Hi everyone! I know many of you appreciate knowing when I let go of one of my bags. So in this video, I explain why I decided to sell my Kelly, how I sold it, and what I’m doing with the money from the sale. I also answer the question of whether or not I’ll be buying another Kelly in a different color or size. Enjoy the video! xx
True. Although I declined the other Kelly offer pretty easily. So, I think in this case, I really believed I could make the bag work. I’m glad I tried and now I know, it’s just not for me. I think a lot of times people also keep items that they don’t use simply to retain the right to say they own it. That wasn’t enough reason for me.
I really appreciate your honesty about your whole “Kelly journey “. Why should you feel such stress over a bag. At the end of the day, it’s just a bag nothing of major importance.🤩🤩🤩
Aww see! That validates my decision to sell it! Because there are people like you who would absolutely enjoy and appreciate the bag more than me. I hope the new owner is happy. 😊
Hi Hannah! I really appreciate you sharing your journey with us. I think sometimes you just never know whether the bag is really suitable for you until you try it (like actually using it in various circumstances). In the end, it’s just a bag. You use it, you don’t like it, you rehome it. Nothing goes to waste (in my opinion 😆).
I find gray only looks good paired with silver hardware. Even though gold with gray is very fashionable, I don't like it and maybe that's what bothered you
Hi Hannah! I completely understand your decision to sell the Hermès Kelly 28. Your thoughts on the color and practicality really resonated with me. Sometimes it's best to let go of items that don't truly fit our style.
I've had similar dilemmas with midrange bags. I've totally realized now that I have to be absolutely honest with myself about what works for me and what doesn't, but it took more than a few mistakes and money lost to finally get it!
Thank you for your honest opinion. I have always thought Kelly is more user friendly than Birkin, but I am glad to see different perspective. I completely agree on the sellier vs retournè type. For me the B would turn out to be heavy to carry after few minutes, Kelly has the strap, however it is annoying when you have to open. That's why I don't own them anymore. I love that you tested the bag and come to your conclusion and made that decision. I also love that you're honest with yourself and have been able to rationalise the situation and sell it! Well done! 👏😻
Aw yes, it was definitely a good test and learn experience for me! I think the Kelly can work quite nicely for those who enjoy shoulder bags. I’ve learned that for me, it’s either crossbody or crook of the arm… never shoulder and certainly not in the 28 size with its trapezoid shape against my hip. 😂
I am a Kelly fan. I don’t like to hold the Birkin on my arms, more hassle than having the Kelly strap on my shoulder. If I need the strap to be longer, I can always purchase the longer length. Hence, i never bought any Birkin. The color is also on the undesirable part. It’s the fomo that usually make one purchase a bag for fear that you’ll never get offered again. I refused a lot of quota bags and only get what makes my heart happy. They’re just bags after all. 😊
I think you’re right about the Birkin - you really have to be in the mood for a hand carry or crook of the arm. That’s why most of my bags are crossbody bags with longer straps. The Kelly just fell into a weird category for me. And totally agree! No sense in buying what you don’t like! I’ve had no problem declining other items but I truly thought I needed to branch out and try other neutral colors but in the end, I learned there’s no sense in pushing myself outside of my style either! 😅
Thanks for sharing! I love your honest view. I just got my first Birkin pre-loved and started thinking about getting a Kelly. But tbh I don’t love the bag (which was the reason I decided on a Birkin). Thanks for reminding me I don’t need every bag from Hermes! 💕🥰
Thank you for sharing!! That’s so true that sometimes you have to try out to knowing it works for you or not and let it get out of our system. Great video as always ❤
It is really true that one has to love a handbag and use it. Not just because it is a quota bag which i found so many TH-camrs just die...ing for it regardless of the color offered. Yes i do agree Kelly 28 is consider quite a big bag for small frame. For me, i will never take a size 28 given that i am not tall at all and petite. It will be overwhelming like the bag is wearing me. Is good to even invest than to get a handbag sitting at your closet and you are not using it. Thanks for sharing 🤗
Thanks for the info on the Kelly. You’ve changed my opinion on the Kelly! I’m 5’7” so the strap would end up not being a bonus! Also, as suspected, the Birkin is so much practical to get in and out. Very good video! You’re right: 2 handles are so good. However, I actually really like a camera bag style for every day- so easy!
I sold my Hermes Evelyne PM III in Etain with rose gold hardware last year. I completely with you...color grey is a very challenging color to corodinate any outfit with, in my opinion. Best decision ever.
