It’s so hard to know what to say to folks who find out they’re not pregnant, but I am sending you so much love and a giant hug. I am not one to pray, but I will be thinking about both of you during this time and sending positive vibes❤️
Hi Chandler, sending all my love and support. Regardless of the outcome of this process I hope you can find happiness and peace! Life tends to come around and surprise us when we least expect. You have an entire community that is cheering for you, just know that 💖
I have been a stay at home mom for 10 years and I am so grateful I was able to do it. I love being available for my son and getting to dedicate time to my home and family, as well as my own development. I love it so much that I don't have a boss or workplace to answer to. It does take time and planning to be productive and find your passions once your kids are in school you can dedicate your time to those passions whenever you want.
Your videos are coming out almost exactly in time with my wife and my first ttc cycle, including not getting pregnant this first time. While of course I wish everything went smoothly and easily for you, it is comforting to watch someone going through roughly the same thing at the same time (delayed due to editing and such of course). Appreciate your posts on this topic!!
I'm so sorry this isn't the news you were hoping for - thanks for sharing & being vulnerable. This is such an important look at what it means to be resilient, and for me this is such a good reminder of what it means to bounce back from hardship, thank you so much💕 P.S. How exciting about starting a channel, Haden! Let us know when you start, I'd be happy to subscribe
also thinking of how far you have come from that girl with the bow headbands standing in her apartment talkin about wolfsong. you have come so far and I am proud to say i’ve been here for years and seen your growth online and just… it makes me happy. you are a great person.
Wow as someone going through the same infertility journey.... I had no idea it would feel so good to feel seen and have my feelings be validated. Thank you for sharing so much.
I know what you are going through. It took us a year and a half to finally get pregnant, and during that time it was so heartbreaking every time it didn't work. I cried many times even though I knew logically it wasn't my fault and I did everything I could. Finally, I had to just stop worrying and trying for my own mental health, and it happened.
I’m so sorry Chandler!! All I can say is that the universe has its own timing, and when time comes for you guys to be parents, all of these challenges will be worth it! We are here for you!
I admire your strength so much! I’m not as far into my ttc journey as you (now on cycle 7) and honestly I’m starting to feel depressed by it. I’ve always wanted to be a mother and I thought it would happen quickly for me. Your ability to have a good outlook is so amazing. I told my husband the other day if we make it to one year without getting pregnant that we’re going to Disney so I get you there lol I hope your next transfer sticks and you have a healthy, boring, safe pregnancy.
As someone who struggled with infertility for many many years and cried over it many many times, my heart hurts for you. I’m so happy to hear you’re prioritizing yourself! The only thing that kept me sane was having things to look forward to. Plan that Disney vacation but make it refundable!
I’m so invested in your infertility journey and I’m so sorry. I hope you have success next time and if not, you still have plenty of options. I love you ❤
I know this is so random for me to mention bc there are more obvious things to comment about in this video, but I JUST noticed you speak with a crispy r and I love it 🫶
Gravitated toward this video after being pretty sure I'm not pregnant again (coming up on the one year anniversary of my 2nd miscarriage) and I'm sorry this isn't the news you were hoping for. The TTC journey is a roller coaster of emotions and navigating it can be so hard. Wishing you the best of luck in your next round! 💗
Im so sorry that this round didnt work but so glad you are keeping positive and working through it! 💕 fingers crossed next round will go better all around. Infertility sucks and you are so brave for sharing and going through this process.
oh sweet chan, I miss seeing nugget in your videos. grief is so complex and i think it makes sense he’s been on your heart. no words of wisdom here, just letting you know i love you !!!! 💌
I do know this was sad and disappointing for you both, I’m sending you both love and lots of baby dust! My wife and I are starting our baby journey right now and we’ve already hit some snags but are feeling optimistic. ✨✨
Not pregnant...yet. My father was infertile due to severe health conditions. He worked with his doctors and made a lot of sacrifices. They beat the odds, I'm here.
