When I notice guys looking at me, and checking me out, I pretend like I don't see them. I will not smile, nor make eye contact. I've seen guys with their woman keep looking at me. So disrespectful in my book, so I pretend they are not there.
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This happens to me a lot at work. One of my co workers walks past me quite often. Sometimes I try not to think about it to much. But it happens quite often that it’s seems less of a coincidence lol.
My neighbor is doing this right now. He just sits in a chair in his front yard facing my house while playing on his phone or drinking a beer. Then when I come out he just stares at me. And wont look away when I look at him. I waved at him once and he waved back. But we haven't talked. I can't tell if he is a player or not because he seems confident about it. He even turns his head and looks into my open living room window while driving by. One time I just stood there and stared at him while he did that haha. Oh boy... 😂
why did you just describe our first interaction perfectly? 😭 we’ve seen each other around at church for almost a year now, but he finally approached me for the first time (that just so happened to be the day i was leaving & relocating to plant a church with my family in a new city/state 😐) this Sunday.. before he came up to me to start a conversation, he walked past me while i was talking to my girl friend & stopped, said hey, but kept walking. he then stood near me just kind of seeming to wait around, i turned around & looked in his direction (stole a couple glances) we made eye contact & smiled at one another a couple times but i didn’t approach him because i was too nervous & telling myself if he wants to approach me & a conversation is supposed to happen then it will, but i was still trying to be inviting by smiling. he didn’t approach me until the second time i turned around from talking to my friend & we made eye contact. he finally came up & proceeded to ask me a bunch of questions about myself (my friend snuck off quickly without my knowing 😂) then he came out & told me that he’s also moving to the same city to take the job of being a pastoral apprentice for my dad next month 😭😭 wish me luck guys!! 😅🤣👩🏾❤️💋👨🏽
gosh! I was so clueless. He stared, and watched my every move, here I took it as creepy or stalkish-type attitude. Attractive guy just a bit intimidating. Strangely we really had a deep connection our first eye contact. I was just to afraid to pursue it any further.
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So this is what it's called? Staking me out? Wow. A guy at wrk has been doing this to me since April 2018. I was wondering why he was doing this everyday. Now I know. Thank you.
Bro only insecure shy guys like myself will never ask you out and most of the time we are socialy awkward if we are on a one on one, you’ll feel the cringe and that cringe means they like you 😂🤣
The same is true for socially awkward women like myself. IF I recognize flirting in the first place, I'm socially clumsy about accepting and responding to it. LOL
I am oblivious to someone liking me unless they are in my face directly. I only get approached by the ones approaching all women directly, they show seggsual interest too quickly. My friends have told me men look at me, and a guy recently told my (girl)friend he didn’t think I was interested, and left. I had no idea. I need more content like this, and I guess I need to start being more aware of my surroundings in order for things to change for me. I’ve been single for 5 years, it’s been long enough.
You sound like me, I mostly only get approached by men that are very confident/macho and over sexual on the rare occasion that I do. I’m also noticing older men, like old enough to be my dad will approach me much more than men my own age. I think it’s a confidence thing. Older men seem to be more confident.
He approached me before and we just stood there emotionally making eye contact with each other until I went into my work building all frustrated and had sexual tension with him. I was upset that he disappeared for 2 weeks after I accidentally rejected him (after he confessed he has a crush on me and I froze since I have a massive one on him) and he said that he cares and doesn't want me to be upset. 2 weeks later he was looking sad, frustrated, than ignored me at times and now he's back standing around like he's waiting for me but he never speaks, just looks up at his phone and I think that's why I'm so nervous to talk to him. I'm left with confusion ,guilt, and anger towards myself. I feel guilty that I'm too shy to say hi but he did honk at me when we bumped into each other last Friday after midnight as I was going home from work. He came out of nowhere and it made my night. I wish we could get up the courage to talk. Its pretty sad since I really want to get to know him better especially after we first made an intimate connection and it was very intense a month ago and it was ruined by me. He works across from me and I finally got him to come back out to have his breaks at the tree again like he always had and I admired him from the distance for 8 months. Now its back to being normal again but awkward. I don't know what to do and if he even still has feelings for me,or what? I don't know how he can stand not speaking to me.
@@Philyra86 no, but I did pass by him a few years ago during the pandemic. I was spending too much time at work and didn't get to see my boyfriend at all until 3 years later since we were long distance and the pandemic didn't help . I learned from that experience though in my 30's, I'm now 40 along with others when it comes to long distance relationships, I just really missed my boyfriend. Unfortunately and sadly after finally seeing my boyfriend last year, which left me devastated, he passed away this year in May before his birthday. I wish I would have moved to his country. It's been a very very hard year. 💔 Thanks for checking in on me. ❤️ My traveling life is on my TH-cam channel, pretty much.
