As an INFJ this is extremely true. I overthink everything and always want everything to be perfect. Literally like I reread my text messages like 3 times before sending them.
@@morrieleung Yess litterally same, even after i make decisions i still overthink that they might be wrong. I even think of all the consequences of everything in things like group discusions and end up saying nothing because I overthink so much. It's such a curse😭
If I were to summarise an INFJ, the glass-half-full or half-empty analogy is best depicted as "glass never full". However, there are benefits to this. It allows for continual improvement and, if you've set some tangible goals, you can still feel accomplished if you achieve them. In my opinion, that's the key bit -- setting attainable, realistic goals and limits. But, then, would I still be an INFJ if I did?
The INTP was spot on from my point of view, but it lacks one key information in my opinion. It is difficult to form emotional bonds, true, but once they are made, they are deep. We tend to get clingy and because we feel like we can actually share some of our emotions to others, one of INTPs worst fears is the fear of rejection or being left out simply because of over-attachment.
As an ISTP, this is scarily accurate. I already knew my worst trait was being considered unreliable, since I already asked directly to my friends and family about it. But seeing you describe that trait so straightforwardly still gave me chills, amazing work.
As an INFJ, the image of the person just going out in the rain without thinking and having fun while the other stands and watches in shock hits hard. I used to have really bad analysis paralysis with time, where I would incessantly concern myself with what I could've done or what would've happened if I just didn't waste the time in front of me (it even got to a point where I got worried if I stood at a bus stop for "too long").
ahh yes. as an INFJ this is very true... i'm a super perfectionist and i feel bad when i make mistakes. also, one of my worst personality traits is that due to my introverted intuition, i feel overwhelmed by doing multiple things at one time.!
I don't put much stock in the MBTI, though I've consistently gotten INTJ every time I've taken it over the years. Being able to look at something critically is an important skill. The only thing I'm overly critical about is myself.
@@mochamochee It's somewhat like the OCEAN model but with a few small differences... I like the OCEAN model over MBTI any way you take it... but I haven't thought about the merits of OCEAN/HEXACO etc. - MBTI feels too much like Barnum Statements to me! It is perhaps popular in workplaces because folks aren't big on going to work and being told how neurotic they are! It's a case of having a Google I guess!
@@crazydavec3861 I just realised how much I didn't know about personality. The only one I've ever delve into is MBTI 😂 Your comment has made me more intrigued to google about HEXACO and also there's OCEAN now?! It is interesting that MBTI is more commonly known and used in workplaces (maybe because it is simpler but complex enough to differentiate)
INFP: Idealism changes our outlook and makes us a more supportive and channels positive vibrations throughout a conversation I think for a lot of people this might be thrilling as a good conversation can suddently turn into a great one. I mean if it applies. But this can go booth ways Idealism can also turn a bad conversation into a horrible one. I agree with this. I try and keep a balance at most times but it just seems like always a defeat and we get into emotional havoc.
I think the INFP's idealism is more toxic to themselves than others when used too much. It leads to disappointment. Any INFPs reading this should remember that a good balance is where you hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
As an INTJ, I am not selfish. What really bothers me is that somehow I am a people pleaser. I honestly don't know how or why this started. It may have something to do with how I was raised, but it does not matter. I just want to quit looking so weak in front of others in hopes of not causing problems. I do not speak up for myself enough.
use your intellect and strong value system to advocate for yourself. I cannot stress this enough. I used to be a people pleaser when I was a child and then one day something snapped. I guess I was just exhausted at being so anxious all the time. it's good to be kind and to care about others, but finding that balance of having boundaries and standing by your INTJ principles is important.
I am not a people pleaser, but I have this tendency to not really get into others business so I never tell people if they are right or wrong unless they are specifically asking for my opinion. I don't have this urge to correct others if I think they are doing something wrong. Not because I don't want to hurt them just because it's none of my business to tell them what to do. I guess some people can view this as people pleasing. -INTJ
@@flanreisen I could be, but I keep getting "INTJ" on like every test and after reading what it is, I understand that I am indeed an INTJ. I think I'm a pretty broken one because of all of the trauma I went through. I very much acted like an actual INTJ when I was younger, but certain social events made me confused for years. My parents even admitted that it was their fault I was so bad in social environments; I had to learn how to socialize in my mid teens. I did a lot of approaching because I was learning, but now that I see it's meaningless, I don't approach anymore. Now other people initiate the conversations unless I feel like I *need* to.
@@DeRez19 Ah, I see. Still I'd recommend looking into cognitve functions and understanding the meanings of them, maybe you'll find a much bigger way understanding of yourself, who knows?
As someone who tested twice as INTP-t and once as INTJ, I can confirm that I have some trouble with communication towards others. I actually don’t even know how to act around people with certain emotions or read the room properly. That’s partially the reason i prefer having a smaller friend group, as they would understand my shortcomings by being around me long enough.
Im also INTP-T I feel its hard to comunicate with others and I have a smaller group of friends. Even if I try having more friends, It just doesn't work.
1.Sometimes, life will kick you around, but sooner or later, you realize you're not just a survivor. You're a warrior, and you're stronger than anything life throws your way.
Yea! As an INFJ I was struggling most of my life with toxic perfectionism, but I think that noways I am not so perfectionist and it makes me feel good because I don't have to be disappointed all the time. And overthinking.... well we can't deal with that. It is just our nature ^^'
INTJ here. Have definitely been told before that I come off as cool and/or arrogant without meaning to. I‘m just a quite reclusive person who needs some time to warm and open up to others, and I enjoy chatting about my interests, which can make me come off as a know-it-all or as too intellectual.
I am an INFP-A, this rings so true, I set high standards for myself but I am beginning to realize that there is no need for perfection and any sort of growth in the right direction is good. Another tendency I have is setting too many goals for myself at once or trying to improve myself in so many ways. I daydream a lot, I enjoy getting lost in my imagination but this is good when the time is right, not when I have a lot going on.
INFP-A personality simply don't exist! but INFPs do exist. I'm an INFP 6w7. You probably took the 16 personalities test which is innaccurate and got this result. Please don't use that. To find your true mbti you have to know about cognitive functions. Because of this test, many people has been mistyped. Sakinorva test is actually pretty accurate so I recommend that instead of this but still the best is learning about cognitive functions and then finding your mbti type.
