What is yawls take on this story? What was the craziest part of the video to you all do you all think that the trophy wife life is one that women should aspire to have? How do you feel about women not being financially independent? Do you know anyone who has experience something similar to any of the things that were mentioned? Overall, what were your takes from this video?
Not being financial independent put women and their children to a higher risk to be abused. I despise Shera Seven and all the others selling women the idea of chasing guys with money and relying on them. This is a trap.
Staying with someone who assaults people and thinks they won’t do it to the kids is wild even if she wants to say THEYRE BABIES what happens when they’re 16 you think they seriously won’t be looked at like a piece of meat Edit: hold on how tf did he sneakily get to both these kids if the whole point of being a house wife is you sitting at home taking care of the kids isn’t that the whole job?
This is one of those situations where you can’t make sense of it. It’s a “life be lifing” moments. I feel so bad for the mom AND the kids mostly. Those poor, poor babies
Yep, I saw it with my aunt and it’s hell on earth. My mom use to say “with your taste I hope you marry a rich man” and I’d correct her each time saying I’ll be rich then. I can work and make money that’s not the playing ground in dating for me.
@@samaraisntyeah you gotta give something up whether it’s your sanity or dignity or actual labor. Marrying for money.. the same way you want their money… they’re gonna want something from you. And if you don’t vet the person... they might want something insidious
I have no problem with hypergamy as long as everybody is a consenting adult. I think the problem is people think they want a rich man when what you really want is love and you just happen to be poor. If you're looking for a trick then let it just be that, and there's men that want to be tricked on lol. But do not expect someone like that to genuinely love you. It's transactional. Def don't assume someone like that is a good person. A lot of men do not view gifts or financial support as acts of love. It's just another bill
100000%. The pressure placed on groups that systematically have less access to money, healthcare & resources puts people in so many situations I don’t feel comfortable judging with my full chest
I agree! So many people split over money or fight all the time. My husband and I try hard not to fight about money because it's just stupid, we try to focus on what we have, and if we want something, we just have to save. Money ruins families it's sad.
I also feel like people forget that once you’re in a relationship, married or not…just cause the person is financially stable now doesn’t mean they will always be
Right!?! For richer or POORER is in the vows I recall. When the man goes through a tough time job and money wise, is she gonna buckle down with him? Is she gonna economize the home budget and shop store brands? Is she gonna cook cheap casseroles that will stretch? Is she gonna get a side hustle or part time job while the kids are in school until things are back to their "normal'? Because THAT is being a good and supportive wife, as I understand it.
@@Steveanselmsome people lack guidance on certain things because they only see it from one side. It doesn’t make them stupid. Watch your words 🙄 I don’t think she was selfish I think she wanted better for her and her children but didn’t think it all the way through which most people have that problem nowadays
Say it louder for the people in the back. 💯 This is why a lot of women are living in a fantasy (especially what their mothers taught them) and are forever single. If you can’t be with your boyfriend/husband at his lowest, then you don’t deserve him when he’s at his highest.
She did but it’s my understanding that ppl who were victimized become blind to it. They don’t see the signs and behavior so they become victimized again and again.
I can remember a few romcoms that have that exact premise. We forget how pervasive the normalization of red flag abusive behaviors is in our culture. That's why You was suberversive when it aired, that romcom behavior is actually text book canaries in the coal mine for abusive dynamics. Sadly many women don't see that until they are trapped in horrid situations like this one.
I honestly feel bad. She's painfully ignorant but at the very least she left when she found out. She needs therapy to go over her obsession with money and men.
@@uniquenewyork3325 If she'd be what you say she is, then she wouldn't have left the man. You haven't seen mothers who are truly obsessed with money and men. They will deny everything to keep their lifestyle and sacrifice their kids.
@ilovepu55y There’s so many mothers who KNOW their kids are getting r*ped and molested and abused by their husbands and these women literally turn their heads the other way or accuse their daughters of lying and making things up or take the side of their husbands - they would NEVER take their daughters to the hospital to get her checked nor involve the cops (she got a police escort, the police report is NOT public record when it comes to minor aged children getting $exually abused). Hell they wouldn’t even believe their daughters if she said anything. This lady took action as soon as she realized - that’s more than a huge portion of women who stand by passively and allow their children to get abused and traumatized just so that she doesn’t have to deal with not having a man or a provider paying for her immoral lazy a$$
She decided to marry a person she didn't know like that after a week..........due to money. This is why as a single parent I choose to live with my kids until they move out of my home and own their own.
My mom never remarried or dated after her and my dad split. I would ask her why not and she said she doesn’t trust men around a young girl (me at the time).
Essentially…it looks like she was very hyper focused on “hypergamy” and the like and the the lifestyle and not necessarily his character. I say this to everyone regardless of gender…character is very very important, I don’t care how good a lady looks, how tall the guy is and etc , character should come first because looks fade and money fluctuates while character outlives them all
I started this video with boundless sympathy for this woman. Now I feel hollow. There was so many ways this could have been avoided, those poor babies and now it's out for the world to see, their trauma and how their mum prioritised men. Men she didn't even know.
Exactly. People know who the kids are and their trauma. Wouldn’t wish that on anyone. I would hate for people to look at me and know the darkest shit that happened to me.
The only people I feel bad for are the kids in this situation. Both parents failed them. I think some accountability needs to be on her as well. I hope this story is fake and she is doing this so she can return to TH-cam and get some money since the influencer game is drying up.
Guess she went from single to married in a week because he wanted access to her kids and her lack of willingness to see beyond a walking wallet put those babies in the position to being abused. I hope it was worth it for her. How shallow some people are ffs. I'm disgusted with her and so sorry for those kids... They didn't got a chance. There's a saying in my country that imo applies to people like her and her husband: "there are some people so poor that the only thing they have in life is money"
@Gobbler No it isn't. Most love the materialistic life. There's a reason most watch drama shows that can go from Love and Hip Hip and Lifetime to The View.
@ most you watch on the internet. Most women in real life have dignity and you basing your view of women on pop culture is crazy. Even if that were the case you do not know every woman 😭
My mom would always tell me “if you marry, make sure get a job and save your own money”. I don’t know what that means before but as I grow older I realized it was the best advice I’ve ever gotten.
These are the same women who claim average income men are dangerous. Yet rich men are equally dangerous if not more. They have the means to hire legal teams to beat cases. They will also resort to paying witnesses to testify against victims. Rich men are dangerous due to mere capability. She verbally stated she wants a predator, she found him.
@@gabby222themoonmen can be dangerous, rich or poor,I don't see men skipping over beautiful women to get with ugly women because ,beautiful women can have the potential to just use them.
Hours ago I read about a 19 yo who lost her life hours after gushing about finding the “perfect” sugar daddy. Social media paints a vastly different picture of the reality behind chasing paper. Innocent children being put at risk for this cause is even more heartbreaking
literally!! I'm getting so sick of people pushing women to find men who will pay for everything and to be trad!! like the men who are fine with someone just being with them for money do not care about you as a person either!! also women need to be financially secure, like you're a whole ass adult and should not just be relying on someone else for all your financial needs.
As the old feminists used to say, "A man is not a plan". When you premise your entire future in the affections of a man, youre building on very shakey ground. Its sad that women today forget this and keep making this mistake and ending up in disaster.
Good Men who have money who also want a genuine relationship take their time getting to know a woman because they can sniff out a gold digger immediately. They are observing her character too. But not this guy... that was a huge red flag...
@@VBoo459naaaa, he’s the biggest monster for even dare hurting innocent children. I would say this woman is naive, but women need to start using their logic. Seriously though. Time and time again, women are condemned for using their logic, F***k THE HERD MENTALITY. And start thinking for yourself
@@VBoo459 The mother is not a monster. She married someone she THOUGHT was a decent man. The fact that she missed red flags didn't turn him evil, he already was.
@@natashadickson4819 oh she is not innocent. She didnt care if he was decent. Her focus was money. And with d fake jewelry n tacky looking polyester clothes she wears, she dint marry “class”. Just some dude making money. Any decent person takes their time cos they hv too much to lose. Where is self respect?
This was uncomfortable AF to watch bc you want to have sympathy for her during the first 5ish minutes of her video but as you unravel her story, it makes you cringe bc there were soooooo many red flags that she could’ve avoided. If any of her story is remotely true. Thank you for finding the delicate balance in how you addressed the real life impacts of making life long decisions of who you marry because of decisions you make out financial desperation or greed.
Why I stayed single when I left my ex husband. My kids were 2 and 5. It was really lonely at times but their safety and well being were my priority. They are now in college and I have started dating again.
@@gabriellej7532how dare you. Why even waste time on any man. Much more peaceful and less work. So stupid how women even bother w men. They have shown us for generations and lately on comedy how much They hate their wives
Honey. I am 38. Just got out of an dv marriage of 17 yrs. Now why take any risk and mess up your peace and happiness w a whole damn man. I would never ever again. But on the other hand I do wish you to see through the dysfunctional most of them have (as most women have me included) and meet a real one. One of the rare good men.
And now she’s set up a go fund me. Why not just return to the 90k per year job? It’s funny but her channel came up on my feed maybe last year sometime, & I was so moved by the damaging content she was putting out, I wrote a strongly worded comment. When I saw her face in this review it triggered me again immediately. I didn’t know it was the same female
I just want to say that 90k is good money for a single person who doesn’t live in an expensive city. 90k for a family of 3 is not a lot of money. Everything else was spot on.
She's 30 now, I'm pretty sure. She was 24 when she first met her husband (soon to be ex) and made 90k then, she literally married him within 2 weeks of knowing him. And when she married him she had 2 sons (one she had when she was 17, the other when she was 21 I think. Or maybe 19 Idk). She has 2 daughters, one is 4 and the other is 2 and her most recent kid is 6months old maybe? So she has 3 kids by her current husband. I think she said that she has been with him for 5-6 years now (and she met him when she was 24). So that would make her 29/30. And it has been 5/6 years since she worked at her job, so I'm guessing it's too late to go back. And that's also 5-6 years of missed career experience, which means more difficulty finding a job. Especially since she'll likely have to pay divorce fees, lawyer fees, therapy fees etc. The daughters and recent son are all by the abuser she got married to. Also, she is the progeny of grape (her mother was graped and ended up pregnant with her because of it). She had a messy childhood and her neighbors husband used to SA her as well since she was a kid. So it makes since that she felt like she could just brush off him abusing her in the first few months of their marraige.
@@Loool_7656thank you for explaining this. Her video popped up for me but I had never seen her channel before so I didn’t understand the timelines. The fact that these are his actual daughters makes a horrendous case somehow even worse. It’s all so sad.
Her gofund me is total BS. When she was peddling those lying videos, we were out here working and busting our butts. Now that her lies and laziness have backfired, she wants to come and collect the money that we were working for while she was lazily lying on the internet?? Hell NO!
this was absolutely horrible, and the man is absolutely in the wrong. That being said if I knew my husband sexually assaulted me, I automatically wouldn’t trust him around my children. Clearly, he has a problem and needs to get help for it, especially if they didn’t address it.
@@jbhatts610 questioning whether a child got assaulted or not is fucking despicable, I hope you find peace eventually because you are not alright mentally
Yeah. I hope my comment doesn’t come across like making excuses for her- I heard her mention that she is a victim of CSA herself, and I know that for many people, that places them simultaneously in a position where they are hypervigilant about their kids, while also missing “red flags”, folding to an abusive partner, etc. not uncommon for one survivor to end up being in similar economic and social situations where their kids experience the same thing at the hands of the people they bring into the home. I feel horribly for her children and there definitely were “flags”. I also can empathize with her being in a repeated pattern, regardless of how much I dislike the aim of her content. Really sad story.
