Nothing but facts! I went no contact with a narc female friend after she almost killed us drinking and driving on Cinco de Mayo and still till this day she is desperately trying to hoover me back into her life. I looked on her Instagram and she posted she just need ONE WIN in her life and she'll be okay. I had a strong feeling that "win" was to destroy my life 😭💔
I peeped her game back in 2017… she would laugh at women for working while being on TH-cam live 2-4 hours a day and opening multi online shops. I’m like do these women not realize she’s also working !! Every single day
I noticed that too. She's cool but I'm like wait. If the family so paid you be out enjoying ya life. Coffee run, buy a little something something, lunch or dinner with friends.
@@amaj_lex her sister is the one that got the rich men and you don’t see her online bragging no where . Women that really live that life are rarely on social media
I always wondered why her 'kept' self is always on TH-cam begging for Cash apps and selling trinkets. Remember: everything on the Internet is NOT what it seems.
I started out listening to you 6 yrs and 5 mths ago. As I was feeling stronger I started adding other content creaters. There were days I couldn't think eat or even wanted to live. The only time I could concentrate was when I would watch and listen to you walking around New York. My whole life had been filled with narcs but thanks to you I know them when I see them. I almost died behind him but I am living because of you. I smlie laugh and hope. I am on disability now but my brain has healed enough for me to go back to school and get my GED. One last test (math🙄) and its mine. I've lost 53 pds love and trust myself. I am crying right now because I never EVER thought I'd get here. Thank you lady⚘️
Awww God bless you ❤ my testimony sounds the same way. I was so hurt and confused by the covert and overt hatred from close ones. The truth and God's holy spirit will set us free and make us whole.
@@dreamyk8461Separation is STILL married. Stop defending side chick behavior. And Shera wasn’t his only side chick. He had several. Shera knew he was a piece of shit and still married him. Crazy how her followers think she has discernment when she married a loser 😂😂😂
But he didn't want to be with his wife even before Shera came along, it's not like she swooped in and stole him and broke up some happy home. The chapter was closing when she got there and James went on to divorce and re marry.
Knew about her back in 2015. She was known to post things about many spells in order to keep a man and spells on how to keep him under control. Not surprised after I saw her on TH-cam saying, "Sprinkle, Sprinkle," years later. Crazy how I would see this long after I left that world behind. She and her followers are something else.
Same bed for a miserable marriage is truth. My narc parents. Narc dad and enabler mom. Dad snores but when you really get into it they ain’t never in the same room watching tv or eating dinner. Then go to bed separately. Roommates for sure and miserable bangmaid mom. Me single and learned about narc abuse early on. Your page has helped me a lot thank you.
Her followers share her mindset which is why they go so hard for her. But just like you said, you reap what you sow. I don't know how these women think they can have a good relationship if they start it off with manipulation. It's ridiculous. I think these are the kind of women corrupting the few good men that's left and it's really sad. Thank you so much for constantly exposing these demons out here sis. ❤
Look, this is my opinion and my opinion only. I think very wealthy men can be very dangerous and abusive, not all. But this reckless abandonment of going after man for his money in this time, in age, it's dangerous.😢
The biggest fail was the Trophy Wife trying to destiny swap with Shera. You can’t mimic another woman life without accepting the dark side of that person life as well. It’s 2024, get your own money, if you deal with a man by chance he needs to come morally correct! You experience spiritual bankruptcy trying to be someone else. That was the problem!!!
YOU'RE NEVER GONNA WIN WITH A NARCISSIST I WAS MARRIED TO A NARCISSIST I HAD A SITUATIONSHIP WITH ONE & I HAD A SO - CALLED FRIEND WHO WAS/IS A NARCISSIST & I DISCARDED ALL 3 OF THEM
Ladies, if you’re reading this comment,… these old men are not dumb. They been here longer than us. You will not play or trick them unless they are into that. everything will be transactional. They will want something in return. They respect women more that have their own money 💰 I was treated like a child listening to these online gurus saying that men love when a woman is submissive and dependent on their man .
First off you’re so beautiful what is there to be jealous of? People are just nasty. I can confirm and say that listening to her in 2018 led me down a dark path. Those women think it’s just as simple as manipulating but when you’re behind closed doors with these men, you don’t know how dangerous they are whether that’s psychologically or physically. I believe the women are lieing about not sleeping with the men like Shera says. I don’t think they are getting away with playing these games in this economy especially today. They are just selling a lifestyle that’s mixed in with prostitution as Shera said “I don’t do the 90 day rule, I do the $5k rule”. She literally has a video talking about not wanting to work because she’s lazy. Also has videos saying that men don’t desire super ambitious women which incentivizes women to do the bare minimum and focus on finessing men. It’s not realistic and nothing in life is a linear perfect plan.
Shera has openly talked about worshipping Lilith. Lilith pretends to care about women and women's rights, but you learn eventually she hates women and children. Shera is Lilith in human form. Vile.
I followed Sheras advice in 2019 and was financially abused by a man 24 years older than me after I moved in with him. I followed the blueprint and it went wrong for me… I was cheated on, he came home late, I was talked down to and I wasn’t getting the money Shera said I was supposed to get from the old man 💰 he would complain if I asked for $20.
I've often scrolled onto your content I don't always agree with what you say, but this whole videos your where spitting facts. If you are in a relationship where you feel u need to manipulate, get out fast.
Tbh I looked at shera and almost followed her stories after having a tough time with men.but I felt very toxic doing so and decided it’s not good to be an actor .She recommends pretending to be happy when you can control your own happiness and your happiness don’t depend on men
Even as a hoodoo practitioner personally, the shit she practices is scary. I remember coming across videos of her spellwork and craft while doing research years ago and safe to say I was disgusted. My work has to do with the remembrance of my ancestors and personal protection. I’m good with self love, tyvm.
