Mustafas physical absence can be understood but not being emotionally absent for sharjeena.and that harsh sarcasm and snapping on her for her father's words is totally unacceptable.
People calling sharjeena obsessive, possessive and what not! My god. This sharjeena was a role model when she juggled everything from chai banao to dawat banao to miyan ko kam karne bolo to abba ka hospital sambhalo. Now that she's wanting that little time they get after a whole day she's all wrong. Wow. MIND YOU PEOPLE, SHE'S NOT A FREELOADER. She works too. She isn't sitting all day long and clinging to Mustafa. She has all the right to get upset if Mustafa shuts her off everytime. Mustafa kamake koi teer nahin mar raha. Fact is she's not be pregnant all her life and Mustafa becoming filthy rich won't happen tomorrow. He's an adult person toh he should learn some balance too. Punching bag nahin hain sharj. He's got her pregnant now can't even give her some moment of togetherness; why? Paise kamana hain. Are bhai kamao. Baki log bhi kama raha. Aur yeh kya do din me crorepati banna hain.
@@LalaSukhiram 💯 exactly. when sharjeena was saying im happy with u i dont need anything except you she was too selfless and unrealistic? and now if shes wanting a little attention shes too selfish? shes pregnant right now, this time is not gonna come again and again, so her wanting that attention n love right now isnt clinginess. also, she did sacrifise alot and adjusted alot because she loved him, stayed with him in tough times, its only human to want your efforts appreciated and reciprocated when the time comes. when mustafa was vulnerable she was there for him, if she wants a little pampering from her husband she is within her right to want that. and her dissapointment is real too.. when u do so much for a person and they dont make u their priority ofcourse that person will feel bad
Agreed 100%!!!! Sharjeena and Mustafa only have each other. I understand Mustafa wants to become rich before baby is born so he can give them the best life. But he is doing at the expense of breaking Sharjeena who has always been his anchor. Relationships are team work!
Mustafa did a few wrong things...but he's not toxic or abusive. Therefore we still feel for him Sharjeena is not wrong in wanting love and attention but she's annoying when she keeps saying money is not important. How do wives who have husband with demanding careers, shift duties, or work that requires constant travel cope with their pregnancies? They develop a strong support system around themselves or cope on their own. Mustafa shouldn't have made a fuss over food or missed appointment or aqeeqa but he does apologize for all these things
Why is it fair that our expectations of men and women are so skewed. Sharjeena has had to juggle work, deal with Mustafa’s psycho greedy mom and her attitude, wait on him and the rest of family hand and foot, work on her MBA and do it all with a smile. Mustafa, on the other hand can’t balance a job and a wife without having massive mood swings. And still people are calling Sharjeena possessive and the problem. If she’s expecting him to do 5% of what she’s been doing this whole time- I don’t think that unreasonable. This is the epitome of internalized misogyny.
Well thats the writers fault beacuse most women cannot even do what Sharjeena is doing and be so happy and never have complaints even in her in laws house how can you have 9-5 job do mba and make million dishes forget a man she has been shown to be too perfect as a woman even sorry to say to even say no to ac is just ridiculous i feel bad for her her feelings are valis she is relatable as a pregnant woman she needs attention but she should also go live with her parents for a biy and get some attention. When you are kickstarting a business you are busy with long hrs when you are a dr your spouse stays home alone for hours even overnight many jobs make you very very busy i have had to go through this you have to deal with it he is not moody he literally bought an ac for her he cares about her diet this is very relatable it doesnt make any of them a villain thats why couples need outside support . I do fault him for missing an important event and also saying he didnt want baby but when you are in trauma his parents disowned him that is not a mood swing he literally has been kicked out you cant fault him for wanting a successful career and reacting to that he hasnt been mean to sharjeena he is just prepccupied and he is always doing everything for her. He was in the middle of a meeting and went to get plants with her im surprised he didnt get more annoyed is that reasonable from Sharjeena? they both have flaws and thats what marriage is literally most people have these issues not a big deal no ones a villain
Ugh Guys can we just be more understanding and not have it become such a big Who is right and who is wrong and where. They are humans and they both are wrong in some places and right in some places. They are not spending time with each other and are not communicating properly. It happens in relationships. And the whole 'ac ki zaroorat nai hai' wali cheez. Obviously AC ki zaroorat hai but learn to read between the lines. Sharjeena has been trying to awaken this thought in Mustafa's head that if he is becoming emotionally absent just to provide her with things then it's not worth it because she wants him to be emotionally available to her. She isn't saying don't work or don't try to succeed. Mustafa keeps saying I'm doing this for you. You deserve better things. He's putting this on Sharjeena when the real reason is that he wants to prove himself to HIMSELF and people who did not believe in him. He has not communicated this truth. Sharjeena doesn't want an absent Mustafa who is trying to get material things FOR HER ONLY (according to him) or to prove he is worthy of her, which is why she said AC nai chahiye. But if things were normal, if he were not so cold and distant and did not snub her on and off then I can see her happily loving and wanting the AC.
What they showed Sharjeena is not even possible. You have to be a super human to do it all. Mustafa's character is much more realistic. That's why things aren't making sense now. Sharjeena's character is unrealistic.
As much as we love Mustafa, lets not make excuses for him. He is not perfect and no one is. He is making mistakes right now not giving Sharjeena the emotional support she needs. Hopefully he will realize soon and mend his ways. Sharjeena is in no way shape or form wrong in asking for that support.
Sharjeena is not wrong about wanting his attention, but she is wrong in resenting his ambition and constantly telling him that money is not important. She should understand his need to become financially secure and be a good provider. He has learned the hard way that money is important. I also don't think he said I don't want a baby. He just said I don't want a baby right now. There's a difference, and again, his feelings are understandable. It may be wrong, but when we are under so much pressure, we often lash out on the people closest to them. Women become mothers from the time they become pregnant, but for father, it can take time. But I am sure he will be a great dad. His way of showing love seems to be constantly feeding Sharjeena and providing an AC for her. Sharjeena showed no appreciation for these things.
If Mustafa didn't want a baby, he should have used protection during intimate moments. I wish Sharjeena would focus on her career; she's well-educated and ambitious. It's sad to see her prioritizing Mustafa's love and attention over her own goals.
Since first episode only Sarjeena is expected to behave according to Mustafa mood and his family. Why can't Mustafa act according to Sarjeena and take 2-3 taunt of Sarjeena family. Double Standard of Socity and men's like hassan
She was alone and had no choice. There would have been no point in telling Mustafa abt his moms taunts because they didnt accept each other as their partners. Also Sharjeena did calmly speak up to his mom sometimes. And when she reached her breaking point during the time when she did accept Mustafa as her husband she did tell him about her mom taunts and Mustafa did not complain and she fought with Rubab too. Mustafa has already reached his breaking point, he got humiliated by family why would he tolerate her parents taunts and false accusations? And no Mustafa should not be getting angry at Sharjeena for her parents taunts and accusations and he should either tell her calmly he does not like it or tell her dad to back off himself.
Mustafa's mother mistreated Sarjeena 24 × 7 so many times yet he was ok with it till the time she had enough of that. All taunts of his family were in front of his eyes.Why the hell did she have to literally leave his house to put across her point to her husband. When he was carefree he expected Sarjeena to be carefree. Now he is money minded and wants Sarjeena to be money minded. Till the time it didn't hit his ego he was ok with his family and didn't take anything seriously. He left his family for his own respect. He is hurt by his family that doesn't mean he has licence to neglect and misbehave with her. He started earning now but Sarjeena earning from a long time. His wife is also going through the same problem with pregnancy. Yet according to him only Sarjeena needs to understand him. According to people only Mustafa needed to be understood, pampered and motivated because we live in male dominating society. They both are responsible for pregnancy not only Sarjeena. He has a problem with pregnancy and basic emotional needs. Then he should be ok if Sarjeena opts for abortion and ignores & misbehaves with him for her career in the near future.
In any case no one should taunt their damad or bahu. Don’t justify it . Jab Mustafa usk liye stand leta tha apni Maa ko b answer back kiya hai usne , ek dafa nahi kaha k frustation na nikalo etc Sharjeena foran gusa hogai k mere abu per frustration na nikalo🙄🙄🙄 abu ko effort nazar nh arae k ab kistrha mehnat krha hai lrka. Boundaries dono taraf rkhni chahie lrke larka dono ko parents k sth k interfere na kre faltu ka
that's so true ! she kept Her cool while doing everything she done for him listening to his mother taunts,giving money for his father medicine,doing job work,rashan dalwaana. all unasked i know but in the same Way He is alsoo unasked working for her lol😂 while she is also earning 😊
@@realworld9663 well said, sharjeena has tried hard to adjust according to Mustafa and his family, she has tolerated Mustafa 's mother behavior, she never compliant, but Mustafa can't bear Sharjeena's father , he is too obsessive and rude towards Sharjeena's family, ager thora sa bardash Mustafa bhi kar lay what matters, Sharjeena to bitter nahe hoi us k sath
Yes mustafas behaviour is entirely problematic and it started right when he mistreated sharjeena over food sent by her mother. For heavens sake boy, it was just food. What was all the fuss about? He has not been able to handle anything and taking all frustration out on sharjeena while she used to work, study, make food for his family, dealt with mother and adeel while now, mustafa has socially isolated her from her family like missing out on her sisters' events. For what? Your family was greedy not hers; treat them well mister
Right why , Mustafa over reacted over food, that was nothing , bahi ager us ki maa nay khana bhaij dia, kya big deal hay, bus male ego, zaher lug raha Mustafa us waqt
Nobody is talking about the fact that Mustafa has completely isolated Sharjeena. She is pregnant and has no emotional or practical support from her in-laws OR her parents. He has never made an attempt to bond with her parents, and is rude and passive-aggressive to them and about them all the time. His ego is the reason Sharjeena doesn't go to meet or stay with her parents. He's behaving like a textbook red flag, but somehow nobody seems to be noticing or talking about it. And the reason Sharjeena needs and wants his love and attention is because she literally has no one else to turn to at this hour. Her in-laws don't even know about her pregnancy. So there is nothing unreasonable about how she is behaving and what she is expecting from Mustafa. He's the reason she is emotionally isolated; he needs to realize that and meet her needs for that reason first, even before we consider the fact that she is pregnant with his child
@@Stonytude absolutely agree! ofcourse she is looking to him for emotional support who else does she have?? not taking money was one thing but when sharjeena was so excited to eat a meal sent by her mother cuz she was pregnant he threw a fit and took it personally. his ego is exactly the reason she doesnt spend much time with her parents anymore.. she is completely emotionally isolated.
Mustafa isn't the one who isolated her from her family, she chose to not go with her family. But she's not on bad terms with them. She literally mentioned visiting her sister in the latest episode. You don't need to be isolated from your family to want love from your husband. She's not wrong there. But mustafa isn't some textbook red flag trying to isolate her or anything
@@AkashaKhan-f3c he’s def not some abusive person trying to intentionally isolate her. but in a way, he is contributing to that. its a very normal thing for a mom to send food to her daughter when she is married especially if/when she is pregnant its just an indulgence i see alot of people do. but because mustafa was insecure he threw a fit, that they sent meat bcuz they didnt i cant afford to feed u meat this that- now apply that if sharjeena stays at her mothers for a day or two just as an indulgence out of love, his rant about yes there is ac there more comfort there i am nikamma would start. and the reason they dont go to sharjeenas mom n dad often for dinners or anythin is cuz mustafa and murtaza dont get along! murtaza’s taunts hurt mustafa’s ego. even after ditching sharjeena to go to the function n comin home at 11pm he said sorry yes but then also said its good we didnt go ur dad would have been there 💁🏻♀️
@ashminesahni2208 that was one instance over which sharjeena called him out, since then there's nothing to suggest he's made her distant from her family. I do think he's letting his insecurities get between them but he's not intentionally trying to isolate her or hurt her to label him a red flag or abusive
I feel like the dichotomy in the comment section shows how we all struggle with internalized misogyny and perhaps thats just the culture we have been raised in. Lets not forget Sharjeena was working a job. Doing a degree and still cooking and cleaning and LOVING mustafa. Being THERE for mustafa. To all the people who think that oh Mustafa is there for her because he gives her milkshakes and buys her things and fruit. Imagine if all Sharjeena did back in his house, was give him khana and chaye. Would you people think she hung the moon? That she is the epitome of a loving wife? No you would say thats just the bare minimum, what every wife does. So lets be more understanding towards Sharjeena as well. Both are human beings. Both are struggling and BOTH OF THEIR FEELINGS ARE VALID. She is pregnant and KNOWS her husband does not want a child. She loves him. She is allowed to MISS his love and attention. SHE HASNT EVEN DEMANDED OR ARGUED MUCH. She has simply politely asked him. Reminded him. Or has been quieter and sad Which is understandable. If Mustafa would sit down and share his feelings and truly sit and communicate with her. And say loving things to her. Take the time to take her out once a week And perhaps communicating things in a less Snubby way (because Mustafa whether jokingly or not snubs Sharjeena) then perhaps she would understand his perspective better.
@@stitchkhalid6727 im glad to see this comnent section! all i was seeing on instagram was people bashing sharjeena that what kinda love she wants or needs and i think its so funny that guys while recieving emotional support are gladly taking it but while giving they think bare minimum is enough and the wife is being unreasonable. guys on instagram gaslighting so hard😅 they have completely forgotten why they loved sharjeena for being such a supportive wife in the first place. they loved her and wanted a wife like her and the moment she is in a place to RECIEVE such love and effort and support SHE GAVE her husband, all the guys labelling her as unreasonable that he is working providing for her and she wants romance is childish. relationship is a give and take, only one person cant be the only one giving all the time
Oh so sharjeena stood up for him when her father insulted him for no reason on call , instead she was like hum per na nikalo frustation. Mustafa stood up for her apni maa ko answer back tak kiya usne .. Mustafa ka us bat per chirna bilkul thek tha. He just got extra busy phr bhi care krha hai. So many people has zero knowledge how difficult to start a business and run it and its not 9-5 to be there all the time she can wait let him achieve his dreams!! Har insan k kuch dream hotey hain , Sharjeena is constantly complaining!
Sharjeena dealt with Mustafa’s mother’s taunts with a smile and never complained to Mustafa. On top of that Adeel and his wife were adding fuel to the fire. On the other hand, Mustafa cannot tolerate her dad’s call. He complains to her. This is not fair at all.