When you hv intense sexual attraction running over your n a crush… but he doesn’t come close to check u out, all too friendly to everyone except you. One day cold n one day warm greeting you.
"The Friend is not a threat" lol how do they know tae kwon do? I know most of your advice is for younger people but a lot of adults really haven't matured past high school either. Men should have no fear approaching women, they are not a threat. If a man is scared it is because he is a coward. No woman wants that. If what a stranger says to you can do damage then you are a weakling. Fix and invest in yourself, other people cannot do that for you. Approach anyone you want , who cares of the outcome, do it to enjoy yourself.
I always look at him when his back is turned💜i imagine hugging him from behind..when hes talking to other people💜i stare at his lips💜 when he's looking down💜HEAD😂 when he walks away💜I imagine him naked going to take a shower..CRUSH
There is a guy who did this to me in the gym, i was working out on a machine and he came next to me leaving all other machines available.. We also had matched on tinder like a month ago, we havent chatted or anything.. He unmatched me later and now im seeing him in the gym.. i feel awkward and confused whether he likes me or not..
Omg so that’s why it’s very noticeable that guys are interested in me because I don’t have my guy friends with all the time since they are in college. People thought Jake and I were probably dating geez can’t girls and guys be friends before people start assuming.
Thank you, i needed to know what this guy has been doing for the past...hmm...six months :) we see each other once a week and after class he use to hang around me, but not approaching. he does the pass by and slowing down thing too. Well, i know now that he is trying to approach.
this guy likes me and wants to talk to me but another woman keeps standing close to me just so he won't why won't he come even though she keeps doing this
If only could just grow some balls and simply approach a woman and ask for her number. I'm all for direct approach anyday- though it seems to generate the greatest amount of rejection - and rejection hurts
Is that what this is? It seems like he wants to say something to me. One time, he stumbled over his words, so I wonder if he's too nervous to approach? I'm too shy to do anything.
@@wwetm1646 well it has been 2 years now and in this year, he played hot & cold. Majority of the time he was cold & some days he acted like he couldn't control himself so he was trying to sit beside me on those few days. Some days he didn't even look at me and some days he looked too much. I don't get him. He doesn't seem shy because many girls are after him & he also has female friends. He never tried to talk to me and never added me on any social media. So I guess it means he doesn't like
He did this to me one time. He keeps on walking past and coming back to talk to a classmate of his who is sitting from a chair next to me for like 5 times. I was too shy to look at him 😣
well I have men that do that to me often when I am out or the gym but I am not into games so if a man doesn't ask for my number I pretend to not notice or look at them then break eye contact, I feel a man who is really interested will always ask for your number.
I have this guy he stares at me but never approach me,he seems to be everywhere I'm at grocery store eat.When I see him he makes sure he a distance away,but he tries to hide when he see me.
Had a very attractive guy near me at a clothing store , he was constantly near where I was even when he moved away he came back , BUT no eye contact or looking at me that I noticed .. so confused , can't read men 🙄
How long do they stake out, its been weeks and a friend brought it to attention that when he passes he looks towards my direction. We have now from from smiling to saying hi but he still has not approached.
Hey, I have seen many of of your videos.. I notice one of the guy who doing this to me for a long time... However I have just started noticing it. He stares at me continuously, lingeringly... When I catch him doing so... He changes his viewpoint.. And after sometime keep on doing the same... It becomes very obvious that he is unable to take off his eyes from me. Many a times he walks past me. He keeps on looking at me from a distance but never says anything about this. However while discussing something professional.. He avoids such things. He knows I'm in deeper commitment.. And older than him by atleast8 years. His behavior puzzles me... I keep on. Ignoring him or his looks to the extent possible.. But he nowadays occupy my. Mind when I thinking.. I think why some one young and desirable guy would be interested in women who is older than him and committed. I'm p
Shrushti More..... Exactly the same thing happened to me. A younger bloke about 10 years younger kept on looking at me, when I turned to look around, he quickly turned back, once we actually did smile slightly at each other. And he would keep walking by me....but we never really talked. He never intitated conversation, I tried to, but he seemed too busy so I didn't think he liked me.... I have left that place of work now, but I work near it and sometimes I do see him in his van 😂😂 but he is married and I'm thinking what on Earth was that all about???? Don't understand it really.