@@renny504 😂 Nobody can tell you about your practice but yourself. My rootwork is definitionally hoodoo, and I don’t need to do the manipulative shit Shera does for it to be so. Be well.
selah! thanks for exposing it! i wanna see her do a real shopping spree not from the fans and i wanna see a vacay thats a fact! cos to me it’s giving high ranking eastern star leading a new age agenda like Kevin samuel’s
@@michelleafrancis she doesn’t even travel. She can’t use her kids as an excuse bc they’re older now. She using her money to help James with them bills.
We gotta start calling shit what it is. I feel those type of Men are Predators too. When They're old enough to be Your Daddy. I use to follow Her advice like 7 years ago. But, it's like a Pimp and Hoe dynamic. Because He's a Father Figure. And since They're Married, Her money is His too. So He's benefiting too. She probably makes way more money than Him now.
Shera’s message is dangerous and her followers are mostly young women that are falling for that mess. It’s like a cult of naive and gullible young women. My younger sister was listening to her and called herself going after an older man for money. That man was telling my sister to go buy things on her credit card and he would pay the bill. Long story short, a few months later all those payments came back as fraud and now my sister has $80k worth of debt cause she thought she was living the sprinkle sprinkle life but really she was getting used and played. These older men prey on these naive and less experienced younger women. Also, men are not the same as they were 20 years ago when Shera met her husband. Shera was the other woman while James was married to his first wife. She’s also very manipulative so James know he can’t go nowhere cause he probably already messed up financially with the first wife and he knows Shera gone take him for everything if he tries to leave her. Her message is very dangerous and anyone who does not see that is just in denial or naive and inexperienced.
I watch her but I don’t like the idea of trying to be with a wealthy man and expect to be happy. Abuse can happen big time with that mess. I don’t follow that advice. Shera proudly admits to being a sociopath. I like her beauty tips and log out.
@ I saw some of the video. It was sad. That was a weird dynamic. It was like she got caught in clout chasing and obsessed with being a “trophy wife.” She was married to a roomate like what SWB is talking about.
I just finished watching the new series on Netflix called Worst Ex Ever and it messed me up and I haven't been outside for a couple of days since watching it. Just to know these kinds of people are everywhere around us in the world is scary. It was eye-opening to the kinds of evil operating in a lot of men nowadays and I don't want no bother. It's just scary because you just don't know who could be trusted.
I don’t follow her and I don’t agree with her advice…. Every page that pops up on tik tok with her I blocked…. Until I finally deleted tik tok… too much toxic people!!!!
So how do you propose women choose “non-narcissistic” men? Let’s hear your solution! Most men are NARCISSISTS! It’s not realistic to get married TODAY when we have a president-elect who will enforce the patriarchy system down our throats in 2025…
@SpiritualWhistleblower I guess men could also say most women are manipulative. As a long term contently married woman who believes in the santity of marriage and family, it is frustrating to see people put marriage down because of their bad experiences.
I saw that yrs ago. Under Shera's info tab it says category comedy. Shera wënt clean off when I told her a family vacation consist of a husband/ father, which is James. She was angry bcuz James hasn't went on a "family vacay" in the last 5yrs. She has Mama Dee to play as daddy on their trips. I won't be surprised if she's effing Mama Dee ?
Sis I also meant to mention the other series called Worst Roommate Ever. I just started watching this one and some of these women are no different, they can be just as wicked. I feel like narcs can easily turn into psychopaths. You just can't put nothing past them.
THE MOST HIGH THAT I SERVE IS NOT A HUMAN, BUT IS THE ORIGIN OF SOURCE ENERGY ...SO IT CAN'T BE A MALE OR FEMALE. TMH CONTAINS BOTH MASCULINE & FEMININE ENERGIES, SO IT CAN CREATE MAN/WOMAN WITH THOSE ENERGIES.
I am side eyeing her now bc she told that trophy wife not to claim her if she gonna be stupid. I’m like, but the girl followed your advice…take some responsibility for your dangerous advice guurl
Shera specifically said "Did I teach you to be stupid?" And I was like wow! Why is she speaking like that when it's minors involved? Just sad all the way around.
@17:10 Shera switches her genre every time someone exposed how dangerous her message is. She switch from relationship coach, lifestyle coach to now financial advisor… lawd what’s next ? Lol 😂 she needs to make a PSA about how dangerous her message is..
Sidenote: You are beautiful (i'm sure u know this already) you have natural beauty and you know you do not need to put makeup on if you do not choose to do so! I dont see anything wrong with wearing a wrap/scarf sweats--you are comfortable and in your essence and makeup has a price tag but natural beauty is priceless!!!! We get to see the real you w out makeup not hiding behind makeup.... its our choice and I hope no ones judging you.
@@SpiritualWhistleblower lol I literally just went to find what she said about ISIS. And my 21 daughter tells me “Noooooo don’t watch her Lol!!!!! She was serious too. Lol. I had to explain why I had her on. My accountability partner
U r right about narcissism bc I just jumped off a moving train w one and I hope I’m done bc I have been aware it for 6 years but it seems he been one for about a year. Or he had a mask. But before that thought it was something else. I know I’m a victim of narcissistic abuse and I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. I don’t know what the hell I just came out of. The twilight zone idk. All I know is I have a lot of healing to do and I thought I loved myself before meeting him. Your channel among others helps and you are real.
There's a 25 year gap between Shera and her husband, what 22 year old would find a 47 year old mean appealing? Definitely some Daddy issues there because if her Dad was in her life there's no way he would give his daughter away to a predator. She also said James is retired, not surprising he's 70. That explains why she's on live for hours and hours collecting cash apps. She probably pays some of the bills now. You're right she doesn't have any credentials based on finance or even in education her ''teaching'' is just her opinion based on her marriage but who would her marriage.
@@SpiritualWhistleblower she ONLY had kids to tie up his money 💰 so he supposedly can’t spend as much on a side chick. Those words came out of her mouth I use to watch her lives in 2017-2018
@@SpiritualWhistleblower she is very fake with her kids and when they were little I would hear them in the background screaming while she was ignoring them on live with us
@@SpiritualWhistleblower and people use to get on her about how her daughters hair was always a mess while hers stayed done up. Then she recorded a video of them having a “ spa day “ ONLY after people got on her.
