Babysitter Laughs After Killing Baby & Taking Lifeless Body to McDonald's
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.ย. 2024
- In today's educational true crime documentary, we're covering the case of Marissa Tietsort and analyzing it from a legal and psychological perspective.
Note for TH-cam's review team, here is the context of the video: this is an educational documentary and authoritative news piece based on actual police documents and case files. Our team of psychology professionals analyze the interrogation footage from an educational perspective with a focus on psychology, red flags, and prevention. Our goal is to educate the public, inform our audience, and raise awareness.
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Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Licensed Professional Counselor
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Never let someone who's had 4 of their own children taken away and has a record of child abuse babysit your children
RIGHT!?! I was trying to figure out why Benson’s mom left her son with this psychopath!
She probably didn't know beforehand that's too red of a flag for her to have known and still accept.
She had a child still... this means that was cleared and checked to baby sit by professionals . Other kids whould have been taken for drugs or no money-home, thats the normal assumption a person whould make , not that she is abuser that the goverment knows and let her still do it to the next with no care
@@oumarathie8881 i'd know by that house. There's no way id leave a baby in that hovel.
This was mistake number one that I’m trying to figure out why the parents even allowed them to baby sit to begin with. (But maybe they didn’t know) This whole situation could’ve been avoided. But hey, what do I know
I find it baffling that a couple that got their kids taken away and have 2 cases of potential child abuse against them were even allowed to babysit.
Well it’s not so much that people are allowed is it? Isn’t it just that people do things that aren’t officially supervised.
I'm sure they weren't obligated to tell the mother of the now deceased baby.
@@Grottgreta to be fair, should you be leaving your child with anyone you don't know well enough to know this kind of information about? Your infant at that? It is no one's fault but the perpetrators, but I'm sure this mother has learned an agonizing lesson.
Y’all are victim blaming her kids dead bro.
@@Outnumberedbykidsandcats exactly. It's so outrageous and unfortunate that people that shouldn't be watching children are often times babysitters or running daycares out of their homes. I've seen a few cases where the woman was babysitting in her home, then she killed a child.
It's too bad they are not self-aware and realize that they have frailties and childcare might not be the best option for employment.
Her face when they told her the baby was dead is honestly frightening. Her attempt to pretend to cry through that maniacal grin was one of the creepiest things I've ever seen.
Yeah I was like hell nahhh!
right
Evil
Istg this was exactly what I thought she looks creepy and happy while attempting to cry
She began to laugh!
The BF said he didnt want her taking care of kids because some sh*t always happens. What else has she done to other people's kids?
The way she smiles and is borderline laughing while pretending to cry is downright disturbing
This woman is crazy
she looks like she's ready to start laughing the whole time. Please tell me she does not have a sucker mark on her neck
@@vicster52They mention the hickey at the beginning of the video, the mother brings up mentioning it, at the laundromat.
Absolutely disgusting!
right, this is so messed up and shows that she is cruel 💔
this is 100% Marissa's fault. But there's a lesson to be learnt here: never EVER let your kids be looked after by parents who have lost custody of their own children!!!
People lie.
And people always want to believe their friends/family.
I know someone personally who has custody of their children because the mother put them in danger - yet her friends and family all believe she is actually innocent. Even though the police and courts and social workers and doctors all say otherwise.
I'm glad you specify that, some other people on here are being horrible saying the mom is equally at fault. That's just not true.
That poor child didn’t stand a chance. Total negligence. I wouldn’t associate with someone like this much less trust them with my kid.
My general rule of thumb to allow someone to watch my kid is 1) do they have kids older then mine? 2) has anything bad happened to their children? Based on the answers is how I decide
I mean, you'd think
"don't let your kids be taken care of by people who wouldn't even take care of their own"
Would be right up there with the top five things parents should probably just know
Giving the deceased baby back to the mother is about the most cold-blooded thing I’ve ever heard! She cries the crocodile tears but she is a psychopath that needs to never care for another child again. RIP Benson. You didn’t deserve that, sweet angel.
like shes going to say "its just a prank bro"
She doesn't deserve to see light again after all the harm she has done to children
How did the mother not check her baby sooner or did the lady drop the baby off at laundry mat.
Your comment makes no sense she should never be able to care for a child again. Don’t you mean she should be in jail forever then how could she ever care for another child.
Benson’s mother doesn’t get a pass. The absolutely legendary intelligence she must have possessed to leave your baby in the care of a woman that has had all of her children seized by CPS. I can’t…
If babies frustrate her so much, why on earth does she keep having them?
Psycopaths are incapable of feeling emotions. And really incapable of making choices because of not understanding emotions. They're like bodies without souls. That's why she never seemed sad. She literally can't feel sadness or anything. Mostly they just learn to mimic others
There's nothing in Marissa.
It’s a mental disorder. Where people get attention for being motherly and being pregnant.
That poor woman had to try to do CPR on her already cold child. What an unimaginable level of pain
Yeah it’s hard enough doing cpr anyway but when you know it’s never going to work, it must be so much harder.
Unimaginable.
I touched a dead body once, and it will haunt you. I can't imagine it being a child
i’ve always had a strange feeling when operators tell u to do that i mean i get it kinda but when does that actually help when a person is obviously cold and lifeless.. just unnecessary trauma super heartbreaking
Not only that, it was her own child as well. Imagine having to give CPR to your own cold baby..
She had 4 Children taken away?? And then a Baby suffers a Fractured Skull?? I wouldn't trust her to watch stuffed animal!!
A fake cactus 🌵
😂😂😂😂 Exactly !
Well spoken
That’s exactly what I was thinking.
I don’t understand how anyone would trust their kids to someone who’s had 4 of their own children taken by services
I wouldn t trust her to walk free
The fact that she could even eat while carrying around a deceased baby is sickening to me. Rest in heaven Benson.😔
yep, maybe had some sex at the hotel too. ppl are sickening
For some reason I feel like he might have been alive at McDonalds they're dumb but, I'm not sure they're that dumb. In the hotel room when they let them near each other and he's asking if I grabbed him or you there was some very suspicious looks and her immediate response that she grabbed him seems like a cover. They also had the time from fleeing the apartment to getting to the hotel and being at the hotel to try and solidify their story, which they still messed up a lot but, I certainly believe they are dumb enough to not be able to come up with coherent cover stories.
I have no doubt in my mind he knows more than he's saying at a minimum and he may have had direct involvement in the murder.
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The who thing is tragic, but that part is sitting with me. You have to be some kind of sicko to carry a dead baby around with you. WTH
Absolutely... So sickening and awful. What a disgusting human being. At 13:18 makes my stomach turn. She is heinous
i find it crazy theres such an extensive background check for people that want to adopt but anyone can reproduce or babysit it seems crazy
So are they soppose to interview just random men and women who can reproduce? I don’t get ur logic?
@chriskimandchloe9397 I think they should be forced to take a test or do an interview yes
@@CannabisCatthat’s asinine and you know it. I understand your anger and I’m angry too but be fr.
I agree there should be a license or at least classes before you can have a kid or babysit.
@@chriskimandchloe9397 they're saying there should be some sort of legislation, mental evaluation, license etc before you have children. You're not very smart
The moment Adam said "she was abused as a kid, so she would never abuse kids" I felt a pit in my stomach. Unfortunately, abuse is often cyclical.
you so right man
Not every abused person becomes an abuser , but lots of abusers lies about being abused 😉
@@Duchovnílekárnička its proven to be cyclical, that doesn't mean a lot of people don't break the cycle 🤷♂
I broke the cycle and fortunately many do
@@troywalt4834 👑
The more she *tries* to cry, the more she smiles
She's trying to squinch up her cheeks to force some tears out.
