People AND animals... you better believe I would be turning these people in and getting far, far away from them. People are most often times killed by someone they know!
@@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens true you're more likely to be killed or sexually assaulted by someone you know. Its really sad, especially when people mostly emphasize stranger danger over the fact family, friends, and acquaintances can be just as is not more dangerous because people trust them. Thats how they get access to harm you
Courts -including lawyers and police, physicians - particularly surgeons, and government officials are the worst offenders, by far. They put the actual mafia to utter shame.
@@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens Pretty sure my old friends were planning on torturing me. Was at a get together after a while of not seeing them. Bought the beer and pizza cause I felt bad. That night I thought I overheard 2 of them say "We'll keep him in the shed, and when he says he's thirsty, we piss in his mouth." I did have a few beers though
As much as these stories either disgust me or make me angry, they give me hope because the person knew what was said or done is wrong and stopped associating with the person.
@@retro3188 thanks!! Glad you loved the latest. If you haven’t, be sure to play the first title - it’s the best. People hate sticker star, but it’s actually not so bad.
Yup! The gal I thought would be my BFF refused to even return a call or return letters after finding out I was critically ill with TB. After I spoiled her and her baby rotten on visits, a call was too much, when I was fighting for my existence in the hospital. Well? Like a bad smell, she's gone with the wind, and I'm better off for it.
My friend candidly talked about getting married to a guy from Europe who is hopelessly in love with her, her reason being she would be able to move to a new country and start a new life. She wants to divorce him after she gets the residential permit of the country. The thought of her using someone like that who loves her made me look at her differently after that.
how about people? how much have you talked about the sixty year, 1.8 million genocide in west papua for u.s. goldmining. "that's terrible!" next topic. west papuans have their own genre of mourning songs about being ignored by the world. obey your in sect overlords.
@@johnchenthebest4495 there's a playlist on my channel. sometimes they are in indonesian instead of regional language and sometimes the translate works. a few have transcribed english subs. so many videos with funerals, groups of dudes standing or dancing but the lyrics are "now we are all dead" "made to live as animals in our own land, eating in the forest, sleeping in the forest.." i've never seen more than 2000 hits on anything in english about west papua.
When I find out that a friend befriended me for no other reason than they needed a black friend to parade around and show how woke they are. We're _people,_ not a bunch of pets in a store window looking for a foreverhome.
That's horrible that someone would do that to you. You're literally an entire person. You should never have to deal with anyone who would treat you any less. I hope your current friends and future friends never do this to you, and never undervalue your worth as a person and friend.
1:05 I don't know about you, but that's definitely reason enough to not consider somebody your sister in addition to not considering them your friend. Remember folks, just because somebody is biologically related to you, doesn't mean that they're your family.
My sister laughs at my failures and mistakes and has always made me feel like a waste of air. I have had a moderate to severe stutter since childhood. I wanted to give a nice speech at her wedding but she told our parents she didn’t want me to because I’d embarrass her in front of everyone. That really hit me hard but not nearly as hard as the time she came out and said she was ashamed of me because of my stutter. The final nail in the coffin was when she cut our mom out of her life and started using our dad whenever she wanted something pricey for her kid or self. She once made my dad buy her husband an insanely overpriced tool box. It costs thousands of dollars. She just always expects him to do these things and no thanks are ever said. I love my little niece but rarely see her because I cannot stand her parents. They are expecting a baby boy in a couple months. I got to say, I feel bad for him already.
@@miramyth2971 Seriously. I feel anyone writing off horrid crap because "they're family" have been spoonfed the wrong info, or they're the one's taking advantage.
No, in fact, it's better when they are your family rather than just a friend. That way you have acess to their house and belongings more easily so you can sell and take the money back.
the one about the chick that didnt feed her dog because she couldnt afford food made my blood boil. I keep several months of food stockpiled for my cat and dog just in case anything happens, I wont have to worry about being able to feed them. Currently, I'm feeding my dog half the normal amount i give him because he's had bubble guts the past couple days.
My cats a lil fat boy lol. But I make sure to make him unhealthy. He’s an outside cat and likes being active so I see nothing wrong with giving him an extra bowl if he wants it
K was friends with one of my friends, M. Both were in K's room hanging out and some of K's extended family was visiting. K left for something and M was alone. An older relative came in and s**ually assaulted her. Later M told K about it but she did nothing. For years they somehow remained friends. I can't stand the fact K did nothing about it and had the audacity to pretend nothing happened.
Did M want here to do something though? Some people (personal experience) have specifically asked those who they've told not to say or do anything and to let things happen on their own time.
@@starsgambit412 M was never really clear about it. She was probably scared of victim blaming. It's been years since I've talked to her so details have faded. I think by the time M told K about it the bastard was out of the country and has never returned. They didn't do anything since they couldn't do anything. In the end I really don't know. I wasn't close to M at the time it happened.
@@sorsuke570 Its sad to say it, but K was probably used to it from that relative, and was just relieved that it wasn't her that time. It's not uncommon for families to have multi-generational sexual abuse. K telling someone in her family may have meant that she'd get beaten, or worse, for "disrupting the family" or "upsetting grandma". Personally, I wouldn't care who it was that did it. If you think it's ok to molest people, I think it's ok to separate you from your state of living, and turn what's left into fertilizer
A guy my husband & i knew done this to me my husband didnt believe me my kids did they saw it! Well a friend heard it over the phone & well i was confronted by police i told them but i refused to press charges because i knew his whole family i was threatened & they questioned my kids threatened to take my kids if he had touched them well he hadn't & i knew it! Anyway they kept saying he could do it to soneone else he already had so why me! Anyway he was spoken to by them while they were threatening me! He told his wife & kids i tried to file charges so every tine i've seen them any where they flip me off among other things! All I can say is shame on them! They knew if not he done it to many & i mean many wemen not just me! So either their blind & dumb or just in denial! So what ever! He died a couple years later! Their just lucky it wasn't in prison! 😒😒😒😒😒😒
The moment they said that they will swerve to hit animals (cats and dogs included) in the road is when I decided I hated this person forever and they would never be considered my friend.
My ex boyfriend's best friend was like that. He picked us up one day, and intentionally swerved to hit a cat, and I was horrified. He was laughing his ass off, too. I told my ex, his BFF was no longer welcome in our home.
Not really a friend, but a roommate. My nephew. We took him in on his mom's request cause he was nearly on the streets he lacked the money(and job). He was to come down here and find a job. We gave him access to our car(cause he didn't have his own), and let him use the bank card for gas and groceries. How does he repay our goodwill? By nearly putting me, and my disabled mom, out on the streets. First he crashed our car(NBD, it was fixed and accidents happen, right?). No no, how did he nearly put us on the streets? By taking out hundreds of dollars from our bank account, to get his balls off at strip clubs. Putting us at 1000+ in the red at least 2 months in a row. To say the least, neither us or his mom were very happy, and he was made to pay all of that back(lucky bastard got some sort of money from his dad). To this day, I have issues trusting him.
Wow. I am genuinely surprised how people don't feel any remorse for doing these kinds of things. I am so sorry that you had to go through that with someone who you thought you could trust.
Well ruined a friendship but not a good person any way! However your just dang lucky you got your money back! But, i'd still be done with that! Not a true friend at all!
I'm genuinely surprised that you're surprised that he went crazy with your bank account. I know, you probably thought good intentions. I was thinking oh that's not going to go well.
My friend of 3.5 years told me that she would bring up my personal vices with my personality and behaviours (ones I despise and have worked on since identifying them) and would shit on me for it if the conversation "went bad". I was having a heart to heart with her over issues I had with her, her behaviour towards me and how she acts behind my back, and she threatened to bring up my issues when the conversation "went bad". I had been having issues with her for the solid last 1.5 years of our friendship, and was being met with a brick wall when I tried to work with her on it, which was why we were having that heart to heart. I believed she would better elaborate in the ways she pressured and gaslit me into, and she didn't. She gave me shallow, smartass answers without elaborating further then, at the end, asked "Are we done now?". I cut her off instantly after the conversation was done and have been returning her energy ever since, she doesn't exist to me and never did, just like she treated me all those years ago
I'm so sorry that this person used that knowledge like a weapon against you. What an absolute narcissist. I know it's difficult, but you are so much better without them in your life.
When she drunkenly confessed to me that she had been making plans with my ex-boyfriend, so they could force me to "put out". And she wonders why I haven't talked to her in 2 years after 10+ years of friendship
Trying to force you to have sex with someone would be a good reason to go no contact either way, so this is just because I am curious, was he your ex-boyfriend at the time, or did you break up with him after you found out he was conspiring with her?
@@ImaNerdANDaGeek We were already broken up, he had been my ex for nearly 2 years but because was part of the friend group we still had to see each other in the few drinking parties they made (I swear they refuse to see each other any other way) that I did go to. I guess I should've seen it coming tho, my ex girl friends (because yes I cut off the entire friend group for that and many other toxic reasons) were too giddy when they asked me if I was excited to see him again then seemed annoyed when I said I didn't. One of them and my ex's best friend even gave me shit because "we were seeing each other after so long and you're barely gonna talk!?" as if they expected some magical reunion between us, my ex was trying I just wasn't interested in going back to that relationship because we broke up EXACTLY for the same reason I cut them all off, he was pushy, never listened to me and used me as an excuse to not do work and school projects because "I wouldn't let him" making ME look like an asshole when in reality I never gave him orders or make him ask for permission for anything that didn't involve me but even tho I exposed him for all of it and they gave him shit for like 3 days for being a liar they STILL tried to pair us back together or get me to "at least give it to him" as if I owed him my vagina for some reason.
