You mean how selfish some PEOPLE are because men cheat just as much as women cheat. This wasn't a gender issue. It was a character issue and in this case it was the wife who lacked quality.
I have one older sister and 3 younger brother and we grew up bitter against our mother for her 304 habit, growing embarassed from neighbors gossip, and our fathers bitterness and hopelessness from our situation. Starting from the first gossip where we may have no idea as we are too young but have this awkward feeling and how the adult neighbors change the way they look at us, it was a series of on and off gossips growing up. We may have no physical evidence but we are not dumb for those signs, including us 2 eldest children accompanying her to a place where we later know as an abortion clinic. Or when i attended the parents teacher meeting where i was told to stay at the end by the teacher. And her growing concern to the dropping grades of my younger brother due to the gossips and the cel of my mother. You see it was the nokia era back then, and my youngest brother borrowed her cel to play those snakes games, she didnt even bother then to delete her ellicit messages. Remember ladies just one time of that is enough to classify you as a $lut.
That's something parent don't understand or don't care that the kids are the one's that suffer the most. My siblings and I went thru the thing but it was my father that cheated on my mother. We were kids so at first we didn't know what was going until we were teenagers. I have seen my father with several women but I didn't know what he was doing was wrong. I remember telling my mother when I was older but found out then that she already knew about his cheating and she was still with my father and forgave him every time. That's something I never understood why stay with someone that disrespects you like that. Never asked her why I just mind my business until I got kicked out and lived some of my cousins. She did stuck with my father until he died in 2016 as far as know he cheated till the end.
This day and time, if my wife ever said "We need to talk" I would cut her off right then and there and ask her "OK, are you cheating on me and if so, who is he, also I will file for divorce within the week, so in the meantime you need to get out".
@@nellynelson965 to some the Vows we take are as Sacred as the Church we say them in, to Other's they might as well say their vows in a garbage dump, reflective of their words.
These days, if my wife ever said, 'We need to talk,' I'd probably stop her right there and jokingly ask, 'Okay, who's the guy, and how fast do I need to file the papers?' But seriously, let's hope it never comes to that!
This man is a true roll model for many men out there. Cheaper to walk away and make her find you for a divorce, meanwhile you already took everything you wanted and walked away with your head held high! Great story
“childish” “insecure” “I love only you” “I never intended to hurt you” “it’s only just sex” straight out of the cheaters playbook. If they start the destruction of the marriage with those statements, the marriage is over.
What in God's name is wrong with people today ?They think that having outside relationships while married is normal. It's seems like humanity has lost their morals.
Not everyone is like that. I was married to the love of my life for 52 years before God called him to his eternal home. During our entire life together, neither of us has ever been attracted to anyone else. I now live for the day we are reunited when. my time on earth is done.
I dont understand umm what about the man feelings uhh you been together since slice bread an you feel you need to go find what its like well he does to.and sex is having a orgasm that last a few seconds you can do it yourself or with help its the same there is not a human out there that can say that theres a thrill or the best its all the same menopause is not to blame YOU are the blame if you cheat you never love or respect
He's really not a simp. He thought things out carefully and won his freedom in the end. The wife lied in court saying she thought he was ok with her seeing other men because she's been doing it for months. He told her if she had sex with other men, he'd divorce her, knowing full well she would do that. I feel sorry for a faithful husband who has been a lover, provider for 50 years only to be disrespected and cheated on by a selfish promiscuous wife. But his solution to the problem is a sroke of genius.
This story chatches in great way, how selfish and self centered some women act and then believe their partner should not be allowed to act same way!
You mean how selfish some PEOPLE are because men cheat just as much as women cheat. This wasn't a gender issue. It was a character issue and in this case it was the wife who lacked quality.
I have one older sister and 3 younger brother and we grew up bitter against our mother for her 304 habit, growing embarassed from neighbors gossip, and our fathers bitterness and hopelessness from our situation. Starting from the first gossip where we may have no idea as we are too young but have this awkward feeling and how the adult neighbors change the way they look at us, it was a series of on and off gossips growing up. We may have no physical evidence but we are not dumb for those signs, including us 2 eldest children accompanying her to a place where we later know as an abortion clinic. Or when i attended the parents teacher meeting where i was told to stay at the end by the teacher. And her growing concern to the dropping grades of my younger brother due to the gossips and the cel of my mother. You see it was the nokia era back then, and my youngest brother borrowed her cel to play those snakes games, she didnt even bother then to delete her ellicit messages. Remember ladies just one time of that is enough to classify you as a $lut.