TFS Hanna! Definitely sell what you’re not loving.I absolutely love grey bags both with gold and with silver hardware. I am not a tan bag girl. My only one is a small puzzle bag in tan (but it’s a cool tan color) with silver hardware. I am waiting for either a Birkin 30 in a greyish or maybe etoupe, or a brightly colored k 25 in the retourne style as I like the smaller Kelly in a fun color and it needs to feel relaxed and casual. And as I am quite petite at 5’2” I can crossbody the Kelly. Color for me makes the difference between loving and using a bag and it sitting in my closet for sure! Do you think you would’ve loved it if it was in the gold color?
So interesting how color preferences are so personal and yes, I agree that color makes a huge difference! I do think I would’ve kept this Kelly 28 if it had been in a different color, but probably not gold. Since my Birkin is in the gold color, I didn’t want to repeat the same color. My mini Evelyne is also in the gold color btw. 😂 If the Kelly was black, I might’ve kept it but honestly I’m not sure the Kelly design is for me at the end of the day.
A very informative video; thank you! I wish Parisa Wang would offer the Medium Grace Flap Bag in other colors. I love the size, the leather the shape, … about it but would love to see it in other “neutral colors” (e.g., taupe, brown, black or even navy). As you said, I’m holding out til that is offered by them 😉. Be well! 🌷
Thanks for being so open about your thought process and experience with the Kelly! It’s really helpful to see that sometimes these bags that we put on pedestals are not what we think they will be (and sometimes we need to try to use them to find out). Hope you’re doing well! 🫶🏼
Absolutely! And I think if we’re going to put a bag on a pedestal at all, it needs to be even more useful and practical for us. Otherwise what are we holding it up on a pedestal for? 😂
I have a luxury bag collection but i don't own any Hermès bags. I wanted to try the style out so i bought a togo leather birkin style bag with no logos. It's very good quality and it also has a sholder strap you can add. (I realize birkins doesn't though) by owning that bag, it has made me realize i would use a birkin a lot. Definitely want a 25cm in a cool color with palladium hardware.
I’m so glad that I watched this because I was considering getting a Kelly but you pointed out the cons that it may drive me crazy!! LOL I woll stick with my Birkin! Thanks!!
Thanks for sharing your story-theae things are to expensive to sit in our closet if we do not love them! No need to tell us what you did with the proceeds from the sale-it is your money😘
Hello, I completely understand where you are coming from. I love the Hermès gold color, however I struggle so much pulling it off. I learned it the hard way that browns are not for me and I am at peace with that. Cool tone colors work best for me.
The two top handles make so much sense! I got the longchamp mini pouch because I wanted a brown x white combo and know I can't bother with keeping a big white bag clean, but the Neo XS is just better usability. In the same light I recently bought a celine belt bag in pico size but somehow, I'm drawn to my songmont mini (first version with flap), probably because of the 2 handles as well. Never thought about that!
4:09 This is my philosophy with all of my purchases. I’m not impulse buying these days. I’m very patient about what I want down to the right price. I will always wait
Love the detail you went into in this video and the fresh perspective offered! Would love to hear a video on how you were able to acquire your Hermes bags- did you have to “play the game” or did you maybe get lucky with a helpful SA that could get you what you were interested without having to spend a certain amount beforehand? Love all your content ❤
I’ve shared a few videos in the past answering all the questions related to my Hermes shopping experience. You can find them in my Hermes playlist. But in a nutshell, I was a relatively slow shopper with Hermes, meaning I bought only what I wanted in small increments over several years starting with jewelry in Paris and then moving on to other items. By the time I was offered my Birkin, I was still below the 1:1 spend ratio that everyone seems to talk about and then a year later I was offered the Kelly. I do believe my experience was based largely on having a good relationship with my SA but more importantly demonstrating that I truly am a fan of the brand itself, not just for the quota bags, and declining other items that didn’t fit my style - that went a long way, I believe. Also I’m based in NYC so generally there will be more inventory - then again, more competition from other clients as well. So I guess it’s all luck in the end? Hope that helps some.
When I sold my bag, I too popped it into an investment account. I let it ride for a bit and decided to use the dividends to buy my next handbag which was a fun challenge. It caused me to be patient and wait for something I really wanted while also allowing me time to decide if I really needed to buy that bag. I must have changed my mind ten times before I had enough to buy another bag without impacting my initial investment. In the end, I ended up using the money for a fantastic trip:) I guess I just had enough bags and wanted to more WOW moments from the experiences of travel instead?