I subscribed to her years back ..it was live and i think i commented something about the subject she was on and she started saying its another goddess in here hmmmm sprinkle sprinkle i dont know if its real and kept commenting on my name i felt low energy ..then her followers started chiming in. I immediately left and it take me alot to do that. Like girl bye I dint need your validation. Her work is nasty like her energy and whoever flock over there need a cleanse.
I've seen this several times asked in her comments. But what if he is screaming at me? But what if he's rude to me. But what if he is condescending towards me? But what if he's controlling towards me. I remember when a girl said, he threw something but it missed. Shera says, to ignore the verbal and mental @buse to keep sugar daddy $ flowing. Its not worth the PTSD!!! And you can be so eff up that you run off a great new man.
I aggree on this one, I sensed danger when she said if you meet a narcissist just be a bigger one. I played that game and noticed these things: 1. The npd person will never stop their game, the only one that gets exhausted and angry is the empath. The narcissist is GLAD that you are becoming just like them, so they can blame you even more and tell everybody, you are not a good person either if things fall apart. They keep track of your wrong doings. 2. Some tips are great for the beginning like seeing if a person is willing to help you at all with a small problem. You can sort out trashy ppl from beginning. BUT if you are already deep enmeshed with a narcissist, it won't work anymore because they tend to pull back their efforts, the bread crumbing is at play and again you will get exhausted trying to manipulate the situation into something better for you. 3. Shera teaches witchcraft, although some topics she discussed on her spiritual channel are interesting like the symbolism in media, covid matters etc., witchcraft is dangerous af. It can and it will backfire somehow someday, a reason to stay far away from it, ESPECIALLY if you do love speels, binding spells etc.
Yes it right but wen ur doing it to keep a man atp we know most main ain't worth it 😂 do thrm love spells on urself to get money wisdom knowledge etc not to keeo a man does she have okay teachings to do with narcissistic men on their level yes ajd no bec thats a dangerous game to plsy with these men that are red pill and more open to being mysogynistic and openly bragging about harming women and children again I don't think there's anything necessarily wrong with spirituality or a witchcraft if you're not a Christian who am I to judge but I do think it's wrong to try to keep a man and use witchcraft for that....thats sad and weird if you have to do that to keep a man that he's not even worth keeping in my opinon 😂the right man is a unicorn and two of the right man does come u wouldnt need witchcraft for it 😂@@Reshme77
The fact that she spends hours on line asking for money. Once she was on line for over 4 hours She also asked for gift. I liked that you said her followers are paying her money and giving her gift - not her husband.
If JAMES was really taking care of her, they would be on vacation all the time and she would show us how he takes care of her not just her sitting at home all day every day !!!!! Read her miserable room
Agreed anyone who focuses on the material aspects as supposed to growing oneself spiritually is in fact on the wrong path . There is more to life than what meets the eye in the 3 D .
My sister loves her. It makes sense though. Our mother is her first narc and she lives to enable our mom as her golden child. Shera made one good point about not going back if a man throws you away, but everyone says that.
She mixes truth with her toxicity. Kevin Samuels used the same formula… it confuses the followers and it allows Shera to escape accountability if her advice happens to backfire
@@SpiritualWhistleblowerBecause I’m subscribed to your channel. I like most of your content. I also like and am subscribed to Shera. It’s not that deep to me.
I agree. Shera not kept like that at all. She’s been on TH-cam for a decade with 2 channels trying to make money. That man must be 70 years now so she is probably his only woman now. But he probably got no decent pension because he was in IT. At best the mortgage probably paid. He was married with kids so that man must had to split what he had by time he married Shera. Whatever she makes that money belongs to the marriage and she is making more money than him now I expect. Shera never looks like she’s living luxury I’m sorry. She just puts on some makeup gets dressed and sits in front of a camera. Her vlogs aren’t endless luxury spending on her husbands money or even her money. She just vlogging regular outside shopping or trips. Shera’s audience are most young or socially awkward or self centred women. None would have a chance of getting into wealthy circles of men. These men aren’t just hanging around in nice hotels and restaurants and they’re usually not alone when they go anywhere. They have PA’s wives, girlfriends or kids or staff with them majority of time. You’re not going to see these men all alone with time to pick up women in a public place. These women will only attract male tricks or above average earning predators with less than stable higher income because they’re probably self employed hustlers or contract workers
@@theexoticalaspielady she never said James was rich. She always said so use men to invest into your own businesses and has openly said she makes way more than him now
@ Lie to use men who are 20 years older and you think it will end well 👀. Why not invest that time and energy into themselves to build business. Where’s the testimonies that it has worked for these women she’s exploiting? To cheat people out of money using lies if necessary and they’re much older, which is what she teaches is a crime in the UK. She herself hasn’t built a business based on anything other than what she’s telling young vulnerable and desperate women to do to get money. Encouraging these women to risk their lives to trick men and no one cares because majority of her audience are black women 👀
I’m still looking for the video of Shera saying anything hateful to anyone. I’m not into her content but I’ve never heard her personally say anything bad about anybody.
You’re not intelligent at all. She doesn’t have to say it. Her actions are indirectly instructing women to manipulate sociopathic men. Why does she have to say it? Her marriage is an example and her behavior… Oops I forgot, narcissists only put emphasis on what someone “says” instead of focusing on actions. You just exposed yourself *wink*
I laugh😂 She practically talked about putting people on a pedestal. Which you're doing right now And her hypocritical ass liked the comment 😂 Humans ...funny lot 😂😂
Some of her advice is going to get women unalived for sure. They don't know the real deal about some men like we do. She was the side-side chick since he was married, had a girlfriend and then cheated on both of them w/her. Pick me's are who would want dudes like him.
