y’all are missing the point of this comment 😭 he’s just saying it’s impressive that she can even speak 3 languages at all. regardless of that though maru is super intelligent and brings a lot to this podcast. it wouldn’t be the same without her ❤️
i felt christine when she started to choke up about being moved back in with her parents. it’s this constant internal battle where logically you know and want to believe that you don’t have to figure your entire life out right now and that things will fall into place the way they need to when they want to. but at the same time the older generations do apply a lot of pressure on us and society makes it seem like there’s deadlines for everything like you have to be graduated from college by 24 meeting the love of your life and getting married and staring a family by the time you’re 30 buying a house by the time you’re 30. it’s like it’s drilled into our brains. i’m 24 working wanting to go to school but still at home with my mom, sometimes i feel like i’m just completely failing as an adult
I feel the same way and i’m 19, I feel like it’s even more of a prominent thing when you come from an immigrant family that probably didn’t graduate high school or even go to school.
this made me tear up :(, knowing that other people go through these feelings and experiences makes me feel less terrified. i just turned 21 not too long ago but i just wanna say, you’re doing amazing. there’s no standard for how to be a “perfect adult”, that “perfect” standard is something we set within ourselves. we can mold and change that standard whenever, you are ITTTTTT. you are doing amazing. please believe that
yeah im 24 as well and i still live with my parents bc logically, it’s convenient. it’s the smart thing to do especially with paying off school debt, saving money, and for me im so close to work. im also not paying rent, just paying some electricity/water bills but imagine if i had my own place to pay rent for, like that’s so unnecessary when i’m still paying off debt. it’s hard bc i feel like im also falling behind compared to friends and just being an independent adult, but my living situation now is the most logical thing to do🤷🏻♀️
I'm 20 and I already feel the pressure of not contributing to my parents (I'm an uni student who likes/not full likes econ, yet I was born in a developing country and I truly want financial stability for my life) guys, what should I do ???????
This podcast really hit. Not that the others haven’t but this podcast made me realize that I’m going to be ok. My family have really been pressuring me about what I’m going to do with my life when I’m only 19. I’ve been busting my ass since I got out of high school and as the oldest child I think my parents haven’t realized that I can only take so much. My mental health has been really declining and I really felt it when Christine got uncomfortable with the topic of not liking being at home because I feel that way. I’m a college drop out but I’ve been working as a CNA for 7 months and I’m trying to go back to school but it’s not that simple because my parents aren’t gonna help me pay for my schooling and that’s has honestly been my biggest set back. Anyways thank you guys for honestly giving the best advice that you can it really helps us listeners a lot. Keep up the amazing work you guys are doing much love for each and everyone of you ❤
You’ll get through it girl❤I’m sure your hard work never goes unnoticed but if you really need to find some kind of time for yourself to focus on your mental health do not hesitate to put that first before work, school, family life, etc. i can also relate because I don’t even like to be home sometimes either for similar reasons as well. And I also am 18 in college and going to work but I try my best to throw in self care/me time because I notice it helps me a lot to de stress and rlly focus on me! If you can I’d recommend the same but none the less hang in there❤❤❤you got this and I’m sure you make your family so proud every time you take care of them❤
you got this girl. i’m in the same place rn. i’m trying to go back to school but i’m struggling financially. i feel so much pressure from my family and my friends bc they’re all doing great in school. i feel so behind and i hate thinking about the future. just remember that you’re not alone and you will get through this! 🥰
BRO FR. yeah she has some "blonde moments" but thats literally her charm. maru is smart as shit not just intellectually but also emotionally. we love you maruuuu ❤️❤️
You guys are THE most deserving people to gain a platform and voice. I tune in every week, and it honestly makes my week so much better. Thanks for being the best, all of u
normally I don't comment but the thing that nick and maru were talking about taking small steps to reach your goals really resonated with me. I really needed to hear that in this fast paced society that we live in. Thanks!