Good call my friend! I have a gold Birkin 30 with gold hardware also and love it . I would not accept a darker grey bag either because it seems so specific and serious. Thank you for sharing your thoughts as I am considering a lighter taupe Kelly 25 😊
Great video! I completely agree with you! Sometimes you don’t know if a bag will work for you until you buy it and try it! I’ve had that happen quite a bit 😂 Great video ❤
Yes! And you know, I think the outfit we’re wearing at the time of purchase also matters! I was wearing something that went well with the gray at the time so it psyched me out. 😂
I sold my kelly retourne as its a bit hassle to open and close.then i need to fix the side also as i don't like the wing sticking out look on both sides.bought kelly sellier and i love it.i use it more than my birkin now.
that kelly did not stand a chance from the beginning. but I get it. trying to make it work because it was offered to you. I'm glad you finally realized it wasn't for you and you let it go. also how did I know you were going to invest it lol. thank you for setting a good example overall.
Completely disagree…but then again everyone’s lifestyle is different. Personally I’m a Kelly girl. However, Kelly 25 is the perfect size. Never been interested in the birkin because I have to have a shoulder strap, can’t stand having to hand hold a bag🤷🏻♀️
Absolutely, everyone has their own preferences. For me, when I want a strap, I’ll be reaching for my crossbody bags. The Kelly just wasn’t it for me. Glad you’re enjoying yours!
Did you feel the same about the Lady Dior? Or was it more about practicality/functionality with that one? I also agree about the "trapezoid" shape of the Kelly bag. I purchased the YSL Manhattan bag because it looks extremely similar and is rectangular instead.
Yes it was similar to my experience with the Lady Dior. I just didn’t feel like ME when I carried it and I felt I was trying too hard to convince myself to like it. I think the YSL Manhattan bag is a very good looking design. 👌
I know what you mean - on a similar but different brand. I bought the original Vuitton bumbag but talk about love / hate, that stupid flap kills me. I'm planning on selling it soon, I've finally decided that enough is enough. Too much money sitting on a shelf.
I had the same thought process of the kelly, love the look, but if the crossbody strap wasn't going to be long enough i wouldn't want it. And the top handle that hits your side when you open it Don't like sellier, as the stiffness also bothers me. Then someone pointed out the 24/24 and omg ticked more boxes. Retourne, small top handle of needed. Can convert the straps in many ways. And it fits more than the mini kelly! ? Maybe that might be more in your alley
Oh yes, I’ve seen the 24/24 many times. It looks very practical! Just not my style aesthetic wise but I appreciate how it looks on others. Enjoy yours!!
I was below the 1:1 spend ratio when I was offered the Birkin and then a year later was offered the Kelly. I had been a customer for many years though, just very picky about what I purchased so never reached 1:1. Hope that helps.
Hermes do not allow changing hardware btw. It’s true it’s so annoying that sometimes you need to own it in order to know that it’s not you and sometimes it can be an expensive mistake. I disagree the Kelly works well as shoulder bag with the strap. There are many things to love about the Kelly. It’s just not for you
It is a beautiful bag, but just as you said, it is not for you. So glad for you for being able to determine what works for you and what does not, and letting go of what does not.
I can’t agree more that handbags with 2 handles are so much more functional and easy to use than those with 1 handle. And i think trapezoid shape does not look good on most Asians. Our shoulders and bone width are not wide enough to balance the shape of the bag. I also think that palladium hardware goes so much better with Gris Mayer. Gris Meyer is a cool-toned color. And Hermes Palladium hardware is good. It not only makes the handbags look younger and more casual, it’s also more difficult to come by nowadays. most designer brands use gold hardware. Kelly in Gris Meyer was once my dream bag (in palladium hardware). But my love for it faded already. Probably because I have too many grey bags and Gris Meyer starts to look boring to me, as boring as black. If you like your Hermes bags in gold color so much, maybe you have warm skin undertone? But I remember you look nice in silver-colored jewellery. Is it because of your wardrobe is mainly warm undertone? To my experience, grey does not go well with beige. So, if you have a lot of beige/ brown m clothes, that maybe the reason why you don’t like Gris Meyer. Last but not least, I am happy for you that you let go of something which doesn’t spark joy. Out of sight out of mind. You will soon forget about it. It’s so wise that you are investing the money. This fact also shows that you are already at handbag peace, which is even a greater thing than making a profit from selling the bag!
Aw thank you!! You make all very valid points! I totally agree about the trapezoid shape not being flattering on smaller frames in particular, and I agree about the color combo with the gold hardware - didn’t work. I’m actually a cool toned person but for some reason I like warm toned bags! I think bc my clothes are all pretty neutral (white, black, etc) I like the warmth layer that the caramel brown bags add. I actually don’t like beige. It’s too yellow. Which is why I also sold my Chanel Classic flap in the beige Claire. Just didn’t work well for my skin tone. So odd, I guess we never truly know until we try. As for investing the money, I couldn’t think of anything else to do with it 😂 and my default is always to invest.
Actually, it’s the DGAZ insert I got for my Kelly which I repurposed and am now using for the Longchamp! Fits really well. I’ve provided a link and promo code in my description box above.