She is scary as hell. No feelings at all.. who even lets her babysit your child?!
My sister is like that 😕
😂😂😂 To your comment. Not the situation. It's so insane but I'm invested to the end.
dupers delight *
It's genuinely horrific how she "cries" and immediately gets distracted with a question, suddenly calm and collected and focused. Terrible liar and an absolute monster of a human being.
and most of the time when shes "crying" she is flat out smiling
Dude I noticed that when the cop said he was going to get her a tissue, she immediately stopped crying and said “okay”…🤮
She literally snaps right out of it too
I think she's very low IQ.
her cry is like a fake and forced emotionless cry with a creepy smile that she can't hold back.
The amount of times Marissa smiles during these interviews, as well as laughing, is just so friggin disgusting..
I once sent my kids to a home day care that was run by a woman with excellent references. She was also president of the local home day care group that also recommended her. I walked into the place unexpectedly one day and saw her scream at and slap a child. I took my kids out immediately and got the help of our pediatrician to shut her down. This was in 1992.
Well that’s what happens when you through your kid in daycare with strangers
Damm I'm so glad u were there to rescue ur kids😢😢!!! Omg fuckin people!!!!!
Did you tell the childs parent
Yelling at a child is normal, kids can be monsters at times. And spanking is ok too, but not abuse or hitting them on the head or face. Spanking their butt is necessary.
@@Deplorablehomemaker Some people have no other option. Also it is a DAYCARE. The majority of daycares aren't like this, it is a statistical anomaly. How are they supposed to know?
That woman creeps me out SO bad! She is what nightmares are made of! The wide vacant eyes, pretending to be crying but actually smiling and never blinking, all while being questioned about a baby’s death..!? She’s scarier than ANY horror villain EVER! I believe she is enjoying the whole thing.
Edit: I cannot believe she only got 37 years! That’s far from justice if you ask me. She’s vile!🤢
She is creepy! I would never leave my child with her. Don’t these parents see this. Who would leave a baby with her?
Yeah that smiling crying was disturbing
I can't believe she got pregnant.
you are beyond help
these facts astound me as to HOW those sisters knowing this woman, could EVER have thought a child was safe in her presence. even her face shows the signs of neurological damage from her drug abuse. we see it all the time. sometimes the drug test is just to confirm what we already know from examining a person. shes completely burnt out her brain for life
She has no remorse. She willingly went to McDonald’s with a dead baby, never called 911, never called the parents, handed the mom a dead baby in a car seat, immediately went to a hotel, unplugged the camera, and laughed throughout the entire investigation.
this is literal sociopath behavior. some people aren’t meant to be parents or anything.
She’s an absolute MONSTER!!!!!
So sick and not to be funny but I'm checking my child b4 I leave a daycare or SB house who watching my child that's just law
These are the type of people having a bunch of kids
And all that after she smacked the infant's head multiple times on or with something hard and killed him.
I admire the detectives' patience during the interrogation.
they were feeding her possibilities and she was going with it. they really should have asked more open-ended questions
The way we deal with child abusers is so horribly ineffective, and has led to lives being lost.
I see no reason why there shouldn't be a registry for child-abusers, like there are for sex-offenders. They should have to place a sign on their front lawn, and have to notify their neighbors.
Agreed
Yup
I pulled my daughter from school due to her having issues with another student. It was a long process of meeting with teachers and liaison officers and yada yada. Finally I had enough, didn't trust the school caring for my kid so I pulled her. Started collecting her homework and schoolwork and turning it in each week and began looking for another school. Due to no school choice it wasn't easy. Long story short we found a great school and got her enrolled and I contacted the dept of education. Less than a week later they sent child protective services to our house. Come to find out the other student's aunt was superintendent. They filed a complaint out of spite. I had to prove we had food and a bed and they took my daughter and asked her all types of inappropriate questions about me and her "relationship". She was 9. I was mortified. I got a lawyer and we got everything resolved but for a few weeks I was scared they could take her and I couldn't stop them. Meanwhile people like these scumbags have multiple kids and get chance after chance after chance.... It's literally disgusting
Totally agree
@@Iburn247 That superintendent is a spineless little worm, undeserving of her position.
She’s had four of her own children taken by social services yet she is babysitting other people’s kids. WTF.
This. Plus other incidents. And isn’t even cpr certified.
Exactly what i thought... but hey, there's stupid people everywhere man, we should know that already and try hard not to forget it!
AND got pregnant again... Twice. AND she babysits children that she clearly don't tolerate. No idea how these people work.
Oh and don’t forget the drug problem. JFC
And currently pregnant
There should be a registry for child abuse and neglect and anyone on the registry should absolutely not be babysitting or watching any children. Unbelievable. This is sad and it was preventable.
There is, it’s called a background check. The parents who allowed someone to watch their kids with child abuse convictions who’d lost custody of her own kids have failed as parents. It costs less than $50 on many websites to look up records on ppl. If you can’t afford to run that check, you can’t afford to have kids. Many places you can contact the county clerk’s office for access to public records for free or just the cost of printing the paper.
mrs.h2725 "if you cant afford a background check you cant a afford a kid" wow your so helpful lmfaoo nice insight
That is a great idea. Like the sex offender registry.
I wish
That's a great idea
The male detective seems so pissed off but is controlling himself so well. I got an air from him like he was on the verge of snapping but had to stay professional, and the lady just seemed so depressed and dumbfounded. How could you do that to a sweet little baby? It’s so messed up. But the detectives did amazing.
Why on Earth would anyone trust someone, who cant even legally see their own kids, with the task of babysitting?
Some people don't have a choice. Child care in the US is expensive, that means people even willing to watch them is a hope.
@@wodentoad1That's not a good excuse. Asking a responsible teen would be a better choice than this.
@@wodentoad1 The baby was far too young to be looked after by a babysitter.
Its possible they may not know
@wodentoad1 That's one lame excuse. Your saying that the only choice was to leave a baby with these monsters or nothing! I'll choose nothing and loose my job and find another.
I think this is actually the most sinister police interview I've ever seen. The fact that anyone can chuckle about not doing CPR on a baby that died in her care is so horrifying. The fake crying is unbearable to watch.
You should watch the house of horrors with the mom who kept two of her dead kids in a freezer in the living room for over a year
@@michaelstrickland3235WHAT ??? 😵💫
@@michaelstrickland3235 that one was sad :( and the pain she inflicted on her 2 kids then stuffing them in the freezer for a year is unimaginable but the fact that she said she would do it all over again in a heart beat made my jaw hit the floor :(
@@michaelstrickland3235yeah, that one is awful. that "mother" was a complete monster.
@@michaelstrickland3235 heard of it! Although never heard interrogation from it
How are they only going to give her 37 years in prison for killing a baby when she should be in prison for the rest of her life
Fr but it’s poor soul was not destined to even live a life
What a freaking monster …throwing the baby like that…..rest in heaven baby benson….
she won't survive prison, inmates don't like those who have charges to do with children
@@zachsilby4569sadly, they often put animals like this in protective custody.
be happy because in france it would have been 15years and you can leave before for good behavior
She asked to smoke a cigarette before getting arrested while she's pregnant??
I couldn't believe they let her do that
@@bbokari9880 sometimes when you're a chain smoker or something, doctors sometimes might prefer if a person slowly stops smoking, not stopping out cold, same might go even with drugs. of course, i dont know for what reason exactly, i guess its because the infant would also suffer with withdrawals.