@@IndigestionMaster I am also a survivor so I can empathize with staying in a bad situation for validation. The difference here that some others in the comments don’t get is that she continued to put her children in danger for months because she didn’t want to admit that he was a predator. This is what happens when you don’t heal from your trauma. You think it’s normal and you put yourself more at risk. Thank you for trying to see both sides.
@@ethandevine8571 of course, I try. I can relate to you quite a bit on that unfortunately, a lot of my adult life has been centred around having compassion for people like my mom, but also recognizing the neglect & abuse that came out of her not having access to any means of recovery / not taking hold of her own recovery. I hope you are well, cheers x
I know this isn’t really money related but I haven’t seen anyone mention how she is putting her babies traumatic experience out into the world for everyone to know about. I feel she could have told her story without explaining the situation to the extent she did. Her children did not ask for this exposure. It could be seen as another violation. Edit: It was mentioned that she should not have their faces up after the video but I stand by their information should not have been shared.
I agree. Most people who were abused as kids don't tell anyone, and usually not till adulthood. Not that we should have to hide, but kids should have the option to tell people this trauma on their own terms. This trauma is out there forever.
I didn't even process my CSA until I was in my 20s, I couldn't imagine if my mother had posted it to the whole world, especially before I was ready to even understand
That’s what I was thinking. I don’t think she posted pictures of her children online, but at some point the kids will grow up and possibly find this video, or others at their school will. Plus, the older sons may see this video and hear, in detail too great for their age, what happened to their little sisters and mother. I get that she may be trying to raise awareness, but it’s selfish or at least thoughtless to talk about her kids’ trauma online
EXACTLY. I made a comment on the original video saying that. Like it my mom did that to me id be extremely uncomfortable. She’s exploiting these babies trauma and for what? Money
This is where the sprinkle sprinkle and the red pill ish will get you. Getting rid of that infection takes A LOT of energy and will for both women and men.
as someone that was SA as a child (earliest memory was about 6yo all the way til 15yo by multiple ppl) I feel for her child, but I can't get over her victimization of herself and loosing the lifestyle she preached other to follow, if you want to be a trophy wife that's on you cuz you are A CONSENTING ADULT, but your children is a different story, when you don't vet the ppl that come in contact with your children specially if you yourself have been a victim of SA, I can't feel sympathy for you. Now her kids are scarred for life all cuz she wanted to be a trophy wife, like that's wild
This, I went through the same at 6-8. I have two girls, 7 and 2 while I wish that it wasn’t the world we live in but I told my 7 year old that she has to tell me if someone ever touches her even her dad. If i did then she needs to tell someone else she trust to establish that no matter who it is no one should touch her. She is not allowed to have secrets and has been great at telling me everything that happens at school. I will do the same for any of my kids once they understand. If I ended up single, I absolutely would never date or allow any men inside my home.
@@ep5957 thank you so much, I have worked on my trauma and triggers for a long time, I am happily married to a man who was very understanding, caring and respectful of those triggers and has love me thru healing my inner child
There's a girl at my job that got pregnant with twins 3 months are meeting a man from tinder. She talked so much about how she looked him up and that she found out makes 6 figures and is a union worker before meeting him in person. Moved her 3 year old daughter in with him with 1 month, found out she was pregnant after 3 months, and then they had a shot gun wedding and sold her house. Today still doesn't make a year since they met. That could never be me. People are way too good at hiding their true selves to move that fast. I don't wish any bad, and I hope she's the exception because she could end up like this lady.
Ppl are failing to understand that the ones that are real housewives/sahm are not on social media teaching anyone to do the things she did.. but on the part of the kids that man should get life!
@@sambeezy007and the commenter never said “value yourself ABOVE your kids”, they said “value yourself first. Protect your children” meaning valuing yourself is valuing the things you care about aka your kids over your husband who is a diddler
Same. I was thay child. I wished so bad my mom didn't bother dating while my brother and I were small. So many memories of her crying and us restarting because she would give and give to them and get dogged out.
a lot of times abusers will shower you with gifts, money, praise... etc. after abusing you. i can say from experience after going through really bad times, I would be treated amazingly and the relationship would be perfect until the cycle repeated itself. Horrible to wonderful then back to horrible and back again.
The first strike, the first word of abuse and if I’d be out! I wish more people loved themselves enough to do the same. Like, it’s so much better be be single and around friends and family filled with love and appreciation, then to be with someone who literally hates you but covers it up with frivolities.
When my husband and I discussed his idea of me leaving my job and being a stay at home wife, I let him know that I will ALWAYS need to make and have my own money. That should be a nonnegotiable for everyone, we shouldn’t depend on anyone but ourselves to provide.. especially with children.
No, the man is going to provide for his children. Just because you carried the baby for 9 months doesn't mean that you are more responsible than the father is,stop adding baggage to yourselves
@@JussaBehbi the girls that were abused were that mans children because before she married she only had 2 boys. that could literally happen with anyone she couldve married for money or not, no one thinks if their partner would abuse their own children.
@@mirimariana true but usually u dont assume the man u married would abuse his own bio children but if its a stranger to the kids u gotta be careful and think of the kids safety from start
I'm 40 yrs old and it makes me sad that the younger generation of women seem to have lost the lessons that our mothers and grandmother's taught us. Millennial women were raised to be independent and now for some reason the narrative is that was the wrong approach, I dont know why. Putting yourself and your kids in a position to be dependent on a man is the worst thing you can possibly do. Alot of women are unhappy because theres so much stigma put on single mothers, everyone needs to look at how they judge single moms in their lives or online.
That woman has a whole nerve! Her whole platform was based on her being a trophy wife to a wealthy man but now she's exploiting her children for money. Used that video to exploit her children's trauma for views and cash and wants more money in terms of donations. She's horrible. That woman will literally do anything except get a job and protect her children.
My husband and I recently had the conversation about what we would do if the other person passed and he asked if I would get married again. The relief on his face when I told him I wouldn’t even consider dating again until all the kids were grown and out of my house confirmed I’m not overreacting even a little bit. The statistics don’t lie. I’m not saying there aren’t incredible men who step up and fulfill that father role well, I’m just saying I’m not gonna risk my kids. I will ride the struggle bus until the day I die to make sure I did everything possible to keep my kids safe.
But…. The children her husband abused are biologically his apparently. She had 2 boys before meeting him, then 2 girls with him and he abused them. Remariage has nothing to to with it in this case.
My dad died when I was 9. My mum dated two men after him. The first guy would pick me up from school and I would catch him looking at my chest from the rearview mirror. I always had the most creepy vibes from him, never wanted to be alone with him, but I also could not vocalise what I experienced to my mother because I didn't know how to. As a child (I was 10/11) I felt guilty speaking up because this person helped our family out a lot, and also I wasn't taught how to stand up from myself. I am an asian person, from south east Asia where there is a huge emphasis on respecting elders. When you aren't taught how to stand up for yourself, you don't. I didn't know I was allowed to stand up for myself. The next man she dated she fell hopelessly in love with. She shipped me and my brother to boarding school in a different state so for a significant part of my childhood I was left with abusive caretakers. I guess my mum did the bare minimum which is make sure we got an education, and that someone looked after us, but my guardians were narcissistic abusive people. I was only 12. I am still resentful to my mum for putting me through that just so she could honeymoon with a man that was literally just eyeing the property my dad left us. Another time I was 16, wanted to learn how to ride a motorbike because I thought it was cool at the time. She got one of her friends to teach me and he basically molested me while I was winding the motorbike sitting behind me. It felt like throughout my childhood she put no thought into the men she would bring into her household. I just think its extremely irresponsible to let people have access to your children when they are children.
@@346ego that’s why I said what I would do, not what she should’ve done. We’ve lived different lives and that lead to different choices. I’m not passing judgement on her, but I am absolutely broken hearted for her children.
That's what a proper mother does. The moment she realized what was happening, she found a way to get her kids out. I've read way to many stories of "mothers" who either ignore the abuse or tolarate it or just don't believe it is happening. SO sad.
very true, but i feel like since shes been saed by him before she would know he was a grapist and would not trust him to be around her kids anymore knowing what he may be capable of and would’ve gotten them away sooner
The whole online hypergamy “movement” always felt so disingenuous, morally bankrupt, and retrograde to me. I’m not pretending financial stability means nothing in a relationship, but when you lead with seeking wealth and put that above other factors like character, values, morals, compatibility the relationship will be on superficial and shaky ground. Many of these ladies pushing this lifestyle don’t even lead the lives they portend to lead. She was telling women to not be too desperate and let men chase them after marrying a man after knowing him for a week. Make it make sense!
Both men and women in these spaces spend more time concocting mind games to have more power over the opposite sex than actually interacting genuinely with them. Notice how most of them are not married nor in a long term relationship, and if they are, it's toxic and unstable. All they can keep are f*ck b*ddies, because loving relationships don't work with mind games and power struggles, but with respect. Those people don't respect each other. In fact, some of them seem to HATE each other. And see getting into a relationship as beating the opposite sex into submission. It's disturbing to see.
I'm a man, so a lot of the time it can come off as insecurity or some kind of bitterness when I try and tell women that this lifestyle of chasing rich men doesn't lead to anything good. I always tell women that chasing money is setting yourself up for financial abuse AT BEST. I'm not the super controlling type, but being a man and knowing how other men think, I know that a guy taking care of your whole lifestyle while you do nothing to contribute financially will give him the idea that he can do whatever he wants to you, because what are you gonna do? He takes care of you, you need to appreciate everything he does for you. And if he does you wrong, so what? Be happy you're taken care of. What are you gonna do, leave? And have to go back to work? Of course not so just sit down and shut up while he does his thing. That's the logic of MOST men who know they're being used for their money. When that man forced himself on her FOUR TIMES and she just stuck through it and tried to get over it, it gave him the idea that she's so hungry for money that she'll accept anything. He attacked her four times and she just turned around and made TH-cam videos about how perfect he is, why wouldn't he be able to touch his own children in his own house? This woman ignored so many red flags, it's crazy. These weren't even red flags, these were STOPLIGHTS. I don't wanna blame her because it's not her fault at all that her husband is a monster, but at the same time, her story should be used as a cautionary tale. It's one thing to want a man who is financially stable, that makes perfect sense, but CHASING money leads nowhere good. Thats why ancient people 3000 years ago were writing about the love of money being the root of all evil.
Wow, Symone. I love all your videos but this one just went above and beyond. I’d like to see more content from you like this on top of your regular financial stuff. You shared a lot and I appreciate your work ❤
I don’t understand people being lonely when they have kids. If you actually spend time and do activities with your kids, you don’t even have the energy for a man. Stop exposing your kids to random men. Kids with step parents are at least 100X time more exposed to abuse (both sexual and physical)
There's different types of loneliness. You can live your kids to death and have a happy and fulfilling life with them but some people want a full family or to not feel because they're a single mother/father they can't have live in their life for eighteen years. I just think those people need to be smarter because they do have kids and the person needs to live both them and be safe and committed to their children
Honestly, it has less to do with being lonely than it is wanting help. Literally no one wants to be a single mother, it's an unfortunate event that happens that puts most of the child rearing workload on the mother. It's hard work, and it's normal for a single mom to want someone that can contribute just as much. Although, that comes with it's own caveats like you said. Unfortunately, there's no way to entirely tell if a man is safe, so prioritizing your children's safety should come first before any relationship.
27:40 I’ll give Shera her props she always said don’t be stupid behind any man. The 2 babies he touched were his bio kids not the stepkids. ETA: Not only mothers but potential mothers, this will be the father of your kids!
While 90k at 24 is very good income. If she has a couple kids, lives in a high cost of living area and wants to live a luxurious life 90k on 1 salary won't take you very far. I know because I live in a high cost of living area.
Key part of this is you saying wanting a luxury life style when you aren’t making the means !!!! Evb wants to live beyond their means😂tryna keep up with the Jones’s
Sad but this is what social media / influencers are trying to tell the world. Get a rich man & be all about money. Saweetie, City Girls, Mulatto have music with themes about how rich or how they use men for money. This theme of scamming men and chasing after men’s money is a dangerous game to play with.
