TikTok Believed Her Fit Husband Couldn’t Love Someone Her Size & She Clapped Back

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  • Alicia McCarvel has a massive following of over 5.4 million fans on TikTok. She went viral with her husband after their efforts to participate in a trend went awry. The post garnered over 40 million views as the couple was slammed with an onslaught of hateful comments. Alicia sits down with Tamron in our episode titled “Women Who Go There,” to talk about turning the experience into a teachable moment.
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  • @janices6140
    @janices6140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Yes, it's so shallow to judge someone based on their looks. What about their kindness, how they treat others? We humans need to concentrate on the goodness of our hearts instead of the physical.

    • @chocolateangel8743
      @chocolateangel8743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's not going to happen anytime soon.

    • @ruthharper2499
      @ruthharper2499 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chocolateangel8743 Can you be a little more positive?

  • @erna5427
    @erna5427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    When I look at her , there is one obvious feature I see, an illuminating smile. And, when she speaks I hear her brilliance. Thank you for showing others that they don't need to spread their pain but can love themselves.

    • @daidretanisha3710
      @daidretanisha3710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed her beauty and smile stood out the most to me and I can see why he loves her so much.

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    That's really ridiculous that people still judge someone because a fit man is with a curvier woman

    • @sherricason1548
      @sherricason1548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Laugh at all the jealous Haters!

    • @chocolateangel8743
      @chocolateangel8743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This lady is curvy. She's fat -- but there isn't anything wrong with it -- unless it negatively impacts her health. The truth is that women (and some men) hate on her just because they wish they could be with her man. If she were petty, she could be dragging them on social media on a daily basis, but I don't get the sense she's into that.

  • @jennifermartinez5616
    @jennifermartinez5616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    THANK YOU for having this lovely woman on your show. And deepest love and gratitude to her bravery speaking up. I needed this boost right now and she miraculously appeared with words to help the healing! 💕❤♥️💜

  • @carolamoore72
    @carolamoore72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love that her husband loves her for her, and not for looks. She seems like she is so kind and sweet and a woman that truly loves her husband. I have always said, that people need to stop with the image and looks, and be with someone because of a good heart, great personality, loving Spirit. Man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart ❤️!

    • @tracyjohnson46
      @tracyjohnson46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why would you say not for her looks! Her husband may be with her because of her heart and looks! Just because a women is over weight doesn't mean she is not sexy or attractive!!!

    • @petrnovotny2253
      @petrnovotny2253 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nemůže se mu líbit, je to proti přírodě.

  • @Dee_nyce
    @Dee_nyce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I had a friend who was ample size and her husband was fit and loved her to death. Love has no size if you’re confident in yourself.

    • @chocolateangel8743
      @chocolateangel8743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well, it also depends if the person is attractive or not. Fat people can be ugly or attractive -- just like skinny people. I've met plenty of people who were fat but attractive and skinny but ugly. I think skinny but ugly people have it worse. There isn't really anything you can do to make up for an ugly face, but a fat person can lose weight.

    • @Dee_nyce
      @Dee_nyce ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chocolateangel8743 she is a beautiful person inside and out. They both are.

    • @sydneycbr
      @sydneycbr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Long as she keeps putting out, any port in a storm I say.

    • @Dee_nyce
      @Dee_nyce 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sydneycbr ignorant statement.

    • @sydneycbr
      @sydneycbr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Dee_nyce hey what else does she have to offer besides what’s between her fat legs? Down the road get health costs and lifestyle will drag him down.

  • @Brandy-jl2qo
    @Brandy-jl2qo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love is so beautiful when you find your person, regardless of size. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @kendralawson2213
    @kendralawson2213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Love Alicia and her content!!!! Oh and also the relationship her and her husband share!

  • @NiaMSnow
    @NiaMSnow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I adore her so much and I'm so happy she stood her ground! Inspires me a lot

  • @klgyal2010
    @klgyal2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The Lord said to Samuel, 'The Lord does not see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.' 1 Samuel 16:7

  • @naomihales8893
    @naomihales8893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    She’s a rockstar!!! And we all deserve a man who looks at us like her husband looks at her!

  • @bluaquarius8519
    @bluaquarius8519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Love Alicia and all her dedication to showing woman that you deserve happinesss, kindness and love no matter what size you are!! Kudos girl, I’m so proud of you!!

  • @gmarie598
    @gmarie598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im so glad she stood up for herself!!!

  • @clarissafelix9334
    @clarissafelix9334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Fabulous! What a lady, what a couple! Thank you Tamron for shining your light and joyously letting others share their light too! It's a bright world! I love it!