As an ENFP, this is very accurate. I get restless easily and honestly I'd be really dissatisfied with my life if I didn't use reading as a coping mechanism. As it happens, I'm quite happy with my life rn and appreciate everyday things that might not be noticeable to others :)
As an ISTP I can say that I have realized that thinking with context, logic, and reasoning somehow offends people. I have realized that most people I am around don't think the same as I do. So now i just try to not think of anything in social situations because if I honestly speak my mind to somone they get offended most of the time.
ENTP here, this is extremely true in my case. I'm aware that there are several times where I'm too argumentative, and as a student with high standards, its true I also become overly critical at times. I try to avoid it as much as I can, but there are always times where other peoples ideas are overly idealistic and when I point it out, it seems overly critical of me and like I just want to be in control all the time.
INTJ strengths for me is figuring things out/applying knowledge to real life and knowing things without being taught. Weaknesses can include being short with people, dismissing them, and isolating myself because I can sometimes see them as a waste of my time, or socializing not even worth it.
As an ISFP, yeah I can agree that I struggle to learn from my mistakes. I took two early college courses and forgot to do an independent quiz or two every time. It's either I get my crap together or it takes me three times to learn from my mistakes.
I am an INFP and that is so true 🥲 I may not expect much from me or from events but in the end, no matter what, I still feel disappointed Even in relationships I expect too much and think my expectation is the minimum when in reality it exceeds the maximum capacity of a person When they don’t meet it I get upset and I end up being lonely Thats why no matter what I do I’m always going to be lonely 🙂
I believe I am an INFJ from the Truity quiz I took. I think the perfectionism is a huge problem. In schooling, falling behind even slightly or doing poorly in one assignment sends me into a failing spiral, looking at previous work too much to focus on current ones. There were also characters I could never draw because the first draft had to be spot on. A huge help in overcoming these issues was to have a more positive mindset on mistakes, accepting and learning from them. That movie Meet the Robinsons helps me push onward through failular with how failing is a huge part of learning.
Being a ENTJ myself and having met others of the same personality, I do agree with being too cold at times. It is certainly a balancing act to do the best thing and show warmth to those around you. Appreciate this video for showing all the vices to watch out, and that regardless of personality, there is always something to improve upon.
INTJ here. I can be very blunt, which I guess can come off as dismissive. I am also stubborn and do not trust easily. Once I decide I don't like someone, they stay in that category until they do something to convince me otherwise. I am trying to be better, and I am always wanting to adapt. It helps that I have empathetic peers, I try to model their positive behaviours.
I'm an INTP and I'm realizing that it may be working against me when combined with past trauma. I naturally have a lot of trouble finding friends that I feel really understand me and I often do end up getting in my own head at the inconvenience of others. However, formative experiences in my life have made me very conscious of other people's emotions and I frequently worry that I'm bothering them, being too clingy, being too distant, that they're lying when they say they enjoy spending time with me, etc. This combination has led me to withdraw from people I care about for fear of annoying them, because logically if I cut myself off from them, it won't be a problem anymore.
Everytime you feel like this, remember this: You only have 1 life. This is it. At the end of the day, we enter this earth alone, and we will die alone, the only people we really and can truly trust is ourselves, so why should we worry about if we are annoying others. Be proud of your own personality and just LIVE! Half the time people are too caught up in their own lives. And if someone really cares that much or us spreading negative information about you its cause when they talk about themselves no one listens. Im saying this cause it happened to me and I literally never even spoke to that person. My my what fans. Anyways just live your life, no matter what anyone thinks. Be strong and brave. it all improves with time.
I’m an esfp and I always worry about others to the point I don’t think about myself. My friend was going through a tough time so I said to her that her problems will be mine now and I will help her no matter what. I took on her problems and as soon as I did I became super depressed due to not taking care of myself. I luckily don’t do it as bad but I’m still a huge people pleaser and it’s kind of a problem
As an ISFJ I see it, because I'm always told that I'm stubborn and never want to listen to others advice and change... but it's just too hard because i worry that if it doesn't work out then I'll blame them...
I am an ENFJ-A, and that is very true. Sometimes I forget that it's the person's choice to be who they really are and reach that level, I can't force them. And I may pretend that nothing is wrong when clearly something is I don't want to make the other person worry or be afraid. And that comes very true and I'm working on just being more honest with my feelings and just be open and be sad and show other emotions and help my friend become the best selves but remember it's their choice and support them. Just be honest with feelings and worry about myself for just 1 minute and still help everyone else with their own potential. Truly ENFJ-A and ENFJ-T very great and not to mentioned empathetic and compassionate. I'm still trying to work out of loving myself more as a person especially just helping everyone else to announce field loved and forgetting to just love myself I'm still trying to work out of loving myself more as a person especially just helping everyone else to feel loved and forgetting to just love myself And it's still an ongoing process but I believe I'll get there and other people will get there. At least I'm patting know that I'm an ENFJ-A that's I should be proud of myself and who I am as a person. And other people who are ENFJ-A too. And I love people a lot so free hugs. Go ENFJ-A 🤩🤩🤩!!!!!
I think ISFJ is a little misunderstood in this video. It mades them out to be some boomer that refuses to change their ways, but in actuality its just difficult/scary for us to change in fear of making mistakes. We really care about other people and hate to disappoint them. So, doing something new that we are uncertain about can be terrifying, but it doesn't mean we don't make the effort. It's just more difficult and we'd rather avoid it if it's not necessary.
Thank you as a fellow isfj-t I'm tired of people saying we're "angels " "perfect moms" and kind all the time we try to please people to fit in and why does everyone think of us as nurses I don't want to be a nurse I'm who I want to be which is not a nurse growing up.
Ah yes, as an INFP, I certainly daydream a WHOLE LOT throughout the days that come by. My imagination is extremely vivid which is good but also pretty bad.
ENFP-A here. One of the most important things to learn is that it is fine to wish for things like wanting to be liked, popular, funny or successfull etc. It’s when we don’t just want it but expect it of ourselves that we go down a dangerous path. Placing expectations on ourselves and feeling forced to live up to them are maybe the most common reason for feeling dissatisfied with ones life. Comparing yourself with your ideal version of yourself is dangerous. Don’t force yourself to be perfect. Self love is easing the preassure you put on yourself. You can wish for anything but don’t take things you don’t have for granted. Avoid expectations. Also don’t worry if people like you. Most people are indifferent towards most people that they don’t Interact much with. Be yourself but don’t force yourself to be what you think is your best side. Be who you feel like you are in the moment. Be yourself. Hopes this helps someone.