It's been a couple of years since the two of you posted, but it seems obvious why both men never did anything with it/about it: The commitment. They might have been attracted to you yes, but approaching someone while the other or they themselves are in a relationship is a no go for most people.
this guy likes me and wants to talk to me but another woman keeps standing close to me just so he won't why won't he come even though she keeps doing this
@@gabrielajones4030 why do you regret it....maybe it was not worth it if the guy didnt like you enough to actually approach you...maybe he just liked you mildly....
this guy likes me and wants to talk to me but another woman keeps standing close to me just so he won't why won't he come even though she keeps doing this
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When I notice guys looking at me, and checking me out, I pretend like I don't see them. I will not smile, nor make eye contact. I've seen guys with their woman keep looking at me. So disrespectful in my book, so I pretend they are not there.
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Mrs. KN omg same! 😅
You’re a hero
That's because that's what us real women do! 👍🏽
SAME it makes me angry tbh , like don’t look at me if you have a girl , NO manners
You’re intelligent and you tell it like it is. Keeping it real.
This happens to me a lot at work. One of my co workers walks past me quite often. Sometimes I try not to think about it to much. But it happens quite often that it’s seems less of a coincidence lol.
My neighbor is doing this right now. He just sits in a chair in his front yard facing my house while playing on his phone or drinking a beer. Then when I come out he just stares at me. And wont look away when I look at him. I waved at him once and he waved back. But we haven't talked. I can't tell if he is a player or not because he seems confident about it. He even turns his head and looks into my open living room window while driving by. One time I just stood there and stared at him while he did that haha. Oh boy... 😂
why did you just describe our first interaction perfectly? 😭
we’ve seen each other around at church for almost a year now, but he finally approached me for the first time (that just so happened to be the day i was leaving & relocating to plant a church with my family in a new city/state 😐) this Sunday..
before he came up to me to start a conversation, he walked past me while i was talking to my girl friend & stopped, said hey, but kept walking. he then stood near me just kind of seeming to wait around, i turned around & looked in his direction (stole a couple glances) we made eye contact & smiled at one another a couple times but i didn’t approach him because i was too nervous & telling myself if he wants to approach me & a conversation is supposed to happen then it will, but i was still trying to be inviting by smiling. he didn’t approach me until the second time i turned around from talking to my friend & we made eye contact. he finally came up & proceeded to ask me a bunch of questions about myself (my friend snuck off quickly without my knowing 😂) then he came out & told me that he’s also moving to the same city to take the job of being a pastoral apprentice for my dad next month 😭😭
wish me luck guys!! 😅🤣👩🏾❤️💋👨🏽
he defianely does this. its like he hesitates. I actually see him making the decision and then he just walks on lol l...he's so shy..I am too lol
Mae W. Omg same situation here😭😭
me 2 ! 😂
gosh! I was so clueless. He stared, and watched my every move, here I took it as creepy or stalkish-type attitude. Attractive guy just a bit intimidating. Strangely we really had a deep connection our first eye contact. I was just to afraid to pursue it any further.
LOL! Ur comment (even though it a year) is the story of my Life! So on point, and I too so missed the mark. O'well we live and learn.
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so true...we like to study our potential prey
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So this is what it's called? Staking me out? Wow. A guy at wrk has been doing this to me since April 2018. I was wondering why he was doing this everyday. Now I know. Thank you.
@mattiedavis4402 You’re a hottie mama! I’m sure you enjoyed the attention a little.
i always see dudes starting but my awkward ass is always too scared to make eye contact with them lmfao
Bro only insecure shy guys like myself will never ask you out and most of the time we are socialy awkward if we are on a one on one, you’ll feel the cringe and that cringe means they like you 😂🤣
The same is true for socially awkward women like myself. IF I recognize flirting in the first place, I'm socially clumsy about accepting and responding to it. LOL
I am oblivious to someone liking me unless they are in my face directly. I only get approached by the ones approaching all women directly, they show seggsual interest too quickly. My friends have told me men look at me, and a guy recently told my (girl)friend he didn’t think I was interested, and left. I had no idea. I need more content like this, and I guess I need to start being more aware of my surroundings in order for things to change for me. I’ve been single for 5 years, it’s been long enough.
You sound like me, I mostly only get approached by men that are very confident/macho and over sexual on the rare occasion that I do. I’m also noticing older men, like old enough to be my dad will approach me much more than men my own age. I think it’s a confidence thing. Older men seem to be more confident.