I have a kelly in Epsom, I wish I got it in togo. The leather of Epsom is too stiff.. so maybe it's time for me to let go and wait till I get offered another kelly in togo
It’s a Cartier watch that they no longer make. It was a wedding gift from my parents years ago. I don’t remember my wrist size off the top of my head but I did get several links removed.
I thought you might get another color in smaller size, but seems like you arent really into the Kelly ! Good decision to sell it though! I think it’s time for me to think about my bags too thanks for your video ❤
Absolutely, if it’s not a heck yes, then it’s a no. That’s usually my motto for shopping and many other decisions in life but I obviously didn’t stick to my motto when I purchased this Kelly! Hence, the predictable outcome. 🙈
If feel like people want Hermes bags just for the sake of it. If you like a birkin tote why do people insist on the birkin when you can get that style of bag anywhere. I notice that people that buy birkins and Kelly’s don’t have that shape of bag in their collection in another brand
Good point. A lot of it is hype and the fact that not everyone can own one, so it becomes a status symbol. In my case, I’m a handbag fanatic so having the crème de la crème of all handbags was quite an exciting notion. But… above that, the bag itself needs to work for me! In this case with the Kelly, it just wasn’t it. And there was no good reason for me to keep it other than just to be able to say I have one - which is stupid. 😂
I recognize you for your consistently negative comments! For YEARS, I have been selling or donating or giving away bags to subscribers once I discover they no longer work for me. You may blindly follow trends but I don’t. I don’t care what other “influencers” may be doing. I buy/sell/keep whatever I want. As you can see, not a single person has backed up your ridiculous comment. Most of my viewers who know me, know I don’t play games.
Hi everyone! I know many of you appreciate knowing when I let go of one of my bags. So in this video, I explain why I decided to sell my Kelly, how I sold it, and what I’m doing with the money from the sale. I also answer the question of whether or not I’ll be buying another Kelly in a different color or size. Enjoy the video! xx
A lot of people just buy it because they can. Not because they love it.
yeah people buy it because it cost so much! you have to love it lol
True. Although I declined the other Kelly offer pretty easily. So, I think in this case, I really believed I could make the bag work. I’m glad I tried and now I know, it’s just not for me. I think a lot of times people also keep items that they don’t use simply to retain the right to say they own it. That wasn’t enough reason for me.
I really appreciate your honesty about your whole “Kelly journey “.
Why should you feel such stress over a bag.
At the end of the day, it’s just a bag nothing of major importance.🤩🤩🤩
Totally agree, it’s just another bag.
that grey plus gold combination is super elegant, probably the best looking Hermes I have ever noticed...
Aww see! That validates my decision to sell it! Because there are people like you who would absolutely enjoy and appreciate the bag more than me. I hope the new owner is happy. 😊
I always thought that gray didn’t suit you. Thank you for honestly sharing with us!
I wish I could poll this community whenever I’m conflicted about a purchase! 😂 You’re right - the color was just not for me at all.
Hi Hannah! I really appreciate you sharing your journey with us. I think sometimes you just never know whether the bag is really suitable for you until you try it (like actually using it in various circumstances). In the end, it’s just a bag. You use it, you don’t like it, you rehome it. Nothing goes to waste (in my opinion 😆).
Totally!! Agree completely. I was curious, I tried it, it didn’t work. 😂 So off it went! 😊
I find gray only looks good paired with silver hardware. Even though gold with gray is very fashionable, I don't like it and maybe that's what bothered you
Yes I think that was part of the problem. But overall, I just didn’t love the color regardless.
Hi Hannah! I completely understand your decision to sell the Hermès Kelly 28. Your thoughts on the color and practicality really resonated with me. Sometimes it's best to let go of items that don't truly fit our style.
Yes absolutely! We all need to buy/keep what works best for us individually. Thank you! 😊
I've had similar dilemmas with midrange bags. I've totally realized now that I have to be absolutely honest with myself about what works for me and what doesn't, but it took more than a few mistakes and money lost to finally get it!