In kmkt sharjeen handled rubab, her mother in law, work and still was supportive and loveable to mustafa but when mustafa turn came he is allowed to throw his frustration on sharjeena why? I mean if you dont want child than take precaution dont blame her
I agree with Aamna about the Duniyapur OST. What an explosion of emotions....the variety of the notes, the relevance of the lyrics, the zeal swimming throughout the flow left me spellbound. Unique melody with a lot of soul! Duniyapur is turning out to be a massive entertainer. And I am disappointed that Aamna and Hasan didn't discuss that scene between Shahmir and Nemrah. That brother-sister scene where he apologizes to her was so beautifully performed by both Khushal and Huma. The cinematography is TOP-NOTCH....the frames have been so exquisitely captured. Especially in this episode where many scenes were shot at night....yet the play of shadows and color gradients was so aesthetically done. Great job! And to answer Hasan's question about nikah, for a man like Nawab Dilawaiz, his prime objective in marrying Nemrah is to have a control on Nauroz Adam and belittle him. So it doesn't matter to him if the sanctity of the nikah was accomplished in its true sense. The only thing that mattered was that the nikah was done in a technical sense and he had full control over not just Duniyapur but also his former servant who is his arch enemy as well. When a power-hungry man gets these things, its only logical that he doesn't give two hoots about the soul and substance of nikah. I don't think so it was a flaw at all. In fact it was a totally justified, in sync with Nawab's character-sketch, sequence. Overall Duniyapur is becoming more and more intriguing and interesting with the passage of each episode. The storyline is crisp, the twists are nerve-wrecking. Can't wait for the next one.
Wish our female leads have something which makes them not so perfect. Always a topper, hosting dawats, listening to tantrums of in laws, being a therapist of their husbands, their rooms are always clean, they always look like a million bucks yet if they are just SAD at unavailability of their husbands, they becone annoying to the public. Koi tou simple humanly kami dikha dein k istri ka shauq nhi ya tayyar acha nhi hoti ya atleast sare kaam karke thak jati hay. On the other hand, the male lead can be a habitual drinker, rapist, kidnapper or whatever and people will laud at him in the end just because "pyar kitna karta hay". Sums up our society's subconscious expectations for women as well.
Hahahaha Loved it, Yup how can a topper be a super chef, generally toppers have different interests or at least different abilities for others to appreciate them , why cooking is SOOOO much applauded,nothing else, like managing chores,job,akhlaaq,etc Hosting dawats and that too so perfectly And not getting tired Thumbs up for writing this
@bareerahakim5929 haha not to brag but I was a topper and love cooking very elaborate spreads 🙈 But like I said, I hate getting dressed up , my room is not clean 24/7 and I would be mad at my husband for being always at the office 😂
KMKT: I think mustafa needs a lesson on how babies are made. What did he expect the outcome was going to be of unprotected sex? Why do men behave as if the pregnancy is the woman’s fault! If he didn’t want a baby then he should have used protection.
@@nkhan8933 A woman’s “reham “ (uterus) as well her nature of reham is a unique quality of Allah which He has given it woman alone . A woman with pure love carries this baby to full term( despite the heavy toll it takes on her body)and is on the verge of death when she delivers it and yet there is still a smile and love on her face after Men have not been given this quality. They cannot feel it physically like a woman does nor understand it so one should allow a little understanding and forgiveness when they do that. Once the baby is born everything changes for the father :)
@@joharakhankhan2173oh please people say all that nonsense to excuse men of accountability. Things dont function on emotion. "Do I feel connected to baby then only I will act accordingly?" Makes no damn sense
Fault falls upon both. If they had such relationship, shrjina an educated person should have definitely asked her hubby to use protection or they should have discussed their family expansion plans before going for it, it wasn't like NauzubILLAH her husband forcefully slept with her. It was mutual "love" product. Sorry but blame falls on both especially in the kind of relationship n characters shrjina n Mustafa are shown to be.
It's not about a male or female perspective. It's not about who's at fault. It's about how we communicate. The irony is that we expect others to understand us without fully articulating our feelings and needs. When are we taught to have effective, clear, and meaningful conversations about our feelings?
I saw some comment here saying why can't sharj just go to her mother's like old time😭😭 i lost you but if you're reading this and you're a boy, learn to be a father before you give out your sperms. Becoming a father isn't just sleeping and sending your partner to her mayka for the nursing purpose. And if you're a girl, sis please know your worth. If you're just a responsibilities of your husband who can give you away cause emotional support usne hota Nahin.
You guys aren’t understanding the fact that Mustafas job isnt stable. Dan says if the company doesnt take off he will join his fathers business, but Mustafa doesnt have that privilege. There is no job security for him. Its do or die. It might be unemployed if the game trashes. He has that constant fear which sharjeena doesnt realise. Also she was happy when he dint have anything. She kept saying that again ang again, which mustafa felt was sugar coated, he thinking the same thing again. And he wants to prove himself to her aswell. The constant third person interference in their house is what aggravates his troubles , like sharjeenas father now.
KMKT : 1:13:00 I completely agree with Hassan on this..The exact same thing is going in Mustafa's head..Until the game of Hurricane Mustafa's intention was also to prove the world that he is capable and he is not a loser,he had dreams for himself...But after the betrayal of Joseph..He stepped down and was ready to live a life in 35k salary..But as he got to know about her pregnancy..he has got no chance to sit down but to work hard to settle the future for his family..Now his only intention is to give good life to Sharjeena and upcoming child..He is even fine with someone taking credit for his work,he just wants him to be paid..Sharjeena's father is also giving him pressure..When he told he don't have time and he want to earn more,his intention is to achieve everything before the child is born, atleast to some extent that he can change the home to a better place in a good area.I see his obsession for money as the concern for his family..He says "Pyar se paith nahi bartha" and he also understands when Sharjeena says she needs attention and love(He was so smart since the beginning to catch even mood changes of her and the reason behind it)he is aware of what she wants from him still he took a conscious decision to choose his job as he finds it necessary for his family..Also what Sharjeena is going through is painful and my heart aches for her..The situation is unfortunate and both are justified!
KMKT - I think the problem in the dynamic is Mustafa is not understanding the needs of his partner. She is verbally expressing what she wants from him and he is not stepping up. Yes, he needs to work to provide but the constant work and money conversations he is having are disheartening and Sharjeena has told him how she feels about this. I understand Mustafa's traumas and why he is obsessed with money but let's not forget that Sharjeena is not asking for much. At one point she was handling work, inlaws and her relationships with a lot more composure. I feel Mustafa is not able to do the same because he has a lot of baggage that needs to be addressed by psychology or else he will continue like this.
I believe people will be biased for either Mustafa or Sharjeena based on his/her own perspective of life. It's not black and white a Man/Woman perspective. If you are someone raised in a loving, respectful and warm family like Sharjeena has been, you will feel strongly for her. She is a daughter of a service holder. It seems like her parents always handled money issues very sensibly and calmly (Remember the scene where the dad was telling the mother his thought on buying some appliances for Sharjeena?) unlike Shagufta ji. Therefore Sharjeena can prioritize love and attention ahead of money. In addition, she is expecting. Although it was not planned but Sharjeena's personality helped her to embrace the uncertainty and be excited. All she needs right now is the old Mustafa and it is completely justified. Now let's move on to Mustafa. If you are someone raised in a household like his, you will feel strong justification for Mustafa's behavior. There was not a single episode Shagufta Ji didn't vent her frustration about less money and inflation. However, when it comes to Adil, she never forgets to bring Shami kabab from the freezer :P She even serves the family vegetables in lunch but meat is there for dinner because Adil joins them. If you are raised in a household like that, unfortunately you start to believe that money is a solution for all the problem, money is the holy grail for respect! Mustafa's own parents didn't hesitate for a second to believe that he stole the money. That was the biggest shock he received that night. He was made to realize that you need money to earn your parent's trust! Hence he is running after money to feed his ego and earn back his self respect. I think The writer has a vision in mind, that's why she has shown this phase of Mustafa's character
Every episode of KMKT comes out stronger than the last one. After giving the 7 stages of ishq, we were educated about the procedure of making a video game; good research was done. 👍 With money coming in they showed subtle improvements in the interior. The living roam gave a pretty shabby chic look. ☺️ The drama is moving at an excellent pace. I loved Rubab’s attitude towards Adeel. The writing direction, acting , design, costumes, everything is synchronised and goes hand in hand and the results are top notch.
I am a man i completely agree with Amna Mustafa's behaviour is just unjustified towards sharjeena..when he was nothing, his family members threw him out of his house at that point of time sharjeena became his biggest support system at your lowest and when sharjeena needs your support at her lowest point what the hell are you doing you keep ignoring sharjeena... And Mustafa is so stubborn towards making money he forgot what's right and what's wrong and i am a man but I can't understand what emotion he has gone through what remains him to make money it's just his Ego problem nothing else
KMKT: I completely agree with Hassan that Mustafa's emotions should also be given the same importance as Sharjeena's. Another thought that came to mind while watching KMKT is how important it is to not rely on one person for your happiness. How burdensome it can become for them if your entire world revolves around them. Therefore, It's so important to have friends, family, work, hobbies, etc, to derive happiness and satisfaction from and give the other person the space to grow and work on themselves.
Totally get what Mustafa is going thru. When you are building a new business and in such a competitive world, you have to loose count of working hours!!! Nothing big is achieved so passively and easily! I am sorry this is very understandable that he is fully occupied in creating a new venture. I thought Sharjeena would understand why he is like this now. Hassan, I agree with you that Mustafa went thru much worse and ugly and painful things than Sharjeena…..if your own parents dis own you and humiliate you in front of your spouse and siblings ….this can really break you! Sharjeena thankfully has her family support so she is not as broken like him.
If this pregnancy wasn't planned or wanted and contraception wasn't used in kmkt then mustafa is to be blamed for this. He absolutely can't keep taking his traumas and egoistic behaviour out on sharjeena when inspite of her problems from the start she's been so supportive, putting on a strong front for him. Every man earns or wants to give comforts to his family. He is not the only one. So his obsessiveness and lack of work life balance is definitely going to give him consequences. And I hope it does. Him behaving this way because of his traumas doesn't justify his behaviour towards his PREGNANT WIFE. She's pregnant forgod sake AND WORKS FULL TIME TOO. HORMONES are running haywire, EMOTIONAL NEEDS increase at this time and what not. And these major needs he is not able to meet completely of hers. In addition to this he keeps acting as though they are in poverty when its A damn 2 INCOME HOUSEHOLD. Like sharjeenas parents tell his ego and lack of work life balance is going to be the end of him.
Yes..Before Hurricane he wants to do something to prove himself but after that he lost interest in gaming also,yet he is doing everything purely for her and the child..He doesn't even want credit but just money to secure the future..He's desperate and hanging on this startup and wanting to make this workout somehow because he doesn't have energy to start everything all-over again..He is exhausted
I agree with hassan totally as he explained mustafas emotions v clearly. There is a clear difference between sharjeena and mustafa persona/background and their circumstances likewise their emotions r evolving so both r justified in their stance.
Regarding the Mustafa vs Sharjeena debate, I don't think this is necessarily a gender issue but more of a 'profession' issue. As someone who has an amateur interest in games and gaming development, I've heard multiple times that it is an extremely demanding career, both creatively and emotionally. It's well documented that those working in game development or animation have incredibly long hours and tight deadlines and many in that field suffer from chronic stress and burnout. It's not easy and from what I saw, it didnt even seem like Mustafa's team was that large especially for a project that immense? Or maybe thats just a budget issue and they couldn't hire enough extras, I don't know. I think its a very precarious time for Mustafa and as a woman, I can't say that I wouldn't act the same. It's one of his first proper jobs and he has little else to fall back on if this fails. I can imagine the pressure I would feel to prove my worth, not only to myself but to everyone who's been constantly undermining me (and this is a subject that resonates very strongly with me in my personal life so I see my own anxieties reflected in Mustafa). He could have this fear that leaving work early or being lax in his responsibilities as lead developer in any way could possibly mean being let go, especially under such a overzealous CEO, and then what would happen to him and his family. He's not used to this level of work so it's only natural he's going to struggle to find a good work-life balance especially in these initial stages and in such a taxing field. Maybe Sharjeena, someone who's never struggled in these particular aspects of life, would have a hard time understanding why he's going this far, and I see this difference irl between myself and some of my higher achieving peers who have more options in life. It takes time to settle and feel secure in your professional life and this is gonna be something they're going to have to work out together. I feel like their issue is their lack of communication, which admittedly is more Mustafa's fault for not straight up telling Sharjeena how he feels and what exactly he's struggling with, but I can understand his stress and hesitance (for now at least, I don't think he's gone too far in any way yet). That said, Sharjeena's emotions are also understandable. They have to learn to understand these newer versions of themselves and give each other some grace and margin for error. Also maybe this is just me but I didn't really feel that Mustafa was upset with Sharjeena for being pregnant? It seemed more like he was frustrated with the situation in general or at their (or his) carelessness at conceiving when they weren't ready (mentally or financially) to be parents. Like it never felt specifically targeted towards her in my opinion, and honestly it felt like he was scared of being a father too, like the man barely started adulting properly and now he's responsible for a small child. This isn't me excusing him like obviously he has to step up now, he can't be an emotionally absent father and let Sharjeena pick up the slack, but I get the initial fear. Idk I could've read it wrong or this could change in future episodes but that's what I feel as of now. As you've said in the episode, I think this is just a difficult and tense situation and neither of them are in the wrong or invalid in their feelings. They're both interesting and well written characters and that's why the drama works so well.
I just wish they show Sharjeena having a proper stern talk with her father about boundaries just like Mustafa had with his family…its not only a man’s job to defend his wife but a womans job too to defend the husband’s honor..the annoying father keeps interfering and throwing jabs at Mustafa ,not once Sharjeena reacted
KMKT: I don't get Mustafa's obsession with earning money overnight, it can be a long term goal. He should be happy in whatever he is earning right now as he was a nobody before. Mustafa's salary is around 200K with commission plus sharjeena's salary. They both have a middle class background and a family of 3 can easily live comfortably in this amount.
KMKT: in my opinion, Mustafa and Sharjeena are both “becharay”, caught up in a situation out of their comfort zones. Both are emotionally disturbed. This is the struggling time in every relationship, that make up or break up their relationship. Through their struggles in making a family, in making their careers and going through the day to day hardships of life, they will evolve as a couple. We as a women go through hormonal ups and downs every month and pregnancy is the height of those emotions ( we have to bear those, no choice). Men try to understand that, but they can’t experience those emotions, so their understanding is limited. For that reason, family support comes in especially mothers and sisters of the girl. , who can understand the situation emotionally. Mustafa is not wrong, becoming a father comes as a burden for him, he just started his struggles to earn money and not ready for the new responsibility.
KMKT ,completely agree Hassan ,why should we discount on men always and thier side of the story is neglected.just like when Danish says do takky ki larki (first time expressing his heartbreak after his wife had cheated upon him and then asked for divorce ,that he easily and respectfully delivers ,no physical voilance or slap )still the feminist community rouse against that line, like men can never react ? Mard ka reaction bhi na ay?
