Millennial Talk: How Do Opposing Political Opinions Impact Friendships And Dating? | The Quint
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- Four #millennials Bilal, Hiba, Deeksha and Nandakumar sit down to discuss how their #politicalviews affects their relationship with their friends and their dating life.
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“We must take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented” - Elie Wiesel Being politically neutral is a sin, in present scenario.
Quint is the best
@@nedafiroz514 In my opinion taking sides just create a situation where you don't get to see the other sides prospective and become adamant
People should be flexible regarding politics by not taking sides and by understanding every prospective
Hiba is sounding and looking a combination of Sonakshi, Sonam and Aaliya.
“We can disagree and still love each other, unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist.” James Baldwin. This is my position.
The leper king........to the salahddin
Abe main bhi yahi likhne wala tha...aur tu mil gaya😁
💯 true..!!!
But both millennial mulla mulli can't bear different thought process...!!!
Mine or anyone else's oppression and denial of humanity and right to exist .
This is my stance.
@@janilduggad9315 it is appreciable that the so called mulla mulli are not open subtle racism and discrimination.
I had a friend who supports BJP. We used to even debate often. Nothing changed. But one day he criticised Ravish Kumar's journalism. Bas usi din dosti khatm.
🙏👍
Hahaha accha kiya. ..
Hehehhehehe.....gud for u bro.....RK is a rare gem.....
I understood the sarcasm
and the Param Veer Chakra goes to...
One day I searched in Google how to loose friends
It said by talking about politics and religion in front of them.
google's true.
Almost every friend of mine is BJP supporter we often debate on new bills most of the time they were factually incorrect they accept it but sometimes they disagree to me but we broke our friendship
@@disruptionxyz8131 Good for him/her
@@disruptionxyz8131 sabko yehi lagata hey ki dusro ke facts Galat h
@@mayankshukla3912 Aisa hi hona chahiye.
The orange top girl hasn’t been told that there’s a thing called listening. Doesn’t let the guy talk at all!
Ikr, even tho I get where she's coming from and she is right, she came off rather aggressive as someone who think they're right all the time. She's great for protests and leadership but for a healthy decent debate, she's not ready.
@@ankita7342 yeah true...👍right analysis...
Very true
it's not like that.
People have opinions but If your opinion doesnt align with her. Then you should be sent to mars 😂😂
Maggie ji ne hi sb Kiya h😂🤣
Lol. I have a muslim roommate and we are totally cool with each other's personal opinions. I think the girl with bilaal has made most sense.
Absolutely... Hiba i find is a little biased... Although she doesn't sond wrong but biasness is not correct either
Agreed. The fact that a lot of people today hang around with the label "Liberal", are not at all open to discuss with someone having different idea, which essentially undermines the very meaning of liberalism.
@@aviks1755 discussion has to be a conversation rather than an argument especially with a blame game... Liberals for sure are open to discussion not argument
@@farulahmed7644 I would happily welcome a debate, as long as they know the principle rules of it and capable of understanding different fallacies that often creeps in along the lines of an argument.
"Bhakts" are a section of right wingers. Who in my definition don't meet the above criteria, similar to the "woxtreme"(extreme in the guise of woke).
@@farulahmed7644 Hiba was definitely not open to discission. She is like "Ik I Am right. How can you be so wrong?? "
Hiba is right... being apolitical comes from a place of privilege. I was the same prior to 2014.
I still have that privilege 🤣
I will agree to disagree unless your opinions hurt someone's existence.
Also the girl with Bilal seems to be a really cool person to hang out with, I really liked what she said.
Yeah same here.
yep.
I had a bakth who was very closely and good to me and all of a sudden MAGGI ji became PM. And i saw his true colour with all the rassist slurs and fb post.
I was like OMG i was dealing with a poisonous serpent.
May be ur frnd was also thinking the same . You should talk to him and sort this out and racist what do you mean by it. Racism is color discrimination think before u comment and also if supporting caa is symbol of serpent then u r a born serpent
@@VishalSingh-rq5fu racism is not only limited to colour.... It's not how a person behaves with a particular person but it's more about their ideology... You can't be eating biryani at the karims and love the khan chacha over there but also hate the entire muslim community and want them to be thrown out of the country....! And just FYI this is an example, don't take it otherwise.. And the same goes to the other religions also....!
@@farulahmed7644 I understand but if you are referring to caa then the home minister himself clarified that this law does not take citizenship it is given to miniorities in pakistan Afghanistan etc. I know that some leaders in opposition like owaisi has hinted that it's their first step and hidden agenda to hindu rashtra but it's not. You also spoke about ideology well. There are many ideology in india and all should be inclusive but unfortunately that's not the case.