As an INTP I can connect with people, but I am super blunt and to the point. If I notice something I will say it without a lot of prep. I just don't think people should need to care about how they feel.... Emotion is a tool to fuel improvement, so fairly accurate. I am also frequently misunderstood (likely a facet of my analytic tendencies and unusual way of getting a point across) so that agreed with me as well.
I wish more people watched this channel, this is one of the most useful resources on the internet, for getting to know how our brains psychology works directly, without skipping over the hard stuff like dark empaths etc.
Honestly as someone who's an INFP-J, both descriptions fit really well for me, especially when it comes to holding unrealistic expectations for myself and others, and also getting in my own way at times. I don't talk to people much, so a lot of the whole "me getting in my own way" thing happens in terms of gaming or projects I work on, and I tend to expect people to hold similar morals and ideals subconsciously, more than I'd like to actually. Guess I still got some work to do
I have the same problem, I'm also either INFP or INFJ and I overthink everything. Even in a game where I'm supposed to be relaxing, I still have to overthink which characters I should use. I definitely get in my own way.
@@Uwasa3366 I think you meant the cognitive functions and that's true, but they do have many similarities, so it's not always easy to tell them apart.
As an ENTJ, this hit close to home. Whenever someone steps out of line and drops their efficiency level, I would go crazy and say hurtful things towards them, even if i didnt really mean it. I do the same to myself. Efficiency is one of the most important things to keep up to survive in life, i cant afford to lose it.
As an Advocate and previously Architect (I've taken the test a few times over my life and swayed from Architect to Advocate) I think you hit the nail on the head. I have a habit of identifying and trying to fix problems I have (that toxic perfectionism) and actually recognized my analysis paralysis as a problem, it leads to me having a worse outcome from not choosing soon enough than if I made a poor choice and have worked on that, I make decisions quicker than I used to though admittedly I'm still slow sometimes, and I do it with confidence cause it doesn't do me good to dwell on past decisions beyond learning from it. Failing faster means I improve faster. As for the Architect that I once was, yeah, I was very insensitive to emotion, mine and others. It was only when I realized that emotion more than logic is what drives people to act, to do things, and that I might be able to use that to drive myself to be better as well by recognizing my emotions and addressing them instead of locking them up as useless nonsense holding me back that I understood others more, and in turn myself. That realization was probably what started my transition from INTJ to INFJ, Architect to Advocate. Nowadays if I take the test my Feeling/Thinking scale sits only a little weighted on the feeling side, still pretty close to the line on it.
INTP, I can for sure say, I can be sarcastic and condescending a fair bit when someone doesn’t understand something that I deem very simple, and I have a hard time building emotional connections with people. I’ve never had true friends, only schoolmates or acquaintances, and I always metaphorically watched everyone else be happy, through the glass box I was in. Now that I have a better understanding of myself, I know that I’m the one that has to shatter the box and move forward, and I’m working on it, but I still haven’t gotten that far.
I passed the MBTI test once and it showed that I have 76% for I, 50% for N-S, 58% for T and 50% for J-P, so I guess I'm 4 personality types at once: INTP, ISTP, INTJ and ISTJ. And this video described my worst traits while it was describing traits for these 4 types
I'm also 50/50 on the two inner letters. I found it helpful way to think about it as "what do I naturally gravitate or prefer to do" most of the time. And it's a spectrum. You will probably elicit both sides but you will naturally favor one over the other.
As INTP, I know one thing: People HATE argue with us. Because, more worked up they get, more confused we are. More confused we are, more worked up they get, because they think, we don't take them seriously and treat them like kids/CONDESCENDINGLY. We don't. We just prove, we are RIGHT, because WHY they are worked up just flee our radar. At least on 'empathizing' level... 😅
My weakness is that I have really bad repressed anger issues that rear there ugly head in circumstances when friends push my buttons and I explode out of nowhere and might say something I regret or if they are someone I don’t like that’s pissing me off but I seem to be cordial at the beginning but if they push enough buttons it gets physical fast which scares me because I way more strength then anyone else around me
that's just trauma tbh. anyone who has ever felt unsafe and feared for their life will feel like this. it gets better, but you have to practice mindfulness whenever you feel your buttons being pushed. it's tough but you will react less with practice.
As an ENTP I usually don’t think about other people’s emotions when I say something, so I have made my younger brother cry when I say something I think is true (and probably is) but he doesn’t like it. I think it’s annoying because I know I’m right. I know it’s something I need to work on though :/
as an INTJ, i am self aware so i stop those things from happening, but ik someone just like it. i dont usually think im superior, or atleast i dont act upon it.
5:40 man that hurts. Some people love my playful criticism. Over the years it translates to theatrical despair and I make ironic faces. Ex: "oh no not this person again" with a smile :)
I should probably take the test again. I’ve only ever taken it twice and last time I took it I was an INTP. It’s been a while, but I do agree that I suck at social interaction. I’m curious whether or not my results have changed
i usually come out as an INTJ, but i'm definitely in touch with my own emotions so the pitfalls of the INTP sound more like me. i can make small talk with strangers but i'm loathe to "make new friends." when i take my kids to birthday parties, i tend to go with my husband and we both just keep to ourselves during the party. i'm much more comfortable socializing online, possibly because it feels like it's all taking place "in my head."
INTP here. What might look like a casual interaction with someone I don't know actually has me playing a complex game of interpretation in which I'm gauging how much of me I can show based on how others are reacting. If I seem distracted, it's because I am. Go on, try holding a conversation while calculating outcomes for every response you may give based on insufficient data, and knowing miscalculation will result in misinterpretation and therefore rejection.
Hey Psych2go, Can you make a Video Specifically Talking about : Cognitive Functions,Enneagram / Tritype, Instinctual Variants? So viewer can Understand about themself more rather than using "MBTI Test" ish :)
I heavily agree with this as an intj I was given a gift I spent all my time indoors left with my own thoughts and work that I lost the reason to interact with people so much that I shut them of or never speak to them.
