BTT #13 - Are Tattoos on Women Red Flags?
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Not 'double standard' Its a DIFFERENT standard.
Shave that beard you ugly fuck and burn that sweater.
Entrepeneurs in Cars Look at the recent comments. A bunch of bitter tattooed cat ladies and the incel simps orbiting them just found this video and they are DESPERATE for attention.
@@How2MakeAGirlSquirt you are a fucking pussy.
My mates and i have tattoos (not near covered or close). Imo, depends on the location. I think tattoos can be great, especially if custom and done well. Yet i have honestly noticed women with a ton of visible tattoos are mentally unfit. Worse is that branding and cutting- that i don't get.
Tramp stamps, face, neck, bfs names, is an automatic NO.
High body count,mental illness, yeast infection, drug use, exhibitionist, shall I go on?
I am a woman, and cannot stand tattoos. Especially on women, to me the worst tattoo I see is the ones on the whole out thigh of a woman, and one the back near the ham strings. My dad told me that in guys brains when he sees a woman wit multiple tattoos it makes them think “ well if she is willing to get a lot of tattoos , what else is she willing to do”? That has always stuck with me.
the thing is, women with a lot of tattoos cant figure out why they are a red flag lol
You Aa Ds are a True Woman!!! Not those Disgusting marked cheapened women who dishonour their own bodies. I'm Happy to know There are still Some Good Wise Women out there such as Yourself.
I agree with you its total mutilation and its a sign of something not right in the head
I feel the same way!
As a a guy. They are disgusting 🤮. Not cool on women. Looks trashy.
In nyc, every other white girl has* tattoos 🤷♀️
I dated one myself, WORSE IDEA EVER
HAS tattoos ............poor grammar is a red flag
aww nooo a single mom with tats... awww nooo, avoid red alert sirens .flashing stop sign, run for the exit.
You do not understand how hard it is to find a decent looking girl in the millennial generation without multiple “bad” tattoos. Like trying to find a piece of hay in a needle stack 😂
There is plenty, maybe not in America but in Spain you find many.
Dream Catchers i am in fact in America lol
America is no place to raise children anyway
"For every prick that's on her skin, there's been one inside."
- Ramzpaul
When I see a tattoo it's like some kids got in there and drew on her with a magic marker.
lmao
Good
Hahaha so true
OMG starts at 4:25
Y'all are welcome.
Thank you
Yes.
I'm from Kensington and Chelsea, in London.
This is exactly what most Brits think of Americans.
Lots of blaaa!
I don't by the way.
However to me, in Europe generally speaking, we are not as conservative thinking.
And yet USA gave us Woodstock and "hippiedom"
Jim Morrison and free thinking people like that.
🇬🇧 🤝 🇺🇸
I only date women who have tattoos in the middle of their forehead. Thus I know exactly what I'm getting.
That's the funniest thing I've read all week
Gonorrhea
Bravo.
From a spiritual standpoint, I see tattoos as an act of rebellion against the way we are created, stating that some ink can improve the original design. I find it self-deprecating, pointing out to unresolved psychology and willingness to follow trends without regard to consequences. Plus, inks have heavy metals. In the end the inner and the outer are damaged in the process. That being said, everyone has a right to experiment and learn from it.
I 100% agree with this!
To the young fellow starting a job in London in July: if you’re uncomfortable and being weirded out after only three dates get out and cut her off. That she’s approached you and initiated the dating could mean she’s been watching you and seen a vulnerability that she can exploit, and she’s initiated because she wants control of the relationship. If she’s calling the shots in the dating, making the calls to meet and deciding when and where and what you’ll do, and you’re just saying yes and ok and going along, that’s a warning sign that she wants dominance. If she looks weird to you and the whole vibe is weird, that’s major alarm bells man, and a massive red flag, it’s only going to get a whole lot weirder. You need to put up firm boundaries. Be decisive and shut her out pronto. All the best. Kind regards from Australia. 🇦🇺
I got the impression the young lad might be a bit intimidated by her forwardness and her taking control. He keeps using weird but I think he was saying it because he may have been embarrassed to say intimidated. I think you are right, he should cut her off. If he is uncomfortable no harm in ending it, especially since it’s someone from work and he is going to be moving on to a new job
No man is intimidated by a woman. However, if he was raised by a single mother & taught fem behavior, he could be intimidated. But of course then he's not really a man, just a boy with woman behavioral tendencies taught by his single mother. He should cast the skank aside after a free dinner & BJ.
It can also mean she's prob needy, and he can also manipulate her with that if he wants to. Stop thinking solely with your ass.
I take it you have never had a woman ask you out on a date before. Maybe there's a reason, LOL.
MrsPoodle78 More than one actually, lol. Maybe you’re making baseless assumptions. Good luck. 🙂
I’ll never get any tattoos. But a lot of girls are into them now. I wear a lot of nice dresses and I wouldn’t want tattoos showing, I just think they look very harsh. I’m a woman, I don’t want to look tough lol.