I have an acquaintance who casually mentioned how he cheated on his wife and broke up his family because he felt lonely when she went to visit her family for the holidays. As a person that's been cheated on by an ungrateful spouse this made my blood boil.
I once had a friend who had just started working a job in the medical field (as recent high school grad) and she told me that just having to look at certain types of people naked was disgusting, and made her want to throw up. This didn’t make me despise her, but it did make me see her a little bit differently because growing up I had always thought she had been more of the non-judgmental type, since that’s kind of how I identify and try to choose friends.
Well, he does need to get the hell out of there, but I get the situation is likely much more complicated than that. It's not a matter of spine, it's a matter of entanglement.
Thank you for actually being a decent person. It is NEVER the victim's fault for being "weak", and I wish more people understood that. It disgusts me how common this toxic idea of "forcing people to man up" is and almost makes me wish people who thought like that would get victimized themselves just so that they could develop a sense of empathy. There is no conceivable reason for normal people to think like that anymore.
I don't think people realize that telling a guy to "man up" is toxic masculinity. Every person is entitled to have and display emotions. It's sad that our culture thinks it's wrong for men and boys to do "feminine" things.
if you're a server (or any other job), its illegal for your employer to dock your wages for any reason you work = you get paid. they absolutely CANNOT make you pay for mistakes, or dine and dashers or ANYTHING EVER
My brother used to work at a gas station and they’d take something out of his paycheck if he messed something up with the lottery tickets. Maybe not legal, but sometimes it happens and people let it happen because they don’t know any better.
Stood up me going to a concert, told me she wasn't going. Made me pay for the ticket. 9 months later she posted on Instagram at said concert with other friend. They are no longer friends with me.
19:52 Dude this literally happened to me, and she thought, and probably still thinks, I was in the wrong for being upset and not wanting to continue to be friends when I cut them off. She would rant to me for hours about how depressed she was and tell me she was going to hurt herself. And she texted me randomly late at night saying that she wanted to end it several times. Then she added her boyfriend to our group chat and he did the same thing. Then 1 day I had a breakdown because I had a seizure and lost my license and job, and had a severe concussion and split my forehead. I texted them that I wanted to end it. And she texted back "Can you not send messages like that into the group chat randomly? Its really triggering for me and Len." To be fair, it did talk me down from an attempt, because I was so incredibly stunned that I just said "Oh. Ok" and unsent the messages and sat there staring at a wall in shock. And I just kindof went to bed after that. What kindof a person is that self absorbed? That just awful and inconsiderate horrible personality, how does that even exist. Its so gross. She was really angry a few days later when I said I didn't think we should be friends anymore, and told me I was "over-reacting, ignoring her feelings about it (her feelings about me almost dying by choice?), cutting her off for no reason, making stuff up, not giving her any warning" and kept asking me for proof and stuff, and then had her boyfriend ask for proof separately, then when I sent them both proof she said I was trying to turn her boyfriend against her. So I put them in a group chat and sent it there. And she told me I was "refusing to leave them alone and wouldn't stop texting them." When all I texted were answers to their questions. Anyways good to get out of that right? Good thing she was across the country and just an emo brat.
I could deal with her lying to me about having a H addiction. I could deal with her using me as a free babysitter sometimes to go have some adult fun. I could not deal when she not only lied to me about how her apartment fire started but also blamed her 4 yo for doing it. I learned the truth from her mom. In reality, her equally addicted husband had passed out mid-high and his cigarette had started it. Now, I could have let this go but she kept lingering on it and pestering the kid about it to gaslight him. To the point that he had nightmares and lashed out and talked about death a lot. At 4 years old. I pretty much cut off communication with her until she texted me out of the blue wanting support because her son was diagnosed (at 5) with adhd, odd, and general anxiety. Like it was a suprise. Jfc.
@@paigemosher8697 ? So if someone doesn't support you the person is a sack of shit and should be disowned. Don't complain about someone calling you snowflake later.
When I was in college, I studied abroad. I was only able to do it because my scholarship allowed me to, and I ended up in a large group with kids from other colleges, too. Apparently, these kids were used to having money. They liked to go out partying and clubbing every week, whereas me and my friend from the same college as me (and also on the same scholarship) would stay back because we had little money to throw around. I didn't mind this; after all, it's okay to have differing tastes and hobbies. They're party people, and I'm not, but we still got along fine. What made me pissed off was when we had a week off from school, and a group of them were going to fly out to Thailand, Japan and Korea for that entire time. They invited me to come along, but I declined because I didn't have the money for it. "Come on! It's only $3,000!" Um, what? I didn't have $3k to waste on one week, and I'm willing to bet they weren't even counting money for car rentals, food, shopping, and various trips within those countries. I was barely getting by with a couple hundred per month! They reminded me of that meme where the woman holds a banana and asks, "Oh come on, how much could this possibly cost? $10?" And after I declined, they kept rubbing the trip in my face when they came back. "Oh, this place was SO nice. You should've been there." "It's too bad you couldn't come with us to Korea and Japan, it was great!" "Thailand was a really cheap country, you could've at least gone there with us." The elitism these kids exhibited was astonishing.
Was friends with a girl who said "yes of course I would take your boyfriend if I think he is cute. " And kept talking about getting with another friend of mine that was already in a relationship with a kind girl. Yeah...needless to say, I am no longer friends with her.
I'm a female and I had a male friend. I have a lot of male friends, so it was nothing new. But the first DAY he made a sexist comment near me I was out. Nope. I don't want to deal with you if you think I'm lesser than you, bye bye~
When I found out that he sexually assaulted a girl that he invited to his house while she was under the influence. It doesn't matter if a person is sober or not, if they do not consent to a sexual encounter, then respect their wishes.
@@quinnception631 I think that's what OP was trying to say when they mentioned sobriety doesn't matter, but your heart's in the right place and I immensely respect that.
found out one of my friends were still involved in hard drugs after basically announcing that he was leaving me and my friend alone to get his fix after i invited him over to spend new years with us.
I had a friend named T, through her I met my friend K who is ace/aro, my friend M who is gay and my friend D who is trans. I found out that T was only friends with them trying to convince them to be ‘normal’…….let’s just say I got everything in the (very public) breakup and T was left sobbing and alone
right now you kids are young and life is particularly fucked up. when you get older your life experience may change and you may become aware of say your ancestral spirits, but omg you destroyed your ability to reproduce for tavistock programming. what if the world suddenly changes. what if, when you are forty, and your life is radically different, after years of no friends and school, and you are keenly spiritually aware, and human venues modulate? what if you can live on other planets, or what have you, and humanity can expand, and life would be good, but all the people have to live tortured lives as victims of some molesters real, non imaginary, non perfect surgical process that mutilated their genitals and prevented them from having relationships which may then be appropriate?
I had a friend who I had always known was self-centered but it had alway's been in a minor, ignorable, "that's just how he is roll your eyes and move on" kind of way. I invited him to play Dnd and it went fine at first but after about 3 months he starts really becoming a problem for the other players in ways that were minor enough on their own but recurring more and more and he is PMing me every week with new ideas for how I could "improve" the game (all of which revolved entirely around his piece of shit character everyone else found obnoxious) Eventually we told him if he wanted to keep playing he had to shape up and never mention his character again because we all hated them. but he kept doing the same shit and we kicked him. He then sent me a 6 page rant from a delusional narrsisist about how it was all my fault and how unfair it was that the rest of the players didn't do whatever he wanted to do whenever he wanted to do it. I informed him I would be sending his rant to the other players so they could see what he thought of them and we could all make fun of what a narrsisistic dumpster heap of a person he was (which I know that was probably not the best way to handle the situation, but at that point I was like fuck this dude) and to never contact me again and then blocked him. Hope he rots in his own lack of friends.
Learned that someone I haven't spoken to in three years (cut them off; they weren't worth keeping) was shit-talking me, constantly, behind my back (to other folks that knew me) when we were on speaking terms, and afterwards. Like the pettiest nonsense possible. And they were shit talking their friend to me when we were speaking. His former friend and I realized what had happened very quickly when we reached out to each other some months back - though we'd been fed a lot of poison about each other by this smiling liar. Just...be a decent person. It really is like that Arrested Development clip: "Stop lying." "Stop manipulating!" "Be nicer!"
When I hung out with a friend I hadn’t seen in a while, she used the N word like it was a normal thing to her, even after I asked her not to around my children.
I once accidentally said it in a rage from losing a game when alone after binge watching a black youtube gamer who used it like it was the word shit so it was only because the word had been ingrained into my mind as a responce to losing the game and I felt terrible about it... so somebody using it causually if they are not black just astounds me...
That’s why I don’t consume media with anything using that word. And frankly I don’t want to hang out with ANYbody using that word - b or w or whatever. It’s messed up and cruel & everybody knows it.
when she found out her best friend and crush were dating, she took her to another room and told her she was a shitty friend and other things to belittle her. now this is already an extreme reaction to me, but then i found out her crush, who’s my friend, rejected her a while back and even told her he will always see her as a friend only. she had no chance with him and she still treated her friend like that. the girl’s friend felt so bad so she distanced herself to try and fix the friendship. my friend knew that something happened but she was telling him anything. one late hw night, he broke down and confessed he was scared that his gf is going to break up with him.
it's scary when you have a friend that seems perfect and then they show their true selves only when they have you in a position where you can't get away from them
People always thought that my crush was going to abuse me if we got in a relationship. She was really nice though, even protective of me. It only lasted a week but that was for a completely different reason (too long to explain).
