My husband and cousin colluded to ruin my life | Tuko TV
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- Jane Agwenge thought that after leaving her marriage her life would be free from the abuse but nothing prepared her for what was to come next that would completely change her life. She shares her story with us right here on today's episode of Tuko Talks...tune in.
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So sorry may God grant you peace Prayers 🙏 and may you keep your faith burning forgiveness is the key to healing
She is strong, resilient, brilliant and wonderful inside out🎉waah
Jane is such a strong gal .I can hear n see a great lady in our society.may God help Jane
Yvonne you are growing fast 👏👏👏👏👏
She's so beautiful and strong ❤
I have been watching this alot and i have learned to treat my wife better.
Oh wow I am happy you did learn something from this.
Thank you
Please treat her like queen
God will bless you abundantly
I happy for ur wife
Mungu akutane na Hawa wanaume hutesa wake zao, kama Bado hai na hawajaomba rehema, na kufanya Toba ya kweli mbele za Baba Yetu wa mbinguni.....
Wooow this is good coming to are man wish every man can take this😊
Just left my 7th year marriage because of domestic violence, in migori, my dad called me and told me that he wasn't ready to burry any of his child,he asked me to come home to him,
Am now at peace and I really thank my parents and siblings
Good Idea
You have a great dad.
Listen to him.
Enjoy your peace away from your abuser.
Your dad I love her already just caring dad
An amazing dad❤
God bless your father
Oh gosh 😢..so sad. Her beauty can still be seen behind the scars. Wishing her well.
What a cruel man😢😢. Jane, you are a beautiful, strong woman, no wonder that silly man saw you as a threat. Those scars don't define you. You will soar again.
Some of these people who do such evil should have their names told to the world...
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I really wonder why people hide their names for sure.
Exactly
They can sue and we all know the law is an ass , nobody want issues of defamation payments ,they can be Soo huge
True true
The fact that she can still talk about it ,it means she is healing from it.she is strong beautiful woman
My dad told me that if a man raises his hand on you even if it doest touch the body, just walk away and don't look back
Things women go through in marriages God should see us through
Aki God help women
Kawira you have taken exact shoes of LNN in interviewing go girl all the best
Abusive marriages and relationships do exist especially when two persons are married and belong to different classes. An educated professional and another semi literate partner. Incase of a disagreement, the semi-literate partner feels intimidated. This results to a very serious abusive marriage. Whoever has ever been a victim will understand my opinion.
Exactly, the husband was so intimidated
My life
So true I told myself the same thing
I can relate.
You are right 💯...kuna msee alioa mwenye hakuenda shule hata..what she did to that guy ....inauma sanaaa..to make it pain..alimwachia mtoto wa one year..am trying to reach Tuko to help him..but they don't answer me..the guy is an engineer....certificate to show his work that lady alienda nazo..Laptop ya kuchora manyumba..that Lady alienda nayo. I mean everything.chenye aliwachiwa ni mtoto only...landlady told him the dateline ni 20th this month..if not atapata kufuli kwa mlango...please anyone with job..ya engineering ..help him please 🙏 and God will reward you🙏
Jane, you still have your critical faculties intact. You still have your self confidence. You have gathered yourself together and the future is bright. Cheers to good health, wealth, happiness and wisdom.
Trust a mother's instinct, the father is so loving
True never ignore a mother's instincts they carried you in their womb and they know when something is not good.
We need to hear from her dad. He is an example to behold!🎉
Leta babake please
Guys come here we vote for her dad akuje show
Yes but he still took abit of time to pull her out
.but i understand she wasn't telling them the truth as it happened
You're not only beautiful but strong. Hugs and more grace to you ❤
Well done Yvonne Kawira. You're really doing an awesome job.
Thank you so much for watching.❤❤❤
@@YvonneKawiraTukoi agree... yes you are ❤
@@philomenameier9354 thank you for this. I appreciate you 😌🙏
Jane is one of the prettiest black women I have ever seen, Your scar is not the end of life,those who did this to you will still suffer as you prosper Nyar Bishop. All the best in life.
I have been there, almost with the similar story thou mine are bite marks in my hands, i got married @19yrs and left at 23yrs now am 26yrs and i dont think i will ever get married again in my life
Dont give up yet,thers alot ahead of you.When you have healed in time it shall be well.Keep your faith in God and all the best to you.
