BKCHAT LDN: S5 EPISODE 2- "You Can't Buy Your Baby Mum A Better Car Than Me"

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  • Bkchat is back with Episode 2! The cast discuss a scenario about parents and finances, do's and don'ts when it comes to the "baby mum". Enjoy!
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  • @TRENDCNTRL
    @TRENDCNTRL  3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

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    • @jacktheripper5661
      @jacktheripper5661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shush

    • @MoAli-sg8ib
      @MoAli-sg8ib 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That bruddas last point was so on point!!!!!!!!!!

    • @Gratefulheart.
      @Gratefulheart. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please can we get hot desk back?

    • @lesley5380
      @lesley5380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is too funny to watch.
      I'd like this same question asked to this panel in 7yrs time, they're answers will be different...

    • @TheAlkebulanTrust
      @TheAlkebulanTrust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lesley5380 minus Emmanuel

  • @remi_ax
    @remi_ax 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4906

    Ay milli’s baby mum will be asking for food money and he will tell her to plant her own vegetables.

    • @182non
      @182non 3 ปีที่แล้ว +293

      Looool he wants her to have the bare necessities

    • @babygirlcee4063
      @babygirlcee4063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @thandiexx9613
      @thandiexx9613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      frrr😭😭😭😭

    • @lolathelonewolf
      @lolathelonewolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      LOOOOL AS IN GODDAMN

    • @Missjlouise25
      @Missjlouise25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😂😂😂😂

  • @JaeEdwards
    @JaeEdwards 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2669

    Your child is your child there’s no rules. They always come first no argument.

  • @IzzyOdigie
    @IzzyOdigie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2305

    “Your baby dad is not the father of your children”
    Huh?!

  • @dicerevo
    @dicerevo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    As a father no one is going to stop me taking care of my children. They’re my responsibility.

    • @Tuncapoo
      @Tuncapoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Respect 💯
      Children are the future man, and neglect when they're young carries that child through life, in all forms. Fuck adult insecurities, children are responsibility no.1

    • @seneat101
      @seneat101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Tuncapoo But not respect tho this is bare minimum

    • @EB-vx8zo
      @EB-vx8zo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Tuncapoo this is so true

    • @lowmemanfr3972
      @lowmemanfr3972 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@seneat101 Buying ur baby mom a car isn’t the bare minimum stfu. Goofy

    • @seneat101
      @seneat101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lowmemanfr3972 read the fucking comment I responded to dumbass

  • @SuperWilson619
    @SuperWilson619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1500

    If it’s a problem don’t date people with kids simple

    • @sulaymafrancis7619
      @sulaymafrancis7619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Or don’t date immature people that can’t act like adults but want the perks of being an adult

    • @Maysa93333
      @Maysa93333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Yes you are right that’s why I don’t date men with kids I don’t have time for all that 🥱

    • @hello-it4vw
      @hello-it4vw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      fr??? simple solutions

    • @wintersummer1633
      @wintersummer1633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      if your baby mum can't afford to take your children to school on time, maybe she shouldnt have custody? that man should be taking the mum to court.

    • @sheedashee3959
      @sheedashee3959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sulaymafrancis7619 thank you👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @multiiii.
    @multiiii. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2261

    Ezo is so one dimensional and closed minded, it’s not as simple as ‘the mother is lazy to take her kids to school’ she’s a human, not a robot to be able to function perfectly everyday

    • @SupremeST25
      @SupremeST25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Why do people only realise this *after* they have children and make their kids suffer as a result though🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @nazreteyob7094
      @nazreteyob7094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      @@SupremeST25 literally every parent, even the financiallyl stable ones , go through this so that's a bad argument to use lol

    • @SupremeST25
      @SupremeST25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@nazreteyob7094 yeah but when financially stanle parents go through it they can still make sure their kids get to school on time🤷🏾‍♂️when the people on this scenario go through it though they cant even make sure their child hears the register every morning so no, not every parent goes through this - especially not in a way that negatively impacts their child and besides...if a split happens shouldnt they agree on how their kid’s going to get to school in the first place? why would he stay with the parent who doesnt have a car? again, plan every single scenario before you have a child otherwise your child will go through it on your behalf when they shouldnt have to. its that simple

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      the mother said they're always late to school, who's fault is that? SHE wakes up he kid, SHE takes him/her to school.
      She has to take responsibility. Wake up earlier, take the train, book a taxi. If it's too much for her, let the Dad drop the kid off or have custody of the kid .
      Expecting the Dad (who you're not with) to buy a car for you is crazy entitlement.

    • @multiiii.
      @multiiii. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@michael43567 there’s no entitlement, she said the car is for the kids. Key word KIDS. When it comes to children there shouldn’t even be a discussion. It’s not only her responsibility to take care of the kids, if she needs help she is entitled to call the father for anything

  • @7079goku
    @7079goku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +980

    Even Lani can tell ezo is moving mad 😂😂😂

    • @ghostotd6212
      @ghostotd6212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Her voice goes thru me man😖

    • @Mesmerise5107
      @Mesmerise5107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Ezo is getting me heated! Is she serious. “The woman should take full responsibility” “why did she keep the baby?” IS SHE HIGH??

    • @benja303
      @benja303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was a shocker

    • @pink4lr
      @pink4lr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right, Ezo is acting like the mum is only going to use it for school like what would be the point, it’s obviously going to be used more so her point is sensing like she really thinks the car is only gonna be for school. If it was her she would defo be pro it but she’s just acting childish and insecure, it really has nothing to do w her but as lani said every girl would feel some type of way but they shouldn’t get Involved

  • @Ariettethe1st
    @Ariettethe1st 3 ปีที่แล้ว +592

    I was gonna allow this Ezo girl but 14 mins in and she’s advocating for unnecessary abortion just to avoid a man paying for a car that would better his children’s educational attainment😳😳😳

    • @somtocatherine1
      @somtocatherine1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      very scary

    • @goddz6145
      @goddz6145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
      That is a Narcissist to me very ugly behaviour

    • @morenikefalade9533
      @morenikefalade9533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      BRO £1000-3000 car man??? And he can afford it clearly. And it says she’s having financial issues in that moment not forever

    • @djruffy6374
      @djruffy6374 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Deffo a woman to avoid 😅

  • @urdadpaysmymortgagexox5816
    @urdadpaysmymortgagexox5816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2053

    ezo is giving me vibes of them girls that will fight the girl that her man cheated on her with even if it wasn’t the girls fault

    • @dominicclarke3206
      @dominicclarke3206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It takes two to cheat you know

    • @SupremeST25
      @SupremeST25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      @@dominicclarke3206 yeah but you literally cant blame someone if they didnt know. even if they did know just firm the L and dont prove that you cant solve your problems without fighting...sounds like schoolkid drama wth

    • @hello-it4vw
      @hello-it4vw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      muvas😭😭😭

    • @SuperSouthchick
      @SuperSouthchick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Shes giving me vibes of an eediat. Doing too much, she gta chill. 🙄

    • @dominicclarke3206
      @dominicclarke3206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SupremeST25 violence is never the way but cheating is just wrong .I know about Ls I have had many in my life .