#KMKT. As a female engineer teaching young engineers I get Mustafa behavior. It is extremely realistic and i feel he is right too. My young students especially boys are so driven with money. Moreover, in the age of freelancing and entrpreneurship his workahokic behavior is very believable. Having said that their distance is also making sense. Life is not a romantic movie and this is how young couple evolves. So I agree more with hassan. Above all this is great storytelling that it actually happens between young couples.. so instead of taking sides, lets wait how the writer will show the progression of characters. Maybe both acknowledge each other eventually. So as viewers we should give them both a chance
Here are the seven stages of love with definitions: 1. Attraction (Hubb): The initial feeling of love or attraction towards someone. 2. Infatuation (Uns): Deepening emotional bond or closeness. 3. Love (Ishq): A passionate and intense form of love that involves longing and emotional attachment. 4. Trust/Reverence (Aqeedat): A stage where respect and trust towards the beloved grows deeper. 5. Worship (Ibadat): The lover begins to adore and idolize the beloved, treating them with divine-like reverence. 6. Obsession (Junoon): An overwhelming and uncontrollable love, often leading to madness or irrational behavior. 7. Death (Maut): It symbolizes the complete and absolute surrender of oneself to love, where the individual's ego, desires, and personal identity are lost in devotion to the beloved. Musjeena are in the 6th stage, so their behavior is meant to be irrational. Just chill and wait for the last stage.
KMKT , in this entire situation , nobody is wrong and universally every single couple of this world pass through all these stages from romance and honeymoon period to pragmatic and realistic worlds ,where money is needed to buy everything but love cant.
Why do we associate hormones with women only? If we are talking about kabhi main kabhi tum, men have hormones also, and since its not talked about or researched enough, doesnt mean men are void of hormones 🤷♀️
Men dont bleed every month, or they dont get pregnant that doesnt mean their hormones are not raging at times. Its very much there, but not talked about enough
I get your point of view. But it is scientifically proven that male hormones regulate on a daily basis while a female body takes 28 days to regulate its hormones. Hence the clear difference/emphasis on female hormones.
Mustafa is in the wrong here. He has become so blindsided by his ambitions, he cant see sharjeena doesn't want all of that. I think sharjeena will be heartbroken over his behaviour change and suffer a miscarriage. That is what death meant.
KMKT: The discussion between Hassan and Amna is the core discussion of the book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Women are far more expressive and communicative than men. Both Mustafa and Sharjeena’s actions are justified. Mustafa is highly insecure though and until he works on himself to rid himself of this insecurity, he won’t be able to love himself and in turn, love Sharjeena fully (the way she’d like to be loved) and possibly their child.
Setting up something from scratch adds pressure..Mustafa doesnt do a normal 9-5 job...i can understand Musrafa's passion and the urge to prove himself..
KMKT: The writing is so good and nuanced that we feel and understand both sides. No side is a clear villain. Perhaps, as a man I feel and understand Mustafa more than Sharjeena which is why his obsession with work doesn’t seem that wrong; while I find Sharjeena a little clingy and obsessive. Mustafa’s striving became more intense after the baby’s announcement because he doesn’t want his child to grow up in such an awful neighbourhood and facing deprivation; nor does he want to feel as a loser in front of his child. Adding how annoying Sharjeena's father is, so it becomes all the more paramount for him to earn moer money. Although Mustafa saying he doesn’t want the child was awful and ungrateful and so is his tendency to lash out in front of her, I think Sharjeena is being too intrusive (but she is also correct since she feels for the baby most) and too unrealistically optimistic. I get she wants love and attention, but she should also see from his perspective and how she should support his growth so that he can feel validated. She is seeing from her perspective, and what she wants for both of them. She knows he has potential which is finally being seen and after being betrayed, but I wish she was more supportive, and less the fairytale version. I think even her arc has been reduced or become stagnant to simply saying “Mustafa paisa nai chaiye” or “Mustafa mein khush hoon” or something along those lines.
I agree with Hassan, i somehow understand what mustafa's going through, sharjeena has her parents support love and has access to them anytime she wants.Yes I hope it should not go to the point where they are drifted apart.
Mustafa is working in a startup and the success of this game can change the world for him..A person like Danish doesn't come often who provides a job with funds and facilities.Also Danish stated that he has a dad's business so he might close everything and go there if things didn't go well..But this is the golden opportunity he got..He has already seen the life after being jobless.The immediate job he gets is a data entry job with low salary and overtime..Also his previous game is doing well and not this so he clearly knows how life is being unfair to him..He says he don't have time means he wants to earn more and settle the future before the baby is born so Sharjeena and the kid don't lack anything..He is not egoistic and working for himself,he is not concerned about credit or fame..He just wants money to provide a good life to his family..He is also exhausted that he don't have energy or any hope to start everything all over again from scratch..Mustafa being practical is one of the main reasons for him to stand up strong and fight with life even after all the betrayals of life..Had he been emotional,he would have fell in depression and become disable and get more inferior to not be able to anything..I really appreciate him for being this strong..He is a true Hero for me!
KMkT- the depiction of moments between sharjeena/mustafa is so real ( the luddo khelna, chai peena etc) that it almost feels like you are intruding in someone’s personal life. It’s so so real and you can’t help but feel connected to these characters
I felt sorry for Mustafa; the father in law was not happy that he didn’t earn much, and wife was unhappy that he was working too much. Sharjeena was wrong. Mustafa proved to be a loving caring husband. Every man has to earn, do a job, even go out of city or the country for days, leaving pregnant wives alone at home. This is where patents help. Sharjeena could have gone to her parent’s house if she felt lonely, and let Mustafa work. In the old days it was customary for the daughter to come to her parent’s place for delivery of the first child.
The thing is Sharjeena is pregnant. She is entitled to her husband's care and love. Maybe it's become too normal for women to just go without love from their husband during their pregnancy and rely on their own families. But truth is she needs care and attention. Even just a little bit of time. Remember she said that he doesn't even say anything romantic to her like that anymore. Even though he is giving her things. Is he spending time to talk to her and communicate? Not really. I don't think Sharjeena would have minded Mustafa being so busy if it weren't for the shift in Mustafa's character. He's more serious and distant, not just busy. He has closed himself off from her. I think that's why she feels alone. Her feelings are valid. She has supported him and loved him and still loves him. She's not an idiot she KNOWS Mustafa doesn't love his child. That would Hurt any woman
@@stitchkhalid6727, ABSOLUTELY!!!! 💯! I fully agree with you!!!!! I can feel Mustafa’s pain too! Sharjeena does too, but he does not feel her pain! Baaqi kaam karay, khoob karay, all nighters bhi lagaey! So jaey, events miss kar de! It’s allllllll okay! But pyaar kay 2 lafz keh de! At least TRY to kar le to show SOME interest in his own child, for heaven’s sake! I reallyyyy hope that they portray the death stage properly! Death stage of love is not the actual death of lovers! It’s the death of self and of ego! Mustafa needs to get to that stage, Sharjeena is already there! And he better get there and we better get a happy ending! And no, he can’t get there after seeing his child! And no, she can’t miscarry! It would be the biggest disservice to the entire world that is watching this drama right now! Pakistanis, Indians and soooooo many others are watching this around the world! Makers, please! 🙏
no, sharjeena is completely valid. if it were a matter of a few days or weeks, it still would've been understandable. but months have passed in the kbhi mein kbhi tum universe. we as audiences only see them 80 minutes a week, but you have to understand that that has been sharjeena's reality for every minute of the past few months. he has quite literally abandoned his pregnant wife, who is going through a tough time not only physically but also mentally and emotionally, and not just because of the baby but also mustafa. she needs her husband. she's also going out to earn money, but she manages to come back at a decent time. what mustafa has is a bad work-life balance that is affecting sharjeena. mustafa is wrong here. and regardless, as somebody already stated above, the biggest issue is his lack of communication and issues with their baby that has sharjeena feeling unloved.
@@stitchkhalid6727 Does Mustafa look like a man who wouldn’t love his child? I will never believe that. He is just stressed out. On one hand his father in law puts pressure on him, on the other hand he feels insecure after the fraud he had to face. On top of that there is the baby he feels he cannot afford . He feels guilty not providing comfort to Sharjeena, now he would feel double guilt seeing his child without comfort.
Mustafa and sharjeena have different love language. Sharjeena's is to spend time and express love and Mustafa shows love by providing for his family. So realistic and so unusual to be shown on TV with so much nuance. They just need to read each others love language and find love for themselve in it.. a struggle most real life couples have also
Sharjeena’s character has become highly unrealistic, portraying an idealized version of a woman who is overly sacrificial, forgiving, and always agreeable, even in situations that would overwhelm most people. She’s upset with Mustafa for working overtime, despite him facing career setbacks, financial struggles, and an upcoming baby, where work is necessary. Her repeated claims that "money doesn’t matter" have become frustrating, especially since she was the one who encouraged him to get a job. Mustafa’s actions are more realistic-working hard for their future-but this has created an unfair imbalance in their relationship, as Sharjeena is shown as overly patient, adjusting, and naive, seeing everything through a romantic lens. This shift from her earlier strong personality to a passive, "perfect woman" trope only adds to the harmful expectations society already places on women, giving men a distorted view of how women should behave. The show’s plot has dragged on unnecessarily, with repetitive dialogues, predictable outcomes like the separation arc, and a random pregnancy storyline that feels poorly handled. The romance and chemistry between the characters have weakened, and viewers are frustrated with the abrupt focus on marital woes without a proper transition.
couldn't have said it better myself! Hassan and amna and the general's public fawning over KMKT makes me think i'm watching a different drama to them lmao
@@Someone-fu2ydshe’s in some other LaLa Land. Does she really think she’ll be healthy in Karachi heat? Her constant nagging for love and attention knowing fully well that they have a baby on the way and how badly Mustafa has been betrayed by everyone. Her fixation of not going forward is irritating.
Very aptly put. Don’t even have a fridge to store milk and drink chai every 4 seconds per day. You need money just for survival, so her character has become unrealistic. Everybody has to sacrifice something to build a life.
KMKT: now the title is making sense. Kabhi main kabhi tum is nothing but the sharing of love, admiration and emotions between our beloved musjeena. Just like mustafa is facing things now, sharjeena had already seen this things at his house. Sharjeena wants pyaar, attention now the most out of the other times and she's not getting that. She is still understanding and consoling him; at the same time she's also sensing the changes in him and smoothly puts it to him either through actions or confrontations. Major outbreak toh next week ke episodes mein hoga when both of them will actually confront their hidden emotions and ig sharjeena chali jayegi apne ghar for the betterment of their child and away from that "haalat"
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Hassan can’t be more wrong here. Not denying Mustafa is going through a lot but high time desi men understand that women don’t always need money and luxuries from them.. a lot of women anyways now have and earn their own money for that.. a woman needs support, needs her man to be around and especially when she is pregnant she must not be made to feel lonely. Mustafa’s behaviour is little immature and not at all understanding in this regard
The conflict between Mustufa and Sargeena is very real and understandable in their present situation.. Both of them are in the right to expect love and support from each other.. Mustufa’s obsession with making money so that his family is well taken of, is not unique or overly driven.I think every newly married couple go through some kind of difficulty each in their own way and this is where communication is the only answer. If only Mustufa sits down with Sharjeena and they both talk things over rationally , this kind of misunderstanding will brew trouble in their future..,
Rubab’s character is very strong, she is very action oriented and no crying. She handled things very smartly, strong women should be shown more in the dramas.
You have to realize that making a good game, like creating any piece of art, is a very demanding process and the creator has to put their heart and soul into it. Mustafa, perhaps, is pouring everything into his creation and hasn't got anything left in the tank to give to Sharjeena right now.
In kmkt, murtaza uncle was a huge problem in this episode. Mustafa is trying his best, murtaza uncle needs to step back and check his boundaries. Unkay phone k baad mustafa aur kya kehta siwae iskay k tum job chorh dou. Miyaan biwi mein jb foundation strong ho tou chotay chotay issues mein nai ghuss k apni contribution deni chahye.
Yes..His tone of speaking to Mustafa is authoritative and he never fails to express his dislike and disappointment in him..Mustafa is already aware, guilty and helpless and the father pinpointing same thing is giving him unnecessary pressure
And I'm amazed how women men are bashing sharj for wanting time 🤣🤣 like Bhai she's even fighting with him for that. She's keeping her longing to herself only. I'm just sad thinking women's standards are so low. Bas pati paisa kamaye ac lagaye toh charno me padh jau. You know Mustafa in his insecurities n all behaving the way he should behave and he'll get out of it too. But you guys won't ever come out of this weird thinking. Mustafa will know he's wrong and he'll snap out of the paisa kamana n all and look at the broader picture. You guys will be like hawww sharj doesn't deserve Mustafa 🤣😭
True that Sharjeena doesn't even ask him to accompany for hospital visits and suggests him that she can handle alone..She never argues or even complains and still people find her overreacting when she haven't even reacted yet..I would be glad if she argues with him..I am missing the old lioness Sharjeena who gives on-face replies..She is being way too calm and understanding
@@Meriya9749 exactly! Here I'm losing my shit thinking why sharj is taking all these thinga silently. This is her flaw. She's giving way too much space. And all are saying she's being understanding or not giving space.. then how come Mustafa till now didn't complain about it just once? Also why isn't he talking to her about her reserved and silent behavior? Isn't it bothering him one bit?
@@LalaSukhiramI feel he is aware of her feelings..he was smart and the one who used to notice her mood swings earlier and also Adeel being the reason behind it even when she shows her anger on his messiness in room..He says to her 'pyar se paith nahi bartha' and 'har baath main emotional hone ki zarurat nahi', 'sad hona or feel karna hum afford nahi kar sakte' shows he clearly is aware of what she is feeling but he find being financially stable more necessary than being paying attention to emotional needs..He has made a conscious decision to prioritise work as it is necessary for his family..He understands but he is helpless and he is not used to pretend to be happy and do things for the sake of doing just to make her happy..If he does show some affection and love,he has always done it by purely by his heart and not as a special efforts taken to impress her..He wants her to understand the truth that money matters..I feel he has no idea about the roller caster of emotions a women undergoes due to pregnancy hormones..That's why he has no knowledge on the depth of the emotional needs she is seeking for..he thinks providing a comfortable life and making sure of her medicines is enough which is not..
KMKT: Mustafa is insecure and I totally understand this. After being kicked out of a company I worked very hard for, I landed a much better job but instead of being happy I am insecure that I am gonna lose it. Mustafa's job has just unfortunately coincided with the pregnancy. Women are super hormonal at that time which is why Sharjeena is not as "understanding" as she was before. It's just her parents' unnecessary interference that is irritating. Being bothered for your child is one thing and blaming her husband for every problem is another. Her mother may be playing the good cop but even she has not defended Mustafa yet. She defended Sharjeena's choice but not Mustafa particularly.
I actually really agree with Hassan's rant regarding Mustafa. I think both characters are VERY REALISTIC. And thats why i think that their feelings are very very Valid. Mustafa has deep issues probably because he is a child of neglect. Emotionally neglected children struggle a lot. For Mustafa this is probably SUCH a difficult situation I completely get why hes become shut down and shattered and why there is so much frustration in him. I get both parties. The only solution for BOTH their problems is for them to spend quality time and communicate and connect so they both feel at ease.