  • @clove8763
    @clove8763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Back in the day, I had a SNATCHED body, but I also had 0 confidence. No matter how great I looked on the outside, how I felt on the inside usually introduced me first...Kudos to this Beautiful couple for knowing the Power it is to Love yourself inside AND out! 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @annamc8228
      @annamc8228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said❤!

  • @stylebykatb.5661
    @stylebykatb.5661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent guest! She had something very valuable to say. Every BODY is beautiful because who we are is deeper than our dress size!

  • @theempowermentchannel4200
    @theempowermentchannel4200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sister, you are an inspiration. Your message of empowerment is beautiful. Thank you!!

  • @lifebreatheheartsoul5479
    @lifebreatheheartsoul5479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    oh my goodness!. this is so true. this story resonates with how my husband and i are with each other. We met when we both were extremely young and now were almost in our fifties, we still love each other so much, and we still only look forward to each other all day everyday.

  • @matronangl
    @matronangl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Alicia, you are amazing and truly changing lives!!!

  • @memaw3510
    @memaw3510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Girl they're jealous. You are beautiful Queen

    • @anonymousanon3674
      @anonymousanon3674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ericagrant8295
    @ericagrant8295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She is a beautiful woman, love her attitude in spirit ❤

  • @shanae9594
    @shanae9594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow! Love the message, thank you for this! She's beautiful!

  • @TheLovely990
    @TheLovely990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    These beautiful women, and build a body are getting cheated on, and this beautiful women has a loving husband.

  • @speaksfreely4119
    @speaksfreely4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Unfortunately social media has opened the door for judgemental weirdos and unwarranted opinions. At the end of the day people need to basically mind their own business. Carry on Queen!❤

  • @leelee185
    @leelee185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s amazing how mean and wicked people are when hidden behind a screen. Why be so mean to another person ?

    • @Kal-El207
      @Kal-El207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because she’s promoting an unhealthy lifestyle and y’all are cool with it.

    • @alexandercruz941
      @alexandercruz941 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Kal-El207 exactly where is the male equivalent to this???

  • @mattiec7072
    @mattiec7072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She’s my hero honestly my mom told me because I’m overweight I won’t be able to meet a good quality man this proves otherwise

    • @godschosen1213
      @godschosen1213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t believe that honey. Men love confidence as a big married woman who was never small😁 I know. I me we had a problem dating quality guys who loved me just the way I was. You are worthy God doesn’t make junk ❤️

    • @keshaestevan3623
      @keshaestevan3623 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re not healthy.

  • @Luckyduck82180
    @Luckyduck82180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I follow her on tik tok and she is so amazing and has a fantastic relationship with her husband. Haters back off ❤

    • @tboss3276
      @tboss3276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jesus loves you!😊❤️ so very much!

  • @kimberlybaynard1017
    @kimberlybaynard1017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SAD But True Statement. ♥️ You're Beautiful

  • @marizalou453
    @marizalou453 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video might have been a year ago but it’s the most amazing video I’ve seen and THANK YOU so much, Alicia and Scott for being you and loving each other fiercely and tenderly.
    I understand because my husband and I are you.
    ❤️🙏✌️

  • @alisonfranklin4494
    @alisonfranklin4494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People need to STOP that damn mess!!!!! We have the right to marry/choose any mate that we want!!! People we fall in love with comes in ALL SHAPES AND SIZES!!!!!!! They are damn jealous of you because they don’t have what you have!!! You keep going GIRL!!!! I love what you and your husband have. You can be a size 3 and full of Hell! That’s not who you are! You are a Queen and that’s how God made you! Hold your head up 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @niaedmonds3342
      @niaedmonds3342 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep and they are def in their feelings because that handsome picked her 🤣🤣

  • @annajames623
    @annajames623 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So proud of Alicia for the amazing message she shares! I've followed her for ages and I love the fun loving relationship her and Scott have too. They're a great example of a very loving marriage ❤️ Extra proud that they are Maritimers! 🇨🇦

  • @msross2323
    @msross2323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is so beautiful...Love you!!!

  • @domu9239
    @domu9239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When do we give strangers so much power over our lives?

    • @toospiritual1083
      @toospiritual1083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💯

    • @TreasureChest0806
      @TreasureChest0806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Social media

    • @edithputhy4948
      @edithputhy4948 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      bc humans are social animals and being ostracized meant certain death in the wilderness

  • @allisonhamilton1245
    @allisonhamilton1245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love her TikTok and Scott truly loves her. They are adorable

  • @erehistruth2356
    @erehistruth2356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Size does not matter and I am happy she found someone that loved her although she gained weight. Her husband proved that he genuinely loved her, however it doesn't appear that she is trying to lose the weight. She can still get healthier and her point will always have been proven.