  • @jaysqrddd
    @jaysqrddd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1654

    Ezo & Aymilli are the type of people that will tell their partners to put them before their kids 🤣

    • @jeromephillips6676
      @jeromephillips6676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      He will tell his Bm to go and hunt for fruit instead of buying her some😂

    • @tianelson8580
      @tianelson8580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Backwardsssss🥴😂

    • @theoneandonly0099
      @theoneandonly0099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      After pretending to be fine that their partner was putting the kid before them

    • @moneyfimek667
      @moneyfimek667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ouu

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      she literally said she'd offer to drive the kid to school....
      Their points were that a car isn't the only option. Even if she gets a car, that doesn't guarantee that she'll get them to school on time. Her problem is likely time management.

  • @magisvita2937
    @magisvita2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +992

    Cadet said it best: "Oh you got a chain
    And you got a Range
    But your baby mother's at a bus stop
    Tryna push a buggy in the rain" ...................

  • @Cherrynikki
    @Cherrynikki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +887

    This show needs to evolve. These people can not be the only representation of the youth and the black people UK society. Can we please open the cast to a mixture of married, mature and professionals to provide a balanced debate.

    • @Coco-uk9tv
      @Coco-uk9tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @Kevin Seunghoon People watching this may get the impression that the black people taking part as a collective is representative of UK black society. Particularly people outside the UK and believe it or not for people within the UK outside London. I can see it's not representative, it would be a damn shame if it was, but others may not.

    • @janice9590
      @janice9590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      it won't be the same though

    • @fadsj8946
      @fadsj8946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @chaosen3
      @chaosen3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I get your point but it's called BkChat LDN not BkChat UK

    • @tbg6070
      @tbg6070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      YOU made them the representation of UK Youth. Nowhere in their opening banner/music are they pretending to be a mirror to UK black youth. If you want to hear substance from black people, go pick a book or watch THOSE kind of shows. Don't show up to a Ferrari dealership expecting a car that rides like a Mercedes

  • @whitney5301
    @whitney5301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +857

    Ezo is soo bad mind omds, she seems like she would be the evil stepmother

    • @ida7017
      @ida7017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tell em sis

    • @morenikefalade9533
      @morenikefalade9533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      No for real. See your mindset and you want to drive my kids to skill??? You’ll be lucky if you even have a supervised lunch with them.

    • @stargirl333
      @stargirl333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Frr

    • @abiolabritto1504
      @abiolabritto1504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

    • @marthakeza8110
      @marthakeza8110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yesssss like I would let her drive my kids to school

  • @laurettadavis4247
    @laurettadavis4247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1070

    joseph is actually more intelligent than i thought

    • @thegreatest2107
      @thegreatest2107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Nah fr because the first ep I was feeling a bit iffy with him but now he’s talking sense I like it

    • @christinelewis2811
      @christinelewis2811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was thinking this x

    • @Tt_szn1998
      @Tt_szn1998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No but sis you didn’t stutter 👏🏾

    • @xotwod_raii
      @xotwod_raii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thegreatest2107 yhhhh

    • @tbg6070
      @tbg6070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      backhanded compliments be like...
      Y'all go ahead and keep thinking that people have something to prove to you and that if they don't display their intelligence the way you want them to, then that means they're stupid. Y'all pretend to be low-key intelligent but can't tell when someone is just bare joking and when they're actually unintelligent

  • @issticl052
    @issticl052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +671

    “Its always people with no kids who have the most to say” FRRRRRR

    • @ArshlynNoree
      @ArshlynNoree 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It was the cut to him right after he said "no I don't have kids" that is sending me it was perfect timing I'm weak😂

    • @barb6725
      @barb6725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lool people with kids act like the are doing everything right lol no I can speak on children if I want you don’t have to be a parent to have common sense and most of you shouldn’t have children anyways 😂😂😂

    • @issticl052
      @issticl052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@barb6725 can you have an opinion on food if youve never tried it? NO 🤣🤣🤣 pahahah move

    • @chillin9822
      @chillin9822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@issticl052 can you have an opinion on being shot if you’ve never been shot before? I’ve never been shot but I’m sure it doesn’t feel too good, lol let’s keep it cute..

    • @issticl052
      @issticl052 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chillin9822 your “sure” it doesnt feel good right but you dont know exactly what it feels like as youve never been shot🤣 people are fuckin mad how can you say you know what something is like strong enough to have an opinion on that you have never experienced

  • @soofficial_uk5125
    @soofficial_uk5125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    Ezo & Aymilli are giving meeee ‘evil stepmother/evil stepfather’ vibes 💀🙅🏽‍♀️

  • @mosesldn1
    @mosesldn1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3450

    Aymilli better make your way back to Dating Diaries 😂😭

    • @aa3659
      @aa3659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      🤣🤣

    • @blanchengassa822
      @blanchengassa822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +523

      Yea, cause he isn’t mature enough to have this form of conversations.

    • @kuwn05
      @kuwn05 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @elizabethadebanjo8736
      @elizabethadebanjo8736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I'm screaming 😂😂

    • @ebiz2085
      @ebiz2085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@blanchengassa822 I think he has a good point but E20 articulated it better for him

  • @skottie222
    @skottie222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +793

    BKChat needs to invest in a damn AIR CONDITIONER they have been sweating & fanning themselves in every episode for yrs 😂😂

    • @ShannonSOS
      @ShannonSOS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Probably will affect sound quality of the recording

    • @skottie222
      @skottie222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@ShannonSOS yea if they have a huge fan but a good AC unit will make minimal to no noise lol and they are all loud as shit when they talk anyway so we wont hear it regardless 😂

    • @user-ol4td5ho3x
      @user-ol4td5ho3x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They did have an AC but it effected the sound quality season 3. So they have to bare with it. And they tried windows on in early seasons but it effects the sound quality.