Men are dangerous regardless, every relationship you get into is a gamble because at the end of the day, he has free will and can choose to do something unpredictable at ANYTIME. I will agree that not being fast into a relationship is a good step to avoid abuse, but at the end of the day, life is a gamble, there are precautions and tricks you can take to win the game, but you can still loose it all at anytime no matter what
of course men are dangerous. Anyone can be dangerous in a relationship but especially within this example. Meeting a stranger and marrying him when you don’t even know him is dangerous. Inviting your kids to live with him too is wreckless.
43:42 her situation is terrible. Don’t get me wrong but advertising the trauma that she’s putting her kids through in order to essentially sad fish and get people to give her money feels very icky.
Sis yesssssss. The point you made, “she posted all these videos even after having been r*#ped by her own husband” and soooooo many people want to live that “HIGH” life. Whew! We need to stop glorifying others and walk in our own journey. Perfect message! I pray for those babies that were affected by their own father.
I know a woman similar to this, maybe even worse. All her children have different fathers. She moves from man to man. Has them eat pizza. I babysat one of her sons at my house when I was younger + he had severe issues. He was not used to my dad being a fatherly figure to him + home-made meals. These children are the ones suffering.
It’s atrocious what happened to her and her children, and hopefully she pressed charges. There is an irony of referring to these wealthy men as predators in the first video. She thought she had him controlled and she was the the one in power.
That's the saddest part, those women genuinely think being attractive to a rich man will protect them from a powerful legal team, bribes, weaponization of the courts to make them go broke, etc etc after they get tired and go for a divorce.
Thank you for saying that out loud!! Demons most certainly exist. Be sober-minded, be alert. Your adversary the devil is prowling around like a roaring lion, looking for anyone he can devour- Peter 5:8.
Demons don't exist.... but bad decisions and ignorance do. Call it demons if you want but it's just consequences of life nothing supernatural. Choices have consequences and taking responsibility for those choices will free you so much more in life than blaming imaginary absolute beings instead of seeing the spectrum of nuance
Predators seek out single-parents who are desperate for relationships or for financial assistance. She was not the prize to him, her children were. The original video was recommended to me, and I am not going to watch it. I do not want to bring any more views or money to that channel. She did not need, no she should not have talked about her children's trauma like this, she should've focused on herself and her ex-spouse and the signs she missed. I don't want to hear anything from her except she's sorry to her children, will fight this man until the ends of the earth, and will be ride or die for her children from now on.
Normal parents don't even give a fck about their kids unless their kids are scrubbing their feet, you expect this longa-throat narcissist to become a place of healing for her children when she was so busy trying to scam a rich madman out of his money under the pretense of "marriage"? IF this woman was living in systematic poverty she would not be thinking about having kids because taking care of herself is trouble enough, kids = child support is all she was thinking about until this man became too much to handle.
Honestly, I think she went for him because she wanted to prove she could get a man to sponsor her princess life style. She didn’t think that anything like this could happen to someone like her. As you said, she had what she needed. This is what happens when we want more than what God has given us. She quite LITERALLY had it all.
I don’t think she expected this either. Just because a women’s looking for a comfortable life style doesn’t mean she’s willing to do “whatever it takes” to get it. I mean pedophiles LIVE for being sick and sneaky!
I'm so so sad for her and her children, that hurt will last a lifetime. I really hope people don't relish in the trauma that her and her family have been through because they don't agree with her choices. No matter what, no one deserves that. She's 100% in the wrong keeping those pics up and giving their names, the gofundme is whatever to me, she gotta eat, but her daughters deserved anonymity at the very least.
Growing up my mom would always say "if you marry a man for money, you will earn every penny." This is why our mothers and grandmothers told us to always have our own money.
It’s so scary and sad that she was referring to him as a predator and then that’s what he turned out to be. Like my man isn’t a millionaire, but he pays bills for us. All I have to do is think about cleaning my house and working he doesn’t even let me know if he’s stressed about money, but I also respect and trust him enough not to hurt me or destroy our life
My mom didn’t tell me about (my now step dad) or let him meet me until after 2 YEARS dating. How can someone be so blinded by money that they put their kids in harms way…?
It’s insane that women are advocating for the normalization of giving away your power to someone else. As amazing as it is to be taken care of, we have to be smart in vetting the men we’re choosing! What happened to her is awful and it’s really hard to imagine the type of pain she must be going through. None of us never need to learn this the hard way ladies, men + financial power can be a horrendous mix. From the stories I’ve heard, the signs are always there. In that analogy she used of men wanting to work hard for the chase since they’re natural predators, the other side of that coin is that you’re implicitly saying that you’re prey. Take that in.
There is not enough money, no house or ring big enough, that would make me wana stay with anyone that hit me or graped me. He can keep it all after the first time.
Not even in a facetious way, but when the kids you already have don't fw the person you're trying to date it's a SIGN (not always just teen angst). Young people can be decent judges of character
I feel for her but I also can't imagine putting my daughters' trauma on the internet forever without their consent and for everyone to see. 💰💸 Also, he's a rich man right? He's going to be paying alimony and child support. We don't need to be sending her money.
@@AspenCharmCakes completely agree. The platforms should at least not allow monetization of content with minors. I thought it was bad enough that she was talking about what happened to her daughters publicly in that some people will figure out who those daughters are, but that she’s posting their names and faces on a public platform is not okay. In 10-20 years someone could google their names and see a bunch of stuff come up all about how they were SAed by their Dad. Their privacy has been completely thrown out the window. I feel so bad for those kids. Obviously the assault is the worst part, but the way they are still being exploited by their mom for financial gain and sympathy is still not okay. The level of detail she goes into, everything. It’s not like she’s even putting him on blast with his identity to make sure people know who HE is and others are protected. It’s so incredibly selfish.
@@Clockwork_999 sadly with no proof in these situations I doubt anything will happen to him. Especially since he has money for lawyers and everything. So sad but it’s the same old story I hope people be careful out there
Shrea said make your own money first! And that lady, the Trophy Wife, was a sugar baby before making sugar baby content. That’s why I work & save my own money! If I’m dating someone you need to be more than financially sound, but morally too! I turn down men with low morality with money because they have major issues!!!!
I feel numb towards her. She was arrogant with the brand she was teaching and deceived her followers promoting a lifestyle where she was secretly getting abused behind the scenes. In her case, the red flags were there when he graped her which clearly communicated he didn’t view her as a human but as an object to control. Then proceeds to allow him around her children and also give him 2 more? This is all so messy I understand the fantasy of a luxury life but it is way too risky. For every one woman it works out for, there’s multiple where it ends badly. I personally will not put my well being in the hands of anyone ever again. The only person you can really depend on is yourself
The red flags for her were there during the 1st date. Any man that's like be my gf after being around you for two hours is a huge pulsing red flag. By the time she married him, it was already far too late. He already had her firmly in the trap. What was gonna happen was gonna happen. He knew he could raoe her and get away with it because he knew she was desperate and had no self esteem.
I’m not sure if you’ll see this but the timing of your video quite literally shifted my brain chemistry and changed the trajectory of my life. I’m 26 and family, and friends always cracked into my head to never talk to a man who cannot provide. This consumed me, and made me feel like a failure even though I had my own everything by 23 without a man. however, my mother would call all the time to tell me I pay too much for rent and that I should have a man providing for me. The last 2 years I lost everything I worked for chasing those men thinking I would be married, and have a man with money just for her to call me broke and a prostitute. Now I see I’m not going crazy and was influenced to do those things by people who envied where I got myself to. I cut these people off. I’m still young and I want you to know your words throughout this video touched my soul dearly I’m literally crying. For all my young women, Don’t listen to family and friends who boast of getting men to spoil you, pay your bills, etc those men will destroy you.
I hope you read this comment, I am so sorry that you went through that. 💔 Never feel ashamed of not having a man to provide for you. MEN SHOULDN'T BE A "LIFE HACK'. You have the power to dictate whether you will be financially stable! Making sure if you do find a man he has good morals, character and soul! It is OK to be married or in a relationship and it is also okay to be single. Don't EVER let anyone make you feel less than because you do not have a man! (And I say that last statement as a married woman) In the meantime, Work on yourself and never forget to put God first! Your Life has value and purpose regardless of if you have a man or not. I am so glad that I have been able to help in any way and I wish you all of these success in your life. 💓
@ Thank you from the bottom of my soul. I feel so grounded again. I did it before and I can do it again. I’m picking up the pieces of my life and taking men out of the equation because I always did better by myself. I just want to reclaim my life and my power back. I have a 6 year old who I have to make sure she has a great healthy childhood and I must lead by example. Heavy on “protecting your children” Heavy on “standing on my own 2 feet” Heavy on “stop wasting time getting pampered” OMG SISTER AMEN Thank you so much for this major wake up call. Sending you lots of love, and blessings Symone 🩷
The reason why Dad didn't remarry when he split up with mom is because he was worried he would pick up a gold digger / selfish narcissist who would want to remove me from the equation and or start pitting her children against me. Because the more kids a selfish narcissist has the more she can get in child support.
The phrase “I can do it on my own” isn’t meant to be defensive or overcompensatory, it should be a reminder not to settle or put yourself at unnecessary risk because you are able to be independent and make it on your own. She brings it up like modern women are just being stubborn. NO. Those of us with old school parents/grandparents were warned about this very kind of situation happening and being unable to leave and protect your kids. You CAN survive on your own so be selective and strengthen your foundation so any ole man won’t be able to break it.
It’s wild that women are going after men just because of the financial aspect. This should never be the case. I hope she gets the help for her two daughters. Those kids are going to be traumatized for their life because of that horrible predator.
I’m so lucky that I married a kind man. He’s a school teacher, we aren’t rich. But he is an equal, a partner, and a good person. Twelve years, two kids later, the love and respect is stronger than ever.
one of my parents didn’t really date or bring their dates around me and focused on their career, while the other took the opposite approach. seeing adults put everything over their kids really bothers me to my core
Oh my god. How tragic. I am so grateful my children never experienced this, but honestly it can happen to anyone. And some people are so good at hiding their daemons.
I guess my immediate red flag is: She’s a single a mom with high income (love to see this). Her relationship had ended (okay, happens to everyone), but….she brought her children into this man’s house without slowly intergrading her child into this NEW environment with a MAN that’s not their daddy. I would have taken my sweet time to let him get to know the kids. To let my kids comfortably and discreetly tell me how they really feel about mamas new boyfriend. Having a husband is a wonderful goal to want/have but bum rushing it is wild. She’s has access to the internet and I would have done a deep deep deep dive into that man. It’s one thing to do what she did without kids and slowly get to know him over time….but it’s upsetting and irresponsible to move this quickly with a stranger when you have babies (for their safety). I feel so bad for this women and her children and I truly hope and wish her journey out of this disgusting nightmare will bring her justice
She had two teenage sons before the marriage. She should still have been cautious because boys are targeted too, however it is a social blindspot many people have. The husband graped his own biological daughters after they were married for years.
My heart goes out to her daughter and the rest of her kids, they don't deserve this. Hopefully, she shuts down her channel to re-evaluate her content and herself, so that she will truly understand why money and status aren't the most important when finding the right man for you. Her obsession led her directly to the horrendous situation that she got herself out of. Her ex needs to be put under the jail, but she's not blameless about what she's gone through.
Real talk, I’m 24 (almost 25) and make $91k. It was going to business school for accounting and IT, getting internships each summer and then a full-time job at a Big 4 accounting firm. This was all before the layoffs that are happening now, so it’s probably more competitive. It’s an amazing income, but I do live in a high cost of living city and they definitely work you for the salary (Big 4 is known for awful work-life balance with poor compensation when you calculate in all the hours you are not paid overtime for). I’m happy with this for now because it affords myself an independent lifestyle and savings, but it’s not a place I want to be long-term due to the stress. But the stresses of poverty and not knowing if you can pay the bills is surely much worse.