Did you even watch the video??? She is NOT pregnant she just had a baby - they only mentioned the baby 86 times & showed him being taken away. Wtf did you watch?
@@bbokari9880She’s not pregnant & people sell cigarettes to pregnant women all the time it’s legal dummy
@Mo-LoveMeForever did you? At the very end it's confirmed that she is pregnant with her 6th child. Yes she just had a baby but she was already pregnant again.
When I was a kid my babysitter had a child pass away during a nap due to SIDS. Not only did she immediately call 911 and the parents, but she was emotionally affected by it for the rest of her life. Marissa's ability to be so casual and not have any emotional reaction to the situation is deeply disturbing
Was your babysitter a smoker? They now think that many SIDS cases are caused by cigarette smoke. Many are also caused by putting a baby on its stomach.
@@jamesbowman6925 There are also many cases with neither of those factors at play and it still happens. It's such a horrifying mystery.
I started babysitting a friend’s cousin’s baby at six weeks old and her previous baby had died from SIDS. I was so nervous and paranoid. Nothing ever happened thank goodness. I watched her until she was over a year old. I cannot imagine what parents go through losing a child like that. 😢
Wow! I’m so sorry for your babysitter. How unbelievably traumatic. (I realize The baby in your story passing is obviously horrendous for the parents.) I’m acknowledging the fact that your babysitter went through something awful as well. I hope she was able to accept it wasn’t her fault. This is a story that WIlL stay with me.
Whaf os SIDS
The mother and sister said they knew her for years and her behavior never came into question?! You could spend 5 minutes with her and see there is something not quite right with her. Rest in Heaven, Benson.
What's crazy, at the beginning they said they did notice something was off about her. Even demanded, "I KNOW Marissa". Not once from picking the baby up, buckling him in, driving him around without a peep, un buckle him, carry him in, placing him on the table nearly face heighth, did they not notice the baby having multiple head injuries, blue lips, not moving, cold..........
@@laurac5591 its almost like you don't want to wake up a baby at 9 of fucking clock because you like sleep. Do you know what a baby even is? Because you just said something truly ignorant. Oh she didn't check on her kid at 9 oclock becasue she was driving to the laundromat. Oh ill just check the baby while driving, youre a goddamned genius.
@@laurac5591 yep exactly. I don't know how a mom would not check the baby first after not seeing him for a while... Such a tragic & unnecessary loss of life.
@@DerDrecksack87I can totally agree. Like when I’m at work or school. My kids are with my mom not saying she would let anything happen. I am very observant and questionable. If any marks are in their face or legs or if they say somewhere is hurting. I want an explanation from them and of course anyone who was there at the time.
@@laurac5591You're absolutely right. This is very creepy.. The mother and sister must have known the baby was dead, how could they not know...?
She's laughing and smiling while being accused of killing a child. Wow, just wow. This lady is insane.
“I didn’t do it 😀”
She was basically fake laughing crying
My deepest condolences to heather,and her family!
it made me so uncomfortable to see it, you can see her trying not to smile the whole time, its so nerve wracking? to see, I feel for heather and her family, it was so heartbreaking to see the cctv at the start
i don't think she was laughing i know that she was crying damm this was a joke sorry For the misleading
That apartment is making me claustrophobic
Same here
So much stuff on the wall. It looks so cluttered!!
This how her mind is
The fact that’s she’s smiling while talking to the officer and trying to horribly fake cry just pains me. She knew she killed that kid
FR. If you cut the audio, it looks like she’s having a good time.
That’s the thing that weirded me out the most. She’s trying to cry but has a giant grin on her face
Ikr? Her acting is so bad! She could’ve at least tried not to smile.
It makes me sick watching here smile the whole time. WTF is wrong with her....
@@Mysterious-Night easier said than done when you’re sadistic!
The shock on her face realizing she’s likely never getting out of prison is so weird to me. What an absolute pine cone
'What an absolute pine cone'. I'm stealing that...
@@sueredwood9369 I also stole it. Steal away
I've never heard anyone call someone a pine cone! I love it! 😂
@@flackojamess she looks like pinhead Larry 😂
Lmao absolute pine cone is amazing
The fact that Marissa keeps smiling and laughing through this whole thing is absolutely chilling.
It makes me think it's Munchusens by Proxy which is a mental disturbance where a mother deliberately causes illness or injury to a child for the attention payoff of medical or law enforcements intense investigation and attention paid to unraveling the sequence. This is done repeadedly as is the case with Marissa.
@@doraexplorer8991Münchhausen by proxy.
I'm a german and i hate it to read wrong german words.
@@doraexplorer8991no this is physical abuse. Not medical abuse which is what your describing
She is totally selfish and doesn't care, just a disgusting person.
She is sick and mentally tormented
the crocodile tears are genuinely giving me secondhand embarrassment. she's hardly even trying
Every time she tries to cry, she just smiles. It's horrifying.
Right?!? It’s so unsettling…
It's like a macabre grimace like something out of Insideous
Junkie grin. Some junkies lose so much self esteem from drug abuse they take their anger out on anything they consider weaker. Males on females, females on the elderly babies etc. Life's ugly for so many I'm afraid and she is a living reflection of it. The child was the beauty.
@@blairrobert3438 well put.
@@lolalala828 it's legit scary, I'm down in the comments to not look at it as much
Every time she smiled I got chills it almost looked like she couldn’t hide how she truly feels.
Word. If ever there was a face that screamed _Don't trust me with your baby!_ it'd be Marissa's.
she was hsppy
Dupers delight! So sick
Her her smile was so evil I got the feeling that she threw Benson until she killed them, there was no trying to save him, she was frustrated and took it out on that little baby, and she threw him until he died. There was no trying to help him the ladies cold calculated and manipulative that's why she took them to McDonald's. And made believe everything was okay. She's right where she belongs.
I felt the same way, like she couldnt hold back her laughter
Watching her go from pretending to sob, to checking if people are buying it, to nuetral expression, over and over again is pretty wild.
I see what you mean and it’s terrifying.
She’s like smiling and crying, it’s disturbing
@@victoriaredeker4366she’s tweaking
She’s literally laughing wtf
that's what i was thinking
My eldest child is 20 yrs old, I have four kids, youngest is 7, I have never had a ‘babysitter’ watch any of my children, where ever I went, they came with me and if I couldn’t bring them with me, then I just stayed home with my children ! ❤
Some people cannot afford that luxury unfortunately
@@edeni7052 yep 👍🏼 and I was one of them 🙏🏽☺️
The nuclear family should never have been destroyed for this reason.
This b***h was a "mother" too, not including this tragedy, she proves that family isn't always safe either. Plenty of babysitters, nannies, daycare workers, etc have saved children from abusive homes. So, it's unfair to blame babysitters and ignore that families can be just as deadly. (Rudy Franks is one of the more recent examples proving that literal strangers cared more for her kids than she did.)
@@TwoPlusTwoEqualsFive32 that existed for a very short time in humankind's history
She looks crazy AF! I wouldn’t leave a dog with her, let alone my child. RIP Benson. You deserved better.
I was hoping that social services would not just take the baby. I was also hoping that they would take that poor kitty with them.
How did this freak get this far without killing a baby? We know she's done child abuse before, but what crimes did she get away with? She is truly a retarded psychopath. She has no remorse. She does not care that she killed baby Benson and she HANDED HIS CORPSE OVER TO HIS MOTHER LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED! It's bizarre.