I used to be a hardcore Christian and so I had a friend that was too but when I came out as trans she used religion to not support me. It's crazy how so many people feel justified to just hate people because of religion. That really sucks you had to deal with that
@@quinnception631 I mean the bible supports slavery, and slavery in america is highly tied to race. Not to mention momonism literally talks about how a person is more or less righteous depending on how dark their skin is. Although not sure if momornism is tied to christianity.
... The only time I ever heard someone talking about me behind my back they were literally preaching about how I'm the kind of son anyone should ever want, referring to how I took care of my mother for sixteen years. I rarely talk about it except to talk about how so many people adore my mother.
That he’s lied to me and my family about being vaccinated and coming into my house KNOWING myself, and mother are immunocompromised….. don’t know if can ever get over that breach of trust….
The hearing your friends talk shit about you part really hits home. I have incredible hearing and memory recall for some reason (seriously the recall thing is like a superpower i dont want, i dont have a photographic memory but i gotta have something damn close to it, i remember conversations from 5 years ago that still haunt me sometimes 💀) Hearing people talk shit about you or remembering the bad shit they've said about you isn't fun, believe me. I've left multiple friendships because of this
She tried to break me and my bf up because she secretly liked him and was jealous... Despite her always saying love isn't real. Did I mention that she was also in a relationship with somebody who, from what I heard, was a sweet guy, too?
I stopped being friends with this guy because the only reason why he wanted to be friends with me is because my ex was telling people I was easy, like I thought this guy was genuinely my friend and instead he just wanted to smash
This is minor compared to some stories in this video, but I remember a time when my friend, (let's call her Laurel) started unabashedly talking how another girl (let's call her Rhonda) was a total weirdo, and how Rhonda's mental health issues made her a laughing stock. Just to give a little context, Laurel was a student leader, with emphasis on the moral/spiritual side of life. So I was kinda disgusted that she would make jokes over Rhonda's expense. I straight up called her out, saying she shouldn't talk behind Rhonda's back (btw I am NOT confrontational, so this was hard), and she had no right to make fun of someone's mental state. Laurel just laughed it off, and didn't address it. Going forward, I never opened up to Laurel again and I've never forgotten it.
Animal torture is a sign of early childhood trauma, not necessarily an indication of a future serial killer! I'd double check this to be certain but I'm a fan of listening to serial killers. Animal cruelty is something found more prominently in serial killers, but it's a correlation/ not causation thing :)
I had a friend who always pretended to be poor because she loved the "poor aesthetic". I used to believe her until her parents got her a new BMW for her before she'd even learnt how to drive and they bought her her own apartment. All while we were still in high school. But then she revealed to me how they got so much money. Basically they avoid paying tax and lie on government welfare forms. This girl ended up ditching me suddenly one day and I have no idea why. But I am thankful because her posing was too much.
After a few months of toxicity from him I told him I wasn’t his friend anymore and then he tried to guilt trip me by saying “what? No! I need you.” I figured out he only used me to gain friends but he failed. He blackmailed me, bullied me, physically hurt me and others while the staff at the school did nothing. I hate him. My whole class hates him.
She was a friend of a friend, added me because she needed help with some 3D design, we ended up talking a bit and even flirted some, ended up being she was desperate to get into a relationship and i wasn't the only one in line, but that wasn't what made me get completely away from her, she suddenly turned into a radical feminist, posted lots of misandric things and even blatant lies, just couldn't stomach it
One friend (cockiest s.o.b. I've ever known, you know the type) told me how he had an on-going affair with someone's wife and eventually ended up with a broken jaw in an encounter with him at a bar. Rather than take his medicine, he had him arrested & put in jail for 90 days.
That she repeadedly lied to my friends and Our mutual friends about how i badmouthed them etc and had the audacity to try to gaslight me into believing i actually did
Had friends in highschool that were only my friends to bumb rides, "borrow" smoke money and cheat off me in math and physics. I realised how sh** they were after coming home from college for a break. They didnt want to hang out, they wanted rides, money and invites to my family's lavish vacation plans😒
I have this ‘friend’ that was a very warm welcome to a new school. I moved recently, and making friends in highschool is hard enough. Not only did he immediately take me in in a way, but he respected my gender, sexuality, and pronouns. It’s hard to find a cis guy like that. Then though, im talking about how my cousin had a racist tantrum in the parking lot of a skating ring, but i didn’t get the racist part just yet. Literally mentioning the name of the skating ring struck a nerve enough with him that he JOINED my cousin’s racist argument, and said the slurs that my cousin called them to their faces that night. sorry connor, we just aint cool after that
For me it was an accumulation of things but this one thing really put me off. One day I was hanging out with my friend “Sarah” and she started telling me about some “drama” between her and one of her other friends. Sarah told me that her friend (we’ll call her Meg) wanted to hang out with her and her crush from school. So Meg, Meg’s crush, and Sarah were supposed to get together. Well, before this even happened, Meg explicitly asked Sarah to NOT go after her crush AGAIN. Again??? When Sarah said again I immediately knew where this was headed. She continued and told me that when they did eventually meet up, she had a lot in common with Meg’s crush so they decided to exchange numbers under her nose and eventually hung out alone without Meg. They did this a few times and then both eventually came clean to Meg and said too bad we like each other. Meg CLEARLY was pissed and stopped being friends with Sarah right there. Sarah then goes on to tell me how she’s the victim in this situation and is trying to get me on her side of things. I’m sitting there nodding and agreeing but the whole time I’m thinking “this is how you treat your friends? Yea I’m not sticking around much longer. Clearly you only care about yourself”
When a friend asked me to hang out with him during lockdown and was willing to throw his housemates (including a police officer) under the bus to make that happen (no visiting was allowed at that point of time)
Hmm well my friend slept with my boyfriend at a party while i was there! Then wanted to fight me when i went to leave well i sat her down with 1 finger & told her really i'll talk to you about it when your sober & walked away! Made her look like a fool in front of the crowd who had run out to see the big fight! Well we weren't as good of friends from then on because the trust was gone! As for my boyfriend well we were over period! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
The grandma who said it was punishment for making fun of someone with CP. Yea, I get the sentiment of what shes saying, but lets say shes right.... Kind of a fucked thing. Make an innocent baby have a serious issue to teach asshole dad a lesson? Messed up. Messed up.
I had a friend in college who claimed both her parents were doctors so her parents had money. Her dad gave her a credit card to use at anytime with all of us (4 friends). I didn’t typically like her spending money but one night we went to dinner at a sushi restaurant and she offered to pay since she knew I was tight for cash. When the bill came she gave the waiter her card. He came up and apologized while asking "I’m sorry but I can’t tell is this tip a 6?”. I grabbed the bill and saw she put a tip of $0 for a $150 bill. I took then pen put 20% on the tip line and gave it back. My friend and I that I was most close to were in complete disgust with her. Apparently this is a normal thing she did all the time and the other friend didn’t care since friend A always paid for her food.
Homeless people didn't grow up wanting to be homeless, much like i hope some of these people didn't grow up wanting to be douches, but i wonder sometimes
Oh hell no to the dog one. I've had rough money patches time to time but I walk my ass to the gas station and buy a small bag of cat food and settled with some sleep for dinner.
When my only 2 friends at the time decided to come to my house uninvited. Needless to say I had to cut them out. It's been just over a year at this point and couldn't be happier with that decision, despite being friendless.
@@banned-account in my eyes, no it wasn't extreme. It was completely justified. And no, they weren't trying move in or stay for an extended period of time.
MY BEST FRIEND FROM THE FIFTH GRADE, HIS FATHER DIED A FEW YEARS AGO, AND HE BECAME EXECUTOR OF HIS MOM'S ESTATE. HE STARTED TREATING HIS MOM BADLY, TO THE POINT WHEN SHE LOOKED FORWARD TO PASSING. HE LOST TWO RELATIONSHIPS. HIS MOTHERS AND MINE. I ONLY HOPE HE'S TREATED THE WAY HE TREATED, HIS MOM IN HIS OLD AGE. KARMA
Eh my story is about my bf’s. He didn’t technically learn nor was this his best friend but his friend chased him with a knife around his house outside demanding that my bf give him his keys and wallet. They haven’t seen nor talked since then. And before that I told him him his friend seemed to give off red flags but my bf still wanted to stay friends with him cause he was optimistic. But I’m glad they’re not friends and I’m glad everything’s smoothed out. No police or anything were involved that’s my only issue🤦🏼♀️
My friend, who is married admitted that she was sleeping with her best friends husband. The couples always hung out, went on vacation together and their children went to the same school. I lost all respect for her. I became distant as I no longer trusted her.
Do you know what I hate? People who have the money to buy cigarettes and waste their time smoking but can't think that that money would help them way more if they used it for something else. If any of my friends smoke or start smoking I will either not be their friend anymore and will probably despise them or I will try to help them stop. Smoking kills in more ways then one.
