was lovely to meet you and I’m looking forward to hearing your story 💕
Glad to meet you 😁 hope you like my story
Hey Abel. Thank you so much for this intro video. Aside from talking to you on the Twitter group we met on, I plan to listen to your content to get to know your story. It's compelling and necessary for young people to hear. Thank you!
I just released a substack writing about my transition and detransition. I shared it here on my TH-cam community tab if you’d like to read it.
Thank you for sharing your story with honesty and transparency. Many will hear your story and be saved and rescued from the indoctrination madness plaguing our country, but especially here in California.
Thanks for sharing your story. I am also detransitioning MtFtM. I still think about taking hormones so I can look "sexier" sometimes but I feel like that's the wrong reason to do it.
Hey Spiral!
I'm glad that my videos have reached another person who's detransitioning. Honestly this path we have taken isn't going to be any easy path, we will always have thoughts of transitioning again to feel/look "pretty/sexy" again. I'd be lying if I said I didn't have those thoughts after detransitioning.
But because we are all human we are prone to falling back to our old habits and for us in the detransition community we may still have the urge to transition again. I don't want to transition again and I hope that you don't again, but because we are humans we could transition again. I hope with all the videos I make I can help more people like us on this path.
You are so brave it’s so difficult to tell the truth in the face of total absurdity yelling back at you, knowing that you’re right, even though they won’t listen. Please keep sharing your story you will inspire people. much love to you on your journey. 💜
I first saw you on "slightly offensive" and I hate that channel lol. But it did one great thing, let your story be heard, so other's don't Go down the same path. Thank you for sharing your Truth and it will definitely help other's in that situation as well. Take Care and look forward to your future.
Thank you for sharing your story with us Abel. You are an extremely Brave young man. I'm so proud of you. We need more people like you to speak out about the horrors of this harmful ideology. I have no idea what it's like to experience dysphoria/dysmorphia? But I wish more Drs. Would stop using people who are suffering to line their pockets and offer more therapy instead. I wish they would do everything they could before resorting to surgery. AND DEF NOT FOR ANYONE UNDER 25.
When the brain is finished forming at 25 then if their Dr says it's still recommended & they wanna pay for it or @ least half. Then & ONLY then should it be done. They should NEVER EVER give out puberty blockers to children either.
You are incredibly brave, I am holding back tears. You seem like a very nice guy and I wish you the best.
You are truly amazing, thank you for speaking up.
It’s people like you who are the stunning and brave ones!! Keep telling your story!! You may cause someone else to rethink this medical mutilation process.
Thank you for supporting the 'adult detransitioner' community. Our 'gay community' will be forever grateful. I am a 'modern gay' biological male and a Republican.
thank you for sharing your journey Abel ❤
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry all this happened to you so quickly. You are so young to have gone through so much. I hope you are able to get the help you need. I also hope you learn to love yourself and help other young men to learn to love themselves. This is insane!
Hello, its me. 😊
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I feel like the people who detransition are ugly and don't pass and then blame everyone else for their ugliness.
You're not a woman. You are a MAN named Abel.
I am aware