My feedback for KMKT: Same like Hassan! 😂 Same frustration with Murtaza Uncle. Same expectations for Adeel’s Showdown. Same feeling for the changed OST. But that’s understandable coz now there love story is in another phase 😢 Hoping for a happy ending 🫶🏻
i think sharjeena is Only trying him to bring Him back To life trying to remind him that Money isn't everything❤ no matter what other says! sharjeena and Mustafa were soulmates Who valued connection,liveliness and compassion above all.❤❤ but with time he is ChangingHis values are changing and she is Just MISSING her SOULMATE that's all ❤❤❤
Mustafa's behaviour is not wrong but sharjeena needs to understand that whatever her husband is doing all for her betterment. Life should be practical and Mustafa is absolutely right in this case
Dunyapur’s Dunya is out of this Dunya! What a thrilling drama! Keeps you hooked and excited throughout the episode. Not a single dull moment! Huge round of applause for the makers and Green Tv for changing our screens 🤩 All the actors are doing amazing job especially Manzir Sir’s chilling performance is incredible 😅🫶🏻
Agreed. But let’s suppose that they used protection and still the contraceptive method failed, which does happen. What should be the final say on this pregnancy? Sharjeena told Mustafa that she wanted to be a mother and that she was really excited. That should be the one thing that now supersedes every other positive and negative point about the pregnancy. So for him to still hurt her with his attitude is very painful.
The job is permanent only if his game is successful as his boss will wind up if it doesn’t work, that’s why it’s important for game to succeed! Let’s not forget that
KMKT: If being unbiased, I feel like Mustafa has emotionally gone through much more than Sharjeena. The girl has had a pretty smooth life, the major trauma she faced was only when Adeel dupmed him and she felt disrespected. But somehow, Mustafa has received toxicity from his family throughout his life. Specifically the theft incident completely broke. The whole betrayal by Joseph was probably the final nail in the coffin. He for sure has had much more than Sharjeena. However, at this point, I 100% stand by Sharjeena. That woman has been her husband's rock throughout. At least during her pregnancy, Mustafa needs to be a little more accommodating to his wife. Hopefully we'll see an emotional reunion soon. ❤
Kmkt: the scene when BA overhears Adeel and Rubab was impressively executed. Can’t wait till Rubab kicks them out. Even though i feel pain for the father, he lost his only investment to this SOB of a son. I hope he gets it back.
Dear Amna & Hassan they have done commendable job for changing the sound track as needed,now the fast ost was not needed & all the ost’s are so on point with the situation,v r loving it.
Mustafa has lost his family, Sharjeena on the other hand got rid of in-laws. Mustafa is right about trying to earn, since I work too, I know the stress associated with it. Sharjeena is becoming a nagging house wife literally. Rather than understanding what her husband is going through at work, she’s only concentrating on her own wants and needs. Having a kid early on in a relationship is tough, it will be tough on mustafa as he has never handled so much responsibility. I truely think Sharjeena is being selfish now. She’s not supportive or trying to understand mustafa. I agree with Hassan!
I am a big fan of sultan salahuddin ayyubi series and of main lead actor Ugur Gunes. Hassan, please give my compliment to him and the whole team for such a great effort.
as a person who’s dealt with insecurities like Mustafa myself, I can say that the support of Sharjeena comes out to be suffocating. Sometimes you need to have someone who acknowledges the suffering and can rant about it together. And the pregnancy trope is just another cliche in the story that for me has weakened the charm of the sensible and upbeat storytelling of KMKT. Because no one in sane mind will be willing to have a baby in the situation they are in. A baby flourishes in a stable family unit. We tend to forget that.
I agree with aamna that Mustafa should be understand sarjeena's condition but no one is here to tell him how to care a pregnant woman, no one is here to how treat your pregnant wife. And Mustafa's emotional trauma still there, scars on his heart rooted by money and achievements so he now make it his life goal.
Yaar seriously??!!! Mustafa is a grown man!! He knows how to make a baby so he should know how to care for the person he is making a baby with. Low standards for me pffttt
@@Kokorukoro yes you're right in your perspective but in real life men really don't understand the real problems that women are suffering. And it's says that during pregnancy there should be elders present in house to teach and make understand so many trivial things. But in their case for Mustafa there not a single person who makes him guide what to do.
KMKT: love the drama both Sarjeena and Mustafa need to have a heart to heart with there feelings and emotions. Talk it through. Frankly need a biased person to help them go through this tough time. They both need couple counseling. Mustafa need some threapy as well to let go off all that baggage he has been carrying from childhood. ❤
Mustafa’s behaviour is very consistent with his original character … that’s how he is ! his communication skills have never been his strong point .. there’s nothing toxic or bad as such .. he’s hyper - just that ! Even in his most frustrating moments he’s never been abusive with his wife … he’s a handful.. will always be .. but a genuinely nice loving guy at heart . Downside of having a sprightly fun loving boyish husband I guess 😅they will not grow up !!!!
KMKT Hassan did a great comparison of Sharjeena and Mustafa. But he forgot about the baby. The baby needs a happy mother. Maybe Mustafa doesn't understand how important it is to be happy for the baby. It doesn't take anything away from his ambition. You can an ambitious person and show happiness for the baby. It feels like everything he is doing is out of a sense of duty.. caring for Sharjeena's food and appointment.. he is not showing any excitement like buying little toys or picking out names or just sharing Sharjeena's happiness
Another thing that bothers me about Sharjeena is that she isn't reaching out to her parents for support. For example, accompanying her to the doctor's if her husband is busy. Why are her parents being sidelined when they're aching to support her. It all boils down to girl's parents are secondary, we cannot ask them for help, it will hurt my husband's ego when all the while Sharjeena was putting up with her MIL's psycho behavior under her roof without a frown on her face. When all this ends, I really hope they make peace with Mustafa's parents but dont end up moving back in.
KMKT: completely agree with Hassan, why is sharjeena appearing so sad and feels so neglected - Mustafa’s behavior is completely normal, she was always motivating him and now when he is motivated and has direction she feels neglected - it is not that he is partying or spending time with other friends or is not caring for her. In real world this is exactly how new couples without any family support manage. But unfortunately now sharjeena is shown as someone who wants Mustafa should work 9/5 Job come back home and give all time to her, but they are not currently in that situation mustafa cannot afford to be just have 9/5 job. Lastly now after so much time has passed, Sharjeena is pregnant, why can’t she go and stay at her parents place for couple of days or a week and then come back. Understandably her pregnancy harmonies are carving for emotional attention, care, then isn’t it fare that she spends some time with her parents, come back and be happy with her husband ? Would it be on ego of her husband ?
KMKT:Love for Hassan for saying these points regarding Mustafa... Sharjeena needs to understand his emotions... He is continually taking care of her... He is mentioning again and again... Main Khush hona bhool gaya hon... Attention aur Piyar or Kia ha... Aglay ne AC lagwa dia... Chupke rahne Ka nam muhabbat ni ha.. mard ko b samjhay aur main b Aurat hon... Umar sharif sahib Ka kahna .. 12 bachay paida Kar k kahen gi Mian Piyar ni karta😅😅
I completely agree with Hassan about Mustafa’s trials and tribulation’s, he is thinking security about all of them. For example if one of them gets sick will they have money for Dr bills? Or is love and time going to pay the bills of hospitals and Drs? And she is a working lady and she has a support village, family parents and siblings and perhaps friends too!! But he as no one except Sharjina .. and he is doing everything possible to make sure she has an easy and successful pregnancy …
Hassan saying that Mustafa ignoring his emotional side just to achieve his bigger goal of earning money shouldn’t be right even if he’s thinking as a man. Because in Mustafa’s head he thinks that he wants to earn more for the family but what if the love in sharjeena’s heart dies because of the distance and ignorance from Mustafa then what will he do of all the money that he earns? It would be justified if Sharjeena is shown as someone who is greedy but she’s not. Because relationships not only require money to maintain them but also being emotionally present because as a couple emotional aspect is more important as it connects their hearts to each other.
Sarjena's depression is mainly for pregnancy hormones and during this time mustofa should take care of her . Mustofa is also going through a lot but he should be more careful about Sarjena, his only relationship left. Pregnancy is a medical emergency all the time . Come on mustofa!!!
KMKT: Adeel is a master manipulator taking his poor parents for a ride. His dad could do with stopping the wallowing in self-pity & put his foot down. Mustafa, however, has lost his sense of balance as he is married to his job. Even though he is starting out the gaming venture which requires much time commitment, he doesn't get the concept of creating healthy boundaries between work and life. Mustafa please reach out to me for my expertise on how to achieve work-life balance successfully 😀 ...you need a pep talk on dealing with an expecting wifey. Sharjeena also needs to cultivate a few hobbies/interests outside of work + home/family. Btw, the game development seqences were fab, a first in dramas I've watched so far. "A" for detailing ❤
I think i understand mustafa's pov. My husband takes a lot of pressure for our financial stability and future and he tells me that he loves me but doesnt get enough time to sit and think about how things were at the beginning of our marriage and where we firdt lived snd what was romantic or not but his actions where he takes care of me and pir kids shows me that he loves us. But there was a time when i used to yearn for his time and attention and eventually things got a lotttt better.
The long-term effects of parental favoritism from childhood to adulthood can be psychologically debilitating. Mustafa has been told and believes that he is good for nothing, which is why his attitude towards becoming successful is understandable. Instead of judging Mustafa, it's important to understand his character arc as he carries emotional baggage that he has not dealt with. In contrast, Sharjeena's upbringing was marked by unwavering parental support, which has equipped her with emotional resilience. Mustafa, on the other hand, never had the psychological support he needed to address his insecurities stemming from parental neglect. I am not defending Mustafa here. I am simply pointing out that parental neglect or favoritism can significantly impact a child's approach to life.
I think when people point out Sharjeena's flaws, it is taken to be something like we are suggesting Sharjeena to do more bardaasht. That's the problem - everyone is missing the point! We are sick and tired of the bardaasht trope already and now here comes more crying and sobbing. As a financially independent woman with supportive parents, I cannot relate to why Sharjeena would be begging her husband for some time when she has other things to worry about. I cannot understand why a regular Karachi woman won't get head over heels excited about FINALLY getting AC in her house. It's not internalized misogyny, I am sick of watching Sharjeena acting so selfless. It's almost like there is a taboo if a woman finally acts happy in a Pakistani drama outside of her husbands' love. Like God Forbid she be excited about anything materialistic. No, it's supposedly perfectly alright that her entire happiness is reduced to seeking Mustafa's attention. Please! he's great but he's not that great. You know what's better? Chilling in ac room by yourself when you are pregnant!
I'm all up for Mustafa's journey, his dream for himself. Yes. Now he is dreaming about his success too. Use ab duniya ko khudka ehmiayt bhi dikhana which is 💯 perfect. Sharj would die for Mustafa to dream big and achieve. But why we're neglecting sharj's feelings to justify Mustafa. There's where people losing the plot and making a fuss. I'm glad writer wrote the story without any influence of people and fans.
I completely agree with Hassan about Mustafa’s trials and tribulation’s, he is thinking security about all of them. For example if one of them gets sick will they have money for Dr bills? Or is love and time going to pay the bills of hospitals and Drs? And she is a working lady and she has a support village, family parents and siblings and perhaps friends too!! But he as no one except Sharjina .. and he is doing everything possible to make sure she has an easy and successful pregnancy … And I am reflecting as a woman, that Sharjina is doing a bit to clingy and is borderline jealousy by Sharjina … she wants to keep Mustafa under her thumb and not be too independent and strong to be better then her
I agree with you on everything but not on her wanting him to be inferior than her..She is the first and the last person to be happy for his success.She is sensitive due to pregnancy and also she considers him her everything..She is grown with loving parents and sisters..Hardly this is the first time she is living alone and her feelings being neglected by him is making her feel worse..Still she doesn't stop him to go to work or force him to accompany her everywhere..She leaves him do his work and feels sad alone..Mustafa is also right, this is a golden opportunity for him and he is hanging on this startup and working hard to make things workout so he can give a better life to her and the kid..he is exhausted and he doesn't have hope or even energy to start everything all over again from scratch..So he made financial needs his priority than emotional needs at this moment
I completely understand the frustration with Sharijeena‘s dad, but what I don’t understand is that sharjeena never once complained about Mustafa‘s mom to him. She was such a bad mother-in-law to her. so I don’t fully understand Mustafa’s frustration with her family.
@@umaimanasir7772 ikr, Nobody remembers her sacrifices and all that she went through with her mil, sil and what not. He is the reason she can't go to her father. His anaa is what has become an issue. What daughter doesn't go to maayka during such time, but of course he hates her father even when he is merely caring for his daughter.
U both are spot on & covered the male & female perspective in kmkt.at thus stage sharjeena should have a support circle with her friends & sisters but mustafa is very cold & averse to her family.he is finally focused & she is too needy & clingy not realising his fears & appreciating his hard work.its called sacrifice because someone needs to give.relationships are complex & so are people ,it would be unnatural 4 them not to clash or disagree.writing is spectacular.I disagree that rubab is a good person,she too is celf centred & self absorbed & mean & spiteful too.she might not have deserved deceit & infidelity but she too contributed to a bad relationship treating adeel as an employee & subordinate & always wanting her own way.adeel just trumped her by stealing & cheating.hum dono cant be bee guls work as the characters are very poorly written & story is senseless about stupid wafas biggest misjudgment.asad is no hero & lacks personality with his family being unbearable to watch.
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Mustafas physical absence can be understood but not being emotionally absent for sharjeena.and that harsh sarcasm and snapping on her for her father's words is totally unacceptable.
People calling sharjeena obsessive, possessive and what not! My god. This sharjeena was a role model when she juggled everything from chai banao to dawat banao to miyan ko kam karne bolo to abba ka hospital sambhalo. Now that she's wanting that little time they get after a whole day she's all wrong. Wow. MIND YOU PEOPLE, SHE'S NOT A FREELOADER. She works too. She isn't sitting all day long and clinging to Mustafa. She has all the right to get upset if Mustafa shuts her off everytime. Mustafa kamake koi teer nahin mar raha. Fact is she's not be pregnant all her life and Mustafa becoming filthy rich won't happen tomorrow. He's an adult person toh he should learn some balance too. Punching bag nahin hain sharj. He's got her pregnant now can't even give her some moment of togetherness; why? Paise kamana hain. Are bhai kamao. Baki log bhi kama raha. Aur yeh kya do din me crorepati banna hain.
@@LalaSukhiram 💯 exactly. when sharjeena was saying im happy with u i dont need anything except you she was too selfless and unrealistic? and now if shes wanting a little attention shes too selfish? shes pregnant right now, this time is not gonna come again and again, so her wanting that attention n love right now isnt clinginess. also, she did sacrifise alot and adjusted alot because she loved him, stayed with him in tough times, its only human to want your efforts appreciated and reciprocated when the time comes. when mustafa was vulnerable she was there for him, if she wants a little pampering from her husband she is within her right to want that. and her dissapointment is real too.. when u do so much for a person and they dont make u their priority ofcourse that person will feel bad
Agreed 100%!!!! Sharjeena and Mustafa only have each other. I understand Mustafa wants to become rich before baby is born so he can give them the best life. But he is doing at the expense of breaking Sharjeena who has always been his anchor. Relationships are team work!