That's something parent don't understand or don't care that the kids are the one's that suffer the most. My siblings and I went thru the thing but it was my father that cheated on my mother. We were kids so at first we didn't know what was going until we were teenagers. I have seen my father with several women but I didn't know what he was doing was wrong. I remember telling my mother when I was older but found out then that she already knew about his cheating and she was still with my father and forgave him every time. That's something I never understood why stay with someone that disrespects you like that. Never asked her why I just mind my business until I got kicked out and lived some of my cousins. She did stuck with my father until he died in 2016 as far as know he cheated till the end.
This day and time, if my wife ever said "We need to talk" I would cut her off right then and there and ask her "OK, are you cheating on me and if so, who is he, also I will file for divorce within the week, so in the meantime you need to get out".
Bravo my brother, if my husband of 35 years did that I would definitely follow your example.
Sure you would Sure you wold
@@nellynelson965 to some the Vows we take are as Sacred as the Church we say them in, to Other's they might as well say their vows in a garbage dump, reflective of their words.
These days, if my wife ever said, 'We need to talk,' I'd probably stop her right there and jokingly ask, 'Okay, who's the guy, and how fast do I need to file the papers?' But seriously, let's hope it never comes to that!
This man is a true roll model for many men out there. Cheaper to walk away and make her find you for a divorce, meanwhile you already took everything you wanted and walked away with your head held high! Great story
“childish” “insecure” “I love only you” “I never intended to hurt you” “it’s only just sex” straight out of the cheaters playbook. If they start the destruction of the marriage with those statements, the marriage is over.
Trust is like a mirror, once shattered you re-assemble it but it will never be the same.
... the cracks never go away, and are always there to remind you of the breakage.
Getting out on the road and finding a place to live a peaceful and quiet life. 💝🤘🏾
Woah he ended up in a cool way at the end of the story. He used her words and thoughts to get away. Smart guy...
Amazing how it's always supposed to be a one way street. Funny how that works.😉
I thought he was a "ballless wizard" but he came through in the end...
Should have disowned Darcy from the start.
Definitely. I predict a terrible future for her.
The daughter saying that her mother put put everything in to the marriage needed it like the father didn’t
That girl is stupid.
Great story.
What in God's name is wrong with people today ?They think that having outside relationships while married is normal. It's seems like humanity has lost their morals.
Not everyone is like that. I was married to the love of my life for 52 years before God called him to his eternal home. During our entire life together, neither of us has ever been attracted to anyone else. I now live for the day we are reunited when. my time on earth is done.
She made a terrible decision and he come up withe a verry good solution and yes and yes she might be tormented but she did it to herself.
Cheaters are selfish to the end.
Divorce should have happened after first talk about other guys no need to drag it out
"You're a 59 yr old man with a 50 yr marriage.... " Perhaps 9 yr olds shouldn't marry.
I dont understand umm what about the man feelings uhh you been together since slice bread an you feel you need to go find what its like well he does to.and sex is having a orgasm that last a few seconds you can do it yourself or with help its the same there is not a human out there that can say that theres a thrill or the best its all the same menopause is not to blame YOU are the blame if you cheat you never love or respect
Dont you people get it. We all hate simp stories.
He's really not a simp. He thought things out carefully and won his freedom in the end. The wife lied in court saying she thought he was ok with her seeing other men because she's been doing it for months. He told her if she had sex with other men, he'd divorce her, knowing full well she would do that. I feel sorry for a faithful husband who has been a lover, provider for 50 years only to be disrespected and cheated on by a selfish promiscuous wife. But his solution to the problem is a sroke of genius.
Too many words.
Another story about sixty year olds ugghhh
Bull crap he just liked fing and getting seconds
Darcy and Debbie need severe help AFTER the divorce