Hi NP! ❤ Im so thankful there is no way my ex can reach out to me. No social media or mutual friends. The ONLY way he could reach out would have to be directly. He knows better than to try that. He knows hes guaranteed rejection. I made it clear as the glass covering The Mona Lisa I want nothing to do with him, ever again. He had two chances. Now I know what he is. It really must suck to know the person that once believed you were the only reason the sun rose and set each day,to get to a place they never want to see you again. Not even in their memories. Im thankful to God,I think of him less and less every day. Im getting really close to a place of indifference. Now,I don’t really think of him enough to know if I still care or not. He’s like a random fleeting thought then I’m thinking about something else. So I know “indifference “ is right around the corner. 😊
I'm so glad to hear that you've reached such a strong place of clarity and self-empowerment! It takes a lot of strength to set those boundaries and move toward indifference. Your journey is inspiring, and it’s great to know you’re finding peace and healing. Keep focusing on your growth! 😊❤️
I was with my narc for 15yrs she had 2 kids, and we had 1 together. Went through all the arguments, fights wilding out, putting hole in our walls, breaking her phones. Things would be cool for awhile but always back to herself. She got really disrespectful foul, lied alot, violent. I told her I was filing a protection order. She flipped out and moved out with the kids move in with her mom(homeless) that was 01/14/24. Came back 5x to have sex moved into her low-income apt in February with her boyfriend. I do no contact with her, she comes up with a new number at will. 8 blocked so far, she tries to contact me late at night while she works. She has even told me she was miserable. Asked if I still love her, age even asked if I would take her back, tries to talk shit and fight a girlfriend I do not have, this is all through text. Now it being December/2024 I haven't gotten any new burner numbers from her in 2wks. Still live with her supply oh yeah he as no job, no work history, no car,bike, skateboard, no place to live has a child, borrow money from his baby mama, 😂😂😂 the list goes on, she never had to work with me. 😅 my family now struggles. She is very disrespectful toward me. She has even told me about the shame she feels, always texting. Sorry, she hurt me. I am getting over this it is very hard for me as I think about my child alot. Thank you for your videos
Thank you for sharing your story; it sounds incredibly challenging and emotionally draining. It’s great to hear that you’re focusing on healing and establishing boundaries through no contact. Remember, prioritizing your well-being and your child’s happiness is vital. Keep taking care of yourself, and I’m glad the videos have been helpful for you!
Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate your support, and it's wonderful to connect with viewers from around the world, including India! ❤
Yes I remember my ex narc reached out to my cousin when I finally went no contact and left him alone for good. My blood cousin on my mom side is actually the narcs cousin by marriage. Her cousin on her mom side married the narcs cousin which makes them cousins and family only by marriage. So when me and the narc started dating he saw a picture of me and my cousin on my social media and asked how did I know my cousin. I said that’s my blood cousin he said no way that’s my cousin by marriage but of course him and my blood cousin aren’t close and don’t talk because he’s not close to that side of his family. Anyways when I went no contact out of no where I saw happy birthday posts and comments saying how he was going to call her obviously to talk about me because they are not close at all they never really talk he never posted happy birthday post all these years so why when I go no contact he wants to talk to her and socialize all of a sudden smh. They do anything they can out of desperation so you can break but I just laughed at minded my business. I didn’t even bring it up to my cousin.
That sounds like a challenging situation, but it’s great that you were able to maintain your boundaries and find humor in it! Narcissists often try to manipulate connections to regain control, so staying focused on your own well-being is key. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Why would some people still wants to see what's going on with thenarcissist, you are an adult and you must have some sorts of self discipline to know that when somebody hurt you in a vicious and dangerous way, why would want to see what's going on with them, come on do some self reflection.
