I consider myself as a real super empath. I can tell you, we are not out to destroy narcissists. We merely reflect to them, who THEY truly are. Sometimes by not doing anything harmful at all. Just by standing our ground and stating facts. One thing a super empath can do, that a narcissist can't, we can go without talking, to absolutely no one, for long periods of time. We grow stronger in solitude. That's our super power.
maybe, Im raised by grandiose - but I have no problem shutting him down, I also see what others do to control me, then control them back or shut them twice as hard... I have all of my life experiences, they are all the same, so I'm worst than their nightmares... can see sociopaths and psychopaths, and sometimes I act like them...to relax... The art of not giving a fuck....
It is definitely about recognising the toxic personality. From there it depends on the situation. I refuse to allow any of those types a single gram of my energy. And I will call them out in social situations if necessary as I could care less what they think of me and I hate their toxic crap and how they tend to want to dominate a conversation. It all depends, mostly I just turn my back and seek others or just be by myself. It is the not caring that they really hate, that you just ignore them, their egos are too fragile for that. Peace!
It can if they don’t have someone else to use as a human punching bag. So say they do have people in their lives, well if they treat those ones with respect because they don’t want to loose them, but they treated you with disrespect and bullied you. If you leave them and they have a stressful event like at work or something, if they have no, “ dog to kick “, then they can implode on themselves, that means that they bully themselves like tell themselves that they’re not good enough, etcetera. Then that can lead to severe: stress, anxiety and depression until they snap out of it. They don’t learn from it. They go right back to their usual narcissism: superiority complex to overcompensate for an inferiority complex and two year old behaviors. They don’t get out of that delusion.
True super empaths aren’t vindictive, definitely not willing to be around narcissist. There energetically draining and the physical headaches you get are enough to run. Once a true super is awakened there tolerance for toxic dies.. personally 1 hour around toxic takes 1 week recovery. When I’m near one it’s like the room goes dark and they look like demons in squatting in the corner, then the headache begins.
hahahhaha exactly 1 hour with them and you're stuck one week they're so exhausting. I spent 2 weeks with one and it took me 5 months with still some side effects ongoing ...
I agree that there may be no deliberate vindictiveness however before awakening to understanding narcissistic behaviour, subconsciously yes! I new after time how strong I was, should I need to escape! I did not know how/why I was being drawn into the trauma bond. My loveless upbringing by a narc mother caused the desire/addiction to receive the love I never received and never will. Obviously NOT from a narc. So seeking the truth was my mission by suffering and learning. I am sure I caused pain as much as feeling the 'hurt' myself. Until we wake up and understand Narcissistic traits and far more important what self love means and the chemistry of hermetic law. 'Our song' repeats itself over and over again until we awaken to the light 💫🙏💞
Being their worst nightmare is powerful. Not because we seek power like the narcissist but because we are armed with powerful awareness and abilities to be strong enough to walk away and protect ourselves from further harm. We become a challenge when we don’t conform to the naive norms. Stay strong and maintain a healthy distance people.
A real empath never brags about it! They don't see them selves as better... They don't have dark empathy, rather they preserve peoples privacy... It's helpful for the empath for self awareness, growth and preservation... 😮
I was always accused of being a Narcissist by my 5 year gf who I was engaged to who devalued me and eventually discarded me for a coworker. I was concerned that I might be a Narcssist that I researched everything I could find on the subject. Eventually after finding this channel I began to figure everything out. She checked ALL the boxes. I eventually came to the conclusion that only when I called her out on her behavior did she call me a Narcissist. After leaving her after finding out about her cheating which she has never admitted to she has begged for my forgiveness etc. I agreed to meet with her a couple of times after which I felt she despised me. Which was so strange bc all I have done is move on with my life. She has struggled mightily while I have prospered through hard work and dedication. She devalued me when I was with her and now seems that deep down she doesn't want to see me happy or succeed when she was the one that caused the Breakup. It's all so hard to figure out. I literally gave her everything even taking care of her sick father like he was my own when he moved in and later passed away. I was there for her 100 percent of the time to the detriment of my relationship with my family and life long friends. I thought initially I could try and be her friend but now realize that is impossible and No Contact is the only way to go. It's just amazing how the tables have turned and how her life is the one that is upside down and chaotic when she held herself so much above me during the relationship. I have watched these videos on repeat for almost 2 months now. They have helped me understand things that without them I would have been lost, devastated and confused. Thank you so much for the videos.
❤❤❤2nd Timothy Chpt 3 verses 1-5.... "This know also, that in the last days perilous (dangerous) times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their OWN selves (Narcissistic), covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, WITHOUT natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form (appearance) of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such TURN AWAY (NO contact)...."
The way i see a super empath is someone that has learned how the narc works. If you use what the narc showed you you will become a dark empath. A super empath, doenst want to fight a narc, but we will defend ourselfs. I hate being a super empath as im now 41 and i have just learned people dont think like i do. Just remeber that people are just people.
This is EXACTLY what I just did. It’s an experiment. I’m learning. And destroying her!!!! It feels great when they are so evil. I see why they wanna hurt people. But I eat narc snacks for breakfast
These videos are so strengthening to the healing process by giving the encouragement needed to say away. The further away from the narcissist the weaker the trauma bond effects. These videos really are super helpful to me. Thanks Joe
Had enough of her I stepped away giving my self time to heal.Then the audicity here she comes again after 11 months harassing the piss out of me sorry had to shame n disgrace her.Super empathy crushed the demon.
Thank you Joe, what goes round comes round, I hope my narc meets his match one day. I always say that, when someone is mean, that they will one day meet someone who is even meaner than them, I hope so 🙏
I was the empath and when I first met him he claimed to be too but I was soon to learn he was only mirroring me and trying to extract my knowledge on the subject of empathy and being sensitive, this is where he got his foot in the door...I very quickly sensed he was no such thing as I witnessed his cold harsh words when he wasn't getting his needs met. This is when I saw who he really was, and this realisation kick started my exit journey.
You’re telling my whole story!! Before she could discard me I discarded her and went no contact 3 years later I find out that trash was stalking me wanting revenge because I knew who she was
If you experience empathy, you are not a narcissist…you may display some qualities on the narcissistic spectrum however, true empathy separates you from being veritably personality disordered.
@@tonyconnor5691 of course, and when I remained stoic and responded calmly, she said: you are just like my mother! Then just ignored her, causing narcissistic injury. It was a chess game for me: enough is enough, good riddance, no contact, check mate.
I love ur channel, broke up recently with a narrsasist, my daughter's boyfriend is a full blown one too, now she's becoming one too!!!!!!!!!! Demons after chosen ones!!!!!!! They would really kill me and not think twice!!!!!!!! So many around me!!!!!!!!!! Please pray for me. Joanna from Baltimore. Thank you.
Joe, you always manage to exactly say the right thing. I believe you have described my situation to a T, I ‘ve never thought of myself as a “super” (anything )empath, thank you for enlightening me. ❤ You are the best Joe,again making my night..You are on a roll..and could be up on that pedestal yourself.. 😇🤗🙏😘
New video idea: *What is narcissist collapse?* How long does it last? What does the narcissist go through mentally when this is happening? What should the target (“super empath”) expect?
Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall, Humpty Dumpty had a great fall; All the king's horses and all the king's men Couldn't put Humpty together again. I played his hand after I put two and two together 5 years later. What they are doing is called oneupmanship. You can leave, which I did, but 3 years later you are allowed to throw their dirt right back into their face.🤡👈🏻
Trauma bond with drama, is what the transaction is,was and ever will be. Solutions don't feel good to the narcs/narcettes because of their dishonesty, disrespect, distain for others and children
I discarded him twice after he discarded me the first time when I had no idea who I was dealing with. I also noticed that the better I treated him, the more he was devaluing me.
I'm super emphat, my father was a psychopathic narc, he always treated me well, not because he loved me but because I was his work. Given my childhood, I faced Machiavellian manipulation and violence very early on, I developed hyper vigilance, great sensitivity towards energies too, very great intuition and strong intuitive cognitive and emotional abilities in addition to narcissism. (healthy mine) of the intellectual coldness and violence inherited from my father. It took me a lifetime to understand and master who I am and to also realize that the most important relationships in my life have been with narcs. I learned some automatic reactions from it, it's true that I see things very clearly today, I know how to save my own skin if necessary, but I can guarantee you that an empath would never intentionally harm even a narc . All these people who call themselves super empaths in the war against the narc are just narcs in disguise or who ignore themselves.
One who knows thyself with good purpose and intent in peace with body, mind, and soul never treating others with willful ignorance or malicious intent should NEVER FEAR any moment that which requires such person to fully adorn thy Armor. When dealing with such a Cluster B demented demon individual it is an unacceptable practice to forgive them for they know what they not do. The riddle behind meaning and formula for forgiveness, according to scripture, is never ending when in fact most all human beings are fully aware that EVERYTHING must come to and end and that all things must pass. So the opposite therefore must be also true…everything must begin and all things must fail. Only observe, do not absorb. Thank you 🙏 Joe! Have a safe, productive, peaceful and rewarding day.
Joe there is definitely such thing as a super empath and it is not bragging or a badge of honor because to become that super empath means you have dealt with tremendous pain in your life dealing with said TOXIC people and have been able to overcome adversity and not you are just NOT dealing with bullshit what separates US from Narcs is that the things we have encountered made us stronger not weaker but unlike a Narc it has not changed our Hearts and our ability to still show love and see the good in others ,but we can sense when you are not genuine and we will mirror them so to say and figure the games out REAL quick I knew I had this extra sense and sensitivity but never knew it was a name for it till searching for NPD information my example Was dating what I know now to be NPD and figured him out real fast because the thing about Narcs is they LOVE to talk about themselves and if you are super intuitive and pay attention listen to ones actions not words SUPER EMPATH because we have learned from experience and pain to TRUST actions not words, this particular Narc always boasted about how he caught an ex being unfaithful by placing a recording device in her car ,and always played the victim in past relationships and justified why he cheated because these women cheated first ..yeah that part well back then I had NO idea what I was dealing with but my intuition was in overdrive when he was around me even when he faked being loving something in my spirit would NOT rest so being what I now know to be super empath back then I called it GODS PROTECTION from evil I have learned not to ignore that sensitivity when he was questioned about his behavior he accused me of being insecure saying he would never cheat it was beneath him but my intuition said different so last argument for no apparent reason he raged out left my house asked to use the bathroom so when he left something in me said check your home for recording devices ,cant explain why I felt he had done this mut my intuition would not let me rest and sure enough I found 2 recording devices hidden in my home ,and to tell you how STUPID these people are one of the devices had proof that he was actually cheating recorded on one of the devices so I recorded a very long message on the device so I picked up the pieces of my heart and proceeded to record a very long message on the recorders he left at my home letting him know what a insecure loser he really was and to never come to my home again or he will be met by POLICE ...well after about a week after that argument when he left the recorders and going silent for a week he called with some lie about missing me and wanting us to work asked to see me I played along because I knew he wanted to come over to collect his recordings you see he knew he was cheating so he wanted proof that I was just as big loser as he was which I was not but always being accused well he came by asked to use bathroom my intuition KNEW what he was there for so I played it off let him secretly collect his devices ,it took everything in me to stomach being around someone so sneaky and evil ,so he went on to tell me how much he loved me and wanted a lifetime with me {FUTURE FAKING } I just listened because remember I had already broken up with this Lier on those recordings he left ,,,well about an hour after he left he started blowing up my phone of course he had listened to recording and got the SHOCK of his life I immediately went NO CONTACT he Hoovered me for YEARS but I stood strong in my decision you see being super in tuned with that intuition and learning from experience to RELY on it and not these liars and having the ability to walk away and still believing that the world is mostly good not BAD is what make US Super Empaths ...Had to share my story ...thanks Joe love your channel
It was a cycle of dysfunction that unfortunately, no growth nor any kind of genuine interest in building true lifelong relationships. The children are in the crossfire and that in it's self is utterly heart breaking 💔
What goes around does come around. She and I had fooled around in her last boyfriend's apartment so it was no surprise when I caught her doing it to me. The question "am I the narcissist?" is a good one. I'm hoping the fact this question crosses my mind means I am not one but I know how it's done. He lived in the next apartment, a divorced lawyer with teenage son & daughter. Not wanting his kids to know he was boinking the two of them decided to use a mattress in the attic above my bed. Of course I was awakened by them. I had to work that day but before I left I double locked my apartment and also latched the attic door shut so they would have to bang the attic floor above his kids to get let out. She would also have to use his bathroom now. The two of them were forced to walk two miles to get the keys from me so she could access the food she was planning for that Sunday afternoon dinner at the lawyers apartment inviting me, her mom, the kids . When I returned home it took about one minute for me to tell her to get out. This was done in front of everybody. She looked at him for a place to stay. He said I can't, my kids. I can only imagine how things went after I was gone. I was done. Get out! I said. if your stuff is still here Friday you can find it in the alley! ...and I left. I had the perfect revenge.
I don’t personally like the term super empath because it reminds me of something from the New Age and the Twin Flame bullshit. Talk about the most demonic experience ever…..insane. Anywho- I have to say… after learning about this stuff and then going out in the world with open eyes…. It’s COMICAL. I’ve come to learn if you’re over 40 and wear jeans with rhinestones on the ass and t shirts that are too tight, you’re a narc. It’s almost become a game. Pick out the Narc. I love People watching and it takes 1 minute to spot one. They’re everywhere. And to KNOW what you’re dealing with within the first minute of talking to them. It’s sickening. Why do you think I want to know all of the amazing accomplishments you’ve made in your life within a 2 minute conversation in the grocery line? It’s gross. Then they go to their car and whack off for the 80th time that day. Sorry…. I couldn’t help myself 😂
Haha... "Super Empaths" are often narcs themselves, of course the term carries very subjective meaning. But narcissists do often stumble across ones who can cause them all sorts of problems... "Whack off for the 80th time that day" 😂😂
A real narcissist, not somebody with narcissistic traits, I’m talking about a real narcissist, will kill the average person with ease, and great skill.
When I escaped the fantasy for reality.. in my heart. With my whole ME.. I felt that I was sparkling.. He wasnt the important at all in it or what he had done... sparkling. Glittering weird.. but Im thankful... for ME.. I forgive ME.. ❤
Thank you Joe🙏🥰being an person with pure in heart is not a superpower, it’s very painful🙏🥰we get hurt a lot, I am not proud of my qualities, it wears me out to feel others pain, affects me, I put myself aside and get drained, selfish controlling people prey on us🥰🙏Yes empath I am, it’s a gift, we have empathy sensitive, feel people’s feelings, pain, kind, very intuitive to others, givers, care for people, consciences, honks they. Still seeing more now 4 months I discarded him, enough is enough, started affecting my health. It hurt me so much to do it, he was destroying, costing me. Yes try to learn grow. He filed for divorce
He doesn’t care he already has new supply after six months. And yes I am a super empath I have tooooo much intuition. Wish I didn’t … because I never listened to it! If I did I wasn’t in this situation
That was spot on. I am realising the i am a covert narc, addicted to the narc games. Play them at their own games. Weird dynamic, thought about everything you said today and listened. You are 100% correct. Hence why it hasnt broken me, i saw it happen before it did.