My heart breaks for her. The fact that she still weeps as she tells the part of her coming to the realisation that she had to leave shows that she is still not yet fully healed. I pray for her complete healing. No human being deserves what she went through. God is a miracle worker and I believe that her complete healing will eventually come. God forgets no one.
This girl’s English is so👌🏼,she’s also cute..may the experince be just a stepping stone and testimony in your life as the Lord enlarge you
Amen
She is a Luopian what do you expect😅?
But she is a lawyer. They are paid to talk and convince.
OMG ,never seen such beauty even with scars ❤
After watching this im convinced i made the right decision leaving a narcissistic man early enough! Wueehhh... She is a strong woman and we thank God she has been able to bounce back
Me too....am happily single...wangu hata hakutaka niende duka...saa hii hata club Sina wakunizuia...
For me it wasn't easy after leaving a narcissistic person,he used to follow me everywhere I go.one day he followed me and took my specs coz he knew I can't walk without it!damn I was so scared!
Nilipigwa twice left 5 times in 4 yrs like this is real aki enda tu na day one we have stories untold still
We need a Government Ministry of Home Affairs 😢, with guideline and penalties, like Britain or US. Domestic violence is a pandemic in Kenya.
Not in Kenya but Africa,women ad gals are still sexual,morally, emotionally abused and the abusers thinks it's right and our female in power a silent watchers,thus really hurts whoever understands place ad respect a woman deserves.
Jennie my friend. I cried watching this,😢😢😢. You never told me the whole story. Indeed you are strong my friend .May you continue soaring high.
Always, there to tell you on a coffee date.
I was planning to get married next year 😢 let me tell you maina 😭😭😭tano tena sina mbio
Tano Tena mamaaaa💪
😂😂😂😂
Maina hayuko hivyo😂😂😂😂
Your comment got me laughing 🤣🤣🤣 oh my
😂😂😂😂😂😂
SHAME ON THAT MAN!!!!
Na Jane Bado uko na ring 💍, siungetupa Kwa bahari ikwende na mateso yake....
Yawa yawa you deserve better. Don't let a man ever treat you like this again ❤❤❤
She's a gem
With me, what I saw was beyond my expectation. I'm still afraid to get married again
I understand you ,some things change people 😭😭
I understand but ask the holy spirit and be close to God.Don't be afraid
Narcissists have the same traits. My ex fiance treated me horribly. He was very emotionally abusive, very toxic, always started arguments, gave me the silent treatment, got upset over things that don't make sense, got upset if he doesn't get his way, chased me away every after a disagreement, took back the engagement ring, asked for the money he gave me back. I'm trying to heal but it's not easy.
Sorry dear went through the same thing until I lost my son that's when I knew I had to walk away😢😢😢am really trying to heal from it
So now, where are those people who did that to u? Because they deserve to be in prison. Watching from Zambia.
I am curious about their whereabouts too, especially that coward of a husband. How can you just drive back a woman back to her parent’s and then drive off. I’m from the same community but madharau zingine my father wouldn’t have accepted. He would have tafutad the parents, gone through the elders of their village and forced them to come rudisha me officially only to be asked to please leave with the cows they’d brought as my dowry once they show up, nkt
😢😢 imagine she's still pretty,such a strong woman,😢😢hugs dear
Jane, your beauty radiates even behind the scars. Glad you are no longer with that idiot of a man. You will rise again for sure. All the best gal
Your dad is one in a million Jane
Yes he is..
I really pray I can be able to pay him someday. You know pay him a trip to Mombasa. Or just buy him some very expensive suit.
Amen to that siz❤@@janeagwenge2776
A lawyer and a fishmonger, how now? You were too smart for that idiot
Aki sometimes girl child hujiwaste
Love haki
Being a fishmonger does not mean uselessness. That man was an individual while doing that, it was not the business. There are people in that business who have married partners who are very educated to more higher levels and are doing very well in their marriages.
Inferiority complex from the guy caught up with her!
Haha 😂😂😂
Woiye aki , this has made me so sad.
God please help me love and appreciate my husband 😣😣😣
I escaped from my narcissistic boyfriend..after 6 mths of staying together..there were too many redflags but i cldnt see...he threatened me so many times but i came to realise through his cousin that he had a wife who he burnt with acid and run to mombasa for yrs and he was planning to kill me also..soo many things happened in that 6mth time..thank God to my bro and dad they acted fast to save my life😢
I think you should be cautious still such people don't let go easily he might hunt you down and harm always be alert wherever you go I say this from my experience way back trust me they never give up till they hurt you, and pray for GOD'S protection
Wow, she is so beautiful, even with the scars. Why are men like this?