It’s a lot of trial and error but hopefully we can enjoy the process! 😊
You did the right thing! Somebody will love that Kelly as it is and you will find the perfect bag ! 😊
Yes! It makes me happy to know someone else will enjoy it. ❤
Thank you for your honest opinion. I have always thought Kelly is more user friendly than Birkin, but I am glad to see different perspective. I completely agree on the sellier vs retournè type. For me the B would turn out to be heavy to carry after few minutes, Kelly has the strap, however it is annoying when you have to open. That's why I don't own them anymore. I love that you tested the bag and come to your conclusion and made that decision. I also love that you're honest with yourself and have been able to rationalise the situation and sell it! Well done! 👏😻
Aw yes, it was definitely a good test and learn experience for me! I think the Kelly can work quite nicely for those who enjoy shoulder bags. I’ve learned that for me, it’s either crossbody or crook of the arm… never shoulder and certainly not in the 28 size with its trapezoid shape against my hip. 😂
I have a picotin I don't really use but keeping bc i love the colour Gold. I much prefer it to Grey too xx
I am a Kelly fan. I don’t like to hold the Birkin on my arms, more hassle than having the Kelly strap on my shoulder. If I need the strap to be longer, I can always purchase the longer length. Hence, i never bought any Birkin. The color is also on the undesirable part. It’s the fomo that usually make one purchase a bag for fear that you’ll never get offered again. I refused a lot of quota bags and only get what makes my heart happy. They’re just bags after all. 😊
I think you’re right about the Birkin - you really have to be in the mood for a hand carry or crook of the arm. That’s why most of my bags are crossbody bags with longer straps. The Kelly just fell into a weird category for me. And totally agree! No sense in buying what you don’t like! I’ve had no problem declining other items but I truly thought I needed to branch out and try other neutral colors but in the end, I learned there’s no sense in pushing myself outside of my style either! 😅
Appreciate your honesty and admire your practicality, as always!
Thank you! ❤
Thanks for sharing! I love your honest view. I just got my first Birkin pre-loved and started thinking about getting a Kelly. But tbh I don’t love the bag (which was the reason I decided on a Birkin). Thanks for reminding me I don’t need every bag from Hermes! 💕🥰
Thank you for sharing!! That’s so true that sometimes you have to try out to knowing it works for you or not and let it get out of our system. Great video as always ❤
An expensive trial run but totally worth it! 😉
I think my favorite part from all this is taking that money and investing it. 🥰👏🏽
Ah thank you! 😊 It’s probably a boring approach but most of my money decisions are quite ordinary. 😂
It is really true that one has to love a handbag and use it. Not just because it is a quota bag which i found so many TH-camrs just die...ing for it regardless of the color offered. Yes i do agree Kelly 28 is consider quite a big bag for small frame. For me, i will never take a size 28 given that i am not tall at all and petite. It will be overwhelming like the bag is wearing me. Is good to even invest than to get a handbag sitting at your closet and you are not using it. Thanks for sharing 🤗
Absolutely, a bag is a bag and it’s meant to be used. No point in having it sit around my closet looking all sad. 😂
Thanks for the info on the Kelly. You’ve changed my opinion on the Kelly! I’m 5’7” so the strap would end up not being a bonus! Also, as suspected, the Birkin is so much practical to get in and out.
Very good video!
You’re right: 2 handles are so good. However, I actually really like a camera bag style for every day- so easy!
Glad the video was helpful!
I sold my Hermes Evelyne PM III in Etain with rose gold hardware last year. I completely with you...color grey is a very challenging color to corodinate any outfit with, in my opinion. Best decision ever.
Glad I’m not the only one!
TFS Hanna! Definitely sell what you’re not loving.I absolutely love grey bags both with gold and with silver hardware. I am not a tan bag girl. My only one is a small puzzle bag in tan (but it’s a cool tan color) with silver hardware. I am waiting for either a Birkin 30 in a greyish or maybe etoupe, or a brightly colored k 25 in the retourne style as I like the smaller Kelly in a fun color and it needs to feel relaxed and casual. And as I am quite petite at 5’2” I can crossbody the Kelly. Color for me makes the difference between loving and using a bag and it sitting in my closet for sure! Do you think you would’ve loved it if it was in the gold color?
So interesting how color preferences are so personal and yes, I agree that color makes a huge difference! I do think I would’ve kept this Kelly 28 if it had been in a different color, but probably not gold. Since my Birkin is in the gold color, I didn’t want to repeat the same color. My mini Evelyne is also in the gold color btw. 😂 If the Kelly was black, I might’ve kept it but honestly I’m not sure the Kelly design is for me at the end of the day.
A very informative video; thank you! I wish Parisa Wang would offer the Medium Grace Flap Bag in other colors. I love the size, the leather the shape, … about it but would love to see it in other “neutral colors” (e.g., taupe, brown, black or even navy). As you said, I’m holding out til that is offered by them 😉. Be well! 🌷
So glad you enjoyed the video! Ah yes, Parisa Wang seems to release new colors seasonally so hopefully they’ll expand their color options!
