Breakups, The Guilt of Moving On and First Dates
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ต.ค. 2024
- Join us as we explore the ups and downs of relationships and breakups! We'll discuss how to know when it's time to break up with someone, the stages of heartbreak (from shock to acceptance), and why we often feel guilty for moving on. Plus, we'll share tips on how to rediscover yourself and find love again. Don't miss this candid conversation about love, loss, and learning!
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Missed you guys. Please bring back old setup/both of you on one camera or screen. Changing over stimulates the brain and eyes
I agree
It also makes it look like they're not in the same room.
I was just about to say the multiple switches overestimate me
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😂😂😂😂😂dead!!! I hear you shem
Lebo's Emotional maturity is very exceptional
"you've been making decisions your whole life!" "how is the menu overwhelming you??" 🤣😂😂
Do yall see the glow on Thato rampedi or its only me, I see God working on him.
Same here,he look happy
Lebo, YFM needs you!
You know it's time to break up when you don't care about fixing things anymore. When you're exhausted fromm trying and you like "it's whatever now"
The hard pill to swallow is having to let go of someone you’ve fallen inlove with , their absent presence is something that is hard to go back to now doing things on your own because that person became apart of your routine is something that’s never easy to adjust to
"never beg for attraction"🙌
“Sometimes I put on sunscreen but the date is at night “😂👏🏾
Bathing twice with 2 different soaps lmaoo
I want to see yall on the same couch😭😭
You guys articulate yourselves so well !!
I think this switch between angles is Okay but we ALSO NEED A THIRD ANGLE ❤❤where y'all are both on screen
These gents are super intelligent and well spoken ✨
I actually like the older set up more.
This thing of Lebo being funny, empathetic, confident and having the ability to understand and read people is scary. Because he can decide, does he want to nyisa you or be kind?
To be the master one must understand the game = "maybe she'll say wait!... Did he just say boundaries?"
I preferred the old set up where we can just see y'all same time
They are backkkk!!!!! Can we have you guys in one frame 😭
Good to have you back. I personally prefer the old set up where we can see the both of you at once. It really creates good chemistry when we see yall together. The split angles feel a little distant.
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Who saw breakup and thought Thato is going to talk about kamo 😂😂😂
You 😂😂😂
@@kgotlelelomonyepao 🤣😆🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@kgotlelelomonyepao😂😂😂 answered well.
"Some people live in that toxic environment because you get to still get a piece of that person" Lebo🔥
You guys are amazing, this is some breath of freshair podcast❤️ ❤
I’ve missed so many chapters 😩 When did Thato accept Christ into his life? Love to see it man😅
Right? Noticed a bit of new vocabulary in his speech, Love it for him❤
@@agnesaggy1571 Precisely! He still has a lot to unlearn, but the lil lingo cute shem.
Lebo Is very mature. I enjoyed his insights on modern relationships
Thato Ramza is Constantly evolving❤ not only imindset but his style too . Tressure le
A year later and I still Love love this show❤️never looked back 🥹
I love how they acknowledge God more often, may God bless the work of your hands!❤
Love that you guys are comfortable but justice for the old setup!😭
Such a healthy, intentional group of guys (you guys + friends)
yho ha a two screens tire the eyes and brain its easier when you both on the same screen
You guys are so matured and it's so attractive😌... Defenitely loved this one and yeah remember that God comes first in everything💯, it only makes sense when he is involved 😊❤
Me watching this and feeling left out bc i have never been taken on a date 😂😂
Same maybe its because I'm still young too relate.
Bro. I've made a decision a long time ago to take myself out once a month coz hayii I don't think I'll ever be taken out
How do I like this video a 100 times, 10/10 if you ask me😮💨
Lol, this was lovely to watch! I sometimes wish I was a guy because it's not frowned upon when you approach someone you're interested in. It's so hard for us ladies to take the first step..😆
Right😂I feel the same way to.
It’s so real that you never get into a relationship wanting to break up same as the concept of getting married to get divorced sometimes it’s unfortunate that things happen in life and result in outcomes that we don’t always want yet we have to accept as hard as it
Lebo is messy & I'm here for it😭😂. He always comes for Thato sideways😂😂
Awesome Episode, gents… And it’s been a minute indeed!
Singleness neh… I somehow believe that since I am (have been) single today, the portion assigned to me for today is singleness. It is God’s gift. Singleness ought not to be viewed as a problem, nor marriage as a right. God in his wisdom and love grants either as a gift.
Rather than that, I cannot wait to go back to the scene of dating. It has been an amazing two years (thus far), and I have learned a lot about myself that I had no clue about.
Anyway, loving the episode gents! Keep it up… 👊🏾
Regards,
Kamohelo Hlasa
This brother THATO is so commited you can already see from the graphics and clearness of his videos 😢
more of these please🥲
This episode is laced🔥
This video came at the best time. Thank you for creating a space where men and women alike can have these kinds of vulnerable conversations.