About 5 years after completing trade school, I haven't seen most of my good friends from that school. One day, my friend Curtis contacted me and i was very excited. I caught him up on everything going on. Getting married, having a kid, buying a house and all that good stuff. One day he messages me, telling me his kinks and said he wants send me a 'self satisfaction' video. I give him a long message explaining "you know, I was very happy that you contacted me. I was happy to hear from my friend again but I never thought you would ever do nothing like this, especially after I told you that I'm married. This is disgusting and disreapectful. You've disappointed me and I don't want to hear from you again. I hope you get better." And I never talked to him again.
Ex friend thought it was ok to come visit on my dime and my mom after my dad just died that week. Wth. After said it isn't a great time she never talked to me. Which is cool shows who she really is a mooch.
So back at Uni my housemate let his friend crash with us because he apparently was kicked out his parents place. People fall on hard times and I am not one to judge. I would have done the same for my friend. But what was supposed to be „ just for a couple of weeks until I find a job“ turned into 8 months of him lying on the couch & watching tv, not helping with ANY chores or financially contributing to the house. My friend picked up his slack and basically paid for every meal for that leech of a man. At the end of Uni we all move out of the house in the same week. As friends do, we all helped each other out packing, demantling furniture & cleaning everything. Except, of course, the leech. He conviniently went to stay with another friend in another city for a couple of days. He comes back with only 2 days left to go. My friend is panicing because he still has so much left to do before the movers get here, so I help him and ask where leech is. He answers „oh, he is upstairs cleaning & packing. He has so much to do“. I go upstairs. There he is: lying on the floor watching Netflix. He has his stuff packed. His. Nothing else. The stuff of his friend who let him stay and fed him for 8 months straight for free stayed untouched. He also didn‘t clean sh*t. After I asked him why he wasn‘t helping he had the audacity to say „it‘s not my house. Why would I?“. My heart broke in that moment for my friend. He did not deserve such a sh*tstain of a human in his life. Needless to say, he didn‘t even say thank you for letting him live with us for 8 months.
1:05 my brother and I have different dads, he was adopted out into a new family before my birth. I couldn't imagine doing this to him, especially considering that he probably thinks my family is on Crack 24/7
15:50 if your friend is like this you need to realize there is no longer time for consolation support or words you need to kick their ass and FORCE them to man up. It might seem impossible to you how someone could just accept that but some people are just very emotionally weak and you have to step in
Probably when my "friend" exploited my disability to make some one who bullied me, she knew he bullied me and still wanted to be his friend,,,, later he caused me to have a complete mental break down leading to nearly 8 years of my life being ruined, I'm still dealing with what she put me through lol (the event was egged on by that friend)
Both my mom and the friends she would drink with were once swapping stories about how they tortured cheap mice from a pet store. They were all halfway decent people, except for that. One of them did end up killing himself a few years later.
My friend of many years started to ignore me. I asked her what I did wrong and we had an argument that lead to me telling her she's like a sister to me and that I love her. She then said "So my own sister doesn't care?" Like, I said what I said because I care. Needless to say, after that fight, we stopped talking all together. But she freely talks to my siblings, but completely ignores me. 😑😮💨🥺
Junior year of high school, I sat with a group of friends at lunch and one of them brought a another friend that we didn’t know very well. Sometime past, see got along with her. But after ending the friendship with the “other friend.” I realized she was somewhat of an attention seeker and a pathological liar. There is this one time one of the friends at the table was talking about the Muslim Concentration Camps in China. We talk about it but the “other friend” that we got to know then proceeded to say (these are the exact words I will never forget) “can you stop talking about that? It makes me want to kill myself.”
A junior from college after graduating he somehow did something that sparks a conflict in a comic comunity and even manage to make them to track his location
found out one of my ex-best friends was horassing my other friends and would verbaly attack them when I wont around. he was also extremely possessive of me.. i never noticed... my friends staged a meeting with me hiding somewhere and I saw first hand how this guy treated my friends.... i told him to f off and blocked him on everything. i learn that day who my friends were, years later and I'm still buddies with those guys who got that toxic person away from me.
This would be when I was talking to my ex-boyfriend and he admitted my other friend groped and sexually assaulted him (my friend was bi). I immediately blocked him in everything and later learned that he didn't even deny it, just said that he did what he did, and wasn't anywhere near sorry.
Girlfriend of 30 years tells me that she had been dealing drugs most of her life & taking them too. Left her blind, 76 year old mother to fend for herself while she was in jail. I called the Sheriff's dept. and Adult Protective Services. Now when she gets out of jail, the po po will be watching her! Oh well, shouldn't have left mom to fend for herself. She blocked me, her loss!
I had a childhood friend, let's call her Hannah, who had a brother, let's call him Ben. My sister, let's call her Mary, was best friends with Hannah. Hannah was really spoiled, and a mean girl stereotype. Blonde hair, blue eyes, did gymnastics and ballet, etc. The only reason I was friends with her was because we were raised together. Anyway, Hannah would avoid Ben like a plague. She would constantly bully him and treat him like an outcast. She would do that as far as I could remember. One day, me and my sister have enough of her bullying and stuck up for Ben. Hannah freaked out. Her face went red, she was crying, screaming at us. She yelled "Mind your beeswax, >insert my last name
If I was that person at the restaurant with the missing sushi on the bill, that lady would have hated me because I would have openly clowned her wanting to cheat the server and then never spoke to her again. Hate people like her
Had a friend who called me names and shit “playfully” you know…how I’m not good at much, that I’m not very smart but he had a way of saying it that I just kinda laughed and agreed that I was stupid. Then I saw how he treats girls in general and something in me snapped, it was ok when it was me but I didn’t like seeing how ass he was to them and how we just fallow along like it’s nothing it wasn’t just me it was many
And if they can't, then by golly, you feed them whatever you are eating. NO GRAPES OR RAISINS THOUGH! They are deadly to doggies. Or nuts. They can eat a few pistachios though. Those are good for them.
@@IdahoRanchGirl Just be mindful of food sensitivities when feeding your dogs human food along with the aforementioned forbidden foods (with the addition of chocolate, though this usually goes without saying).
I have never cut someone out of my life that I chose to include. I did however cut out a major chunk of family. I have a rate of 1 person in 10 years, so I guess I am carefuly enough
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The amount of people who are disturbingly content with abusing/murdering other people is both frightening and astonishing!
People AND animals... you better believe I would be turning these people in and getting far, far away from them. People are most often times killed by someone they know!
@@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens true you're more likely to be killed or sexually assaulted by someone you know. Its really sad, especially when people mostly emphasize stranger danger over the fact family, friends, and acquaintances can be just as is not more dangerous because people trust them. Thats how they get access to harm you
What about stalkers?
...(cough)Dominic Schmidt(cough)
Courts -including lawyers and police, physicians - particularly surgeons, and government officials are the worst offenders, by far. They put the actual mafia to utter shame.
@@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens Pretty sure my old friends were planning on torturing me. Was at a get together after a while of not seeing them. Bought the beer and pizza cause I felt bad. That night I thought I overheard 2 of them say "We'll keep him in the shed, and when he says he's thirsty, we piss in his mouth." I did have a few beers though
As much as these stories either disgust me or make me angry, they give me hope because the person knew what was said or done is wrong and stopped associating with the person.
Hi, Paper Mario! Loved your battle against the Origami King!
@@retro3188 thanks!! Glad you loved the latest. If you haven’t, be sure to play the first title - it’s the best. People hate sticker star, but it’s actually not so bad.
*cough* Yoshi's Wooly World is better *cough*
People show their true colours during the bad times.
T r 4
Yup you think they're your friends til a situation occurs...
Yup! The gal I thought would be my BFF refused to even return a call or return letters after finding out I was critically ill with TB. After I spoiled her and her baby rotten on visits, a call was too much, when I was fighting for my existence in the hospital. Well? Like a bad smell, she's gone with the wind, and I'm better off for it.
Yep
@@dgeneeknapp3168 don't mean to pry but how long were you friends with her?
My friend candidly talked about getting married to a guy from Europe who is hopelessly in love with her, her reason being she would be able to move to a new country and start a new life. She wants to divorce him after she gets the residential permit of the country. The thought of her using someone like that who loves her made me look at her differently after that.
She sounds awful. I hope you put horse laxatives in her coffee, or warned the guy.
Anyone who walks away with out reporting/ stopping abuse of children and animals are either not empathetic ,cowards or both.
how about people?
how much have you talked about the sixty year, 1.8 million genocide in west papua for u.s. goldmining.
"that's terrible!" next topic. west papuans have their own genre of mourning songs about being ignored by the world. obey your in sect overlords.
@@atomictraveller what
@@johnchenthebest4495 there's a playlist on my channel. sometimes they are in indonesian instead of regional language and sometimes the translate works. a few have transcribed english subs. so many videos with funerals, groups of dudes standing or dancing but the lyrics are "now we are all dead" "made to live as animals in our own land, eating in the forest, sleeping in the forest.." i've never seen more than 2000 hits on anything in english about west papua.
atomictraveller What about Palestine?How about you troll someone else?...your comment is off topic and a desperate attempt to virtue signal.Beat it.
@@saxon9358 who cares. just focus on doing something that helps.
When I find out that a friend befriended me for no other reason than they needed a black friend to parade around and show how woke they are. We're _people,_ not a bunch of pets in a store window looking for a foreverhome.
That is just awful :(
Unbe-fuckin'-lievable.
Fuck, that's gotta give you major trust issues. Sorry that happened.
That's horrible that someone would do that to you. You're literally an entire person. You should never have to deal with anyone who would treat you any less. I hope your current friends and future friends never do this to you, and never undervalue your worth as a person and friend.
