Just finished ranting on my WhatsApp status, where I bashed the notion of cheating, this is because a woman burnt a friend of mine to death this week and I'm pissed as to why that is the reaction. A friend sent me a link to this video. Really happy I found this video. Thank you Funmi
Just found your blog, so funny 😂 boy you can speak. I like your idea on cheating Iv been trying to explain this to my female friends for years, it’s difficult to get this point across. Next time I’m just going tell them to see this
Iyawo wa, ema pele! Awo le se! My beautiful Afro Queen, you're very intelligent... You were very articulate in explaining the various concepts concerning the Yoruba demon myth (I am a Yoruba Angel by the way). I really like your vlog and it really should have gone viral! Believe me though, when I tell you that the time is here and now and it is based on the individual for instance because... I feel belittled just to lay with any random lady... we have to connect at higher level cognitively... Take for instance, we have 24 hours in a day right? Okay, with that said, the average time for intimacy/intercourse lasts around 10-15 minutes... Let's even say one manages 1 hour. Okay, so tell me, what are we going to do for the next 23 hours? Stare at each other? Argue? The point being, we have to have to be able to connect at higher levels beyond intimacy/intercourse otherwise, we would become bored of each other really fast. Currently, I'm based in the diaspora, west, and I cannot wait to begin the transition back to Naija; Regardless of credentials/credentialing/qualifications, there seems to be an impenetrable glass ceiling over here, so you can only advance so far unlike in Naija where the sky's the limit and you are freer to pave your own destiny. I grew up in Naija as a child, but I have been away for around 3 decades so I would have to become reacquainted. Unlike most who complain about the infrastructure, lack of 24-7 electricity, etc, I bring basic solutions to a multitude of problems. I'd exodus to Naija to create jobs and rebuild rather than to wait for the government to give me a job. Unlike in the diaspora which is more structured on the governance level, almost anything goes in Naija and you have to build the foundation from ground up. Hence, it is a haven for the innovator or innovators to innovate and put Naija back on the map. I would have to pay a visit to Naija and look around to see what business venture is best to embark on, i.e., green/renewable energy, transportation/Keke, IT, hairdressing saloon, eatery, real estate for sure, industrial/materials company such as a distributor of brick and or plastics just to name a few prospects, etc. The possibilities are endless. I remain MGTOW for now, at least, until I take the trip back to Naija and settle down ;). ...The story of my life! Concerning the other story, "being around them (certain family/friends, etc)..." can triggers PTSD... this is real. When you are around someone or some people who don't necessarily value you or acknowledge you, it can make you feel neglected/bullied/downed. Once you are away from them, you can quickly see how your confidence grows, while away from the bullying/neglect, etc. This is very true indeed. The best thing is to avoid such people, but it isn't always easy because they are family, friends, coworkers, especially when you are only 19. The best thing is to find a cause... a hobby... something positive to do and/or keep you busy; not that you're ignoring the situation, but you are learning to grow and deal with it. Look in the mirror and repeat positive words/statements to bolster confidence. As you begin to advance in your career, you will have more avenues available to get away from the situation. However in the meantime, you can alway request professional help and/or advice, etc. Remain blessed.
Bullies finish last!!! The bullied who do not cave in evolve and grow stronger. I was in the thick of a football match in my balling days and i was being ruffed up by these two knuckle-Head central defenders, . one of them even did the dirty on me with a sneaky punch down in the groin. So I'm rolling on the floor in agony screaming REF!!! but Ref still didn't wanna know. . and my team was 2 goals down. Being the striker for my team, there was huge responsibility on me to deliver goals. Realising I wasn't gonna get any support from the referee, I first got angry then insecure. Them i heard my coach yell "Ifeanyi! stop focusing on their game, focus on yours! cos they are focusing on U!" I calmed down, unsettled them both(with some Maradona), scored and we drew the game. I loved the look on the two knuckle heads after the match.