@@karanbhela2590mustafa only has Sharjeena. Sharjeena has her entire family with her.
True, things are being bought for home, so can't a few things be bought for the baby. Small things, mean a lot. They are not short of money.
Mustafa did a few wrong things...but he's not toxic or abusive. Therefore we still feel for him
Sharjeena is not wrong in wanting love and attention but she's annoying when she keeps saying money is not important.
How do wives who have husband with demanding careers, shift duties, or work that requires constant travel cope with their pregnancies? They develop a strong support system around themselves or cope on their own.
Mustafa shouldn't have made a fuss over food or missed appointment or aqeeqa but he does apologize for all these things
Why is it fair that our expectations of men and women are so skewed.
Sharjeena has had to juggle work, deal with Mustafa’s psycho greedy mom and her attitude, wait on him and the rest of family hand and foot, work on her MBA and do it all with a smile.
Mustafa, on the other hand can’t balance a job and a wife without having massive mood swings.
And still people are calling Sharjeena possessive and the problem. If she’s expecting him to do 5% of what she’s been doing this whole time- I don’t think that unreasonable.
This is the epitome of internalized misogyny.
THIS. I love THIS.
You nailed it Hafsa!!
Well thats the writers fault beacuse most women cannot even do what Sharjeena is doing and be so happy and never have complaints even in her in laws house how can you have 9-5 job do mba and make million dishes forget a man she has been shown to be too perfect as a woman even sorry to say to even say no to ac is just ridiculous i feel bad for her her feelings are valis she is relatable as a pregnant woman she needs attention but she should also go live with her parents for a biy and get some attention. When you are kickstarting a business you are busy with long hrs when you are a dr your spouse stays home alone for hours even overnight many jobs make you very very busy i have had to go through this you have to deal with it
he is not moody he literally bought an ac for her he cares about her diet this is very relatable it doesnt make any of them a villain thats why couples need outside support . I do fault him for missing an important event and also saying he didnt want baby but when you are in trauma his parents disowned him that is not a mood swing he literally has been kicked out you cant fault him for wanting a successful career and reacting to that he hasnt been mean to sharjeena he is just prepccupied and he is always doing everything for her. He was in the middle of a meeting and went to get plants with her im surprised he didnt get more annoyed is that reasonable from Sharjeena? they both have flaws and thats what marriage is literally most people have these issues not a big deal no ones a villain
Ugh Guys can we just be more understanding and not have it become such a big Who is right and who is wrong and where. They are humans and they both are wrong in some places and right in some places. They are not spending time with each other and are not communicating properly. It happens in relationships.
And the whole 'ac ki zaroorat nai hai' wali cheez. Obviously AC ki zaroorat hai but learn to read between the lines. Sharjeena has been trying to awaken this thought in Mustafa's head that if he is becoming emotionally absent just to provide her with things then it's not worth it because she wants him to be emotionally available to her. She isn't saying don't work or don't try to succeed. Mustafa keeps saying I'm doing this for you. You deserve better things. He's putting this on Sharjeena when the real reason is that he wants to prove himself to HIMSELF and people who did not believe in him. He has not communicated this truth. Sharjeena doesn't want an absent Mustafa who is trying to get material things FOR HER ONLY (according to him) or to prove he is worthy of her, which is why she said AC nai chahiye.
But if things were normal, if he were not so cold and distant and did not snub her on and off then I can see her happily loving and wanting the AC.
What they showed Sharjeena is not even possible. You have to be a super human to do it all. Mustafa's character is much more realistic. That's why things aren't making sense now. Sharjeena's character is unrealistic.
As much as we love Mustafa, lets not make excuses for him. He is not perfect and no one is. He is making mistakes right now not giving Sharjeena the emotional support she needs. Hopefully he will realize soon and mend his ways. Sharjeena is in no way shape or form wrong in asking for that support.
Sharjeena is not wrong about wanting his attention, but she is wrong in resenting his ambition and constantly telling him that money is not important. She should understand his need to become financially secure and be a good provider. He has learned the hard way that money is important. I also don't think he said I don't want a baby. He just said I don't want a baby right now. There's a difference, and again, his feelings are understandable. It may be wrong, but when we are under so much pressure, we often lash out on the people closest to them. Women become mothers from the time they become pregnant, but for father, it can take time. But I am sure he will be a great dad. His way of showing love seems to be constantly feeding Sharjeena and providing an AC for her. Sharjeena showed no appreciation for these things.
If Mustafa didn't want a baby, he should have used protection during intimate moments. I wish Sharjeena would focus on her career; she's well-educated and ambitious. It's sad to see her prioritizing Mustafa's love and attention over her own goals.
Since first episode only Sarjeena is expected to behave according to Mustafa mood and his family. Why can't Mustafa act according to Sarjeena and take 2-3 taunt of Sarjeena family. Double Standard of Socity and men's like hassan
She was alone and had no choice. There would have been no point in telling Mustafa abt his moms taunts because they didnt accept each other as their partners. Also Sharjeena did calmly speak up to his mom sometimes. And when she reached her breaking point during the time when she did accept Mustafa as her husband she did tell him about her mom taunts and Mustafa did not complain and she fought with Rubab too. Mustafa has already reached his breaking point, he got humiliated by family why would he tolerate her parents taunts and false accusations? And no Mustafa should not be getting angry at Sharjeena for her parents taunts and accusations and he should either tell her calmly he does not like it or tell her dad to back off himself.
Mustafa's mother mistreated Sarjeena 24 × 7 so many times yet he was ok with it till the time she had enough of that. All taunts of his family were in front of his eyes.Why the hell did she have to literally leave his house to put across her point to her husband.
When he was carefree he expected Sarjeena to be carefree. Now he is money minded and wants Sarjeena to be money minded.
Till the time it didn't hit his ego he was ok with his family and didn't take anything seriously. He left his family for his own respect. He is hurt by his family that doesn't mean he has licence to neglect and misbehave with her. He started earning now but Sarjeena earning from a long time. His wife is also going through the same problem with pregnancy. Yet according to him only Sarjeena needs to understand him. According to people only Mustafa needed to be understood, pampered and motivated because we live in male dominating society.
They both are responsible for pregnancy not only Sarjeena. He has a problem with pregnancy and basic emotional needs. Then he should be ok if Sarjeena opts for abortion and ignores & misbehaves with him for her career in the near future.
In any case no one should taunt their damad or bahu. Don’t justify it . Jab Mustafa usk liye stand leta tha apni Maa ko b answer back kiya hai usne , ek dafa nahi kaha k frustation na nikalo etc Sharjeena foran gusa hogai k mere abu per frustration na nikalo🙄🙄🙄 abu ko effort nazar nh arae k ab kistrha mehnat krha hai lrka. Boundaries dono taraf rkhni chahie lrke larka dono ko parents k sth k interfere na kre faltu ka
that's so true ! she kept Her cool while doing everything she done for him listening to his mother taunts,giving money for his father medicine,doing job work,rashan dalwaana. all unasked i know but in the same Way He is alsoo unasked working for her lol😂 while she is also earning 😊
@@realworld9663 well said, sharjeena has tried hard to adjust according to Mustafa and his family, she has tolerated Mustafa 's mother behavior, she never compliant, but Mustafa can't bear Sharjeena's father , he is too obsessive and rude towards Sharjeena's family, ager thora sa bardash Mustafa bhi kar lay what matters, Sharjeena to bitter nahe hoi us k sath
Yes mustafas behaviour is entirely problematic and it started right when he mistreated sharjeena over food sent by her mother. For heavens sake boy, it was just food. What was all the fuss about? He has not been able to handle anything and taking all frustration out on sharjeena while she used to work, study, make food for his family, dealt with mother and adeel while now, mustafa has socially isolated her from her family like missing out on her sisters' events. For what? Your family was greedy not hers; treat them well mister
Yeah, even I found the reaction to food really irritating n stupid n over that she's expecting
Exactly. I couldn't see mustafa the same way after the food's scene
Right why , Mustafa over reacted over food, that was nothing , bahi ager us ki maa nay khana bhaij dia, kya big deal hay, bus male ego, zaher lug raha Mustafa us waqt
Nobody is talking about the fact that Mustafa has completely isolated Sharjeena. She is pregnant and has no emotional or practical support from her in-laws OR her parents. He has never made an attempt to bond with her parents, and is rude and passive-aggressive to them and about them all the time. His ego is the reason Sharjeena doesn't go to meet or stay with her parents. He's behaving like a textbook red flag, but somehow nobody seems to be noticing or talking about it. And the reason Sharjeena needs and wants his love and attention is because she literally has no one else to turn to at this hour. Her in-laws don't even know about her pregnancy. So there is nothing unreasonable about how she is behaving and what she is expecting from Mustafa. He's the reason she is emotionally isolated; he needs to realize that and meet her needs for that reason first, even before we consider the fact that she is pregnant with his child
@@Stonytude absolutely agree! ofcourse she is looking to him for emotional support who else does she have?? not taking money was one thing but when sharjeena was so excited to eat a meal sent by her mother cuz she was pregnant he threw a fit and took it personally. his ego is exactly the reason she doesnt spend much time with her parents anymore.. she is completely emotionally isolated.
Mustafa isn't the one who isolated her from her family, she chose to not go with her family. But she's not on bad terms with them. She literally mentioned visiting her sister in the latest episode. You don't need to be isolated from your family to want love from your husband. She's not wrong there. But mustafa isn't some textbook red flag trying to isolate her or anything
@@AkashaKhan-f3c he’s def not some abusive person trying to intentionally isolate her. but in a way, he is contributing to that. its a very normal thing for a mom to send food to her daughter when she is married especially if/when she is pregnant its just an indulgence i see alot of people do. but because mustafa was insecure he threw a fit, that they sent meat bcuz they didnt i cant afford to feed u meat this that- now apply that if sharjeena stays at her mothers for a day or two just as an indulgence out of love, his rant about yes there is ac there more comfort there i am nikamma would start. and the reason they dont go to sharjeenas mom n dad often for dinners or anythin is cuz mustafa and murtaza dont get along! murtaza’s taunts hurt mustafa’s ego. even after ditching sharjeena to go to the function n comin home at 11pm he said sorry yes but then also said its good we didnt go ur dad would have been there 💁🏻♀️
He was always a red flag.
@ashminesahni2208 that was one instance over which sharjeena called him out, since then there's nothing to suggest he's made her distant from her family. I do think he's letting his insecurities get between them but he's not intentionally trying to isolate her or hurt her to label him a red flag or abusive
I feel like the dichotomy in the comment section shows how we all struggle with internalized misogyny and perhaps thats just the culture we have been raised in.
Lets not forget Sharjeena was working a job. Doing a degree and still cooking and cleaning and LOVING mustafa. Being THERE for mustafa.
To all the people who think that oh Mustafa is there for her because he gives her milkshakes and buys her things and fruit.
Imagine if all Sharjeena did back in his house, was give him khana and chaye. Would you people think she hung the moon? That she is the epitome of a loving wife? No you would say thats just the bare minimum, what every wife does.
So lets be more understanding towards Sharjeena as well. Both are human beings. Both are struggling and BOTH OF THEIR FEELINGS ARE VALID.
She is pregnant and KNOWS her husband does not want a child. She loves him. She is allowed to MISS his love and attention. SHE HASNT EVEN DEMANDED OR ARGUED MUCH. She has simply politely asked him. Reminded him. Or has been quieter and sad
Which is understandable.
If Mustafa would sit down and share his feelings and truly sit and communicate with her. And say loving things to her. Take the time to take her out once a week
And perhaps communicating things in a less Snubby way (because Mustafa whether jokingly or not snubs Sharjeena) then perhaps she would understand his perspective better.
What a great analysis I must day ! Just about sums up the characters in their very essence !!!
So on point. This makes complete sense
Exactly! Some of the comments had me scratching my head.
@@stitchkhalid6727 im glad to see this comnent section! all i was seeing on instagram was people bashing sharjeena that what kinda love she wants or needs and i think its so funny that guys while recieving emotional support are gladly taking it but while giving they think bare minimum is enough and the wife is being unreasonable. guys on instagram gaslighting so hard😅 they have completely forgotten why they loved sharjeena for being such a supportive wife in the first place. they loved her and wanted a wife like her and the moment she is in a place to RECIEVE such love and effort and support SHE GAVE her husband, all the guys labelling her as unreasonable that he is working providing for her and she wants romance is childish. relationship is a give and take, only one person cant be the only one giving all the time
Oh so sharjeena stood up for him when her father insulted him for no reason on call , instead she was like hum per na nikalo frustation. Mustafa stood up for her apni maa ko answer back tak kiya usne .. Mustafa ka us bat per chirna bilkul thek tha. He just got extra busy phr bhi care krha hai. So many people has zero knowledge how difficult to start a business and run it and its not 9-5 to be there all the time she can wait let him achieve his dreams!! Har insan k kuch dream hotey hain , Sharjeena is constantly complaining!
Sharjeena dealt with Mustafa’s mother’s taunts with a smile and never complained to Mustafa. On top of that Adeel and his wife were adding fuel to the fire. On the other hand, Mustafa cannot tolerate her dad’s call. He complains to her. This is not fair at all.
In kmkt sharjeen handled rubab, her mother in law, work and still was supportive and loveable to mustafa but when mustafa turn came he is allowed to throw his frustration on sharjeena why? I mean if you dont want child than take precaution dont blame her
people just want to excuse men for their terrible behaviour.
I agree with Aamna about the Duniyapur OST. What an explosion of emotions....the variety of the notes, the relevance of the lyrics, the zeal swimming throughout the flow left me spellbound. Unique melody with a lot of soul! Duniyapur is turning out to be a massive entertainer. And I am disappointed that Aamna and Hasan didn't discuss that scene between Shahmir and Nemrah. That brother-sister scene where he apologizes to her was so beautifully performed by both Khushal and Huma. The cinematography is TOP-NOTCH....the frames have been so exquisitely captured. Especially in this episode where many scenes were shot at night....yet the play of shadows and color gradients was so aesthetically done. Great job!
And to answer Hasan's question about nikah, for a man like Nawab Dilawaiz, his prime objective in marrying Nemrah is to have a control on Nauroz Adam and belittle him. So it doesn't matter to him if the sanctity of the nikah was accomplished in its true sense. The only thing that mattered was that the nikah was done in a technical sense and he had full control over not just Duniyapur but also his former servant who is his arch enemy as well. When a power-hungry man gets these things, its only logical that he doesn't give two hoots about the soul and substance of nikah. I don't think so it was a flaw at all. In fact it was a totally justified, in sync with Nawab's character-sketch, sequence.