Good on you fromNormandy 🇫🇷 I applaud you. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Never change darlin
lotta dudes are wearing nice dresses and panties these days .........pls judge
The last sentence is what a lot of women look over when they get tattoos. Tattoos make them look more tough/masculine.
I love your outlook, and agree wholeheartedly. It's good to not need to put so much work into being feminine, and reveling in that fact.
Yes I would say they are certainly a red flad especially excessive tatoos like a lot of them, I can already tell that that person does body modifications because of some deeper issues and there was not one single person who proved me wrong in that regard.
Few years ago, I read an article that various women would date a man with tattoos because he's seen as masculine and edgy.
However, they explained they would never settle down/marry the tattoo masculine man because they knew he would not stay committed nor help raise his own babies.
that is the stupidest shit ive ever heard... tattoos are jus an art form to express yourself, it doesnt mean you have commitment problems and old people need to grow up and realize that judging someone based on having tattoos is judging people for expressing themselves
I’ve always thought women with tattoos usually tend to be more promiscuous, into drugs, have mental issues like borderline personality disorder etc so seeing that in the first few seconds of meeting a woman it can be an instant read. Colored hair is an even bigger red flag. I don’t plan on ever getting any tattoos myself, I’ve just never been into it. It’s like spray painting your house or car.
Charlie Dallachie I totally agree mate I have 5 daughters and the one that’s gone out and had it all done has major issues. I feel sorry for the partners she meets as she is a total nightmare
WELL SAID! all true!
Fun fact: BPD has no factual or statistical ties to tattoos. Meaning: you likely have no understanding of mental health/illness, have some odd prejudice against tattoos, have some misogynistic issues, and use those 3 to just spew false information. Enjoy your virginity, you’ll be holding onto it for quite some time.
@@mikesuccess I have a question for you. In the video you posted, are you the overweight, middle aged, bald man who cannot play the guitar? Or the twelve year old trying to play the drums?
mikesuccess I smell an incel.
I think women who are heavily tatted or especially tatted in sexually suggestive places do that to attract tougher guys. A woman with tattooes gets hit on more by tough guys than "nice guys" and so she wants whatever man she's with to be able to handle situations where other guys are hitting on his woman. Just my speculation - seems like a strategy to keep weak men away from her.
Simple tattooes or hidden ones I think have less meaning or more individual meaning woman to woman.
Heard a similar theory about women that wear ridiculously high stiletto heels, it's to keep the shorter guys from hitting on her.
I found this truly interesting. Thank you.
That is what women with tattoos wrongly think. The more tattoos on their bodies the more they will attract Alpha men. The real thing is that Alphas are more attracted by very feminine sweet girls. If any Alpha has something to do with these tattooed girls is only to have intercourse and period. And then the Alpha will leave this chick. This is my point of view.
Yes. Agreed. The Truth Sometimes Hurts.
I hate any ink. Partly it's just that I hate the appearance of tattoos, and the idea of doing unnecessary irreversible damage to perfectly good skin. (Maybe not entirely irreversible - I suspect laser tattoo removal is going to be a booming business.) But I think also they have a high correlation with narcissism, and getting one says I don't care to consider whether my future partner might not like them, I want attention and validation from as many people as I can get it from. Also tattoos tend to correlate highly with promiscuity I suspect. Not always but generally a woman who screws a different guy every week is more likely to have them then one who saves something for a committed relationship. Where can you find women with no ink and no laundry list of prior sexual partners? Marriage material is rare these days.
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The only problem I have with screening out women with tattoos is the temptation to believe the one you find without them is a good one.
Robert Johnson .. not good, just better..
Carlos Munoz not better just boring
My experience is, I grow up in some of the poorest worst neighborhood's in Canada, the only people (women) that had tattoo's were prostitutes' and bikers chicks, now to be honest most very nice people, but their life's were complete messes, drugs, partying multiple kids from multiple men, a life full of bad choices, now its gone mainstream and everyone's got one, its fashionable trendy, but I believe the message is still the same, look at me, I'm low value, insecure, a mess, looking for validation, if in doubt go on social media, its full of (mostly white) women, looking for 1000's and beyond, of likes etc.. I see women into their 40's, at the gym all the time, tattooed up, taking selfies in the same poses different clothes everyday, to me its writing on the wall, take me home just not to your mother
Never met a woman that was tatted up and also wholesome.
Me neither. A woman with a single to mulitple tattoos has more issues than a fashion magazine. Red Flag Numero UNO.
And what exactly do you mean by "wholesome"?
mikesuccess it’s the incel again...
Jimmy the tatted up THOTs are brigading and you hurt their feelings lol
@@How2MakeAGirlSquirt Please define "THOT" and explain why you feel the need to capitalize every letter.
No girls had tattoos in the 80s/90s.
They want the world to know because they’re screaming to be seen to be “known, validated. “ mainly narcissistic women think and believe it’s all about them. The woman with the elephants on her body believes the world needs to know she loves elephants because the world knowing that is crucial. She is Self absorbed. Any woman Iknow that has tattoos the conversation is always about them. “ Poor me , look what I’ve been through, I struggle, me me me me me me. Look at me. “
Excellent post.