My best friend is black and he’s paranoid that I only pretend to like him to look good, I tell him all the time that I like him for who he is.
1:05 I don't know about you, but that's definitely reason enough to not consider somebody your sister in addition to not considering them your friend.
Remember folks, just because somebody is biologically related to you, doesn't mean that they're your family.
People can get weird about "but they're family" and it's really infuriating.
My sister laughs at my failures and mistakes and has always made me feel like a waste of air. I have had a moderate to severe stutter since childhood. I wanted to give a nice speech at her wedding but she told our parents she didn’t want me to because I’d embarrass her in front of everyone. That really hit me hard but not nearly as hard as the time she came out and said she was ashamed of me because of my stutter. The final nail in the coffin was when she cut our mom out of her life and started using our dad whenever she wanted something pricey for her kid or self. She once made my dad buy her husband an insanely overpriced tool box. It costs thousands of dollars. She just always expects him to do these things and no thanks are ever said. I love my little niece but rarely see her because I cannot stand her parents. They are expecting a baby boy in a couple months. I got to say, I feel bad for him already.
@@miramyth2971 Seriously. I feel anyone writing off horrid crap because "they're family" have been spoonfed the wrong info, or they're the one's taking advantage.
Yeah they are. Family is people who are related to you, not that sentimental shit
No, in fact, it's better when they are your family rather than just a friend. That way you have acess to their house and belongings more easily so you can sell and take the money back.
the one about the chick that didnt feed her dog because she couldnt afford food made my blood boil. I keep several months of food stockpiled for my cat and dog just in case anything happens, I wont have to worry about being able to feed them. Currently, I'm feeding my dog half the normal amount i give him because he's had bubble guts the past couple days.
If I had little food, you can be damned sure my dog would get half of everything I ate. Even if we were in a survival situation. Water too.
My cats a lil fat boy lol. But I make sure to make him unhealthy. He’s an outside cat and likes being active so I see nothing wrong with giving him an extra bowl if he wants it
What is bubble gut?
@@jonathansnowden439You. Are sure to make him unhealthy? WTF?
K was friends with one of my friends, M. Both were in K's room hanging out and some of K's extended family was visiting. K left for something and M was alone. An older relative came in and s**ually assaulted her. Later M told K about it but she did nothing. For years they somehow remained friends.
I can't stand the fact K did nothing about it and had the audacity to pretend nothing happened.
Did M want here to do something though? Some people (personal experience) have specifically asked those who they've told not to say or do anything and to let things happen on their own time.
@@starsgambit412 M was never really clear about it. She was probably scared of victim blaming. It's been years since I've talked to her so details have faded. I think by the time M told K about it the bastard was out of the country and has never returned. They didn't do anything since they couldn't do anything. In the end I really don't know. I wasn't close to M at the time it happened.
@@sorsuke570 Its sad to say it, but K was probably used to it from that relative, and was just relieved that it wasn't her that time.
It's not uncommon for families to have multi-generational sexual abuse. K telling someone in her family may have meant that she'd get beaten, or worse, for "disrupting the family" or "upsetting grandma".
Personally, I wouldn't care who it was that did it. If you think it's ok to molest people, I think it's ok to separate you from your state of living, and turn what's left into fertilizer
@@crinkly.love-stick Oh my god, I never even thought of that.
A guy my husband & i knew done this to me my husband didnt believe me my kids did they saw it! Well a friend heard it over the phone & well i was confronted by police i told them but i refused to press charges because i knew his whole family i was threatened & they questioned my kids threatened to take my kids if he had touched them well he hadn't & i knew it! Anyway they kept saying he could do it to soneone else he already had so why me! Anyway he was spoken to by them while they were threatening me! He told his wife & kids i tried to file charges so every tine i've seen them any where they flip me off among other things! All I can say is shame on them! They knew if not he done it to many & i mean many wemen not just me! So either their blind & dumb or just in denial! So what ever! He died a couple years later! Their just lucky it wasn't in prison! 😒😒😒😒😒😒
The moment they said that they will swerve to hit animals (cats and dogs included) in the road is when I decided I hated this person forever and they would never be considered my friend.
My ex boyfriend's best friend was like that. He picked us up one day, and intentionally swerved to hit a cat, and I was horrified. He was laughing his ass off, too. I told my ex, his BFF was no longer welcome in our home.
Not really a friend, but a roommate. My nephew. We took him in on his mom's request cause he was nearly on the streets he lacked the money(and job). He was to come down here and find a job. We gave him access to our car(cause he didn't have his own), and let him use the bank card for gas and groceries. How does he repay our goodwill? By nearly putting me, and my disabled mom, out on the streets. First he crashed our car(NBD, it was fixed and accidents happen, right?). No no, how did he nearly put us on the streets? By taking out hundreds of dollars from our bank account, to get his balls off at strip clubs. Putting us at 1000+ in the red at least 2 months in a row. To say the least, neither us or his mom were very happy, and he was made to pay all of that back(lucky bastard got some sort of money from his dad). To this day, I have issues trusting him.
Wow. I am genuinely surprised how people don't feel any remorse for doing these kinds of things. I am so sorry that you had to go through that with someone who you thought you could trust.
Can’t image why you would ever trust him…
Well ruined a friendship but not a good person any way! However your just dang lucky you got your money back! But, i'd still be done with that! Not a true friend at all!
I'm genuinely surprised that you're surprised that he went crazy with your bank account. I know, you probably thought good intentions. I was thinking oh that's not going to go well.
Likely drugs.
My friend of 3.5 years told me that she would bring up my personal vices with my personality and behaviours (ones I despise and have worked on since identifying them) and would shit on me for it if the conversation "went bad". I was having a heart to heart with her over issues I had with her, her behaviour towards me and how she acts behind my back, and she threatened to bring up my issues when the conversation "went bad". I had been having issues with her for the solid last 1.5 years of our friendship, and was being met with a brick wall when I tried to work with her on it, which was why we were having that heart to heart. I believed she would better elaborate in the ways she pressured and gaslit me into, and she didn't. She gave me shallow, smartass answers without elaborating further then, at the end, asked "Are we done now?". I cut her off instantly after the conversation was done and have been returning her energy ever since, she doesn't exist to me and never did, just like she treated me all those years ago
I'm so sorry that this person used that knowledge like a weapon against you. What an absolute narcissist. I know it's difficult, but you are so much better without them in your life.
When she drunkenly confessed to me that she had been making plans with my ex-boyfriend, so they could force me to "put out". And she wonders why I haven't talked to her in 2 years after 10+ years of friendship
What does "put out" mean?
@@alexthewolf3179 "have sex" basically
@@sealbean9990 wow those are horrible people
Trying to force you to have sex with someone would be a good reason to go no contact either way, so this is just because I am curious, was he your ex-boyfriend at the time, or did you break up with him after you found out he was conspiring with her?
@@ImaNerdANDaGeek We were already broken up, he had been my ex for nearly 2 years but because was part of the friend group we still had to see each other in the few drinking parties they made (I swear they refuse to see each other any other way) that I did go to.
I guess I should've seen it coming tho, my ex girl friends (because yes I cut off the entire friend group for that and many other toxic reasons) were too giddy when they asked me if I was excited to see him again then seemed annoyed when I said I didn't.
One of them and my ex's best friend even gave me shit because "we were seeing each other after so long and you're barely gonna talk!?" as if they expected some magical reunion between us, my ex was trying I just wasn't interested in going back to that relationship because we broke up EXACTLY for the same reason I cut them all off, he was pushy, never listened to me and used me as an excuse to not do work and school projects because "I wouldn't let him" making ME look like an asshole when in reality I never gave him orders or make him ask for permission for anything that didn't involve me but even tho I exposed him for all of it and they gave him shit for like 3 days for being a liar they STILL tried to pair us back together or get me to "at least give it to him" as if I owed him my vagina for some reason.
I have an acquaintance who casually mentioned how he cheated on his wife and broke up his family because he felt lonely when she went to visit her family for the holidays. As a person that's been cheated on by an ungrateful spouse this made my blood boil.
I once had a friend who had just started working a job in the medical field (as recent high school grad) and she told me that just having to look at certain types of people naked was disgusting, and made her want to throw up. This didn’t make me despise her, but it did make me see her a little bit differently because growing up I had always thought she had been more of the non-judgmental type, since that’s kind of how I identify and try to choose friends.
Why did she even work in the medical field in the first place if she doesnt like some of the naked bodies 🤨
15:50 yes, lets shame the victim of domestic violence by telling him to man up
Males can't be victims! /s
It's society's way.
Well, he does need to get the hell out of there, but I get the situation is likely much more complicated than that. It's not a matter of spine, it's a matter of entanglement.
Thank you for actually being a decent person. It is NEVER the victim's fault for being "weak", and I wish more people understood that. It disgusts me how common this toxic idea of "forcing people to man up" is and almost makes me wish people who thought like that would get victimized themselves just so that they could develop a sense of empathy. There is no conceivable reason for normal people to think like that anymore.
I don't think people realize that telling a guy to "man up" is toxic masculinity. Every person is entitled to have and display emotions. It's sad that our culture thinks it's wrong for men and boys to do "feminine" things.
if you're a server (or any other job), its illegal for your employer to dock your wages for any reason
you work = you get paid.
they absolutely CANNOT make you pay for mistakes, or dine and dashers or ANYTHING EVER
My brother used to work at a gas station and they’d take something out of his paycheck if he messed something up with the lottery tickets.