Agreed. Rest in peace, Benson❤
😂
If everyone in the chat can see how crazy she looks and acts, why in the world couldn't the mother and aunt see it too??😢🥶
Anyone notice how when she’s “crying” and they ask her a question, she’s immediately fine and answers like it’s almost a casual conversation? This lady is actually horrible
well she's crazy. she's not sane. this isn't a psychopath. this is someone with a different mental illness entirely.
thank goodness for bad liars. the ones who lie well probably kill far more people and get away with far more crimes
Using fake tears as a defensive mechanism is more common than you'd think.
She's been lieing her while entire life an mastered the art of it. She isn't crazy or doesn't have mental issues she is just an evil girl and she is a user. She probably been abusing children for a long time. Especially the fact that she had multiple men sending her money in jail. She knows exactly what she is doing. She is selfish and only thinks about herself. She is not sorry for what she did. Rest in peace little Benson and to the other children that were lucky enough to not die they are extremely lucky
That fake crying is hilarious.
Did anyone else get extremely angry at how long she repeatedly denied hurting that child. I damn near broke my phone. Give them a raise because the level of patience is amazing.
Yes! And she didn’t even try to do cpr and had the audacity to smile.
I understand exactly, I would not have been able to sit in the same room as her hearing this nonsense
@@ironblazephoenix6214 for hours OMG! 🤦🏾♀️
That baby deserved so much better.. it's sad that there is actually morbid people like this still roaming around.
@@0NLYZ3KE much worse than this!
Uuuuummmmmmm so why do people keep leaving their children with Marissa? First girl in the video said, “well she’s a little off” or something like that. If she’s “a little off” she shouldn’t be babysitting your child.
She said she seemed a little off when they picked the baby up
I can feel the anger in that female officer's voice. Her professionalism is commendable. I couldn't do it. Her fake grief is infuriating.
She has an important job to do. All the positions, timelines, questions. She caught them and gave a great case to prosecutors and helped match up all the medical findings for the coroner. very good work.
yup! she was giving off mama bear energy for sure lol.
One of the worst parts about this is that this woman KEEPS HAVING KIDS knowing that she’s just going to ruin their lives and pump them through foster care. Absolutely disgusting human being.
That's women for ya
How she’s still having more didn’t she get locked up?
@@John-Doe-Yo You'd be surprised at the amount of inmates who still get pregnant while incarcerated.
@@fartingshartingpig5287oh, so women get themselves pregnant on their own, do they? 🤦♀️ So...in your mind, the "men" who impregnate them after already having a child/children removed from the home previously are just completely faultless? 🙄
@@blondepinkie3987you fell for a troll 💀
The question that kept pounding in my head was how could a mom leave her child with someone who was deemed unfit to take care of their own kids!
My question exactly that's all I kept thinking smh
Could be affordability and/or she never told her and previous interactions with the kids went fine.
That's why you background check.
This whole case sounds crazy. U can clearly see there is something wrong with her. How did the mother put the child in the car and buckle Benson in without seeing he was a different color and he was cold. He was a Caucasian child so he had to be purple. How did the mom not see that before getting all the way to the laundrymat. If I was the detective I would've taken another look at the parents also.
@@leesanurse6474You read my mind. Anytime I picked up my son, I would pick him up and give him cheek kisses and baby talk to him as I assume every parent does. There is something fishy about this.
She’s a psychopath. She has no feeling what so ever about killing that baby. Laughing her way through it. Fake crying. Makes me sick. How is someone like that allowed to watch other people’s kids when her own are taken away from her? Ridiculous!! And she keeps making more kids. Smh
The fact she couldn't make a sad reaction because she was too joyful to know the baby is dead is proof that evil exists
I think the lack of eyebrows makes it ten times worse because her fake cry looks like something out of a nightmare.
@salcataThmm..one would think to check up on their baby after getting them from babysitter, i do wonder why they didnt check, likely were trying to get to laundry mat, and thought he was sleeping..its still not their fault, so yes they are rightful of blaming the babysitter- the baby was dead long before all that, so lets not go blaming like that, its weird, and using laughing emojis? veryy weird
@@lilkeyla5769 can we put a little blame on the mother for not vetting the babysitter, or knowingly letting somone watch him who has past issues with kids
are you for real?@salcataT
@@lilkeyla5769tbh, the only thing i can think of is because since they got the baby at night they could have assumed the baby was asleep, and didn’t want to “wake the baby up” as we know babies have hard times going back to sleep. not to mention the clothes the baby was in might have hid his skin complexion that might’ve started to become pale.
I think this woman is a psychopath. She is so detached from every bit of it. And the way she goes from fake crying to that crazy grimace, it's actually chilling
Yep, she is a monster and the women convicts are going to wipe that bizarre smile off of her stupid face. She lied every time she said something to the detectives. She probably beat that poor baby merciless. We know she's done it before. This time it ended up with baby Benson's death. Life without parole. I'd advocate the death penalty, but this country doesn't know how to implement it. She's better off in general population. Let them take care of her evil azz.
It's like she is not human!!!! No REAL emotions or energy a care about ANYTHING or ANYONE other than SELF!!!!! very DEMONIC!!!!!
My Braun can't comprehend the disconnect from emotions this woman has. Definitely a psychopath
Or HER BF DID IT
@@bambinaforever1402YES I THOUGHT OF THAT TOO
Looking at Marissa is like looking into the Devil.
She is FULLY smiling, while pretending to be surprised that she killed a baby.
is she smiling, tho? or is that just the way her face is? serious question. kinda sarcastic, tho
She looks evil
@@derekhammond8610I really think it's her face she's not smiling and yes she's still monster
A bad actress 😅
Yeah she’s a total freak.
Wasnt she pregnant herself?!😳😨 her 6th child? After having 5 taken away and then killing her friends baby.. This is beyond horrifying.
HOW anyone who has had their own Biological children REmoved by Social Services, ends up CARING for other people kids is beyond comprehension but here we all are.
Their friends are compassionate people who believe their claims that the system is against them, they are misunderstood, have seen them be nice to children, etc.
Ikr wtf,and laughing when cop says did u think mom was gonna notice she laughs and smiles so sick
@@blender4464 Well THERE is a danger of "doing favors" for someone when youre not being truthful. Compassion for someone's lot in life should never supercede one's respect for the truth. yikes...
@@leeannwitt4968 yes, she is CLEARLY brain damaged from her years of drug abuse. Im a clinician by profession, I can tell by her eyes, there is significant damage. she has asymmetry in her face and eyes, that happens OFTEN from ODS or even regular use of multiple classes of drugs that cause neurological damage that can start to show on the outside, like in tardive dyskinesia asymmetrical facial features. it can look similar to the effects of stroke and is relatively doing the same thing. destroying brain tissue and disrupting the functions of the frontal lobe. damage to frontal lobe is what causes people to show no affect and not be able to plan or foresee the consequences of their actions. this is why addicts so often end up in prison for their actions. sad but i would never defend or offer to be an advocate for anyone like that.
Yeah No Crap So Wacko The World Becoming 😔😵💫
"how do you think we found you"
I love that female cop, very calm but also direct
And that beast is having another child. Poor baby born in the system
@@judymelchert3966 at least Adam will have custody, he doesn't seem to be a monster like her, he even said he told her he didn't want her to babysit when he wasn't around probably because he knew she was capable of child assault.
yeat it was the male cop -with his softness and his chosen words and his presence that started to get some admission out of her. With Marissa, it needed to be a male cop - she is more prone to try to look good in their eyes.