@1:24:10 this is why I just adore u guys n how open u r it’s clear that sm of us tend to feel like we aren’t where we r supposed to be , but theirs no such thing , ure exactly where u need to be , let’s all b kinder to ourselves . Sending u guys and anyone who sees this sm love 🙏🏽💕
1:30:26 this whole conversation was geuninley soo comforting like i needed to hear this fr. Especially that its coming from them is so awesome bc i really do look up to them, they were like our older brothers and sisters in this moment 😩❤
thank you for this :( especially with the majority of you having immigrant parents who want you to be successful is such a struggle because all we want is to thank our parents through success and education. covid college made me take a semester off and I’m so glad I did it. Everyone has their own pace and please don’t try to please society! Think about you!! also please make sure y’all vote if you see this.
thought this podcast was posted a month ago, i’m really glad i watched this. i’m a 17 year old, senior in hs and i have been so stressed and overwhelmed about my future. but hearing u guys talk abt careers and taking everything at your own pace literally made me cry. i feel wayyyy more at peace especially after hearing nick quote “when you realize you need to be doing something with your life, you’re fine.” that line gave me soooo much peace, literally tysm. idk if you’ll guys ever see this, but thank you and i feel way more confident abt going into college and stepping into the future :,) bless u guys
im still in high school but im worried about the college depression everyone talks about from not knowing what to do in their life. This podcast really comforted me because I feel as tho I need to have my life together right after college. I literally love this podcast
This podcast made my day, I’ve been lacking motivation when it comes to goals I’ve been wanting to pursue and this episode definitely helped me get my mental back on track. Motivation is great but I know that consistency and discipline are even more important to see those aspirations come to life. Appreciate you guys and look forward to being back next week!
This might be my favorite episode. I’m 21 and feel so lost and honestly with the success of the podcast I thought there was no way y’all felt the same. I love when you guys talk about deep stuff that so many of us can relate to and can find the comfort that we’re all figuring it out together ❤️ love this podcast so much, always wishing you guys the best
y’all really made me cry, I’m a high school junior and it just always stresses me out to think about my future and feeling like I have to have everything figured out and although I’m not alone through the process it still feels like it sometimes. but y’all really helped and this just made me realize that what my friends have been telling me is true because I see it in you guys, the growth y’all have had and seeing that overall y’all are okay makes me feel better when I think of the next few years
Ah I’m sending u sm loveee ,plz b kind 2 ure self and know that ure exactly where u need to b rn . N remember like u said everyone’s just pretending to have it all figured out ,it’s everyone’s 1st time at life ,uve got this 🙏🏽💕💕
what christine said about not wanting to think about our future actually makes me feel less lonely and kind of encouraging in a way. she just perfectly worded my thoughts on what i want to do for my future. it really stresses me out thinking about it and i have been postponing this for a few months now. thank you for sharing christine
I’m 27 and about to go back to school. Didn’t think I would even be going back but im realizing the jobs ive been working in sales, retail, healthcare etc arent fulfilling and the things I want to do in life would be a lot more reachable with even a 2 year degree. Its never too late ya’ll don’t think you have to have it all figured out by anytime. Trust me our parents didnt have shit figured out when they were our ages either.
i love how real you guys are. thank you for being so open about your struggles. i can’t explain how helpful it is to hear that someone else is going through a similar situation. y’all are the best
Listening to todays podcast really hit different this time. I’m in a spot where I constantly worry about what I’m doing with my major and how it’ll affect me post-graduation. I feel like I’ve been going in constant circles in my head, but Nick and Christine made me realize it’s okay not to have it figured out during college & even freshly out of college.
This is just a suggestion but I think you guys should put labeled sections or parts in your videos so that the audience can choose the topics they'd like to listen to specifically.