    • @skottie222
      @skottie222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@user-ol4td5ho3x my AC unit in my house doesnt make a peep...it's very possible to find a quiet AC unit lol soo they need to figure it out or pick a different location

    • @Lizzyd789
      @Lizzyd789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Frrrr

  • @miguelalmeida790
    @miguelalmeida790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2060

    How can these man sit comfy in their chairs and watch a pregnant woman stand for 40 minutes 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @amiraj4838
      @amiraj4838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

      knew i wasn’t the only one thinking it

    • @Hooli2k6
      @Hooli2k6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kavenambetjiha5321
      @kavenambetjiha5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Make it make sense 😩😩😩

    • @Thomaskingsss
      @Thomaskingsss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @sexyshevas
      @sexyshevas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      New generation preaching EQUALITY!

  • @leenawalker753
    @leenawalker753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    Ladies: logic
    Ezo: Insecure
    Men: Logic
    A milly: I’m broke

    • @juwongowild1699
      @juwongowild1699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      broke shaming him be cause he’s logical?

    • @leenawalker753
      @leenawalker753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@juwongowild1699 it is not broke shaming if he’s so confident in reenforcing his broke opinion on a subject matter he has no personal experience in😁

    • @agbasidifu1971
      @agbasidifu1971 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      100

    • @daaimahgreene558
      @daaimahgreene558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@juwongowild1699 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 "broke shaming!!!" I'm done!!!

    • @shaqqafterdark
      @shaqqafterdark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chatting shit! They all strayed away from the question. How does struggling financially equals to your children being late for school???? Then the first solution is to buy a car when a car is a liability?? Makes no sense at all

  • @Tan-ns2hr
    @Tan-ns2hr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +804

    Jay is like 21, the youngest in the group and is the most mature in his view 💀

  • @brielleharmony7568
    @brielleharmony7568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    Ezo definitely has a man that cheated on her with his baby mum because the hate is real for this made up baby mum ,that’s asking for a car to take kids to school 😭🙄

    • @n15ahmet
      @n15ahmet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😍

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      And giving a car to a financial unstable woman makes what sense? Who’s paying for insurance petrol parking repairs etc?

    • @leilahdeb
      @leilahdeb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Acoura but it doesn’t seem like she has kids. There’s an added responsibility there that she wouldn’t understand

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Acoura then she should wait until she can maintain, adding a car to an unstable position is never a good idea... and you still didn’t answer who’s paying for all the extras? Presumably not her if she’s unstable

    • @melissahokyere4622
      @melissahokyere4622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @beatriceolivier8438
    @beatriceolivier8438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    as someone with separated parents , these people are giving me a headache , they thinking selfishly rather than the kids themselves. She can use the car for other things , groceries, take the kids to their friends, take the kids to the park etc. Whos gonna carry all the groceries back and forth on the bus, shes a single mum like ?

    • @user-lb4nf9nx8w
      @user-lb4nf9nx8w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly and I was thinking like isn’t a good dad gonna think u know what it’s enough that I can’t live with my children so I should at least do what I can to help them out financially.

  • @vilnap3002
    @vilnap3002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I have a cousin who got a woman pregnant. He gave her 1 house and car. So that his child had a stable place to live and get around. He did not give a damn about that woman. His girlfriend lived with him and drove his other cars and had direct access to his money.

    • @stonerlifemeg
      @stonerlifemeg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      As he should👏🏾👏🏾

    • @MsBarnes12
      @MsBarnes12 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So if she get married in the next two year to a new man , will he be ok with the man living and driving the car?

    • @gazajadebrown9866
      @gazajadebrown9866 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessss

    • @vilnap3002
      @vilnap3002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@MsBarnes12 yep. That meant she was no longer emotionally vested in him. Cause please understand the baby owns the asset. If she is stupid marrying a man who cannot provide that is her problem. His kid has a house. Again, Cuzco was invested in his jump off/ side piece/ something to do piece. But the baby, that baby is his. Sentra vs 750i. Hunny bunny you think he gives a damn. Lol. Nope.

  • @amykilt3481
    @amykilt3481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1599

    Ezo and Ay milli are so fucking childish that it’s painful. Big up to Emanuel for being a good father and a man, he’s both secure in himself and his fatherhood and that is honestly so special.

    • @blackz8654
      @blackz8654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Ay milli patterned up at the end though

    • @tiana12able
      @tiana12able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Ezo needs to get off she’s so childish I can with her she gives me honey vibes can’t stand ay milli he acts like she still 16

    • @amykilt3481
      @amykilt3481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@tiana12able Fr. They’ll definitely keep them on to inject some stupidity though 😫

    • @denzelmounier4151
      @denzelmounier4151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It’s not about being childish that’s just her opinion you can’t calling her childish for having that opinion I don’t agree with her opinion but I hear here to some certain extent

    • @AyoSosanya
      @AyoSosanya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@denzelmounier4151 It is childish because she's deliberately avoiding the question and saying stupid things that don't even make sense

  • @naytv7606
    @naytv7606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1708

    Who wants their kids outside in the cold? Trekking on bus? Why? Just get the car it’s for the greater good of the kids.

    • @selwasamsudean
      @selwasamsudean 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      No 🧢

    • @jamaalsmemesanalysis5491
      @jamaalsmemesanalysis5491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      That’s exactly what I’m saying

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      True, doesn’t have to even be an expensive car.

    • @justk6683
      @justk6683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      What if the guy is broke aswell

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@justk6683 then it’ll have to be a no. Like they said, you wouldn’t really ask unless you had some sort of inclination that he would be able to afford it.

  • @tammy1219
    @tammy1219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    They should have asked the girls what they would do if they needed the car as the baby mum😭

    • @norissaxd
      @norissaxd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Frr😭

    • @mizzy9870
      @mizzy9870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I KNOW RIGHT. I swear these dudes argue but none of them is actually thinking deeply about the type of questions to be asking. Like when ezo said about instead if getting her a car just give her bus money to get the bus and im sitting here like bruh when have u ever gotten a bus that actually came at the EXACT time it said it would be there at?