@@fabiodafonseca3879 I don't trust him either. Both of them seem to have a long relatioship with ilegal substancies, Don't forget he had is kids taken away too. For some reason. We all may think we are great parents and we are entitle to have children - specially ours. But that is not true. And if ANYTHING - this story proves it. Don't forget Adam said he took him out, he was making noises and crying... So he LIED. He should be in jail ALSO. I trully believe she waited for him to get home and when he did she told him so he could help her. They decided to dress the kid as if it was sleeping and return it to their mom and go to MacDonalds to establish an aliby. I think it was HIS idea, not hers. So that they could clame the kid was alive just because the cameras recorded them going in and out of Macdonalds. One would ASSUMe they were with a LIVE baby. So to me he was covering her murder he is as guilty or even more guilty - because if HE KNEW - he KNEW WHAT WOULD HAPPEN. He knew she would harm a child!!! And he ALLOW HER TO DO IT!! He is a murder by proxy!
@@fabiodafonseca3879if he was a decent guy, he wouldn’t have a child with her - if he doesn’t want her to babysit without him around, he knew what she was capable of.
I am impressed by the female officer's ability to go from the autopsy of the baby to speak with his killer and keep her temper and disgust under control - most of the time
they have to act that way to manipulate the criminal and tell them everything.. I know that's so hard and that's why not everyone can be a detective.
I shall give u your 600th like
@@18aplateindoors there are 666 likes now and I dont want to ruin the demonic pattern
@@mahiryaprak Frankly they might also not be that emotionally invested, not that that's a good or bad thing. If every doctor had a breakdown every time they lost a patient for example we simply wouldn't have any doctors. I think being a good detective/doctor etc requires acknowledging that karma isn't real - good things happen to bad people and horrible things happen to good people all the time for no reason and often without any sort of closure. The woman is also clearly mentally ill, developmentally arrested and has a few infantile dispositions (the constant "promise" language for example). If you can't view it clinically you'll go insane at some point.
Both officers. Men get mad about this kind of thing too.
She should NEVER be released, she killled a baby, lied about it, manipulated others and shows NO remorse for ANYTHING she's done. She should get life in prison and throw away the key.
Leaving your child with someone who’s own child has been taken away is straight up negligent in my opinion.
I don't wanna pass judgment but how did no one check the baby when they picked him up? First you leave your child with someone whose own kids were taken away, then you don't even bother to look at your child when you pick them up? IDK I always make sure any children in my care are breathing when they are sleeping. Parents do too at pickup.
Maybe they didn't know about it.
If the mother knew that the babysitters children were taken away I totally agree, but did she know? Maybe she was only told that she babysits often. Maybe the mother was so distracted by the fact she seemed to be rushed out the door and not allowed in and her child was already in the booster seat this time to think to check her child was breathing or just thought her child was asleep and did not want to waken the child. I do not want to blame the mother in this case because I imagine it is tragic enough for her to have lost her baby and she likely is putting enough blame on herself thinking.. what if....
It was only at the laundromat that mom noticed Benson was cold and blue. So what happened from the time she picked him up, to doing laundry? She didn't look at him? She didn't touch him? I dunno, some puzzle pieces still aren't fitting.
@@sarahartz1721 wouldn't be me baby don't even have to be related to me too cute to ignore
The fact she’s laughing when she admits she didn’t try doing cpr on the baby is absolutely sick. And once she admits the truth she isn’t fake crying anymore or showing any emotion she’s so sick.
Disgusting. At that point I paused the video and looked for someone mentioning it. What an absolute monster. If hell exists, it's made for people like her
I couldn’t have said it any better
Yup. Cares more about smoking a fucking cigarette.
there's an inexcusable number of people who don't know cpr in this whole mess. gotta learn that as soon as you can manage a chest compression.
@@stevenunyabidness CPR on babies totally different as well. more people need to learn the baby specific CPR.
The fact that when she was lying she was “breaking down.” But when she admits it she’s laughing and smiling is absolutely disgusting.
She is crying for herself!!
Psychopath for sure
The truth can feel liberating. The relief she felt must have been quite a rush.
She probably liked that. People like that are dangerous. Potential serial killers.
@@sharynkoren2054 she's not even really crying. no red face, no tears, goes back to happy smiling or acting casual right after. a fake evil pos
I bet if that cat could talk it would be snitching right now
For those who don’t have an hour but wanna know what happened:
Marisa was a babysitter for her friend and one day while watching an infant named benson, she became frustrated and threw him forcefully into a pack-n-play. The child hit his head on the corner of the plastic frame and passed away due to the injuries minutes later. Marissa tried to hide his death by putting him in a carrier and going to McDonald’s with her boyfriend. She lied to the boyfriend about the baby’s health so that he would go along with the plan. She then handed the baby off at pickup like everything was normal, leaving the mother to realize he had passed away about half an hour later. Marissa was sentenced to 37 years in jail with another 3 from a secondary child a**use allocation from a few months prior.
Well written wow 😲..Thankyou for sharing ..
Thank u!!
Commenting to help this move up.
oh- when they said he was ice cold, i thought that the abysitter did something to the baby that included freesing him to death
Thank you!
Her face when she was trying to look like she was crying was beyond terrifying
Yes! I just commented the same thing. I just hated that face!!!
A monster wearing a person is what I thought of immediately; she couldn't hide that disturbing af smile
Agreed!
Demonic, in fact
daaaamn that was creepy
That male detective is really good. He replicates empathy and understanding in a way that makes the perpetrator open up little by little
Yeah he 100% got her past her BS story. He was amazing
He's also the one who gives her the opening to it being an accident ... "Did you leave him for too long?" Sounds so innocuous. Smart.
@@jessifica That's a tactic to get her to admit she killed the kid. There's no accidental murder when you throw a baby. It was part of the "you're not a monster" approach
Oh yeah, fully aware@@jblps
@@jessifica haha sorry for some reason I misread your comment as sarcasm
Why is there not a child abuse registry like the sex offender registry ? How was this mom supposed to know that this woman had kids taken away or that she was under investigation for child abuse? And why was she allowed to babysit? She ought to have been arrested just for babysitting while under investigation - so many failures - why do we keep worrying about the rights of adults over kids? I would gladly give up privacy and some rights if it meant child abuse would stop
Did you even watch the video?! No. You didn’t. 🤦🏻♀️
I wish this comment would be more popular... Because she is abused kid herself. That's why she is so fd up.
It's said in the video that Heather and Marrisa were longterm friends. So I wonder if Heather knew that Marrisa had kids taken from her.
@@verusi509 missed that detail thanks for your polite reply 🙂
It must be so difficult to be an investigator in the interrogation room and not absolutely strangle the monster after seeing autopsy images of the victim.
Not the same when it’s not personal. I worked those jobs. Must fucked up thing I ever saw was a baby. Turn up into about 9 pieces.
Xerox and 😢🎉😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮🎉🎉😂🎉🎉🎉
They want to prosecute these people, it would be thrown out of court if the police are shown to be mistreating suspects.
I said it must be difficult not to, not that they should strangle people, deservedly. I'm fully aware they're not supposed to strangle people in the interrogation room.🤦♀️
Was it an abortion?
She killed a little baby and then took that poor dead baby to McDonald’s and then handed him over to his mother like nothing happened! Unbelievable. But when you watch the interview, you can see she doesn’t give AF what she did to that poor little child. Horrible excuse for a human being.