Maybe not legal, but sometimes it happens and people let it happen because they don’t know any better.
Stood up me going to a concert, told me she wasn't going. Made me pay for the ticket. 9 months later she posted on Instagram at said concert with other friend. They are no longer friends with me.
19:52 Dude this literally happened to me, and she thought, and probably still thinks, I was in the wrong for being upset and not wanting to continue to be friends when I cut them off. She would rant to me for hours about how depressed she was and tell me she was going to hurt herself. And she texted me randomly late at night saying that she wanted to end it several times. Then she added her boyfriend to our group chat and he did the same thing. Then 1 day I had a breakdown because I had a seizure and lost my license and job, and had a severe concussion and split my forehead. I texted them that I wanted to end it. And she texted back "Can you not send messages like that into the group chat randomly? Its really triggering for me and Len."
To be fair, it did talk me down from an attempt, because I was so incredibly stunned that I just said "Oh. Ok" and unsent the messages and sat there staring at a wall in shock. And I just kindof went to bed after that. What kindof a person is that self absorbed? That just awful and inconsiderate horrible personality, how does that even exist. Its so gross.
She was really angry a few days later when I said I didn't think we should be friends anymore, and told me I was "over-reacting, ignoring her feelings about it (her feelings about me almost dying by choice?), cutting her off for no reason, making stuff up, not giving her any warning" and kept asking me for proof and stuff, and then had her boyfriend ask for proof separately, then when I sent them both proof she said I was trying to turn her boyfriend against her. So I put them in a group chat and sent it there. And she told me I was "refusing to leave them alone and wouldn't stop texting them." When all I texted were answers to their questions.
Anyways good to get out of that right? Good thing she was across the country and just an emo brat.
I could deal with her lying to me about having a H addiction. I could deal with her using me as a free babysitter sometimes to go have some adult fun. I could not deal when she not only lied to me about how her apartment fire started but also blamed her 4 yo for doing it. I learned the truth from her mom. In reality, her equally addicted husband had passed out mid-high and his cigarette had started it. Now, I could have let this go but she kept lingering on it and pestering the kid about it to gaslight him. To the point that he had nightmares and lashed out and talked about death a lot. At 4 years old. I pretty much cut off communication with her until she texted me out of the blue wanting support because her son was diagnosed (at 5) with adhd, odd, and general anxiety. Like it was a suprise. Jfc.
Call a child support agency.
My friend said he didn’t support the LGBT community (more specifically trans people) after I’d recently come out as gay to him.
That's the kind of thing that you should disown family members for, so good on you for dropping that sack of shit.
@@paigemosher8697 ? So if someone doesn't support you the person is a sack of shit and should be disowned. Don't complain about someone calling you snowflake later.
@@Ordep_Aviaras haha thats what they were saying. they meant disown the homophobes lmao
@@moonyybread Just because daddy disowned him/her doesn't mean everyone needs to be disowned bro
@@Ordep_Aviaras sorry, sorrry. i don’t like being confrontational so i’m going to stop responding. im sorry if i caused any confusion.
When I was in college, I studied abroad. I was only able to do it because my scholarship allowed me to, and I ended up in a large group with kids from other colleges, too.
Apparently, these kids were used to having money. They liked to go out partying and clubbing every week, whereas me and my friend from the same college as me (and also on the same scholarship) would stay back because we had little money to throw around. I didn't mind this; after all, it's okay to have differing tastes and hobbies. They're party people, and I'm not, but we still got along fine.
What made me pissed off was when we had a week off from school, and a group of them were going to fly out to Thailand, Japan and Korea for that entire time. They invited me to come along, but I declined because I didn't have the money for it. "Come on! It's only $3,000!"
Um, what? I didn't have $3k to waste on one week, and I'm willing to bet they weren't even counting money for car rentals, food, shopping, and various trips within those countries. I was barely getting by with a couple hundred per month! They reminded me of that meme where the woman holds a banana and asks, "Oh come on, how much could this possibly cost? $10?" And after I declined, they kept rubbing the trip in my face when they came back.
"Oh, this place was SO nice. You should've been there."
"It's too bad you couldn't come with us to Korea and Japan, it was great!"
"Thailand was a really cheap country, you could've at least gone there with us."
The elitism these kids exhibited was astonishing.
Was friends with a girl who said "yes of course I would take your boyfriend if I think he is cute. "
And kept talking about getting with another friend of mine that was already in a relationship with a kind girl.
Yeah...needless to say, I am no longer friends with her.
I'm a female and I had a male friend. I have a lot of male friends, so it was nothing new. But the first DAY he made a sexist comment near me I was out. Nope. I don't want to deal with you if you think I'm lesser than you, bye bye~
When I found out that he sexually assaulted a girl that he invited to his house while she was under the influence. It doesn't matter if a person is sober or not, if they do not consent to a sexual encounter, then respect their wishes.
respect anyone's wishes regardless
Just wanted to add, even she did say yes while under the influence, it's still assault since people who are intoxicated cannot consent.
@@quinnception631 I think that's what OP was trying to say when they mentioned sobriety doesn't matter, but your heart's in the right place and I immensely respect that.
*IF YOU DON'T REPORT SOMEONE ABUSING ANIMALS OR KIDS, YOU'RE JUST AS DISGUSTING AS THEY ARE!*
ok but there are people dont know how/ are afraid to cause trouble. CPS isnt always good
@@dustyrose192 Police.
@@dustyrose192 Can't be much worse than being abused.
Children are rude
@@checkingthingsout9618 ? Wdym? He literally said we should report if someone is abusings children on animals, how does "children being rude" Relate?
found out one of my friends were still involved in hard drugs after basically announcing that he was leaving me and my friend alone to get his fix after i invited him over to spend new years with us.
I had a friend named T, through her I met my friend K who is ace/aro, my friend M who is gay and my friend D who is trans.
I found out that T was only friends with them trying to convince them to be ‘normal’…….let’s just say I got everything in the (very public) breakup and T was left sobbing and alone
right now you kids are young and life is particularly fucked up. when you get older your life experience may change and you may become aware of say your ancestral spirits, but omg you destroyed your ability to reproduce for tavistock programming. what if the world suddenly changes. what if, when you are forty, and your life is radically different, after years of no friends and school, and you are keenly spiritually aware, and human venues modulate? what if you can live on other planets, or what have you, and humanity can expand, and life would be good, but all the people have to live tortured lives as victims of some molesters real, non imaginary, non perfect surgical process that mutilated their genitals and prevented them from having relationships which may then be appropriate?
Good on you, thank you for sticking up for them.
@@atomictraveller What the fuck are you even talking about?
@@rclipse1522 they're a troller, report for spam and move on
I had a friend who I had always known was self-centered but it had alway's been in a minor, ignorable, "that's just how he is roll your eyes and move on" kind of way. I invited him to play Dnd and it went fine at first but after about 3 months he starts really becoming a problem for the other players in ways that were minor enough on their own but recurring more and more and he is PMing me every week with new ideas for how I could "improve" the game (all of which revolved entirely around his piece of shit character everyone else found obnoxious) Eventually we told him if he wanted to keep playing he had to shape up and never mention his character again because we all hated them. but he kept doing the same shit and we kicked him. He then sent me a 6 page rant from a delusional narrsisist about how it was all my fault and how unfair it was that the rest of the players didn't do whatever he wanted to do whenever he wanted to do it. I informed him I would be sending his rant to the other players so they could see what he thought of them and we could all make fun of what a narrsisistic dumpster heap of a person he was (which I know that was probably not the best way to handle the situation, but at that point I was like fuck this dude) and to never contact me again and then blocked him. Hope he rots in his own lack of friends.
A rich man is never short of company, but it’s when you’re poor you find out who your true friends are.
Learned that someone I haven't spoken to in three years (cut them off; they weren't worth keeping) was shit-talking me, constantly, behind my back (to other folks that knew me) when we were on speaking terms, and afterwards. Like the pettiest nonsense possible. And they were shit talking their friend to me when we were speaking. His former friend and I realized what had happened very quickly when we reached out to each other some months back - though we'd been fed a lot of poison about each other by this smiling liar.
Just...be a decent person. It really is like that Arrested Development clip:
"Stop lying."
"Stop manipulating!"
"Be nicer!"
When I hung out with a friend I hadn’t seen in a while, she used the N word like it was a normal thing to her, even after I asked her not to around my children.
I once accidentally said it in a rage from losing a game when alone after binge watching a black youtube gamer who used it like it was the word shit so it was only because the word had been ingrained into my mind as a responce to losing the game and I felt terrible about it... so somebody using it causually if they are not black just astounds me...
It's one thing to say slurs to people
But around CHILDREN????!!!
No, that is an ex-friend if you ask me
That’s why I don’t consume media with anything using that word. And frankly I don’t want to hang out with ANYbody using that word - b or w or whatever. It’s messed up and cruel & everybody knows it.
@@jessicah3782 you're correct. ANYONE who says it is guilty of condoning saying it. Black ppl need to quit saying it too.
when she found out her best friend and crush were dating, she took her to another room and told her she was a shitty friend and other things to belittle her. now this is already an extreme reaction to me, but then i found out her crush, who’s my friend, rejected her a while back and even told her he will always see her as a friend only. she had no chance with him and she still treated her friend like that.
the girl’s friend felt so bad so she distanced herself to try and fix the friendship. my friend knew that something happened but she was telling him anything. one late hw night, he broke down and confessed he was scared that his gf is going to break up with him.
it's scary when you have a friend that seems perfect and then they show their true selves only when they have you in a position where you can't get away from them
People always thought that my crush was going to abuse me if we got in a relationship. She was really nice though, even protective of me. It only lasted a week but that was for a completely different reason (too long to explain).