    • @marthakilcoyne8001
      @marthakilcoyne8001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ph for EZO the whole story would be so different 😂

  • @elizabetholayiwola-alexand8824
    @elizabetholayiwola-alexand8824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    I pray that no child will ever have a step-mum like Ezo. She gives me evil step-mum vibes...

    • @manchesterbucks356
      @manchesterbucks356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Truss she’ll do something crazy to the kids she is evil and u can see it

    • @worldlfree
      @worldlfree ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Until she becomes said mother…

  • @sophiamichael3128
    @sophiamichael3128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1208

    Is it me or is Lani actually flourishing when the old cast are not suppressing her personality and talking over her 😅

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      They never suppressed her, she was louder than most

    • @n15ahmet
      @n15ahmet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Na, she's just growing a few more braincells as the years go by.

    • @Thomaskingsss
      @Thomaskingsss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@n15ahmet 😅😅😅😅

    • @Youngesey
      @Youngesey 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@n15ahmet loool

  • @trinityking4515
    @trinityking4515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    Ezo says all this but I bet shes the type of girl to yell because her baby daddy isn’t giving her money 🌚

    • @goddz6145
      @goddz6145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 legit she seems like the one screaming where’s the kids money !!!!

  • @goddz6145
    @goddz6145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Imagine saying to your man if she wants a car she should of had an abortion 🤢what kind of narcissistic human are we watching !!

  • @uriblaketheriddimprotege
    @uriblaketheriddimprotege 3 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    Ezo is bordering "get rid of your children for me". The car is to primarily benefit the children. Who the mother goes to see in the car is secondary. If it were up to her, she would have controlled where the car goes.

    • @goddz6145
      @goddz6145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽she is 100% that female

    • @CaribbeanYem345
      @CaribbeanYem345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly! I mean the baby mother has to live with the fact he lives with a whole other human being. That girl reeks of insecurities.

  • @TigersEmpire
    @TigersEmpire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +860

    I feel like the girl has every reason to be annoyed but she can not control him or his money because those are his kids and they come first

    • @bishopwonderful8836
      @bishopwonderful8836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I mean maybe she should wake up earlier and get them up earlier

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      True, but Lani also has a point that a lot of women use the children as an excuse to get something for themselves.

    • @cruelmilo3132
      @cruelmilo3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@bishopwonderful8836 what If they’re already waking up early tho and are still late? How early should a child wake up to go to school? 4 O’clock in the morning?

    • @bishopwonderful8836
      @bishopwonderful8836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cruelmilo3132 if that’s the case the dad can give Uber money then

    • @jg1005
      @jg1005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@bishopwonderful8836 if your paying for an uber for 10 years you may aswell of just bought a car 😄

  • @kimoyd7511
    @kimoyd7511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +504

    The girl saying “ she should have got rid of the baby” is she ok shes not normal shes mad i don’t even wanna hear her talk 😂😂

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She’s just stating that women have the final CHOICE

    • @kimoyd7511
      @kimoyd7511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@civildiscourse7626 yeah not always .. you can’t always be right man or woman . Shes wrong saying a woman should abort a baby yes it’s obviously a choice but in a topic like this it shouldn’t have been mentioned thats like saying i wish you didn’t have a child at all thats not good !

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@kimoyd7511 I hear you but I don’t think that’s what she meant. Lani was implying it’s the mans fault for “not using a condom” but she’s sAying well actually it’s a woman’s choice if she wants to have a child. Women will fight for the right for abortion so no point acting as if her mentioning abortion is a bad thing

    • @SupremeST25
      @SupremeST25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@civildiscourse7626 fr though its not fair to have a child first and then think about it’s future later all in the name of “its my choice”

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      where did she lie? Women have abortions, why are you angry at her like she legalised it looool.
      Women have the final say on whether they want to keep the baby, that's a fact

  • @NikolettaMuhari
    @NikolettaMuhari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    It was so strange to see that almost none of the women had empathy for the kid but it was good to see that most of the man would try to help his child.

  • @miyae.2290
    @miyae.2290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Ezo saying she'll take kids to school but I guarantee when the day comes She'll complain " Why do I have to take the kids to school ?" like girllll

    • @user-lb4nf9nx8w
      @user-lb4nf9nx8w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao fr no way she’ll be waking up early everyday driving to pick up someone else’s kids

    • @marthakilcoyne8001
      @marthakilcoyne8001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hell she would probably say why can they just walk to school!!!! “What about ME”

  • @baiibeeNor
    @baiibeeNor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +618

    Ezo just kindly continue to stay away from men with kids

    • @kaye5408
      @kaye5408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      She’s the kind of woman to try and stop her boyfriend from seeing his own kids

    • @AANNNEEE
      @AANNNEEE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      It’s only episode 2 and she’s already annoying me

    • @kikikekeshine6266
      @kikikekeshine6266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kaye5408she definitely looks like that kind of guy

    • @DanGBP1
      @DanGBP1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @F A the common sense we picked out ezo because her brain is fried is yours too? About a whole gender

    • @tessy28
      @tessy28 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I honestly cannot even understand how young girls date men with kids. I'm so grateful I have my partner and its just me and him. I'm not ready to have my own kids yet let alone constantly having to deal with someone else's. It sounds selfish but I give two fucks. As long as I am not married yet my comfort comes first.

  • @user-bu4cd2dl4i
    @user-bu4cd2dl4i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1021

    Ay Milli - 'Your baby dad is not the father of your child'. Evidently common sense is not common.

    • @user-bu4cd2dl4i
      @user-bu4cd2dl4i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      @@Chelseadiaz266 That was not the point he was making

    • @TheIceMurder2
      @TheIceMurder2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      This whole "baby dad" vs "father" thing is so dumb. If you stick your penis in a woman's vagina and she gives birth 9 months later you're a FATHER. Now, whether you do the right thing and take responsibility is what determines if you're a good father or not.