Thanks for being so open about your thought process and experience with the Kelly! It’s really helpful to see that sometimes these bags that we put on pedestals are not what we think they will be (and sometimes we need to try to use them to find out). Hope you’re doing well! 🫶🏼
Absolutely! And I think if we’re going to put a bag on a pedestal at all, it needs to be even more useful and practical for us. Otherwise what are we holding it up on a pedestal for? 😂
I have a luxury bag collection but i don't own any Hermès bags. I wanted to try the style out so i bought a togo leather birkin style bag with no logos. It's very good quality and it also has a sholder strap you can add. (I realize birkins doesn't though) by owning that bag, it has made me realize i would use a birkin a lot. Definitely want a 25cm in a cool color with palladium hardware.
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I love gray bags but I always have issues styling them despite their being neutral. Had to let them all go eventually. ❤
Ah yes, I find gray is tricky to style as well!
I love the gold hardware but not on a grey bag, that grey is beautiful but needed silver tone hardware for my taste.
Same!
I’m so glad that I watched this because I was considering getting a Kelly but you pointed out the cons that it may drive me crazy!! LOL I woll stick with my Birkin! Thanks!!
Ohh glad you found the video to be helpful!!! Enjoy your Birkin! 😂
Thanks for sharing your story-theae things are to expensive to sit in our closet if we do not love them! No need to tell us what you did with the proceeds from the sale-it is your money😘
Thank you!
That birkin color combo looks wonderful with your skintone and jewlery choices! You have a good eye❤
Thank you!
I really appreciate your videos 🫶🏼
Love the left hand twisted ring too 😍
Thank you!
Hello, I completely understand where you are coming from. I love the Hermès gold color, however I struggle so much pulling it off. I learned it the hard way that browns are not for me and I am at peace with that. Cool tone colors work best for me.
Ah yes, so helpful once we know which colors work well - and like you said, warm vs cool tones.
The two top handles make so much sense! I got the longchamp mini pouch because I wanted a brown x white combo and know I can't bother with keeping a big white bag clean, but the Neo XS is just better usability. In the same light I recently bought a celine belt bag in pico size but somehow, I'm drawn to my songmont mini (first version with flap), probably because of the 2 handles as well. Never thought about that!
Right? The 2 top handles vs 1 top handle makes a big difference! 😅
4:09 This is my philosophy with all of my purchases. I’m not impulse buying these days. I’m very patient about what I want down to the right price. I will always wait
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Love the detail you went into in this video and the fresh perspective offered! Would love to hear a video on how you were able to acquire your Hermes bags- did you have to “play the game” or did you maybe get lucky with a helpful SA that could get you what you were interested without having to spend a certain amount beforehand? Love all your content ❤
I’ve shared a few videos in the past answering all the questions related to my Hermes shopping experience. You can find them in my Hermes playlist. But in a nutshell, I was a relatively slow shopper with Hermes, meaning I bought only what I wanted in small increments over several years starting with jewelry in Paris and then moving on to other items. By the time I was offered my Birkin, I was still below the 1:1 spend ratio that everyone seems to talk about and then a year later I was offered the Kelly. I do believe my experience was based largely on having a good relationship with my SA but more importantly demonstrating that I truly am a fan of the brand itself, not just for the quota bags, and declining other items that didn’t fit my style - that went a long way, I believe. Also I’m based in NYC so generally there will be more inventory - then again, more competition from other clients as well. So I guess it’s all luck in the end? Hope that helps some.
I’m satisfied I have Pantone Color of the Year in Basic classic cuts through 2020 - I’m definitely not shopping - for a long time
Such a W mindset about letting go of bags that do not actually spark joy in you anymore. Very Marie Kondo-esque. ♥️
Thank you!!
When I sold my bag, I too popped it into an investment account. I let it ride for a bit and decided to use the dividends to buy my next handbag which was a fun challenge. It caused me to be patient and wait for something I really wanted while also allowing me time to decide if I really needed to buy that bag. I must have changed my mind ten times before I had enough to buy another bag without impacting my initial investment. In the end, I ended up using the money for a fantastic trip:) I guess I just had enough bags and wanted to more WOW moments from the experiences of travel instead?
Love it! And I’m typing this response while traveling in Bali with my family at the moment! So I get what you mean!! ❤
@@hellocatwalkcity WOW, you cannot buy back this time with your family at this age in this magical place - time is a commodity. Enjoy!
Good call my friend! I have a gold Birkin 30 with gold hardware also and love it . I would not accept a darker grey bag either because it seems so specific and serious. Thank you for sharing your thoughts as I am considering a lighter taupe Kelly 25 😊
Specific and serious - that’s exactly how I felt about the gray color of the Kelly!! You totally get it.
Great video! I completely agree with you! Sometimes you don’t know if a bag will work for you until you buy it and try it! I’ve had that happen quite a bit 😂 Great video ❤
Yes! And you know, I think the outfit we’re wearing at the time of purchase also matters! I was wearing something that went well with the gray at the time so it psyched me out. 😂
Oh I wish I knew you were selling the Gris Meyer Kelly. It was exactly what I wanted and let my SA know. :(
I sold my kelly retourne as its a bit hassle to open and close.then i need to fix the side also as i don't like the wing sticking out look on both sides.bought kelly sellier and i love it.i use it more than my birkin now.