This is so true, I did stick around for quite some time when I suspected that I was yet again dealing with a potential narcissist. I wanted to find what was the stem ofthe attraction. It turns out that it was based on my own childhood trauma. The is spot on Joe
@@elizabethtara7658 If you`re ready to leave the situation or already have done it, stay in 100% no contact. This alone will loosen the bond and you start to get back a feeling for yourself and who you truly are and that nothing about that "relationship" was ever real. Need some time to get over the fact that someone who even doesn`t like you have played on your strings. They`re just following their parasitic minds needs, nothing else. You will start to realize that not the narcissist has the power, but you! They desperately need YOU and not vice versa, they`re just in constant need for supply so don`t fall for provocations, they love it if your angry, so they can blame you with shame and so on... Narcissists are in fact ppl. who hand over any triggers to you, while try to make you believe they`re stand above you and make you feel unworthy and guilty. That keeps the bond alive and shows how to cut it off. Another important thing from my view was the realisation that i am totally unable to change the narcs behaviour, views, life, nothing at all. Not even god can change or save the narcissist, if he refuses to accept help. Get rid of thoughts that you could help them or that it`s "fate". Only way is get that person out of your life and out of your mind, start to focus on supportive people only for example and things you like. I personally do no longer accept toxic people in my private space, no exceptions anymore.
Joe I’m curious about your take on this. Do you think certain narcissists are drawn to the super empaths because they feel they may also be an narcissist and they think - oh this person is like me so we can play mind games with each other no problem!
It is a challenge for them to take us down, to check off another box and attempt to murder another soul. That’s what NA is, murder of the soul for the thief only comes to steal, kill and destroy. I’ve got news, there’s always a bigger shark in the water called God’s Chosen Ones who run to the battle line like David. I teach NA from a Biblical perspective and apply practical principles. Here’s the breakdown, the empath and narc were the same child born into a demonic family cult and the assignment was to indoctrinate another human agent to carry out Satan’s agendas because he’s the god of the earth. The varying difference is that we empaths choose to respond differently to the trauma. Trauma is not the actual event, but the individuals response to the trauma. At 6, I knew there was something radically wrong with my mother and vowed to myself I would never treat my children like she did. I’m here to tell you, I had a child with a narc and that’s when all the dots connected that I was dating my mother’s male demonic counterpart. This entire journey is about finding Jesus and was never about the Jezebel narc. This is spiritual warfare for our soul and because of free will God always allows us to choose. God is love, Satan is hateful and his biggest tactic is fear. Fear is an illusion, it’s what keeps so many trapped and his greatest device. Satan is the father of lies because he knows his time is limited and a defeated foe because Jesus shed his blood for us. Jesus doesn’t want anyone to perish, and we have authority over Satan and his kingdom. Many are called, few are Chosen. Rise up, run to Jesus and He will help you defeat the narc. I defeated all the narcs in my life and continue to call on God when any new devils try to come for me. The Lord vindicated me in court to then permanently remove the ex narc baby daddy. There was a reason he allowed the narc to take me to court and that’s because he attempted murder/strangulation on my daughter. The Lord has blocked all access to the court and the narc can’t run to the legal system, not justice system and scream parental alienation. Why? Because he’d have to tell on himself that he committed a heinous crime. I told him along time ago, he was going to lose it all before I met Jesus. There is a happy ending and give all the praise, honor and glory to the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. God bless you all! ❤️✝️🙏🏼
They also overplay their hand because they’ve been running game for so long and because they believe their lies, so will everyone else. Narcissists are messy and always leave a trail and they aren’t smart but gullible. Despite they are predators, their “spidey Satan senses” are not from God. And since Satan is the one in control, he’s a deceiver and he’s doesn’t play favorites and deceives his own kind! Don’t ever fear these demons, they aren’t about nothing. You will find them where we met them, still standing in the same place.
super empath, is more like curse. its not badge honour. picking up other negative emotions and carrying it on his/her shoulder, too much burdens. Super Empath just like a normal empath except highly tune emotional radar and wear Teflon suit..
I believe referring to one as a super empath is grandiose in nature. Society is ALWAYS looking for someone who can help them to identify with their TRUE self in which opens doors for the super empath to creep in. I do believe I’m empathetic but… a super empath screams boundaries with no limits. I ♥️ God’s people, but God love’s them more. We can not and must no play god to folks.🥴 Your videos are outstanding and I appreciate your new way of ending your videos but… the other way screams “I said what I said!” 🤎 and 💫
@@joebhouse Interesting 🤔 I’ve never considered myself to be a “super empath” but have known my ability to read people …especially toxic people like the back of my hand. They stick out like neon flashing signs. I’m pretty intuitive, never forget, and pick up very easily on tone changes (even over text)…I did eradicate a narcissist just as you described 😅 I think so anyways I cried/fought for the narcissist and just as quickly went no contact the second I smelled manipulation. We ‘super empaths’ don’t handle disrespect very well at all I didn’t do it on purpose, but I did do exactly as you stated. After the out of the blue discard (which I saw years away, but didn’t think how brutal it’d be). I wanted to learn 😂 and yes…I played along with the devalue until it reached ridiculous levels and then left without a word. No goodbyes
Teaching someone a lesson and narc-dom... they are worlds apart. Lesson is done once. Narcdom is thousands of cuts with no feeling, no remorse, no humanity and no end. Don't confuse justice with pathological lying, stealing and abuse. Jesus was not the same as those religious leaders who were narcissistic. Did Jesus teach them a lesson, you bet! Do we need to? Sometimes. Most times we peacefully depart as Jesus did sooooooo many times. Call for justice, do what is just. Every situation is different. What is God asking back from us..? But to exercise justice, to love kindness and to walk humbly (Bible book of Micah). Maybe you are wrestling with something, don't get confused, trust your intuition. We are made in God's image with His qualities and attributes.
Have a question. What is the difference between a super empath and someone who has had more than one experience with narcissists and is just hypervigilant to narcissistic traits, red flags etc because of CPTSD for example?
I'm a super empath,,but I keep it to myself,,I think we have to make a little difference in life,,,we know the narcissist do exist,, good luck to all,,
Once I learned about narcissism my life changed forever. I was always very adept at reading people and situations, but it didn't help me against the coverts of which there were many in my life. Today I can sense the narcissist almost immediately. I refuse to engage with toxic people and will politely excuse myself from their presence. These days I only allow other empaths into my life but not all empaths. If an empath is married to a narcissist I have learned that the narcissist will make it impossible for a friendship to continue or develop so for those unfortunate empaths I kind of leave them be, it just never works out. It's strange how some empaths can become aware of being an empath but remain unaware and even in denial of narcissism. It is like that is just too much to swallow and I just don't get it. Any insights as to why an empath prefers to live in denial? Great videos. Peace!
