How another person was raised or who and what their parent's were is none of my business and frankly no two people are raised exactly alike. There's only 2 things: good and bad, and everyone knows which is which.
Envy! If I have it they want it. I never had much but what I did have was attractive to others. I announced at my recovery group that I have a money making hobby turning wood into bowls, boxes, mugs and stuff. If I mention my hobby in a conversation the guy will usually say, "Oh, I did that in shop class too." Or, "Yeah, I have a friend who does that." One guy went out and bought a wood lathe because, as he said at a meeting on Sunday. "If Mark can do it I can do it." To my hearing he's saying big deal, I can do it better than Mark. So far he's owned that lathe for over a year and hasn't turned anything to brag to me about. "Oh my arm hurts." F off, get your own ideas and work on them. I could go on with a lot of other things where people lusted after my stuff.
At our recovery meeting this pretty girl sat next to me, she'd been sober for 27 days. I introduced myself and began telling her how the meeting works, she thought I was funny and we had a good time laughing and giggling. The whole group of about 30 people became enraged that I dare make this young girl laugh. Towards the end of the meeting a woman began a tirade about 13 Steppers which are people who prey on newcomers. She went on for 5 minutes slamming me for 13 stepping this girl, then another rude old cow jumped in between me and this girl while we were holding hands for the closing prayer. Later on, I asked a married lady friend of mine what was going on. She told me, "You're a fox in a henhouse." I'd never thought of that, but it seems true, a lot of people don't like me and "How dare you talk to this little girl and make her laugh!" Screw them! They have been doing this kind of shit to me for about two years and it's getting very tiring.
I have a question, and I've been wondering about it for a long time. I'm only curious as to understanding the reasons why. I work at a place where I'm the only male worker with a higher education. My colleagues are mostly women with vocational degrees. I also am gifted with an above average musical talent, something my colleagues don't possess. I play assorted instruments and I sing. I create the occasional home recording and share it on places like Facebook. My musician friends often comment and like them, but my aforementioned colleagues categorically ignore the posts, for years now. Could it be envy at some sort of level? I live in Scandinavia where there's a tradition of lack of encouragement for the notion of standing out in any way. I'll add a couple links for reference th-cam.com/video/ZyDtnQuvl0s/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/61wWMNMK-PE/w-d-xo.html
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How another person was raised or who and what their parent's were is none of my business and frankly no two people are raised exactly alike. There's only 2 things: good and bad, and everyone knows which is which.
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Envy! If I have it they want it. I never had much but what I did have was attractive to others. I announced at my recovery group that I have a money making hobby turning wood into bowls, boxes, mugs and stuff. If I mention my hobby in a conversation the guy will usually say, "Oh, I did that in shop class too." Or, "Yeah, I have a friend who does that." One guy went out and bought a wood lathe because, as he said at a meeting on Sunday. "If Mark can do it I can do it." To my hearing he's saying big deal, I can do it better than Mark. So far he's owned that lathe for over a year and hasn't turned anything to brag to me about. "Oh my arm hurts." F off, get your own ideas and work on them. I could go on with a lot of other things where people lusted after my stuff.
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These kinds deceive kings and kingdoms. History has a whole litany of these character's envy.
The last example promoted a submissive response
Rhianna
Moulin Rouge
Spice Girls
At our recovery meeting this pretty girl sat next to me, she'd been sober for 27 days. I introduced myself and began telling her how the meeting works, she thought I was funny and we had a good time laughing and giggling. The whole group of about 30 people became enraged that I dare make this young girl laugh. Towards the end of the meeting a woman began a tirade about 13 Steppers which are people who prey on newcomers. She went on for 5 minutes slamming me for 13 stepping this girl, then another rude old cow jumped in between me and this girl while we were holding hands for the closing prayer.
Later on, I asked a married lady friend of mine what was going on. She told me, "You're a fox in a henhouse." I'd never thought of that, but it seems true, a lot of people don't like me and "How dare you talk to this little girl and make her laugh!" Screw them! They have been doing this kind of shit to me for about two years and it's getting very tiring.
I have a question, and I've been wondering about it for a long time. I'm only curious as to understanding the reasons why. I work at a place where I'm the only male worker with a higher education. My colleagues are mostly women with vocational degrees. I also am gifted with an above average musical talent, something my colleagues don't possess. I play assorted instruments and I sing. I create the occasional home recording and share it on places like Facebook. My musician friends often comment and like them, but my aforementioned colleagues categorically ignore the posts, for years now. Could it be envy at some sort of level? I live in Scandinavia where there's a tradition of lack of encouragement for the notion of standing out in any way. I'll add a couple links for reference
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