    • @CP-dr7qy
      @CP-dr7qy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He means calling them the father of your child makes it seem like there still involved with you he’s tryna make the distinction that the baby father has a whole other household which is his main priority now

    • @Oyasavvi
      @Oyasavvi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right

    • @carissag8583
      @carissag8583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LMFAOO I think he meant it as a baby dad is usually someone who isn’t w the shawty they had kids w but when they are together (esp. married) they’re called the father of the child. Just my take

  • @PropertyBySM
    @PropertyBySM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Ezo's logic never fails to baffle me

  • @simbiatodesanya2232
    @simbiatodesanya2232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    so glad that nnamdi is there, he’s mature and is trying to navigate the conversation instead of shouting over each other

  • @vicxxxxx7884
    @vicxxxxx7884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    Ezo needs to chill because if the tables were turned she would want her baby dad to spend money on her

    • @ida7017
      @ida7017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right she makes no sense

    • @gracendjamba573
      @gracendjamba573 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s an assumption 😕

    • @Daraling1
      @Daraling1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@gracendjamba573 an accurate one too

  • @fatimabarry1518
    @fatimabarry1518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    Ezo got no brain cell , poor thing !! .. giving evil step mom vibez 🤢

    • @cdai216
      @cdai216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You can tell she wants too much American reality tv from her mannerisms and mentality

    • @idkismynamejohn9190
      @idkismynamejohn9190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@cdai216 it’s actually annoying 🤣

    • @kenti.thezyhtwins
      @kenti.thezyhtwins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is it 🤣🤣.. She has no sense at all!

    • @avasarah2004
      @avasarah2004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope she watches this again in the future.. About “I won’t allow my man” you knew he had a family way before you.

    • @wardiya3arbiya
      @wardiya3arbiya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is the type who will slap the kid when you are not looking.

  • @emoneyreid1161
    @emoneyreid1161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Yt girl sounds like one of those Karen that says “poor people are just people who don’t try hard enough” 🤚👩🏾‍🦯

  • @Bxbygwxrl
    @Bxbygwxrl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Skipping past Anything Ezo and AyMilli say - Airheads🤮

  • @ZaneBYT
    @ZaneBYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1348

    Lani makes Bkchat, sorry😂 as much as some people don’t like her she is so entertaining.

    • @aminahassan8640
      @aminahassan8640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      worddddd

    • @Bokkex
      @Bokkex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      being unreasonably loud and screaming is not entertaining

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      I think a lot of us like her tbh. She’s great

    • @swazzy1520
      @swazzy1520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@Bokkex well that's ur opinion but tbh I we don't care about ur opinion 😊

    • @hannas7806
      @hannas7806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@Bokkex that’s what makes bkchat. All of them are loud. In order to be heard you have to be, it’s how the show works. So if you watch bkchat, regardless of lani, you are entertained by loud and unreasonable talk. No?

  • @afimamattah1402
    @afimamattah1402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    Ezo is literally Honey 2.0!! Lool Won't be surprise if she disappears halfway through the season ...

    • @noturxalimo6389
      @noturxalimo6389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I pray🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 her shouting nonsense it’s acc getting to me

    • @craigmalcom6294
      @craigmalcom6294 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who is honey?🤣

    • @rioprice9134
      @rioprice9134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@noturxalimo6389 she was speaking facts, especially at 7:08

    • @noturxalimo6389
      @noturxalimo6389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Rio Price that wasn’t facts I’m so sorry, ignorance if anything.

    • @afimamattah1402
      @afimamattah1402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@craigmalcom6294 she was an original cast member of bkchat OG s1, who left because after a few episodes because she had a big argument about being a side chick looool

  • @honeybee2919
    @honeybee2919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Stop dating men who already have children, especially if the child was born out of wedlock. Women seem to be confused by how easy it is to become a single mother. Wake up

  • @exclusivelyissy4672
    @exclusivelyissy4672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    It’s funny how Lani’s telling the men to open their eyes to women taking advantage and taking money from them but she didn’t know that when she got scammed by ‘the love of her life’.

    • @blase057
      @blase057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOOL

    • @selaelomashamaite2479
      @selaelomashamaite2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmaoooooowhat 😭

    • @pinkylove3085
      @pinkylove3085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s what being scammed is soooo ??? What’s the point of ur comment lol

    • @blase057
      @blase057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@pinkylove3085 the point is that she too should’ve opened her eyes seeing as it’s so easy to detect..

    • @norissaxd
      @norissaxd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's speaking from experience

  • @user-sg3hz9iy5w
    @user-sg3hz9iy5w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    To be very honest, if you’re not able to stand beside someone who has a child without feeling a way and loving the child like your own just don’t go there.

  • @dijonaekerr-goodin182
    @dijonaekerr-goodin182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +524

    I’m going to have to guess Ezo’s been in this situation before because her passion is coming from somewhere serious😂

    • @ezgitemel3957
      @ezgitemel3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      hahahahaha you right!!!

    • @noturxalimo6389
      @noturxalimo6389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      She’s so annoying I can’t

    • @ebiz2085
      @ebiz2085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@noturxalimo6389 she’s literally the same as most girls on this panel every year, the only difference is she has opposite views to you and you don’t like it

    • @noturxalimo6389
      @noturxalimo6389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Ebiz dkm🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ok ezo get off your burner

    • @ofso9513
      @ofso9513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@noturxalimo6389 😂😂😂

  • @itshazelt4224
    @itshazelt4224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Ezo really needs to chill and needs to check herself and her thoughts for real

  • @dianaa2957
    @dianaa2957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    God forbid having children with aymili & Ezo their mentality is SO backwards and badmind

  • @sklabs3768
    @sklabs3768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    At the end of the day, get married, have kids and stay loyal to one person.

    • @Tan-ns2hr
      @Tan-ns2hr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Exactly. This is some ratched ungodly shit

    • @daniakai
      @daniakai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      This is exactly it!

    • @MarvinAlcidesM
      @MarvinAlcidesM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      But The black community don’t get this message for decades we’ve been having kids out of the wedlock

    • @SBishop
      @SBishop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@MarvinAlcidesM ok...and if you have kids in wedlock and then get divorced then what? Because that happens too. This scenario could and does happen to divorced couples too.....

    • @MarvinAlcidesM
      @MarvinAlcidesM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@SBishopthe children will still be raised in the family unit with the mum and dad, there’s a higher chances of out of wedlock parents being single parents and children raised in single parents households don’t have the best outcomes in life

  • @olivia_a1157
    @olivia_a1157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I'm positively surprised by Joseph. He was really mature.