For me it was because of the pain of admitting that some in my inner circle (family, friends, and SO´s) did not care as much about me as I did about them. In truth I was sacrificing myself for my ¨close¨ relationships in an attempt to win love and approval rather than finding it from within. Due to, as Joe has mentioned before, core wounds in my childhood. My latest narcissist helped me to peel back the last layer of the onion by observing how I was allowing a ¨close friend¨ to treat me. Would I treat a close friend the way they had been treating me for months? Never! Their devaluing of me had been slow and subtle. I suspected the friendship was one sided for many months and began to reciprocate the same level of investment in the relationship. I drew subtle boundaries in a reciprocal way. I am not their main source of supply which I know made this much easier to accomplish. I started to notice, and accept in stead of looking past, that the only time they ever contacted me was when they ¨needed¨ something¨. They would couch it as if they were just checking in. For months they´d be absent, then suddenly text out of the blue to ¨see how I´m doing¨ then launch straight into a request, or a nudge for me to do for something for them. lol Stood out like a sore thumb. I don´t think they realized I´d been watching them closely for almost a year to be sure that´s what was really going on. Over and over they showed themselves to be selfish and to feel entitled to my time and energy. One day last week they let the mask slip and blew at me over a ridiculous request made by text that I politely declined. Their extremely hostile response when I turned them down right after their jovial first message was very telling.I did not reply back.The friendship was never reciprocal although many times in the past their feigned interest and bread crumbing had given me hope. I was just a means to an end. It was a one sided relationship. I see that now. It had also been mostly about supporting their wants, needs, and interests and them downplaying and devaluing my own. It had been a long term ¨friendship¨ and I had to be sure. I don´t take letting go of that lightly. They did help me to see that although I had good boundaries in the outside world I was still sacrificing myself for those ¨closest¨ to me. Aka still sacrificing myself for love and approval. I´m done with that now. I have the narcissist to thank for that. I have been doing inner work for years and this last encounter was surprisingly pain free. As I said before like peeling the last layer of the onion. First day or two was panic and sadness but in retrospect it was quite light and passed quickly. Years ago I would have been an emotional wreck for weeks! LOL On the other side was peace, love, and acceptance. Sounds trite but I feel whole.The pattern has been broken. It´s going to be interesting to see how the narcissist deals with this going forward. Should they recontact me they will not be invited back in. edit clarity
@@cindyjo9040 agreed on all levels. All those co-dependant traits we carry, fortunately not full spectrum otherwise we wouldn't be on this channel. I have a friend who in 2 years is so enmeshed with a highly narcissistic woman that I don't really recognise him anymore. The type of woman who always seems to have one or two other women fluttering around her. Its truly sad. Nothing to be done but to leave them to their lives. Peace!
@@htpm325 Thanks for the response and for asking the question. It caused me to reflect, ¨Yes, why?¨ which was helpful. Hoping the best for your friend. Take care!
I'm the Super Empath, I'm also a Heyoka Empath. I think I do scare him. I caught on to his lies, and he hates it. I saw his mask fall last yr. He and I are friends for 8 yrs. He's given me silent treatments like crazy. Had I known then what I now I'd go silent myself but I didn't. He gives me the worst mind games.
I put myself through this. Saw the red flags. Barely escaped. It hurt! Am I masochistic? Idk. 🔥 I know I'm smelling like smoke after that fire. Ouch. LOL. Not funny. 😆
Im not seeing it that way,the qualities of the super empath ,I will speak for myself, the empathy used is towards myself,courage,justice, its not about hunting narc ,but a defense and then leaving them. I don't see super empath toying with or being malicious.
I spit him in his face I got angry beeing with him. I did not like it when he changed! I wanted to hurt him badly. I hit him also, several times and told him I was grade A supply and that he was going to age quickly. I saw his face change😳 some days he did not look so pretty but then suddenly he looked awsome. Crazy! He went from looking like he was 70 years to 30 years and he was actually 50. This was strange and insane. I guess he was texting with alot of people/girls cause it gave him supply and also my energy gave him alot of supply. I slmost forgot myself I just wanted to give him be good to him, and then he made me angry and I called him sick and ugly and terrible in bed. I was mean to him. So he got it back. I might never hear from him again and thats good for my healing
A "super empath" sounds equally abusive. A truly compassionate person would walk away, stay away and move on. Why would anyone want to be like them. Thats not sensitive.
Yes, "experts at turning the tables." This is, I've come to see, is their main trick. Takes a long time to figure out, even when you know weirdly. Yes, "all manipulation." Thanks Joe. I love to relisten to your videos so pretty and precise. 🤍
The super empath is a truth seeker and truth teller. A true warrior of God!
We have NOTHING to prove to anyone!
Amen Praise God
Yess That Part Right There In That Correct Order 💯✌🏽
You're literally proving his point. 😂
well said. praise GOD 🙏❤
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I consider myself as a real super empath. I can tell you, we are not out to destroy narcissists. We merely reflect to them, who THEY truly are. Sometimes by not doing anything harmful at all. Just by standing our ground and stating facts.
One thing a super empath can do, that a narcissist can't, we can go without talking, to absolutely no one, for long periods of time.
We grow stronger in solitude. That's our super power.
Maybe the super empath phenomenon is about people becoming more aware and adept at battling these demons. Someone has to do it.
Daily baths in interpersonal awareness keeps one clean of toxic situations. Nowadays It indeed comes automatically.
Couldn’t agree more. Not born that way they simply become self aware of their own behaviors.
Yes! I am a spiritual awakened empath. My authentic self with strong emphasis abilities
maybe, Im raised by grandiose - but I have no problem shutting him down, I also see what others do to control me, then control them back or shut them twice as hard...
I have all of my life experiences, they are all the same, so I'm worst than their nightmares...
can see sociopaths and psychopaths, and sometimes I act like them...to relax...
The art of not giving a fuck....
It is definitely about recognising the toxic personality. From there it depends on the situation. I refuse to allow any of those types a single gram of my energy. And I will call them out in social situations if necessary as I could care less what they think of me and I hate their toxic crap and how they tend to want to dominate a conversation.
It all depends, mostly I just turn my back and seek others or just be by myself.
It is the not caring that they really hate, that you just ignore them, their egos are too fragile for that.
Peace!
Healed empaths that have done their inner work are threatening to narcs.
The narcissists never learn any lessons though.. Just become worse and worse for every collapse.
Does the Narcississt Collapse happens after the relationship ends/the discard and, the healthy person accepts the break-up and implements NO-CONTACT??
It can if they don’t have someone else to use as a human punching bag. So say they do have people in their lives, well if they treat those ones with respect because they don’t want to loose them, but they treated you with disrespect and bullied you. If you leave them and they have a stressful event like at work or something, if they have no, “ dog to kick “, then they can implode on themselves, that means that they bully themselves like tell themselves that they’re not good enough, etcetera. Then that can lead to severe: stress, anxiety and depression until they snap out of it. They don’t learn from it. They go right back to their usual narcissism: superiority complex to overcompensate for an inferiority complex and two year old behaviors. They don’t get out of that delusion.
@@bonnielee7134Right on
True super empaths aren’t vindictive, definitely not willing to be around narcissist. There energetically draining and the physical headaches you get are enough to run. Once a true super is awakened there tolerance for toxic dies.. personally 1 hour around toxic takes 1 week recovery. When I’m near one it’s like the room goes dark and they look like demons in squatting in the corner, then the headache begins.