Glad you found the style that works best for you!
Do you regret declining the Rose Texas Kelly 25? Did you ever get another offer after that one? Thank you!
that kelly did not stand a chance from the beginning. but I get it. trying to make it work because it was offered to you. I'm glad you finally realized it wasn't for you and you let it go. also how did I know you were going to invest it lol. thank you for setting a good example overall.
Haha! I tried!
Completely disagree…but then again everyone’s lifestyle is different. Personally I’m a Kelly girl. However, Kelly 25 is the perfect size. Never been interested in the birkin because I have to have a shoulder strap, can’t stand having to hand hold a bag🤷🏻♀️
I used to think this until I got offered a Birkin the other week, it’s so easy to use! But of course to each their own. I do love both myself 🥹💜
Absolutely, everyone has their own preferences. For me, when I want a strap, I’ll be reaching for my crossbody bags. The Kelly just wasn’t it for me. Glad you’re enjoying yours!
@@yangkumaEnjoy your new Birkin!
Did you feel the same about the Lady Dior? Or was it more about practicality/functionality with that one?
I also agree about the "trapezoid" shape of the Kelly bag. I purchased the YSL Manhattan bag because it looks extremely similar and is rectangular instead.
Yes it was similar to my experience with the Lady Dior. I just didn’t feel like ME when I carried it and I felt I was trying too hard to convince myself to like it. I think the YSL Manhattan bag is a very good looking design. 👌
I know what you mean - on a similar but different brand. I bought the original Vuitton bumbag but talk about love / hate, that stupid flap kills me. I'm planning on selling it soon, I've finally decided that enough is enough. Too much money sitting on a shelf.
You’ll probably feel great after you let it go.
I had the same thought process of the kelly, love the look, but if the crossbody strap wasn't going to be long enough i wouldn't want it. And the top handle that hits your side when you open it
Don't like sellier, as the stiffness also bothers me.
Then someone pointed out the 24/24 and omg ticked more boxes.
Retourne, small top handle of needed. Can convert the straps in many ways. And it fits more than the mini kelly!
? Maybe that might be more in your alley
Oh yes, I’ve seen the 24/24 many times. It looks very practical! Just not my style aesthetic wise but I appreciate how it looks on others. Enjoy yours!!
Always appreciate your honesty in sharing, thank you! Did you have to buy like a 1:1 ratio to get your birkin and kelly in the store?
I was below the 1:1 spend ratio when I was offered the Birkin and then a year later was offered the Kelly. I had been a customer for many years though, just very picky about what I purchased so never reached 1:1. Hope that helps.
Hermes do not allow changing hardware btw. It’s true it’s so annoying that sometimes you need to own it in order to know that it’s not you and sometimes it can be an expensive mistake. I disagree the Kelly works well as shoulder bag with the strap. There are many things to love about the Kelly. It’s just not for you
Good to know. Either way, the bag just wasn’t for me!
I’m keeping my Everlane and Kors until the Pantone is done in three to six years on toasted coconut taupe and mint
It is a beautiful bag, but just as you said, it is not for you. So glad for you for being able to determine what works for you and what does not, and letting go of what does not.
Thank you Sandy~
I know I’m not a Kelly person. I love my birkin. The only Kelly I want is the mini Kelly and that’s all!
check out the new givenchy antigona its you in a bag!
Not you trying to convince me to buy another bag! 😂😅
@@hellocatwalkcity haha the 2024 model! I’m obsessed
I can’t agree more that handbags with 2 handles are so much more functional and easy to use than those with 1 handle. And i think trapezoid shape does not look good on most Asians. Our shoulders and bone width are not wide enough to balance the shape of the bag.
I also think that palladium hardware goes so much better with Gris Mayer. Gris Meyer is a cool-toned color. And Hermes Palladium hardware is good. It not only makes the handbags look younger and more casual, it’s also more difficult to come by nowadays. most designer brands use gold hardware.
Kelly in Gris Meyer was once my dream bag (in palladium hardware). But my love for it faded already. Probably because I have too many grey bags and Gris Meyer starts to look boring to me, as boring as black.
If you like your Hermes bags in gold color so much, maybe you have warm skin undertone? But I remember you look nice in silver-colored jewellery. Is it because of your wardrobe is mainly warm undertone?
To my experience, grey does not go well with beige. So, if you have a lot of beige/ brown m clothes, that maybe the reason why you don’t like Gris Meyer.