This is traumatizing. Not just for Heather, but for people watching this. The fact that she takes a lifeless body out to eat is beyond disgusting.
Very discussed & disturbing smh poor baby r.i.p baby boy god god you
Justice & prayers for the baby family 🙏
Of you only don’t watch it
I honestly hate cps because they either take your child because your house is to dirty or they leave a child in custody of an obvious abuser and of course they generally put kids in a worse situation than they were in the first place
That happened to me and my siblings: that one month felt like an eternity
Or because you have no choice but to leave your kid alone because you have to work 2 or 3 jobs to keep food on the table , clothes on your child back and a roof over their head becaiuse the government has made rent and everything else so damn high
Craziest part is every foster home that i have seen "been friends with kids that were fostered in my teen years" has treated their foster kids amazing and they loved it.
the fact that they took their kids but failed to prevent her from continuing to "CARE" for other kids is another failure of the state. The fact that she's actively pregnant during the visit to take the 5th child is INSANE. Not only is Marissa a despicable human being, but the state failed to properly protect ALL of the children involved in this situation.
Exactly. Once you lose your kids 500000x it should be illegal. They should have to get their tubes tied and if they refuse to then stay in jail until they agree to.
And there should be a list for child abusers just like a sex offender list
True. But you are literally calling for a nanny state.
@bobgillis1137 if you don't think that CPS isn't a necessary service than your dumber than you think
The state huh this is why women should have no rights especially the ability to vote
It's a weird balance. I do agree with barring from child care but invasion of the body is a step to far
I'm not blaming the mother. This case should be a warning to all parents. If someone is accused of fracturing another babie's skull and losing 4 of her own children, don't kid yourself that she will treat your child any different. It's obvious Marissa can't control her frustration. What a sad case. My condolences to baby Benson's family.
i’m guessing they didn’t go around telling everyone that she was under investigation for such things, so unfortunately the mother probably didn’t know … i hope that’s the case anyway
To be fair there have been cases where sitters with perfect records have gone on to unalive kids in their care. Look at the case of the family nanny who the parents thought was perfect, the kids adored her and out of nowhere she slit the children's throats.
Plus, a lot of people think so lowly of CPS and believe they steal children for no reason. This could have been one of those situations where she convinced people she was a victim of the state and CPS stole her kids for no reason.
I'm more going with she kept it a secret, probably didn't tell the mom she had that many kids taken away or would just make excuses for why they weren't there during up & drop off, like maybe with grandma or something.
Then there's the possibility that the mom could have been so desperate for a sitter she really couldn't be bothered to look too deep into it. I hope this isn't so.
There's just so many things we don't know
*babies
@@vixxxenfoxxx3660 Yeah but "to be fair" 99.99999% of "clean" baby sitters don't have any problems. So yea, do background check people!
@@bbibbibu Even if the mother was on some level aware it was likely very downplayed or there was a personal leverage there (ie. recommendeation) which dissuaded the mum.
Hearing the mother screaming in the beginning crushed me, and then to watch this woman laughing there about a dead baby, pretending she never knew it was dead, then admitting at the end she knew the whole time...Horrendous. Disgusting. Words cannot describe.
After the screaming, the poor woman then had to give her cold dead baby CPR :( Absolute nightmare
It's super sad that anyone could intentionally hurt a infant, Evan more so then to do it in cold blood and give the lifeless corpse to the mother. It turns my stomach. She deserved life in prison
@@jamiestewart48 it goes to show that even the mother was completely devastated, she tried her best to help her baby even though it was already too late
@@notpeachykeen6823 this is horrifying. my sponsor in AA just told me "God doesn't give us anymore than we can handle" then i come across this nightmare. there aren't words.
@@jamiestewart48just hurt me so much because she knew that that baby was dead and she gave the mother the dead baby 👶
He said that she was in the restroom when the kid fall, she says she was doing dishes. Who would we believe? Oh wait... None of them
Jesus. She's got to be be a sociopath. When my son was a baby (14 months old), the daycare lady accidentally hurt his arm while trying to catch him as he scooted himself off the changing table. She immediately called me at wok, crying hysterically and told me to meet her at the emergency room asap. She was so open, honest, and very obviously extremely distraught at the thought of having hurt him. She was sobbing so hard that she was dry heaving. I recall having to comfort her as much as I comforted my son. I KNEW it was an accident. The sorrow and pain in her eyes told me the truth.
I’m a daycare worker and I appreciate this so much ❤ there are some very good people out there that take care of children, and things do happen, albeit rarely. It’s amazing that you were able to give the woman grace in that situation because I know it was difficult.
Had a young lady in her seventies explain how my son got a knee scrape (on the playground) and other staff at the daycare had to use two bandages on him. When she explained she had looked away for just a few seconds while attending to the needs of another child and she did not see exactly when my son fell, her voice was cracking and I could see she was fighting back tears very hard. You cannot fake love and care at that level; I never felt more sure that we choose the appropriate daycare for our son. As a parent, you just know.
@@rolandolemus1352Having been on n the other side of that, I can confirm it’s gut wrenching. I babysat for my nephews when they were babies and young children and everything was fine when they were young. Always returned them without so much as a bump or scratch. No, the problem was when the eldest got old enough to be taken to the park!
He was on the swings while I watch, and I swear, the moment I looked down to attend to his brother, who was on the bench with me, three years younger and what happened? Of course it was that moment the eldest fell off the swing and tumbled to the ground. I’ll never forget the sickening feeling of that moment. Fortunately he got away with just bruises and scrapes-I always have a first aid kit with me so I patched him up and called their mother straight away.
I felt horrible for the rest of the day and watched him like a hawk, ready to take him to a doctor or hospital if there was a hint of anything else wrong, but he recovered from it faster than I did. My brother and his wife were cool with it as accidents happen. I didn’t mind them thoroughly inspecting him at pickup-even left the room to allow them some privacy. It was ghastly. I felt like I’d failed them.
Aw that poor woman. She sounds so sweet.
WHO in their right mind hands over their child to a person that has their own children taken away from child protection service?!?!? The mind boggles!
Marissa seems HIGHLY manipulative, even Adam seems like he was manipulated by her, its likely since the mother knew her and also likely didnt see this side of her she was told someone fucked her (marissa) over
Right my first thought exactly.
Probaby the "mom" who wants to get rid of her child. It was said that she was often frustrated couse of the baby. Some lunatics should never have babies period, when some warm caring people can't have kids on their own...
How can one not immediately check their own baby after getting them from the babysitter.
people that are good at manipulating others into thinking it’s not their fault and someone else’s or something of the sort. it sounds stupid but it happens all the time
She took the dead baby to McDonalds and ate? Wow!
The only time she actually cried was for herself. She showed more concern about the consequences she was facing, than what she did to this precious baby. She is a monster.
Its unbelievable how people that are accused of child abuse think they can tell cps what to do😢
Cps are child abusers themselves.
Her transition (so quickly) from "normal", to laughing/smiling, to "crying" is sickening. This is the face of someone who has a fake conscience.
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Her "acting" is horrible
When I'm nervous I laugh cry. My son recently got his shots and I laughed at him crying then I broke down crying. So it's kinda normal when ppl are nervous or uncomfortable. Not saying she didn't do it.
@@texaskteaI feel like if she cried without a single tear I don’t even understand what your comments for lol
@@Tarasbasement I'm answering the original comment that some ppl do laugh when nervous.
Her laughing through any of this and seeing her at McDonald's ordering her food knowing she has a dead baby with her is absolutely appalling.
