Ughhh I am going through that stage where everyone is on my case about why my son is not potty trained still... I really wish people would just mind their own business. Nothing is truer than what you said at the beginning: every child reaches their milestones at their own time.
Same. I hate when people compare their kid to mine. Like “‘my kid was potty trained at 18 months” 😒 It’s hard to not answer back with a “well good for you” lol My daughter is 3 and we are giving it a third try on potty training. We are on day 1 today which is why Im here. People can’t get off my case, it feels horrible to hear people’s opinion on potty training at a certain age and hearing even more that 3 is too old.
Well done you and James! I wish people would just stop telling other parents what age their child should be doing this and that... it’s so not anyone’s business. Any child in their own time. 👍🏼
all of these comments makes me feel so much better. My story is very similar to many people on here including feeling that I'm a failure as a mom which when I read other people say the same thing seems absolutely ridiculous. I'm a pediatrician and I know better than many people that kids develop at their own pace and they all have their own personality so why should we feel that we are failures because we are raising little people with their own personalities? Feel like someone commented earlier people are all too thrilled to give you advice that you didn't ask for about your child
Our son is 4 and we’ve been stuck on “day 2” for the past week and a half 😢 Update: we gave him back his pull-ups, only give him drinks with food and dry a timer for 45 mins and he hasn’t had an accident in over a week
Thank you so much for this. My son is 3 and I'm going through what you described in this video. I'm so grateful for your real life examples and your struggles. It gives me hope and lets me know I'm not alone in this.
Thank u so much for telling your story. I am struggling right now with my almost 3 1/2 year old son. He refuses 2 go #2 on potty and SCREAMS when I try 2 put him in underwear. Hes super attached to his pull ups and it's been tuff...I'm trying not to press him 2 much but in hearing your story I have renewed hope...thanks again!
When I was worrying about my child not turning over on his belly "soon enough" my mom had to remind me that he will do it when he's ready and what do you know he's perfectly fine and I fretted for nothing. Be assured all will work out.😉
Interesting many of the comments are about 3-3.5 yr old boys, as is ths case with my little 3.5 yr old boy. I wonder why? Everyone says they will do it when they are ready but its considered "a delay" if not potty trained by the age of 4 soooooooo, yeah I'm concerned he isnt going to "go when he is ready" and not be considered "delayed"
My son was potty trainer within 3 days but suddenly he realised that we were spending more time in bathroom than playroom and suddenly all effort was gone. Soon we gave up after ccidents after accidents. Now he is exactly 3.3 years old. I have same plan to try this summer break without give up. Thank you for sharing your story with your lo. This will be very helpful.
Thank you for leaving all the details on what worked for you guys. My 3.5 year old son is so resistant, hates stickers, hates the potty monkey companion, could care less about his big boy pants. He does enjoy the potty books, I guess that’s something. And 9/10 times he’ll sit and go potty first thing in the morning if I can catch him quickly enough after he wakes up. Your tips at the end were eye opening! I’m going to try them and stick with it 🤞For reference, I worked in toddler care for 5 years in the past and trained a dozen kids to use the potty. So when I became a parent and got such a resistant child, I was so confused haha
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I felt like a bad mum because my boy kept having diaper dermatitis and he would scream in pain during treatments. Some people blamed me for not potty training him earlier, and they had no idea what my circumstances were at home with a new baby. I have to be brave and give it my best shot. Thank you😊
My son is 3 yrs and 1 month old and very stubborn. My husband and I are legally separated and our divorce will finalized next month. I think if we were still together it'd be much easier for both of us to potty train him and he would be potty trained by now. We bought his potty when he was still 1.
both my boys I've aimed for 3 because preschool age they need to be potty trained and it's my kick starter to really take it seriously. Prior it's just been sitting on the potty now and then since 2 and he's comfortable with it but neither boys really took it seriously until i did the over drive/ full energy chasing them around the house for a week, forcing them to sit on the potty, tears, frustration.... and each boy has not been pleasant to make them completely control their bladder outside of the house.
Im so glad i ran into this video. My son is nearing 3 and is not potty trained. My son wasn't showing signs of being ready. He also got really stressed when i would have him sit on the potty. The amount of pressure to potty train your child by 2 was ridiculous! I have so much mom guilt! We are now starting again! Fingers crossed!
Stumbled upon your video because I just don’t know what to do. We live in the US, my son will be 3.5 years old next month (September) when he starts Preschool. We’ve been going through similar situations as with you and your son and your video has truly given me hope. I know the day will come but I just needed someone outside my circle to tell me that everything will be okay because the pressure can really get to you as a mom. It was so easy with our daughter. It was rough in the beginning with her but she got it within 3 days and just in time for when her brother (our now 3 year old) was born. Everyone keeps telling us that boys are easier to train than girls but that’s clearly not our experience as of yet lol 😅 but thank you so much for sharing your experience with your son and inspiring us potty training moms ❤️❤️❤️
I am feeling that pressure right now! I am in the sammmmmme situation with the stopping and starting. I now have 3 weeks until pre school starts and I am motivated- even more so now I've seen this.