I GET IT WHISTLE BLOWER I HAVE A 31 & 35 YR. OLD BY MY X HUSBAND/NARCISSIST SO I KNOW HE DOESN'T LOVE OUR KIDS CAUSE HE'S LIED ON THEM & DID DIRT TO THEM AS WELL HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU
My ex friend who is a narcissist almost got killed by her husband who’s a narcissist. This happened when I was over at her house. That’s when I learnt that you will never out narcissist a narcissist.
I heard Shera over 14 years ago, and i told myself back then that if i have to do all that mind manipulation to get & hold onto a man: 1. That man is NOT good 2. I am not being my authentic self, so what is the point of that 3. I would rather by to myself
One thing you ain’t never been was WRONG! You keep speaking the truth. People are so mad because their insecurities are triggered by the truth. that’s why they keep doing these think pieces on what you are exposing. You are really saving lives.
It’s always about getting in a man’s pockets like do people know how DANGEROUS that game really is??? Just seeing how these men out here feel and speak about women, do people really think that’s not playing with fire? Someone’s gonna go fk around and end up unalived taking that advice.
You are SPOT ON!!! She has no morals whatsoever. She teaches women about being IMMORAL and she thinks it’s cute. It’s very sad and women are even sadder for following that.
I'm all for women being adored and taken care of. And I love that about what she teaches But also yes, you are correct, her and her followers are Jezebels and need Jesus Because being deceptive and manipulative in the way they are doing is disgusting. No one deserves to be taken advantage of them mocked behind their backs
The only way to win with a narcissist is to NOT as in do not engage with them at all. PERIOD.
Nothing but facts! I went no contact with a narc female friend after she almost killed us drinking and driving on Cinco de Mayo and still till this day she is desperately trying to hoover me back into her life. I looked on her Instagram and she posted she just need ONE WIN in her life and she'll be okay. I had a strong feeling that "win" was to destroy my life 😭💔
I peeped her game back in 2017… she would laugh at women for working while being on TH-cam live 2-4 hours a day and opening multi online shops. I’m like do these women not realize she’s also working !! Every single day
She’s laughing at all of her followers
I noticed that too. She's cool but I'm like wait. If the family so paid you be out enjoying ya life. Coffee run, buy a little something something, lunch or dinner with friends.
@@amaj_lexexactly. I don’t think she’s happy. She talks, but she’s miserable.
Ikr. Andrew tates sister @@SpiritualWhistleblower
@@amaj_lex her sister is the one that got the rich men and you don’t see her online bragging no where . Women that really live that life are rarely on social media
I always wondered why her 'kept' self is always on TH-cam begging for Cash apps and selling trinkets. Remember: everything on the Internet is NOT what it seems.
@@Stayret trinkets 😂😂😂
@@Stayret 💯💯
Bc she’s not kept at all
Yup! It reminds me of K Samuels.
Amen
Men are not as stupid as Shera teaches
I started out listening to you 6 yrs and 5 mths ago. As I was feeling stronger I started adding other content creaters. There were days I couldn't think eat or even wanted to live. The only time I could concentrate was when I would watch and listen to you walking around New York. My whole life had been filled with narcs but thanks to you I know them when I see them. I almost died behind him but I am living because of you. I smlie laugh and hope. I am on disability now but my brain has healed enough for me to go back to school and get my GED. One last test (math🙄) and its mine. I've lost 53 pds love and trust myself. I am crying right now because I never EVER thought I'd get here. Thank you lady⚘️
She helped me too.
You’re stronger than you think! Welcome to the other side ❤
This is a beautiful testimonial❤
God Bless You and know that God got you when no one else is there for you. ❤
Awww God bless you ❤ my testimony sounds the same way. I was so hurt and confused by the covert and overt hatred from close ones. The truth and God's holy spirit will set us free and make us whole.
Someone said that she gets more money from these women than she ever got from any man in her life 😬 🙊
I believe it 😂
Isn't sisterhood wonderful? Us women SHOULD take care of each other.
@@1tanyasirius us women should also NOT fake and stunt online , promoting a lifestyle to other women that she herself doesn’t or never had
@@novadinero2753 that was the point of her starting her businesses dummy 😭😂
YOU ARE CORRECT....THESE MEN CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS...KEEP WELL AWAY FROM THEM
Also Shera completely lost me when she talked about being the side woman and then I found a picture of James. I was like hellllll nah. Pure comedy
😂😂😂😂😮
She wasn't the side woman. He was separated from his marriage and she met him that way. James is older than her
@@dreamyk8461 when you are separated you are still married, dear. She was indeed a sidepiece.
@@dreamyk8461Separation is STILL married. Stop defending side chick behavior. And Shera wasn’t his only side chick. He had several. Shera knew he was a piece of shit and still married him. Crazy how her followers think she has discernment when she married a loser 😂😂😂
But he didn't want to be with his wife even before Shera came along, it's not like she swooped in and stole him and broke up some happy home. The chapter was closing when she got there and James went on to divorce and re marry.
Knew about her back in 2015. She was known to post things about many spells in order to keep a man and spells on how to keep him under control. Not surprised after I saw her on TH-cam saying, "Sprinkle, Sprinkle," years later.
Crazy how I would see this long after I left that world behind. She and her followers are something else.
She sells elixers on certain levels n dist free makeup line
@Arizona_lilly Those elixirs are not real elixirs. That's an Oudh those followers are drinking.
Real women don’t need love spells to control a man. It just goes to show James is a bonafide whore and she has to use a love spell to tame him.
Oh, the sprinkle sprinkle refers to the magic...? Wow, a kitchen witch :) Pathetic.
Same bed for a miserable marriage is truth. My narc parents. Narc dad and enabler mom. Dad snores but when you really get into it they ain’t never in the same room watching tv or eating dinner. Then go to bed separately. Roommates for sure and miserable bangmaid mom. Me single and learned about narc abuse early on. Your page has helped me a lot thank you.