  • @KPryor-vd8uj
    @KPryor-vd8uj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for speaking for US.😉

  • @creating1_c1999
    @creating1_c1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love Alicia! She's absolutely right!

  • @ChikiD
    @ChikiD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I follow them and looove their channel

  • @thelifeuchoose
    @thelifeuchoose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's not just her size that shocked folks. She's very "homely" looking. I know some 🔥plus sized chicks that slay!

    • @melissascholfield1162
      @melissascholfield1162 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree, that is what is shocking folks as well. People would still have something to say if she was a size 4 and homely looking.

  • @indianahoosier6367
    @indianahoosier6367 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember seeing this couple on TikTok & some of the comments people left her was beyond brutal.
    Scott is smoking hot without a doubt, but the unconditional love he has for Alicia makes him even hotter.
    Alicia, God bless you sis & may God allow you & Scott decades of happiness together !
    Tamron thank you so much for having this beautiful soul on your show !

  • @shonda1love
    @shonda1love 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love her!! She give me hope

  • @chakeloftin2828
    @chakeloftin2828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    They are such a cute couple

  • @marypurpura4692
    @marypurpura4692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love her!!!

  • @dimplesp4046
    @dimplesp4046 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good for her! Adorable couple ❤

  • @atashaterrelonge451
    @atashaterrelonge451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are a beautiful couple ❤

  • @DrMargaretSatyaRose
    @DrMargaretSatyaRose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    umm why wasn't the husband also interviewed?

  • @cynthiaholland13
    @cynthiaholland13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There's a lid for every pot. Idk why people are surprised

  • @sasilver1
    @sasilver1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She looks like a pleasant person to hang out with. Men want more than just “looks”

  • @vencebuchanan
    @vencebuchanan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She beautiful inside and out❤❤❤

    • @Kal-El207
      @Kal-El207 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @paulrodriguez8852
    @paulrodriguez8852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah I saw that tik Tok. I don't know? Why people can't find their own business? He loves her, and I think has known her since middle school. So he's known her since before she gained the weight. She's a very beautiful girl. If she wants to lose weight? She can? Not give in to the whim's of those schmucks.

  • @niaholder9168
    @niaholder9168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love is love
    Love has no size or shape or look ❤God bless your marriage beautiful couple period

  • @EHawk-nm9xk
    @EHawk-nm9xk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember her videos going viral. Girl, ppl are jealous. Continue being happy with yo husband and ignore the bullshit

  • @Laura-rg5hc
    @Laura-rg5hc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alicia is absolutely gorgeous.

  • @indakut
    @indakut 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow what a story

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am tired of this going to the gym is not a crime or a sin. Let's stop normalizing the unhealthiest. We losing too many people from preventative diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, high cholesterol, etc. Anybody who really loves you wants you healthy mind, body, and soul.

  • @lisaquarles8094
    @lisaquarles8094 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love her page!!

  • @terrywalker2437
    @terrywalker2437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think it is ridiculous to think something has to be wrong with her or him for them to be together. But normally we do see fit men with fit women. It's the norm to see Ken with Barbie, a famous athlete with a skinny pretty woman, a gorgeous actor with a gorgeous sexy woman. Even in high-school the jock dated the pretty cheerleader. It's difficult to fathom that not all people are shallow and there is so much more to a person than how he or she looks on the outside.

  • @lisahaskins3658
    @lisahaskins3658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Folks who have judged this woman are just jealous and wish that a man like that would treat them the way her husband respects, loves ❤️ and treats her. Nevermind senseless people like that
    God Bless You And Your Husand

  • @JamStarMom
    @JamStarMom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love them. ❤

  • @miyokudo
    @miyokudo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love them ❤❤❤

  • @darlahodges4720
    @darlahodges4720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is all she ever talks about. People don’t really care that much that she’s fat and he’s fit. She keeps using this same content and it’s boring and redundant.

  • @chocolateangel8743
    @chocolateangel8743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Many people equate being fat with being ugly and being fit with being attractive, but there are fat people who are attractive and fit people, who are ugly. It's really about a person's facial and body structure. Jennifer Hudson has been fat and slimmer, but she's always been attractive -- because she has a pretty face and a well-proportioned body. Even when she was fat, she didn't look that big to me. I later learned it's because she's 5'10" tall.

