'METHA YA KAGONI: I HAD NO OTHER CHOICE BUT TO WALK OUT OF MY MARRIAGE' - MARGARET WAMBUI (part 1)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ธ.ค. 2019
- When Margaret Wambui married her lover at the age of twenty, all she desired was to age with him but perpetual unfaithfulness that resulted even to violence made her walk out of what she cherished the most: marriage. At the wake of the killings been seen in families, she says that she is grateful that she walked out.
#MethayaKagoni
#BetterDivorcedThanDead
I also walked out of my marriage 4years ago weighing 40kgs and earning a penny and now am weighing 65kg and earning 4x of what I was earning....sometimes you have to kill toxic relationship for your future to survive
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Glory to God,,,i walk out of my marriage last year november i was weighing 43kgs but now am 55kgs,i thank God for healing my soul,it wasnt easier but i walk out eith faith and confidence with my God
Same here with no money but now earning more than 40k per month
Wambui you are a strong woman it took me 30yrs to know. That the man in my life was only there to destroy my name youth and leave . you continue to 8 years after I left my marriage I Thank God that i made .
The strongest and most healthy party in a relationship is not the one who hangs onto a failing and violent relationship BUT the one who acknowledges there is a problem, admits there is danger and tries to address the issue. The one who realuzes that his or her mental health and personal safety is more important than anything else.
Why would a rational man leave such a pretty and soft-spoken woman. Bure kabisa.
Thanks for coming out.One lesson for all of us is that as long as there is violence,the child suffers .That chikd could have chocked.Best therapy is where there is constant infidelity and violence leave: do not wait for fight 2.No therapy heals.Lies !
Monicah you are a great lady and you have what it takes to achieve your destiny.may God hold your hands as you continue changing life of many for the better.
I did the same 6yrs ago....i walked out of my marriage nikiwa 32kgs😫😓na akinioa Nilkuwa na 65kgs....i was soo hurt n depressed but saai iam oky...i thank God. #Monicah nitafte 1day nikuje ni share my story
i surely will
Wooi kairetu nie cia kihiko ndiaragia.....wooi, ngaria miaka 80 yathira
Umekuja kutoa mambo yetu Kwa media?
@@wawerunjenga2877Leo tutatoboa zote 😂!
Wooi aki women we go through alot.but all in all mungu yupo
It's painful and hearted to a beautiful lady ,but thanks Lord for you to being alive
Hope you find happiness gal you beautiful & mature,I'm single but always pray to have a family one dy ,been single for 15 yrs ,no one should go through domestic violence.
Hii story is a real reflection of many ladies who truly are faithful.May God give you a better man.Hii story Kagoni haijaisha🤔🤔🤔
I like her green and yellow dress...nice
Wambui my sista namesake...God bless you....Sana pretty gal💋♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏👸
May God bless single mothers coz men r such evils was in the same situation but thank God am safe n secure wid my lovely daughter.....
This lady is a saint...she is very mature
Touching story indeed I sympathise with her.
Watching from Saudi be blesed monicah
Surely its very painful I went through such moment but God d good am still alive
She is a very strong woman.... My friend from childhood.
I always say that one msg you doubt has something in it always follow your instincts .
Na watu wanakaa wakiuliza mtu ataolewa lini.Wee! ngahika denda
onanie...
Ona dugatide ukìhika
onanie ngahika denda
Wee bio ni ndirenda kuhika
Hapo sasa ama Pata mtoi ujipange kisolo
Pole mum and thanks to GOD your strong and well.your story is painful but mine is more nimetoka Kwa hiyo marriage after being there 15yrs am praying GOD to open away for me .Thenks 4 sharing u have given me hope.
For me it takes 20 years but I come out with nothing only my clothing's I have accept myself and moving on slowly by slowly ,I have my peace now need to share my story one day
Same case happened to me i walked out of marriage now this is my 8th yr i was 75kg nikiolewa nikatoka na 45 😃😃😃kama kuku now am 90s single happy no stress nansitaki kukonda 😃😃😃 nikafaa gwethaa thayu
Aki it's better you leave if there is no peace
I was in the same situation but I walked out in 2017 and am glad I did that.
Wah! Icio nyondo Kagoni irugamite thaa thita.
This is exactly my story...I thank God i was able to move out....
Your story is very much similar to mine it's actually same. only difference is there's no coparenting and I walked out immediately I realised there was a third party because there is nothing to salvage when it gets to that point.
Marriage is painful.But I always hear some work.Happy for them.