Thank you very much for this amazing video it helped me a LOT, I’m a mother of three and pregnant with baby number 4 and my youngest is 3 and I’m struggling with potty training him and as you said every child is different, my first kid was different than my my second kid , my first one gave me a hard time but my second one didn’t, now this one is giving me a harder time or maybe because I’m a little stressed and tired from my pregnancy and I’m not very into teaching him correctly so it’s more from me than him but again your right that I’m only potty training him because the pressure that comes from friends and family, but deep down I know that when it’s right and it’s time I will be like you detriment and he WILL learn.
Thank you for sharing your story, in-spite of knowing you'd receive criticism. I'm in the exactly same situation. I had a 3 week old and a 2 year old who wasn't interested at all in potty training. He just turned 3 and we are finally feeling he's ready. The pressure from others and the mom shaming is ridiculous. I've had people make comment around me, who don't have children, how incredible another mom is because she's on top of things with her children potty training by 2. The mother, this childless person, was referring to has girls and try to make me feel as though we were just being lazy. Not knowing we had tried but just refused to make our son and ourselves miserable trying to potty-train before he was ready. I'm so glad I found your video!! Gives me the courage to ignore the comments and start this next stage without feeling like I'm a bad mother.
My son is 3. I am finally feeling like we are ready to start. My son is like you said, doesnt stay interested even with rewards. Im having trouble brushing his teeth effectively as well😪 Im hoping potty training is easier than that has been. Im just unsure where to start but This video helped quite abit..
We're on Day 14 and it's still mostly all accidents all day. He'll stop playing and go on the toilet and sit for 5 minutes then after nothing happens, have an accident within 5 mins of that visit. He's 3 2/3 years old.
Thank you for your video here. Although I know everything you mentioned but listening to your experience as a mom helped me so much to get the strength to potty train my child .. I cried too much today because it is too stressful
OMG... thank you so much for making this video. “Repeatedly accident” is what going on with me and my 2 year and 4 month old son 😭 you are very honest with every steps and details, it’s really good to hear them. 👍🏼
So many people including doctors think all babies and children should be robots and do the same thing at the same time it's just not reality. Thanks for sharing your story ☺️
@@Dreblueskies My son took my phone for a few minutes. I didn't know that he can already write comments. He is 17 months. I need to be more careful. :)
I haven't started with my boy yet, (hes not interested..turned 3 in December.. hes at the age where he tells us he peed/pooped but doesn't care to use the potty.) but with my girl (my oldest) she loves going to the toilet, quickly gave up the toilet seat. And wipes on her own for pees, I help with poop still. Shes 4 and shes got it all down on her own now, but she still likes to wear pull ups instead of underwear.. she loves her flowers lol 🤦♀️ maybe I'll try your tip and let her choose.
Wow! I’m so happy for you. We started potty training exactly a month ago and we have one or two accidents a day (wee) and with a poo it’s even worse - only three times in a potty :( he never says he needs a potty so we just make him sit when we see signs.
My story is seriously just like yours! My son is also named James! And he is exactly 3 years and 2 months today!! My problem is still, that he just has zero interests in losing the diapers. He doesn’t care if he soils his pants. And the last round we tried potty training, he acted like going to sit on the potty was some sort of bad thing, like a punishment that interrupted his play time. And it just left me sooooooo very stressed out! I made it 1.5 weeks straight. But it was literal hell. Pee all over the house and I was so on edge!! We tried berries and sugar free chocolate for rewards, and he liked those... but still just couldn’t care less. :( That was about 1.5 months ago now. So for 1, I’m terrified to try it again. And 2, when do I try again?
Omg situation is so same as your instead if your son i was training my daughter but at that time i had my son was very dofficult but niw she is 3 yrs 3 months and soo stressfull im so gland i seem this bideo i felt i was a useless mom
This is very helpful and encouraging I'm on day three of potty training my little over two and a half year old son there has been times of just giving up but this has helped thank you!!!!
Thank you so much for this video, God bless you. I thought I was the only one struggling with potty training 3 year old. also there were times like giving up and I am getting morew pressure now and have got very stressed and frustrated in the past. I have other children and it's can get very frustrating. thank yous o much again for encouraging us mothers that are struggling.
It was easy with my boys my eldest at 2 yrs. Old and my youngest at 3 yrs. Old. in 4 days they were potty trained. But I'm very overwhelmed with my daughter she's 3 yrs and 2 months and won't go she's stubborn and I feel like giving up because I'm pregnant it's hard. Thanks for the video. I have pressure too but I'm trying.