Overall Duniyapur is becoming more and more intriguing and interesting with the passage of each episode. The storyline is crisp, the twists are nerve-wrecking. Can't wait for the next one.
Wish our female leads have something which makes them not so perfect. Always a topper, hosting dawats, listening to tantrums of in laws, being a therapist of their husbands, their rooms are always clean, they always look like a million bucks yet if they are just SAD at unavailability of their husbands, they becone annoying to the public. Koi tou simple humanly kami dikha dein k istri ka shauq nhi ya tayyar acha nhi hoti ya atleast sare kaam karke thak jati hay. On the other hand, the male lead can be a habitual drinker, rapist, kidnapper or whatever and people will laud at him in the end just because "pyar kitna karta hay". Sums up our society's subconscious expectations for women as well.
Hahahaha
Loved it,
Yup how can a topper be a super chef, generally toppers have different interests or at least different abilities for others to appreciate them , why cooking is SOOOO much applauded,nothing else, like managing chores,job,akhlaaq,etc
Hosting dawats and that too so perfectly
And not getting tired
Thumbs up for writing this
@bareerahakim5929 haha not to brag but I was a topper and love cooking very elaborate spreads 🙈 But like I said, I hate getting dressed up , my room is not clean 24/7 and I would be mad at my husband for being always at the office 😂
Kashaf from zindagi gulazar hai is very relatable and not so picture perfect main female lead. She is a topper but relatable as well.
KMKT: I think mustafa needs a lesson on how babies are made. What did he expect the outcome was going to be of unprotected sex? Why do men behave as if the pregnancy is the woman’s fault! If he didn’t want a baby then he should have used protection.
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@@nkhan8933 A woman’s “reham “ (uterus) as well her nature of reham is a unique quality of Allah which He has given it woman alone . A woman with pure love carries this baby to full term( despite the heavy toll it takes on her body)and is on the verge of death when she delivers it and yet there is still a smile and love on her face after
Men have not been given this quality. They cannot feel it physically like a woman does nor understand it so one should allow a little understanding and forgiveness when they do that. Once the baby is born everything changes for the father :)
@@joharakhankhan2173oh please people say all that nonsense to excuse men of accountability. Things dont function on emotion. "Do I feel connected to baby then only I will act accordingly?" Makes no damn sense
@@sunflowerandsunset it’s ok you are entitled to your opinion with respect to your experiences. InshaAllah as we age we gain more perspective
Fault falls upon both. If they had such relationship, shrjina an educated person should have definitely asked her hubby to use protection or they should have discussed their family expansion plans before going for it, it wasn't like NauzubILLAH her husband forcefully slept with her. It was mutual "love" product. Sorry but blame falls on both especially in the kind of relationship n characters shrjina n Mustafa are shown to be.
It's not about a male or female perspective. It's not about who's at fault. It's about how we communicate. The irony is that we expect others to understand us without fully articulating our feelings and needs. When are we taught to have effective, clear, and meaningful conversations about our feelings?
I saw some comment here saying why can't sharj just go to her mother's like old time😭😭 i lost you but if you're reading this and you're a boy, learn to be a father before you give out your sperms. Becoming a father isn't just sleeping and sending your partner to her mayka for the nursing purpose. And if you're a girl, sis please know your worth. If you're just a responsibilities of your husband who can give you away cause emotional support usne hota Nahin.
You guys aren’t understanding the fact that Mustafas job isnt stable. Dan says if the company doesnt take off he will join his fathers business, but Mustafa doesnt have that privilege. There is no job security for him. Its do or die. It might be unemployed if the game trashes. He has that constant fear which sharjeena doesnt realise. Also she was happy when he dint have anything. She kept saying that again ang again, which mustafa felt was sugar coated, he thinking the same thing again. And he wants to prove himself to her aswell. The constant third person interference in their house is what aggravates his troubles , like sharjeenas father now.
KMKT : 1:13:00 I completely agree with Hassan on this..The exact same thing is going in Mustafa's head..Until the game of Hurricane Mustafa's intention was also to prove the world that he is capable and he is not a loser,he had dreams for himself...But after the betrayal of Joseph..He stepped down and was ready to live a life in 35k salary..But as he got to know about her pregnancy..he has got no chance to sit down but to work hard to settle the future for his family..Now his only intention is to give good life to Sharjeena and upcoming child..He is even fine with someone taking credit for his work,he just wants him to be paid..Sharjeena's father is also giving him pressure..When he told he don't have time and he want to earn more,his intention is to achieve everything before the child is born, atleast to some extent that he can change the home to a better place in a good area.I see his obsession for money as the concern for his family..He says "Pyar se paith nahi bartha" and he also understands when Sharjeena says she needs attention and love(He was so smart since the beginning to catch even mood changes of her and the reason behind it)he is aware of what she wants from him still he took a conscious decision to choose his job as he finds it necessary for his family..Also what Sharjeena is going through is painful and my heart aches for her..The situation is unfortunate and both are justified!
My thoughts exactly 💯
Happy Friday! Enjoy weekend coffee on me❤
KMKT - I think the problem in the dynamic is Mustafa is not understanding the needs of his partner. She is verbally expressing what she wants from him and he is not stepping up. Yes, he needs to work to provide but the constant work and money conversations he is having are disheartening and Sharjeena has told him how she feels about this. I understand Mustafa's traumas and why he is obsessed with money but let's not forget that Sharjeena is not asking for much. At one point she was handling work, inlaws and her relationships with a lot more composure. I feel Mustafa is not able to do the same because he has a lot of baggage that needs to be addressed by psychology or else he will continue like this.
I believe people will be biased for either Mustafa or Sharjeena based on his/her own perspective of life. It's not black and white a Man/Woman perspective.
If you are someone raised in a loving, respectful and warm family like Sharjeena has been, you will feel strongly for her. She is a daughter of a service holder. It seems like her parents always handled money issues very sensibly and calmly (Remember the scene where the dad was telling the mother his thought on buying some appliances for Sharjeena?) unlike Shagufta ji. Therefore Sharjeena can prioritize love and attention ahead of money. In addition, she is expecting. Although it was not planned but Sharjeena's personality helped her to embrace the uncertainty and be excited. All she needs right now is the old Mustafa and it is completely justified.
Now let's move on to Mustafa. If you are someone raised in a household like his, you will feel strong justification for Mustafa's behavior. There was not a single episode Shagufta Ji didn't vent her frustration about less money and inflation. However, when it comes to Adil, she never forgets to bring Shami kabab from the freezer :P She even serves the family vegetables in lunch but meat is there for dinner because Adil joins them. If you are raised in a household like that, unfortunately you start to believe that money is a solution for all the problem, money is the holy grail for respect! Mustafa's own parents didn't hesitate for a second to believe that he stole the money. That was the biggest shock he received that night. He was made to realize that you need money to earn your parent's trust! Hence he is running after money to feed his ego and earn back his self respect.
I think The writer has a vision in mind, that's why she has shown this phase of Mustafa's character
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Every episode of KMKT comes out stronger than the last one. After giving the 7 stages of ishq, we were educated about the procedure of making a video game; good research was done. 👍 With money coming in they showed subtle improvements in the interior. The living roam gave a pretty shabby chic look. ☺️ The drama is moving at an excellent pace. I loved Rubab’s attitude towards Adeel. The writing direction, acting , design, costumes, everything is synchronised and goes hand in hand and the results are top notch.
I am a man i completely agree with Amna Mustafa's behaviour is just unjustified towards sharjeena..when he was nothing, his family members threw him out of his house at that point of time sharjeena became his biggest support system at your lowest and when sharjeena needs your support at her lowest point what the hell are you doing you keep ignoring sharjeena... And Mustafa is so stubborn towards making money he forgot what's right and what's wrong and i am a man but I can't understand what emotion he has gone through what remains him to make money it's just his Ego problem nothing else
KMKT: I completely agree with Hassan that Mustafa's emotions should also be given the same importance as Sharjeena's.
Another thought that came to mind while watching KMKT is how important it is to not rely on one person for your happiness. How burdensome it can become for them if your entire world revolves around them. Therefore, It's so important to have friends, family, work, hobbies, etc, to derive happiness and satisfaction from and give the other person the space to grow and work on themselves.
so true.. they need their friends and their ammi abbu
Totally get what Mustafa is going thru. When you are building a new business and in such a competitive world, you have to loose count of working hours!!! Nothing big is achieved so passively and easily! I am sorry this is very understandable that he is fully occupied in creating a new venture.
I thought Sharjeena would understand why he is like this now.
Hassan, I agree with you that Mustafa went thru much worse and ugly and painful things than Sharjeena…..if your own parents dis own you and humiliate you in front of your spouse and siblings ….this can really break you! Sharjeena thankfully has her family support so she is not as broken like him.
If this pregnancy wasn't planned or wanted and contraception wasn't used in kmkt then mustafa is to be blamed for this. He absolutely can't keep taking his traumas and egoistic behaviour out on sharjeena when inspite of her problems from the start she's been so supportive, putting on a strong front for him.
Every man earns or wants to give comforts to his family. He is not the only one. So his obsessiveness and lack of work life balance is definitely going to give him consequences. And I hope it does. Him behaving this way because of his traumas doesn't justify his behaviour towards his PREGNANT WIFE. She's pregnant forgod sake AND WORKS FULL TIME TOO. HORMONES are running haywire, EMOTIONAL NEEDS increase at this time and what not. And these major needs he is not able to meet completely of hers.
In addition to this he keeps acting as though they are in poverty when its A damn 2 INCOME HOUSEHOLD.
Like sharjeenas parents tell his ego and lack of work life balance is going to be the end of him.
Bravo Hassan you have explained Mustafa and his character so clearly. His priority is comfort for Sharjeena
Yes..Before Hurricane he wants to do something to prove himself but after that he lost interest in gaming also,yet he is doing everything purely for her and the child..He doesn't even want credit but just money to secure the future..He's desperate and hanging on this startup and wanting to make this workout somehow because he doesn't have energy to start everything all-over again..He is exhausted
I agree with hassan totally as he explained mustafas emotions v clearly. There is a clear difference between sharjeena and mustafa persona/background and their circumstances likewise their emotions r evolving so both r justified in their stance.
Regarding the Mustafa vs Sharjeena debate, I don't think this is necessarily a gender issue but more of a 'profession' issue. As someone who has an amateur interest in games and gaming development, I've heard multiple times that it is an extremely demanding career, both creatively and emotionally. It's well documented that those working in game development or animation have incredibly long hours and tight deadlines and many in that field suffer from chronic stress and burnout. It's not easy and from what I saw, it didnt even seem like Mustafa's team was that large especially for a project that immense? Or maybe thats just a budget issue and they couldn't hire enough extras, I don't know. I think its a very precarious time for Mustafa and as a woman, I can't say that I wouldn't act the same. It's one of his first proper jobs and he has little else to fall back on if this fails. I can imagine the pressure I would feel to prove my worth, not only to myself but to everyone who's been constantly undermining me (and this is a subject that resonates very strongly with me in my personal life so I see my own anxieties reflected in Mustafa). He could have this fear that leaving work early or being lax in his responsibilities as lead developer in any way could possibly mean being let go, especially under such a overzealous CEO, and then what would happen to him and his family. He's not used to this level of work so it's only natural he's going to struggle to find a good work-life balance especially in these initial stages and in such a taxing field. Maybe Sharjeena, someone who's never struggled in these particular aspects of life, would have a hard time understanding why he's going this far, and I see this difference irl between myself and some of my higher achieving peers who have more options in life. It takes time to settle and feel secure in your professional life and this is gonna be something they're going to have to work out together.
I feel like their issue is their lack of communication, which admittedly is more Mustafa's fault for not straight up telling Sharjeena how he feels and what exactly he's struggling with, but I can understand his stress and hesitance (for now at least, I don't think he's gone too far in any way yet). That said, Sharjeena's emotions are also understandable. They have to learn to understand these newer versions of themselves and give each other some grace and margin for error. Also maybe this is just me but I didn't really feel that Mustafa was upset with Sharjeena for being pregnant? It seemed more like he was frustrated with the situation in general or at their (or his) carelessness at conceiving when they weren't ready (mentally or financially) to be parents. Like it never felt specifically targeted towards her in my opinion, and honestly it felt like he was scared of being a father too, like the man barely started adulting properly and now he's responsible for a small child. This isn't me excusing him like obviously he has to step up now, he can't be an emotionally absent father and let Sharjeena pick up the slack, but I get the initial fear. Idk I could've read it wrong or this could change in future episodes but that's what I feel as of now.
As you've said in the episode, I think this is just a difficult and tense situation and neither of them are in the wrong or invalid in their feelings. They're both interesting and well written characters and that's why the drama works so well.
@abigailmason3054 totally agree with you! well said
Totally agree
Very accurate observation
I just wish they show Sharjeena having a proper stern talk with her father about boundaries just like Mustafa had with his family…its not only a man’s job to defend his wife but a womans job too to defend the husband’s honor..the annoying father keeps interfering and throwing jabs at Mustafa ,not once Sharjeena reacted
KMKT: I don't get Mustafa's obsession with earning money overnight, it can be a long term goal. He should be happy in whatever he is earning right now as he was a nobody before. Mustafa's salary is around 200K with commission plus sharjeena's salary. They both have a middle class background and a family of 3 can easily live comfortably in this amount.
KMKT: in my opinion, Mustafa and Sharjeena are both “becharay”, caught up in a situation out of their comfort zones. Both are emotionally disturbed. This is the struggling time in every relationship, that make up or break up their relationship. Through their struggles in making a family, in making their careers and going through the day to day hardships of life, they will evolve as a couple. We as a women go through hormonal ups and downs every month and pregnancy is the height of those emotions ( we have to bear those, no choice). Men try to understand that, but they can’t experience those emotions, so their understanding is limited. For that reason, family support comes in especially mothers and sisters of the girl. , who can understand the situation emotionally.
Mustafa is not wrong, becoming a father comes as a burden for him, he just started his struggles to earn money and not ready for the new responsibility.
KMKT ,completely agree Hassan ,why should we discount on men always and thier side of the story is neglected.just like when Danish says do takky ki larki (first time expressing his heartbreak after his wife had cheated upon him and then asked for divorce ,that he easily and respectfully delivers ,no physical voilance or slap )still the feminist community rouse against that line, like men can never react ? Mard ka reaction bhi na ay?
#KMKT. As a female engineer teaching young engineers I get Mustafa behavior. It is extremely realistic and i feel he is right too. My young students especially boys are so driven with money. Moreover, in the age of freelancing and entrpreneurship his workahokic behavior is very believable.
Having said that their distance is also making sense. Life is not a romantic movie and this is how young couple evolves.
So I agree more with hassan.
Above all this is great storytelling that it actually happens between young couples.. so instead of taking sides, lets wait how the writer will show the progression of characters. Maybe both acknowledge each other eventually. So as viewers we should give them both a chance
KMKT: Rubab also hid the phone calls from Shagufta to alert Adeel about his father’s heart attack, from Adeel.