Gabriela, from a female perspective, what do you think of women with nipple piercings? especially when they purposely wear shirts so tight you can see she's pierced through her clothes?
@@KeepinItOneHunnnid
I realize you're not talking to me, but I would like to chime in, if that's okay with you.
Anyway, I don't really see anything wrong with women wearing tights clothes where one can see the shape of the nipples, not even if they are pierced. Personally, I don't see why these things would be problematic to anyone who isn't Bible-thumping Christian who basically believes that the sin of Eve made womens' bodies shameful.
@@technoloverish, please do chime in, I'm happy for the response. However my answer to that is, it's not the moral issue that raises the question in this case but one of said person's personality that led to this decision. If some body purposely does such a thing then surely there's a sexual attention-seeking character flaw that could lead to problems in relationships right?
yup.. you got it..
My stepsister is full of tattoos, most of them are about things she cares. She always had attention/attitude problems. Her house is a zoo every month a new animal, now she has a baby second one coming, she treats it like a tool to get attention on social media. Recently she told me she cheated on her husband, yeah poor guy.
Dude tell her husband....
Potential paternity fraud candidate.
@@rokor3578 I think he already knows.. He forgave her..
you8just jesus fucking christ🤯
@@ojosazules8828 one person cannot be used as a standard by which to wrongfully slut-shame others.
WHY TATTOOS ARE STUPID
I know that the idea that tattoos are stupid may come as a huge shock to many of you. Especially to those of you who have invested so much of your time and energy trying to be cool. Oh, how you’ve labored long and hard to come up with that tattoo idea that tells a story. A story of individualism and character. That tattoo that shows you don’t follow the crowd. That tattoo that shows the world how interesting you are. That tattoo that shouts to the world just how much self-confidence, self-respect and self-esteem you have. Ironically, it is these very reasons that tattoos are simply just a dumb idea. Here’s why.
“I just want to be different….like all my friends.”
First of all, if you’re looking at the tattoo epidemic as a way to express your individualism, then it is obvious to me that you don’t know the meaning of the word. How can you truly show any type of individualism by taking part in a movement that encompasses thousands, if not millions, of people? At this point, no matter how hard you try, you cannot get a tattoo that someone doesn’t already have. The idea that somehow scarring your flesh with some insipid symbol or demonic imagery will say to people you’re a free thinker is truly misguided. The issue lies with your own personal self-esteem. If you’re a person who feels a desire to tattoo himself, you’re one of two types of people. The first group is drawn to tattooing because of a lack of self-respect and a love for themselves and for who they are, which causes these feelings to manifest. “ If I had a cool tattoo, maybe then girls will notice me .” Or “ If I get a tattoo, guys will think I’m sexy .” Once the root of the action is realized as being that of a desperate ploy for attention due to not appreciating themselves for who they are, and that they are placing that needed feeling of acceptance in the hands of others, the true motivations become clear.
Another personality type is the person who thinks way too much of themselves. The idea that someone may not notice them is unacceptable. They’re awesome. A demi-god among us. This sad delusional state almost always manifests in over adornment. Be it tattoos, gold jewelry or outlandish silly outfits. However, all of this is just the wrapping to a package of arrogance, self-centeredness and an inflating feeling of self-importance commonly known as being a douchbag.
“I got this tattoo because it means something to me.”
Whether, it’s a memorial to a dead relative or friend, a shape or text that symbolizes something or a representation of life experience, these are the most saddest and most pretentious of all tattoos. It would seem from the stories told by tattoo enthusiasts that these types of people have trouble remembering the events of their life. Simply unable to remember who has died and what they’ve done in their lives without a visual reference. These types always seem to want to have the most painful and heart wrenching memories inscribed into their flesh. It’s never “ This is when I got my PHD.” Or “ This is when I started my own business.” It’s always “ This is to remind me that my mom died .” Or “ My dad use to beat me senseless and this toy was my only refuge from the abuse .” Please. You got that tattoo because it makes you feel like you have a story to tell and you desperately hope someone will ask you to tell it. Then you can appear all deep and introspective when in essence, you’re just desperate for attention. After all, with tattoos you can feel like you’re actually interesting. It’s easier to appear interesting than to actually be interesting.
“Forget you, man. You’re just a hater.”
Indeed. I hate looking around me and seeing what looks like the cast of a “Genghis Kahn” movie. I hate seeing people who are emotionally scarred and deeply disturbed being taken advantage of by yet another money making trend. But mostly, I hate seeing people thinking that their outward appearance can somehow make up for their lack of personality. I believe that most people who get tattooed today simply want acceptance and attention and, in their desperation, have had to resort to mutilating themselves. Tattoos are a cry for help. A Band-Aid on a deep seeded emotion and/or mental breakdown. I would suggest looking for a way to appreciate yourself as you are rather than trying to hide behind lame artwork and inane symbolism.