Yvonne Rose girl I hear you. My daughters just turned 3 and just refuses. She will go when she's naked, but will wet or soil her big girl underwear. She can't be naked all the time. I have no idea what this means. I'm so stressed over it. Everyone thinks it should be easy until they have stubborn child on their hands. You are not alone!
My son is 3.5 and we’re having a hard time potty training him I’ve had two more children since he’s been born so I feel like that may have stopped his progression I’ve tried everything he is my 3rd child and the first one I’ve had such an issue with potty training.. if I put pull-ups on him he won’t tell me he has to go whether it’s pee or boo but if I put big boy underwear on him he’ll pee but refuses to let go of going number 2 on himself and most children don’t like the feeling of that on them but he seems not to care 😩 I’m hoping over these next couple months I can use some tips and he’ll be ready to transition
I have a 3 year 4 months old boy and he has similar issues.. he does wee in the toilet ( for a couple of months now with barely any accidents) but he completely refuses to do potty in the toilet.. I have tried almost everything including bribing him for his favorite stuff but all efforts are in vain.. he does potty only when we put his diapers on at night time ( and that too by standing somewhere in the corner of the room) I have been trying to put him on the potty seat everyday where he sits and listens to us but will never poop in the potty. I don’t really understand what’s going on in his mind because he can control his potty even for 2 days if we don’t put his diapers on.. so ultimately for his healthy bowel movement we put his diaper on whenever he asks for it ( which he always does when he feels the pressure in his belly). Let me know if you have any ideas to share so that we can overcome his barrier..
I have a 3 year old boy who will wee on the potty/toilet and has done for a year or so not but point blank refuses to do a poo on it so today I brought some books for him about the toilet, a reward chart and he choose his own pants. We are almost at the end of day 1 and he's still refusing to go for a poo and has had a few accidents but as it's some summer holidays I'm going to really try x
I have a 3 year 4 months old boy and he has similar issues.. he does wee in the toilet ( for a couple of months now with barely any accidents) but he completely refuses to do potty in the toilet.. I have tried almost everything including bribing him for his favorite stuff but all efforts are in vain.. he does potty only when we put his diapers on at night time ( and that too by standing somewhere in the corner of the room) I have been trying to put him on the potty seat everyday where he sits and listens to us but will never poop in the potty. I don’t really understand what’s going on in his mind because he can control his potty even for 2 days if we don’t put his diapers on.. so ultimately for his healthy bowel movement we put his diaper on whenever he asks for it ( which he always does when he feels the pressure in his belly). Let me know if you have any ideas to share so that we can overcome his barrier..
Your video just gave me so much needed reassurance. My son just turned 3 and I've felt like a failure of a mother. It doesn't help I'm a single mom and his dad yells at him so I cant expect help from him. It's a struggle for sure with my baby as he acts like I'm killing him on a potty 😥
Very helpful thank you Ysis thank you so much, i am definitely feeling the pressure to start potty training with my twins, they just turned 2 a week ago and they aren’t showing any signs yet so thanks a lot for sharing your experience x
I am feeling so much pressure from family members who have potty trained their little one at 1! Little one is 2yrs 8mon he doesn’t say at all when he’s about to poop or pea and now just does it in his underwear and on top of that screaming he wants his nappies, does this sound like I should wait? (Mind it’s only been a few days)
Hi Ysis I just have a question for how long have you used or still using travel potty ? I’m thinking of buying one ur i don’t know for how long it’s useful?
Thank you so much for share your story, I am in struggle time with my 3 and a half boy, he just do pipi but he don't like to do poppy in the potty, I am very frustrated.
Clicked as soon as I saw the title!!! We have been potty training our 3 year old too!! Well done on succeeding it’s so hard and I totally agree each child will do it when they are ready xxx
I’m so exited for you and James! My son is about to turn 3 in November and no potty training yet 😭 I have been trying but I have a 3 month Baby so I feel like I can’t be there for him all the time
Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever If it’s not affecting your life, why do you care when anyone potty trains their kids. The title of the video clearly states potty training her 3 year old. If you don’t agree with a parent waiting that long or struggling with potty training why did you click on the video. You literally went out of your way to click on a video that you know would annoy you, that’s just stupid. Maybe instead of bashing parents on the internet you could mind your own business and spend that energy doing something productive with your own kids. Girl, bye 👋
Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever key is in the word ex. It doesn’t affect your life now. So move on with yourself and worry about your own family.
Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever you don’t sound like the most compassionate person to work in a nursery, so good thing it’s no longer your job 👍🏻
Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever Girl, if it makes you happy clicking on videos you know are going to annoy you and having a go at people you don’t know and have done absolutely nothing to you personally. Then you do you girl. 😂 Just know, I pity you
my baby girl is now 19 month but we are working on potty training but she dont give any sign everyday time is changed i dont know how i train and try to train potty in potty seat when i checked she already did it in diaper ...