Great comment, agreed with every word ! ''True super empaths aren’t vindictive, definitely not willing to be around narcissist '' is very true ! 🎯
So true!!
hahahhaha exactly 1 hour with them and you're stuck one week they're so exhausting. I spent 2 weeks with one and it took me 5 months with still some side effects ongoing ...
So true!
I agree that there may be no deliberate vindictiveness however before awakening to understanding narcissistic behaviour, subconsciously yes!
I new after time how strong I was, should I need to escape! I did not know how/why I was being drawn into the trauma bond. My loveless upbringing by a narc mother caused the desire/addiction to receive the love I never received and never will. Obviously NOT from a narc. So seeking the truth was my mission by suffering and learning. I am sure I caused pain as much as feeling the 'hurt' myself. Until we wake up and understand Narcissistic traits and far more important what self love means and the chemistry of hermetic law. 'Our song' repeats itself over and over again until we awaken to the light 💫🙏💞
Being their worst nightmare is powerful. Not because we seek power like the narcissist but because we are armed with powerful awareness and abilities to be strong enough to walk away and protect ourselves from further harm. We become a challenge when we don’t conform to the naive norms. Stay strong and maintain a healthy distance people.
A real empath never brags about it! They don't see them selves as better... They don't have dark empathy, rather they preserve peoples privacy... It's helpful for the empath for self awareness, growth and preservation... 😮
I am a spiritual awakened empath.
I can feel, see and know toxic like a super hero. I put narcissist in their place.
I was always accused of being a Narcissist by my 5 year gf who I was engaged to who devalued me and eventually discarded me for a coworker. I was concerned that I might be a Narcssist that I researched everything I could find on the subject. Eventually after finding this channel I began to figure everything out. She checked ALL the boxes. I eventually came to the conclusion that only when I called her out on her behavior did she call me a Narcissist. After leaving her after finding out about her cheating which she has never admitted to she has begged for my forgiveness etc. I agreed to meet with her a couple of times after which I felt she despised me. Which was so strange bc all I have done is move on with my life. She has struggled mightily while I have prospered through hard work and dedication. She devalued me when I was with her and now seems that deep down she doesn't want to see me happy or succeed when she was the one that caused the Breakup. It's all so hard to figure out. I literally gave her everything even taking care of her sick father like he was my own when he moved in and later passed away. I was there for her 100 percent of the time to the detriment of my relationship with my family and life long friends. I thought initially I could try and be her friend but now realize that is impossible and No Contact is the only way to go. It's just amazing how the tables have turned and how her life is the one that is upside down and chaotic when she held herself so much above me during the relationship. I have watched these videos on repeat for almost 2 months now. They have helped me understand things that without them I would have been lost, devastated and confused. Thank you so much for the videos.
I can sympathize very similar experience. Just know that you are very strong for enduring all of it
They always accuse you of being/doing what they are being/doing. That's one way you know what they are up to.
I’ve been watching them on repeat too because I’m going through the same thing. Thank you for being real
❤❤❤2nd Timothy Chpt 3 verses 1-5....
"This know also, that in the last days perilous (dangerous) times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their OWN selves (Narcissistic), covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, WITHOUT natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form (appearance) of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such TURN AWAY (NO contact)...."
The way i see a super empath is someone that has learned how the narc works. If you use what the narc showed you you will become a dark empath. A super empath, doenst want to fight a narc, but we will defend ourselfs. I hate being a super empath as im now 41 and i have just learned people dont think like i do. Just remeber that people are just people.
This is EXACTLY what I just did. It’s an experiment. I’m learning. And destroying her!!!! It feels great when they are so evil. I see why they wanna hurt people. But I eat narc snacks for breakfast
These videos are so strengthening to the healing process by giving the encouragement needed to say away. The further away from the narcissist the weaker the trauma bond effects. These videos really are super helpful to me. Thanks Joe
My pleasure Drew
I to hard to get away from narcissist, they are at every job, sometimes a couple of them
Had enough of her I stepped away giving my self time to heal.Then the audicity here she comes again after 11 months harassing the piss out of me sorry had to shame n disgrace her.Super empathy crushed the demon.
Thank you Joe, what goes round comes round, I hope my narc meets his match one day. I always say that, when someone is mean, that they will one day meet someone who is even meaner than them, I hope so 🙏
Narcissist are no match for a spiritual awakened empath. True authentic empaths are the narcissist worst nightmare. They love me & hate me. ✨️💥
Me too ha ha ha ha
It may happen to them at the old folks' home
I was the empath and when I first met him he claimed to be too but I was soon to learn he was only mirroring me and trying to extract my knowledge on the subject of empathy and being sensitive, this is where he got his foot in the door...I very quickly sensed he was no such thing as I witnessed his cold harsh words when he wasn't getting his needs met. This is when I saw who he really was, and this realisation kick started my exit journey.
You’re telling my whole story!! Before she could discard me I discarded her and went no contact 3 years later I find out that trash was stalking me wanting revenge because I knew who she was
If you experience empathy, you are not a narcissist…you may display some qualities on the narcissistic spectrum however, true empathy separates you from being veritably personality disordered.
I believe we all are on the narc scale at one time or another
Perfect statement on the "super empath".
The truth is ,you have to find the beast/warrior in you.
Genius video, Joe. My covert narcissist claimed to be super empath, this video depicts our dynamic precisely. Keep up the great work!
Did they try to provoke you into reactive abuse
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@@tonyconnor5691 of course, and when I remained stoic and responded calmly, she said: you are just like my mother! Then just ignored her, causing narcissistic injury. It was a chess game for me: enough is enough, good riddance, no contact, check mate.
I love ur channel, broke up recently with a narrsasist, my daughter's boyfriend is a full blown one too, now she's becoming one too!!!!!!!!!! Demons after chosen ones!!!!!!! They would really kill me and not think twice!!!!!!!! So many around me!!!!!!!!!! Please pray for me. Joanna from Baltimore. Thank you.
Leave them immediately. Fly like phoenix. Save your sanity.Better to live in hill or desert.
May God help you in the name of mighty Jesus ! Amen.
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@@zandershutterhandmishra6770 thank you.
You don't just "become one". She must have had traits before.
@@irielion3748it’s called “narc fleas” they pick up the narc behaviours
Joe, you always manage to exactly say the right thing. I believe you have described my situation to a T, I ‘ve never thought of myself as a “super” (anything )empath, thank you for enlightening me. ❤ You are the best Joe,again making my night..You are on a roll..and could be up on that pedestal yourself.. 😇🤗🙏😘
Spot on. SO SPOT ON 👌 This has just become my favorite video you’ve made so far 🤍
So kind of you to say!! 💫💫
New video idea: *What is narcissist collapse?* How long does it last? What does the narcissist go through mentally when this is happening? What should the target (“super empath”) expect?
Some good ideas, thanks Abby ❤
Good morning🌞 ! a cup of joe with Joe☕☕ ! Thanks for a nice surprise !!!
Thank you! 🌞🌞
Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall,
Humpty Dumpty had a great fall;
All the king's horses and all the king's men
Couldn't put Humpty together again.
I played his hand after I put two and two together 5 years later.
What they are doing is called oneupmanship.
You can leave, which I did, but 3 years later you are allowed to throw their dirt right back into their face.🤡👈🏻
I have learned soo much from your post .. Highly educational in this difficult social environment . wish i knew this years ago..
Trauma bond with drama, is what the transaction is,was and ever will be.