  • @fos7176
    @fos7176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Emmanuel is a smart man ,always speaking facts.God bless him

  • @ForEverMeTori
    @ForEverMeTori 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Getting the child to school is both parents responsibility. If I was unable to get our child to school on time for a good reason, I would expect and ask my child father to transport our child to school. We would both work together to make sure our child has everything that he/she needs.

    • @deannairie4825
      @deannairie4825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FACTS

    • @bedazzlinbeauty
      @bedazzlinbeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You sound dumb asl...there is no reason lol you JUST said its both of their responsibility but agree he needs to buy her a car so she can do her part TF 😭😭😭

    • @user-lj6jp8qp7z
      @user-lj6jp8qp7z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bedazzlinbeauty You are starting to sound like Ezo. 🤡

  • @BentleyyMoneyy
    @BentleyyMoneyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    All i can say is that emmanuel was brought up proper

  • @vicxxxxx7884
    @vicxxxxx7884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    More time that Ezo is just trying impress the boys , if she was ever in these situation she would want someone to get her a car .

    • @amiraj4838
      @amiraj4838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      mums, being put in that situation and not a hypothetical she wouldn’t know what she would or have a harder time making that decision so she needs to consider both sides and stop being extra.

    • @nuellatagbo893
      @nuellatagbo893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amira J exactly people forget they're other variables that affect people's daily life. The child could be sick, the school might not be close, daycare, the girl might be taking care of her parents of family you never know why she is financially struggling, and if she has a support system e.g the father of her kids. She can ask and if he is financially stable enough to do it then why not?

  • @ismailali672
    @ismailali672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When Ezo becomes a baby mum I guarantee you she’ll be demanding hella shit from the baby dad she’s seems like that sort of person

  • @kaylahjanaeee1910
    @kaylahjanaeee1910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    ezo really reminds me of that girl from the first season who was arguing with lucas about how she was the side chick

    • @alye_m3507
      @alye_m3507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @mahasonko9306
      @mahasonko9306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Honey iniit🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @staceydash7486
      @staceydash7486 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought it was her

    • @Laura-uh3xc
      @Laura-uh3xc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Link ?😭😭😭

  • @demik9320
    @demik9320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +710

    This Ezo girl is so one track-minded i feel sorry for the person who gets with her... she lacks intelligence and is selfish!

    • @fadsj8946
      @fadsj8946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾very!!

    • @tyanadarelle7666
      @tyanadarelle7666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      agreed

    • @preztjuswoman
      @preztjuswoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yes, makes her look really ugly.

    • @preztjuswoman
      @preztjuswoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Keren Yes, that was the point..All right looking girl but her mindset is ugly.

    • @freelivingson9846
      @freelivingson9846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So loud and wrong. So immature. I'm so glad there a MEN with sense. It's always women like her with he most to say and nothing to really offer but cute looks and a big mouth

  • @FazuTime
    @FazuTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    Ezo’s givinging evil stepmother vibes, TOXIC

    • @xotwod_raii
      @xotwod_raii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      fr SHE just chats rubbish

    • @Butterfly-rh2cd
      @Butterfly-rh2cd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You must be a baby mum, you sound triggered

    • @uweraportia4265
      @uweraportia4265 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @AJL-nl1uw
      @AJL-nl1uw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BIG BIG Pick me vibes. Trash box

    • @NicoMilz
      @NicoMilz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep. Red flags and alarm bells. Smh

  • @gamegrunt8739
    @gamegrunt8739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    About the original question: Don’t date people with kids. Especially if you can’t handle them having a responsibility to their children 😐

  • @legacynation6520
    @legacynation6520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    This generation is a mess 😂 no wife or girlfriend of mine should ever come between me and my child
    That’s a RED FLAG

    • @laurenpemberton7788
      @laurenpemberton7788 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imagine saying that your man should pay for you over the mother of your child to make his kids lives easier, madness!

  • @jmuni323
    @jmuni323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    I just know Ezo was a problem in secondary school

    • @jbandz3539
      @jbandz3539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      School Threat

    • @malz5596
      @malz5596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@jbandz3539 playground menace

    • @lisojonas
      @lisojonas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jbandz3539 she gets a school threat badge

  • @QwertyUiop-qr3kb
    @QwertyUiop-qr3kb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +509

    my brain hurts, these ppl be moving like they would leave their kids in the streets if they struggle

    • @ebiz2085
      @ebiz2085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You’re so simple minded MY GOD. Only simple people minded think like this. The conversation is wayyy more complex than this. I have a thread earlier where I explain it all

    • @QwertyUiop-qr3kb
      @QwertyUiop-qr3kb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ebiz2085 no i get it, i’m not considering emotional aspects but if someone has a child, they take care of it, they help if the other parent needs help, it’s basic

    • @timeisontheessence
      @timeisontheessence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@QwertyUiop-qr3kb that's Disneyland talk.
      Most women realise which man they are dealing with. If you have a kid with a man who already has a wife and kids, then just know that his kids will be a priortity of yours.
      Secondly the women in the cast said buy a car, but never looked at other cheap alternatives:
      - friend who is willing to Drive the kid to school
      - waking up early if you are complaining that they go to school late
      - taking an early bus
      - taking a taxi
      Instead these lot want to go for a car on the go, when overtime these kids will grow up and prefer to not be seen "hopping off from mummy's car" on the way to secondary school

    • @zozohd226
      @zozohd226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@timeisontheessence Exactly most kids like walking or taking transport by themselves so I think there other alternative to them then just buying a car, and what makes you think just because you got a car you are not going to be late for me It look's like the babymom is being lazy still

    • @cheiladesa628
      @cheiladesa628 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zozohd226 not my kids!