To think she even had an appetite.
That whole scenario is just horrific
It's sickening, she's a narcissist, laughing and showing no emotions. She was fake crying thinking that would make her look innocent, this lady is horrible to kids😢
@@roshediatetterton2843 a narcissist? ok lolololololol
Just evil. How could she take that dead baby to mcds!
@@RobertELee420 umm, yes, a narcissist, thinking highly of herself and her feelings, having zero empathy for others, yes, she has the characteristics.
The fact that she didn't ask the police why they were asking her those questions from the very beginning is a huge red flag. Shes not asking why because she KNOWS why.
exactly!
She killed the child and lost custody of all her other children and she’s pregnant again. Enforced Sterilisation. Now.
No it's not a red flag. Some people decide to cooperate rather than wasting time, whether they are guilty or not. Lots of criminals are habitual liars who will resist questioning and orders, pretend to be innocent when they aren't. It also depends on the officer who is questioning you. If the officer is approachable and empathetic, really trying to understand rather than being harsh and accusing, the suspect is more likely to open up.
What got me was the way she said was "and he was fine" like no one asked
Couldn’t have it said it better myself facts
Why would you let you two month old be with someone like this? Weird. They even made the comment that “she’s not all there” well TOU LEFT YOUR KID WITH THIS WEIRDO. Y’all are weird af
can we appreciate these detectives here? they don't miss a beat with anything she spews out of her deceiving mouth, they force her to rethink her lies by using empathy, concern and just the right amount of pressure. I'd imagine it must be quite difficult to do all of this when you are interrogating women who are like Marissa. They deserve a raise.
That male detective asks so dumb questions.
God knows if I were in any of these officers or detectives shoes I woulda probably decked her in the face, especially if I had seen the child. Right on them for not jeopardizing the case over something that was probably ticking in the back of their head.
@crusaderkaiser2005 probably why you work in a supermarket, mate.
@@italicpigeon like I mean I don't but okie dokie lmao
That lady detective was on top of her!!
Her smiling during the questioning, smiling during the demonstration, smiling in her mugshot... like what is so smiley about a baby dying in your care?!
Demons smile like that.
Ong it’s grilled into my fucking mind I’ll never forget that like what kind of monster can have that mentality and I’m a complete bitch to most ppl but that’s a whole different level
I WOULD HAVE BEEN INCONSOLABLE! I've seen people laugh at very raw moments because they are nervous or don't know how to properly handle the expected emotion at the time, but this is clearly a case of I'm fucked, how do keep my bs from slipping out?
Drugs
The mugshot was cursed
The way she smirks and laughs when asked why she didn't do CPR is chilling.
She knew he wasn't breathing, and instead of calling for help she paraded a dead infant in public.
She is an addict. Probably high right then and there.
it’s disgusting
I babysat 4 little boys all under the age of 4, a 4 year old, a 2 year old, and 2 6 months old. They were 2 sets of 2 brothers each. I was 12 and 13 years old when I watched them and NEVER did ANY of them get more than scraped knee under my care! All were fed and clean!
She deserved a life sentence. The husband said something about she shouldn't be watching any child and also said, "always things happen when I'm not around", "she gets frustrated". My condolence to the mothers that have suffered and lost their children, or abused by Marissa. She has no remorse, she will never see her children again till adulthood, if they ever want to see her again. So sad. Everyone reaps the pain that she has sowed.
No. She deserves the DP
Agree she should be charged for many crimes all the years she got away for it
The long term boyfriend was just as bad as she is, I'm sure. He kept knocking her up despite having all their previous kids taken for abuse, tried to cover up for her abusing both children mentioned in this case, and continued to try to cover for her - and put money on her books in jail - even after she abused this poor baby to death. Both selfish, stupid and evil monsters.
At least when she gets out she will be too dried up to have children
Oh that Life sentence is gonna be absolutely fun, for the inmates with her. Baby killers don't get grace in women's prisons. Remember, her face aint pregnant.
This is the EXACT reason that no one outside of my mother has ever been allowed to babysit my toddler. No friends, cousins, daycares, nobody. I do not play when it comes to my baby. People can be so evil.
Wish everyone had a trustworthy person to watch their children
Honestly if you have good friends and you know it you can trust them. I would definitely trust my two best friends who never deceived me and who are like sisters to me.
But I would also be terrified of something happening to my kids
Same. It’s just been my mom and sister. People are wicked.
When my son was little, the only person I let watch him was my mom. I have sisters who i love and trust , but I only let my mom watch him. I guess it was that my sisters had kids and I just wanted all the focus on my son.
@@angrydurian814 I feel you, I'd just rather take no chances. I know my mother frfr, through & through. My daughter's her own flesh & blood, and I am a direct witness to how she treats children because she raised me. We may know and love our friends, but sometimes, it's the things they do behind closed doors that you have no clue about that keeps you (me) from trusting blindly when it comes to a child. I'd hurt a friend over my child. I love my friends, but I love my child beyond this world. I can't take any chances. I respect your point tho.
She’s had her children taken away, she’s a “former” drug abuser and their house looks like the house of horrors filled with clutter all over the walls. I’m amazed people allowed her to watch their kids.
That's exactly what I said about their apt. With all of that crap everywhere, it's extremely dangerous for children.
I'm not playing devil's advocate here, but bad taste in decor doesn't make someone an offender - it just means they have bad taste in decor; Your mind simply made the connection. She is an absolute monster, though, and I truly hope the other inmates find out she's a baby killer and respond with appropriate retaliation...in Minecraft.
Thank you. These are people are absolutely absurd. While their personal style is definitely not my cup of tea, it is just clutter. There is a big difference between clutter, mess, and filth. And the place did not look dirty or filthy. People are so fucking ridiculous these days, God help anybody who has to be judged by a jury of their peers.
YES thank you for saying that!!! Who in their right minds leave a child to a woman like that?!?
I knew she was ok drugs
i have severe emetophobia, and don't really particularly like babies or kids. when i was a teen, my sister had her first baby and moved back in with us; i told her straight up that i would not be participating in taking care of him, because i had school and my own stuff to take care of, and zero experience with babies. plus, that sister and i were on seriously bad terms, so i just didn't want to be part of her life in any way. one day she begged me to watch after him just while she took a shower, and i reluctantly agreed. she assured me he had last been fed hours ago and wouldn't throw up (i found out later that she'd lied about that, but that's beside the point)
but of course, he did what babies do, and threw up all over me. my phobia response is essentially an immediate panic attack involving hyperventilating, muscle rigidity, passing out, all the good stuff. despite that, i still managed to retain the presence of mind to sit my nephew down safely wedged in a corner of the couch first before doing my hysterics. i worried afterward that i had sat him down too hard because, again, no experience with babies, but he was perfectly fine in the end. that was one of my absolute worst moments, and i could still never imagine throwing him, even on reflex. and this is someone who claims to love kids? foh
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I'm a babysitter myself, so this is absolutely sickening. I was babysitting a newborn for the first time and he got hiccups while I fed him. I didn't know that he got them all the time, so I nearly had a panic attack from thinking I had hurt him. This woman is scum.
Same here. I babysat for two kids when I was in high school and gave them buttermilk in their cereal by mistake. They only took a bite apiece and spat it out and I corrected my mistake and got them the right kind of milk (I was distracted and not paying super close attention). The next day, they were both sick from what later happened to be a stomach virus. I was absolutely sick until I found that out because I felt so guilty for thinking I made them sick. I ugly cried when I found out it wasn't my fault and that they were going to be okay. It's crazy how something that happened two decades ago is still very vivid in my brain. To this day, I carefully inspect my own kid's food before I feed it to her.