I so agree with this comment especially the one regarding people getting tatts for remembering people when in fact its just for free attention, validatiom and sympathies. I know a lot of people who have tatts from animals, loved ones who are dead and these people are literally mentally scarred or have some type of mental health.
I know someone who's animal has died and she literally said she forgot to get a tatt to comemorate him. Im like nah thats just for attention/coping mechanism to myself.
Another comment made at around the 16:45 mark is that tattoos are non-conformist. I disagree. These days, tattoos are actually a form of conformity disguised as non-conformity. People, especially women, tend to get tattooed because they see other women getting them. It is an attention-getting tool.
Truer words never typed.
I would say I’m upset people with the vile behaviour exist but then it helps me know to avoid them and makes my life easier... you’re the only one giving off red flags😳
Like poison dart frogs, they alert us to their danger.
Top answer!
Any tattoos on any human skin are red flags that they have an explicit taste of expressing themselves which I found often means they are unstable emotionally. Do yourself a favor and don't risk it.
"Self expression is bad" is what I took away from this. Good to know you're boring 👌
You literally have a playlist called “dumb useless women’s” I think you got some problems bro
Well at least I don't have to be afraid that you will hit on me
I must be emotionally unavailable because I ride my motorcycle and if she doesn’t want to ride “behind” there no riding “on’ I have the NFG, I got 7 tats, 2 piercings and yeah I’m 6’2” 202.4 in your pounds (but they’re all all on my back except for one on my upper left arm.) and 😎 IDGAF
So what about bedros keuilian
I have full sleeves down to my hand but I also run my own business and have had a pretty cool life in the music industry as a signed musician however i agree 100 percent on not dating women with an excessive amount of tattoos just continue moving gentlemen otherwise your in for a world of crazy that that will make your head spin in a New York minute.
I don’t understand your logic? You have tattoos and claim to be successful, but in the next breath claim women with tattoos are “crazy?” I can understand men without tattoos not liking tatted women, but it’s just hypocritical of you. Did it every occur to you that women get tattoos for the same reason men get tattoos? It’s just plain old sexism at this point
Marissa, why is he a hypocrite or sexist. I think what is being lost here is context. When it comes to a short term fling or just casual sex, having a tattoo doesn’t negatively affect a woman’s SMV. I would argue that it elevates it because she would seem like an easier target for mating. On the other hand, in the context of evaluating a woman for an LTR (long term relationship or marriage) it is most certainly a detractor. There are things that men can do without it affecting there SMV (sexual market value) and things women can do also that doesn’t detract from theirs. A man having tattoos doesn’t negatively affect his SMV because most women do not see what it’s signaling (bad boy, alpha, sexually liberal) as negative traits. On the other hand most men will see a tattoo on a woman and automatically knocks her SMV down a couple notches because these being a bad girl or sexually liberal (to other men) is not something that men like in women that they are in a LTR with. Conversely a woman can wear makeup and a man can’t. Is it sexist that this is the case? Men can’t wear makeup because most women would not be attracted to that as it feminizes him. It would lower his SMV. If a man wanted to do so he could still ignore this female preference and wear makeup to his own detriment in the dating market. These are mating preferences not sexism.
I’m a woman and about to get a tattoo. I watched many videos on people’s opinions and I have to say the guy in the blue shirt is so nice and respectful. Thank you so much for supporting and not assuming that women with tattoos are bad or damaged.
It's a class thing, tats on women usually signify lower class low rent values
@@duke9555 that is definitely not true. Tattoos are expensive! At least good ones are. I know many many people who are well off who have sleeves!
When has anyone met a woman with tattoos who wasn’t a walking red flag?
I love tattoos, but there is a limit
I've never met one that wasn't a skank and immoral. Think about it. Would a good woman put themselves through that if they didn't have mental problems? Very simple.
James Valt
Chicks that’ll ink up skin for life are not keepers
LoneWolf Ranger this whole ass comment is a red flag
Of course I have:)
In my expirience women with tattooes always have some kind of issue.Either something in her past she couldn't get over or some mental problems.
Avoid them gentlemen.
Right man. In my opinion, most women have tattoos because that is the mark their Alpha men left them. They were so in love with the bad guy that these women ended up tattooing their bodies in order to please their bad guys.
Tattoos used to be against the law in Oklahoma. It was considered self mutilation which is harm to your body. Im not too hip on tramp stamps myself. Pro Tip when I was in the penitentiary I asked a few of the old timers about thier tatts and everyone of them cautioned against them and said they wish they had never got them. They said as their age progressed they look worse and worse. I just dont find tatts and piercings other than ears, belly buttons, tits, n clits attractive on a female.
So are you saying that they should still be against the law? Also, it's technically equally self mutilating when done on a man. At any rate, I don't think that self mutilation should be criminalized as people ultimately have the right to do what they want with their own bodies. Plus, that law was mostly because of religious views against it.
Hey ask those questions! Then it is up to you as now your pointed in the right direction. You get what you want just you then you have fun.