  • @obiudosharon3416
    @obiudosharon3416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This ezo girl is taking the pisss
    And it’s the fact she keeps saying her kids her kids🙄
    That’s right Emmanuel you’ll never know a situation unles your actually in it or have experienced it

  • @TB-gc2df
    @TB-gc2df 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I love Joseph he’s so mature and his mindset

  • @janayxx4057
    @janayxx4057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    My sons dad got me a car
    I pay for insurance etc
    I was and am honestly greatful

    • @ImRicoOD
      @ImRicoOD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The way it’s supposed to be

    • @jonelledaniels2602
      @jonelledaniels2602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @freeeepalestine__
      @freeeepalestine__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you asked for the car but yet are able to pay for insurance yourself, it sounds like you're just using him, if he paid towards the car and so are you, I'd understand

    • @kikikekeshine6266
      @kikikekeshine6266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hes a good man

    • @janayxx4057
      @janayxx4057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@freeeepalestine__
      Although that's not my story because I didn't ask for a car I was given a car , I have to disagree with you, buying a decent car is far more expensive than insurance,if someone gifts you a car it is for you to pay for the up keep, which in my case is way less money than the price of my car.
      If you ask for a car or are gifted a car but then expect that person to also pay for your car insurance, breakdown cover, car tax and service then yes I would agree that is using someone, but that isn't the case with me.
      He seen I was in need and stepped in to assist as I do for him with no judgement nor questions.

  • @africasfinest52
    @africasfinest52 3 ปีที่แล้ว +543

    Emmanuel is a true big man! Why should a man feel insecure because another man is spending big money and buying “Gucci” for their son. Really, because material things equate to being a good father/step dad. Rubbish small boy mentality

    • @nonchalanteastender2906
      @nonchalanteastender2906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Facts

    • @enochntambi1462
      @enochntambi1462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly ok he’s buying my child all this shi but is he being an actual dad to my kids

  • @versatilebella6357
    @versatilebella6357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Ezo has the belly of someone who has Birthed kids, belly bangssss like she’s had a few youts, but clearly does not have the HEART of a mother 😭

    • @deannairie4825
      @deannairie4825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha 😭

    • @menaaaa05
      @menaaaa05 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Body shaming is not cute

    • @versatilebella6357
      @versatilebella6357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@menaaaa05 her attitude isn’t cute... what’s next?

    • @versatilebella6357
      @versatilebella6357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@menaaaa05 and your bottom lip ain’t cute either 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @lizn1765
      @lizn1765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’re bad mind

  • @Jhfc88qmtr45
    @Jhfc88qmtr45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +523

    Jaysqrd is the only reason I watch this show, the guy is both entertaining and has common sense

    • @rexantwi1323
      @rexantwi1323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Samz Word

    • @swazzy1520
      @swazzy1520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      What about lani tho

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      !!!

    • @dre4358
      @dre4358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@swazzy1520 shhhhhh

    • @swazzy1520
      @swazzy1520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dre4358 mhmmm shussssssh

  • @titio2275
    @titio2275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +931

    In the words of Castillo “I like seeing Black people talk”✅

    • @tunjilegba
      @tunjilegba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right

    • @ebiz2085
      @ebiz2085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I find it so funny how some black people ALWAYS FIND A WAY TO BRING RACE INTO ANYTHING

    • @lambohh8172
      @lambohh8172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      @@ebiz2085 fam stfu

    • @aaaaaaa4580
      @aaaaaaa4580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@ebiz2085 gtfo ebiz

    • @Marisa.34
      @Marisa.34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      “Bmt Yeahh😭😭”💕

  • @call_me_rebecca4136
    @call_me_rebecca4136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That gyal must be cappin about I will go pick them up 🤣🤣

  • @sba2130
    @sba2130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lanis the life of the party though 😂 her side comments is hilarious

  • @aaliyahrose9098
    @aaliyahrose9098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    Idk what his name was but that man was right when he said people with no kids always have the most to talk when they haven’t got children. Ezo seems bitter and insecure, she’s got no sense.

    • @timeisontheessence
      @timeisontheessence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stop being emotional

    • @Thatgirldivineee
      @Thatgirldivineee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@timeisontheessence but like she’s right tho how’s she emotional by giving her opinion anddddddd if she is emotional so what .........

    • @timeisontheessence
      @timeisontheessence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Thatgirldivineee shes not right. You have a kid with a married man and you expect him to spend heavy on your kid, over his kids?
      Secondly, if your kid is going to late school its because you are bringing the kid late to school. You can easily get a taxi, bus, train, uber, neighbour, friend to send the kid over to school. Cheaper alternatives
      Instead you want that same man to pay for the car, the petrol, insurance etc?
      Nah nah nah you just want a free car

    • @aaliyahrose9098
      @aaliyahrose9098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@timeisontheessence I clearly specifically made my point saying he was right people who have no children love to talk when they don’t have kids.You’re emotional for replying to my comment. You lack comprehensive skills you illiterate fool be gone. Goodbye

    • @Butterfly-rh2cd
      @Butterfly-rh2cd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@timeisontheessence ignore them. 119 baby mums liked her comment 😂😂😂😇

  • @miracle2k12
    @miracle2k12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    “The baby dad is not the father of your children”.... I think Aymilli needs to really think before he speaks cah that’s kinda mad 🥴

    • @chantellea9938
      @chantellea9938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Some people believe that just because a man conceived with a woman and they had a child doesn't necessarily mean he's your dad if he's not present throughout the child's upbringing. I *think* that's what he was trying to say.

    • @chriss6531
      @chriss6531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      he’s so fucking dumb 😂 he’s suddenly unattractive to me

    • @kaye5408
      @kaye5408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@chriss6531 right! He’s now ugly got me

    • @MsUchenna12
      @MsUchenna12 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chriss6531 same

    • @KathleenEd
      @KathleenEd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I actually get what he was trying to say..

  • @victoriathomas1915
    @victoriathomas1915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Lanis face while Ezo is talking 🤣

  • @abiolabritto1504
    @abiolabritto1504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lanis face when ezo said she wouldn't allow him🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭💀🚪🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @Victoria-cd1vo
    @Victoria-cd1vo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    Ezo is the evil step mother in Cinderella 💀

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    It's not about what the car looks like. It's about the car being fully functional to get HIS CHILD(REN) from A to B. Quickly and safely. If any man with children sees their current significant other acting immature and overly emotional about him being a parent to HIS CHILD(REN). Then he needs to exit that relationship as soon as possible.

    • @LMICUK
      @LMICUK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Facts on facts

    • @n15ahmet
      @n15ahmet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Facts or undeniable truth ?