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She takes care of James, she is the breadwinner over there😂
100%
@@hiddengems777 now you’re just plain lying
Her followers share her mindset which is why they go so hard for her. But just like you said, you reap what you sow. I don't know how these women think they can have a good relationship if they start it off with manipulation. It's ridiculous. I think these are the kind of women corrupting the few good men that's left and it's really sad. Thank you so much for constantly exposing these demons out here sis. ❤
Right real love romance . Being in bed with nasty old man
Look, this is my opinion and my opinion only. I think very wealthy men can be very dangerous and abusive, not all. But this reckless abandonment of going after man for his money in this time, in age, it's dangerous.😢
She’s knows that and she’s sadistic for setting women up
I think it's fair to say that all men can be dangerous, really. With or without money.
Yea if you try to manipulate and use them@@ThePinkPantha21
I agree, they are playing with death
@@vfree4579 she teaching women how to have a lifestyle that she doesn’t even have
They do spells to get a man
screams desperate
Not her giving hogwarts' crash courses.
@@user-dx2dm8oq8gThat’s actually how she started out! 🤣
The biggest fail was the Trophy Wife trying to destiny swap with Shera. You can’t mimic another woman life without accepting the dark side of that person life as well. It’s 2024, get your own money, if you deal with a man by chance he needs to come morally correct!
You experience spiritual bankruptcy trying to be someone else.
That was the problem!!!
Exactly. 😂 Even a regular provided for women is at least not working!! Not selling lipstick and asking for cash apps. 🎯
Yes she has multiple online shops and live streams on TH-cam and tik Tok every single day…. She works just as much as the pick mes she talks about
@novadinero2753 🎯
@@novadinero2753that’s because she’s the Queen of Pick Me’s 😂
I really love the way you're not afraid to EXPOSE these NARCISSIST, and be right on point to. 💯
Don’t save them, they don’t wanna be saved! 111 😮😅
YOU'RE NEVER GONNA WIN WITH A NARCISSIST I WAS MARRIED TO A NARCISSIST I HAD A SITUATIONSHIP WITH ONE & I HAD A SO - CALLED FRIEND WHO WAS/IS A NARCISSIST & I DISCARDED ALL 3 OF THEM
Ladies, if you’re reading this comment,… these old men are not dumb. They been here longer than us. You will not play or trick them unless they are into that. everything will be transactional. They will want something in return. They respect women more that have their own money 💰 I was treated like a child listening to these online gurus saying that men love when a woman is submissive and dependent on their man .
Be careful and always have a stack saved 💴 💰 and steady income
My peace is priceless.
First off you’re so beautiful what is there to be jealous of? People are just nasty. I can confirm and say that listening to her in 2018 led me down a dark path. Those women think it’s just as simple as manipulating but when you’re behind closed doors with these men, you don’t know how dangerous they are whether that’s psychologically or physically.
I believe the women are lieing about not sleeping with the men like Shera says. I don’t think they are getting away with playing these games in this economy especially today. They are just selling a lifestyle that’s mixed in with prostitution as Shera said “I don’t do the 90 day rule, I do the $5k rule”. She literally has a video talking about not wanting to work because she’s lazy. Also has videos saying that men don’t desire super ambitious women which incentivizes women to do the bare minimum and focus on finessing men. It’s not realistic and nothing in life is a linear perfect plan.
She hates herself and wants all women to suffer right along with her
Shera has openly talked about worshipping Lilith. Lilith pretends to care about women and women's rights, but you learn eventually she hates women and children. Shera is Lilith in human form. Vile.
I was one of the people under her spell. But after getting back into my Bible my eyes have been open. You are right about all of this.
Shes says she's rich but im saying if i was rich I'd b signle if all i talk about is how bad men r. 😭
Rich women are busy shopping and vacationing…
@@SpiritualWhistleblowerthey’re also not on social media all day . Some may have tik toks but post rarely
I followed Sheras advice in 2019 and was financially abused by a man 24 years older than me after I moved in with him. I followed the blueprint and it went wrong for me… I was cheated on, he came home late, I was talked down to and I wasn’t getting the money Shera said I was supposed to get from the old man 💰 he would complain if I asked for $20.
I was a stay at home girlfriend but I felt bummy because I was home doing nothing following her advice
I’m now with someone close to my age and I have my own money 💰 we work together on household things and I’m much happier with him.
@@Xoxo-pe9nd that’s probably due to your own naivety. She said only move in after they are paying all your bills and giving you money 🙈
Always slapping with the truth 💯🙌
Ur 100% correct but these sheep will follow the herd
I've often scrolled onto your content I don't always agree with what you say, but this whole videos your where spitting facts. If you are in a relationship where you feel u need to manipulate, get out fast.
Tbh I looked at shera and almost followed her stories after having a tough time with men.but I felt very toxic doing so and decided it’s not good to be an actor .She recommends pretending to be happy when you can control your own happiness and your happiness don’t depend on men
Narcissist are 10 steps ahead of you and they know you're next move.
The singer cher said its best to be a rich woman then to get with a rich man.
Even as a hoodoo practitioner personally, the shit she practices is scary.
I remember coming across videos of her spellwork and craft while doing research years ago and safe to say I was disgusted.
My work has to do with the remembrance of my ancestors and personal protection. I’m good with self love, tyvm.
Well hun, you’re seriously not a practicing practitioner, but I digress….😊
Well hun, you’re seriously not a practicing practitioner, but I digress….😊
@@renny504 😂 Nobody can tell you about your practice but yourself.
My rootwork is definitionally hoodoo, and I don’t need to do the manipulative shit Shera does for it to be so.
Be well.
selah! thanks for exposing it! i wanna see her do a real shopping spree not from the fans and i wanna see a vacay thats a fact! cos to me it’s giving high ranking eastern star leading a new age agenda like Kevin samuel’s
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What was Kevin Samuel's new age agenda?
She’s always at dollar tree and target lol 😂 I want to see her at Gucci , Louis , balenciaga etc etc
@ like actually 😂 shein too
@@michelleafrancis she doesn’t even travel. She can’t use her kids as an excuse bc they’re older now. She using her money to help James with them bills.