Here are the seven stages of love with definitions:
1. Attraction (Hubb): The initial feeling of love or attraction towards someone.
2. Infatuation (Uns): Deepening emotional bond or closeness.
3. Love (Ishq): A passionate and intense form of love that involves longing and emotional attachment.
4. Trust/Reverence (Aqeedat): A stage where respect and trust towards the beloved grows deeper.
5. Worship (Ibadat): The lover begins to adore and idolize the beloved, treating them with divine-like reverence.
6. Obsession (Junoon): An overwhelming and uncontrollable love, often leading to madness or irrational behavior.
7. Death (Maut): It symbolizes the complete and absolute surrender of oneself to love, where the individual's ego, desires, and personal identity are lost in devotion to the beloved.
Musjeena are in the 6th stage, so their behavior is meant to be irrational. Just chill and wait for the last stage.
KMKT , in this entire situation , nobody is wrong and universally every single couple of this world pass through all these stages from romance and honeymoon period to pragmatic and realistic worlds ,where money is needed to buy everything but love cant.
Why do we associate hormones with women only? If we are talking about kabhi main kabhi tum, men have hormones also, and since its not talked about or researched enough, doesnt mean men are void of hormones 🤷♀️
Men dont bleed every month, or they dont get pregnant that doesnt mean their hormones are not raging at times. Its very much there, but not talked about enough
I get your point of view. But it is scientifically proven that male hormones regulate on a daily basis while a female body takes 28 days to regulate its hormones. Hence the clear difference/emphasis on female hormones.
Mustafa is in the wrong here. He has become so blindsided by his ambitions, he cant see sharjeena doesn't want all of that. I think sharjeena will be heartbroken over his behaviour change and suffer a miscarriage. That is what death meant.
KMKT: The discussion between Hassan and Amna is the core discussion of the book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Women are far more expressive and communicative than men. Both Mustafa and Sharjeena’s actions are justified. Mustafa is highly insecure though and until he works on himself to rid himself of this insecurity, he won’t be able to love himself and in turn, love Sharjeena fully (the way she’d like to be loved) and possibly their child.
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Setting up something from scratch adds pressure..Mustafa doesnt do a normal 9-5 job...i can understand Musrafa's passion and the urge to prove himself..
She also hid the fact that the father was seriously ill and hospitalized, and the mother was trying to reach him desperately.
KMKT: The writing is so good and nuanced that we feel and understand both sides. No side is a clear villain. Perhaps, as a man I feel and understand Mustafa more than Sharjeena which is why his obsession with work doesn’t seem that wrong; while I find Sharjeena a little clingy and obsessive. Mustafa’s striving became more intense after the baby’s announcement because he doesn’t want his child to grow up in such an awful neighbourhood and facing deprivation; nor does he want to feel as a loser in front of his child. Adding how annoying Sharjeena's father is, so it becomes all the more paramount for him to earn moer money.
Although Mustafa saying he doesn’t want the child was awful and ungrateful and so is his tendency to lash out in front of her, I think Sharjeena is being too intrusive (but she is also correct since she feels for the baby most) and too unrealistically optimistic. I get she wants love and attention, but she should also see from his perspective and how she should support his growth so that he can feel validated. She is seeing from her perspective, and what she wants for both of them. She knows he has potential which is finally being seen and after being betrayed, but I wish she was more supportive, and less the fairytale version. I think even her arc has been reduced or become stagnant to simply saying “Mustafa paisa nai chaiye” or “Mustafa mein khush hoon” or something along those lines.
I agree with Hassan, i somehow understand what mustafa's going through, sharjeena has her parents support love and has access to them anytime she wants.Yes I hope it should not go to the point where they are drifted apart.
Mustafa is working in a startup and the success of this game can change the world for him..A person like Danish doesn't come often who provides a job with funds and facilities.Also Danish stated that he has a dad's business so he might close everything and go there if things didn't go well..But this is the golden opportunity he got..He has already seen the life after being jobless.The immediate job he gets is a data entry job with low salary and overtime..Also his previous game is doing well and not this so he clearly knows how life is being unfair to him..He says he don't have time means he wants to earn more and settle the future before the baby is born so Sharjeena and the kid don't lack anything..He is not egoistic and working for himself,he is not concerned about credit or fame..He just wants money to provide a good life to his family..He is also exhausted that he don't have energy or any hope to start everything all over again from scratch..Mustafa being practical is one of the main reasons for him to stand up strong and fight with life even after all the betrayals of life..Had he been emotional,he would have fell in depression and become disable and get more inferior to not be able to anything..I really appreciate him for being this strong..He is a true Hero for me!
Dunyapur is really enjoyable and engaging . My favourite character is of dadi , I love her ruthlessness 😂❤
Same here. Love the Dadi
KMkT- the depiction of moments between sharjeena/mustafa is so real ( the luddo khelna, chai peena etc) that it almost feels like you are intruding in someone’s personal life. It’s so so real and you can’t help but feel connected to these characters
I felt sorry for Mustafa; the father in law was not happy that he didn’t earn much, and wife was unhappy that he was working too much. Sharjeena was wrong. Mustafa proved to be a loving caring husband. Every man has to earn, do a job, even go out of city or the country for days, leaving pregnant wives alone at home. This is where patents help. Sharjeena could have gone to her parent’s house if she felt lonely, and let Mustafa work. In the old days it was customary for the daughter to come to her parent’s place for delivery of the first child.
The thing is Sharjeena is pregnant. She is entitled to her husband's care and love. Maybe it's become too normal for women to just go without love from their husband during their pregnancy and rely on their own families. But truth is she needs care and attention. Even just a little bit of time. Remember she said that he doesn't even say anything romantic to her like that anymore. Even though he is giving her things. Is he spending time to talk to her and communicate? Not really.
I don't think Sharjeena would have minded Mustafa being so busy if it weren't for the shift in Mustafa's character. He's more serious and distant, not just busy. He has closed himself off from her. I think that's why she feels alone.
Her feelings are valid. She has supported him and loved him and still loves him. She's not an idiot she KNOWS Mustafa doesn't love his child.
That would Hurt any woman
@@stitchkhalid6727, ABSOLUTELY!!!! 💯! I fully agree with you!!!!! I can feel Mustafa’s pain too! Sharjeena does too, but he does not feel her pain! Baaqi kaam karay, khoob karay, all nighters bhi lagaey! So jaey, events miss kar de! It’s allllllll okay! But pyaar kay 2 lafz keh de! At least TRY to kar le to show SOME interest in his own child, for heaven’s sake! I reallyyyy hope that they portray the death stage properly! Death stage of love is not the actual death of lovers! It’s the death of self and of ego! Mustafa needs to get to that stage, Sharjeena is already there! And he better get there and we better get a happy ending! And no, he can’t get there after seeing his child! And no, she can’t miscarry! It would be the biggest disservice to the entire world that is watching this drama right now! Pakistanis, Indians and soooooo many others are watching this around the world! Makers, please! 🙏
no, sharjeena is completely valid. if it were a matter of a few days or weeks, it still would've been understandable. but months have passed in the kbhi mein kbhi tum universe. we as audiences only see them 80 minutes a week, but you have to understand that that has been sharjeena's reality for every minute of the past few months. he has quite literally abandoned his pregnant wife, who is going through a tough time not only physically but also mentally and emotionally, and not just because of the baby but also mustafa. she needs her husband. she's also going out to earn money, but she manages to come back at a decent time. what mustafa has is a bad work-life balance that is affecting sharjeena. mustafa is wrong here.
and regardless, as somebody already stated above, the biggest issue is his lack of communication and issues with their baby that has sharjeena feeling unloved.
@@stitchkhalid6727 Does Mustafa look like a man who wouldn’t love his child? I will never believe that. He is just stressed out. On one hand his father in law puts pressure on him, on the other hand he feels insecure after the fraud he had to face. On top of that there is the baby he feels he cannot afford . He feels guilty not providing comfort to Sharjeena, now he would feel double guilt seeing his child without comfort.
@@ramishairfan78, 💯 percent! You’ve laid it all out perfectly! Thank you! 🙏
Mustafa and sharjeena have different love language. Sharjeena's is to spend time and express love and Mustafa shows love by providing for his family. So realistic and so unusual to be shown on TV with so much nuance. They just need to read each others love language and find love for themselve in it.. a struggle most real life couples have also
Sharjeena’s character has become highly unrealistic, portraying an idealized version of a woman who is overly sacrificial, forgiving, and always agreeable, even in situations that would overwhelm most people. She’s upset with Mustafa for working overtime, despite him facing career setbacks, financial struggles, and an upcoming baby, where work is necessary. Her repeated claims that "money doesn’t matter" have become frustrating, especially since she was the one who encouraged him to get a job. Mustafa’s actions are more realistic-working hard for their future-but this has created an unfair imbalance in their relationship, as Sharjeena is shown as overly patient, adjusting, and naive, seeing everything through a romantic lens. This shift from her earlier strong personality to a passive, "perfect woman" trope only adds to the harmful expectations society already places on women, giving men a distorted view of how women should behave. The show’s plot has dragged on unnecessarily, with repetitive dialogues, predictable outcomes like the separation arc, and a random pregnancy storyline that feels poorly handled. The romance and chemistry between the characters have weakened, and viewers are frustrated with the abrupt focus on marital woes without a proper transition.
couldn't have said it better myself! Hassan and amna and the general's public fawning over KMKT makes me think i'm watching a different drama to them lmao
@@unsaturatedfats5323 Yeah exactly😭 I lost it when Sharjeena said "AC ki bhi zaroorat nhi hai"💀💀
@@Someone-fu2ydshe’s in some other LaLa Land. Does she really think she’ll be healthy in Karachi heat? Her constant nagging for love and attention knowing fully well that they have a baby on the way and how badly Mustafa has been betrayed by everyone. Her fixation of not going forward is irritating.
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Very aptly put. Don’t even have a fridge to store milk and drink chai every 4 seconds per day. You need money just for survival, so her character has become unrealistic. Everybody has to sacrifice something to build a life.
KMKT: now the title is making sense. Kabhi main kabhi tum is nothing but the sharing of love, admiration and emotions between our beloved musjeena. Just like mustafa is facing things now, sharjeena had already seen this things at his house. Sharjeena wants pyaar, attention now the most out of the other times and she's not getting that. She is still understanding and consoling him; at the same time she's also sensing the changes in him and smoothly puts it to him either through actions or confrontations. Major outbreak toh next week ke episodes mein hoga when both of them will actually confront their hidden emotions and ig sharjeena chali jayegi apne ghar for the betterment of their child and away from that "haalat"
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Hassan can’t be more wrong here. Not denying Mustafa is going through a lot but high time desi men understand that women don’t always need money and luxuries from them.. a lot of women anyways now have and earn their own money for that.. a woman needs support, needs her man to be around and especially when she is pregnant she must not be made to feel lonely. Mustafa’s behaviour is little immature and not at all understanding in this regard
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36:29.. Personally, I like the new soundtrack 😂😂❤
The conflict between Mustufa and Sargeena is very real and understandable in their present situation..
Both of them are in the right to expect love and support from each other..
Mustufa’s obsession with making money so that his family is well taken of, is not unique or overly driven.I think every newly married couple go through some kind of difficulty each in their own way and this is where communication is the only answer. If only Mustufa sits down with Sharjeena and they both talk things over rationally , this kind of misunderstanding will brew trouble in their future..,
Rubab’s character is very strong, she is very action oriented and no crying. She handled things very smartly, strong women should be shown more in the dramas.
You have to realize that making a good game, like creating any piece of art, is a very demanding process and the creator has to put their heart and soul into it. Mustafa, perhaps, is pouring everything into his creation and hasn't got anything left in the tank to give to Sharjeena right now.
In kmkt, murtaza uncle was a huge problem in this episode. Mustafa is trying his best, murtaza uncle needs to step back and check his boundaries. Unkay phone k baad mustafa aur kya kehta siwae iskay k tum job chorh dou. Miyaan biwi mein jb foundation strong ho tou chotay chotay issues mein nai ghuss k apni contribution deni chahye.
Yes..His tone of speaking to Mustafa is authoritative and he never fails to express his dislike and disappointment in him..Mustafa is already aware, guilty and helpless and the father pinpointing same thing is giving him unnecessary pressure
And I'm amazed how women men are bashing sharj for wanting time 🤣🤣 like Bhai she's even fighting with him for that. She's keeping her longing to herself only. I'm just sad thinking women's standards are so low. Bas pati paisa kamaye ac lagaye toh charno me padh jau. You know Mustafa in his insecurities n all behaving the way he should behave and he'll get out of it too. But you guys won't ever come out of this weird thinking. Mustafa will know he's wrong and he'll snap out of the paisa kamana n all and look at the broader picture. You guys will be like hawww sharj doesn't deserve Mustafa 🤣😭
True that Sharjeena doesn't even ask him to accompany for hospital visits and suggests him that she can handle alone..She never argues or even complains and still people find her overreacting when she haven't even reacted yet..I would be glad if she argues with him..I am missing the old lioness Sharjeena who gives on-face replies..She is being way too calm and understanding
@@Meriya9749 exactly! Here I'm losing my shit thinking why sharj is taking all these thinga silently. This is her flaw. She's giving way too much space. And all are saying she's being understanding or not giving space.. then how come Mustafa till now didn't complain about it just once? Also why isn't he talking to her about her reserved and silent behavior? Isn't it bothering him one bit?
@@LalaSukhiramI feel he is aware of her feelings..he was smart and the one who used to notice her mood swings earlier and also Adeel being the reason behind it even when she shows her anger on his messiness in room..He says to her 'pyar se paith nahi bartha' and 'har baath main emotional hone ki zarurat nahi', 'sad hona or feel karna hum afford nahi kar sakte' shows he clearly is aware of what she is feeling but he find being financially stable more necessary than being paying attention to emotional needs..He has made a conscious decision to prioritise work as it is necessary for his family..He understands but he is helpless and he is not used to pretend to be happy and do things for the sake of doing just to make her happy..If he does show some affection and love,he has always done it by purely by his heart and not as a special efforts taken to impress her..He wants her to understand the truth that money matters..I feel he has no idea about the roller caster of emotions a women undergoes due to pregnancy hormones..That's why he has no knowledge on the depth of the emotional needs she is seeking for..he thinks providing a comfortable life and making sure of her medicines is enough which is not..
@@Meriya9749 of course he's aware he always was. Now that the communication isn't there the way it was there before
@@LalaSukhiram Yes..They have to communicate
KMKT: Mustafa is insecure and I totally understand this. After being kicked out of a company I worked very hard for, I landed a much better job but instead of being happy I am insecure that I am gonna lose it. Mustafa's job has just unfortunately coincided with the pregnancy. Women are super hormonal at that time which is why Sharjeena is not as "understanding" as she was before. It's just her parents' unnecessary interference that is irritating. Being bothered for your child is one thing and blaming her husband for every problem is another. Her mother may be playing the good cop but even she has not defended Mustafa yet. She defended Sharjeena's choice but not Mustafa particularly.