As an INFP I can say I do feel like I am always a step behind of where I SHOULD be. Which is a ridiculous unachievable notion, but this "you can do it, shark mindset" culture is kind of always pushing more and more.
As an INFJ this is true. I can become a perfectionists when it comes to my art, even the slightest incorrect line would displease me. And we're kinda picky on how we choose friends if that's how infj's are.
When I took the Myer's-Brigg's test 3 years apart, I got 2 different personality results: 1st, INFP, and 2nd, INTP. I can't tell what exactly caused this change, but I think it may have something to do with my slow shift away from my old idealistic (but often impractical😅) way of thinking. I still hold my ideals, but I've started questioning them a lot more since then, and become a lot more skeptical. I started focusing less on the broad ideas of my ideals, and more on the proven methods to actually achieve them. Sort of a philosophical shift from Idealism to Utilitarianism. I guess this means I either lost one weakness, but gained another, OR I now have 2 weaknesses to manage!😂
As an infp for some reason for me personally the red flags of persievers don’t feel to bad for me, but the ones of the judging people make me feel drained when even thinking about it, sorry to all judging people 🙏🏻
As an ISTJ i will be honest for the first tume and say all my bad personality traits first is like u said i am too much on the line or by the book i hate change in my lufe and i can't stand people who rely too much on emotions
INFP here ☁️ i definetly live with my head in the clouds, have the most vivid imagination which is beautiful and i love to escape reality almost all of the time. but, a lot of the times i play out scenarios in my head like movies, romanticise eveurthing, live in this picture perfect world of made up pretend moments, and i can become so swept up by those scenarios that i expect them to manifest and be real in my real life, and i can become so upset when they don't happen or someone doesn't act a certain way like i dreamed up in my head. 🌧️
Enfp here. And yes, it can get very stressful. Being so disorganized and having no focus at all really makes our lives harder. And it’s also not like we can fix this behavior in one snap, it’s very hard to brush off.
You just told my Dad's and Grandma's (dad's Mom's) biggest flaws. They are sooo INTJ. I've been telling my Mom that it's just their personality, but my Mom can't stand those flaws. I've gotten used to those bad traits
My personality type is INFP and I do admit to being a daydreamer. For me, daydreaming is a way to escape the dullness and the responsibilities of reality and live in a world where I can be whatever I want and do what I want to do.
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01:03 ISFP
01:23 ESTP
01:48 ESFP
02:06 ESTJ
02:28 ISFJ
02:54 ISTJ
03:20 ESFJ
03:49 ENFP
04:12 INFP
04:44 ENFJ
05:08 INFJ
05:40 INTJ
06:10 ENTJ
06:35 ENTP
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you copied the other guys time stamps delete this comment or else!
Thank you for spreading positive energy it is always needed.
@@RayPeng-07 oh no problem! It is good thwt you have smiled!
As an INFJ this is extremely true. I overthink everything and always want everything to be perfect. Literally like I reread my text messages like 3 times before sending them.
This is true for me because my perfectionist nature gets the better of me.
Yeah.
I run through every possible situation before i make decisions
I feel like i see too much that i get sad
@@morrieleung Yess litterally same, even after i make decisions i still overthink that they might be wrong. I even think of all the consequences of everything in things like group discusions and end up saying nothing because I overthink so much. It's such a curse😭
If I were to summarise an INFJ, the glass-half-full or half-empty analogy is best depicted as "glass never full".
However, there are benefits to this. It allows for continual improvement and, if you've set some tangible goals, you can still feel accomplished if you achieve them. In my opinion, that's the key bit -- setting attainable, realistic goals and limits. But, then, would I still be an INFJ if I did?
As an INFP this is so accurate, i daydream way too much and have unrealistic expectations
I am are INFP too, and yes, it's all true
Cries in infp
we even set everything up as its all our fault, even tho it isnt
@@HoniaPonia fr
What do you usually daydream about?
The INTP was spot on from my point of view, but it lacks one key information in my opinion. It is difficult to form emotional bonds, true, but once they are made, they are deep. We tend to get clingy and because we feel like we can actually share some of our emotions to others, one of INTPs worst fears is the fear of rejection or being left out simply because of over-attachment.
this is true for me aswell
Ack this is so true though
facts this is painfully true
one of the reasons why i have ChatGPT
True. This hit home.
As an ISTP, this is scarily accurate. I already knew my worst trait was being considered unreliable, since I already asked directly to my friends and family about it. But seeing you describe that trait so straightforwardly still gave me chills, amazing work.
As an INFJ, the image of the person just going out in the rain without thinking and having fun while the other stands and watches in shock hits hard. I used to have really bad analysis paralysis with time, where I would incessantly concern myself with what I could've done or what would've happened if I just didn't waste the time in front of me (it even got to a point where I got worried if I stood at a bus stop for "too long").
Me too!
I feel like I don’t permit or I don’t let myself being free and spontaneous… Live life happily and with freedom
So do I my fellow INFJ
ahh yes. as an INFJ this is very true... i'm a super perfectionist and i feel bad when i make mistakes. also, one of my worst personality traits is that due to my introverted intuition, i feel overwhelmed by doing multiple things at one time.!
Does this mean that you prefer working on one task at a time instead of multi-tasking?
@@Psych2go yes!
What we do is we make lists of things to do, and when we mark them done one by one it's one of the best feeling in the world isn't that right 😂
Exactly!! Me too! 😭
I don't put much stock in the MBTI, though I've consistently gotten INTJ every time I've taken it over the years. Being able to look at something critically is an important skill. The only thing I'm overly critical about is myself.
Yeah I prefer the HEXACO personality model, I find it more accurate
@@zerodiamond4206 I've never heard of that one, how's it like?
@@mochamochee It's somewhat like the OCEAN model but with a few small differences... I like the OCEAN model over MBTI any way you take it... but I haven't thought about the merits of OCEAN/HEXACO etc. - MBTI feels too much like Barnum Statements to me! It is perhaps popular in workplaces because folks aren't big on going to work and being told how neurotic they are! It's a case of having a Google I guess!