Around 19:19 ,I think for the most part is about being accommodating & compassionate and we tend to distance our identities from whatever challenge we're willing to take up when we're passionate about something, we embrace it... sure we tend to use the word 'sacrifice' often around those situations but I think it's mostly an emphasis thing, because the word does carry some weight in its "actual" usage. But really I think it's too heavy of a word for situations we casually assign it to, I agree that there'd be situations were you actually sacrifice for your partner but those ,advisably, should be rare. Healthy compromises here and there are good for the relationship, especially when these sacrifices aren't just one sided. A Facebook friend once said something along the lines of "Compassion can be the cloak of self-abuse, of tolerating being mistreated. We must include ourselves in the circle of compassion and protect and mother ourselves reasonably" I'm paraphrasing...I like most of what you fellows said round that time mark, and as always I enjoyed watching this video
I enjoyed this episode wholeheartedly, there's was no moment that didn't leave me grinning or laughing ❤🥹.
Thank you Rampedi brothers for this... "We build up a Fatigue & accept the next best thing" I have been there for the past 4 years. And I am now in the process of unlearning that. I am now relearning that I deserve better. YHO Mjolo, uyatrappa.
I enjoyed this episode I watched it 3 times on different days
This episode was a vibe!!...Rampedi Brothers will always make you laugh thanks guys 🤞😂😂❤
Let Me Actually Spread Love❤❤❤❤❤
Deep conversations but I love the way I was able to laugh the entire time 😂🤍
I love this conversation 🥺♥️🫂
Thank you!! Was getting tired of rewatching old episodes 😂❤
Missed these talks and I'm sure I'm not the only one ❤
Thato bro excellent styling👌🏽and exceptional color coordination. Very classy.
Everytime Lebo speaks I get goosebumps ya’ll I’m like wait a minute 😅Thato is so matured and this was very interesting to watch ❤️#Rampedi brothers
y’all have the realest conversations, y’all might have just healed me nyana😉😂🤭
Damn ! This epidode is up there with my top 3 ! Job well done once again Rampedi brothers!!🔥
Missed you guys but I loved seeing you guys on one screen this switching back and forth is not working 😭
This episode ate, 10/10!!😅
19:31 that sigh from that was so real😭
11/10🔥 how you articulate yourselves and the fits are on fire as well❤ loved the previous set up though
Loved this it made me really happy ❤
Lebo’s game 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I didn’t know he was this cool 😊cool kid
Yes please continue with seated😂 i had to go back and watch all the content you posted ... I'm definitely hooked
Same❤love it
Enjoyed this,you guys articulate yourselves so well!
Not this angle, guys.
Please and thank you, we missed seated with our favorite brothers.😊
😂😂😂I love these two! ❤I haven't watched or listened to them in a long time
Love these two
They are great
Missed you Guys. 🤩one of favourite pod
Did he just say boundaries ?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂killed me!
ugh mahn i love the Rampedi Brothers.😂
Lebo Tiller .......murdered it!
I was thinking about you guys earlier today so you can imagine how excited I am to watch this 👏🏾❤
PLEASE PLEASE GO BACK TO THE OLD SET UP WHERE YOU SIT SIDE BY SIDE ON THE SAME SCREEN 🙏🏾🙏🏾
the unison “wait” part for me🤣🤦🏾♀️like a romantic comedy🔥🔥
I’m really glad you guys are back:)
Haw the lost sons have returned. You guys were missed so much! What an amazing episode, as always..❤
Am the only one like it for the Rampedi brothers yoh l come along way with Thato Rampedi content since back in the days used to vlog thru his day varsity family apartment and relationship damn am a big fan l so wish to be invited once l touch down Southa l live abroad🙌🏿
To think that I almost believe that such guys WD this kind of mentality doesn't exist, am happy to know kuty one day I'll met one for myself.
🎉🎉🎉Welcome back gents 😊
This podcast was too good man 😂❤
Uuuuu " I can't deal with this thing alone" ❤❤
Rampedi brothers finally👏
Both men and women are emotional beings ,whoever Said men don't use emotions lied 😅
Thato is correct 👌 compatability is key 🔑
Thato is so emotional anyway Hello family❤❤
Pls talk about feeling lonely
Welcome back guys missed ❤️ seated so much
Love the new setup all the best on the new amazing journey 😊😊
Yhuu this was deep 🥺❤️💯so many facts
😂😂😂 This was too good!! ❤
"if the sound is coming from the Bluetooth is ready to pair,it might not go through but if it's coming from a JBL it might be able to get across" lebo kills me🤣🤣😭😭😭
What was Kamo on about in her stories last night though 🤔 uyaGowa bandla and it’s seems like she’s in a very dark place
"you never beg attraction" 🙂
ive been waiting for yall
Truly I had missed this show❤🔥
You Rest, You Rust!
You're right. During exams I struggle because I rest too much and end up procrastinating..
How you approach a girl depends on the type of person they are. I am a simple girl so the example yol used works for me, simple and straightforward.
What a wholesome episode ❤️
Thoroughly enjoyed this ❤
Finally flippen finally!!!😢 I missed the Rampedi boys tho. Aowa!! Don't do this to us please.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ My people mos.
this is one of my favourite episodes
This was amaizing ❤❤❤❤
This is so hard to listen to, i lost such a god guy💔 funny thing we always sorted out our issues right away and forgave each other almost immediately but man things just happen💔💔💔
So sorry Hlani 😢 hopefully someday you get blessed with a good and healthy relationship. You deserve love still🥺
I looooved this episode so much🥺🥺🥺
Yoh what a bad time to listen to this, I'm at the office and I feel numb
16:44 - 17:00 hit me too hard...experiencing this isn't it hey😔