I feel the same way as Cynthia!! I feel like my parents put themselves through so much and they deserve for me to be successful. I owe it to them to accomplish all my goals. There is a lot of pressure but I am so grateful for my parents that I want to do everything I can for them
The ending conversation of this podcast was something I really needed to hear. I am a senior in high school and I am currently going through a tough time in deciding how I want my future to look like/what I want to do and am stressing that I am the only one in this position. I feel that I am behind my peers. I am so thankful to hear that I am not alone and that it is ok to not know everything right now. Thank you so much for making me feel better about this! Being happy should be the number one priority and taking care of ourselves and building ourselves up is a huge thing that I will takeaway from this. You guys are the older siblings I wish I had! ❤
to whoever needs to hear this, if you’re thinking about your future and how to get there you are already fine because most people already don’t think about that. if you have problems in life that means you’re progressing because that means you’re gonna find the solutions later. y’all got this 🖤
this podcast made me feel sm different emotions and i resonate with all of y’all in a way, especially when you guys were talking about feeling stuck in life and starting social media. y’all are everything
This has become one of my favorite podcasts. Yall are so funny but also give some really good advice! Like you guys talking about school and not knowing what to do in the future is exactly how i feel rn and hearing yall talk about it helped a lot. I've never been this confused and clueless about what i wanna do in life. So much of it resonates with me so thanks for this❤
I’m really glad I found this group of people that talk about these topics. This episode really hit me about going after what I want and I really appreciate you guys❤️👍🏼
hella related with Christine and felt so validating hearing someone have the same feelings about not wanting to feel the pressure at home because of the fear of not know what you’re going to do
I turned 18 in May of this year and I also graduated, I came to college and it's kinda harder than I thought. I want to keep trying and I know what I want to do but recently I've just been stuck in a loop of comparing myself to others and thinking about life and it has been so miserable. I feel like I'm my own worst enemy but this episode of the podcast opened my eyes so much. I also completely understand where Cynthia and Christine are coming from I'm the firstborn daughter of two immigrants but what Nick said about not comparing yourself to your parents and that thinking about what you're going to do and realizing that a certain way of life isn't gonna work for you (basically just wanting better for yourself and knowing what you don't like) really was what I've needed to hear for a very very very long time. I'm just like amazed. The love I have for Suburb Talks and Nick, Maru, Cynthia, Christine, Devin, and Sage is so like out of this world thank you guys for sharing your thoughts, experiences, and comfort with us, you guys give so much hope :)
I relate alot to what christine is going thru rn, finishing school and not knowing what’s the next step from here is so daunting. however, I keep trying to remind myself that being in our twenties is exactly the time to navigate down the thin line between what we want to do and what we need to do - we gain most of our experiences during these years so I’m just manifesting that it will all play out. we’ll be ok
When you guys started talking about being out of school & everything I just related so much cuz I’m 18 out of school & just feel so stressed & worried all the time about wtf I’m gonna do with my life but you guys have a point no one really has it figured out you just have to take it one day at a time thank you guys. I really enjoy watching ur videos it makes my day & I feel like you guys already have made it pretty far with all of this social media stuff & you guys will only go up from here love you guys don’t give up & keep on going !!!
as someone who has a year left of school, the future is definitely something that's been causing me a lot of stress lately. i could really relate to you guys on a lot. i come from a mexican household and neither of my parents ever got to go to college so they always emphasized the importance of an education. i chose to pursue an art degree which was against their wishes. it's a lot of pressure because now i feel like i have to prove myself to them? i'm only 21 yet it feels like i'm not as far along as everyone else. i try not to compare, but it's just a lot. so it really does help to hear others share similar experiences and feelings. thank you guys for your advice and your honesty, it's very comforting and i really needed it right now. much love
maru was right about Eminem being morre famous because he’s white. just not in the usual context of it. Hip Hop and Rap was created and targeted for black culture. And like Sage said back when Em hit the scene all the most popular hip hop artists were black. it was a tight knit community, almost like a closed practice (figuratively). Em was one of if not THE first white rappers to be accepted into the community and have his name up there. he was the minority underdog in that situation.
however i disagree with nicks take that claiming Em to be the best rapper could be taken as disrespectful because rap is such a a huge part of black culture. i’d say that most of the big named rappers would agree Em is one of the greatest. everyone’s entitled to their personal taste. but honestly it can’t be denied.
hearing that advice really resonated with me, I feel like I’m always comparing myself to my peers, especially since we’re in the same career path I’m just worried I won’t be successful or happy with my life after college
It's crazy how this podcast came out and I finally decided to go to school though I did drop out already lol but then I took a big test and past and now I have the part 2 and if I pass I have my dream job. Crazy how long it took for me to get here but I totally understand what you guys were saying. It's nice to hear it from you guys and as successful you all are in this industry and how different our world is becoming. If you want it eventually you will get it✨
Thank you for talking about not knowing what to do about your future. I was very worried about my future and it means a lot hearing you all say that it’s ok not to know.
i literally just clicked the video and i thought yall made nicks head big as a joke but then i was like damn that aint a zoomed in thats the real thing- 💀
Listener from PH 🇵🇭, always love to hear your perceptions and views in different topics and how you guys and us relate to it. lovin this, more podcast to come :))
you guys really make my day better. whenever i am having a bad week i come back to your guys channel and instantly feel better. keep doing what ur doing guys i really appreciate and look up to all of u!!
aye for the eminem section nick was SO on point and i was pleasantly surprised. i love the conversations yall have so much especially because yall are with the shits most of the time.
I completely understand Christine and the rest of you guys. This is definitely something I needed to hear so thank you! It’s nice to know I’m not alone.