@@manij1078 make it your no. 1 aim that this flow shouldn't break. Take him to washroom every 15-20 mins. Just in few days he will know he can't wear diaper and washroom is the place to be free. Make sure the day you start training , it's no diaper from then. And no scolding him for accidents. Just good appreciation on good work. No scoldings.
I'm in the same boat i can't get him to go anymore regardless how much i course him to do so. He is sneaky and will actually try to hide away somewhere just so he can go -_-
I not recommend pull up because pull up is like diapers 🤦🤷 we use pull up for traveling only, we use potty training had 5 leyers and potty training skirts night time, they amezing, recommend it waterproof bed cover from target, we do naked during the day or use regular underwear, had many accidents first week my daughter got it in the second week, I never star rewards thanks couple friend tell me no do it, my daughter got potty training with out reward, thank you for sharing few things mind be helpful to try
There are several components to ways to potty train. One place I found which succeeds in merging these is the Sues Trainer Tactics (google it if you're interested) definately the most helpful resource that I've seen.look at all the extraordinary info .
["There is a right time every child to achieve their milestones." This is only ever said by the parents of slow children.] - This is only ever said by an IGNORANT and an UNCIVILIZED person hiding behind a computer screen :)
@@pawpatrolnews you're saying that because you KNOW VERY WELL that there's no chance you'd see me in person. You sound very simple minded and slow yourself. Highly intelligent people do not make assumptions or meddle with things they do not completely comprehend. Good Luck to you :)
@Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever well that is a little bit harsh to say but I agree. You don't have to wait for the baby, you have to make the baby to like the potty and not the nappies. I always see moms at the park with children in nappies and with their thumb sticked in their mouth while thei wait to have their nappy changed, and this little girl was 4 or 5.. it was kind of discusting..
Every child is different and some have issues that keep them from hitting milestones like an "average" child. No mom wants their child in a diaper at that age. Its not right to judge them.
How do you know this little girl didn’t have a mental disability? It’s not your place to judge others. Especially on something so personal as potty training.
Ughhh I am going through that stage where everyone is on my case about why my son is not potty trained still... I really wish people would just mind their own business. Nothing is truer than what you said at the beginning: every child reaches their milestones at their own time.
Ditto! 🙂
Yes I'm struggling with a three year old.
girl, me too....as if we aren't trying, right? Cause I really enjoy cleaning an 3 yr old size logs all the time. GTFO and stay in your lane
Same. I hate when people compare their kid to mine. Like “‘my kid was potty trained at 18
months” 😒 It’s hard to not answer back with a “well good for you” lol My daughter is 3 and we are giving it a third try on potty training. We are on day 1 today which is why Im here. People can’t get off my case, it feels horrible to hear people’s opinion on potty training at a certain age and hearing even more that 3 is too old.
Same my son is about to turn three and my mom is up my butt about it! All he does is scream and absolutely refuses to go on the potty 😕
Well done you and James! I wish people would just stop telling other parents what age their child should be doing this and that... it’s so not anyone’s business. Any child in their own time. 👍🏼
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all of these comments makes me feel so much better. My story is very similar to many people on here including feeling that I'm a failure as a mom which when I read other people say the same thing seems absolutely ridiculous. I'm a pediatrician and I know better than many people that kids develop at their own pace and they all have their own personality so why should we feel that we are failures because we are raising little people with their own personalities? Feel like someone commented earlier people are all too thrilled to give you advice that you didn't ask for about your child
Our son is 4 and we’ve been stuck on “day 2” for the past week and a half 😢
Update: we gave him back his pull-ups, only give him drinks with food and dry a timer for 45 mins and he hasn’t had an accident in over a week
kodie schroeder how long did it take your 4 yr to potty train
Alicia Khan were 3 weeks in with only about 1-2 accidents a week not including poops
Thank you so much for this. My son is 3 and I'm going through what you described in this video. I'm so grateful for your real life examples and your struggles. It gives me hope and lets me know I'm not alone in this.
Thank u so much for telling your story. I am struggling right now with my almost 3 1/2 year old son. He refuses 2 go #2 on potty and SCREAMS when I try 2 put him in underwear. Hes super attached to his pull ups and it's been tuff...I'm trying not to press him 2 much but in hearing your story I have renewed hope...thanks again!
I going to thru the same struggle he refuse to give up his pulls up and he is 3 and half years old. What tips help you
When I was worrying about my child not turning over on his belly "soon enough" my mom had to remind me that he will do it when he's ready and what do you know he's perfectly fine and I fretted for nothing. Be assured all will work out.😉
Interesting many of the comments are about 3-3.5 yr old boys, as is ths case with my little 3.5 yr old boy. I wonder why?