@@VishalSingh-rq5fu dude there is no point in discussing about nrc, caa.... The only reason i believe this was brought in picture was to simply create chaos and unnecessary debates.... And please don't tell me about what home minister clarified.... It's like you guys are knowingly ignoring the actual message behind that. So, no need to pinpoint with owaisi misguiding. He is not a saint i agree but he did not misguide in this case... And lastly i'm from assam and i've gone through NRC... I very well understand what it is and i also know the purpose as to why it was carried in assam. So, please keep your amit shah clarification to yourself....! Sorry, if i sound rude
Same bro. I had a good friend who turned out to be Andhbhakt, spewing poison and filth post 2014
"I've had friends who are like this and they stopped talking to me. :("
Mann I wanna hug nandkumar!!!!!!
Alright, got my popcorn ready. Time to read the comments section.
hah!
Same dude
Ikr its a whole ass drama here demnn
Bold of you to assume that I have friends or have had relationships.
I had a discussion with my friend about the same topic! She still believes in the BJP and I keep bashing them in front of her, (despite voting for them in the 1st term, lesson learnt) and she just takes it and moves onto a different topic. So it's cool. Rather my best friend is a bjp supporter, still we're friends, we can always agree to disagree with the one's who are dear to us. You need to decide which matters more, an opinion or a relationship.
It's the same for me and my best friend.
There is a famous saying and I quote : *_If there are 9 Nazis sitting with you at a table, there are 10 Nazis for the onlookers!_*
@@xilici you know when you're having a civil n mature conversation, calling someone you disagree with a nazi makes the narrative immature, undermines the atrocities nazis committed and undermines the pain of the people wronged by them. I understand you want to counter the BJP but calling them nazis is just childish and an easy way to escape countering them on actual issues.
@@nitishnair8736 Read it again. There is a "saying"
@@xilici don't need to. Of the n number of analogies, you chose this. So review your mindset.
“We can disagree and still love each other, unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist.”
It matters when you belong to the minority community.
Ever heard about casteism?
@@CoronaVirus-gv6sb You don't believe in that , do you ?
Yes. If there is systematic oppression against a group of people, then those not willing to acknowledge the oppression, would appear to either have a non-empathetic oulook in life or a covertly prejudiced thinking. Both being great red flags concerning a person's character.
This is so mee! Political opinion shapes personalities.Soooo true.
I don't think friendship and relationship starts to break just because of different political views
I argue with my friends on different political views but after that argument we back in normal
But this hiba is hyper-intelligent who is bothered about political correctness.
@@MrHitchfan no one correct in political correctness
Let me point out to these kids, for a start it is phenomenal to see that there is a political sensitivity among people irrespective of the privileges but you need to understand in a multi-ideology democracy it is very important to embrace opinions as well, it is fine to ' agree to disagree' but it's also important to accept sometimes .
No ideology is impeccable and no ideology is 100 % faulty.
Having leaning to any ideology and perception is like going back to tribal culture. When you start getting loyal to any ideology or having hatred towards certain political parties . You are not 21st centurion , you are nomad.
lol
Very few have scored 21 test centuries 😆
It's so ironic that Bilal and Hiba are sitting on the "left" side of the table. 😅
Coincidental you mean?
When you hold India's map in front of you maharashtra is to the left but when you're in maharashtra you think you're far to right
Bro, I was talking ideologically. 🙄
@@user-ke6rx9if3u i dont think so..
@@adithyahk nope its foking left noe...
I have a boyfriend who have entirely different political opinion than me, some times we even argue but in the end of the day we still respect each other. that's all matters
😊 ....
well 'a' boyfriend, how many more of em do you have?
Intolerance is mental weakness.You're building a bubble just like the other. Are you any different?
Actually, he is diametrically opposite
my friends have a different political opinion or we can say they are pure 'bhakts' when i express my opinions in front of them they started criticizing me, I stopped talking to them because i cant tolerate such people who hate other human beings and some religion. I am also concerned about what things we are consuming which are very extremist.
👍
Hiba cannot stand anyone who thinks/eats/talks/looks(dark shed) different.She has picked up arrogance like her accent.Its ok to have differences.
This has been a common wave among most millennials(I can say because I'm one), just because you strongly believe in an idea you can't stand someone who's on the opposite end of the spectrum than you.
In the age of internet, being a leftist, rightist, socialist etc are not self formed beliefs but rather a result of finely curated string of information which makes you lean a certain way without you knowing about it.
I strongly believe in environmental conservation and try and do my part towards it. At the same time majority of my friends don't give a damn about it. Should I stop being friends with them?