He approached me before and we just stood there emotionally making eye contact with each other until I went into my work building all frustrated and had sexual tension with him. I was upset that he disappeared for 2 weeks after I accidentally rejected him (after he confessed he has a crush on me and I froze since I have a massive one on him) and he said that he cares and doesn't want me to be upset. 2 weeks later he was looking sad, frustrated, than ignored me at times and now he's back standing around like he's waiting for me but he never speaks, just looks up at his phone and I think that's why I'm so nervous to talk to him. I'm left with confusion ,guilt, and anger towards myself. I feel guilty that I'm too shy to say hi but he did honk at me when we bumped into each other last Friday after midnight as I was going home from work. He came out of nowhere and it made my night. I wish we could get up the courage to talk. Its pretty sad since I really want to get to know him better especially after we first made an intimate connection and it was very intense a month ago and it was ruined by me. He works across from me and I finally got him to come back out to have his breaks at the tree again like he always had and I admired him from the distance for 8 months. Now its back to being normal again but awkward. I don't know what to do and if he even still has feelings for me,or what? I don't know how he can stand not speaking to me.
How did your guys story end? It's been 4 years and maybe you don't have access to the account anymore, but i'm invested and would like to know😊
@@Philyra86 no, but I did pass by him a few years ago during the pandemic. I was spending too much time at work and didn't get to see my boyfriend at all until 3 years later since we were long distance and the pandemic didn't help . I learned from that experience though in my 30's, I'm now 40 along with others when it comes to long distance relationships, I just really missed my boyfriend. Unfortunately and sadly after finally seeing my boyfriend last year, which left me devastated, he passed away this year in May before his birthday. I wish I would have moved to his country. It's been a very very hard year. 💔 Thanks for checking in on me. ❤️ My traveling life is on my TH-cam channel, pretty much.
When you hv intense sexual attraction running over your n a crush… but he doesn’t come close to check u out, all too friendly to everyone except you. One day cold n one day warm greeting you.
This is legit true....how do I know?? I’ve been doing it to my crush lol
omfg meaning my shy guy crush been doing staking out fr 2-3 months now...seriously😂😭
habiba aldin I'm at 6-7 months now with a guy at my gym hahaaa
rudegyaloving me tooo mine is at the gym
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"The Friend is not a threat" lol how do they know tae kwon do? I know most of your advice is for younger people but a lot of adults really haven't matured past high school either. Men should have no fear approaching women, they are not a threat. If a man is scared it is because he is a coward. No woman wants that. If what a stranger says to you can do damage then you are a weakling. Fix and invest in yourself, other people cannot do that for you. Approach anyone you want , who cares of the outcome, do it to enjoy yourself.
but, what if it's all in your head?
Ayyzie he gave you pointers to know if it’s in your head or not. Rewatch the video please.
This dude is cool I wanna be like this guy.
I always look at him when his back is turned💜i imagine hugging him from behind..when hes talking to other people💜i stare at his lips💜 when he's looking down💜HEAD😂 when he walks away💜I imagine him naked going to take a shower..CRUSH
There is a guy who did this to me in the gym, i was working out on a machine and he came next to me leaving all other machines available.. We also had matched on tinder like a month ago, we havent chatted or anything.. He unmatched me later and now im seeing him in the gym.. i feel awkward and confused whether he likes me or not..
Literally, everyday. 😂
Omg so that’s why it’s very noticeable that guys are interested in me because I don’t have my guy friends with all the time since they are in college. People thought Jake and I were probably dating geez can’t girls and guys be friends before people start assuming.
omg so true, it happens to me many times. 😳 oh my my im shy 😳
Damn I wished i found u r channel way before.
😊
U r advise is so helpfull to me.
As a shy guy , I ignore my crush
Idk she's doing the same...
Yep...but I was surrounded by my guy friends...and he
Thank you, i needed to know what this guy has been doing for the past...hmm...six months :) we see each other once a week and after class he use to hang around me, but not approaching. he does the pass by and slowing down thing too. Well, i know now that he is trying to approach.
Varvara .Varvara did he approach you.....plzzzzz reply! 😃
this guy likes me and wants to talk to me but another woman keeps standing close to me just so he won't why won't he come even though she keeps doing this
If only could just grow some balls and simply approach a woman and ask for her number. I'm all for direct approach anyday- though it seems to generate the greatest amount of rejection - and rejection hurts
My crush saw me alone I think he want approached me and walk near me but since I was with my guy friend he lost his chance lol
haha..... guys do a stakeout
stakeout YES
Is that what this is? It seems like he wants to say something to me. One time, he stumbled over his words, so I wonder if he's too nervous to approach? I'm too shy to do anything.
Please do a video on why does my crushes friends usually look at me ?