Last but not least, I am happy for you that you let go of something which doesn’t spark joy. Out of sight out of mind. You will soon forget about it.
It’s so wise that you are investing the money. This fact also shows that you are already at handbag peace, which is even a greater thing than making a profit from selling the bag!
Aw thank you!! You make all very valid points! I totally agree about the trapezoid shape not being flattering on smaller frames in particular, and I agree about the color combo with the gold hardware - didn’t work.
I’m actually a cool toned person but for some reason I like warm toned bags! I think bc my clothes are all pretty neutral (white, black, etc) I like the warmth layer that the caramel brown bags add.
I actually don’t like beige. It’s too yellow. Which is why I also sold my Chanel Classic flap in the beige Claire. Just didn’t work well for my skin tone.
So odd, I guess we never truly know until we try.
As for investing the money, I couldn’t think of anything else to do with it 😂 and my default is always to invest.
Side note, what watch are you wearing? It’s cute!!!
Thanks, it’s a Cartier discontinued model. It was a wedding gift from my parents years ago.
I loved your Kelly. The colour was right up my street 💜
Aww see!!! I knew someone would love it! Which is what made it so much easier for me to let it go. 😊
I totally understand- I am a Kelly girl- have 2 - and although I love the look of the Birkin, I know I will not ever buy one.
Where did you get the bag organizer for that brown straw Longchamp bag? Do you have the link?
Actually, it’s the DGAZ insert I got for my Kelly which I repurposed and am now using for the Longchamp! Fits really well. I’ve provided a link and promo code in my description box above.
Hi I also sold my Kelly …. Thought the strap was too delicate and the flap didn’t work out either strangely enough 🤷🏻♀️
I totally understand!
They would not change the hardware for you. The Hermes stamp is gold. They wouldn't put a silver hardware on the bodybof the bag.
I have a kelly in Epsom, I wish I got it in togo. The leather of Epsom is too stiff.. so maybe it's time for me to let go and wait till I get offered another kelly in togo
Yes the Togo is much softer than Epsom.
Which site do you use to sell? I may want to sell my leather handbag. I don't use it as often as I thought and I rather it go to a good home.
I share the details on how I sold this Kelly in the video.
Kelly 25 works much better than 28 imo especially crossbody
Thank you for the video! May I know what watch you are wearing and what is your wrist size?
It’s a Cartier watch that they no longer make. It was a wedding gift from my parents years ago. I don’t remember my wrist size off the top of my head but I did get several links removed.
You need is a Bolide(have zip) ，try．😊
I thought you might get another color in smaller size, but seems like you arent really into the Kelly ! Good decision to sell it though! I think it’s time for me to think about my bags too thanks for your video ❤
Definitely no more Kellys for me! 😂
Loved this video!! So interesting. ❤❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
I feel like even things that are not THAT expensive I now think twice before buying if I don't love it, just too much stuff in the house
Absolutely, if it’s not a heck yes, then it’s a no. That’s usually my motto for shopping and many other decisions in life but I obviously didn’t stick to my motto when I purchased this Kelly! Hence, the predictable outcome. 🙈
Great video
Glad you enjoyed it
Love your videos ❤
Thank you ❤
Hermes will not change the hardware color.
If feel like people want Hermes bags just for the sake of it. If you like a birkin tote why do people insist on the birkin when you can get that style of bag anywhere. I notice that people that buy birkins and Kelly’s don’t have that shape of bag in their collection in another brand
Good point. A lot of it is hype and the fact that not everyone can own one, so it becomes a status symbol. In my case, I’m a handbag fanatic so having the crème de la crème of all handbags was quite an exciting notion. But… above that, the bag itself needs to work for me! In this case with the Kelly, it just wasn’t it. And there was no good reason for me to keep it other than just to be able to say I have one - which is stupid. 😂
Looking at the pictures, I kind of think this kelly 28 is fake 😅
🤣 🤣 🤣 I would hope not. I bought it from the Madison Ave flagship boutique and shared footage of when I picked it up from my SA.
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Lol she just into the sell trend influencers doing at the moment who knows if she's really sell
I recognize you for your consistently negative comments! For YEARS, I have been selling or donating or giving away bags to subscribers once I discover they no longer work for me. You may blindly follow trends but I don’t. I don’t care what other “influencers” may be doing. I buy/sell/keep whatever I want. As you can see, not a single person has backed up your ridiculous comment. Most of my viewers who know me, know I don’t play games.
Thank you Hanna!!!! Good choice on deciding to let the Kelly go. She went to a good home!!! 🥹❤️👍🏼.
You are the best Elma!!! ❤
I love your birkin the color is great 🤎. If you have to talk yourself into a bag it’s not for you !
So true!!