We gotta start calling shit what it is. I feel those type of Men are Predators too. When They're old enough to be Your Daddy. I use to follow Her advice like 7 years ago. But, it's like a Pimp and Hoe dynamic. Because He's a Father Figure. And since They're Married, Her money is His too. So He's benefiting too. She probably makes way more money than Him now.
That’s exactly what it is. Pimp & his young hoe
Shera’s message is dangerous and her followers are mostly young women that are falling for that mess. It’s like a cult of naive and gullible young women. My younger sister was listening to her and called herself going after an older man for money. That man was telling my sister to go buy things on her credit card and he would pay the bill. Long story short, a few months later all those payments came back as fraud and now my sister has $80k worth of debt cause she thought she was living the sprinkle sprinkle life but really she was getting used and played. These older men prey on these naive and less experienced younger women. Also, men are not the same as they were 20 years ago when Shera met her husband. Shera was the other woman while James was married to his first wife. She’s also very manipulative so James know he can’t go nowhere cause he probably already messed up financially with the first wife and he knows Shera gone take him for everything if he tries to leave her. Her message is very dangerous and anyone who does not see that is just in denial or naive and inexperienced.
I watch her but I don’t like the idea of trying to be with a wealthy man and expect to be happy. Abuse can happen big time with that mess. I don’t follow that advice.
Shera proudly admits to being a sociopath. I like her beauty tips and log out.
Her beauty tips are not top tier
@ You know I love your content and actually met you in real life. I love the meetup in Vegas and I’m glad you actually spoke up about this.
Can you do if you have the time? I know you're a busy lady. A video on Isis because people are saying she's lying.Even the husband's sister.
@ I saw some of the video. It was sad. That was a weird dynamic. It was like she got caught in clout chasing and obsessed with being a “trophy wife.” She was married to a roomate like what SWB is talking about.
@@vfree4579I believe Isis is also a narc
I just finished watching the new series on Netflix called Worst Ex Ever and it messed me up and I haven't been outside for a couple of days since watching it. Just to know these kinds of people are everywhere around us in the world is scary. It was eye-opening to the kinds of evil operating in a lot of men nowadays and I don't want no bother. It's just scary because you just don't know who could be trusted.
I may have to check out that series. You are not the only one seeing the evil is ex whys. You'd be wise to go 4b
I don’t follow her and I don’t agree with her advice…. Every page that pops up on tik tok with her I blocked…. Until I finally deleted tik tok… too much toxic people!!!!
I have NEVER been a fan of Shera. She always seemed off mentally.
I was just talking about Shera 7 and how bad her advice is. Thank you for the video.
It was going so well until you said you are discouraging women from getting married. We need family units people! We need each other 😢
So how do you propose women choose “non-narcissistic” men? Let’s hear your solution! Most men are NARCISSISTS! It’s not realistic to get married TODAY when we have a president-elect who will enforce the patriarchy system down our throats in 2025…
@SpiritualWhistleblower I guess men could also say most women are manipulative. As a long term contently married woman who believes in the santity of marriage and family, it is frustrating to see people put marriage down because of their bad experiences.
@@AmakaliciousMarriage doesn’t seem smart anymore, regardless, of how we may feel.
All who make idols are nothing ,and the things they treasure are worthless....Issiah44;9;20🙏❤️
Chanel is always clocking the tea 🔥💯
I saw that yrs ago. Under Shera's info tab it says category comedy.
Shera wënt clean off when I told her a family vacation consist of a husband/ father, which is James. She was angry bcuz James hasn't went on a "family vacay" in the last 5yrs. She has Mama Dee to play as daddy on their trips. I won't be surprised if she's effing Mama Dee ?
Nothing but facts !
we do not appreciate experienced and wise women enough. thank you for this wisdom
I don’t know who she is & don’t care to know her 😂😂😂 definitely disengaged from them types 🙌🏽thanks Sis
Sis I also meant to mention the other series called Worst Roommate Ever. I just started watching this one and some of these women are no different, they can be just as wicked. I feel like narcs can easily turn into psychopaths. You just can't put nothing past them.
I don't believe those 2 girls are his kids I never have believed ‼️
The New Trophy Wife followed Shera 7 teaching and she wasn’t happy and she wasn’t kept in her marriage it was a Lie.
She’s right sociopathic men will ruin you forever! You don’t want to mess with them! AT ALL
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I agree with u about Shera. When u call God him/he, my spirit drops. I can’t believe the God of this beautiful universe is a male.
@@somebodycomelistentothispo7217 it’s not a male obviously
THE MOST HIGH THAT I SERVE IS NOT A HUMAN, BUT IS THE ORIGIN OF SOURCE ENERGY ...SO IT CAN'T BE A MALE OR FEMALE. TMH CONTAINS BOTH MASCULINE & FEMININE ENERGIES, SO IT CAN CREATE MAN/WOMAN WITH THOSE ENERGIES.
Hey, sis, happy Thanksgiving, beautiful, and may God continue to bless you and your daughter 💗 💓 💖 💛 🙏🏽 ❤️
Happy Thanksgiving
I am side eyeing her now bc she told that trophy wife not to claim her if she gonna be stupid.
I’m like, but the girl followed your advice…take some responsibility for your dangerous advice guurl
Yep, and now she’s trying to back-pedal her way out of this (I never told her to do that…”). She is extremely devious and evil.
She definitely did not follow Shera’s advice lbvs … ISIS was desperate.
@ exactly, she did everything SHERA told her to do and the trophy wife mentioned SHERA in her video multiple times
Shera specifically said "Did I teach you to be stupid?" And I was like wow! Why is she speaking like that when it's minors involved? Just sad all the way around.
@@abeck7929she don’t care about her own kids… she told her followers that she was a sociopath
@17:10 Shera switches her genre every time someone exposed how dangerous her message is. She switch from relationship coach, lifestyle coach to now financial advisor… lawd what’s next ? Lol 😂 she needs to make a PSA about how dangerous her message is..
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Financial Advisor 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@arieschild5792 that’s what they call her Chile lol 😂
5:22 i literally was saying that to myself the other day. She even has sales links on her TT lives. I was confused.