I discovered that my BFF in middle school used the Bible to support racist beliefs. I dropped her like a hot potato.
I used to be a hardcore Christian and so I had a friend that was too but when I came out as trans she used religion to not support me. It's crazy how so many people feel justified to just hate people because of religion. That really sucks you had to deal with that
to be fair if this was while in middle school she was definitely getting that trite from her parents and it wasn't really her fault.
What part of the bible supports being racist?
@@IdahoRanchGirl you know the part written by the greatest american ever, jesus christ/s
@@quinnception631 I mean the bible supports slavery, and slavery in america is highly tied to race. Not to mention momonism literally talks about how a person is more or less righteous depending on how dark their skin is. Although not sure if momornism is tied to christianity.
... The only time I ever heard someone talking about me behind my back they were literally preaching about how I'm the kind of son anyone should ever want, referring to how I took care of my mother for sixteen years. I rarely talk about it except to talk about how so many people adore my mother.
18:47 if she's not gonna listen, trash talk the hell out of her and if she speaks up say "Oh? I thought you didn't care what we're saying?"
That he’s lied to me and my family about being vaccinated and coming into my house KNOWING myself, and mother are immunocompromised….. don’t know if can ever get over that breach of trust….
Are you vaccinated? If so, why worry? That's what vaccines are for. To protect you from getting the disease.
@@IdahoRanchGirl so you’re just gonna ignore the immunocompromised part?
He said he didn't think slavery was that bad. And he watched Alex Jones.
Alex Jones, aka Jim Jones 2.0
When his marriage was falling apart, friend terrified his wife. She got a restraining order. He violated it - twice. Couldn't stand him after that
The hearing your friends talk shit about you part really hits home. I have incredible hearing and memory recall for some reason (seriously the recall thing is like a superpower i dont want, i dont have a photographic memory but i gotta have something damn close to it, i remember conversations from 5 years ago that still haunt me sometimes 💀)
Hearing people talk shit about you or remembering the bad shit they've said about you isn't fun, believe me. I've left multiple friendships because of this
She tried to break me and my bf up because she secretly liked him and was jealous... Despite her always saying love isn't real. Did I mention that she was also in a relationship with somebody who, from what I heard, was a sweet guy, too?
Had a friend of 25 years get busted for giving drugs to a 14 year old girl for nudes. We no longer talk and his creepy ass is in prison.
I stopped being friends with this guy because the only reason why he wanted to be friends with me is because my ex was telling people I was easy, like I thought this guy was genuinely my friend and instead he just wanted to smash
This is minor compared to some stories in this video, but I remember a time when my friend, (let's call her Laurel) started unabashedly talking how another girl (let's call her Rhonda) was a total weirdo, and how Rhonda's mental health issues made her a laughing stock. Just to give a little context, Laurel was a student leader, with emphasis on the moral/spiritual side of life. So I was kinda disgusted that she would make jokes over Rhonda's expense.
I straight up called her out, saying she shouldn't talk behind Rhonda's back (btw I am NOT confrontational, so this was hard), and she had no right to make fun of someone's mental state. Laurel just laughed it off, and didn't address it.
Going forward, I never opened up to Laurel again and I've never forgotten it.
Animal torture is a sign of early childhood trauma, not necessarily an indication of a future serial killer! I'd double check this to be certain but I'm a fan of listening to serial killers. Animal cruelty is something found more prominently in serial killers, but it's a correlation/ not causation thing :)
That doesn't excuse it whatsoever
@@TheMaskedFox288 no but they still need help
@@dustyrose192 They need to stop it first, as the saying goes
I had a friend who always pretended to be poor because she loved the "poor aesthetic". I used to believe her until her parents got her a new BMW for her before she'd even learnt how to drive and they bought her her own apartment. All while we were still in high school. But then she revealed to me how they got so much money. Basically they avoid paying tax and lie on government welfare forms.
This girl ended up ditching me suddenly one day and I have no idea why. But I am thankful because her posing was too much.
After a few months of toxicity from him I told him I wasn’t his friend anymore and then he tried to guilt trip me by saying “what? No! I need you.” I figured out he only used me to gain friends but he failed. He blackmailed me, bullied me, physically hurt me and others while the staff at the school did nothing. I hate him. My whole class hates him.
Schools are shit. I hope you get better.
@@AlextheHomo he is still in the same class but we don’t talk as often. Thank you tho!
She was a friend of a friend, added me because she needed help with some 3D design, we ended up talking a bit and even flirted some, ended up being she was desperate to get into a relationship and i wasn't the only one in line, but that wasn't what made me get completely away from her, she suddenly turned into a radical feminist, posted lots of misandric things and even blatant lies, just couldn't stomach it
One friend (cockiest s.o.b. I've ever known, you know the type) told me how he had an on-going affair with someone's wife and eventually ended up with a broken jaw in an encounter with him at a bar. Rather than take his medicine, he had him arrested & put in jail for 90 days.
... I might want to call myself princess to see who would do the commoner bit first, and give them a prize.
That would be awesome
That she repeadedly lied to my friends and Our mutual friends about how i badmouthed them etc and had the audacity to try to gaslight me into believing i actually did
Had friends in highschool that were only my friends to bumb rides, "borrow" smoke money and cheat off me in math and physics. I realised how sh** they were after coming home from college for a break. They didnt want to hang out, they wanted rides, money and invites to my family's lavish vacation plans😒
4:33 I got up straight away and cuddled with my dog
I bet the dog appreciated that. You sound like a good dog parent.
I have this ‘friend’ that was a very warm welcome to a new school. I moved recently, and making friends in highschool is hard enough. Not only did he immediately take me in in a way, but he respected my gender, sexuality, and pronouns. It’s hard to find a cis guy like that.
Then though, im talking about how my cousin had a racist tantrum in the parking lot of a skating ring, but i didn’t get the racist part just yet. Literally mentioning the name of the skating ring struck a nerve enough with him that he JOINED my cousin’s racist argument, and said the slurs that my cousin called them to their faces that night.
sorry connor, we just aint cool after that
For me it was an accumulation of things but this one thing really put me off. One day I was hanging out with my friend “Sarah” and she started telling me about some “drama” between her and one of her other friends. Sarah told me that her friend (we’ll call her Meg) wanted to hang out with her and her crush from school. So Meg, Meg’s crush, and Sarah were supposed to get together. Well, before this even happened, Meg explicitly asked Sarah to NOT go after her crush AGAIN. Again??? When Sarah said again I immediately knew where this was headed. She continued and told me that when they did eventually meet up, she had a lot in common with Meg’s crush so they decided to exchange numbers under her nose and eventually hung out alone without Meg. They did this a few times and then both eventually came clean to Meg and said too bad we like each other. Meg CLEARLY was pissed and stopped being friends with Sarah right there. Sarah then goes on to tell me how she’s the victim in this situation and is trying to get me on her side of things. I’m sitting there nodding and agreeing but the whole time I’m thinking “this is how you treat your friends? Yea I’m not sticking around much longer. Clearly you only care about yourself”
When a friend asked me to hang out with him during lockdown and was willing to throw his housemates (including a police officer) under the bus to make that happen (no visiting was allowed at that point of time)
Hmm well my friend slept with my boyfriend at a party while i was there! Then wanted to fight me when i went to leave well i sat her down with 1 finger & told her really i'll talk to you about it when your sober & walked away! Made her look like a fool in front of the crowd who had run out to see the big fight! Well we weren't as good of friends from then on because the trust was gone! As for my boyfriend well we were over period! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
The grandma who said it was punishment for making fun of someone with CP. Yea, I get the sentiment of what shes saying, but lets say shes right.... Kind of a fucked thing. Make an innocent baby have a serious issue to teach asshole dad a lesson? Messed up. Messed up.
I had a friend in college who claimed both her parents were doctors so her parents had money. Her dad gave her a credit card to use at anytime with all of us (4 friends). I didn’t typically like her spending money but one night we went to dinner at a sushi restaurant and she offered to pay since she knew I was tight for cash. When the bill came she gave the waiter her card. He came up and apologized while asking "I’m sorry but I can’t tell is this tip a 6?”. I grabbed the bill and saw she put a tip of $0 for a $150 bill. I took then pen put 20% on the tip line and gave it back. My friend and I that I was most close to were in complete disgust with her. Apparently this is a normal thing she did all the time and the other friend didn’t care since friend A always paid for her food.
When my lifelong friend posted a picture of Jesus hugging a stressed out Donald Trump in the Oval Office. 🤦♀️😂
Someone made fun of my speech that person's not someone I admire either
Last guy who had an acquaintance appear in To Catch a Predator, if you happen to be reading this, could you share the guy's name?
Homeless people didn't grow up wanting to be homeless, much like i hope some of these people didn't grow up wanting to be douches, but i wonder sometimes
That second story is reprehensible. That poor guy and that selfish witch.
Oh hell no to the dog one. I've had rough money patches time to time but I walk my ass to the gas station and buy a small bag of cat food and settled with some sleep for dinner.
he eats the cream of Oreo then puts cookie back in the box and licks chips and put them back I told him no I dont like monster
I mean I did that... y'know when I was 4...