Oh honey, the start of this video kicked me right in the feels. Miscarriage fucking sucks, to put it lightly, Ive had two and my most recent was last September making the baby I lost due on the day before my birthday. Ouch! I know you know this but just know you aren’t alone in this and I found even just knowing that, not necessarily talking to people about it, I felt more comfortable that it wasn’t just my body failing. Does that make sense idk. But you are completely right, you are so amazingly young and have time on your side. They say you are most fertile straight after a miscarriage which we also took advantage of and luckily for us it worked out. But give the second transfer a go and we all have a fingers crossed for you. But if it doesn’t work taking care of yourself sounds like a pretty amazing plan because that’s something that you definitely can’t do as much of when you have a small gremlin. So it’s better to go into it with a full cup to drain than an empty or mostly empty cup. ❤❤
How do you read so many books and not end up sedentary? Yes this is a serious question. Once I start reading my day is gone. How much time per day does one read? When does one read?
As someone who is also trying to conceive and found out I wasn't on the same day as you that I wasn't pregnant. I feel you. I'm sorry.
i’m so sorry. it’ll happen for us, i believe it ❤️
I’m so sorry.
The “we don’t piss the bed” with a high five made me laugh out loud
It’s so hard to know what to say to folks who find out they’re not pregnant, but I am sending you so much love and a giant hug. I am not one to pray, but I will be thinking about both of you during this time and sending positive vibes❤️
27:00 the sweat conversation had me howling at the gym 🤣🤣 These impromptu personal conversations are the BEST
Hi Chandler, sending all my love and support. Regardless of the outcome of this process I hope you can find happiness and peace! Life tends to come around and surprise us when we least expect. You have an entire community that is cheering for you, just know that 💖
I have been a stay at home mom for 10 years and I am so grateful I was able to do it. I love being available for my son and getting to dedicate time to my home and family, as well as my own development. I love it so much that I don't have a boss or workplace to answer to. It does take time and planning to be productive and find your passions once your kids are in school you can dedicate your time to those passions whenever you want.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey and being so vulnerable with us. ❤
Your videos are coming out almost exactly in time with my wife and my first ttc cycle, including not getting pregnant this first time. While of course I wish everything went smoothly and easily for you, it is comforting to watch someone going through roughly the same thing at the same time (delayed due to editing and such of course). Appreciate your posts on this topic!!
I'm so sorry this isn't the news you were hoping for - thanks for sharing & being vulnerable. This is such an important look at what it means to be resilient, and for me this is such a good reminder of what it means to bounce back from hardship, thank you so much💕
P.S. How exciting about starting a channel, Haden! Let us know when you start, I'd be happy to subscribe
also thinking of how far you have come from that girl with the bow headbands standing in her apartment talkin about wolfsong. you have come so far and I am proud to say i’ve been here for years and seen your growth online and just… it makes me happy. you are a great person.
thanks for sticking around friend ❤️ your words always mean the most!
Wow as someone going through the same infertility journey.... I had no idea it would feel so good to feel seen and have my feelings be validated. Thank you for sharing so much.
I know what you are going through. It took us a year and a half to finally get pregnant, and during that time it was so heartbreaking every time it didn't work. I cried many times even though I knew logically it wasn't my fault and I did everything I could. Finally, I had to just stop worrying and trying for my own mental health, and it happened.
Not to take away from the seriousness, but the cat legs in the back at 7:21 had me smiling so big. 😊
I’m so sorry for you will be a great mom when the time comes.
I’m so sorry Chandler!! All I can say is that the universe has its own timing, and when time comes for you guys to be parents, all of these challenges will be worth it! We are here for you!
I admire your strength so much! I’m not as far into my ttc journey as you (now on cycle 7) and honestly I’m starting to feel depressed by it. I’ve always wanted to be a mother and I thought it would happen quickly for me. Your ability to have a good outlook is so amazing.