    • @oppboyputt
      @oppboyputt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That part

    • @hello-it4vw
      @hello-it4vw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yup

    • @samo6083
      @samo6083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So ubers and taxis most not exist in your city? You can literally pay for a taxi to come at a designated time every day so the children will never be late. With a car she can use it for her own purposes, if its really about getting the kids to places he can just pay for taxis or ubers whenever its needed.

  • @aminaosman3439
    @aminaosman3439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A real father won’t let his kids take the bus if he can afford to buy the car for his children then his girlfriend shouldn’t be mad about that. The baby mother is raising the kids all by herself the least he can do is buy the damn car and also support financially a real man would do that

  • @peoplespodcaststories
    @peoplespodcaststories 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ezo reminds me of those evil stepmothers in Nigerian movies 😂

    • @godrules3596
      @godrules3596 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Them ones there who put juju poison in the food💀😂😂

  • @Anitab_
    @Anitab_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    Wait did Ay milli say that the neighbour should take the kids to school?? Lordttt

    • @liyaha5173
      @liyaha5173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      What’s wrong with that?? Obviously a trusted person

    • @cruelmilo3132
      @cruelmilo3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@liyaha5173 a lot of single mothers could never leave their children with someone, my mum wasn’t single but I lived alone with her for a while as a child and she never left me alone with someone unless my older brother was there

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@liyaha5173 Do you not see what’s going on in Tv these days?? With all these male and female predators and abusers, I will never leave my child with anyone else. Even if it’s someone I “trust”

    • @hello-it4vw
      @hello-it4vw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@liyaha5173 not all neighbours are trusted people are u good

    • @laladiamond4893
      @laladiamond4893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      he should never have kids..they would get stolen within 24 hrs..he tlks like a waste yute

  • @marieandree3431
    @marieandree3431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    when ezo said she couldve gotten rid off the baby i just knew she was an airhead and her brain is just vibesss. She had no sensible argument whatsoever. Lani especially, on the other hand made good points! All the guys made sense except for Aymilli.

  • @kimanekutumela6503
    @kimanekutumela6503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    EZO GETS WORSE EVERY 2 MINUTES 😂 !!!!! "She could've gotten rid of the child" Ezo you are brave 😂

  • @ebio6009
    @ebio6009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ezo: baby mum
    Emmanuel: mother of my children
    😂😂🤌🏾

  • @hm-oq4kr
    @hm-oq4kr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    Ezzo is Honey with surgery DONT think you can trick us 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Oyasavvi
    @Oyasavvi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    That pale girl seems like the type to be jealous of or intimidated by the father relationship w their child from the previous relationship. Evil step mom vibes

    • @jonelledaniels2602
      @jonelledaniels2602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hehehehehenbe

    • @timeisontheessence
      @timeisontheessence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its because she gave her opinion. If the man didnt have money for the car, you lot would cancel him

    • @Oyasavvi
      @Oyasavvi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@timeisontheessence what? I don’t get what you’re trying to say

    • @teganaomi2791
      @teganaomi2791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@timeisontheessence thats so dumb to say lmao

    • @timeisontheessence
      @timeisontheessence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Oyasavvi ezo is one hundred percent right. If you're a baby mom having a kid with a married man then you have to face the consequences. He isnt going to treat your kid in the same way as he treats his own with his wife
      What you as a baby mom can do instead is wake up early, find a friend to drive, take taxi, uber. No need for a car

  • @theyasminali6629
    @theyasminali6629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    How can Nmadi say “Uncle James” 😂😂😂

  • @ArshlynNoree
    @ArshlynNoree 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    To answer the question: she absolutely has a right to feel a way. But she also has the right to avoid dating men with children if this something like that is that deep for her.

  • @hanana7951
    @hanana7951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    emmanuel is the best thing to happen to this episode

  • @MR2Icy
    @MR2Icy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    You lowkey getting a slap if you say i cant spend my money on my kids😭

    • @lisojonas
      @lisojonas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My g😂

  • @sellyfor5005
    @sellyfor5005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love the way ezo gets everyone to pause and says something dumb

  • @talkwithtonte
    @talkwithtonte 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The people having an issue with this are mad young. When it comes to your child having the best you do what you have to do for them. Period. No matter if you and the child's mother/father are together

  • @pmrichie2476
    @pmrichie2476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    Nah can’t lie Lani made this episode soo entertaining😂😂

    • @sklabs3768
      @sklabs3768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When we said which cars are acceptable and not that part had me laughing 😂

    • @4thTribeJudith
      @4thTribeJudith 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every episode

  • @nikishamaria7
    @nikishamaria7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    How can Ezo call a mother lazy? A mother who has full custody of her children and is most likely working! Let's also remember she has "kids" as in PLURAL! Our generation isn't used to ex's being able to co - parent well, we've to understand it's all about the children at the end of the day

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      then why not let the man take care of the kid whilst she gets herself together??

    • @jasminelightningrod2772
      @jasminelightningrod2772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      if she asked for full custody , then she has to accept the responsibilities that comes with it , she clearly wanted to keep the kids away from the man so why should he get her anything lol , especially a car which is quiet expensive .

    • @nikishamaria7
      @nikishamaria7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michael43567 It's not gonna take her a week to get herself together, she already has full custody and there's a reason to that.

    • @nikishamaria7
      @nikishamaria7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jasminelightningrod2772 Her asking for a car is a big deal and it's clear that there is no bad blood between her and her ex for him to even consider buying the car. There's most likely a reason as to why she actually got full custody. Either way she is taking care of his kids but is still going to need help! Taking care of a child is hard enough but she's taking care of more than one. If he's willing to buy the car he will because at the end of the day that car will get his kids to school on time and will help with a lot of other things. Another thing is she wouldn't ask if she knew he wasn't financially stable.

    • @jasminelightningrod2772
      @jasminelightningrod2772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nikishamaria7 I’m just saying if your saying he can’t be with his kids then it’s clear u didn’t need his help why are u now asking for a car

  • @mslele2113
    @mslele2113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Message- have babies with ur wife/ husband then u wont need to worry about silly dilemmas

  • @D9lsk
    @D9lsk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If she’s struggling financially, how is she even payin for fuel ? 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Kaesar24
      @Kaesar24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is what i was thinking. Okay cool the guy buys his bby mum the car. Whose gonna maintain it? Cause the bby dad may not be willing to do that type of upkeep? If shes struggling financially there something deeper than a car that needs to be fixed