@@crazydavec3861 I just realised how much I didn't know about personality. The only one I've ever delve into is MBTI 😂 Your comment has made me more intrigued to google about HEXACO and also there's OCEAN now?! It is interesting that MBTI is more commonly known and used in workplaces (maybe because it is simpler but complex enough to differentiate)
dont take the tests study cognitive functions...
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1). ISTP 0:37
2). ISFP 1:02
3). ESTP 1:23
4). ESFP 1:48
5). ESTJ 2:06
6). ISFJ 2:28
7). ISTJ 2:54
8). ESFJ 3:20
9). ENFP 3:49
10). INFP 4:12
11). ENFJ 4:42
12). INFJ 5:08
13). INTJ 5:39
14). ENTJ 6:09
15). ENTP 6:35
16). INTP 7:02
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Always on time😂
@@ankushparmar2662thanks for the compliment 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thx
@@Ivory-f5b not a problem happy to help
How come you stan watching the whole video
i just skip to my type😆
INFP: Idealism changes our outlook and makes us a more supportive and channels positive vibrations throughout a conversation I think for a lot of people this might be thrilling as a good conversation can suddently turn into a great one. I mean if it applies. But this can go booth ways Idealism can also turn a bad conversation into a horrible one. I agree with this. I try and keep a balance at most times but it just seems like always a defeat and we get into emotional havoc.
I think the INFP's idealism is more toxic to themselves than others when used too much. It leads to disappointment. Any INFPs reading this should remember that a good balance is where you hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
Last sentence hits home, like every time I do a conversation with myself lol.
As an INFP, I can't argue the facts they spittin. I do get lost in my head a lot more than I should.
Idem (another infp)
why so many INFP's😆the whole comment section is filled with them
@@meethu0143 I guess it's just a really common personality type😂 🤷🏿
@@DarkFabled14731 acc to statistics only 4% of ppl r INFP🐥
@@DarkFabled14731 well ig it's mainly cuz INFP types are usually so intrigued abt such stuffs😀
As an INTJ, I am not selfish. What really bothers me is that somehow I am a people pleaser. I honestly don't know how or why this started. It may have something to do with how I was raised, but it does not matter. I just want to quit looking so weak in front of others in hopes of not causing problems. I do not speak up for myself enough.
use your intellect and strong value system to advocate for yourself. I cannot stress this enough. I used to be a people pleaser when I was a child and then one day something snapped. I guess I was just exhausted at being so anxious all the time. it's good to be kind and to care about others, but finding that balance of having boundaries and standing by your INTJ principles is important.
I am not a people pleaser, but I have this tendency to not really get into others business so I never tell people if they are right or wrong unless they are specifically asking for my opinion. I don't have this urge to correct others if I think they are doing something wrong. Not because I don't want to hurt them just because it's none of my business to tell them what to do. I guess some people can view this as people pleasing. -INTJ
Is there a possibility that you may be mistyped?
@@flanreisen I could be, but I keep getting "INTJ" on like every test and after reading what it is, I understand that I am indeed an INTJ. I think I'm a pretty broken one because of all of the trauma I went through. I very much acted like an actual INTJ when I was younger, but certain social events made me confused for years. My parents even admitted that it was their fault I was so bad in social environments; I had to learn how to socialize in my mid teens. I did a lot of approaching because I was learning, but now that I see it's meaningless, I don't approach anymore. Now other people initiate the conversations unless I feel like I *need* to.
@@DeRez19 Ah, I see. Still I'd recommend looking into cognitve functions and understanding the meanings of them, maybe you'll find a much bigger way understanding of yourself, who knows?
As someone who tested twice as INTP-t and once as INTJ, I can confirm that I have some trouble with communication towards others. I actually don’t even know how to act around people with certain emotions or read the room properly.
That’s partially the reason i prefer having a smaller friend group, as they would understand my shortcomings by being around me long enough.
you were the last person i couldve ever expected to see here lol
Yeah I knew I was really bad at communicating about specific emotions when it ended multiple relationships lol. - INTP-t
As an INTP-T I also feel this as well. Having a big friend group is not entertaining and even tiring if I have to admit
Im also INTP-T I feel its hard to comunicate with others and I have a smaller group of friends. Even if I try having more friends, It just doesn't work.
Hello my fellow logician I agree 7:35
1.Sometimes, life will kick you around, but sooner or later, you realize you're not just a survivor. You're a warrior, and you're stronger than anything life throws your way.
Yea! As an INFJ I was struggling most of my life with toxic perfectionism, but I think that noways I am not so perfectionist and it makes me feel good because I don't have to be disappointed all the time. And overthinking.... well we can't deal with that. It is just our nature ^^'
INTJ here. Have definitely been told before that I come off as cool and/or arrogant without meaning to. I‘m just a quite reclusive person who needs some time to warm and open up to others, and I enjoy chatting about my interests, which can make me come off as a know-it-all or as too intellectual.
same bruh
I’m an intj that’s worked so hard I got rid of my need for social interaction I prefer work and causation over my own emotions
I overwhelm people with my interests x'D
I am an INFP-A, this rings so true, I set high standards for myself but I am beginning to realize that there is no need for perfection and any sort of growth in the right direction is good. Another tendency I have is setting too many goals for myself at once or trying to improve myself in so many ways. I daydream a lot, I enjoy getting lost in my imagination but this is good when the time is right, not when I have a lot going on.
INFP-A personality simply don't exist! but INFPs do exist. I'm an INFP 6w7. You probably took the 16 personalities test which is innaccurate and got this result. Please don't use that. To find your true mbti you have to know about cognitive functions. Because of this test, many people has been mistyped. Sakinorva test is actually pretty accurate so I recommend that instead of this but still the best is learning about cognitive functions and then finding your mbti type.
As an ENFP, this is very accurate. I get restless easily and honestly I'd be really dissatisfied with my life if I didn't use reading as a coping mechanism. As it happens, I'm quite happy with my life rn and appreciate everyday things that might not be noticeable to others :)
As an ISTP I can say that I have realized that thinking with context, logic, and reasoning somehow offends people. I have realized that most people I am around don't think the same as I do.