He is my classmate and has been doing it for a year but didn't approach or talk. Lol
Guy really likes you, seeing you probably makes his day. I will be so happy if you guys end up together. I hope he finally get the courage to approach
@@wwetm1646 well it has been 2 years now and in this year, he played hot & cold. Majority of the time he was cold & some days he acted like he couldn't control himself so he was trying to sit beside me on those few days. Some days he didn't even look at me and some days he looked too much. I don't get him. He doesn't seem shy because many girls are after him & he also has female friends. He never tried to talk to me and never added me on any social media. So I guess it means he doesn't like
Thank you for sharing this :)
My friend told me she will tie the knots fo me and him but she became his best friend and ... so i moved on
I just avoid people yikes ahah
thank yu ssm it helped what yu said
soooo true
What if when he saw me he look nervous n avoided me? Means likes he don't know where to go? What means?
He gives indirect speech why
What should I do! My friend told my crush I like him. He doesn't really know me either. I'm worried😔
Kay's Ways I've been there! What you do is pretend you don't know he knows but look hot as hell every time he sees you.
Teresa lol thanks for the advice 😁
staking me out … but I’m shy n confused 2
sorry dude im just fukin shy 😊😂
i understand
Watch the wild life animals its exactly the same.Lol
I SWEAR YOU HAVE VERY VIDEO
guys who look at woman from afar in car are called STOLKERS, dude
kiss your hand 10 times
say your crushes name 15 times post on another video
Lol i love you so much. Great info
He does it a lot! But when i text him he ignores me so I deleted it.
"staking me out..." So that's what that is. Bloody hell. 🤦
Love this channel.
Lmfaooooooo
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He did this to me one time. He keeps on walking past and coming back to talk to a classmate of his who is sitting from a chair next to me for like 5 times. I was too shy to look at him 😣
well I have men that do that to me often when I am out or the gym but I am not into games so if a man doesn't ask for my number I pretend to not notice or look at them then break eye contact, I feel a man who is really interested will always ask for your number.
I have this guy he stares at me but never approach me,he seems to be everywhere I'm at grocery store eat.When I see him he makes sure he a distance away,but he tries to hide when he see me.
The guy I like cares about working all the time
Had a very attractive guy near me at a clothing store , he was constantly near where I was even when he moved away he came back , BUT no eye contact or looking at me that I noticed .. so confused , can't read men 🙄
How long do they stake out, its been weeks and a friend brought it to attention that when he passes he looks towards my direction. We have now from from smiling to saying hi but he still has not approached.
Hey,
I have seen many of of your videos.. I notice one of the guy who doing this to me for a long time... However I have just started noticing it.
He stares at me continuously, lingeringly... When I catch him doing so... He changes his viewpoint.. And after sometime keep on doing the same... It becomes very obvious that he is unable to take off his eyes from me. Many a times he walks past me.
He keeps on looking at me from a distance but never says anything about this.
However while discussing something professional.. He avoids such things.
He knows I'm in deeper commitment.. And older than him by atleast8 years.
His behavior puzzles me... I keep on. Ignoring him or his looks to the extent possible.. But he nowadays occupy my. Mind when I thinking..
I think why some one young and desirable guy would be interested in women who is older than him and committed.
I'm p
Shrushti More..... Exactly the same thing happened to me. A younger bloke about 10 years younger kept on looking at me, when I turned to look around, he quickly turned back, once we actually did smile slightly at each other. And he would keep walking by me....but we never really talked. He never intitated conversation, I tried to, but he seemed too busy so I didn't think he liked me.... I have left that place of work now, but I work near it and sometimes I do see him in his van 😂😂 but he is married and I'm thinking what on Earth was that all about???? Don't understand it really.
It's been a couple of years since the two of you posted, but it seems obvious why both men never did anything with it/about it: The commitment.
They might have been attracted to you yes, but approaching someone while the other or they themselves are in a relationship is a no go for most people.
this guy likes me and wants to talk to me but another woman keeps standing close to me just so he won't why won't he come even though she keeps doing this
Oh my God you have the best advice😭😭😩😩😊😊❤️❤️
This has been going a while now. Is he ever going to come to me or should I make the move?
U should make a move if he stil hasn't or else u will loose you chance honey trust me it happend to me and i regret it
@@gabrielajones4030 why do you regret it....maybe it was not worth it if the guy didnt like you enough to actually approach you...maybe he just liked you mildly....
Yeah and you weren't worth it since you didn't approach him
this guy likes me and wants to talk to me but another woman keeps standing close to me just so he won't why won't he come even though she keeps doing this
Lion look for his prey
Does it mean he is referring to me
Yeah before internet
damn so true 😓 i hope this guy tell me anyway 😌
He said some people when they close from church the pick up their bags and leave without talking to anyone but I do that anytime I close from church