Everyone says they will do it when they are ready but its considered "a delay" if not potty trained by the age of 4 soooooooo, yeah I'm concerned he isnt going to "go when he is ready" and not be considered "delayed"
I really needed this today. Thank you for sharing James’ potty journey with us. ❤️
My son was potty trainer within 3 days but suddenly he realised that we were spending more time in bathroom than playroom and suddenly all effort was gone. Soon we gave up after ccidents after accidents. Now he is exactly 3.3 years old. I have same plan to try this summer break without give up. Thank you for sharing your story with your lo. This will be very helpful.
Thank you for leaving all the details on what worked for you guys. My 3.5 year old son is so resistant, hates stickers, hates the potty monkey companion, could care less about his big boy pants. He does enjoy the potty books, I guess that’s something. And 9/10 times he’ll sit and go potty first thing in the morning if I can catch him quickly enough after he wakes up. Your tips at the end were eye opening! I’m going to try them and stick with it 🤞For reference, I worked in toddler care for 5 years in the past and trained a dozen kids to use the potty. So when I became a parent and got such a resistant child, I was so confused haha
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I felt like a bad mum because my boy kept having diaper dermatitis and he would scream in pain during treatments. Some people blamed me for not potty training him earlier, and they had no idea what my circumstances were at home with a new baby.
I have to be brave and give it my best shot. Thank you😊
My son is 3 yrs and 1 month old and very stubborn. My husband and I are legally separated and our divorce will finalized next month. I think if we were still together it'd be much easier for both of us to potty train him and he would be potty trained by now. We bought his potty when he was still 1.
When did he finally get trained?
@@sheenspeaks early last year before he turned 4.
@@Carolina_girl86 Nice! My son is 3.5 and I just got serious today. No pull ups, staying in all day, reminding/asking every 15 mins. Hope this works!
Today was my second day potty training and I had a breakdown hopefully tomorrow will be better 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
both my boys I've aimed for 3 because preschool age they need to be potty trained and it's my kick starter to really take it seriously. Prior it's just been sitting on the potty now and then since 2 and he's comfortable with it but neither boys really took it seriously until i did the over drive/ full energy chasing them around the house for a week, forcing them to sit on the potty, tears, frustration.... and each boy has not been pleasant to make them completely control their bladder outside of the house.
Im so glad i ran into this video. My son is nearing 3 and is not potty trained. My son wasn't showing signs of being ready. He also got really stressed when i would have him sit on the potty. The amount of pressure to potty train your child by 2 was ridiculous! I have so much mom guilt! We are now starting again! Fingers crossed!
Your voice is so pretty and soothing!
Sasha Wilt yes I love it!!!
Stumbled upon your video because I just don’t know what to do. We live in the US, my son will be 3.5 years old next month (September) when he starts Preschool. We’ve been going through similar situations as with you and your son and your video has truly given me hope. I know the day will come but I just needed someone outside my circle to tell me that everything will be okay because the pressure can really get to you as a mom. It was so easy with our daughter. It was rough in the beginning with her but she got it within 3 days and just in time for when her brother (our now 3 year old) was born. Everyone keeps telling us that boys are easier to train than girls but that’s clearly not our experience as of yet lol 😅 but thank you so much for sharing your experience with your son and inspiring us potty training moms ❤️❤️❤️
I am feeling that pressure right now! I am in the sammmmmme situation with the stopping and starting. I now have 3 weeks until pre school starts and I am motivated- even more so now I've seen this.
Thank you very much for this amazing video it helped me a LOT, I’m a mother of three and pregnant with baby number 4 and my youngest is 3 and I’m struggling with potty training him and as you said every child is different, my first kid was different than my my second kid , my first one gave me a hard time but my second one didn’t, now this one is giving me a harder time or maybe because I’m a little stressed and tired from my pregnancy and I’m not very into teaching him correctly so it’s more from me than him but again your right that I’m only potty training him because the pressure that comes from friends and family, but deep down I know that when it’s right and it’s time I will be like you detriment and he WILL learn.
Thank you for sharing your story, in-spite of knowing you'd receive criticism. I'm in the exactly same situation. I had a 3 week old and a 2 year old who wasn't interested at all in potty training. He just turned 3 and we are finally feeling he's ready. The pressure from others and the mom shaming is ridiculous. I've had people make comment around me, who don't have children, how incredible another mom is because she's on top of things with her children potty training by 2. The mother, this childless person, was referring to has girls and try to make me feel as though we were just being lazy. Not knowing we had tried but just refused to make our son and ourselves miserable trying to potty-train before he was ready. I'm so glad I found your video!! Gives me the courage to ignore the comments and start this next stage without feeling like I'm a bad mother.