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The first 12 minutes really blew me away!! Love it🤯😩💯🤎
Just finished ranting on my WhatsApp status, where I bashed the notion of cheating, this is because a woman burnt a friend of mine to death this week and I'm pissed as to why that is the reaction.
A friend sent me a link to this video. Really happy I found this video.
Thank you Funmi
Just found your blog, so funny 😂 boy you can speak. I like your idea on cheating Iv been trying to explain this to my female friends for years, it’s difficult to get this point across. Next time I’m just going tell them to see this
God bless you... for enlighten us..
Enlightening!
Iyawo wa, ema pele! Awo le se! My beautiful Afro Queen, you're very intelligent... You were very articulate in explaining the various concepts concerning the Yoruba demon myth (I am a Yoruba Angel by the way). I really like your vlog and it really should have gone viral! Believe me though, when I tell you that the time is here and now and it is based on the individual for instance because... I feel belittled just to lay with any random lady... we have to connect at higher level cognitively... Take for instance, we have 24 hours in a day right? Okay, with that said, the average time for intimacy/intercourse lasts around 10-15 minutes... Let's even say one manages 1 hour. Okay, so tell me, what are we going to do for the next 23 hours? Stare at each other? Argue? The point being, we have to have to be able to connect at higher levels beyond intimacy/intercourse otherwise, we would become bored of each other really fast.
Currently, I'm based in the diaspora, west, and I cannot wait to begin the transition back to Naija; Regardless of credentials/credentialing/qualifications, there seems to be an impenetrable glass ceiling over here, so you can only advance so far unlike in Naija where the sky's the limit and you are freer to pave your own destiny. I grew up in Naija as a child, but I have been away for around 3 decades so I would have to become reacquainted. Unlike most who complain about the infrastructure, lack of 24-7 electricity, etc, I bring basic solutions to a multitude of problems. I'd exodus to Naija to create jobs and rebuild rather than to wait for the government to give me a job. Unlike in the diaspora which is more structured on the governance level, almost anything goes in Naija and you have to build the foundation from ground up. Hence, it is a haven for the innovator or innovators to innovate and put Naija back on the map. I would have to pay a visit to Naija and look around to see what business venture is best to embark on, i.e., green/renewable energy, transportation/Keke, IT, hairdressing saloon, eatery, real estate for sure, industrial/materials company such as a distributor of brick and or plastics just to name a few prospects, etc. The possibilities are endless. I remain MGTOW for now, at least, until I take the trip back to Naija and settle down ;).
...The story of my life! Concerning the other story, "being around them (certain family/friends, etc)..." can triggers PTSD... this is real. When you are around someone or some people who don't necessarily value you or acknowledge you, it can make you feel neglected/bullied/downed. Once you are away from them, you can quickly see how your confidence grows, while away from the bullying/neglect, etc. This is very true indeed. The best thing is to avoid such people, but it isn't always easy because they are family, friends, coworkers, especially when you are only 19. The best thing is to find a cause... a hobby... something positive to do and/or keep you busy; not that you're ignoring the situation, but you are learning to grow and deal with it. Look in the mirror and repeat positive words/statements to bolster confidence. As you begin to advance in your career, you will have more avenues available to get away from the situation. However in the meantime, you can alway request professional help and/or advice, etc. Remain blessed.
Bullies finish last!!!
The bullied who do not cave in evolve and grow stronger.
I was in the thick of a football match in my balling days and i was being ruffed up by these two knuckle-Head central defenders, . one of them even did the dirty on me with a sneaky punch down in the groin. So I'm rolling on the floor in agony screaming REF!!! but Ref still didn't wanna know. . and my team was 2 goals down. Being the striker for my team, there was huge responsibility on me to deliver goals. Realising I wasn't gonna get any support from the referee, I first got angry then insecure. Them i heard my coach yell "Ifeanyi! stop focusing on their game, focus on yours! cos they are focusing on U!" I calmed down, unsettled them both(with some Maradona), scored and we drew the game. I loved the look on the two knuckle heads after the match.