“I can't keep doing life for other people” I felt that. I really felt like someone finally gets me. You guys really discussed/ captured how lost and scared how I've been feeling lately.
I’m only 18 almost 19 and I have so much pressure to provide for my family when I barely make enough to save and also have spending money. I have an older sister who’s 24 and I feel like I’m doing all the hard since I decided not to go to school right away and just because of that my mom things I can help out and pay for so many things but like I can’t I’m young and want to live my life with a great mindset and just being happy
ima be honest i was having another rought night where i was just thinking and regret and stuff but i was listening to this the whole time and it helped like i usually watch youtube because its my comfort zone and it really helps me just calm and just happy and you guys are really one of the channels that help so thank you so much im so happy i found you you guys are so deep and comforting while still being funny ok end of weird little spiel
As a former “play w/ peoples feelings” person I was bored and hurt and didn’t have enough self-love so I just liked the attention from a lot of girls and I would lead people on because I was also scared of my feelings. when I was close to catch feelings or I already got the girl attached, I would leave and do sumn self-destructive when I knew she did everything and liked me but idk . Some of us are actually scared, don’t have enough self-love, or are just stupid and bored that you try find things to distract yourself from the fact that you actually just need to fix yourself… it feels “fun” but then you realize later that you’re actually a shitty person
Maru you are not dumb, the fact that you speak three languages is already super impressive
She only fluent in English
@@kura5764 and Korean and still knows a good amount of Spanish since it was her first language
I don’t think language determines intelligence, coming from someone who speaks 3 languages
y’all are missing the point of this comment 😭 he’s just saying it’s impressive that she can even speak 3 languages at all. regardless of that though maru is super intelligent and brings a lot to this podcast. it wouldn’t be the same without her ❤️
@@sofiafrancine3810 @ me next time babe
you can always count on christine to pull out google when she needs answers😭😭
When in doubt know Christine will bring google out.
she just like me fr😭
are christine and cynthia related??
@@zoiefullwood3240 yeah
@@zoiefullwood3240 yeah siblings
i felt christine when she started to choke up about being moved back in with her parents. it’s this constant internal battle where logically you know and want to believe that you don’t have to figure your entire life out right now and that things will fall into place the way they need to when they want to. but at the same time the older generations do apply a lot of pressure on us and society makes it seem like there’s deadlines for everything like you have to be graduated from college by 24 meeting the love of your life and getting married and staring a family by the time you’re 30 buying a house by the time you’re 30. it’s like it’s drilled into our brains. i’m 24 working wanting to go to school but still at home with my mom, sometimes i feel like i’m just completely failing as an adult
I feel the same way and i’m 19, I feel like it’s even more of a prominent thing when you come from an immigrant family that probably didn’t graduate high school or even go to school.
this made me tear up :(, knowing that other people go through these feelings and experiences makes me feel less terrified. i just turned 21 not too long ago but i just wanna say, you’re doing amazing. there’s no standard for how to be a “perfect adult”, that “perfect” standard is something we set within ourselves. we can mold and change that standard whenever, you are ITTTTTT. you are doing amazing. please believe that
yeah im 24 as well and i still live with my parents bc logically, it’s convenient. it’s the smart thing to do especially with paying off school debt, saving money, and for me im so close to work. im also not paying rent, just paying some electricity/water bills but imagine if i had my own place to pay rent for, like that’s so unnecessary when i’m still paying off debt. it’s hard bc i feel like im also falling behind compared to friends and just being an independent adult, but my living situation now is the most logical thing to do🤷🏻♀️
I'm 20 and I already feel the pressure of not contributing to my parents (I'm an uni student who likes/not full likes econ, yet I was born in a developing country and I truly want financial stability for my life) guys, what should I do ???????
I’m 25 and felt the exaaaact same way. Do what you need to do for mental health and there is no time line!!!!!!
NICK I think the quote at 1:34:45 is “Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end.”