My son is 3. I am finally feeling like we are ready to start.
My son is like you said, doesnt stay interested even with rewards.
Im having trouble brushing his teeth effectively as well😪
Im hoping potty training is easier than that has been.
Im just unsure where to start but This video helped quite abit..
Older sister here, thanks for the tips!
We're on Day 14 and it's still mostly all accidents all day. He'll stop playing and go on the toilet and sit for 5 minutes then after nothing happens, have an accident within 5 mins of that visit. He's 3 2/3 years old.
Thank you for your video here. Although I know everything you mentioned but listening to your experience as a mom helped me so much to get the strength to potty train my child .. I cried too much today because it is too stressful
You are not alone. I'm going through it right now and he is 3 and will be 4 next monty
OMG... thank you so much for making this video. “Repeatedly accident” is what going on with me and my 2 year and 4 month old son 😭 you are very honest with every steps and details, it’s really good to hear them. 👍🏼
So many people including doctors think all babies and children should be robots and do the same thing at the same time it's just not reality. Thanks for sharing your story ☺️
@@aidaatayan1349 What?
@@Dreblueskies My son took my phone for a few minutes. I didn't know that he can already write comments. He is 17 months. I need to be more careful. :)
@@aidaatayan1349 Haha no worries 😊
Thank you!!! Love how you say that the timing has to be right for everyone. So true for anything in hitting a milestone.
I haven't started with my boy yet, (hes not interested..turned 3 in December.. hes at the age where he tells us he peed/pooped but doesn't care to use the potty.) but with my girl (my oldest) she loves going to the toilet, quickly gave up the toilet seat. And wipes on her own for pees, I help with poop still. Shes 4 and shes got it all down on her own now, but she still likes to wear pull ups instead of underwear.. she loves her flowers lol 🤦♀️ maybe I'll try your tip and let her choose.
Wow! I’m so happy for you. We started potty training exactly a month ago and we have one or two accidents a day (wee) and with a poo it’s even worse - only three times in a potty :( he never says he needs a potty so we just make him sit when we see signs.
My story is seriously just like yours! My son is also named James! And he is exactly 3 years and 2 months today!! My problem is still, that he just has zero interests in losing the diapers. He doesn’t care if he soils his pants. And the last round we tried potty training, he acted like going to sit on the potty was some sort of bad thing, like a punishment that interrupted his play time. And it just left me sooooooo very stressed out! I made it 1.5 weeks straight. But it was literal hell. Pee all over the house and I was so on edge!! We tried berries and sugar free chocolate for rewards, and he liked those... but still just couldn’t care less. :( That was about 1.5 months ago now. So for 1, I’m terrified to try it again. And 2, when do I try again?
Omg situation is so same as your instead if your son i was training my daughter but at that time i had my son was very dofficult but niw she is 3 yrs 3 months and soo stressfull im so gland i seem this bideo i felt i was a useless mom
This is very helpful and encouraging I'm on day three of potty training my little over two and a half year old son there has been times of just giving up but this has helped thank you!!!!
Thank you so much for this video, God bless you. I thought I was the only one struggling with potty training 3 year old. also there were times like giving up and I am getting morew pressure now and have got very stressed and frustrated in the past. I have other children and it's can get very frustrating. thank yous o much again for encouraging us mothers that are struggling.
Your story is some much relatable to me.....
Yes I have a 3 and half year old and I’m still trying to teach him
Awesome job!!! I'm so intimidated by potty training! My son is almost two and I'm dreading it
It was easy with my boys my eldest at 2 yrs. Old and my youngest at 3 yrs. Old. in 4 days they were potty trained. But I'm very overwhelmed with my daughter she's 3 yrs and 2 months and won't go she's stubborn and I feel like giving up because I'm pregnant it's hard. Thanks for the video. I have pressure too but I'm trying.
Yvonne Rose girl I hear you. My daughters just turned 3 and just refuses. She will go when she's naked, but will wet or soil her big girl underwear. She can't be naked all the time. I have no idea what this means. I'm so stressed over it. Everyone thinks it should be easy until they have stubborn child on their hands. You are not alone!
I’m having trouble with my son and pooping in the potty. He’s scared or something. Any tips?
My son is 3.5 and we’re having a hard time potty training him I’ve had two more children since he’s been born so I feel like that may have stopped his progression I’ve tried everything he is my 3rd child and the first one I’ve had such an issue with potty training.. if I put pull-ups on him he won’t tell me he has to go whether it’s pee or boo but if I put big boy underwear on him he’ll pee but refuses to let go of going number 2 on himself and most children don’t like the feeling of that on them but he seems not to care 😩 I’m hoping over these next couple months I can use some tips and he’ll be ready to transition
I taught my sons inside standing up and outside standing too my husband taught them to aim😊all worth it though
I stop seeing other people after comparing my kids to other just because of potty training. He’s 3 and he’s not ready yet but we’re doing it slowly.