I told my husband the other day if we make it to one year without getting pregnant that we’re going to Disney so I get you there lol
I hope your next transfer sticks and you have a healthy, boring, safe pregnancy.
ty!! best of luck
As someone who struggled with infertility for many many years and cried over it many many times, my heart hurts for you. I’m so happy to hear you’re prioritizing yourself! The only thing that kept me sane was having things to look forward to. Plan that Disney vacation but make it refundable!
I’m so invested in your infertility journey and I’m so sorry. I hope you have success next time and if not, you still have plenty of options. I love you ❤
Sending you love and support 🩷 I hope that whatever is best for you happens whether it is having babies or not you deserve to be happy
I’m with Hayden on Usher’s half time show. I don’t know what the people hating on it were expecting - it was so good!
I know this is so random for me to mention bc there are more obvious things to comment about in this video, but I JUST noticed you speak with a crispy r and I love it 🫶
If you get any random, fun video ideas just post them here!
Gravitated toward this video after being pretty sure I'm not pregnant again (coming up on the one year anniversary of my 2nd miscarriage) and I'm sorry this isn't the news you were hoping for. The TTC journey is a roller coaster of emotions and navigating it can be so hard. Wishing you the best of luck in your next round! 💗
I love that Haden is such a big Usher fan. My oldest used to only call him "yeah man" because he couldn't remember Usher.
Im so sorry that this round didnt work but so glad you are keeping positive and working through it! 💕 fingers crossed next round will go better all around. Infertility sucks and you are so brave for sharing and going through this process.
The kitties grooming eachother is to cute!!
Chan I’m so sorry to see the title of this video. Sending all the hugs and baby dust your way! 💖
oh sweet chan, I miss seeing nugget in your videos. grief is so complex and i think it makes sense he’s been on your heart. no words of wisdom here, just letting you know i love you !!!! 💌
Glad to see you in great mood! We are here for you!
Just laughed out loud, home alone in my office, when he said “…for the Lord.” Died dead ☠️
I’m so sorry Chandler. Failed transfers are awful. ❤
Love your positivity! Good luck with your next cycle. ❤
I do know this was sad and disappointing for you both, I’m sending you both love and lots of baby dust! My wife and I are starting our baby journey right now and we’ve already hit some snags but are feeling optimistic. ✨✨
best of luck!!!
Not pregnant...yet. My father was infertile due to severe health conditions. He worked with his doctors and made a lot of sacrifices. They beat the odds, I'm here.
My father even lived longer than the doctors projected, perseverance is a powerful thing. I'm impressed by you and rooting for you
Oh honey, the start of this video kicked me right in the feels. Miscarriage fucking sucks, to put it lightly, Ive had two and my most recent was last September making the baby I lost due on the day before my birthday. Ouch! I know you know this but just know you aren’t alone in this and I found even just knowing that, not necessarily talking to people about it, I felt more comfortable that it wasn’t just my body failing. Does that make sense idk. But you are completely right, you are so amazingly young and have time on your side.
They say you are most fertile straight after a miscarriage which we also took advantage of and luckily for us it worked out. But give the second transfer a go and we all have a fingers crossed for you. But if it doesn’t work taking care of yourself sounds like a pretty amazing plan because that’s something that you definitely can’t do as much of when you have a small gremlin. So it’s better to go into it with a full cup to drain than an empty or mostly empty cup. ❤❤
Sending so much love & positivity your way Chandler.
sending you both love!
Sending you all the love!
Sending you all my love ❤
All the best ❤
I’m sending you love❤❤❤
Can we get Hayden's fantasy recommendations? Or you reading one book he recommends and then you discuss dbbc style?
we are doing something like this in the future :)
@@chandlerainsleyvlogs YAY!
How do you read so many books and not end up sedentary? Yes this is a serious question. Once I start reading my day is gone. How much time per day does one read? When does one read?
i am sedentary. but audiobooks help
@@chandlerainsleyvlogs me too. But I’m old and overweight. Maybe I’ll just keep enjoying your reviews for now.
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Honestly when it comes to Crescent City it’s SJM least well crafted series and Bryce just gets worse as the series happens and is so wishy washy