Solutions don't feel good to the narcs/narcettes because of their dishonesty, disrespect, distain for others and children
I discarded him twice after he discarded me the first time when I had no idea who I was dealing with. I also noticed that the better I treated him, the more he was devaluing me.
I'm super emphat, my father was a psychopathic narc, he always treated me well, not because he loved me but because I was his work. Given my childhood, I faced Machiavellian manipulation and violence very early on, I developed hyper vigilance, great sensitivity towards energies too, very great intuition and strong intuitive cognitive and emotional abilities in addition to narcissism. (healthy mine) of the intellectual coldness and violence inherited from my father. It took me a lifetime to understand and master who I am and to also realize that the most important relationships in my life have been with narcs. I learned some automatic reactions from it, it's true that I see things very clearly today, I know how to save my own skin if necessary, but I can guarantee you that an empath would never intentionally harm even a narc . All these people who call themselves super empaths in the war against the narc are just narcs in disguise or who ignore themselves.
One who knows thyself with good purpose and intent in peace with body, mind, and soul never treating others with willful ignorance or malicious intent should NEVER FEAR any moment that which requires such person to fully adorn thy Armor.
When dealing with such a Cluster B demented demon individual it is an unacceptable practice to forgive them for they know what they not do. The riddle behind meaning and formula for forgiveness, according to scripture, is never ending when in fact most all human beings are fully aware that EVERYTHING must come to and end and that all things must pass. So the opposite therefore must be also true…everything must begin and all things must fail. Only observe, do not absorb.
Thank you 🙏 Joe!
Have a safe, productive, peaceful and rewarding day.
Joe there is definitely such thing as a super empath and it is not bragging or a badge of honor because to become that super empath means you have dealt with tremendous pain in your life dealing with said TOXIC people and have been able to overcome adversity and not you are just NOT dealing with bullshit what separates US from Narcs is that the things we have encountered made us stronger not weaker but unlike a Narc it has not changed our Hearts and our ability to still show love and see the good in others ,but we can sense when you are not genuine and we will mirror them so to say and figure the games out REAL quick I knew I had this extra sense and sensitivity but never knew it was a name for it till searching for NPD information my example Was dating what I know now to be NPD and figured him out real fast because the thing about Narcs is they LOVE to talk about themselves and if you are super intuitive and pay attention listen to ones actions not words SUPER EMPATH because we have learned from experience and pain to TRUST actions not words, this particular Narc always boasted about how he caught an ex being unfaithful by placing a recording device in her car ,and always played the victim in past relationships and justified why he cheated because these women cheated first ..yeah that part well back then I had NO idea what I was dealing with but my intuition was in overdrive when he was around me even when he faked being loving something in my spirit would NOT rest so being what I now know to be super empath back then I called it GODS PROTECTION from evil I have learned not to ignore that sensitivity when he was questioned about his behavior he accused me of being insecure saying he would never cheat it was beneath him but my intuition said different so last argument for no apparent reason he raged out left my house asked to use the bathroom so when he left something in me said check your home for recording devices ,cant explain why I felt he had done this mut my intuition would not let me rest and sure enough I found 2 recording devices hidden in my home ,and to tell you how STUPID these people are one of the devices had proof that he was actually cheating recorded on one of the devices so I recorded a very long message on the device so I picked up the pieces of my heart and proceeded to record a very long message on the recorders he left at my home letting him know what a insecure loser he really was and to never come to my home again or he will be met by POLICE ...well after about a week after that argument when he left the recorders and going silent for a week he called with some lie about missing me and wanting us to work asked to see me I played along because I knew he wanted to come over to collect his recordings you see he knew he was cheating so he wanted proof that I was just as big loser as he was which I was not but always being accused well he came by asked to use bathroom my intuition KNEW what he was there for so I played it off let him secretly collect his devices ,it took everything in me to stomach being around someone so sneaky and evil ,so he went on to tell me how much he loved me and wanted a lifetime with me {FUTURE FAKING } I just listened because remember I had already broken up with this Lier on those recordings he left ,,,well about an hour after he left he started blowing up my phone of course he had listened to recording and got the SHOCK of his life I immediately went NO CONTACT he Hoovered me for YEARS but I stood strong in my decision you see being super in tuned with that intuition and learning from experience to RELY on it and not these liars and having the ability to walk away and still believing that the world is mostly good not BAD is what make US Super Empaths ...Had to share my story ...thanks Joe love your channel
People who are super empathetic, dont even like it because it can be a lonely life. And they dont like it. So those people are there.
I GOT SUPER POWERS ‼️💪
I WONT BE DEVOURED ‼️💪
If you gotta brag about being an empath, you’re not an empath.
Just wanted to leave a record that I saw this video. Thank you for posting it. Needed to see this tonight.
It was a cycle of dysfunction that unfortunately, no growth nor any kind of genuine interest in building true lifelong relationships.
The children are in the crossfire and that in it's self is utterly heart breaking 💔
The Empath is a Narc😂😂😂😂? The Narc has nothing to do with an empath 💯💯
What goes around does come around. She and I had fooled around in her last boyfriend's apartment so it was no surprise when I caught her doing it to me.
The question "am I the narcissist?" is a good one. I'm hoping the fact this question crosses my mind means I am not one but I know how it's done.
He lived in the next apartment, a divorced lawyer with teenage son & daughter. Not wanting his kids to know he was boinking the two of them decided to use a mattress in the attic above my bed.
Of course I was awakened by them. I had to work that day but before I left I double locked my apartment and also latched the attic door shut so they would have to bang the attic floor above his kids to get let out. She would also have to use his bathroom now. The two of them were forced to walk two miles to get the keys from me so she could access the food she was planning for that Sunday afternoon dinner at the lawyers apartment inviting me, her mom, the kids . When I returned home it took about one minute for me to tell her to get out. This was done in front of everybody. She looked at him for a place to stay. He said I can't, my kids. I can only imagine how things went after I was gone.
I was done. Get out! I said. if your stuff is still here Friday you can find it in the alley! ...and I left. I had the perfect revenge.
I know super empaths are real and very rare for the simple fact that my ex man in his 50s only came across one in his entire life, which is me
I don’t personally like the term super empath because it reminds me of something from the New Age and the Twin Flame bullshit. Talk about the most demonic experience ever…..insane.
Anywho- I have to say… after learning about this stuff and then going out in the world with open eyes…. It’s COMICAL. I’ve come to learn if you’re over 40 and wear jeans with rhinestones on the ass and t shirts that are too tight, you’re a narc. It’s almost become a game. Pick out the Narc. I love People watching and it takes 1 minute to spot one. They’re everywhere. And to KNOW what you’re dealing with within the first minute of talking to them. It’s sickening. Why do you think I want to know all of the amazing accomplishments you’ve made in your life within a 2 minute conversation in the grocery line? It’s gross. Then they go to their car and whack off for the 80th time that day. Sorry…. I couldn’t help myself 😂
Haha... "Super Empaths" are often narcs themselves, of course the term carries very subjective meaning. But narcissists do often stumble across ones who can cause them all sorts of problems...
"Whack off for the 80th time that day" 😂😂
@@joebhouse I hear you! And it was probably 81! 😜
Probably 💦💦 🤭
Twin Flames is another word for Trauma Bonding ❤ .
@@scottoz7891 you bet your ass it is! So cunning!
A real narcissist, not somebody with narcissistic traits, I’m talking about a real narcissist, will kill the average person with ease, and great skill.