This podcast really hit. Not that the others haven’t but this podcast made me realize that I’m going to be ok. My family have really been pressuring me about what I’m going to do with my life when I’m only 19. I’ve been busting my ass since I got out of high school and as the oldest child I think my parents haven’t realized that I can only take so much. My mental health has been really declining and I really felt it when Christine got uncomfortable with the topic of not liking being at home because I feel that way. I’m a college drop out but I’ve been working as a CNA for 7 months and I’m trying to go back to school but it’s not that simple because my parents aren’t gonna help me pay for my schooling and that’s has honestly been my biggest set back. Anyways thank you guys for honestly giving the best advice that you can it really helps us listeners a lot. Keep up the amazing work you guys are doing much love for each and everyone of you ❤
You’ll get through it girl❤I’m sure your hard work never goes unnoticed but if you really need to find some kind of time for yourself to focus on your mental health do not hesitate to put that first before work, school, family life, etc. i can also relate because I don’t even like to be home sometimes either for similar reasons as well. And I also am 18 in college and going to work but I try my best to throw in self care/me time because I notice it helps me a lot to de stress and rlly focus on me! If you can I’d recommend the same but none the less hang in there❤❤❤you got this and I’m sure you make your family so proud every time you take care of them❤
you got this girl. i’m in the same place rn. i’m trying to go back to school but i’m struggling financially. i feel so much pressure from my family and my friends bc they’re all doing great in school. i feel so behind and i hate thinking about the future. just remember that you’re not alone and you will get through this! 🥰
this is the only podcast where i can watch the whole thing and not get bored
SO RELATABLE
I hate that Maru keeps having to reiterate that she’s not dumb. You are very smart and we love you maru❤️❤️❤️
She's not dumb, but she lacks some common knowledge. For example, she didn't know how to work a can opener.
Nah she dumb bro 🤣 straight up air head lol
@@theaarongarcia it’s not really common.. shit I don’t even know how to work a can opener
BRO FR. yeah she has some "blonde moments" but thats literally her charm. maru is smart as shit not just intellectually but also emotionally. we love you maruuuu ❤️❤️
The only reason why i look forward to mondays
Fr
YESS
and Bailey Sarian
Fr
literally
You guys are THE most deserving people to gain a platform and voice. I tune in every week, and it honestly makes my week so much better. Thanks for being the best, all of u
Host:
Sage and MARU
Devin and Cynthia
Nick and Christine
WHAT KILLS ME IS MARU PLAYING WITH THE SKELETONS AND LITERALLY NO ONE EVEN BLINKED AN EYE AT HER😭
YES I WAS DYING
They all do deserve this. But Devin is such a genuine person. It’s so relieving to see there’s good guys like him. A true man honestly.
normally I don't comment but the thing that nick and maru were talking about taking small steps to reach your goals really resonated with me. I really needed to hear that in this fast paced society that we live in. Thanks!
I love thé amount of chemistry between maru and nick
@1:24:10 this is why I just adore u guys n how open u r it’s clear that sm of us tend to feel like we aren’t where we r supposed to be , but theirs no such thing , ure exactly where u need to be , let’s all b kinder to ourselves . Sending u guys and anyone who sees this sm love 🙏🏽💕
I can’t help but die at the bit of the can opener and Mary being an NPC😭
Devin and Sage screaming at the same time that they aren’t short was so funny
no one peeped that maru put the skeletons on top of each other 1:07:30 she was so proud LMAO
dev “i think you got me high again” he’s so goofy
1:30:26 this whole conversation was geuninley soo comforting like i needed to hear this fr. Especially that its coming from them is so awesome bc i really do look up to them, they were like our older brothers and sisters in this moment 😩❤
thank you for this :( especially with the majority of you having immigrant parents who want you to be successful is such a struggle because all we want is to thank our parents through success and education. covid college made me take a semester off and I’m so glad I did it. Everyone has their own pace and please don’t try to please society! Think about you!! also please make sure y’all vote if you see this.
Christine is super relatable, I appreciated her talking about life after school
and people hate are her so much being her voice is blunt, i love her sm
thought this podcast was posted a month ago, i’m really glad i watched this. i’m a 17 year old, senior in hs and i have been so stressed and overwhelmed about my future. but hearing u guys talk abt careers and taking everything at your own pace literally made me cry. i feel wayyyy more at peace especially after hearing nick quote “when you realize you need to be doing something with your life, you’re fine.” that line gave me soooo much peace, literally tysm. idk if you’ll guys ever see this, but thank you and i feel way more confident abt going into college and stepping into the future :,) bless u guys
im still in high school but im worried about the college depression everyone talks about from not knowing what to do in their life. This podcast really comforted me because I feel as tho I need to have my life together right after college. I literally love this podcast
Maru had “worse” right when she said “it’s comparative”💯
devin gives off golden retriever energy
😂😂
This podcast made my day, I’ve been lacking motivation when it comes to goals I’ve been wanting to pursue and this episode definitely helped me get my mental back on track. Motivation is great but I know that consistency and discipline are even more important to see those aspirations come to life. Appreciate you guys and look forward to being back next week!