I hate tattoos on females and I think you are up for a very traumatic relationship if you go out with one. To me and my experience tattoos come from childhood rebellion. That rebellion doesn’t stop through there entire life.. There’s nothing worse then seeing a woman caked in makeup. The natural look wins all day long.
Please look up tattoo history, you've got it completely wrong.
Makayla Serniotti Not in my circles I don’t. It’s what I have experienced in my life tattoo ladies seem to have deep rooted issues
I am in Malta, full of stunning-looking women (I go nuts for that dark, sultry Mediterranean look) and it bothers me to see so many of them with tattoos on their arms, back legs. It is getting to the point where it is odd to see a young hot woman who does not have one. I wonder how many of them will regret this later.
Likewise, the dark eyes, hair, olive skin... really does it for me, too.
Tom Burroughes so you like to fetishize woman yet bash them for doing what they want with THEIR BODY, disgusting
@@angelbaby5406Nothing fetish about this. Of course if people choose to put these marks all over their bodies, that is their choice. Like it is my choice to express an opinion about it.
The vast majority will regret them, a real high value man will not marry a damaged female or at least it's very rare. Just imagine a 40 or 50 year old woman with teenage tattoos, it's gross
@@Klacskalias Indeed: and as the guys said in the episode, tattoo removal is now a thing. The person "Angel Baby" claims that I am bashing people for doing what they want to their bodies. No, of course if people want to choose to do something, that is their right but crucially, that does not free them from being evaluated by others who find it ugly. If I make myself look a particular way, that is going to be commented upon. If I wear a T-shirt with an ugly message on it, people might take offence and avoid me, etc.
Tattoos are not an infallible guide about a person's psychology and of course, there is the old saying of not judging a book by its cover. Correlation and causation, etc, etc. But I think what tattoos often show is a sort of bandwagon fashion mentality, which often shows stunning lack of originality. There is too much of this in our culture today. In a way, it is a new kind of conformism. As I noted, it is now almost weird for people of a certain age not to have one.
I also dislike the colours often used; they clash with certain skin tones and look horrible.
A Beautiful woman with tattoos is like a tasteless man who puts bumper stickers all over his Lambo. written before your Farrarie comment. Great Minds
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A childhood friend of mine (who is a woman) works as a university professor, left wing, super smart but always having trouble and lots of drama in her relationships. She is loaded with tattoos.
Perhaps the issue here is not intelligence but psychological disposition.
Yes. There's your answer.
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I don't think tattoos or lack of tattoos means anything. My best friend from high school has lots of tattoos and has a nice house, good job, many cars, etc. His wife has tattoos and has a good wife to him for at least 10 years. I do agree in some cases it is a sign of a person being an attention seeker, etc.
Matthew Baumann I’m sorry, but until you have actually met your best friend now and know how he lives with his life, I don’t think you can speak for him. No offense the least.
@@fxxk3664 I met him in grade 1 and I still hang out with him.
Well tattoos also prevents you from doing certain things... Some countries will not grant you access if you have tattoos on...
In japan they will not let you in there bath houses and in some of their restaurants. You could be also be killed if you have a tattoo that happens to to be code for some mafia organizations or gangs in countries like Russia, some places Latin America and in Indonesia. Tattoos are a bad idea all around.
it probably means scarred and impulsive. I have one small tattoo and I was scarred too, needed to do the inner work to heal the emotional painbody. I can recommend breathwork meditation to do the healing work
👏👏the best comment here. I also had the impuls of getting a tatoo, but I didnt because I could see that will just come on moments of fear or pain. So I thought its better to not act on those emotions.
I agree many people are trying to heal energetic parts of their body throught tatoos. Its an impuls of wanting healing but throught the wrong way.
As you say breathwork and meditation its a better idea.
Dream Catchers thank you so much 😊 I fully agree! Very good u didn’t do it. You are loved and good enough, tattoo or no tattoo :D
Question for that lost part: what does it mean if alcohol doesn't change me that much? They say it lowers your inhibitions, but I just tend to get a little bit more giggly and tired. I do not become more social from alcohol. I might even become less social.
When I see tattoos on a man I think of someone with a sketchy past, a bit rebellious, danger and extreme.
Qualities that surprising work for men due to large numbers of women who are into the “Bad Boy” image.
But on women this is disastrous because no matter the man he will always want a good girl.
There you have it
Somali AHK yet there’s plenty of “good girls” with tattoos lol but okay
Years ago when I was on a high school coaching staff for a women's sport, something like this topic came up in conversation. One point of view that I offered was that at a most primitive level, one is compelled to find a mate and procreate. You may lessen your chances by changing something about yourself in this way. I also offered the point if view that something like this may be deeply personal and not for anyone else. Of course the last bit was to state that beauty (or other traits) comes from within... and how you behave. But you may be passed over automatically by potential mates by your outward appearance. You cant blame them, but it is just reality that some folks are turned off by tattoos so you cant be mad about that.
With my tattoos, I was able to attract a man who was also an artist and an intellectual, rather than a boring conformist who is absolute in his ways and unwilling to be open-minded.