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The movie Brave Heart comes to mind.
Thank you, Joe for this broadcast.
Great.!!! You Are Great.!!!! And you saved my life
Your words are so beautiful and true Joe. Thank you.
When I escaped the fantasy for reality.. in my heart. With my whole ME.. I felt that I was sparkling.. He wasnt the important at all in it or what he had done... sparkling. Glittering weird.. but Im thankful... for ME.. I forgive ME.. ❤
I left all my property,family, villagers everything😢😢😢
Thank you Joe🙏🥰being an person with pure in heart is not a superpower, it’s very painful🙏🥰we get hurt a lot, I am not proud of my qualities, it wears me out to feel others pain, affects me, I put myself aside and get drained, selfish controlling people prey on us🥰🙏Yes empath I am, it’s a gift, we have empathy sensitive, feel people’s feelings, pain, kind, very intuitive to others, givers, care for people, consciences, honks they.
Still seeing more now 4 months I discarded him, enough is enough, started affecting my health.
It hurt me so much to do it, he was destroying, costing me.
Yes try to learn grow.
He filed for divorce
Finding your true authentic self will protect you from narcissist. Feel to heal. Learn to really know yourself to truly love yourself.
@@monicamiles4544 thank you🙏💕yes starting to feel like me again and better
He doesn’t care he already has new supply after six months. And yes I am a super empath I have tooooo much intuition. Wish I didn’t … because I never listened to it! If I did I wasn’t in this situation
Will come back trust me 10000000%
@@PopPop-on6bt don't think so... after all I will never take him back even if my heart want to.. if someone else touched him I don't want him no more
Not only do they meet their match, sometimes they hang out with one another.
Thanks, Joe. Very interesting. You have a nice weekend, too.
Love your channel Joe from down under 🇦🇺
That was spot on. I am realising the i am a covert narc, addicted to the narc games. Play them at their own games. Weird dynamic, thought about everything you said today and listened. You are 100% correct. Hence why it hasnt broken me, i saw it happen before it did.
This is helpful, thank you.
Beautifully explained thank you 😊👍🏻👍🏻
This is so true, I did stick around for quite some time when I suspected that I was yet again dealing with a potential narcissist. I wanted to find what was the stem ofthe attraction. It turns out that it was based on my own childhood trauma. The is spot on Joe
how do we resolve trauma bond attachments?
@@elizabethtara7658 If you`re ready to leave the situation or already have done it, stay in 100% no contact. This alone will loosen the bond and you start to get back a feeling for yourself and who you truly are and that nothing about that "relationship" was ever real. Need some time to get over the fact that someone who even doesn`t like you have played on your strings. They`re just following their parasitic minds needs, nothing else. You will start to realize that not the narcissist has the power, but you! They desperately need YOU and not vice versa, they`re just in constant need for supply so don`t fall for provocations, they love it if your angry, so they can blame you with shame and so on... Narcissists are in fact ppl. who hand over any triggers to you, while try to make you believe they`re stand above you and make you feel unworthy and guilty. That keeps the bond alive and shows how to cut it off. Another important thing from my view was the realisation that i am totally unable to change the narcs behaviour, views, life, nothing at all. Not even god can change or save the narcissist, if he refuses to accept help. Get rid of thoughts that you could help them or that it`s "fate". Only way is get that person out of your life and out of your mind, start to focus on supportive people only for example and things you like. I personally do no longer accept toxic people in my private space, no exceptions anymore.
Joe I’m curious about your take on this. Do you think certain narcissists are drawn to the super empaths because they feel they may also be an narcissist and they think - oh this person is like me so we can play mind games with each other no problem!
I think some narcissists see them as a good challenge
It is a challenge for them to take us down, to check off another box and attempt to murder another soul. That’s what NA is, murder of the soul for the thief only comes to steal, kill and destroy. I’ve got news, there’s always a bigger shark in the water called God’s Chosen Ones who run to the battle line like David. I teach NA from a Biblical perspective and apply practical principles. Here’s the breakdown, the empath and narc were the same child born into a demonic family cult and the assignment was to indoctrinate another human agent to carry out Satan’s agendas because he’s the god of the earth. The varying difference is that we empaths choose to respond differently to the trauma. Trauma is not the actual event, but the individuals response to the trauma. At 6, I knew there was something radically wrong with my mother and vowed to myself I would never treat my children like she did. I’m here to tell you, I had a child with a narc and that’s when all the dots connected that I was dating my mother’s male demonic counterpart. This entire journey is about finding Jesus and was never about the Jezebel narc. This is spiritual warfare for our soul and because of free will God always allows us to choose. God is love, Satan is hateful and his biggest tactic is fear. Fear is an illusion, it’s what keeps so many trapped and his greatest device. Satan is the father of lies because he knows his time is limited and a defeated foe because Jesus shed his blood for us. Jesus doesn’t want anyone to perish, and we have authority over Satan and his kingdom. Many are called, few are Chosen. Rise up, run to Jesus and He will help you defeat the narc. I defeated all the narcs in my life and continue to call on God when any new devils try to come for me. The Lord vindicated me in court to then permanently remove the ex narc baby daddy. There was a reason he allowed the narc to take me to court and that’s because he attempted murder/strangulation on my daughter. The Lord has blocked all access to the court and the narc can’t run to the legal system, not justice system and scream parental alienation. Why? Because he’d have to tell on himself that he committed a heinous crime. I told him along time ago, he was going to lose it all before I met Jesus. There is a happy ending and give all the praise, honor and glory to the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. God bless you all! ❤️✝️🙏🏼
They also overplay their hand because they’ve been running game for so long and because they believe their lies, so will everyone else. Narcissists are messy and always leave a trail and they aren’t smart but gullible. Despite they are predators, their “spidey Satan senses” are not from God. And since Satan is the one in control, he’s a deceiver and he’s doesn’t play favorites and deceives his own kind! Don’t ever fear these demons, they aren’t about nothing. You will find them where we met them, still standing in the same place.
I love that "what goes around ...comes around" We all have karmic lessons to learn. Peace Sooner Than Soon. Peace. Peace. 2024♠♥♦♣♟💜
Exactly what happened ....brilliant explanation
Very informative!
With Deep Gratitude! ! !❤⚜️❤
Blessed Be! ! !❤🙏❤
Much Thanks.
Lol this is exactly what im doing now with the narc, it's so fun haha
Your channel is pretty good❤
super empath, is more like curse. its not badge honour. picking up other negative emotions and carrying it on his/her shoulder, too much burdens. Super Empath just like a normal empath except highly tune emotional radar and wear Teflon suit..
Super empaths are definitely the narcissists karma
Another informative video.. Enjoy your weekend as well..
Ty 🕊️✨💪🪽🫶
I believe referring to one as a super empath is grandiose in nature. Society is ALWAYS looking for someone who can help them to identify with their TRUE self in which opens doors for the super empath to creep in.
I do believe I’m empathetic but… a super empath screams boundaries with no limits.
I ♥️ God’s people, but God love’s them more. We can not and must no play god to folks.🥴
Your videos are outstanding and I appreciate your new way of ending your videos but… the other way screams “I said what I said!”
🤎 and 💫
Thanks for your kind words of wisdom ❤
And I know right, it's tricky to get the ending right, bit of trial and error I suppose. 🤗😉
@@joebhouse Interesting 🤔 I’ve never considered myself to be a “super empath” but have known my ability to read people …especially toxic people like the back of my hand. They stick out like neon flashing signs. I’m pretty intuitive, never forget, and pick up very easily on tone changes (even over text)…I did eradicate a narcissist just as you described 😅 I think so anyways
I cried/fought for the narcissist and just as quickly went no contact the second I smelled manipulation.