Nick at 39:50 quickly changing his facial expression after getting the look from Cynthia is killing me
This might be my favorite episode. I’m 21 and feel so lost and honestly with the success of the podcast I thought there was no way y’all felt the same. I love when you guys talk about deep stuff that so many of us can relate to and can find the comfort that we’re all figuring it out together ❤️ love this podcast so much, always wishing you guys the best
y’all really made me cry, I’m a high school junior and it just always stresses me out to think about my future and feeling like I have to have everything figured out and although I’m not alone through the process it still feels like it sometimes. but y’all really helped and this just made me realize that what my friends have been telling me is true because I see it in you guys, the growth y’all have had and seeing that overall y’all are okay makes me feel better when I think of the next few years
Ah I’m sending u sm loveee ,plz b kind 2 ure self and know that ure exactly where u need to b rn . N remember like u said everyone’s just pretending to have it all figured out ,it’s everyone’s 1st time at life ,uve got this 🙏🏽💕💕
The skeletons on the table always have me dead😭
what christine said about not wanting to think about our future actually makes me feel less lonely and kind of encouraging in a way. she just perfectly worded my thoughts on what i want to do for my future. it really stresses me out thinking about it and i have been postponing this for a few months now. thank you for sharing christine
I’m 27 and about to go back to school. Didn’t think I would even be going back but im realizing the jobs ive been working in sales, retail, healthcare etc arent fulfilling and the things I want to do in life would be a lot more reachable with even a 2 year degree. Its never too late ya’ll don’t think you have to have it all figured out by anytime. Trust me our parents didnt have shit figured out when they were our ages either.
Nicks laugh at 49:40 has me crying. I had to replay it a couple times. 😂😂
SAME i was caught off guard so bad 😂😂
He lost his breath for a second
sameee i’m crying but it was his asthma kicking in
He sound like the door stopper thing that makes the “boing” noise
@@SuperAwkward101 IM FUCKING DEAD LMFAOOOOO
thank you suburb talks for a 2 hour episode
No skips fr !
i love how real you guys are. thank you for being so open about your struggles. i can’t explain how helpful it is to hear that someone else is going through a similar situation. y’all are the best
Listening to todays podcast really hit different this time. I’m in a spot where I constantly worry about what I’m doing with my major and how it’ll affect me post-graduation. I feel like I’ve been going in constant circles in my head, but Nick and Christine made me realize it’s okay not to have it figured out during college & even freshly out of college.
Period thank you Christine and Devin for defending the Queen of Rap 😭
I didn’t see them defend lil Kim lol
@@Loola345 Not too much on my sis Nicki Minaj 😒 we all know Nicki Minaj is the Queen so…. That’s fine but you know you ….. watch your mouth.
This is just a suggestion but I think you guys should put labeled sections or parts in your videos so that the audience can choose the topics they'd like to listen to specifically.
I feel the same way as Cynthia!! I feel like my parents put themselves through so much and they deserve for me to be successful. I owe it to them to accomplish all my goals. There is a lot of pressure but I am so grateful for my parents that I want to do everything I can for them
Yes same!! I feel it happens more for people that come from immigrant parents.
They never fail to make my week, best Monday ever
The ending conversation of this podcast was something I really needed to hear. I am a senior in high school and I am currently going through a tough time in deciding how I want my future to look like/what I want to do and am stressing that I am the only one in this position. I feel that I am behind my peers. I am so thankful to hear that I am not alone and that it is ok to not know everything right now. Thank you so much for making me feel better about this! Being happy should be the number one priority and taking care of ourselves and building ourselves up is a huge thing that I will takeaway from this. You guys are the older siblings I wish I had! ❤
good talks on career motivation, it was raw, honest, and i'm sure resonated a lot with your younger viewers.
to whoever needs to hear this, if you’re thinking about your future and how to get there you are already fine because most people already don’t think about that. if you have problems in life that means you’re progressing because that means you’re gonna find the solutions later. y’all got this 🖤
this podcast made me feel sm different emotions and i resonate with all of y’all in a way, especially when you guys were talking about feeling stuck in life and starting social media. y’all are everything
YAYYY I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS PODCAST THE ENTIRE WEEK
you guys bring me so much happiness
the advice at the end was insanely needed and so helpful, as a first year i feel like im wasting my life but this hella put me into perspective
This has become one of my favorite podcasts. Yall are so funny but also give some really good advice! Like you guys talking about school and not knowing what to do in the future is exactly how i feel rn and hearing yall talk about it helped a lot. I've never been this confused and clueless about what i wanna do in life. So much of it resonates with me so thanks for this❤
Devin and sage sitting together and giggling always makes me laugh so hard!