Also I want to put out there I’m a massage therapist and almost every woman I have massaged has 2 or more tattoos lol gonna be a cold day in hell finding a women without them
How many did you lay pipe too ?
Look at the reactions from people with tattoo's. And the life story's why they have it, who cares? It's all about them. Huge red flag!
Excellent thank you 🤗
More Women should have them. My life may have turned out differently if they did.
When we were going through the break-up my soon-to-be ex-wife announced she intended getting a tattoo. I said "You do know it won't come off don't you?" and she blew up at me for being a patronising bastard.
A few days later she appeared in tears. I asked what was wrong and she said she'd had the tattoo done. "Yeah, but why the tears?" I continued.
And here it was...wait for it... "It won't come off".
So, are tatts a red flag?
That would be a big 'Yes', but it's a good thing, and the earlier and the more visibly they get them the better.
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If you had a lot of money to invest, and you walked into the financial institution to find the hedge fund manager had a floral script neck tat, visible hand/arm tats, how secure would you feel about investing your money? The remarks about women getting heavily tattooed having issues have been, in my experience, true. The worst, for me, are seeing brides who spend so much on an elegant wedding and wedding gown that is blotched by big garish tattoos. I totally think it’s a narcissistic advertisement that they do not respect their bodies. And if a person doesn’t respect their own body, how do they expect someone else to give them respect.
A woman with tattoos has an attention/validation problem that no man will ever solve, ever.
and when they get a chest tattoo and you pay attention you're creepy.
Well said!
@@treacletatts absolutely 100% correct. Any woman with a tattoo is damaged goods. Not feminine at all.
While I don't have many tattoos I know for a fact that I don't get them for attention. I personally hate attention.
i get tattoos not for attention and mens doenst solve it because it is for ourself 🤣 so whut
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"Sometimes a tattoo it's just a tattoo" - Sigmund Freud
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I am a 44 year old male. I have several tattoos and definitely regret some of them. I have always found women with tatts sexy as hell. But.....not so much anymore.
As for bright coloured hair its a bit tricky one but in nature bright colours are either to attract a mate or warn predators that your poisons so dont try and eat them.
.... It's most often the males that have bright colours in the animal kingdom?? So in my opinion guys need to color their hair more often. :((( How else are women supposed to be attracted?
Jokes aside, if a woman having bright colored hair is to "warn off predators" and you're intimidated... Then honey it's working just fine.
Dated a narcissist, crazy, masculine. Always in competition with you on small things, insecure etc !! And full of tattoos, im sure every breakup she gets new ones, she needs the numbing of the pain from tattoos instead of going to a therapist
Many tattoes is imo opinion a women markinh events in her life. Unfortunately they are often negative events that are now permanently markered on their bodies. The other reason is fashion, no really reason behind it just their friends did it so they followed suit.
All my tattoos celebrate positive things actually, but go off.
Yeah...how exactly does following a crowd or a generational trend = independence??? Can't seem to wrap my head around that hypocrisy.
@@MBVunderground tattoos have been around for millenia wtf have you been smoking?
Anyone remember “butterfly hunting” in the 90s? Find a girl with a butterfly or some other stamp on the small of their back in the club and she was an easier mark to go home with.
elrobbio1 Yawn. Predator.
Nicole P nothing I can say will change or influence your opinion even if it’s factual. Have fun name calling other ppl. All the best.
Excellent book. Well spent money
Hey Rich, how about making a Before the Trainwreck episode on sexual compatibility? Certainly not being on the same page in terms of kinks and freakishness has been a show stopper as well as a source of misery for many dudes out there.
Peace!
Red/Pink/green etc coloured hair along with large and or sleeve tattoos on a female are the biggest two flags you will ever come across. Im yet to find even an exception to this phenomenon.
treacle tatts tell me about it...
@@treacletatts can't wait for you to expose these fuckers 👀
I have a plate like that, she is a intersectional feminists too, when she brought up feminism I just said "I am not into politics", when she said "but if you believe men and women should be equal then you are a feminist" I just said "Sure I guess I am a feminist then" lol, she brought up the subject a few times and I just acted bored and unattentive, she does not bring it up anymore. I do love fucking her tho and in some way its kinda kinky that she just gives it up like she does, but have no idea what I really think lol, she has the perfect hot little body and is always clean shaven and smells great, best pussy ever.
"The first rule of Fight Club is: You do not talk about Fight Club." ;)
Look harder.
Body-art intersectionality - that's hilarious.
I think there's a huge difference between a well thought out tattoo and a shitty one.
They end up fading.. I found a rose tattoo on this man who has a hot sports car and a house. He has the rose tattoo coming from the back of his hand to his lower arm. It’s one nice thing to see, to be honest. But it’s still regrettable, it’s a mark. A decision made in a time that would pass.