@@Anngrl69a lot of them get into tech companies from DEI. That’s why I always say they hire fine women just to do simple stuff in office have some diversity
Am I the only woman that is skeptical of intimate , personal information shared on the Internet? I find internet tears combined with stories hard to believe. If regular women accuse their Husbands of false heinous acts in court for custody and payment, who's to say she's not doing the same - but on the Internet for clout and to plead her case before any court date?
Thank you so much! I was hoping that my delivery wouldn't be too abrasive because I still wanted to be myself and be Blunt but this is quite a hard topic to discuss due to the sensitive nature of this involving children.
Also notice how she said "Predators want something to chase"... odd how she ended up being the prey. I never noticed how dysfunctional a lot of our rhetoric is these days until I really thought about it. This is what we tell to little girls. This is what we tell to ourselves. I don't know about you, but I don't want to be prey.
Allllsoooo did she not think that he knew she was a gold digger right from the get-go? It's plastered all over her social media. So no amount of games on her end could hide this. This retched "man" found his mark right from the beginning. If you think these kinds of men aren't reading you, you're wrong. Oh dear... this video got me all kinds of heated up.
4b is migtow (men going their own way). Do whatever you want, but you don’t have to be a nun to be safe. You can have healthy relationships. You can be safe and smart, unlike that lady.
Something about her experience doesn't add up to me. Did she romanticise being in a relationship so much that 90k wasnt enough money to stay single? Was she telling the truth about having 90k? Why does she need GoFundMe now? If she had a rich husband, considering the crime he committed against their kids and her, wouldn't the court award her? I am so sorry her kids had to go through this. I am so sorry she had to experience this and i hope the lessons are learnt. I like shera response. You cant blame shera or snippets of her content which may have influenced poor choice.
no, the court wouldn't. All accusations need proof and evidence beyond reasonable doubt and she will likely be jailed for defamation and perjury and character assassination. May her husband be blessed.
She’s lying she can live with family she’s begging yall for money her ex is probably giving her something she can get child support so why does she need your money?
She says all these things about “acting” like you are not inpressed by a wealthy man dating her but its still an act. As long as you are “acting” your desperation shows in your energy. Its ridiculous
Why do women desire to be chased and hunted, or to be a trophy. Normally hunting ends in death, it’s a scary situation to be “chased” and trophies are admired never really appreciated. Think higher of yourselves and speak life into ourselves and relationships. You never know who you will attract using those words. It’s okay to want a man to be able to protect and provide but a good man is so much more than that and you’re missing out if money is all you’re looking for. What happens to wanting love, connection, a life long companion, please ladies be careful and remember certain men are not giving their resources away for free, wife or not.
So wait he assaulted her and then thought he was a decent man let alone father??? Is that what I’m hearing I’m confused on why she thought the kids would be spared obviously he didn’t care about consent they’re smaller and weaker
I want say out of all these videos talking about it, YOU have done a GREAT JOB!! highlighting what needs to be highlighted and while showing empathy in the parts where it needed it as well as prioritizing the conversation about the children and further protecting them by not having their faces plastered everywhere.
I’m praying her and children heal, however, the mother was so negligent and put her kids in harms way because she married a stranger for selfish reasons. she married him after a week and left her kids alone with him because she was so concerned with her public image on social media and making money off of manipulative content. and she was more concerned with what he could do for her financially. AND she said herself he r*ped her about 4 times and still married him for his money. she put her kids in danger and harms way, she let a complete stranger into their home. the mom is a victim but she absolutely is at fault as well.
I wasn’t able to finish the video. But, from the few comments that I’ve read, her ex grapes her and her kid(s)? And she chased him because he was rich? This is crazy. I don’t know how to feel about her video. On one hand people need to be warned, on the other, people now know her children were victimized. Edit: Where the hell are the kids father?
He graped her after she married him. So everything bad happened after she married to him, not before. And she has 4 kids and 1 new born. She discovered that he molested her 4yo and 2yo daughter. At least she did leave him when she found out and didn’t stay with him and put her daughters in danger for money.
@@M_SCAs far as the woman in the video goes, I would probably say yeah. I mean she did marry a predator solely based off of the fact that he was rich, and according to another comment she stayed with him after he graped her. So if that’s true, I think most people would and probably should feel guilty and ashamed. Not because she herself was victimized, but because of what happened to the kids. Now as far as the kids go, of course not. I just understand that this may follow them around in life because their mom is an influencer. And I’m not even sure if she released this video with pure intentions or partially for clout. I’m going to assume the best and just say she wanted to warn other women. I do feel bad for her, but I mainly feel bad for those kids. They never agreed to be around that monster.
Hey Symone 👋🏼 this is a horrible event. Another reason to have self worth, keep some type of independence. She should have told the police and why is he not giving her financial help? 😞 Do better women ✌🏼👍🏼
I'm sorry this happened to these kids. My own mother did yhe same shit. 6 children total though all different dads and none of us really have a relationship with her or each other. Therapy was good ordeal for me. Tis not my shame to bare anymore.
This girl needs to tie her tubes. She failed motherhood the minute she decided it was more important to chase a fantasy, then live in reality and establish stability on her own for her children.
As a survivor of similar childhood abuse, I am so thankful for you being on youtube and sharing your thoughts. I love your usual videos and you inspire me to keep pushing
She says she could see physical damage to her daughter. Not taking this to the police would be neglect. Every lawyer would tell her to take that video down as it could mess with the case. And shouldn't she be expecting half his money in the divorce? Im not even saying she's lying but she's making the worst decisions possible with the info
You see.. this is why i really love your channel because you are educating people on finances & letting people know not to rely on money. I never knew this lady but i watched her previous video on how she met her husband & there were soooo much red flags. From how she met him, the age gap, and her buying the engagement ring. It’s like she forced herself on him. I hope she has rlly learned from her mistakes
I agree with you but have to point out that $90k is great money when you're single and childless. If you have two or more children $90k isn't that great.
Sure it is. You have two parent homes that make that. Single moms make it work on a lot less. If she got rid of the hair and make up that frees up hundreds right there
@@kaylean39 Well anyone can live in poverty, sure. But this woman specifically lives/wanted a luxury lifestyle and $90k with two kids is not going to afford that.
It’s crazy to me as to WHY women who are house wives DO NOT SAVE MONEY. Don’t you get money for your self from your partner? SAVE a LITTLE AT A TIME PLEASE. Don’t tell him just save!!!
Good for her for getting her children out of that situation, but the fact that she's still grifting online makes me doubt she learned much. I hope she doesn't put them right into the same situation again.
What is yawls take on this story? What was the craziest part of the video to you all do you all think that the trophy wife life is one that women should aspire to have? How do you feel about women not being financially independent? Do you know anyone who has experience something similar to any of the things that were mentioned? Overall, what were your takes from this video?
If her husband sees her videos he's gonna feel hella manipulated.
Not being financial independent put women and their children to a higher risk to be abused. I despise Shera Seven and all the others selling women the idea of chasing guys with money and relying on them. This is a trap.
Staying with someone who assaults people and thinks they won’t do it to the kids is wild even if she wants to say THEYRE BABIES what happens when they’re 16 you think they seriously won’t be looked at like a piece of meat
Edit: hold on how tf did he sneakily get to both these kids if the whole point of being a house wife is you sitting at home taking care of the kids isn’t that the whole job?
This is one of those situations where you can’t make sense of it. It’s a “life be lifing” moments. I feel so bad for the mom AND the kids mostly. Those poor, poor babies
I don’t believe her
This is a very sad story 😢. I once heard an older woman say "If you marry for money, you will earn every cent." I never forgot her advice.
My mother divorced my father (a good man) and remarried for money and this saying is 100% true.
Yep, I saw it with my aunt and it’s hell on earth. My mom use to say “with your taste I hope you marry a rich man” and I’d correct her each time saying I’ll be rich then. I can work and make money that’s not the playing ground in dating for me.
does that mean cause they’ll work you? like you earn it by working too much right?
@@samaraisntyeah you gotta give something up whether it’s your sanity or dignity or actual labor. Marrying for money.. the same way you want their money… they’re gonna want something from you. And if you don’t vet the person... they might want something insidious
@@aphr0dthey always want something insidious. It’s apart of the evil it’s all rooted in. You’ll have to give your soul… they all do.
A discussion needs to be made about the psychological trauma of money. The fears surrounding having it, losing it, trying to keep it, and pursue it.
True
Lot of religions have discussed for centuries and we basically not listening😂
I have no problem with hypergamy as long as everybody is a consenting adult. I think the problem is people think they want a rich man when what you really want is love and you just happen to be poor. If you're looking for a trick then let it just be that, and there's men that want to be tricked on lol. But do not expect someone like that to genuinely love you. It's transactional. Def don't assume someone like that is a good person. A lot of men do not view gifts or financial support as acts of love. It's just another bill
100000%. The pressure placed on groups that systematically have less access to money, healthcare & resources puts people in so many situations I don’t feel comfortable judging with my full chest
I agree! So many people split over money or fight all the time. My husband and I try hard not to fight about money because it's just stupid, we try to focus on what we have, and if we want something, we just have to save. Money ruins families it's sad.
I also feel like people forget that once you’re in a relationship, married or not…just cause the person is financially stable now doesn’t mean they will always be
Right!?! For richer or POORER is in the vows I recall. When the man goes through a tough time job and money wise, is she gonna buckle down with him? Is she gonna economize the home budget and shop store brands? Is she gonna cook cheap casseroles that will stretch? Is she gonna get a side hustle or part time job while the kids are in school until things are back to their "normal'? Because THAT is being a good and supportive wife, as I understand it.
The partner can also die or be incapacitated for a few weeks or months. How do you maintain the money? You gotta have your own.
IF this story is true then the real victims are the children bcus mommy was selfish and very stupid to follow only the money
@@Steveanselmsome people lack guidance on certain things because they only see it from one side. It doesn’t make them stupid. Watch your words 🙄 I don’t think she was selfish I think she wanted better for her and her children but didn’t think it all the way through which most people have that problem nowadays
Say it louder for the people in the back. 💯 This is why a lot of women are living in a fantasy (especially what their mothers taught them) and are forever single. If you can’t be with your boyfriend/husband at his lowest, then you don’t deserve him when he’s at his highest.
One date. She went on ONE DATE with this man and married him. she didn't deserve what happened to her but she walked right into that.
She did but it’s my understanding that ppl who were victimized become blind to it. They don’t see the signs and behavior so they become victimized again and again.
I can remember a few romcoms that have that exact premise. We forget how pervasive the normalization of red flag abusive behaviors is in our culture. That's why You was suberversive when it aired, that romcom behavior is actually text book canaries in the coal mine for abusive dynamics. Sadly many women don't see that until they are trapped in horrid situations like this one.
Well put wolf
@@SailorSlayNAH. That's inexcusable, she had kids to think about. That's insane
@@SailorSlayit’s hard to see signs of anything within a single date
"He really embraced children because he wanted children." Hindsight is 20/20. My heart goes out to those girls.
I honestly feel bad. She's painfully ignorant but at the very least she left when she found out. She needs therapy to go over her obsession with money and men.
She had 20/20 vision from the very beginning but she chose to be voluntarily blind for a price.
@@uniquenewyork3325 If she'd be what you say she is, then she wouldn't have left the man. You haven't seen mothers who are truly obsessed with money and men. They will deny everything to keep their lifestyle and sacrifice their kids.
@@Laoriginal718 Bingo! her being g*ape 4 times in the beginning of the marriage and didn't leave after is proof of that...