I can relate to u. My dad said the door will always b open. I left after 2 yrs. My mum being a good african mum was like ah marriages r like this. Stay strong.
Thanks you Jane for highlighting about Violence. A lot of people (women, men and kids )are going through it in silence . Talking about it to the right ear is always a start to some direction of sense.
I know experiences are different.but when you get to watch such videos i get afraid to even getting married. I jus pray God locates me with someone who is not abusive juu uweh. Anyway my view though. Hugs to the lady 🤗 ❤️ she now knows best 👌
Kuna good marriages,but normal challenges huwa,,, don't fear,may God grant you,,,,Mimi nimeolewa 19 yrs sasa na God is good kuna very caring and God -fearing guys,,I can testify that to the glory of God.
I'm 42 and I will get married in heaven, have never tried and I'm not intending to marry got two boys and they mean everything to me//I do dating for fun💃💃💃
Be aware of sexual sin. God will judge sin
@@alotoewoi1867😂😂😂na wazee WA wenyewe
sasa unazini tu then unaona uko sawa? olewa acha zako
If you don't want to get married why go sleep around with single or married men . There are very many kids out there waiting for someone to adopt them or go to the hospital ufanye IV. I can't recall the name well.
You should be careful be single or marry.There are consequences of everything and in heaven we don't marry
This woman is soooo beautiful and full of brains
You are such a beautiful and strong woman. My case is exactly like yours.i left after 16 years of marriage. And I don't regret it at all
Ngai so that man wanted this woman to suffer😢😢😢😢 he was a devil agent weuh...so he found joy seeing her in pain😢😢😢
Beautiful inside out. Your destiny is in God's hands.
Aki kawira you should learn to sit back and let your guests flow with their own stories and stop asking your own questions.
I agree...let the story just flow.....we have time to listen to all of it
We never even got to know about the justice process
What happened to the man
Argh 😣
I agree, allow the story to flow...
jane your beauty still shines through you are a strong woman im glad your strength is our lord jesus🙏❤
She really is a very beautiful lady
Jane you're a strong person, the enemy intended to do evil but God turned it around, bravo to your dad.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE IN GOD'S OWN IMAGE NA WEWE NI ZAIDI YA MSHINDI
Most introverts are narcissistic anyone who Ever notice that
Very correct
That's not true most of introverts are Empaths
@@theresaelizabethelijah117to me most are narc they hide behind the mask of being calm and cool
@shikuliz4134 there's is a different between introverts and covered narcissist
Introverts are quite but confident,empathic and self-aware,
but covered narcissist have no self-confidence, and they can not reflect neither have they empathy
@@theresaelizabethelijah117 covert not covered I was in relationship with a covert wueeh hell
Nimeogopa kuwatch , may God continue lifting her higher and higher
Even before watching all of it I knew he was married to a narcissist coz I have experience it in a relationship
Jane you are beautiful inside and out, you have overcome the bad that was intended. Thanks for keeping strong and sharing...
Very inspiring story. So very sorry Jane that you had to go through that. The experience you went through was harrowing and by God it brought out a side of you God had purposed would be a saving grace to many other women suffering silently... By all standards you won the battle the Devil intended to destroy you with.
She's a beautiful woman.... Very amazing
I loved working with her sometime back ❤
She's super amazing!❤❤
People are so inhuman....she is such a beautiful gal❤
Please finish this story ..wouldlike to knw what happened to those men ...did you find justice? Jane you look beautiful ...
You are still beautiful Jane, the devil was intimidated by your future hence he wanted to destroy you but God would never allow that! Wishing you the very best
What a beautiful lady with a genuine heart.
I am watching from Rome, Italy and I have to say that this is a strong, beautiful woman (inside and out),I am sorry (taking the blame for the useless man that did it) , jealousy is bad , the person who did that is very ugly,all the best to the sister,she has a very good and sexy body I can see why they were jealous
I think never ignore the first red flags n marriage, be careful when you start staying with a person cos the first red flags show more about the future 😢😢😢😢 may God give peace mama 🙏🙏
Some of this men damage you so bad such by the time you are leaving them it takes years to get back pieces of your forner self but when you do it feels amazing.