Nope its all trash
No regerts
Tattoos are a cry for attention
I watch the Red Pill videos (RMG and so on), your videos some of the MGTOW guys. I don't know how much of my comment pertains to this video but I agree with mostly with the point of view that you have said Rich. Too much of this is really focused around "how can I get this chick" At what point do these people realize or ever realize that their efforts are really put in the wrong direction? Just do your thing, work on building a good life to whatever level of success you want and the rest will fall into place. Not get offended if you've been shot down by some random skank you get hot and bothered for. That's target practice like anything else in life. Business and all relationships function the same. In business make yourself needed by reputation and producing results and the customers will come to you. When they show up don't be thirsty. Pick and choose who and what you want to deal with as long as its worth your time. The rest can go elsewhere. "first you get the money, then you get the power, then you get whatever the fk you want period" on whatever level you choose to do it. We are all the masters of our reality. Just felt I needed to express that. Cheers From Montreal.
Women don't stick with a man when his "power" is gone...they are only there fo the good times....
@@balddate3142 trust my I know by experience.
I know by experience also...
I always dislike tatoos chicks as far as i can remember !
I have a feeling that chicks don’t like you period.
@@nicolep9493 why so mad?
Dark blade 7 why so late to the party?
outlawfly Um. Says the dweeb who’s replying to a comment made a year ago. Don’t YOU have some place to be?
"Hey can you hear me", 2 shots to the head.
Ex wife had a lot of tattoos. Almost as many as the amount of issues she had. Was young and dumb so overlooked them at first. Now I see. If only I’d found the red pill before all that. Fellas beware.
Saw and chatted with an incredibly beautiful girl on a dating app several years ago. Now I see her again and she’s all tatted up with tattoos on her chest. Heartbreaking.
I didn't want any more tattoos but having watched this I'm considering getting quite a few more lol
At least now you know it will keep the regressive, sexist tools away.
It's a scientific fact red ink has caused cancer so look out
@@RowanWarren78 it's not sexist lmao
The point of the video is that people who go to extremes or "alter" their body to such an extent, it seems a cry for attention.
@@Mistyk83fr6 It seems as though the point of this video, is to portray women (specifically) with tattoos as "damaged goods"; a very narrow minded view.
Thank you
What was the name of the university that did the study of tattoos being a sign of damaged?
“I have seen my share of tramp stamps! All viewed from the angle they were meant to be looked at! The rear entry position!” Terrance Popp of another MRA channel
I've heard every reason under the sun why people get tattoos.
As far as I am concerned, I look at it very simply:
Your skin is there to protect you. Don't fuck with it.
Its a vital body organ but tattoo cult-ure doesnt comprehend that...33 yr old student of natural law here
One tattoo, not a big deal if it's not skanky or a tramp stamp. More than one then I get an impression that I'm probably wasting my time and she's not someone I'll take seriously. She's wild, a little unsteady & flaky.
There's exceptions to this, but it's a trend I've noticed.
Self deprecation when it's obviously not true and obviously done with confidence and a little sarcasm is actually a power move. It works well for me.
The nicest people I have ever met has tattoos. I used to judge them too until I met friends with them. Good friends. The worse people I have ever met was the ones who claims they love Jesus or the ones that point fingers. I don’t have tattoos.
That's because the demons in the people with tattoos were playing you and 95-97% of so called Christians are not real Christians. A real Christian is a very rare person. I don't judge people with tattoos, I just tell them to get rid of the demons to save themselves. No one in their right mind would get addicted to painfully painting all over themselves like someone putting bumper stickers all over a Rolls Royce. The body is a temple, not a canvass.
patrisio3 my body is a temple. Mine. So no one can tell me how to decorate. No one pays my bills. No one is perfect or without sins. Not even you. The stupidest thing someone can do is think an ink on the arm fries brain cells or automatically makes someone a drug addict. Everyone has their taste. Some people do look good with tattoos. Some don’t. I personally like a good looking man with tattoos. Luckily today we have tattoos removal, it isn’t permanent
It’s depends the amount, location, the purpose, and when she got them. Neck and Thigh tattoos are red flags.
White Chocolate if she gets a tattoo after a breakup for a 5-year relationship with a guy she thought she was going to marry and have kids with, but instead he left her to go chase his goals and found the red pill, that would be an example of the timing of her tattoos being a red flag. If you met that girl and she had that tattoo, you would essentially know she has been alpha widowed/ damaged by this Alpha’s impact on her which is always working against you when meeting a new plate.
I don't have any tattoo.... just because they look dirty.
But I didn't realize men don't like them. Lol. Interesting.
Only if they're looking for easy pump and dump. To take seriously? No.
this is so gross.
Knew a coworker that asked a guy out once & he told her that he doesn’t date girls with tattoos..
“ Can you believe that “ she says to me..
Yep.. I wouldn’t either
I made that mistake once, regretted it very soon thereafter. I'm glad to be married now, and not have to worry about ever asking another woman, "Are you marked?" I understand it can be a minefield dating nowadays.
A red flag is when a woman refers to getting tattoos as "therapy"
Yeah they have this "need" to get one to "express themselves". Like it's a part of their identity.
TheMagache Why is it so wrong to feel that tattoos are a form of expression? Why is that indicative of an issue with a tattooed individual?