@ilovepu55y There’s so many mothers who KNOW their kids are getting r*ped and molested and abused by their husbands and these women literally turn their heads the other way or accuse their daughters of lying and making things up or take the side of their husbands - they would NEVER take their daughters to the hospital to get her checked nor involve the cops (she got a police escort, the police report is NOT public record when it comes to minor aged children getting $exually abused). Hell they wouldn’t even believe their daughters if she said anything. This lady took action as soon as she realized - that’s more than a huge portion of women who stand by passively and allow their children to get abused and traumatized just so that she doesn’t have to deal with not having a man or a provider paying for her immoral lazy a$$
She decided to marry a person she didn't know like that after a week..........due to money. This is why as a single parent I choose to live with my kids until they move out of my home and own their own.
❤ respect
My mom never remarried or dated after her and my dad split. I would ask her why not and she said she doesn’t trust men around a young girl (me at the time).
Essentially…it looks like she was very hyper focused on “hypergamy” and the like and the the lifestyle and not necessarily his character.
I say this to everyone regardless of gender…character is very very important, I don’t care how good a lady looks, how tall the guy is and etc , character should come first because looks fade and money fluctuates while character outlives them all
My mom has still not brought a man home since my dad left. I’m now 30 and she has her own business and bought her own home… without a man or his money
But they are HIS daughters.
I started this video with boundless sympathy for this woman.
Now I feel hollow. There was so many ways this could have been avoided, those poor babies and now it's out for the world to see, their trauma and how their mum prioritised men. Men she didn't even know.
Exactly!I missed the pop up on the screen so I didn’t know that he assaulted her first. Why would she trust him with the kids alone?💔
@@Barbiex.o She can't have trusted him but she did choose to stay and I can't comprehend that
Exactly. People know who the kids are and their trauma. Wouldn’t wish that on anyone. I would hate for people to look at me and know the darkest shit that happened to me.
The only people I feel bad for are the kids in this situation. Both parents failed them. I think some accountability needs to be on her as well. I hope this story is fake and she is doing this so she can return to TH-cam and get some money since the influencer game is drying up.
Guess she went from single to married in a week because he wanted access to her kids and her lack of willingness to see beyond a walking wallet put those babies in the position to being abused.
I hope it was worth it for her. How shallow some people are ffs. I'm disgusted with her and so sorry for those kids... They didn't got a chance.
There's a saying in my country that imo applies to people like her and her husband: "there are some people so poor that the only thing they have in life is money"
-I married a monster-
I married money and overlooked the monster
When materialism blinds a woman. Sadly most are like this.
@@sambeezy007 most women? That’s ridiculous lmao
@Gobbler No it isn't. Most love the materialistic life. There's a reason most watch drama shows that can go from Love and Hip Hip and Lifetime to The View.
@ most you watch on the internet. Most women in real life have dignity and you basing your view of women on pop culture is crazy. Even if that were the case you do not know every woman 😭
@ “women are materialistic because some people watch reality TV👶” You’re an actual digitard mate.
My mom would always tell me “if you marry, make sure get a job and save your own money”. I don’t know what that means before but as I grow older I realized it was the best advice I’ve ever gotten.
Smart mom!
That's what I have schooled my daughter....people whom have the power to feed you also have the power to starve you.
These are the same women who claim average income men are dangerous. Yet rich men are equally dangerous if not more. They have the means to hire legal teams to beat cases. They will also resort to paying witnesses to testify against victims. Rich men are dangerous due to mere capability. She verbally stated she wants a predator, she found him.
Literally this women don’t understand how dangerous men with money and power are.
@@gabby222themoonmen can be dangerous, rich or poor,I don't see men skipping over beautiful women to get with ugly women because ,beautiful women can have the potential to just use them.
@@purplelove3666lots of men choose average women
@@purplelove3666 Rich men have more means to be dangerous and more resources to get away with it.
Truth!
Look at diddy
Hours ago I read about a 19 yo who lost her life hours after gushing about finding the “perfect” sugar daddy. Social media paints a vastly different picture of the reality behind chasing paper. Innocent children being put at risk for this cause is even more heartbreaking
@ yes, such a sad situation
literally!! I'm getting so sick of people pushing women to find men who will pay for everything and to be trad!! like the men who are fine with someone just being with them for money do not care about you as a person either!! also women need to be financially secure, like you're a whole ass adult and should not just be relying on someone else for all your financial needs.
Gushing?
@@sambeezy007 in awe / excitement of finding a rich man.
@@lonelyheartsclub11she was directly influenced by that “sprinkle sprinkle” girl.
As the old feminists used to say, "A man is not a plan".
When you premise your entire future in the affections of a man, youre building on very shakey ground.
Its sad that women today forget this and keep making this mistake and ending up in disaster.
it is sad that women play victim all the time and always.
get to the gym not social media.
@MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y You sound very insecure and incel-y.
Maybe stop attacking women for speaking up about sh*tty men and go fix yourself.
@@MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y How is the gym a solution in this situation?
@malicemisa1 it reduces FAT and improves your overall health if done properly under professional guidance
What on earth are you talking about? 💀@@MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y
Good Men who have money who also want a genuine relationship take their time getting to know a woman because they can sniff out a gold digger immediately. They are observing her character too. But not this guy... that was a huge red flag...
Exactly. Both of them used eachother and he was the bigger monster
@@VBoo459naaaa, he’s the biggest monster for even dare hurting innocent children. I would say this woman is naive, but women need to start using their logic. Seriously though. Time and time again, women are condemned for using their logic, F***k THE HERD MENTALITY. And start thinking for yourself
Such an underrated comment. Exactly!
@@VBoo459 The mother is not a monster. She married someone she THOUGHT was a decent man. The fact that she missed red flags didn't turn him evil, he already was.
@@natashadickson4819 oh she is not innocent. She didnt care if he was decent. Her focus was money. And with d fake jewelry n tacky looking polyester clothes she wears, she dint marry “class”. Just some dude making money. Any decent person takes their time cos they hv too much to lose. Where is self respect?
This was uncomfortable AF to watch bc you want to have sympathy for her during the first 5ish minutes of her video but as you unravel her story, it makes you cringe bc there were soooooo many red flags that she could’ve avoided. If any of her story is remotely true. Thank you for finding the delicate balance in how you addressed the real life impacts of making life long decisions of who you marry because of decisions you make out financial desperation or greed.
Something n ur spirit ain’t right if u can’t feel sorry for a woman whose child was being abused behind her back just evil
@@Spiritual_AFnah she’s partly to blame because in this life there’s evil everywhere you can’t just go around turning a blind eye to red flags
@@Spiritual_AFI feel sorry for THE CHILD
Why I stayed single when I left my ex husband. My kids were 2 and 5. It was really lonely at times but their safety and well being were my priority. They are now in college and I have started dating again.
Did you not trust yourself to pick a good enough man to have around your kids? Are you not confident in your choice of men?
This man did this to his own child… stop blaming victims
@@gabriellej7532how dare you. Why even waste time on any man. Much more peaceful and less work. So stupid how women even bother w men. They have shown us for generations and lately on comedy how much They hate their wives
Honey. I am 38. Just got out of an dv marriage of 17 yrs. Now why take any risk and mess up your peace and happiness w a whole damn man. I would never ever again. But on the other hand I do wish you to see through the dysfunctional most of them have (as most women have me included) and meet a real one. One of the rare good men.
@@gabriellej7532men lie. She's doing the right thing to protect her children, and you have the audacity to mock her? Ew
Something is odd about the story. She is 24 has 5 kids and gave up a 90k "job" to get married to a random guy within a week? Sad and weird.
Did't she say he toucheedthe girls but then later they she talks about two boys?
And now she’s set up a go fund me. Why not just return to the 90k per year job? It’s funny but her channel came up on my feed maybe last year sometime, & I was so moved by the damaging content she was putting out, I wrote a strongly worded comment. When I saw her face in this review it triggered me again immediately. I didn’t know it was the same female
I just want to say that 90k is good money for a single person who doesn’t live in an expensive city. 90k for a family of 3 is not a lot of money. Everything else was spot on.
She's 30 now, I'm pretty sure. She was 24 when she first met her husband (soon to be ex) and made 90k then, she literally married him within 2 weeks of knowing him. And when she married him she had 2 sons (one she had when she was 17, the other when she was 21 I think. Or maybe 19 Idk). She has 2 daughters, one is 4 and the other is 2 and her most recent kid is 6months old maybe? So she has 3 kids by her current husband. I think she said that she has been with him for 5-6 years now (and she met him when she was 24). So that would make her 29/30.
And it has been 5/6 years since she worked at her job, so I'm guessing it's too late to go back. And that's also 5-6 years of missed career experience, which means more difficulty finding a job. Especially since she'll likely have to pay divorce fees, lawyer fees, therapy fees etc. The daughters and recent son are all by the abuser she got married to.
Also, she is the progeny of grape (her mother was graped and ended up pregnant with her because of it). She had a messy childhood and her neighbors husband used to SA her as well since she was a kid. So it makes since that she felt like she could just brush off him abusing her in the first few months of their marraige.
@@Loool_7656thank you for explaining this. Her video popped up for me but I had never seen her channel before so I didn’t understand the timelines. The fact that these are his actual daughters makes a horrendous case somehow even worse. It’s all so sad.
Her gofund me is total BS. When she was peddling those lying videos, we were out here working and busting our butts. Now that her lies and laziness have backfired, she wants to come and collect the money that we were working for while she was lazily lying on the internet?? Hell NO!
Finally someone says it! I feel bad that her family had to go through what they did, but we can’t use that as an excuse to ignore what it is.
200 dummies already gave her over $8k. One donated $2k.
this was absolutely horrible, and the man is absolutely in the wrong. That being said if I knew my husband sexually assaulted me, I automatically wouldn’t trust him around my children. Clearly, he has a problem and needs to get help for it, especially if they didn’t address it.
This! Absolutely not.
@@jbhatts610 questioning whether a child got assaulted or not is fucking despicable, I hope you find peace eventually because you are not alright mentally
Yeah. I hope my comment doesn’t come across like making excuses for her- I heard her mention that she is a victim of CSA herself, and I know that for many people, that places them simultaneously in a position where they are hypervigilant about their kids, while also missing “red flags”, folding to an abusive partner, etc.
not uncommon for one survivor to end up being in similar economic and social situations where their kids experience the same thing at the hands of the people they bring into the home.
I feel horribly for her children and there definitely were “flags”. I also can empathize with her being in a repeated pattern, regardless of how much I dislike the aim of her content. Really sad story.
@@IndigestionMaster I am also a survivor so I can empathize with staying in a bad situation for validation. The difference here that some others in the comments don’t get is that she continued to put her children in danger for months because she didn’t want to admit that he was a predator. This is what happens when you don’t heal from your trauma. You think it’s normal and you put yourself more at risk. Thank you for trying to see both sides.
@@ethandevine8571 of course, I try. I can relate to you quite a bit on that unfortunately, a lot of my adult life has been centred around having compassion for people like my mom, but also recognizing the neglect & abuse that came out of her not having access to any means of recovery / not taking hold of her own recovery. I hope you are well, cheers x
A man is not a financial plan!
I know this isn’t really money related but I haven’t seen anyone mention how she is putting her babies traumatic experience out into the world for everyone to know about. I feel she could have told her story without explaining the situation to the extent she did. Her children did not ask for this exposure. It could be seen as another violation.
Edit: It was mentioned that she should not have their faces up after the video but I stand by their information should not have been shared.
I agree. Most people who were abused as kids don't tell anyone, and usually not till adulthood. Not that we should have to hide, but kids should have the option to tell people this trauma on their own terms. This trauma is out there forever.