My son is 3 years and 3 months. We are trying now but it’s slow going
I have a 3 year 4 months old boy and he has similar issues.. he does wee in the toilet ( for a couple of months now with barely any accidents) but he completely refuses to do potty in the toilet.. I have tried almost everything including bribing him for his favorite stuff but all efforts are in vain.. he does potty only when we put his diapers on at night time ( and that too by standing somewhere in the corner of the room) I have been trying to put him on the potty seat everyday where he sits and listens to us but will never poop in the potty. I don’t really understand what’s going on in his mind because he can control his potty even for 2 days if we don’t put his diapers on.. so ultimately for his healthy bowel movement we put his diaper on whenever he asks for it ( which he always does when he feels the pressure in his belly). Let me know if you have any ideas to share so that we can overcome his barrier..
My son 3 yrs and 6 months old and still he is not ready for potty training 😭😭
Kosha Shahan I feel like I’m heading in the same direction. I can’t tell if he is ready or not
Same! Our son just turned 3, and he despises sitting on the toilet 🤦🏻♀️😩
Thank you! I need to hear this I’m on day 2 it’s been a day 🎇
Was your child in preschool before or while training?
I have a 3 year old boy who will wee on the potty/toilet and has done for a year or so not but point blank refuses to do a poo on it so today I brought some books for him about the toilet, a reward chart and he choose his own pants. We are almost at the end of day 1 and he's still refusing to go for a poo and has had a few accidents but as it's some summer holidays I'm going to really try x
I have a 3 year 4 months old boy and he has similar issues.. he does wee in the toilet ( for a couple of months now with barely any accidents) but he completely refuses to do potty in the toilet.. I have tried almost everything including bribing him for his favorite stuff but all efforts are in vain.. he does potty only when we put his diapers on at night time ( and that too by standing somewhere in the corner of the room) I have been trying to put him on the potty seat everyday where he sits and listens to us but will never poop in the potty. I don’t really understand what’s going on in his mind because he can control his potty even for 2 days if we don’t put his diapers on.. so ultimately for his healthy bowel movement we put his diaper on whenever he asks for it ( which he always does when he feels the pressure in his belly). Let me know if you have any ideas to share so that we can overcome his barrier..
great job! i am dreding starting this with my daughter (2 and half years)
Your video just gave me so much needed reassurance. My son just turned 3 and I've felt like a failure of a mother. It doesn't help I'm a single mom and his dad yells at him so I cant expect help from him. It's a struggle for sure with my baby as he acts like I'm killing him on a potty 😥
Same...exactly the same except I still live in the house with his dad who yells at him.
What did u use for a 'potty? The actual toilet, a toddler toilet on the floor, outside, naky ???
We used a toddler toilet that we got from Tesco and the actual toilet as well.
Very helpful thank you Ysis thank you so much, i am definitely feeling the pressure to start potty training with my twins, they just turned 2 a week ago and they aren’t showing any signs yet so thanks a lot for sharing your experience x
Thank you for this video. How often did you used to set a timer?
I am feeling so much pressure from family members who have potty trained their little one at 1!
Little one is 2yrs 8mon he doesn’t say at all when he’s about to poop or pea and now just does it in his underwear and on top of that screaming he wants his nappies, does this sound like I should wait? (Mind it’s only been a few days)
Thankyou so much for this its helped a lot! When you did the sticker method, did you potty train for a few hours a day or a whole day?
Thanks for sharing!
Well done, potty training sure requires a positive attitude.
hi great video where did you have the potty located?
Amazing video. Thank you ❤
really helpfull. Thanks Ysis. i am also struggling with potty training. but we all gonna manage it somehow.
So true...
Hi Ysis I just have a question for how long have you used or still using travel potty ? I’m thinking of buying one ur i don’t know for how long it’s useful?
HI Natalia, we still use it when we are out and about or go on long car journeys. Definitely worth it, in my opinion :)
And now James is 4 isn’t it?
I have day two for Three months now.
Thank you so much for share your story, I am in struggle time with my 3 and a half boy, he just do pipi but he don't like to do poppy in the potty, I am very frustrated.
Julia Vanegas omg! I have a 3 and a half year old (VERY STRONG-WILLED) girl and I thought I was a horrible mom because she is not yet potty trained...
Thanks for sharing, helpful.
My sons turning three and is very hard headed and doesn’t tell me when he does in his pants
I'm going through the same thing. My 3yrs 2mths old boy doesnt tell me he wants to use the potty or he did something.