So now i just try to not think of anything in social situations because if I honestly speak my mind to somone they get offended most of the time.
true
I am watching this so I can collect all the bad traits in the world. 💀
gotta catch em all
@@kusada3035if you can't be the best person in the world be the worst person in the world 😎
Ahahha
❤😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂GOOD YOU HAVE ALL THE BAD TRAITS 😂🎉😂🎉😂EVEN MINE 😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂
that's not the pointtt😂
As someone who straddles the line between INFP and INTP... Yeah, this seems about right.
ENTP here, this is extremely true in my case. I'm aware that there are several times where I'm too argumentative, and as a student with high standards, its true I also become overly critical at times. I try to avoid it as much as I can, but there are always times where other peoples ideas are overly idealistic and when I point it out, it seems overly critical of me and like I just want to be in control all the time.
INTJ strengths for me is figuring things out/applying knowledge to real life and knowing things without being taught. Weaknesses can include being short with people, dismissing them, and isolating myself because I can sometimes see them as a waste of my time, or socializing not even worth it.
As an ISFP, yeah I can agree that I struggle to learn from my mistakes. I took two early college courses and forgot to do an independent quiz or two every time. It's either I get my crap together or it takes me three times to learn from my mistakes.
Hello I'm an ISFP taking med tech course. I think I'm ruined
As a human... I felt this.
I am an INFP and that is so true 🥲
I may not expect much from me or from events but in the end, no matter what, I still feel disappointed
Even in relationships I expect too much and think my expectation is the minimum when in reality it exceeds the maximum capacity of a person
When they don’t meet it I get upset and I end up being lonely
Thats why no matter what I do I’m always going to be lonely
🙂
I believe I am an INFJ from the Truity quiz I took. I think the perfectionism is a huge problem. In schooling, falling behind even slightly or doing poorly in one assignment sends me into a failing spiral, looking at previous work too much to focus on current ones. There were also characters I could never draw because the first draft had to be spot on. A huge help in overcoming these issues was to have a more positive mindset on mistakes, accepting and learning from them. That movie Meet the Robinsons helps me push onward through failular with how failing is a huge part of learning.
I suggest llooking into cognitive functions
Being a ENTJ myself and having met others of the same personality, I do agree with being too cold at times. It is certainly a balancing act to do the best thing and show warmth to those around you. Appreciate this video for showing all the vices to watch out, and that regardless of personality, there is always something to improve upon.
INTJ here. I can be very blunt, which I guess can come off as dismissive. I am also stubborn and do not trust easily. Once I decide I don't like someone, they stay in that category until they do something to convince me otherwise. I am trying to be better, and I am always wanting to adapt. It helps that I have empathetic peers, I try to model their positive behaviours.
I love how on ISFJ it said “MATH IS MATH”
This is extremely accurate. I’m INTJ and I judge people as soon as I meet them and never stop, and I can be very dismissive at times.
I'm an INTP and I'm realizing that it may be working against me when combined with past trauma. I naturally have a lot of trouble finding friends that I feel really understand me and I often do end up getting in my own head at the inconvenience of others. However, formative experiences in my life have made me very conscious of other people's emotions and I frequently worry that I'm bothering them, being too clingy, being too distant, that they're lying when they say they enjoy spending time with me, etc. This combination has led me to withdraw from people I care about for fear of annoying them, because logically if I cut myself off from them, it won't be a problem anymore.
Everytime you feel like this, remember this: You only have 1 life. This is it. At the end of the day, we enter this earth alone, and we will die alone, the only people we really and can truly trust is ourselves, so why should we worry about if we are annoying others. Be proud of your own personality and just LIVE! Half the time people are too caught up in their own lives. And if someone really cares that much or us spreading negative information about you its cause when they talk about themselves no one listens. Im saying this cause it happened to me and I literally never even spoke to that person. My my what fans. Anyways just live your life, no matter what anyone thinks. Be strong and brave. it all improves with time.
I’m an esfp and I always worry about others to the point I don’t think about myself. My friend was going through a tough time so I said to her that her problems will be mine now and I will help her no matter what. I took on her problems and as soon as I did I became super depressed due to not taking care of myself. I luckily don’t do it as bad but I’m still a huge people pleaser and it’s kind of a problem
As an ISFJ I see it, because I'm always told that I'm stubborn and never want to listen to others advice and change... but it's just too hard because i worry that if it doesn't work out then I'll blame them...
Say no moreeee 👍
I believe most isfjs suffered trauma to where we are now I used to be a rebel and social but now I'm introverted and love rules.
I'm an INFJ and you really got me with that one. Very true!
Which part was the most relatable to you?
I am an ENFJ-A, and that is very true. Sometimes I forget that it's the person's choice to be who they really are and reach that level, I can't force them. And I may pretend that nothing is wrong when clearly something is I don't want to make the other person worry or be afraid. And that comes very true and I'm working on just being more honest with my feelings and just be open and be sad and show other emotions and help my friend become the best selves but remember it's their choice and support them. Just be honest with feelings and worry about myself for just 1 minute and still help everyone else with their own potential. Truly ENFJ-A and ENFJ-T very great and not to mentioned empathetic and compassionate. I'm still trying to work out of loving myself more as a person especially just helping everyone else to announce field loved and forgetting to just love myself I'm still trying to work out of loving myself more as a person especially just helping everyone else to feel loved and forgetting to just love myself And it's still an ongoing process but I believe I'll get there and other people will get there. At least I'm patting know that I'm an ENFJ-A that's I should be proud of myself and who I am as a person. And other people who are ENFJ-A too. And I love people a lot so free hugs. Go ENFJ-A 🤩🤩🤩!!!!!
I think ISFJ is a little misunderstood in this video. It mades them out to be some boomer that refuses to change their ways, but in actuality its just difficult/scary for us to change in fear of making mistakes. We really care about other people and hate to disappoint them. So, doing something new that we are uncertain about can be terrifying, but it doesn't mean we don't make the effort. It's just more difficult and we'd rather avoid it if it's not necessary.
As a ISFJ-A myself, Thank you!! Someone who actually understands us completely.
Thank you as a fellow isfj-t I'm tired of people saying we're "angels " "perfect moms" and kind all the time we try to please people to fit in and why does everyone think of us as nurses I don't want to be a nurse I'm who I want to be which is not a nurse growing up.
Ah yes, as an INFP, I certainly daydream a WHOLE LOT throughout the days that come by. My imagination is extremely vivid which is good but also pretty bad.
i hate it but love it but also hate it 🤪
the artstyle is so great!
as an ENTP i struggle with looking and acting like i’m uncaring but i’m working hard to be more caring outwardly to other people!