I didn't even process my CSA until I was in my 20s, I couldn't imagine if my mother had posted it to the whole world, especially before I was ready to even understand
That’s what I was thinking. I don’t think she posted pictures of her children online, but at some point the kids will grow up and possibly find this video, or others at their school will. Plus, the older sons may see this video and hear, in detail too great for their age, what happened to their little sisters and mother. I get that she may be trying to raise awareness, but it’s selfish or at least thoughtless to talk about her kids’ trauma online
That's bs, the man should get exposed
EXACTLY. I made a comment on the original video saying that. Like it my mom did that to me id be extremely uncomfortable. She’s exploiting these babies trauma and for what? Money
This is where the sprinkle sprinkle and the red pill ish will get you. Getting rid of that infection takes A LOT of energy and will for both women and men.
Yes! They’re 2 sides of the same coin!
Frl this mindset is madness
This is a nice comment. I'm glad other people see how irrational they are
Dating broke or rich could cause you this not just dating up
.like cmon
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Whats sprinkle sprinkle? I get confused with all these internet lingo. Is sprinkle sprinkle the same with the spoiled girlies?
as someone that was SA as a child (earliest memory was about 6yo all the way til 15yo by multiple ppl) I feel for her child, but I can't get over her victimization of herself and loosing the lifestyle she preached other to follow, if you want to be a trophy wife that's on you cuz you are A CONSENTING ADULT, but your children is a different story, when you don't vet the ppl that come in contact with your children specially if you yourself have been a victim of SA, I can't feel sympathy for you. Now her kids are scarred for life all cuz she wanted to be a trophy wife, like that's wild
This, I went through the same at 6-8. I have two girls, 7 and 2 while I wish that it wasn’t the world we live in but I told my 7 year old that she has to tell me if someone ever touches her even her dad. If i did then she needs to tell someone else she trust to establish that no matter who it is no one should touch her. She is not allowed to have secrets and has been great at telling me everything that happens at school. I will do the same for any of my kids once they understand.
If I ended up single, I absolutely would never date or allow any men inside my home.
I am so sorry you had to go through this. I can begging to imagine the trauma. I hope you can still find happiness in this life. ❤
@@Maybeemay it seems to me she is not prioritizing her kids which is sad
@@ep5957 thank you so much, I have worked on my trauma and triggers for a long time, I am happily married to a man who was very understanding, caring and respectful of those triggers and has love me thru healing my inner child
she is also a victim of csa….
There's a girl at my job that got pregnant with twins 3 months are meeting a man from tinder. She talked so much about how she looked him up and that she found out makes 6 figures and is a union worker before meeting him in person. Moved her 3 year old daughter in with him with 1 month, found out she was pregnant after 3 months, and then they had a shot gun wedding and sold her house. Today still doesn't make a year since they met. That could never be me. People are way too good at hiding their true selves to move that fast. I don't wish any bad, and I hope she's the exception because she could end up like this lady.
SOLD HER HOUSE??? We can only pray for her husband to be a very very chill guy if they divorce
Ppl are failing to understand that the ones that are real housewives/sahm are not on social media teaching anyone to do the things she did.. but on the part of the kids that man should get life!
FOR REAL!
How do people not realize that she was teaching people who to scam and play games…WITH YOUR LIFE!
That’s foolishness…
What happened to discernment? Value yourself first. Protect your children. Always have your own.
There's not true decernment without Yashua
No. Value the Father first, then your children, then yourself. Father and Son come first.
@@sambeezy007but what if the father is a diddler?
@@sambeezy007and the commenter never said “value yourself ABOVE your kids”, they said “value yourself first. Protect your children” meaning valuing yourself is valuing the things you care about aka your kids over your husband who is a diddler
@Gobbler72 Yeah you a troll at this point. If you can discern from what I said, you are far gone.
Bro them poor children, i cant imagine being last on my mother's mind when it comes to the basic life decisions and morals. Omg
Yeah that was kinda my childhood
Same. I was thay child. I wished so bad my mom didn't bother dating while my brother and I were small. So many memories of her crying and us restarting because she would give and give to them and get dogged out.
a lot of times abusers will shower you with gifts, money, praise... etc. after abusing you. i can say from experience after going through really bad times, I would be treated amazingly and the relationship would be perfect until the cycle repeated itself. Horrible to wonderful then back to horrible and back again.
The honeymoon phase
The first strike, the first word of abuse and if I’d be out!
I wish more people loved themselves enough to do the same.
Like, it’s so much better be be single and around friends and family filled with love and appreciation, then to be with someone who literally hates you but covers it up with frivolities.
17:04 she already had a family she just wanted a MAN. a man doesn’t suddenly make a family complete
When my husband and I discussed his idea of me leaving my job and being a stay at home wife, I let him know that I will ALWAYS need to make and have my own money. That should be a nonnegotiable for everyone, we shouldn’t depend on anyone but ourselves to provide.. especially with children.
I have my own checking account. I'll never have a joint bank account again.
Having that convo after marriage is crazy work
@@JesusisliterallyHim😂fr like what!!?? 🤦🏽♀️
@@JesusisliterallyHim😂fr like what!!?? 🤦🏽♀️
No, the man is going to provide for his children. Just because you carried the baby for 9 months doesn't mean that you are more responsible than the father is,stop adding baggage to yourselves
How to get married quickly, value status, money and things over morals, compatible personalities and ethics.
And not value your own kids. Money first
@@JussaBehbi the girls that were abused were that mans children because before she married she only had 2 boys. that could literally happen with anyone she couldve married for money or not, no one thinks if their partner would abuse their own children.
@@e11e04_ü No, the boys could've gotten abused by some random man she moved in with as well.
@@mirimariana true but usually u dont assume the man u married would abuse his own bio children but if its a stranger to the kids u gotta be careful and think of the kids safety from start
I'm 40 yrs old and it makes me sad that the younger generation of women seem to have lost the lessons that our mothers and grandmother's taught us. Millennial women were raised to be independent and now for some reason the narrative is that was the wrong approach, I dont know why.
Putting yourself and your kids in a position to be dependent on a man is the worst thing you can possibly do. Alot of women are unhappy because theres so much stigma put on single mothers, everyone needs to look at how they judge single moms in their lives or online.
That woman has a whole nerve! Her whole platform was based on her being a trophy wife to a wealthy man but now she's exploiting her children for money. Used that video to exploit her children's trauma for views and cash and wants more money in terms of donations. She's horrible. That woman will literally do anything except get a job and protect her children.
Yup!
Spot on. She stuck around long enough for her kids to be targeted. Assuming she’s telling the truth.
Nailed it
Yeah, perhaps those kids would prefer strangers on the Internet not to know about their trauma?!
EXACTLY!!!! I really hope this story is fake and she just needed to come back to TH-cam and this is how she chose to do it.
My husband and I recently had the conversation about what we would do if the other person passed and he asked if I would get married again. The relief on his face when I told him I wouldn’t even consider dating again until all the kids were grown and out of my house confirmed I’m not overreacting even a little bit. The statistics don’t lie. I’m not saying there aren’t incredible men who step up and fulfill that father role well, I’m just saying I’m not gonna risk my kids. I will ride the struggle bus until the day I die to make sure I did everything possible to keep my kids safe.
Just out of curiosity would your husband do the same if you passed?
@@debbieharris1628that’s a good question
But…. The children her husband abused are biologically his apparently. She had 2 boys before meeting him, then 2 girls with him and he abused them. Remariage has nothing to to with it in this case.
My dad died when I was 9. My mum dated two men after him. The first guy would pick me up from school and I would catch him looking at my chest from the rearview mirror. I always had the most creepy vibes from him, never wanted to be alone with him, but I also could not vocalise what I experienced to my mother because I didn't know how to. As a child (I was 10/11) I felt guilty speaking up because this person helped our family out a lot, and also I wasn't taught how to stand up from myself. I am an asian person, from south east Asia where there is a huge emphasis on respecting elders. When you aren't taught how to stand up for yourself, you don't. I didn't know I was allowed to stand up for myself. The next man she dated she fell hopelessly in love with. She shipped me and my brother to boarding school in a different state so for a significant part of my childhood I was left with abusive caretakers. I guess my mum did the bare minimum which is make sure we got an education, and that someone looked after us, but my guardians were narcissistic abusive people. I was only 12. I am still resentful to my mum for putting me through that just so she could honeymoon with a man that was literally just eyeing the property my dad left us. Another time I was 16, wanted to learn how to ride a motorbike because I thought it was cool at the time. She got one of her friends to teach me and he basically molested me while I was winding the motorbike sitting behind me. It felt like throughout my childhood she put no thought into the men she would bring into her household. I just think its extremely irresponsible to let people have access to your children when they are children.
@@346ego that’s why I said what I would do, not what she should’ve done. We’ve lived different lives and that lead to different choices. I’m not passing judgement on her, but I am absolutely broken hearted for her children.
That's what a proper mother does. The moment she realized what was happening, she found a way to get her kids out. I've read way to many stories of "mothers" who either ignore the abuse or tolarate it or just don't believe it is happening. SO sad.
very true, but i feel like since shes been saed by him before she would know he was a grapist and would not trust him to be around her kids anymore knowing what he may be capable of and would’ve gotten them away sooner
The whole online hypergamy “movement” always felt so disingenuous, morally bankrupt, and retrograde to me. I’m not pretending financial stability means nothing in a relationship, but when you lead with seeking wealth and put that above other factors like character, values, morals, compatibility the relationship will be on superficial and shaky ground.
Many of these ladies pushing this lifestyle don’t even lead the lives they portend to lead. She was telling women to not be too desperate and let men chase them after marrying a man after knowing him for a week. Make it make sense!
Both men and women in these spaces spend more time concocting mind games to have more power over the opposite sex than actually interacting genuinely with them. Notice how most of them are not married nor in a long term relationship, and if they are, it's toxic and unstable. All they can keep are f*ck b*ddies, because loving relationships don't work with mind games and power struggles, but with respect. Those people don't respect each other. In fact, some of them seem to HATE each other. And see getting into a relationship as beating the opposite sex into submission. It's disturbing to see.
@pisceanbeauty2503 Agreed they looking for a lifestyle. Not character, same value abs belief system nothing
I'm a man, so a lot of the time it can come off as insecurity or some kind of bitterness when I try and tell women that this lifestyle of chasing rich men doesn't lead to anything good.
I always tell women that chasing money is setting yourself up for financial abuse AT BEST. I'm not the super controlling type, but being a man and knowing how other men think, I know that a guy taking care of your whole lifestyle while you do nothing to contribute financially will give him the idea that he can do whatever he wants to you, because what are you gonna do? He takes care of you, you need to appreciate everything he does for you. And if he does you wrong, so what? Be happy you're taken care of. What are you gonna do, leave? And have to go back to work? Of course not so just sit down and shut up while he does his thing.
That's the logic of MOST men who know they're being used for their money.
When that man forced himself on her FOUR TIMES and she just stuck through it and tried to get over it, it gave him the idea that she's so hungry for money that she'll accept anything. He attacked her four times and she just turned around and made TH-cam videos about how perfect he is, why wouldn't he be able to touch his own children in his own house?
This woman ignored so many red flags, it's crazy. These weren't even red flags, these were STOPLIGHTS. I don't wanna blame her because it's not her fault at all that her husband is a monster, but at the same time, her story should be used as a cautionary tale. It's one thing to want a man who is financially stable, that makes perfect sense, but CHASING money leads nowhere good. Thats why ancient people 3000 years ago were writing about the love of money being the root of all evil.
Thank you for explaining from a man's perspective.