  • @cynthiaholland13
    @cynthiaholland13 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There are other forms of value then conventional physical attraction. As long as she's healthy and they can grow old together that's what counts

  • @Ashbash-kf5xd
    @Ashbash-kf5xd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t understand……. it’s such a foreign concept to me to judge other people’s love story by appearance when you haven’t walked them for yourself. They have the best love story, if people would just hear it.

  • @mickeyduck2927
    @mickeyduck2927 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Her husband is average

  • @cmagee8596
    @cmagee8596 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So very shallow!

  • @sherricason1548
    @sherricason1548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men in da Chi love them some Curvy Chicks! Work it Girl and laugh at all of the jealous Haters drinking that haterade!

  • @jeangarnham2557
    @jeangarnham2557 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love alicia

  • @bestkksser
    @bestkksser 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you are reading this there’s a reason…No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs ❤️🇧🇸🤞

  • @amourdiamond6910
    @amourdiamond6910 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @staceyphillips1585
    @staceyphillips1585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My uncle was this sexy black peace of hunk...and his wife was always oversized and they were married befor i waa born and im (42) up until 2015 when he passed away...but he loved her dirty draws...Lol...he took care of her when she started having med problems...i mean the list goes on and he sure didnt let noone talk to her any kind of way...even family members...he would be ready to fight anybody bout his...Anywhoo...Love has no size...color...shape...etc...Its just Love and you cant help who its with when its Real

  • @barb679
    @barb679 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not buying it... making a lot of money off the lie

  • @sabrinafoxxy
    @sabrinafoxxy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am obsessed with Alicia on tik tok!! They are so funny and she's just a cool fuckin chick 😘 yay Alicia!!! You deserve the World!! And everything in it 😉 (Scarface haha)
    Get it girl!!

  • @roter13
    @roter13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She is clearly pressed because if she wasn't she would not give those haters any of her time.

    • @edithputhy4948
      @edithputhy4948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ndeye Delgado if you have to tell everyone how unbothered you are, chances are you're really not that unbothered

    • @Kal-El207
      @Kal-El207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ndeye Delgado Passive aggressive anger.

  • @sydneycbr
    @sydneycbr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m sure lots of her parts clap when she moves

  • @bluepeter128
    @bluepeter128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Usually. A guy, who looks like him. If his with a plus size lady. He's in the closet its true....

    • @edithputhy4948
      @edithputhy4948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no, he clearly has a fat fetish, as a gay guy I wouldn't even touch Megan fox let alone a land whale

    • @niaedmonds3342
      @niaedmonds3342 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Prove it

  • @candacebutler7011
    @candacebutler7011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They are beautiful. People going to have their opinions but God has the last say.

  • @JourneyWithSpiritLLC
    @JourneyWithSpiritLLC 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @chatwat7832
    @chatwat7832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They have a business relationship just like 90 percent of people today. This is not real. Just to tell a story for us to look within.

    • @WhitNic898
      @WhitNic898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They've been together since like high school.

    • @niaedmonds3342
      @niaedmonds3342 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      why is it so hard for you all to believe a fit handsome man would take out a plus-size woman?

  • @ladyj5682
    @ladyj5682 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is he?
    Weight prejudice is becoming as bad as racist prejudice

  • @thehoneyeffect
    @thehoneyeffect 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im fat, almost every bf ive had has been gym toned/athletic. The eurocentric ideal of beauty is misogynistic, white supremacist and fatphobic.

    • @Kal-El207
      @Kal-El207 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every bf you’ve HAD not have. They just needed some easy wet wet and you were that. Bye.

  • @LadyK007
    @LadyK007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Many of us thought those things, let’s be real. 👀Kudos to her for setting us straight!

  • @vanessagreenlee5618
    @vanessagreenlee5618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It is not the first time that I see something like that.i don't know he could be gay,or he feels secure with an obese woman that won't cheat on him,if he has a slender woman.

    • @anonymousanon3674
      @anonymousanon3674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Obese is correct.

    • @agnesmafaesa2922
      @agnesmafaesa2922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think it might be true unconditional love .However as a therapist, I know people turn to go for people who have similar lifestyle habits.Not always but often.
      I started to wonder could the husband prefer bigger women because he has that opposite attract thing or did he have past bad experiences with women similar to him.
      I am not hating on her, I just wondered

    • @AshzxQuidYT
      @AshzxQuidYT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hung around a very handsome guy growing up and he always dated women that were less attractive then him. He did it for control. On the other hand I also had another friend who preferred heavy women he just loved them big, but they were always very pretty women.

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    @MyFavourites1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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