They become obsessed with you when you ignore and treat them like crap. When you treat them nice they will treat you like a doormat and eventually discard you.
The devalue and discard phases are the only times you see the narc for the jerk/bully/hater/evildoer they really are (and secretly were the whole time) 😢😠
I was nice to my narc. Really nice. I thought that was how you behaved towards somebody when you had feelings for them. She broke me in the end. I was devastated. 12 months on and I still feel it. Not as bad but it's still there. I'm not sure that I will ever completely get over it.
Yep, true. I've already been through the ringer so let me be nice and watch them. I'm not taking it. If they aren't going to do accordingly, I've got no time. But I went through a lot of hell to be able to stay kind. Kindness is not yours be given to everyone. Some or many are not decent men. The moment you feel non reciprocation from them, a lack of sharing, not keeping their word, little lies, laziness, sitting on their ass and wants to be served around the clock, doesn't appreciate you, any type of disrespecting you, you know you've got a user and a loser on your ✋️ hands. They most likely will turn into an abuser on you too.
Nice means easy pickins. They will tell you sob stories to feel sorry for them. When you believe it they just think you are weak. They will laugh that they fooled you.
Yes, that’s what the ex gremlin of three years did he is a serial cheater and a narcissistic creature. Glad I escaped from his evil and glowing up in my healing journey.
Fools do Not appreciate anything. Just read 📚 the book of wisdom talking about fools and foolishness 😒 the counterpart of narcissism in our current time 😊
Thank you for this I needed to hear this , the person i talk to short temp she blocked me before block said im here she waited 10min she bounce it's okay
When you’re nice to a narcissist, they manipulate you and they destroy your life. Don’t be nice. Ignore them like they’re not there.
Yep!! They don't appreciate anything you do for them. It's never enough.
Facts
This is sooo true 💯
They become obsessed with you when you ignore and treat them like crap. When you treat them nice they will treat you like a doormat and eventually discard you.
So true, it must be a sick game to them, then they try to come back around apologizing only to discard again.
They were sadly mistaken.
They look at us as stupid. I haven't been nice in almost a year. We're going through divorce and nothing has changed. 😮
The devalue and discard phases are the only times you see the narc for the jerk/bully/hater/evildoer they really are (and secretly were the whole time) 😢😠
I was nice to my narc. Really nice. I thought that was how you behaved towards somebody when you had feelings for them.
She broke me in the end. I was devastated. 12 months on and I still feel it. Not as bad but it's still there. I'm not sure that I will ever completely get over it.
I feel the same
Yep, true. I've already been through the ringer so let me be nice and watch them. I'm not taking it. If they aren't going to do accordingly, I've got no time. But I went through a lot of hell to be able to stay kind. Kindness is not yours be given to everyone. Some or many are not decent men. The moment you feel non reciprocation from them, a lack of sharing, not keeping their word, little lies, laziness, sitting on their ass and wants to be served around the clock, doesn't appreciate you, any type of disrespecting you, you know you've got a user and a loser on your ✋️ hands. They most likely will turn into an abuser on you too.
Nice means easy pickins. They will tell you sob stories to feel sorry for them. When you believe it they just think you are weak. They will laugh that they fooled you.
Absolutely everything you say is true of her. Absolutely everything! I am totally done with her.
Ignorance are typical with NARCS 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I’m looking to put my ex who is a narcissist back in jail . . . no one messes with me !
Exactly, I experienced that! Now I have discard him, I know what shit he is .
Yes, that’s what the ex gremlin of three years did he is a serial cheater and a narcissistic creature. Glad I escaped from his evil and glowing up in my healing journey.
Gremlin 😂😂😂, they really are.
True
Fools do Not appreciate anything. Just read 📚 the book of wisdom talking about fools and foolishness 😒 the counterpart of narcissism in our current time 😊
Thank you! I needed to hear this.
Thank you for this I needed to hear this , the person i talk to short temp she blocked me before block said im here she waited 10min she bounce it's okay
I loved her ❤
Tgars what she thought!
Not weak
Learned lesson push away they walked another way and told to go go way 👍🙏🙏💚💙💛🩵💜
You are always on point Thank you so much😊😊