You said it all 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Wow, Symone. I love all your videos but this one just went above and beyond. I’d like to see more content from you like this on top of your regular financial stuff. You shared a lot and I appreciate your work ❤
Thank you so much for supporting me. I appreciate you 💓💓💓
I don’t understand people being lonely when they have kids. If you actually spend time and do activities with your kids, you don’t even have the energy for a man. Stop exposing your kids to random men. Kids with step parents are at least 100X time more exposed to abuse (both sexual and physical)
Omg best comment ! I deeply agree with you
@@immagrande6254disagree , its a stupid comment
Most idiotic comment I have seen . You do not increase 100x of abuse by having a step parent
There's different types of loneliness. You can live your kids to death and have a happy and fulfilling life with them but some people want a full family or to not feel because they're a single mother/father they can't have live in their life for eighteen years. I just think those people need to be smarter because they do have kids and the person needs to live both them and be safe and committed to their children
Honestly, it has less to do with being lonely than it is wanting help. Literally no one wants to be a single mother, it's an unfortunate event that happens that puts most of the child rearing workload on the mother. It's hard work, and it's normal for a single mom to want someone that can contribute just as much.
Although, that comes with it's own caveats like you said. Unfortunately, there's no way to entirely tell if a man is safe, so prioritizing your children's safety should come first before any relationship.
27:40 I’ll give Shera her props she always said don’t be stupid behind any man.
The 2 babies he touched were his bio kids not the stepkids.
ETA: Not only mothers but potential mothers, this will be the father of your kids!
@ ETA = Edited To Add
Anyone, rich or poor, can be blindsided by this. It's not just about desperate women.
People acting like this isn't squarely on the pedophile and they exist everywhere are mind boggling.
While 90k at 24 is very good income. If she has a couple kids, lives in a high cost of living area and wants to live a luxurious life 90k on 1 salary won't take you very far. I know because I live in a high cost of living area.
90k at 24 is decent. Not great, but enough.
@@paulinejackson5861It depends on your circumstances. I make 60k at age 52. It's enough for me as a single person.
Also, important to note that she made 90k 5-6 years ago before inflation hit.
Most people in America don't make 90k. You people live in delusion @@paulinejackson5861
Key part of this is you saying wanting a luxury life style when you aren’t making the means !!!! Evb wants to live beyond their means😂tryna keep up with the Jones’s
Sad but this is what social media / influencers are trying to tell the world. Get a rich man & be all about money. Saweetie, City Girls, Mulatto have music with themes about how rich or how they use men for money. This theme of scamming men and chasing after men’s money is a dangerous game to play with.
@katythebeauty330 it’s dangerous because you cannot play with or play on men. They know what’s going on
And yet all of them have a miserable love life
Men are dangerous regardless, every relationship you get into is a gamble because at the end of the day, he has free will and can choose to do something unpredictable at ANYTIME. I will agree that not being fast into a relationship is a good step to avoid abuse, but at the end of the day, life is a gamble, there are precautions and tricks you can take to win the game, but you can still loose it all at anytime no matter what
of course men are dangerous. Anyone can be dangerous in a relationship but especially within this example. Meeting a stranger and marrying him when you don’t even know him is dangerous. Inviting your kids to live with him too is wreckless.
they are sex workers not love sick wives
43:42 her situation is terrible. Don’t get me wrong but advertising the trauma that she’s putting her kids through in order to essentially sad fish and get people to give her money feels very icky.
Sis yesssssss. The point you made, “she posted all these videos even after having been r*#ped by her own husband” and soooooo many people want to live that “HIGH” life. Whew! We need to stop glorifying others and walk in our own journey. Perfect message! I pray for those babies that were affected by their own father.
I know a woman similar to this, maybe even worse. All her children have different fathers. She moves from man to man. Has them eat pizza. I babysat one of her sons at my house when I was younger + he had severe issues. He was not used to my dad being a fatherly figure to him + home-made meals. These children are the ones suffering.
I work with a check like this she snagged a millionaire…. Her conversations are exhausting ALL superficial and materialistic!!!!!!!
It’s atrocious what happened to her and her children, and hopefully she pressed charges. There is an irony of referring to these wealthy men as predators in the first video. She thought she had him controlled and she was the the one in power.
That's the saddest part, those women genuinely think being attractive to a rich man will protect them from a powerful legal team, bribes, weaponization of the courts to make them go broke, etc etc after they get tired and go for a divorce.
so-called charges also need to be proved with evidence and litigation also needs huge chunk of money
Thank you for saying that out loud!! Demons most certainly exist.
Be sober-minded, be alert. Your adversary the devil is prowling around like a roaring lion, looking for anyone he can devour- Peter 5:8.
Demons don't exist.... but bad decisions and ignorance do. Call it demons if you want but it's just consequences of life nothing supernatural. Choices have consequences and taking responsibility for those choices will free you so much more in life than blaming imaginary absolute beings instead of seeing the spectrum of nuance
Well said. Discernment is key 🔑
Predators seek out single-parents who are desperate for relationships or for financial assistance. She was not the prize to him, her children were. The original video was recommended to me, and I am not going to watch it. I do not want to bring any more views or money to that channel.
She did not need, no she should not have talked about her children's trauma like this, she should've focused on herself and her ex-spouse and the signs she missed. I don't want to hear anything from her except she's sorry to her children, will fight this man until the ends of the earth, and will be ride or die for her children from now on.
Normal parents don't even give a fck about their kids unless their kids are scrubbing their feet, you expect this longa-throat narcissist to become a place of healing for her children when she was so busy trying to scam a rich madman out of his money under the pretense of "marriage"?
IF this woman was living in systematic poverty she would not be thinking about having kids because taking care of herself is trouble enough, kids = child support is all she was thinking about until this man became too much to handle.
Honestly, I think she went for him because she wanted to prove she could get a man to sponsor her princess life style. She didn’t think that anything like this could happen to someone like her. As you said, she had what she needed. This is what happens when we want more than what God has given us. She quite LITERALLY had it all.
I don’t think she expected this either. Just because a women’s looking for a comfortable life style doesn’t mean she’s willing to do “whatever it takes” to get it. I mean pedophiles LIVE for being sick and sneaky!
I'm so so sad for her and her children, that hurt will last a lifetime.
I really hope people don't relish in the trauma that her and her family have been through because they don't agree with her choices.
No matter what, no one deserves that.
She's 100% in the wrong keeping those pics up and giving their names, the gofundme is whatever to me, she gotta eat, but her daughters deserved anonymity at the very least.
@Mimi-hn6iv that’s what I was thinking
Growing up my mom would always say "if you marry a man for money, you will earn every penny." This is why our mothers and grandmothers told us to always have our own money.
It’s so scary and sad that she was referring to him as a predator and then that’s what he turned out to be. Like my man isn’t a millionaire, but he pays bills for us. All I have to do is think about cleaning my house and working he doesn’t even let me know if he’s stressed about money, but I also respect and trust him enough not to hurt me or destroy our life
My mom didn’t tell me about (my now step dad) or let him meet me until after 2 YEARS dating. How can someone be so blinded by money that they put their kids in harms way…?
It’s insane that women are advocating for the normalization of giving away your power to someone else. As amazing as it is to be taken care of, we have to be smart in vetting the men we’re choosing! What happened to her is awful and it’s really hard to imagine the type of pain she must be going through.
None of us never need to learn this the hard way ladies, men + financial power can be a horrendous mix. From the stories I’ve heard, the signs are always there.
In that analogy she used of men wanting to work hard for the chase since they’re natural predators, the other side of that coin is that you’re implicitly saying that you’re prey.
Take that in.
There is not enough money, no house or ring big enough, that would make me wana stay with anyone that hit me or graped me.
He can keep it all after the first time.
There are so many red flags she could make a quilt.
Not even in a facetious way, but when the kids you already have don't fw the person you're trying to date it's a SIGN (not always just teen angst). Young people can be decent judges of character
I feel for her but I also can't imagine putting my daughters' trauma on the internet forever without their consent and for everyone to see. 💰💸
Also, he's a rich man right? He's going to be paying alimony and child support. We don't need to be sending her money.
Parents exploit their kids all over social media for a check sadly. I personally think there should be a law against kids/babies on social media
Alimony? Hopefully that man is going to jail for a very long time.
@@AspenCharmCakes completely agree. The platforms should at least not allow monetization of content with minors.
I thought it was bad enough that she was talking about what happened to her daughters publicly in that some people will figure out who those daughters are, but that she’s posting their names and faces on a public platform is not okay.
In 10-20 years someone could google their names and see a bunch of stuff come up all about how they were SAed by their Dad. Their privacy has been completely thrown out the window. I feel so bad for those kids. Obviously the assault is the worst part, but the way they are still being exploited by their mom for financial gain and sympathy is still not okay. The level of detail she goes into, everything. It’s not like she’s even putting him on blast with his identity to make sure people know who HE is and others are protected. It’s so incredibly selfish.
@@Clockwork_999 sadly with no proof in these situations I doubt anything will happen to him. Especially since he has money for lawyers and everything. So sad but it’s the same old story I hope people be careful out there
@ Not even the rape kit and testimony from the daughter? This is horrible.
Shrea said make your own money first!
And that lady, the Trophy Wife, was a sugar baby before making sugar baby content. That’s why I work & save my own money! If I’m dating someone you need to be more than financially sound, but morally too! I turn down men with low morality with money because they have major issues!!!!
Calling these terrible people demons takes away their responsibility and dehumanizes them. These people that are doing terrible things are *HUMANS*!!!
At least she was brave enough to leave once she found out what was happening. That’s about the only compliment I can give this lady.
I feel numb towards her. She was arrogant with the brand she was teaching and deceived her followers promoting a lifestyle where she was secretly getting abused behind the scenes.
In her case, the red flags were there when he graped her which clearly communicated he didn’t view her as a human but as an object to control. Then proceeds to allow him around her children and also give him 2 more? This is all so messy
I understand the fantasy of a luxury life but it is way too risky. For every one woman it works out for, there’s multiple where it ends badly. I personally will not put my well being in the hands of anyone ever again. The only person you can really depend on is yourself
The red flags for her were there during the 1st date.
Any man that's like be my gf after being around you for two hours is a huge pulsing red flag.
By the time she married him, it was already far too late. He already had her firmly in the trap. What was gonna happen was gonna happen.
He knew he could raoe her and get away with it because he knew she was desperate and had no self esteem.
I’m not sure if you’ll see this but the timing of your video quite literally shifted my brain chemistry and changed the trajectory of my life. I’m 26 and family, and friends always cracked into my head to never talk to a man who cannot provide. This consumed me, and made me feel like a failure even though I had my own everything by 23 without a man. however, my mother would call all the time to tell me I pay too much for rent and that I should have a man providing for me. The last 2 years I lost everything I worked for chasing those men thinking I would be married, and have a man with money just for her to call me broke and a prostitute. Now I see I’m not going crazy and was influenced to do those things by people who envied where I got myself to. I cut these people off. I’m still young and I want you to know your words throughout this video touched my soul dearly I’m literally crying. For all my young women, Don’t listen to family and friends who boast of getting men to spoil you, pay your bills, etc those men will destroy you.
I hope you read this comment, I am so sorry that you went through that. 💔 Never feel ashamed of not having a man to provide for you. MEN SHOULDN'T
BE A "LIFE HACK'. You have the power to dictate whether you will be financially stable! Making sure if you do find a man he has good morals, character and soul! It is OK to be married or in a relationship and it is also okay to be single. Don't EVER let anyone make you feel less than because you do not have a man! (And I say that last statement as a married woman) In the meantime, Work on yourself and never forget to put God first! Your Life has value and purpose regardless of if you have a man or not. I am so glad that I have been able to help in any way and I wish you all of these success in your life. 💓
@ Thank you from the bottom of my soul. I feel so grounded again. I did it before and I can do it again. I’m picking up the pieces of my life and taking men out of the equation because I always did better by myself. I just want to reclaim my life and my power back. I have a 6 year old who I have to make sure she has a great healthy childhood and I must lead by example. Heavy on “protecting your children” Heavy on “standing on my own 2 feet” Heavy on “stop wasting time getting pampered” OMG SISTER AMEN Thank you so much for this major wake up call. Sending you lots of love, and blessings Symone 🩷
@ May you and your family prosper 💗 Sending love back at you, YOU GOT THIS!