Sidenote: You are beautiful (i'm sure u know this already) you have natural beauty and you know you do not need to put makeup on if you do not choose to do so! I dont see anything wrong with wearing a wrap/scarf sweats--you are comfortable and in your essence and makeup has a price tag but natural beauty is priceless!!!! We get to see the real you w out makeup not hiding behind makeup.... its our choice and I hope no ones judging you.
You are beautiful too ❤
@@SpiritualWhistleblower lol I literally just went to find what she said about ISIS. And my 21 daughter tells me “Noooooo don’t watch her Lol!!!!! She was serious too. Lol. I had to explain why I had her on. My accountability partner
U r right about narcissism bc I just jumped off a moving train w one and I hope I’m done bc I have been aware it for 6 years but it seems he been one for about a year. Or he had a mask. But before that thought it was something else. I know I’m a victim of narcissistic abuse and I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. I don’t know what the hell I just came out of. The twilight zone idk. All I know is I have a lot of healing to do and I thought I loved myself before meeting him. Your channel among others helps and you are real.
There's a 25 year gap between Shera and her husband, what 22 year old would find a 47 year old mean appealing? Definitely some Daddy issues there because if her Dad was in her life there's no way he would give his daughter away to a predator. She also said James is retired, not surprising he's 70. That explains why she's on live for hours and hours collecting cash apps. She probably pays some of the bills now. You're right she doesn't have any credentials based on finance or even in education her ''teaching'' is just her opinion based on her marriage but who would her marriage.
@13:15 she even admitted that she had kids to tie up James money so that he can’t cheat so easy
She tells them how toxic she is and they still follow 😂her
@@SpiritualWhistleblower she ONLY had kids to tie up his money 💰 so he supposedly can’t spend as much on a side chick. Those words came out of her mouth I use to watch her lives in 2017-2018
@@SpiritualWhistleblower she is very fake with her kids and when they were little I would hear them in the background screaming while she was ignoring them on live with us
@@novadinero2753which means she don’t really love her kids… they are pawns used to manipulate and control James
@@SpiritualWhistleblower and people use to get on her about how her daughters hair was always a mess while hers stayed done up. Then she recorded a video of them having a “ spa day “ ONLY after people got on her.
I subscribed to her years back ..it was live and i think i commented something about the subject she was on and she started saying its another goddess in here hmmmm sprinkle sprinkle i dont know if its real and kept commenting on my name i felt low energy ..then her followers started chiming in. I immediately left and it take me alot to do that. Like girl bye I dint need your validation. Her work is nasty like her energy and whoever flock over there need a cleanse.
I agree playing games with a narcissist is like playing with a cobra. 🐍
I've seen this several times asked in her comments.
But what if he is screaming at me? But what if he's rude to me. But what if he is condescending towards me? But what if he's controlling towards me. I remember when a girl said, he threw something but it missed.
Shera says, to ignore the verbal and mental @buse to keep sugar daddy $ flowing.
Its not worth the PTSD!!!
And you can be so eff up that you run off a great new man.
Smh
She does say ignore abuse and infidelity. She is disturbed.
@@melanindawn2050You can’t ignore abuse if you’re already deep into the relationship and she knows that
I aggree on this one, I sensed danger when she said if you meet a narcissist just be a bigger one.
I played that game and noticed these things:
1. The npd person will never stop their game, the only one that gets exhausted and angry is the empath. The narcissist is GLAD that you are becoming just like them, so they can blame you even more and tell everybody, you are not a good person either if things fall apart. They keep track of your wrong doings.
2. Some tips are great for the beginning like seeing if a person is willing to help you at all with a small problem. You can sort out trashy ppl from beginning. BUT if you are already deep enmeshed with a narcissist, it won't work anymore because they tend to pull back their efforts, the bread crumbing is at play and again you will get exhausted trying to manipulate the situation into something better for you.
3. Shera teaches witchcraft, although some topics she discussed on her spiritual channel are interesting like the symbolism in media, covid matters etc., witchcraft is dangerous af. It can and it will backfire somehow someday, a reason to stay far away from it, ESPECIALLY if you do love speels, binding spells etc.
There's nothing wrong with witchcraft
There's good magic and bad magic
@Reshme77 If you are christian you don't believe this. If you are not a christian than you do whatever you like. It's your life
@@Reshme77so get your demonic ass off of my page
Yes it right but wen ur doing it to keep a man atp we know most main ain't worth it 😂 do thrm love spells on urself to get money wisdom knowledge etc not to keeo a man does she have okay teachings to do with narcissistic men on their level yes ajd no bec thats a dangerous game to plsy with these men that are red pill and more open to being mysogynistic and openly bragging about harming women and children again I don't think there's anything necessarily wrong with spirituality or a witchcraft if you're not a Christian who am I to judge but I do think it's wrong to try to keep a man and use witchcraft for that....thats sad and weird if you have to do that to keep a man that he's not even worth keeping in my opinon 😂the right man is a unicorn and two of the right man does come u wouldnt need witchcraft for it 😂@@Reshme77
@@Reshme77your just ignorant for thinking that, magic is magic u operate with your ego and demons to manipulate the reality and the truth
i stumbled on this channel and I have no idea who you're talking about but was rivited to this content lol
The fact that she spends hours on line asking for money. Once she was on line for over 4 hours She also asked for gift. I liked that you said her followers are paying her money and giving her gift - not her husband.
Boom she’s pimping her followers 😂😂😂
If JAMES was really taking care of her, they would be on vacation all the time and she would show us how he takes care of her not just her sitting at home all day every day !!!!! Read her miserable room
love you aunty thanks for showing up on youtube #youtubefam ❤ youre glowing youre beautiful i been playing back old vids all morning ❤🎉
Agreed anyone who focuses on the material aspects as supposed to growing oneself spiritually is in fact on the wrong path . There is more to life than what meets the eye in the 3 D .
@@Lightreign888 she literally has a whole spiritual channel
My sister loves her. It makes sense though. Our mother is her first narc and she lives to enable our mom as her golden child. Shera made one good point about not going back if a man throws you away, but everyone says that.