Tattoos are therapeutic for a lot of people, dude
@@TheMagache spoken like a guy that gets no pussy
TheMagache when you have to say that you get pussy in an argument you lose it instantly 😂
feminism, collectivism, tribalism, inner issues, abomination, trends followers etc
well women should get temporay or jagau or henna because if u regret permanet tattos i feel like temporay jaqau or henna are not perane they last 2-4 weeks so it can disappear
No. Women should get whatever they want 🤔
Are men judging people on their appearance and what they do with their own bodies a red flag?
Simp.
Surface level thinking will only get you so far my friend
It is.
Everybody judges. ◄--Period. Any person who thinks we live in a world where people will eventually stop judging others is deluded. Humans have judged others since the beginning of recorded history & will continue to judge others until the end of time. The human brain is designed to formulate & process. From birth to death you are judged & the best favor you can do yourself is operating on the higher plane of civilization. Pretending degeneracy is edgy & cool may win points @ the dirtbag party, but wont in society. Tattoos are the lower plane. And.. YES, I do judged imbeciles who permanently deface their own skin for attention & acceptance.
@@covertwasp5238 tattoos are an artform that cost a lot of money and there are many, many people who have and love tattoos that are no where near degenerates. And yeah, people judge, but people should be judging other on their actions and getting a tattoo doesn't hurt anybody. Stop pretending that you being a jerk is the height of intelligence. Dont bring some skewed view of ethics and use it a shield so that you cam just Male unfair assessments of people that you do not know. Judging someone on a small, harmless choice to get art on their skin is a lot more harsh than judging two guys with a large following for actively perpetuating unfair stigmas. You don't like tattoos? That's fine. It doesn't make people with tattoos any lesser than you.
They're displaying their individuality... by following the rest of the sheep.
It is all about following the toxic pop culture lifestyles and degeneracy
There's millions of ways to have tattoos and still be an individual
Of course we do... because every tattoo looks the Same and there is no possible way to get a completely unique tattoo
codyw1 k and not having a tattoo makes you a sheep too but a very boring one at that
And you’re following the rest of the uneducated, shallow men that have double standards. Hypocrite?
That doc is intentionally the devil's advocate.
31:13 for the tattoo portion.
So what would you say about guys having tattoos then ? I’m very confused why it’s bad for women to have tattoos but it’s acceptable for men ?
Go Hard In The Brown did you even listen to the podcast? They go over this in the first 10-15 min. Men and women are different and like most things, have different psychologists behind why they get tattoos. Those choices give a lot of insight into an individual's personality. However this is statistical and as such is only predictive not deterministic.
@@ferraridav still misogyny at its core
It's dumb on men too. Pointless permanent art
Chicks generally like tats on dudes because "bad boy." Lots of tats, piercings, unnatural hair colors; all red flag signs of women with deep seated issues, especially daddy issues.
Tattoos are a hell of a lot worse than a red flag.
If they have complete body tattoos that you couldn't see and you would have hired them off of their paper work of job application and then found out they had full body tattoos what you would fire them
I’m 50 and I don’t have any tattoos. Never saw the fascination. I have to agree and say I think they are ugly on women, and an over abundance of them , in my opinion, are indicative of deeper issues.
Not really true Laurie, sounds like you're the insecure one here.
Makayla Serniotti I disagree Laurie has it spot on. Deep issues
Laurie Duncan Pretty gross to make that sort of assumption. Your personally is ugly.
Nicole P. After 50 years you learn a thing or two. He said they look horrible on ladies and in his experience they have deeper issues. I have to completely agree with him because of my experiences.
Buddy's Insight Age does not always equal wisdom, friend. You can stop pointing the age factor out.
All women want attention.
If single moms are a red flag then a tattoo would be a yellow flag, not even in the same ball park of concern. Proceed with caution.
Connor Lox bruh youve always spoke facts or just in 2019?
tattoos are at least a red flag.
single moms aren't a red flag, they're a do not enter sign.
@@treacletatts You're too damaged and dim to realize that Connor was trying to cut your ilk a break. Why, I can't imagine.
THOT response. @@treacletatts
No, we don't want attention from people like you.
Life isn’t easy. Born as women we already have challenges just trying to survive in the Patriarchy.
It’s difficult to actually swim upstream and level up to a higher class and caliber of life.
Even people with college degrees find it difficult to get a career in their chosen field and end up having to get a job in service etc.
Why choose to make life and upward mobility even harder by getting a tat?
I’ve never understood it.
Also I know how men with accomplishments and monied and educated people regard women with tats.
Why instigate all the false assumptions and drama?
When womens legs have tats it’s a travesty and i can’t feel anything but sorry for them.
Whether tattoos are a red flag or not is something I cannot answer. The issue for me is that they make unattractive. The survey that the guest read from at the beginning was useless since it used the wording of "sometimes". And since millennials are too afraid of sounding judgmental, just asking them outright how they feel about tattoos on women is the wrong approach. You have to do an experiment that hides what you are really testing for.