We ‘super empaths’ don’t handle disrespect very well at all
I didn’t do it on purpose, but I did do exactly as you stated. After the out of the blue discard (which I saw years away, but didn’t think how brutal it’d be). I wanted to learn 😂 and yes…I played along with the devalue until it reached ridiculous levels and then left without a word. No goodbyes
I observed a narcissist choose a person who is rich...
Anyone here claiming to be a super empath is wrong. The true super is secretive about his/her nature . They do not announce it, ever.
the message on my phone that I kept after I hung up on her (finally), when IT realized I was gone for good.
Teaching someone a lesson and narc-dom... they are worlds apart. Lesson is done once. Narcdom is thousands of cuts with no feeling, no remorse, no humanity and no end. Don't confuse justice with pathological lying, stealing and abuse. Jesus was not the same as those religious leaders who were narcissistic. Did Jesus teach them a lesson, you bet! Do we need to? Sometimes. Most times we peacefully depart as Jesus did sooooooo many times. Call for justice, do what is just. Every situation is different. What is God asking back from us..? But to exercise justice, to love kindness and to walk humbly (Bible book of Micah). Maybe you are wrestling with something, don't get confused, trust your intuition. We are made in God's image with His qualities and attributes.
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I am the Super Empath and my Narcissist was definitely not anticipating me…
Have a question. What is the difference between a super empath and someone who has had more than one experience with narcissists and is just hypervigilant to narcissistic traits, red flags etc because of CPTSD for example?
I'm a super empath,,but I keep it to myself,,I think we have to make a little difference in life,,,we know the narcissist do exist,, good luck to all,,
Once I learned about narcissism my life changed forever. I was always very adept at reading people and situations, but it didn't help me against the coverts of which there were many in my life.
Today I can sense the narcissist almost immediately. I refuse to engage with toxic people and will politely excuse myself from their presence.
These days I only allow other empaths into my life but not all empaths. If an empath is married to a narcissist I have learned that the narcissist will make it impossible for a friendship to continue or develop so for those unfortunate empaths I kind of leave them be, it just never works out.
It's strange how some empaths can become aware of being an empath but remain unaware and even in denial of narcissism. It is like that is just too much to swallow and I just don't get it.
Any insights as to why an empath prefers to live in denial?
Great videos.
Peace!
For me it was because of the pain of admitting that some in my inner circle (family, friends, and SO´s) did not care as much about me as I did about them. In truth I was sacrificing myself for my ¨close¨ relationships in an attempt to win love and approval rather than finding it from within. Due to, as Joe has mentioned before, core wounds in my childhood. My latest narcissist helped me to peel back the last layer of the onion by observing how I was allowing a ¨close friend¨ to treat me. Would I treat a close friend the way they had been treating me for months? Never! Their devaluing of me had been slow and subtle. I suspected the friendship was one sided for many months and began to reciprocate the same level of investment in the relationship. I drew subtle boundaries in a reciprocal way. I am not their main source of supply which I know made this much easier to accomplish. I started to notice, and accept in stead of looking past, that the only time they ever contacted me was when they ¨needed¨ something¨. They would couch it as if they were just checking in. For months they´d be absent, then suddenly text out of the blue to ¨see how I´m doing¨ then launch straight into a request, or a nudge for me to do for something for them. lol Stood out like a sore thumb. I don´t think they realized I´d been watching them closely for almost a year to be sure that´s what was really going on. Over and over they showed themselves to be selfish and to feel entitled to my time and energy. One day last week they let the mask slip and blew at me over a ridiculous request made by text that I politely declined. Their extremely hostile response when I turned them down right after their jovial first message was very telling.I did not reply back.The friendship was never reciprocal although many times in the past their feigned interest and bread crumbing had given me hope. I was just a means to an end. It was a one sided relationship. I see that now. It had also been mostly about supporting their wants, needs, and interests and them downplaying and devaluing my own. It had been a long term ¨friendship¨ and I had to be sure. I don´t take letting go of that lightly. They did help me to see that although I had good boundaries in the outside world I was still sacrificing myself for those ¨closest¨ to me. Aka still sacrificing myself for love and approval. I´m done with that now. I have the narcissist to thank for that. I have been doing inner work for years and this last encounter was surprisingly pain free. As I said before like peeling the last layer of the onion. First day or two was panic and sadness but in retrospect it was quite light and passed quickly. Years ago I would have been an emotional wreck for weeks! LOL On the other side was peace, love, and acceptance. Sounds trite but I feel whole.The pattern has been broken. It´s going to be interesting to see how the narcissist deals with this going forward. Should they recontact me they will not be invited back in. edit clarity
@@cindyjo9040 agreed on all levels.
All those co-dependant traits we carry, fortunately not full spectrum otherwise we wouldn't be on this channel.
I have a friend who in 2 years is so enmeshed with a highly narcissistic woman that I don't really recognise him anymore. The type of woman who always seems to have one or two other women fluttering around her.
Its truly sad. Nothing to be done but to leave them to their lives.
Peace!
@@htpm325 Thanks for the response and for asking the question. It caused me to reflect, ¨Yes, why?¨ which was helpful. Hoping the best for your friend. Take care!
I'm the Super Empath, I'm also a Heyoka Empath. I think I do scare him. I caught on to his lies, and he hates it. I saw his mask fall last yr. He and I are friends for 8 yrs.
He's given me silent treatments like crazy. Had I known then what I now I'd go silent myself but I didn't. He gives me the worst mind games.
A super empath who goes 'wrong' becomes a dark covert narcissist. 90+% psychopath 😮. Well spoken. Yikes!
I put myself through this. Saw the red flags. Barely escaped. It hurt! Am I masochistic? Idk. 🔥 I know I'm smelling like smoke after that fire. Ouch. LOL. Not funny. 😆
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Im not seeing it that way,the qualities of the super empath ,I will speak for myself, the empathy used is towards myself,courage,justice, its not about hunting narc ,but a defense and then leaving them. I don't see super empath toying with or being malicious.
I think he’s met his match. Not sure which way I want to turn the tables on him👈🏻 All I do know is it is a life altering experience👈🏻
I spit him in his face I got angry beeing with him. I did not like it when he changed! I wanted to hurt him badly. I hit him also, several times and told him I was grade A supply and that he was going to age quickly. I saw his face change😳 some days he did not look so pretty but then suddenly he looked awsome. Crazy! He went from looking like he was 70 years to 30 years and he was actually 50. This was strange and insane. I guess he was texting with alot of people/girls cause it gave him supply and also my energy gave him alot of supply. I slmost forgot myself I just wanted to give him be good to him, and then he made me angry and I called him sick and ugly and terrible in bed. I was mean to him. So he got it back. I might never hear from him again and thats good for my healing
A "super empath" sounds equally abusive. A truly compassionate person would walk away, stay away and move on. Why would anyone want to be like them. Thats not sensitive.
It’s because the super is the only school of empath that has strong narc traits alongside the empathic traits
Yes, "experts at turning the tables." This is, I've come to see, is their main trick. Takes a long time to figure out, even when you know weirdly.
Yes, "all manipulation."
Thanks Joe. I love to relisten to your videos so pretty and precise. 🤍
Very informative!
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