Why We Really Fight in Marriage | MarriageToday | Jimmy and Karen Evans
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- When people marry they bring fears into the relationship. Fear causes us to hurt and react to our spouse. Whether it's a fear of rejection or failure, fear keeps us from intimacy in marriage.
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Please pray for my marriage
I got diagnosed with depression and anxiety last year and taking steps to help me through it with God leading me. With little support even my wife is trying to walk away from our marriage. I'm finding it more difficult without her support through this time.
I love her so very much.
Amen
Perfect love casts out fear
There is no fear in Love
One person CANNOT understand “love” until they know G-d first! ⭐️
As long as there is consideration and and the willingness to talk it through respectfully most hurdles can be overcome
If one wants to succeed in marriage and/or a relationship consider studying jimmy Evan's sermons and other marriage resources. God speaks through his anointed. They are his voice here on earth.
Over n over they say pray.. n pray together.. but if you don't have the practical guidance to show you the basics of a relationship you don't even want to pray with that person. Duh.
Thank you for this powerful message
I found it very insightful! Took notes.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME
- PHIL 4:13
My Husband and I watch you every Sunday morning. We really enjoy your program and have learned from it. Thank you.
Good morning! Thanks! We fight more now in the last 3 years it’s strange and he’s so different now.. I don’t know I’m confused. And we’re Christians and believers.
@ gorgeous wales
Where has the submission of the wife to her husband in everything gone ? You think that a woman who submits can fight ?
Look at all the females in the workplace , you think they spent their time fighting with their bosses ? They SUBMIT to them , they submit to strangers , to men they should not submit to but not to their husbands!
It is devilish. And men like you who tolerate that are guilty of not purging evil from YOUR household.
Very good and important discussion of fear!
Whenever I see Jimmy and Karen Evans I see myself together with my ex wife of 7 years and
Darkness is the devil's domain
Stay in the light
Take responsibility for your behavior
Trust in God
Treat fear as an enemy
Don't let it build a nest in your heart
Amen
Please pray for my marriage.
Bless and curse not
Be kind to one another
❤️
How do you get counseling when you feel like that but your HUSBAND removed ALL financial ways from you to reach out to someone?!
Sneak a few extra dollars here and there that he won't notice like when grocery shopping
Look at churches around you - many will offer wonderful counseling & it’s free.
Leave him he's a abusive control freak
You guys say counseling but there is none. The church i went to and was a member and paid tithes to did not Help us with our problems.. we had and still have issues.
Filed for divorce today, never thought I would be here. I prayed over my marriage and I asked my husband to go to counseling. He agreed but never made any steps. I paid for it myself without a job. I am at lost because for a whole year I tried I gave it my all and all I got in return was more torment. We argue every other day. I went to my prayer sisters and family and nothing has changed. I have faith that God is going to do something great. 🥺🥺 Somehow I just dont have anymore strength to stay when I am under valued, talked down to, called every name but the one assigned at birth, I came to him and spoke to him over a year ago and I told him everything God told me to tell him. Over this year I watched him lose his faith in God, now i don't know if I believe anymore. I had so much faith. My 5 year relationship and 2+ years of marriage feels over and divorce feels like it's the end. I sot counsel I prayed and now I am here filing divorce. I don't know what else to do it hurts too much to stay and hurt so much to leave. My family is being ripped apart and the man I thought God sent to me no longer loves me.
Have you tried the XO Marriage one day intensive counseling? It’s just 1 full day & they teach skills on how to deal with issues. They get to the root cause of issues quickly instead of the long drawn out process of weekly 1 hour counseling sessions - which seems to take forever & you don’t really feel like you are getting anywhere. It’s “expensive” - but a divorce is WAY more expensive. If that doesn’t work then I don’t know what will. Like Jimmy says you have to have a teachable spirit- you have to want to learn. My fear for you would be that he is either a narcissist- or he is having an affair (or both). (Do your research on both.) Please keep your eyes & ears open & be willing to listen to your gut. It’s usually right. I feel for you & certainly understand. I was in very similar shoes. Sometimes it does have to get worse before it gets better. Just be prepared- but God can hold you up. Don’t lose faith. Remember that our timing is not his. My husband had to hit a really low rock bottom before he was willing to take the blinders off & be willing to allow the Lord to work in him. That may or not be what happens in your case. But you have to stand strong. Set your boundaries. (Eph 6:10-18; Exodus 14: 13a, 14) Good luck & know that you are not alone!
I am so sorry. My marriage didn’t turn around for over 8 years and when he got saved. Then it still took years. We still need counseling and or teaching. A lot of it has to do with how we were brought up. We are trying to undo the bad messages we got as children. It is God’s will that you succeed in marriage but He gives us free will. Your husband needs to want it too. I pray for your strength and comfort in Jesus’ Name.
Do research on Narcissist, you will get your answer.
Jocia, I am just watching this video and saw your comment. I am so sorry for all you’ve experienced and want you to know today, I am praying for you, that God will show immense love and grace, provision and peace to you. You belong to Him. You are his beloved daughter. No one will ever love you more than your Creator. El Roi. He is the God who sees you.
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Have you tried SUBMISSION as the BIBLE that Evans and co scorn commands ?
Today's counselors are not morally correct I was married for 5 y and we started getting counseling together then he started one on one he talked my wife into leaving me and she told me he said she has to leave me and his reasoning was he didn't like me
That should have been a red flag. Never allow a stranger to counsel your wife one on one alone.
@@callmepistol . True
Make sure you find Christian counseling. Try churches around you. The XO counselors.
@@callmepistol
Why so many "counsellors" in the church now ? Because those tyrants have stripped HUSBANDS of their authority and power over their wives.
Now it is counsellors and quacks like Evans and co who have power over other men's wives !!!
Counselling is NOT biblical. A wife must ask her husband at home and not deal with other men in the church .
Evans teaches that husbands are not in control in order to ler other men take control.
This is wicked .
What do you do with the scripture that says, the fear of God is the beginning of knowledge. That statement you made of not fearing God is false!
@ Cindy Porter
Thanks Cindy for exposing another lie from this horrible Evans.
Disrespect, he was flirting with other women in public where family and friends see him, when I am not around.
@ Carolyn Cervero
You have no authority over your husband.
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
Every Christian has authority over the devil
@ jessy jonas
Christians have authority over the devil only when women are kept in check and know their place. Otherwise things go bad as in Eden and Satan wins through women.
Isaiah 3:12
@@framboise595 “ kept in check and know their place” this is not the Holy Spirit speaking.
“ walk in the Spirit so we will not fulfill the lust of the flesh”
Galatians 5:16
Why we fight ? Because women are not submissive to their husbands in everything as the BIBLE commands it.
Lack of knowledge, understanding and wisdom! Grew up