8:46 LMFAOO NICK SMILING
9:22 maru is so cute 😭😭🫶🏼
I’m really glad I found this group of people that talk about these topics. This episode really hit me about going after what I want and I really appreciate you guys❤️👍🏼
hella related with Christine and felt so validating hearing someone have the same feelings about not wanting to feel the pressure at home because of the fear of not know what you’re going to do
I turned 18 in May of this year and I also graduated, I came to college and it's kinda harder than I thought. I want to keep trying and I know what I want to do but recently I've just been stuck in a loop of comparing myself to others and thinking about life and it has been so miserable. I feel like I'm my own worst enemy but this episode of the podcast opened my eyes so much. I also completely understand where Cynthia and Christine are coming from I'm the firstborn daughter of two immigrants but what Nick said about not comparing yourself to your parents and that thinking about what you're going to do and realizing that a certain way of life isn't gonna work for you (basically just wanting better for yourself and knowing what you don't like) really was what I've needed to hear for a very very very long time. I'm just like amazed. The love I have for Suburb Talks and Nick, Maru, Cynthia, Christine, Devin, and Sage is so like out of this world thank you guys for sharing your thoughts, experiences, and comfort with us, you guys give so much hope :)
My weekly dose of therapy😌
as a student athlete with a nursing major I appreciate the recognition and all of y'all
Loving cynthias energy here 🥲🖤🖤🖤🖤
I relate alot to what christine is going thru rn, finishing school and not knowing what’s the next step from here is so daunting. however, I keep trying to remind myself that being in our twenties is exactly the time to navigate down the thin line between what we want to do and what we need to do - we gain most of our experiences during these years so I’m just manifesting that it will all play out. we’ll be ok
You guys should bring up how many people are shipping Maru with everybody
next costume they should dress as the counterparts like Sage dresses as Maru and vice versa, Cynthia dresses as Devin, and Christine dresses as Nick
Yooo they did this on the newest episode that’s cool
@@ring._.taled._lemur time stamp?
@@RizzAdobo the newest episode they made. The girls dressed as the guys and the guys dressed as the girls
@@ring._.taled._lemur yea i watched it i dont remember them talkin bout it
@@RizzAdobo it’s when nick is doing the intro. I’m not sure it’s exactly how you said it but it’s the same concept
Nick trying his hardest to not admit that he’s the funny charming guy of the group ☠️
nick is never letting go of that push/pull joke 💀
When you guys started talking about being out of school & everything I just related so much cuz I’m 18 out of school & just feel so stressed & worried all the time about wtf I’m gonna do with my life but you guys have a point no one really has it figured out you just have to take it one day at a time thank you guys. I really enjoy watching ur videos it makes my day & I feel like you guys already have made it pretty far with all of this social media stuff & you guys will only go up from here love you guys don’t give up & keep on going !!!
nick and maru are such a good duo i love them so much
as someone who has a year left of school, the future is definitely something that's been causing me a lot of stress lately. i could really relate to you guys on a lot. i come from a mexican household and neither of my parents ever got to go to college so they always emphasized the importance of an education. i chose to pursue an art degree which was against their wishes. it's a lot of pressure because now i feel like i have to prove myself to them? i'm only 21 yet it feels like i'm not as far along as everyone else. i try not to compare, but it's just a lot. so it really does help to hear others share similar experiences and feelings. thank you guys for your advice and your honesty, it's very comforting and i really needed it right now. much love
1:07:27
*everyone talking*
me: only paying attention to maru arranging the skeletons
"WE ARE NOT SHORT"- Sage & Devin on that twin shit lmao
u guys are doing great! from a viewer a few years older than ya'll, keep up the amazing work! you're exactly where ya'll need to be in life ~
maru and the can opener 😭 she's so cute
I’ve been so sick for the last few days and I’ve been feeling so bad and seeing you post has made me being sick a little bit better.
same
ong why everyone sick rnnnn bc same asf 😭😭
maru was right about Eminem being morre famous because he’s white. just not in the usual context of it. Hip Hop and Rap was created and targeted for black culture. And like Sage said back when Em hit the scene all the most popular hip hop artists were black. it was a tight knit community, almost like a closed practice (figuratively). Em was one of if not THE first white rappers to be accepted into the community and have his name up there. he was the minority underdog in that situation.
however i disagree with nicks take that claiming Em to be the best rapper could be taken as disrespectful because rap is such a a huge part of black culture. i’d say that most of the big named rappers would agree Em is one of the greatest. everyone’s entitled to their personal taste. but honestly it can’t be denied.