I am sorry for all her tribulations. She fought for the guy to be by her so hard that she forgot about her baby and even went to confront the other woman. One cannot force themselves on someone. Letting go it hard, painful but usually it is the best way.
Andu aria mariragia aria angi,matithiaga kaburi matarihite,God gave them a promise what ever a person soweth he must reap .
Aki Wambui Mungu alikupee ujasili kujua bwana ndie alitafuta huyo dame,ukaona usimuguse,but haya yote ulipitia atakuja kuilipa hapa ndunia hii, Ngai nioi kurihiria mundu
Monica. God bless you smart siz ❤️🙏🙏
Nice topics
Keep up
Following you Gathoni nikiwa Qatar
My story but God is mighty nilikanyanga kubwa kubwa and am happy 😊
I have experience this
this is powerful....i May God see us thru
Reke theke nie nderiruo rau we ugethie ko nanouthire na haha hanyu kianda rau ona kuria nde ndigeshoka maguru ajaragia akajaga.
Nii nderirwo ngurio ni thina njoke gwake lkn Ngai uria uturaga niwe uii maisha ma mundu....hau kairetu wariama mundu e kihikoni nia cenjagia akaga riri kuringana na uria aigitwo...
I know this Wamboo she is from our home place
She is hery beautiful
Wambui you look sweet twenty cute
Gathoni i love ur show watching frm qatar
Doha chaaloo
And those people who always ask unaoleka lini marriage ain't for everyone
Woi Wii woi monicah nie nijui uria arauga nigereire
Women love and treat yourself hiyo ndo kitu ya maana Sana atazurura na mwisho akuje begging for your forgiveness when is too late na unasonga kama injili
Sure, wangu tuliachana na siku hizi ananibembeleza bt nlisonga mbele..
Most of them don’t realize “ you don’t know what you have until imeburuka”
I still wonder where those girls finds our numbers......upto now 5yrs ago sijawai jua nani alimpea number yangu
Ati a woman told her you have left your man for someone else. The truth is he left her for someone else!
Ici ihiko niikarema mundu aikare maisha make wanaume nmatuumiza sana ici thimu nacio nimahia sometimes instead of suffering kiura ruga nindaremirwo kafa stress free thanks for sharing .same happened to me God is great instead of depression.
weee Monicah kwarehe thîna kîûra rûgaaa 😂😂😂😂
The program is great but some of us we don't understand the language I only understand the heading
But this is a local channel.. Learn kikuyu dear or get married a kikuyu man .
Nagging.
Monica please naweza taka kushare my story please..
Ndoa ni kujitolea.Kagoni i think mine is worst than this but God is faithful am strong.I wish also to share my story
Most of marriages life is a hell
@@monienjeri3042 ata usiongee habinti
Uui poor child, they suffer most!
Most men changes after the wife gets pregnant
Yes true
Arume matakiri bata na ciana,mwana mutumia niwe ukoragwo na bata nake
@@anneanne8476 am beginning to think so aki
I thanks God mine is very different
I think your from nyeri right
Woiyeee I feel her pain, love hurts😭😭😭😭
It doesn't hurt but ,people who don't know how to love are the one's who hurt others.
I agree with you
Let always have both side of the story, what about the man's side?
thats too much.but ya dunia ni ya duniaatalipa
Am a woman but wanawake kanyangeni pore pore after every turnel this a right whatevery you saw you reap
Uriganirwo Ni mwana uthie ugethe mundurume wina nyina 😳 siwezi,ukijua mwanaume anacheat,don't stay there ati atachange ,songa mbele yeye si brother yako na tena huwezi change mtu mzima..wacheni kushinda mkipigania wanaume,they are useless,muache utapata mwingine.
The pain at the moment of realization can make you do crazy things..weeeh🤗 but there is God🙏
Kabisa
navile ako smart
Where is part 2 Monica please?
Pauline Wanjugu it’s there on the channel
Mnasemaga mnakosea mm nishawahi lazwa kitanda mmoja na ndem ya bwanangu ,wanaume ukiwaona waogope
Khai
Agnes ukiwa mgojwa ama
@@rahabnjuguna776 sikuwa hata na homa
Wooi pole Agnes sometimes I think being a woman ni ngumu.ati hukua ata na homa😂😂😂😂😂
Me too oh, for 1month, I used to prepared breakfast wakiwa bed.breakfast in bed
Monica, you've said something in the counseling profession that many of the Kenyan therapist miss a lot and i keep wondering what kind of therapy schools they went to. In the counseling profession you explore the pro and cons of remaining in marriage but you dont advice the client to leave a relationship. Advising someone to leave a relationship, its most likely that the therapist client relationship will be tainted and most probably the client will not come back when he/she return back to the marriage.