You raise an important point about self-discipline and the need for self-reflection after experiencing hurt. It's natural to feel curious about someone who has caused pain, but focusing on our own healing is essential. Understanding this can help us move forward and prioritize our well-being. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
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Hi NP! ❤ Im so thankful there is no way my ex can reach out to me. No social media or mutual friends. The ONLY way he could reach out would have to be directly. He knows better than to try that. He knows hes guaranteed rejection. I made it clear as the glass covering The Mona Lisa I want nothing to do with him, ever again. He had two chances. Now I know what he is. It really must suck to know the person that once believed you were the only reason the sun rose and set each day,to get to a place they never want to see you again. Not even in their memories. Im thankful to God,I think of him less and less every day. Im getting really close to a place of indifference. Now,I don’t really think of him enough to know if I still care or not. He’s like a random fleeting thought then I’m thinking about something else. So I know “indifference “ is right around the corner. 😊
I'm so glad to hear that you've reached such a strong place of clarity and self-empowerment! It takes a lot of strength to set those boundaries and move toward indifference. Your journey is inspiring, and it’s great to know you’re finding peace and healing. Keep focusing on your growth! 😊❤️
you made the right decision.
I was with my narc for 15yrs she had 2 kids, and we had 1 together. Went through all the arguments, fights wilding out, putting hole in our walls, breaking her phones. Things would be cool for awhile but always back to herself. She got really disrespectful foul, lied alot, violent. I told her I was filing a protection order. She flipped out and moved out with the kids move in with her mom(homeless) that was 01/14/24. Came back 5x to have sex moved into her low-income apt in February with her boyfriend. I do no contact with her, she comes up with a new number at will. 8 blocked so far, she tries to contact me late at night while she works. She has even told me she was miserable. Asked if I still love her, age even asked if I would take her back, tries to talk shit and fight a girlfriend I do not have, this is all through text. Now it being December/2024 I haven't gotten any new burner numbers from her in 2wks. Still live with her supply oh yeah he as no job, no work history, no car,bike, skateboard, no place to live has a child, borrow money from his baby mama, 😂😂😂 the list goes on, she never had to work with me. 😅 my family now struggles. She is very disrespectful toward me. She has even told me about the shame she feels, always texting. Sorry, she hurt me. I am getting over this it is very hard for me as I think about my child alot. Thank you for your videos
Thank you for sharing your story; it sounds incredibly challenging and emotionally draining. It’s great to hear that you’re focusing on healing and establishing boundaries through no contact. Remember, prioritizing your well-being and your child’s happiness is vital. Keep taking care of yourself, and I’m glad the videos have been helpful for you!
Excellent communication lady. Hats off.i am from india❤
Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate your support, and it's wonderful to connect with viewers from around the world, including India! ❤
Yes I remember my ex narc reached out to my cousin when I finally went no contact and left him alone for good. My blood cousin on my mom side is actually the narcs cousin by marriage. Her cousin on her mom side married the narcs cousin which makes them cousins and family only by marriage. So when me and the narc started dating he saw a picture of me and my cousin on my social media and asked how did I know my cousin. I said that’s my blood cousin he said no way that’s my cousin by marriage but of course him and my blood cousin aren’t close and don’t talk because he’s not close to that side of his family. Anyways when I went no contact out of no where I saw happy birthday posts and comments saying how he was going to call her obviously to talk about me because they are not close at all they never really talk he never posted happy birthday post all these years so why when I go no contact he wants to talk to her and socialize all of a sudden smh. They do anything they can out of desperation so you can break but I just laughed at minded my business. I didn’t even bring it up to my cousin.
That sounds like a challenging situation, but it’s great that you were able to maintain your boundaries and find humor in it! Narcissists often try to manipulate connections to regain control, so staying focused on your own well-being is key. Thank you for sharing your experience!
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Why would some people still wants to see what's going on with thenarcissist, you are an adult and you must have some sorts of self discipline to know that when somebody hurt you in a vicious and dangerous way, why would want to see what's going on with them, come on do some self reflection.
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You are so right Sally; Who cares what the narcissist is doing?
You raise an important point about self-discipline and the need for self-reflection after experiencing hurt. It's natural to feel curious about someone who has caused pain, but focusing on our own healing is essential. Understanding this can help us move forward and prioritize our well-being. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
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