When my only 2 friends at the time decided to come to my house uninvited. Needless to say I had to cut them out. It's been just over a year at this point and couldn't be happier with that decision, despite being friendless.
That seems a bit extreme no? Or do you mean that they tried to move in or stay for an extended period?
@@banned-account in my eyes, no it wasn't extreme. It was completely justified. And no, they weren't trying move in or stay for an extended period of time.
@@TheCaptainFatBelly Fair enough :)
@@banned-account glad you understand. Have a nice day and happy new year :)
Pls provide context
If my friends showed up uninvited, I'd be annoyed but dropping them is a bit much. If anything, I'd be happy for the company.
MY BEST FRIEND FROM THE FIFTH GRADE, HIS FATHER DIED A FEW YEARS AGO, AND
HE BECAME EXECUTOR OF HIS MOM'S ESTATE. HE STARTED TREATING HIS MOM BADLY, TO THE
POINT WHEN SHE LOOKED FORWARD TO PASSING. HE LOST TWO RELATIONSHIPS. HIS MOTHERS AND
MINE. I ONLY HOPE HE'S TREATED THE WAY HE TREATED, HIS MOM IN HIS OLD AGE. KARMA
Eh my story is about my bf’s. He didn’t technically learn nor was this his best friend but his friend chased him with a knife around his house outside demanding that my bf give him his keys and wallet. They haven’t seen nor talked since then. And before that I told him him his friend seemed to give off red flags but my bf still wanted to stay friends with him cause he was optimistic. But I’m glad they’re not friends and I’m glad everything’s smoothed out. No police or anything were involved that’s my only issue🤦🏼♀️
My friend, who is married admitted that she was sleeping with her best friends husband. The couples always hung out, went on vacation together and their children went to the same school. I lost all respect for her. I became distant as I no longer trusted her.
Do you know what I hate? People who have the money to buy cigarettes and waste their time smoking but can't think that that money would help them way more if they used it for something else. If any of my friends smoke or start smoking I will either not be their friend anymore and will probably despise them or I will try to help them stop. Smoking kills in more ways then one.
About 5 years after completing trade school, I haven't seen most of my good friends from that school.
One day, my friend Curtis contacted me and i was very excited. I caught him up on everything going on. Getting married, having a kid, buying a house and all that good stuff.
One day he messages me, telling me his kinks and said he wants send me a 'self satisfaction' video.
I give him a long message explaining "you know, I was very happy that you contacted me. I was happy to hear from my friend again but I never thought you would ever do nothing like this, especially after I told you that I'm married. This is disgusting and disreapectful. You've disappointed me and I don't want to hear from you again. I hope you get better."
And I never talked to him again.
Ex friend thought it was ok to come visit on my dime and my mom after my dad just died that week. Wth. After said it isn't a great time she never talked to me. Which is cool shows who she really is a mooch.
So back at Uni my housemate let his friend crash with us because he apparently was kicked out his parents place. People fall on hard times and I am not one to judge. I would have done the same for my friend. But what was supposed to be „ just for a couple of weeks until I find a job“ turned into 8 months of him lying on the couch & watching tv, not helping with ANY chores or financially contributing to the house. My friend picked up his slack and basically paid for every meal for that leech of a man. At the end of Uni we all move out of the house in the same week. As friends do, we all helped each other out packing, demantling furniture & cleaning everything. Except, of course, the leech. He conviniently went to stay with another friend in another city for a couple of days. He comes back with only 2 days left to go. My friend is panicing because he still has so much left to do before the movers get here, so I help him and ask where leech is. He answers „oh, he is upstairs cleaning & packing. He has so much to do“. I go upstairs. There he is: lying on the floor watching Netflix. He has his stuff packed. His. Nothing else. The stuff of his friend who let him stay and fed him for 8 months straight for free stayed untouched. He also didn‘t clean sh*t. After I asked him why he wasn‘t helping he had the audacity to say „it‘s not my house. Why would I?“. My heart broke in that moment for my friend. He did not deserve such a sh*tstain of a human in his life. Needless to say, he didn‘t even say thank you for letting him live with us for 8 months.
1:05 my brother and I have different dads, he was adopted out into a new family before my birth. I couldn't imagine doing this to him, especially considering that he probably thinks my family is on Crack 24/7
15:50 if your friend is like this you need to realize there is no longer time for consolation support or words you need to kick their ass and FORCE them to man up. It might seem impossible to you how someone could just accept that but some people are just very emotionally weak and you have to step in
As a stutterer myself that stutter one makes me wanna go deck that person in the face.
Probably when my "friend" exploited my disability to make some one who bullied me, she knew he bullied me and still wanted to be his friend,,,, later he caused me to have a complete mental break down leading to nearly 8 years of my life being ruined, I'm still dealing with what she put me through lol (the event was egged on by that friend)
Slowly loosing faith in humanity.
i have this one friend who talks shiz behind my back caught him a whole bunch of time he still does it and im still his friend
Both my mom and the friends she would drink with were once swapping stories about how they tortured cheap mice from a pet store. They were all halfway decent people, except for that. One of them did end up killing himself a few years later.
that her bsf is racist and she herself has said the n word. she was also telling people we were dating and we arent, because im straight.
My friend I’ve known for 14 years. He turned out to be homophobic, transphobic, and misogynistic. I’m ready to move schools.
For me, it was my friend being a homophobe, but of course suddenly
My friend of many years started to ignore me. I asked her what I did wrong and we had an argument that lead to me telling her she's like a sister to me and that I love her. She then said "So my own sister doesn't care?" Like, I said what I said because I care. Needless to say, after that fight, we stopped talking all together. But she freely talks to my siblings, but completely ignores me. 😑😮💨🥺
Junior year of high school,
I sat with a group of friends at lunch and one of them brought a another friend that we didn’t know very well. Sometime past, see got along with her. But after ending the friendship with the “other friend.” I realized she was somewhat of an attention seeker and a pathological liar. There is this one time one of the friends at the table was talking about the Muslim Concentration Camps in China. We talk about it but the “other friend” that we got to know then proceeded to say (these are the exact words I will never forget) “can you stop talking about that? It makes me want to kill myself.”
Someone I used to consider as a friend flaked out on me. Now I’m alone.
A junior from college after graduating he somehow did something that sparks a conflict in a comic comunity and even manage to make them to track his location
found out one of my ex-best friends was horassing my other friends and would verbaly attack them when I wont around. he was also extremely possessive of me.. i never noticed... my friends staged a meeting with me hiding somewhere and I saw first hand how this guy treated my friends.... i told him to f off and blocked him on everything.
i learn that day who my friends were, years later and I'm still buddies with those guys who got that toxic person away from me.
This would be when I was talking to my ex-boyfriend and he admitted my other friend groped and sexually assaulted him (my friend was bi). I immediately blocked him in everything and later learned that he didn't even deny it, just said that he did what he did, and wasn't anywhere near sorry.
Girlfriend of 30 years tells me that she had been dealing drugs most of her life & taking them too. Left her blind, 76 year old mother to fend for herself while she was in jail. I called the Sheriff's dept. and Adult Protective Services. Now when she gets out of jail, the po po will be watching her! Oh well, shouldn't have left mom to fend for herself. She blocked me, her loss!
if "drugs" = weed, you should have helped her mother and probably have your dialing finger chewed off by wild animals.
Thank you for actually reporting it.
30 years and you had no clue?
Girlfriend of 30 years?! That's longer than most people have been married, wth? You're definitely making something up, fr.
@@Neillan Lol, some people just stay in relationships for forever without ever tying the knot. Seen it happen
I had a childhood friend, let's call her Hannah, who had a brother, let's call him Ben. My sister, let's call her Mary, was best friends with Hannah. Hannah was really spoiled, and a mean girl stereotype. Blonde hair, blue eyes, did gymnastics and ballet, etc. The only reason I was friends with her was because we were raised together. Anyway, Hannah would avoid Ben like a plague. She would constantly bully him and treat him like an outcast. She would do that as far as I could remember. One day, me and my sister have enough of her bullying and stuck up for Ben. Hannah freaked out. Her face went red, she was crying, screaming at us. She yelled "Mind your beeswax, >insert my last name
If I was that person at the restaurant with the missing sushi on the bill, that lady would have hated me because I would have openly clowned her wanting to cheat the server and then never spoke to her again. Hate people like her
She started dating a 14 year old. She is 20…
That's gross. Lol
That’s pretty bad but imagine the 14 year old clout that kid is manifesting
This is the earliest I’ve ever been, awesome
Had a friend who called me names and shit “playfully” you know…how I’m not good at much, that I’m not very smart but he had a way of saying it that I just kinda laughed and agreed that I was stupid.
Then I saw how he treats girls in general and something in me snapped, it was ok when it was me but I didn’t like seeing how ass he was to them and how we just fallow along like it’s nothing it wasn’t just me it was many
Dog food is cheap if you buy the store brand lol
And if they can't, then by golly, you feed them whatever you are eating. NO GRAPES OR RAISINS THOUGH! They are deadly to doggies. Or nuts. They can eat a few pistachios though. Those are good for them.
@@IdahoRanchGirl Just be mindful of food sensitivities when feeding your dogs human food along with the aforementioned forbidden foods (with the addition of chocolate, though this usually goes without saying).
I have never cut someone out of my life that I chose to include. I did however cut out a major chunk of family.
I have a rate of 1 person in 10 years, so I guess I am carefuly enough