Mimi naye kusema ukweli kitu kama hiyo siwezi samehea wallahi......nikipona i go for that devil na acid mtungi mzima ama akatwe makagari.....aiiii somethings cant be forgiven....he did that ndio usiwahi pendwa...mimi pia nakata hiyo dudu asiwahi skia mapenzi na mke yeyote..
The fact that she still smiling ❤❤❤❤ much love baby girl 💞 💕💕💕💕💕💕
Jane, everything happens for a reason, you were meant to help those going through coz your body physic puts you in a good way to help them by the way u're beautiful and strong am proud of you.
The man wanted to humble her because she studied law,but mungu ni nani❤
Jane my friend and fellow peace actor ❤❤❤
ooh 😭 such a beautiful descent woman doesn't deserve such hell, pole sana Mrembo...
This being the 5th story av heard of men hurting their wives when she has already left him, makes me wonder what next😢....if u stay they kill u if u go they follow u and kill u, what to do now?
The ego can't allow them to see you prosper or with another person.
You leave if you feel beaten or threathen
Let me shock you one just killed his wife at UK . The wife funded herself to UK and when she was stable she brought the husband and three kids . Last month he took his life cos the lady couldn’t stand an abusive husband and at UK the man will be deported so to avoid that he took her life . They are evil
@@millicentwanjiku1698 sad
@@user-fp2fz8jn2d u didn't get what I said
Aki her hair is so beautiful and she is so beautiful
I love seeing natural hair. Won’t complain about weave either but natural is so nice ❤
Ten yrs in marriage,i walk away when he started being violent, better single but healthy
I feel sorry for kindhearted women ...they really suffer in these streets of relationships. Sasa mtu hata simple providence ni shida
Sorry Jane for what you went through. Healing isn't easy I once was in an abusive marriage but thank God I left
Women are going through a lot. Living with a narcissist husband is a second hell. I passed through a lot and to recover isn't a walk in the path.. being an orphan makes things to be worse. Weeh but God protect his people
God is faithful my Sis, I was a victim.
Such a beautiful African Queen. May God continue holding you and guiding your steps...
But shes so beautiful with her scars..hugs mummy😢
Pole sana lakini familia zingine wako na madhabau maovu ukingia ndoa kwa hizi familia utapitia magumu wengine wako na makano ya kutokuoa plz kuweni makini kwa kuomba
🙏
I can tolerate much but i can and will never withstand violence
She is a super woman, and very beautiful, vegence is for the Lord, Jane He will fight for you 😍❤️🙏
Aki and the way this lady is beautiful 😢😢😢😢😢I love my single life
The beauty in her scars ❤❤
Oh my Goodness. You have triumphed girl. Go go go!!!!!!
Why is it that in most cases a woman's down fall a man is behind it......am afraid to get married
Do not be afraid but pray always
She went through a lot may God give inner and physical healing. It's not easy😢😢
She is a very wonderful woman .
She has beauty of the heart,seen through the scars,what an amazing woman!❤❤❤
Kawira ,we need part 2 about the court process and how the verdict was reached.Flowers to Jane🎉🎉❤❤🇬🇧🇬🇧
Sorry for what happened. You're very strong, beautiful on the outside and inside. Great inspiration, eloquent and larger than life personality. 🎉
Having supportive family members is very vital when faced with such. May God bless our parents and to those who have guardians.
Why suffer at the expense of spiritual mother?
This spiritual liars have really destroyed so many hearts,
True. Some ppl should just stay out of ppls business if they’re going to contribute to ppl disaster. I think some ppl think they can convert evil ppl but that’s not the case.
Jane you are beautiful! I love the fact that you are healed. Blessings ! .
Your beauty is still evident❤
That is why it is sometimes better to be single
Jane, may God shower you with His blessings. May you be a solution to many people.
She's so pretty despite her scares yet to listen to her story
Sorry Jane, you have overcome the temptation and God saved you for a purpose.
Blessings!
😢😢hugs that the reason some of us left to save our live better raising a kid alone than let the kid suffer while am dead 😢WOMEN SHould say no to VIOLENCE Walk away💔😭
Am glad you are still alive and pretty
Oo my God she is sooo beautiful ❤, sorry jane don't go back to him.
Thanks for Sharing , May God continue Doing wonders in yr life...
Jane you are a very confident lady. May God use you to help others. Your heart is of gold..