ENFP-A here. One of the most important things to learn is that it is fine to wish for things like wanting to be liked, popular, funny or successfull etc.
It’s when we don’t just want it but expect it of ourselves that we go down a dangerous path.
Placing expectations on ourselves and feeling forced to live up to them are maybe the most common reason for feeling dissatisfied with ones life.
Comparing yourself with your ideal version of yourself is dangerous. Don’t force yourself to be perfect.
Self love is easing the preassure you put on yourself.
You can wish for anything but don’t take things you don’t have for granted. Avoid expectations.
Also don’t worry if people like you. Most people are indifferent towards most people that they don’t Interact much with. Be yourself but don’t force yourself to be what you think is your best side. Be who you feel like you are in the moment. Be yourself.
Hopes this helps someone.
As an INTP I can connect with people, but I am super blunt and to the point. If I notice something I will say it without a lot of prep. I just don't think people should need to care about how they feel.... Emotion is a tool to fuel improvement, so fairly accurate. I am also frequently misunderstood (likely a facet of my analytic tendencies and unusual way of getting a point across) so that agreed with me as well.
I wish more people watched this channel, this is one of the most useful resources on the internet, for getting to know how our brains psychology works directly, without skipping over the hard stuff like dark empaths etc.
Honestly as someone who's an INFP-J, both descriptions fit really well for me, especially when it comes to holding unrealistic expectations for myself and others, and also getting in my own way at times. I don't talk to people much, so a lot of the whole "me getting in my own way" thing happens in terms of gaming or projects I work on, and I tend to expect people to hold similar morals and ideals subconsciously, more than I'd like to actually. Guess I still got some work to do
I have the same problem, I'm also either INFP or INFJ and I overthink everything. Even in a game where I'm supposed to be relaxing, I still have to overthink which characters I should use. I definitely get in my own way.
It's an easy dilemma to solve since INFP and INFJ have nothing in common.
@@Uwasa3366 I think you meant the cognitive functions and that's true, but they do have many similarities, so it's not always easy to tell them apart.
@@NightCloudI Yes it’s what I mean
Why do I feel like an INTP, INTJ, and INFJ at the same time?
As an ENTJ, this hit close to home.
Whenever someone steps out of line and drops their efficiency level, I would go crazy and say hurtful things towards them, even if i didnt really mean it. I do the same to myself. Efficiency is one of the most important things to keep up to survive in life, i cant afford to lose it.
INTJ here, Never got to my worst trait since my parents taught me better than that. In fact they were so good at it I thought I was part feeler.
As an Advocate and previously Architect (I've taken the test a few times over my life and swayed from Architect to Advocate) I think you hit the nail on the head. I have a habit of identifying and trying to fix problems I have (that toxic perfectionism) and actually recognized my analysis paralysis as a problem, it leads to me having a worse outcome from not choosing soon enough than if I made a poor choice and have worked on that, I make decisions quicker than I used to though admittedly I'm still slow sometimes, and I do it with confidence cause it doesn't do me good to dwell on past decisions beyond learning from it. Failing faster means I improve faster. As for the Architect that I once was, yeah, I was very insensitive to emotion, mine and others. It was only when I realized that emotion more than logic is what drives people to act, to do things, and that I might be able to use that to drive myself to be better as well by recognizing my emotions and addressing them instead of locking them up as useless nonsense holding me back that I understood others more, and in turn myself. That realization was probably what started my transition from INTJ to INFJ, Architect to Advocate. Nowadays if I take the test my Feeling/Thinking scale sits only a little weighted on the feeling side, still pretty close to the line on it.
INTP, I can for sure say, I can be sarcastic and condescending a fair bit when someone doesn’t understand something that I deem very simple, and I have a hard time building emotional connections with people. I’ve never had true friends, only schoolmates or acquaintances, and I always metaphorically watched everyone else be happy, through the glass box I was in. Now that I have a better understanding of myself, I know that I’m the one that has to shatter the box and move forward, and I’m working on it, but I still haven’t gotten that far.
I passed the MBTI test once and it showed that I have 76% for I, 50% for N-S, 58% for T and 50% for J-P, so I guess I'm 4 personality types at once: INTP, ISTP, INTJ and ISTJ. And this video described my worst traits while it was describing traits for these 4 types
It's normal, everyone is different. If you want to know what your real type is, check for cognitive functions.
There are more detailed versions of the MBTI that can show you much more accurate results!
@@Psych2gocan you tell me which is in your opinion the best? I would really like to know better my personality.
@@trainerrik4863mistype investigator or sakinorva (I would recommend taking both)
I'm also 50/50 on the two inner letters. I found it helpful way to think about it as "what do I naturally gravitate or prefer to do" most of the time. And it's a spectrum. You will probably elicit both sides but you will naturally favor one over the other.
Congrats you have a new subscriber 😀
As INTP, I know one thing:
People HATE argue with us.
Because, more worked up they get, more confused we are. More confused we are, more worked up they get, because they think, we don't take them seriously and treat them like kids/CONDESCENDINGLY. We don't. We just prove, we are RIGHT, because WHY they are worked up just flee our radar. At least on 'empathizing' level... 😅
I think even if they weren't that noticable in everyone but everyone still has each trait to a degree..
As an INTP myself, i can deeply agree with this
Edit: I liked my own comment
That little guy dancing at the end was way too cute 💕
My weakness is that I have really bad repressed anger issues that rear there ugly head in circumstances when friends push my buttons and I explode out of nowhere and might say something I regret or if they are someone I don’t like that’s pissing me off but I seem to be cordial at the beginning but if they push enough buttons it gets physical fast which scares me because I way more strength then anyone else around me
that's just trauma tbh. anyone who has ever felt unsafe and feared for their life will feel like this. it gets better, but you have to practice mindfulness whenever you feel your buttons being pushed. it's tough but you will react less with practice.
So far no mention of INTJ. As someone who has taken the test, I am happy to find out that there is nothing wrong with this personality type.