I feel you :-)
The reason why Dad didn't remarry when he split up with mom is because he was worried he would pick up a gold digger / selfish narcissist who would want to remove me from the equation and or start pitting her children against me. Because the more kids a selfish narcissist has the more she can get in child support.
The phrase “I can do it on my own” isn’t meant to be defensive or overcompensatory, it should be a reminder not to settle or put yourself at unnecessary risk because you are able to be independent and make it on your own. She brings it up like modern women are just being stubborn. NO. Those of us with old school parents/grandparents were warned about this very kind of situation happening and being unable to leave and protect your kids. You CAN survive on your own so be selective and strengthen your foundation so any ole man won’t be able to break it.
It’s wild that women are going after men just because of the financial aspect. This should never be the case. I hope she gets the help for her two daughters. Those kids are going to be traumatized for their life because of that horrible predator.
I’m so lucky that I married a kind man. He’s a school teacher, we aren’t rich. But he is an equal, a partner, and a good person. Twelve years, two kids later, the love and respect is stronger than ever.
one of my parents didn’t really date or bring their dates around me and focused on their career, while the other took the opposite approach. seeing adults put everything over their kids really bothers me to my core
Umm is she going to the police!!???? I’m still stuck on what happen to the kids and her.
Oh my god. How tragic. I am so grateful my children never experienced this, but honestly it can happen to anyone. And some people are so good at hiding their daemons.
I guess my immediate red flag is:
She’s a single a mom with high income (love to see this). Her relationship had ended (okay, happens to everyone), but….she brought her children into this man’s house without slowly intergrading her child into this NEW environment with a MAN that’s not their daddy. I would have taken my sweet time to let him get to know the kids. To let my kids comfortably and discreetly tell me how they really feel about mamas new boyfriend.
Having a husband is a wonderful goal to want/have but bum rushing it is wild. She’s has access to the internet and I would have done a deep deep deep dive into that man. It’s one thing to do what she did without kids and slowly get to know him over time….but it’s upsetting and irresponsible to move this quickly with a stranger when you have babies (for their safety).
I feel so bad for this women and her children and I truly hope and wish her journey out of this disgusting nightmare will bring her justice
She had two teenage sons before the marriage. She should still have been cautious because boys are targeted too, however it is a social blindspot many people have.
The husband graped his own biological daughters after they were married for years.
@@Anngrl69She was 24. How did she have 2 teenage sons? They were little boys.
@@GyalisAndino yeah I think they're 9-12 rn
My heart goes out to her daughter and the rest of her kids, they don't deserve this.
Hopefully, she shuts down her channel to re-evaluate her content and herself, so that she will truly understand why money and status aren't the most important when finding the right man for you.
Her obsession led her directly to the horrendous situation that she got herself out of. Her ex needs to be put under the jail, but she's not blameless about what she's gone through.
Where is she working and getting 90k a year at 24???? I wanna work there!
The pole.
Real talk, I’m 24 (almost 25) and make $91k.
It was going to business school for accounting and IT, getting internships each summer and then a full-time job at a Big 4 accounting firm. This was all before the layoffs that are happening now, so it’s probably more competitive.
It’s an amazing income, but I do live in a high cost of living city and they definitely work you for the salary (Big 4 is known for awful work-life balance with poor compensation when you calculate in all the hours you are not paid overtime for).
I’m happy with this for now because it affords myself an independent lifestyle and savings, but it’s not a place I want to be long-term due to the stress. But the stresses of poverty and not knowing if you can pay the bills is surely much worse.
@@Anngrl69a lot of them get into tech companies from DEI. That’s why I always say they hire fine women just to do simple stuff in office have some diversity
Am I the only woman that is skeptical of intimate , personal information shared on the Internet?
I find internet tears combined with stories hard to believe.
If regular women accuse their Husbands of false heinous acts in court for custody and payment, who's to say she's not doing the same - but on the Internet for clout and to plead her case before any court date?
Yeah same, i find it insane... And the gofundme link in the description of her videos says it all... She was chasing money and she is still doing it.
It's so important to hear about these topics from a woman that doesn't talk like she hates men or she's trolling. Thank you
love your reaction to this. you delivered a very important message with the right balance of empathy AND accountability. brava ❤
Thank you so much! I was hoping that my delivery wouldn't be too abrasive because I still wanted to be myself and be Blunt but this is quite a hard topic to discuss due to the sensitive nature of this involving children.
literally just started doing my hair (small boho braids) and was looking for something to watch. perfect timing! ✨
Oh, you got a while cause it's a long one!!!
Nice picture.
@auroraofkerra I wanna get some do they last?the curls?
@@prettypet7647 get you some human bundles and you’ll be golden. i like to get good quality hair and wash & reuse it throughout the year.
Also notice how she said "Predators want something to chase"... odd how she ended up being the prey. I never noticed how dysfunctional a lot of our rhetoric is these days until I really thought about it. This is what we tell to little girls. This is what we tell to ourselves. I don't know about you, but I don't want to be prey.
Allllsoooo did she not think that he knew she was a gold digger right from the get-go? It's plastered all over her social media. So no amount of games on her end could hide this. This retched "man" found his mark right from the beginning. If you think these kinds of men aren't reading you, you're wrong. Oh dear... this video got me all kinds of heated up.
People need to stop thinking predators don't go for the easy kill.
Predators go after prey, strong or weak.
This is why the 4B movement is genius if you find it in your heart to center yourself and not men
Sadly sk has seen its fair share and they started to do this for better
Yup !!! We need to walk the hell away from these monster men. Enrich ourselves and our sisters 🩷
or social media.
Yall should. All my coworkers are women and all they ever do is talk about a man. Very annoying.
4b is migtow (men going their own way). Do whatever you want, but you don’t have to be a nun to be safe. You can have healthy relationships. You can be safe and smart, unlike that lady.
Something about her experience doesn't add up to me. Did she romanticise being in a relationship so much that 90k wasnt enough money to stay single? Was she telling the truth about having 90k? Why does she need GoFundMe now? If she had a rich husband, considering the crime he committed against their kids and her, wouldn't the court award her? I am so sorry her kids had to go through this. I am so sorry she had to experience this and i hope the lessons are learnt. I like shera response. You cant blame shera or snippets of her content which may have influenced poor choice.
no, the court wouldn't. All accusations need proof and evidence beyond reasonable doubt and she will likely be jailed for defamation and perjury and character assassination.
May her husband be blessed.
She’s lying she can live with family she’s begging yall for money her ex is probably giving her something she can get child support so why does she need your money?
@@MdZeeshanAnsari-b3yshe can get child support she’s lying and begging for money
She says all these things about “acting” like you are not inpressed by a wealthy man dating her but its still an act. As long as you are “acting” your desperation shows in your energy. Its ridiculous
Why do women desire to be chased and hunted, or to be a trophy. Normally hunting ends in death, it’s a scary situation to be “chased” and trophies are admired never really appreciated. Think higher of yourselves and speak life into ourselves and relationships. You never know who you will attract using those words. It’s okay to want a man to be able to protect and provide but a good man is so much more than that and you’re missing out if money is all you’re looking for. What happens to wanting love, connection, a life long companion, please ladies be careful and remember certain men are not giving their resources away for free, wife or not.
So wait he assaulted her and then thought he was a decent man let alone father??? Is that what I’m hearing I’m confused on why she thought the kids would be spared obviously he didn’t care about consent they’re smaller and weaker
I want say out of all these videos talking about it, YOU have done a GREAT JOB!! highlighting what needs to be highlighted and while showing empathy in the parts where it needed it as well as prioritizing the conversation about the children and further protecting them by not having their faces plastered everywhere.
I’m praying her and children heal, however, the mother was so negligent and put her kids in harms way because she married a stranger for selfish reasons. she married him after a week and left her kids alone with him because she was so concerned with her public image on social media and making money off of manipulative content. and she was more concerned with what he could do for her financially. AND she said herself he r*ped her about 4 times and still married him for his money. she put her kids in danger and harms way, she let a complete stranger into their home. the mom is a victim but she absolutely is at fault as well.
The daughters are his biological children, those kids came after the marriage
And she was graped after they got married
Acting like men don't switch up after marriage no matter HOW long you know them is a take.
you claims are not true.
I wasn’t able to finish the video. But, from the few comments that I’ve read, her ex grapes her and her kid(s)? And she chased him because he was rich? This is crazy. I don’t know how to feel about her video. On one hand people need to be warned, on the other, people now know her children were victimized.
Edit: Where the hell are the kids father?
He graped her after she married him. So everything bad happened after she married to him, not before. And she has 4 kids and 1 new born. She discovered that he molested her 4yo and 2yo daughter. At least she did leave him when she found out and didn’t stay with him and put her daughters in danger for money.
What do you mean, do you think they should be ashamed?
@@M_SCAs far as the woman in the video goes, I would probably say yeah. I mean she did marry a predator solely based off of the fact that he was rich, and according to another comment she stayed with him after he graped her. So if that’s true, I think most people would and probably should feel guilty and ashamed. Not because she herself was victimized, but because of what happened to the kids.
Now as far as the kids go, of course not. I just understand that this may follow them around in life because their mom is an influencer. And I’m not even sure if she released this video with pure intentions or partially for clout. I’m going to assume the best and just say she wanted to warn other women.
I do feel bad for her, but I mainly feel bad for those kids. They never agreed to be around that monster.
Hey Symone 👋🏼 this is a horrible event. Another reason to have self worth, keep some type of independence. She should have told the police and why is he not giving her financial help? 😞 Do better women ✌🏼👍🏼
He’s the father of her daughters.
Hey Symone, loving the longer videos!! I could definitely watch more 45+ minute videos from you. The 10-20 minute ones always feel too short!
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The problem is not the rich man. The real problem is not vetting this man, his morality. Broke men can still do that as well.
I'm sorry this happened to these kids. My own mother did yhe same shit. 6 children total though all different dads and none of us really have a relationship with her or each other. Therapy was good ordeal for me. Tis not my shame to bare anymore.
This girl needs to tie her tubes. She failed motherhood the minute she decided it was more important to chase a fantasy, then live in reality and establish stability on her own for her children.
As a survivor of similar childhood abuse, I am so thankful for you being on youtube and sharing your thoughts. I love your usual videos and you inspire me to keep pushing
Sending love ❤❤❤
This is the best video you’ve put out so far! A balanced approach to this topic.
She says she could see physical damage to her daughter. Not taking this to the police would be neglect. Every lawyer would tell her to take that video down as it could mess with the case. And shouldn't she be expecting half his money in the divorce? Im not even saying she's lying but she's making the worst decisions possible with the info
You see.. this is why i really love your channel because you are educating people on finances & letting people know not to rely on money. I never knew this lady but i watched her previous video on how she met her husband & there were soooo much red flags. From how she met him, the age gap, and her buying the engagement ring. It’s like she forced herself on him. I hope she has rlly learned from her mistakes
She was waaaay too desperate that she did not vet that man. He probably watched her videos and saw her as PREY
I agree with you but have to point out that $90k is great money when you're single and childless. If you have two or more children $90k isn't that great.
Sure it is. You have two parent homes that make that.
Single moms make it work on a lot less. If she got rid of the hair and make up that frees up hundreds right there
@@kaylean39 Well anyone can live in poverty, sure. But this woman specifically lives/wanted a luxury lifestyle and $90k with two kids is not going to afford that.
That’s more than we make with two kids. It’s a bit tight but it’s not bad!
It’s crazy to me as to WHY women who are house wives DO NOT SAVE MONEY. Don’t you get money for your self from your partner?
SAVE a LITTLE AT A TIME PLEASE. Don’t tell him just save!!!
Good for her for getting her children out of that situation, but the fact that she's still grifting online makes me doubt she learned much. I hope she doesn't put them right into the same situation again.