Hassan and his problem with Murtaza uncle 😭😂😂. I totally agree 💯
I actually really agree with Hassan's rant regarding Mustafa. I think both characters are VERY REALISTIC. And thats why i think that their feelings are very very Valid. Mustafa has deep issues probably because he is a child of neglect. Emotionally neglected children struggle a lot. For Mustafa this is probably SUCH a difficult situation
I completely get why hes become shut down and shattered and why there is so much frustration in him.
I get both parties. The only solution for BOTH their problems is for them to spend quality time and communicate and connect so they both feel at ease.
My feedback for KMKT: Same like Hassan! 😂
Same frustration with Murtaza Uncle.
Same expectations for Adeel’s Showdown.
Same feeling for the changed OST. But that’s understandable coz now there love story is in another phase 😢
Hoping for a happy ending 🫶🏻
i think sharjeena is Only trying him to bring Him back To life trying to remind him that Money isn't everything❤ no matter what other says! sharjeena and Mustafa were soulmates Who valued connection,liveliness and compassion above all.❤❤ but with time he is ChangingHis values are changing and she is Just MISSING her SOULMATE that's all ❤❤❤
Mustafa's behaviour is not wrong but sharjeena needs to understand that whatever her husband is doing all for her betterment. Life should be practical and Mustafa is absolutely right in this case
Dunyapur’s Dunya is out of this Dunya!
What a thrilling drama! Keeps you hooked and excited throughout the episode. Not a single dull moment! Huge round of applause for the makers and Green Tv for changing our screens 🤩
All the actors are doing amazing job especially Manzir Sir’s chilling performance is incredible 😅🫶🏻
But Mustafa could have showed a little bit of happiness na???
Agar baccha nahi chaiye tha toh baccha paida karne wala kaam q kiya tha? 😂😅
Agreed.
But let’s suppose that they used protection and still the contraceptive method failed, which does happen. What should be the final say on this pregnancy? Sharjeena told Mustafa that she wanted to be a mother and that she was really excited. That should be the one thing that now supersedes every other positive and negative point about the pregnancy. So for him to still hurt her with his attitude is very painful.
@@zaraahmer exactly!!!!
@@anjalisaha9685 :)))
The job is permanent only if his game is successful as his boss will wind up if it doesn’t work, that’s why it’s important for game to succeed! Let’s not forget that
Hassan does a great job describing Mustafa’s journey and story
KMKT: If being unbiased, I feel like Mustafa has emotionally gone through much more than Sharjeena. The girl has had a pretty smooth life, the major trauma she faced was only when Adeel dupmed him and she felt disrespected. But somehow, Mustafa has received toxicity from his family throughout his life. Specifically the theft incident completely broke. The whole betrayal by Joseph was probably the final nail in the coffin. He for sure has had much more than Sharjeena.
However, at this point, I 100% stand by Sharjeena. That woman has been her husband's rock throughout. At least during her pregnancy, Mustafa needs to be a little more accommodating to his wife. Hopefully we'll see an emotional reunion soon. ❤
Manzer Sehbai is a living legend❤
His acting was perfect in this episode of dunyapur👌
Kmkt: the scene when BA overhears Adeel and Rubab was impressively executed. Can’t wait till Rubab kicks them out. Even though i feel pain for the father, he lost his only investment to this SOB of a son. I hope he gets it back.
Dear Amna & Hassan they have done commendable job for changing the sound track as needed,now the fast ost was not needed & all the ost’s are so on point with the situation,v r loving it.
Mustafa has lost his family, Sharjeena on the other hand got rid of in-laws. Mustafa is right about trying to earn, since I work too, I know the stress associated with it. Sharjeena is becoming a nagging house wife literally. Rather than understanding what her husband is going through at work, she’s only concentrating on her own wants and needs. Having a kid early on in a relationship is tough, it will be tough on mustafa as he has never handled so much responsibility.
I truely think Sharjeena is being selfish now. She’s not supportive or trying to understand mustafa.
I agree with Hassan!
I am a big fan of sultan salahuddin ayyubi series and of main lead actor Ugur Gunes. Hassan, please give my compliment to him and the whole team for such a great effort.
I have to say hania performance was amazing in these two episodes very nuanced good performance
as a person who’s dealt with insecurities like Mustafa myself, I can say that the support of Sharjeena comes out to be suffocating. Sometimes you need to have someone who acknowledges the suffering and can rant about it together.
And the pregnancy trope is just another cliche in the story that for me has weakened the charm of the sensible and upbeat storytelling of KMKT. Because no one in sane mind will be willing to have a baby in the situation they are in. A baby flourishes in a stable family unit. We tend to forget that.
I agree with aamna that Mustafa should be understand sarjeena's condition but no one is here to tell him how to care a pregnant woman, no one is here to how treat your pregnant wife. And Mustafa's emotional trauma still there, scars on his heart rooted by money and achievements so he now make it his life goal.
Yaar seriously??!!! Mustafa is a grown man!! He knows how to make a baby so he should know how to care for the person he is making a baby with. Low standards for me pffttt
@@Kokorukoro yes you're right in your perspective but in real life men really don't understand the real problems that women are suffering. And it's says that during pregnancy there should be elders present in house to teach and make understand so many trivial things. But in their case for Mustafa there not a single person who makes him guide what to do.
@tarikavarma4625 you are right in real life not all men understand this automatically
KMKT: love the drama both Sarjeena and Mustafa need to have a heart to heart with there feelings and emotions. Talk it through. Frankly need a biased person to help them go through this tough time. They both need couple counseling. Mustafa need some threapy as well to let go off all that baggage he has been carrying from childhood. ❤
Mustafa’s behaviour is very consistent with his original character … that’s how he is ! his communication skills have never been his strong point .. there’s nothing toxic or bad as such .. he’s hyper - just that ! Even in his most frustrating moments he’s never been abusive with his wife … he’s a handful.. will always be .. but a genuinely nice loving guy at heart . Downside of having a sprightly fun loving boyish husband I guess 😅they will not grow up !!!!
KMKT Hassan did a great comparison of Sharjeena and Mustafa. But he forgot about the baby. The baby needs a happy mother. Maybe Mustafa doesn't understand how important it is to be happy for the baby. It doesn't take anything away from his ambition. You can an ambitious person and show happiness for the baby. It feels like everything he is doing is out of a sense of duty.. caring for Sharjeena's food and appointment.. he is not showing any excitement like buying little toys or picking out names or just sharing Sharjeena's happiness
Hassan does a great job describing Mustafa’s journey and story. Mustafa cares a lot about her and shows it too
I think the problem with Hum tv dramas is that people are used to 2 and 3 episodes a week that one episode isn't enough for them and get bored easily.
Another thing that bothers me about Sharjeena is that she isn't reaching out to her parents for support. For example, accompanying her to the doctor's if her husband is busy. Why are her parents being sidelined when they're aching to support her. It all boils down to girl's parents are secondary, we cannot ask them for help, it will hurt my husband's ego when all the while Sharjeena was putting up with her MIL's psycho behavior under her roof without a frown on her face. When all this ends, I really hope they make peace with Mustafa's parents but dont end up moving back in.
KMKT: completely agree with Hassan, why is sharjeena appearing so sad and feels so neglected - Mustafa’s behavior is completely normal, she was always motivating him and now when he is motivated and has direction she feels neglected - it is not that he is partying or spending time with other friends or is not caring for her. In real world this is exactly how new couples without any family support manage. But unfortunately now sharjeena is shown as someone who wants Mustafa should work 9/5 Job come back home and give all time to her, but they are not currently in that situation mustafa cannot afford to be just have 9/5 job.
Lastly now after so much time has passed, Sharjeena is pregnant, why can’t she go and stay at her parents place for couple of days or a week and then come back. Understandably her pregnancy harmonies are carving for emotional attention, care, then isn’t it fare that she spends some time with her parents, come back and be happy with her husband ? Would it be on ego of her husband ?
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KMKT:Love for Hassan for saying these points regarding Mustafa... Sharjeena needs to understand his emotions... He is continually taking care of her... He is mentioning again and again... Main Khush hona bhool gaya hon... Attention aur Piyar or Kia ha... Aglay ne AC lagwa dia... Chupke rahne Ka nam muhabbat ni ha.. mard ko b samjhay aur main b Aurat hon... Umar sharif sahib Ka kahna .. 12 bachay paida Kar k kahen gi Mian Piyar ni karta😅😅
I completely agree with Hassan about Mustafa’s trials and tribulation’s, he is thinking security about all of them. For example if one of them gets sick will they have money for Dr bills? Or is love and time going to pay the bills of hospitals and Drs?
And she is a working lady and she has a support village, family parents and siblings and perhaps friends too!! But he as no one except Sharjina .. and he is doing everything possible to make sure she has an easy and successful pregnancy …
Rubab is very negative. She created the false theft charge. She is not a sympathetic character.
Hassan saying that Mustafa ignoring his emotional side just to achieve his bigger goal of earning money shouldn’t be right even if he’s thinking as a man. Because in Mustafa’s head he thinks that he wants to earn more for the family but what if the love in sharjeena’s heart dies because of the distance and ignorance from Mustafa then what will he do of all the money that he earns? It would be justified if Sharjeena is shown as someone who is greedy but she’s not.
Because relationships not only require money to maintain them but also being emotionally present because as a couple emotional aspect is more important as it connects their hearts to each other.
Sarjena's depression is mainly for pregnancy hormones and during this time mustofa should take care of her . Mustofa is also going through a lot but he should be more careful about Sarjena, his only relationship left. Pregnancy is a medical emergency all the time .
Come on mustofa!!!
KMKT: Adeel is a master manipulator taking his poor parents for a ride. His dad could do with stopping the wallowing in self-pity & put his foot down. Mustafa, however, has lost his sense of balance as he is married to his job. Even though he is starting out the gaming venture which requires much time commitment, he doesn't get the concept of creating healthy boundaries between work and life.
Mustafa please reach out to me for my expertise on how to achieve work-life balance successfully 😀 ...you need a pep talk on dealing with an expecting wifey. Sharjeena also needs to cultivate a few hobbies/interests outside of work + home/family. Btw, the game development seqences were fab, a first in dramas I've watched so far. "A" for detailing ❤
I think i understand mustafa's pov. My husband takes a lot of pressure for our financial stability and future and he tells me that he loves me but doesnt get enough time to sit and think about how things were at the beginning of our marriage and where we firdt lived snd what was romantic or not but his actions where he takes care of me and pir kids shows me that he loves us. But there was a time when i used to yearn for his time and attention and eventually things got a lotttt better.
The long-term effects of parental favoritism from childhood to adulthood can be psychologically debilitating. Mustafa has been told and believes that he is good for nothing, which is why his attitude towards becoming successful is understandable. Instead of judging Mustafa, it's important to understand his character arc as he carries emotional baggage that he has not dealt with. In contrast, Sharjeena's upbringing was marked by unwavering parental support, which has equipped her with emotional resilience. Mustafa, on the other hand, never had the psychological support he needed to address his insecurities stemming from parental neglect. I am not defending Mustafa here. I am simply pointing out that parental neglect or favoritism can significantly impact a child's approach to life.
I think when people point out Sharjeena's flaws, it is taken to be something like we are suggesting Sharjeena to do more bardaasht. That's the problem - everyone is missing the point! We are sick and tired of the bardaasht trope already and now here comes more crying and sobbing. As a financially independent woman with supportive parents, I cannot relate to why Sharjeena would be begging her husband for some time when she has other things to worry about. I cannot understand why a regular Karachi woman won't get head over heels excited about FINALLY getting AC in her house. It's not internalized misogyny, I am sick of watching Sharjeena acting so selfless. It's almost like there is a taboo if a woman finally acts happy in a Pakistani drama outside of her husbands' love. Like God Forbid she be excited about anything materialistic. No, it's supposedly perfectly alright that her entire happiness is reduced to seeking Mustafa's attention. Please! he's great but he's not that great. You know what's better? Chilling in ac room by yourself when you are pregnant!
I'm all up for Mustafa's journey, his dream for himself. Yes. Now he is dreaming about his success too. Use ab duniya ko khudka ehmiayt bhi dikhana which is 💯 perfect. Sharj would die for Mustafa to dream big and achieve. But why we're neglecting sharj's feelings to justify Mustafa. There's where people losing the plot and making a fuss. I'm glad writer wrote the story without any influence of people and fans.
I completely agree with Hassan about Mustafa’s trials and tribulation’s, he is thinking security about all of them. For example if one of them gets sick will they have money for Dr bills? Or is love and time going to pay the bills of hospitals and Drs?
And she is a working lady and she has a support village, family parents and siblings and perhaps friends too!! But he as no one except Sharjina .. and he is doing everything possible to make sure she has an easy and successful pregnancy …
And I am reflecting as a woman, that Sharjina is doing a bit to clingy and is borderline jealousy by Sharjina … she wants to keep Mustafa under her thumb and not be too independent and strong to be better then her
I agree with you on everything but not on her wanting him to be inferior than her..She is the first and the last person to be happy for his success.She is sensitive due to pregnancy and also she considers him her everything..She is grown with loving parents and sisters..Hardly this is the first time she is living alone and her feelings being neglected by him is making her feel worse..Still she doesn't stop him to go to work or force him to accompany her everywhere..She leaves him do his work and feels sad alone..Mustafa is also right, this is a golden opportunity for him and he is hanging on this startup and working hard to make things workout so he can give a better life to her and the kid..he is exhausted and he doesn't have hope or even energy to start everything all over again from scratch..So he made financial needs his priority than emotional needs at this moment
I completely understand the frustration with Sharijeena‘s dad, but what I don’t understand is that sharjeena never once complained about Mustafa‘s mom to him. She was such a bad mother-in-law to her. so I don’t fully understand Mustafa’s frustration with her family.
@@umaimanasir7772 ikr, Nobody remembers her sacrifices and all that she went through with her mil, sil and what not. He is the reason she can't go to her father. His anaa is what has become an issue. What daughter doesn't go to maayka during such time, but of course he hates her father even when he is merely caring for his daughter.
U both are spot on & covered the male & female perspective in kmkt.at thus stage sharjeena should have a support circle with her friends & sisters but mustafa is very cold & averse to her family.he is finally focused & she is too needy & clingy not realising his fears & appreciating his hard work.its called sacrifice because someone needs to give.relationships are complex & so are people ,it would be unnatural 4 them not to clash or disagree.writing is spectacular.I disagree that rubab is a good person,she too is celf centred & self absorbed & mean & spiteful too.she might not have deserved deceit & infidelity but she too contributed to a bad relationship treating adeel as an employee & subordinate & always wanting her own way.adeel just trumped her by stealing & cheating.hum dono cant be bee guls work as the characters are very poorly written & story is senseless about stupid wafas biggest misjudgment.asad is no hero & lacks personality with his family being unbearable to watch.
2:39 I think Amna you should go for the premier .. we want a review from both of you about the drama and the environment