Unfortunately disturbed people like Marissa get entrusted with children all the time, it's not always detectable but seeing Adam & Marissas mannerisms, I wouldnt entrust them with my hamster, let alone my children, so I feel the mother is partially to blame for leaving her kids with someone she knew wasnt all the way right. This case is so sad😢
You're all quite caring people :)
@@anablackwood6141 OMG. Buttermilk with cereal! I've gotta try that!
I understand your point is to show you're as far away from being a child abuser as it gets but I wouldn't leave a child with someone who nearly has panic attacks over hiccups either.
She knowingly handed the baby to the mom fully aware the baby was dead.... This is beyond sickening!
She smiles when asked about this and what she thought the mom's reaction would be 😢
It’s more sickening that the mom let her babysit, even though they knew she had some CPS cases opened!
@@Myhealingjourney1111I doubt the mother knew. This woman is a master manipulator! Just watch this videos. I highly doubt she told the mother of her background and not everyone has the $$ for background checks which are often sealed documents in some cases. The mother trusted another mother not knowing she was a monster. Not knowing she had other children taken away. You have to think of all the heartache and guilt this mother is going through and she can’t go back in time and change what happened or go over “what ifs.” This animal is the one who did this. The mother and her innocent baby are victims! Not all parents have $$ for daycare, sadly. Which is extremely expensive! And even in daycare, this stuff sadly happens. But focus on the monster who did this. A single mother with out means was trying to work and provide and this P 0 S took her babies life!
Demons walk among us.
@@Myhealingjourney1111let’s not blame the victim. You don’t know if she knew the extent of everything, you don’t know what that women told her (aka lies), you don’t know if she even knew about the cases. You don’t know any of that. So don’t blame the victim. Blame the sick women who killed that baby.
That officer telling himself and the detective to “just relax, relax, relax” says so much about what they go through. This couldn’t have been easy on any of them.
I was thinking the same thing.
They are human until the reality of taxation being theft sinks into their bones. They never become aware of the fact, it simply becomes part of them as the normal corruption degenerates them into what we know as “pigs.”
@@cedoboston2616 ok, officer, captain, whatever. He still said to relax meaning he knew how upset she was. She was more upset about the baby’s death than Marissa was.
Has to be one of the most traumatic parts of their job. Dead adults would be hard, dead kids even worse, but a murdered baby? Unimaginable. I'm sure they also have to stay calm to not get violent, personally that would be my issue. I don't think I could not be violent with someone like this.
I agree that has to be some pretty intense training to keep your heart and soul out of situations such as this. It would have took everything I had to not grab that b**** by the throat and choke her out, almost to the point of death.
You can just tell there is so much more to the story that she is not admitting to and its chilling to think of the reality of what happened in Bensons last moments. The way she claims she doesnt know how long he was crying for after she threw him seems like she did something more to him not to mention she said she stayed in the room with him?! She said when she moved him after throwing him he was already dead so she watched him cry until he died then repositioned his body. Truly heartbreaking and unimaginable. RIP baby Benson
I have so much respect for the officers' ability to stay calm, emotionally stable, and professional during interviews like this one.
They deal with these horrible ppl so often. Much more than we do. That they can probably grow cold to it. I’ve heard that a lot of policemen drag this emotionless attitude home with them. 🤷🏼♀️
@@annissa5356Not true at all...they are human and have family children themselves...not to mention hits home as it in their own community...maybe a cpl ppl can disconnect tho majority are effected for life especially when children involved...seen 1st hand being in fam long line of L.E. pls understand this, I know in today's climate its all about LE Hate and most is so far from truth however it has saturated the minds of today that LE is enemy...that is most disturbing of all
Compartmentilize
they r being recorded too, so they are faking it ..which is a RED FLAG
that bald officer's psychology was so on point
The sick part is her confession was a lie. She only admitted to what the detectives cornered her into. I believe Baby Benson met a much more sinister death then she’ll ever reveal. 37 years isn’t enough time. 💔
I think her bf kill him
@@bambinaforever1402you're claiming that on every comment but clearly you weren't paying attention to any of the other abusive charges that she has on her. They were very easily able to prove the boyfriend wasn't there each time it happened. So stop assuming it's the boyfriend
@@bambinaforever1402nd you're not very bright and say that without one shred of evidence
Death isn't enough if you ask me.
Imagine people hearing about her killing an infant, she'll be fed in jail after hearing that
Her crying “I would never kill a baby” but as soon as she has to answer a different question her voice goes right back to normal. Just sickening.
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It's crazy how this guy says "i got fucked over by social services many times" and think this will make him sound innocent
Can you imagine choosing a babysitter that has lost custody of all her kids?
I can't even!
The parents will have to live with the guilt of that forever
No, but based on how manipulative she is, I have no doubt she made up lies about how an "accident" happened "once," and now CPS is "out to get her." Unfortunately, the mother of the dead child believed whatever story she came up with to explain it all away. 😢
The best comment!! Although this lady is an absolute sickening person, if you can call her a person.. WHY WOULD YOU EVER LET SOMEONE WHO HAS CASES AGAINST THEIR OWN KIDS, BABYSIT!!! I’m not saying what’s right or wrong with letting whoever babysit YOUR CHILD. I’m no judge.. But I do come with COMMON SENSE! THAT’S ALL I’M SAYING.. Mind blowing!!
Right? Even if she didn’t know about the children who were taken away, they certainly both look and act like crackheads not to mention their trashy house.
the fact she goes from straight “sobbing” and being unable to speak when claiming she didn’t kill him to talking completely regularly when asked a different question really shows how much she was acting
literally every other sentence has a different emotion/expression/tone, it's so odd...drugs ??
@madisonscott9608 Not drugs, her deceitful personality.
She has a history of harming children, which is evident considering the children who suffered head injuries (whilst in her care) on two other occasions.
Very BAD actor!!! I feel she has borderline personality disorder. which is NOT a good defense for murder. She has NO business taking care of ANY children.
@@208cindygirl please don't put all borderliners in one pott. Also why start throwing in disorders ? They talked about rehab etc. Could be an addict, or recovering, no matter what, as they said, it can change you.
@@nickyb457I agree. Most of us Borderlines are full of love and empathy and work VERY hard through therapy and other means to deal with the wide range of emotions we feel. It's not fair to lump borderlines all in the same category as if we're somehow dangerous psychopaths. People should learn more about it before they sling it around like it's just another name for psychopathic a-holes.
Pregnant with a 6th child when she kills another ???🤬This is excruciatingly heinous.
My heart breaks for those kids.
Welfare's baby. Also some woman loves to be pregnant: it gives them so much attention and power( also a hormonal's high).
Sickenning female. Must be st*rilized.
@@pine1780she's talking about the killer not herself having 6 kids 😂😂
@@Jeff-jl2xcNo, this couple had four kids taken away by social services, one that they missed, and now she's pregnant again. That's six kids.
They need to staple her shut.
Absolutely disgusting but completely typical for this kind of abus!ve trash. They always seem to have a bunch of kids and have no problem popping out more. It’s incredible.
This brought up memories, my Father once picked me up and threw me across a room. I landed on the floor and my head landed on the wooden arm of a sofa. I’m still terrified of people’s anger. This woman’s a monster. I hope her children are loved and ok now.
Your dad did WHAT?? Bro how did he not get arrested?!