She mixes truth with her toxicity. Kevin Samuels used the same formula… it confuses the followers and it allows Shera to escape accountability if her advice happens to backfire
Hey SWB👑❤🙏🏽
Respectfully… you sound like the narc you claim Shera to be
Thank you. Triggered?😂😂
@@SpiritualWhistleblower not at all, just an observation
@@jazzyrain6215ok now why are you here? 😂
@@SpiritualWhistleblowerBecause I’m subscribed to your channel. I like most of your content. I also like and am subscribed to Shera. It’s not that deep to me.
@@jazzyrain6215go follow her. I don’t want your support…
I agree. Shera not kept like that at all. She’s been on TH-cam for a decade with 2 channels trying to make money. That man must be 70 years now so she is probably his only woman now. But he probably got no decent pension because he was in IT. At best the mortgage probably paid. He was married with kids so that man must had to split what he had by time he married Shera. Whatever she makes that money belongs to the marriage and she is making more money than him now I expect. Shera never looks like she’s living luxury I’m sorry. She just puts on some makeup gets dressed and sits in front of a camera. Her vlogs aren’t endless luxury spending on her husbands money or even her money. She just vlogging regular outside shopping or trips. Shera’s audience are most young or socially awkward or self centred women. None would have a chance of getting into wealthy circles of men. These men aren’t just hanging around in nice hotels and restaurants and they’re usually not alone when they go anywhere. They have PA’s wives, girlfriends or kids or staff with them majority of time. You’re not going to see these men all alone with time to pick up women in a public place. These women will only attract male tricks or above average earning predators with less than stable higher income because they’re probably self employed hustlers or contract workers
You nailed it. I believe she’s waiting for James to die…
@@theexoticalaspielady she never said James was rich. She always said so use men to invest into your own businesses and has openly said she makes way more than him now
@ Lie to use men who are 20 years older and you think it will end well 👀. Why not invest that time and energy into themselves to build business. Where’s the testimonies that it has worked for these women she’s exploiting? To cheat people out of money using lies if necessary and they’re much older, which is what she teaches is a crime in the UK. She herself hasn’t built a business based on anything other than what she’s telling young vulnerable and desperate women to do to get money. Encouraging these women to risk their lives to trick men and no one cares because majority of her audience are black women 👀
He sustains her lifestyle.
What about mikayla her friend got arrested for scamming, shera fed mikayla to her followers and shera did not apologize
Sociopaths will throw their friends under the bus! But Shera’s karma is coming
She called the lady her husband did that to the child, dumb basically. She says she teaches her followers how to be smart. 19:16
She wants their money and then she feeds them to wolves
I’m still looking for the video of Shera saying anything hateful to anyone. I’m not into her content but I’ve never heard her personally say anything bad about anybody.
You’re not intelligent at all. She doesn’t have to say it. Her actions are indirectly instructing women to manipulate sociopathic men. Why does she have to say it? Her marriage is an example and her behavior… Oops I forgot, narcissists only put emphasis on what someone “says” instead of focusing on actions. You just exposed yourself *wink*
You are THE TRUTH!!
I laugh😂
She practically talked about putting people on a pedestal.
Which you're doing right now
And her hypocritical ass liked the comment 😂
Humans ...funny lot 😂😂
I DON'T WATCH SHERA HER CHANNEL NEVER APPEALED TO ME I SAW A PORTION OF ONE OF HER VIDEOS & I SAID TO MYSELF AH... NO
Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃
I ❤ you!
Some of her advice is going to get women unalived for sure. They don't know the real deal about some men like we do. She was the side-side chick since he was married, had a girlfriend and then cheated on both of them w/her. Pick me's are who would want dudes like him.
2:52 really lol😂 seriously though you loose me EVERY TIME 😊
I GET IT WHISTLE BLOWER I HAVE A 31 & 35 YR. OLD BY MY X HUSBAND/NARCISSIST SO I KNOW HE DOESN'T LOVE OUR KIDS CAUSE HE'S LIED ON THEM & DID DIRT TO THEM AS WELL
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU
Hello Sunday ❕💕💗💕💗✌🏽💕💗
You’re one of the only ones willing to call out how birdlike and dangerous some of her teachings are.
Yeah, I’m one of those who prefer not to play. I’m not trying to end up puréed in a blender.😒😒😒
My ex friend who is a narcissist almost got killed by her husband who’s a narcissist. This happened when I was over at her house. That’s when I learnt that you will never out narcissist a narcissist.
I love this woman! 😆🙌❤️
I heard Shera over 14 years ago, and i told myself back then that if i have to do all that mind manipulation to get & hold onto a man:
1. That man is NOT good
2. I am not being my authentic self, so what is the point of that
3. I would rather by to myself
You are correct.
One thing you ain’t never been was WRONG! You keep speaking the truth. People are so mad because their insecurities are triggered by the truth. that’s why they keep doing these think pieces on what you are exposing. You are really saving lives.
Yeah a provided for wife , is usually making her home more luxurious or on vacation.
cant believe she almost has 1 million followers
She’s going down the same path as Kevin Samuels and we see how that ended
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🗣️🗣️🗣️ speak Sis 💯!!!
It’s always about getting in a man’s pockets like do people know how DANGEROUS that game really is??? Just seeing how these men out here feel and speak about women, do people really think that’s not playing with fire? Someone’s gonna go fk around and end up unalived taking that advice.
I knew she was evil when she laughed at isis and talked bad about her when she was down.
She hates her followers and pimps them out, so let them learn the hard way.
You are SPOT ON!!! She has no morals whatsoever. She teaches women about being IMMORAL and she thinks it’s cute. It’s very sad and women are even sadder for following that.
I'm all for women being adored and taken care of. And I love that about what she teaches
But also yes, you are correct, her and her followers are Jezebels and need Jesus
Because being deceptive and manipulative in the way they are doing is disgusting. No one deserves to be taken advantage of them mocked behind their backs
keep up the good work