Clicked as soon as I saw the title!!! We have been potty training our 3 year old too!! Well done on succeeding it’s so hard and I totally agree each child will do it when they are ready xxx
Hii
Thank you :)
Awesome 👌 thanks for the tips
I’m so exited for you and James! My son is about to turn 3 in November and no potty training yet 😭 I have been trying but I have a 3 month Baby so I feel like I can’t be there for him all the time
Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever If it’s not affecting your life, why do you care when anyone potty trains their kids. The title of the video clearly states potty training her 3 year old. If you don’t agree with a parent waiting that long or struggling with potty training why did you click on the video. You literally went out of your way to click on a video that you know would annoy you, that’s just stupid. Maybe instead of bashing parents on the internet you could mind your own business and spend that energy doing something productive with your own kids. Girl, bye 👋
Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever yes but the question remains. If it doesn’t affect you, why do you care?
Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever key is in the word ex. It doesn’t affect your life now. So move on with yourself and worry about your own family.
Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever you don’t sound like the most compassionate person to work in a nursery, so good thing it’s no longer your job 👍🏻
Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever Girl, if it makes you happy clicking on videos you know are going to annoy you and having a go at people you don’t know and have done absolutely nothing to you personally. Then you do you girl. 😂 Just know, I pity you
My son is going pee at home but not poo. He refuses to go at daycare or when we are at a store.
It's hard my son is two and I though he was almost potty trained he was using he potty then won't do it anymore it's stressful
my baby girl is now 19 month but we are working on potty training but she dont give any sign everyday time is changed i dont know how i train and try to train potty in potty seat when i checked she already did it in diaper ...
congratulations! Well done James
Hii
My boy is 5 plus.. he is still not port trained.. I am so sad..I feel so depressed.
My son is turning 5 next week he still won't poo in toilet only pull ups.
@@manij1078 my son is now 6 plus and last year during lockdown I paid full attention for potty training. Now he is trained.
@@ana170885 that's awesome any advice my son won't sit on the toilet
@@manij1078 make it your no. 1 aim that this flow shouldn't break. Take him to washroom every 15-20 mins. Just in few days he will know he can't wear diaper and washroom is the place to be free. Make sure the day you start training , it's no diaper from then. And no scolding him for accidents. Just good appreciation on good work. No scoldings.
@@ana170885 thank you
The main problem I facing is baby peeing on me 😂😂 do you face the same problem
dear ....you really did a great job....for your kids
I'm in the same boat i can't get him to go anymore regardless how much i course him to do so. He is sneaky and will actually try to hide away somewhere just so he can go -_-
I not recommend pull up because pull up is like diapers 🤦🤷 we use pull up for traveling only, we use potty training had 5 leyers and potty training skirts night time, they amezing, recommend it waterproof bed cover from target, we do naked during the day or use regular underwear, had many accidents first week my daughter got it in the second week, I never star rewards thanks couple friend tell me no do it, my daughter got potty training with out reward, thank you for sharing few things mind be helpful to try
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Great job! Glad for you!)
Thank you.
My son pee in potty hard time with the poop any tips
I have a 3 year old who will go to the potty but he’s still not use to it we started him at the age of 2
Love this video
My wife is very glad
Very nice video
Am frustrated with its
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Did a whole video jus talkin 😐🤯😡
"There is a right time every child to achieve their milestones."
This is only ever said by the parents of *slow* children.
["There is a right time every child to achieve their milestones."
This is only ever said by the parents of slow children.] - This is only ever said by an IGNORANT and an UNCIVILIZED person hiding behind a computer screen :)
But you know it's true though. TBH, I'd even say it to your face if you were here 🙃
@@pawpatrolnews you're saying that because you KNOW VERY WELL that there's no chance you'd see me in person. You sound very simple minded and slow yourself. Highly intelligent people do not make assumptions or meddle with things they do not completely comprehend. Good Luck to you :)
No assumptions, just the truth! 😜
@@pawpatrolnews an imbecile's truth yes.😂Thanks for the entertainment.
Hopefully my daughter gets out of her nappy before 2 years. I think 3 years is too old to wear a nappy.
In our case, that’s when he was ready. I’m glad I didn’t force him before. Best of luck for your daughter! 😊
@Team Queen’ s Fearn Tucker and Bentley Forever well that is a little bit harsh to say but I agree. You don't have to wait for the baby, you have to make the baby to like the potty and not the nappies. I always see moms at the park with children in nappies and with their thumb sticked in their mouth while thei wait to have their nappy changed, and this little girl was 4 or 5.. it was kind of discusting..
Every child is different and some have issues that keep them from hitting milestones like an "average" child. No mom wants their child in a diaper at that age. Its not right to judge them.
Keep dreaming
How do you know this little girl didn’t have a mental disability? It’s not your place to judge others. Especially on something so personal as potty training.
My wife is very glad
My wife is very glad