BEYONCÉ IS NOT OVERRATED I WILL NOT ACCEPT SUCH SLANDER
Watching the group tryna keep Nick from absolutely bullying Maru
“All you guys are charming”
The guys: 😁😁😁
I love how deep this conversation got
i def needed a reminder about life toward the last bit of this podcast. a reminder that everyone’s path isn’t linear. keep moving at your own pace ❤️
hearing that advice really resonated with me, I feel like I’m always comparing myself to my peers, especially since we’re in the same career path I’m just worried I won’t be successful or happy with my life after college
It's crazy how this podcast came out and I finally decided to go to school though I did drop out already lol but then I took a big test and past and now I have the part 2 and if I pass I have my dream job. Crazy how long it took for me to get here but I totally understand what you guys were saying. It's nice to hear it from you guys and as successful you all are in this industry and how different our world is becoming. If you want it eventually you will get it✨
I had to choose between listening to my profs lecture and this. We all know what’s more important 😮💨
Thank you for talking about not knowing what to do about your future. I was very worried about my future and it means a lot hearing you all say that it’s ok not to know.
i literally just clicked the video and i thought yall made nicks head big as a joke but then i was like damn that aint a zoomed in thats the real thing- 💀
suburbtalks = comfort zone
I needed to hear the bits about not stressing about having your life together 😢. It made me feel better
Listener from PH 🇵🇭, always love to hear your perceptions and views in different topics and how you guys and us relate to it. lovin this, more podcast to come :))
39:50 LMAOOO WHAT HAS CYNTHIA DONE TO THIS MAN FOR HIM TO FLINCH LIKE THAT
Maru saying she's dumb but drops wisdom about growing up and finding comfort in success
@20:00 that was so well said Cynthia ! 💖 appreciate how aware an compassionate u guys Always r 💖
you guys really make my day better. whenever i am having a bad week i come back to your guys channel and instantly feel better. keep doing what ur doing guys i really appreciate and look up to all of u!!
Saying Carti isn’t overrated but Beyoncé is wilddd 😂
AYYYEE halloween episode finna be fire
aye for the eminem section nick was SO on point and i was pleasantly surprised. i love the conversations yall have so much especially because yall are with the shits most of the time.
not sage wanting to say the r word 😭😭 49:38
I completely understand Christine and the rest of you guys. This is definitely something I needed to hear so thank you! It’s nice to know I’m not alone.
“I can't keep doing life for other people” I felt that. I really felt like someone finally gets me. You guys really discussed/ captured how lost and scared how I've been feeling lately.
Thank you all for helping me through this shift 🖤
I’m only 18 almost 19 and I have so much pressure to provide for my family when I barely make enough to save and also have spending money. I have an older sister who’s 24 and I feel like I’m doing all the hard since I decided not to go to school right away and just because of that my mom things I can help out and pay for so many things but like I can’t I’m young and want to live my life with a great mindset and just being happy
ima be honest i was having another rought night where i was just thinking and regret and stuff but i was listening to this the whole time and it helped like i usually watch youtube because its my comfort zone and it really helps me just calm and just happy and you guys are really one of the channels that help so thank you so much im so happy i found you you guys are so deep and comforting while still being funny ok end of weird little spiel
Literally obsessed with y’all’s podcast frfr
I clicked with no hesitation 😂
As a former “play w/ peoples feelings” person I was bored and hurt and didn’t have enough self-love so I just liked the attention from a lot of girls and I would lead people on because I was also scared of my feelings. when I was close to catch feelings or I already got the girl attached, I would leave and do sumn self-destructive when I knew she did everything and liked me but idk . Some of us are actually scared, don’t have enough self-love, or are just stupid and bored that you try find things to distract yourself from the fact that you actually just need to fix yourself… it feels “fun” but then you realize later that you’re actually a shitty person
FIRSTTT always on top of the podcast 🥰
I absolutely love when the podcast comes out👏🏽👏🏽