As an ENTP I usually don’t think about other people’s emotions when I say something, so I have made my younger brother cry when I say something I think is true (and probably is) but he doesn’t like it. I think it’s annoying because I know I’m right. I know it’s something I need to work on though :/
as an INTJ, i am self aware so i stop those things from happening, but ik someone just like it. i dont usually think im superior, or atleast i dont act upon it.
5:40 man that hurts. Some people love my playful criticism. Over the years it translates to theatrical despair and I make ironic faces. Ex: "oh no not this person again" with a smile :)
I'm an ISTJ; besides, this video has enabled me to understand myself better!
I should probably take the test again. I’ve only ever taken it twice and last time I took it I was an INTP. It’s been a while, but I do agree that I suck at social interaction. I’m curious whether or not my results have changed
"Most replayed" lands on INFP, INFJ, INTP... somehow I'm not surprised but that's still funny how much that lives up to Psych2Go viewer stereotypes
as an ENTP, this is so accurate, ill try to fix myself....tryyyyyy
I'm not gonna be those people that go "FIRST!!! FIRST!!!" But I'd just like to say, Psych2Go is the best channel I've ever watched.
i usually come out as an INTJ, but i'm definitely in touch with my own emotions so the pitfalls of the INTP sound more like me. i can make small talk with strangers but i'm loathe to "make new friends." when i take my kids to birthday parties, i tend to go with my husband and we both just keep to ourselves during the party. i'm much more comfortable socializing online, possibly because it feels like it's all taking place "in my head."
2:48 I love the Owl House cameo on the computer!
I don't feel like an INTJ anymore, I'm no longer cold or arrogant.
Thanks for the amazing video 🙏 as an ISTJ I really can relate. But is it really a bad thing ?
2:51 that is the owl house, I recognise owl house! I respect this channel, and I don’t know how to respect more, but now i do.
ISTJ's worst personality trait: ...Yep, that's me. 😅
Nice artwork 👍🏻
INTP here.
What might look like a casual interaction with someone I don't know actually has me playing a complex game of interpretation in which I'm gauging how much of me I can show based on how others are reacting.
If I seem distracted, it's because I am. Go on, try holding a conversation while calculating outcomes for every response you may give based on insufficient data, and knowing miscalculation will result in misinterpretation and therefore rejection.
Man being INFJ is tru I'm stuck with this perfection loop mainly affects my creating art and posting yt.
why do you guys always need to prove yourself...😫
I am an intj and I am not cold or dismissive , even I consider myself quite emotional for feeling sad just because sometimes i forget to feed my cat
Hey Psych2go,
Can you make a Video Specifically Talking about :
Cognitive Functions,Enneagram / Tritype, Instinctual Variants?
So viewer can Understand about themself more rather than using "MBTI Test" ish :)
one about the big 5 would be nice too since it's the most accurate typing method.
top 10 things that will never happen
I love how this channel is slowly turning into mbti videos!! 😊
2:49 IT'S THE OWL HOUSE!
Bro because of these videos I got a girlfriend for the first time in 4 years.
4:37 I can confirm I’m a INFP and I always disappoint myself 😭
I heavily agree with this as an intj I was given a gift I spent all my time indoors left with my own thoughts and work that I lost the reason to interact with people so much that I shut them of or never speak to them.
Thank you for this video, these traits are very interesting and had me questioning about these, have a bless day!
As an INTJ, that describes me really well, you know your stuff!
As an INFP I can say I do feel like I am always a step behind of where I SHOULD be. Which is a ridiculous unachievable notion, but this "you can do it, shark mindset" culture is kind of always pushing more and more.
As an INFJ this is true. I can become a perfectionists when it comes to my art, even the slightest incorrect line would displease me.
And we're kinda picky on how we choose friends if that's how infj's are.
When I took the Myer's-Brigg's test 3 years apart, I got 2 different personality results: 1st, INFP, and 2nd, INTP. I can't tell what exactly caused this change, but I think it may have something to do with my slow shift away from my old idealistic (but often impractical😅) way of thinking. I still hold my ideals, but I've started questioning them a lot more since then, and become a lot more skeptical. I started focusing less on the broad ideas of my ideals, and more on the proven methods to actually achieve them. Sort of a philosophical shift from Idealism to Utilitarianism.
I guess this means I either lost one weakness, but gained another, OR I now have 2 weaknesses to manage!😂
Do you think the change in the result reflected your personality accurately?
As an infp for some reason for me personally the red flags of persievers don’t feel to bad for me, but the ones of the judging people make me feel drained when even thinking about it, sorry to all judging people 🙏🏻
As an ISTJ i will be honest for the first tume and say all my bad personality traits first is like u said i am too much on the line or by the book i hate change in my lufe and i can't stand people who rely too much on emotions
INFP here ☁️ i definetly live with my head in the clouds, have the most vivid imagination which is beautiful and i love to escape reality almost all of the time. but, a lot of the times i play out scenarios in my head like movies, romanticise eveurthing, live in this picture perfect world of made up pretend moments, and i can become so swept up by those scenarios that i expect them to manifest and be real in my real life, and i can become so upset when they don't happen or someone doesn't act a certain way like i dreamed up in my head. 🌧️
Started off with me and nailed it with the stubbornness 💀 tbh tho I don't think and I've never been told that I'm unreliable
I'm an INFP (Mediator) and I was daydreaming when you called me out lol
As an INFP i just skipped to my type...🫣
Enfp here. And yes, it can get very stressful.
Being so disorganized and having no focus at all really makes our lives harder. And it’s also not like we can fix this behavior in one snap, it’s very hard to brush off.
I was not ready for you to start with my personality type
5:43 as an intj I’m only like this when I don’t get enough personal space
I am a ISFJ
And Ivan agree with this on a high level to the point it's just describing me
How many bad traits do i have?
Yes. I do.
The TPs seem to be the least of the worst and I’m pleasantly surprised by that lol
INTJ... Ouch, I felt that one. Aware and actively working on it though! Thank you.
You just told my Dad's and Grandma's (dad's Mom's) biggest flaws. They are sooo INTJ. I've been telling my Mom that it's just their personality, but my Mom can't stand those flaws. I've gotten used to those bad traits
Mlp reference at 0:01 ❤
My personality type is INFP and I do admit to being a daydreamer. For me, daydreaming is a way to escape the dullness and the responsibilities of reality and live in a world where I can be whatever I want and do what I want to do.