Hee no siku hizi just say chura ruka even if you love him but he has beaten you toka give him space and discuss things later....weee
Onakaba Kuma handu hakugerana ngero
Ungikahara mundurume ni kumbana nita kuongerera ngu riko mwaki wakane wega (Ninguo wedwo wao unenehaga)atumia meriai kiu🙄 kuma ndaigatuo gwaka menyete maingi I hv 13yrs single now
Beatrice Peter yap why not my friend
Kagoni God bless you job yako ni poa Agnes
Peacock Dove 🕊 I know what am saying is the truth
Marriage is not a bed of roses
I swore never to fight for a man. Let him go. They try to come back after you settle down and succeed in life. Thats when you show them how useless they are
@@susanapollo284 true
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Mimi niliondokea na nikahamia UK juu ya aibu
marriage to hell by steve irungu jermaine
Ati mukawa ucio wetuo atia
😭Fear this gender. Narsiccists should be included in the wild animals category
Igiruta ta uyu ku
Woishe😢😭😭😭😭😭😭.Nmelia coz ua story na yangu n the same.But karma issa bitch
No need to fight for a man,he takes you as useless and desperate,love yourself and keep yourself busy,
Men whatever you saw you will reap,
Yes will their slayqueens
Na slayqueens wao kiboko ya mungu iko
They plant , they sow! And the harvesting time itakuwa in daylight ☀️
I love this show very much but presenter Monica should give time to narrator to give her story without interruptions. I love you Monica you are cute
Monica's asks when something isn't clear or she wants the story to flow.she's the best.
Who.is writting what you're saying?it's so annoying
Aki wanaume nini inakuaga mbaya na wao such a beautiful woman in and out pole Sana wambui, mimi sijawahi olewa but I pray day and nights nisiwahi patana na ghasia ya mwanaume I don't want to say all men are bad
Wairimu witu
@@ndaromungai2309 nikii MA
She is very very beautiful
Maybe it is not this man plan to break this marriage but dark forces behind this marriage. I can see I great marrige in future btwn them.
We always excuse men for their bad behaviour. Blame it on alcohol,devil or black magic
Aki na vile kanakaa kapole,,,
Unapingana na mwanaume kwn wewe ni jackchung,,,,
Mii nikutoka mbio na siezi Rudi nyuma
Niciaki thimo cia arume anyu mumemagia🤷🏻♀️nii ona ingitinda ikirira hau ndingioya😏
So now you want a cookie for that? Conoka
Because you do not value yourself, why would you lie low to be number 2 or doormat, with the HIV epidemic on the lose? You are a queen!
@@joycenjeri1225 The last part is fun 😅
Niyedaga kuroruo rimwe na rimwe 😅if at all tiwakwihikwo digatwike ndutura karimu.
Mimi Kama sijui simu yako sijui ni Nini tunafanya na wewe .??nakuondokea h
Ju kwanza mwanamke akishikwa akicheat Mara moja hua anafukuzwa milele na anaonekana na society akiwa mtu mbaya sana na uyo mwanaume anaoa tena but mwanaume akicheat inafaa ati umuombee na uvumilie atachange
Hakuna kitu mbaya kama upende mume wako na yeye anakuona kama takataka. Heri kuishi single and happy kuliko married na lonely.
Labda hata huyu bwana hajielewi anajipata tu wanawake wengine.
Aki afadhari kukaa single,...stress free
Kukaa single ni hard ukiwa na desire ya sexual partner ndio maana ata huyu after kutoka bado anajaribu other relationship
@@antonykanyi4735 ukiweka GOD first ni possible. But divorce sio poa ni vile devil huleta
@@antonykanyi4735 hakuna mtu anapenda ataa but ikifika Ni kukata io kauli,unakuanga umefika mwisho ata kaa bado mdogo unaona hakuna otherwise
A violent woman. You should not have gone to fight him and the new wife. You should have searched your soul and asked yourself what was wrong with you.
As you say the love strengthens.
If you resist water when swimming you sink.
Senseless.
Senseless...can't u feel the pain of this woman
Whoever u are hell is not far from where u are
Shut up
Why was she Snooping the Husbands phone? That's invasion of privacy...Ladies never go through a Man's phone
Hahaha kwann nyinyi ni bro na siz wa huyo mtu,kama simu hatushare ata body ni private msishare
@@judynjerisilvanus6573 ur time is coming
Tunakuona ,omba Sana isikupate