You don't need to be friends with someone who thinks radically opposite to you but don't hate on them, preferably take a moment to think why do they think so and the world would be a better place.
Whn he said, "it matters a lot, kyun ki mera to ghar ka maamla hy" :(
Yeah that made me go 😣 too..
Sameee
Years back different people used to support different political parties and everyone used to be okay but now people have started judging each other on the basis of the political parties they support. Like if you are a bjp supporter then you are a bhakt and if you are not a bjp supporter then you are anti national. If you support Congress then you are pappu like dude why?This world is beyond that too.
Yeah ,even bjp supporters come in a spectrum. There are no options period..
Exactly. Spot on
Yes the politics has taken this to a new level. By the way r u an antinational or a bhakt? These two terms are equally demeaning par yehi chal rha hai market mein...
So true
The Quint is not a secular Media.
Unfortunately Ravish Kumar is the only journalist who does what a journalist has to do.
Can't stand different political views ... Still claims to be a true leftist
Andhbhakti 101
Oh i love to mess with my friends .
Like if they are" leftists " i become "bhakt" and vice versa and then debate with them.
The thing is that apart from few ,most dont know what their political opinion is.
PS: ALL THOSE ARE STILL MY FRIENDS😅😅
"POLITICS IS TEMPORARY FRIENDSHIP IS ETERNAL"
Same
😂 Same here 😂
We should make a group with people who do the same thing and name it ''Sic Mundus Creatus Est''.
Dude ur a legend 👏😂
The girl with braid is truly mature person.
Conclusion: Braids are mature
What Nandkumar is saying that one can be a left wing extremist too. I guess you guys have learnt about Antifa.
Left is filled w/ extremism to the brim : those guys have killed more than 1B people in all of their history - from Russia to Cambodia to China!
@@xilici r/RedsKilledTrillions
Lately I had this conversation with one of my friend who completed his Master's in engg. I asked him about why he supports modi(but he says he doesn't support bjp and their ideologies), NRC and Ravish Kumar's doctored video and he didn't gave any logical reasons to any of my questions. And now maybe he became an astronaut..
P.S. because he has ghosted me since..
Same issue .
5 of my friends support the BJP and don't have the reason for it.
I have seen it's better not to engage in political issues and other social issues which is actually very sad.
@@amanbeniwal1576 Dude same... a lot of my "BJP supporting" friends don't have a valid reason to support BJP.. they are only going with the flow...
There is always a valid reason. But it is secret and can't be spoken of out in d open. If you know what I'm saying!
You BJp friend sound like zakir Naik the preacher ..when ever people approach to him with doubt/question he will set up an extrem out of frame example with some extensive irrelevant theories to relate his examples what he set out of context.....
@@ishaan198 dude please tell me... I got to knw... M in a dilema bcoz of it..!!
The only thing I learnt after watching this is liberals are more conservative about thier ideology than conservatives
This is a huge problem in our society right now. People have such strong political opinion. People don't understand that they can be apolitical and have opinion. People have stopped discussing issues academically. Every discussion is infected by politics.
The poison that is damaging maybe lately though but it has shown the effect of poison and that poison is 'POLITICS'. Reason: Age old education system no reforms in this sector. Colleges universities are now filled with this filthy politics. This has to be stopped. Society needs matured and better understanding citizens
@@sammyray3017 absolutely right.
I am ok with having friends with someone who has opposite political view or opposite opinion on anything for that matter as long as the person wants to talk on facts and rely on rationality of the subject.
But I am yet to find one such person. so friends with opposite view I kinda refrain from bringing that subject into our conversation because that person is not going to talk on facts and it might go on a emotional route hence affect my friendship and relationship with the person.
I am okay with most views except lgbtq cause I am a closeted bi and few friends I had were openly homophobic
@@ShinChan-rj4ys lol didnt known Shinchan was bi..😂😂
@@ShinChan-rj4ys Aww, drop those so called friends. As long as these people stay in your life, they'll hold you back. Having different political opinions might not affect your life directly, but this is very personal. I hope you find the courage in the future to come out of the closet, and I hope people that actually love you will accept you the way you are. There's no shame in being fabulous.
This video is the perfect sample of how psedo people like bilal and hiba have decided their opinion and not open minded unless it suits thier narrative.
Just observe Deeksha and Nandakumar, they were more open and trying to understand the other side.
Live for a day with the name Bilal infront of your bhaktmodraands.
5:28 he has kind of given up
Amazing observation. You articulated the vague thoughts in my mind into precise words.
Omer Seth Wow, how do you people manage to bring up religion in every narrative? Your opinion seems to me nothing but a by product of postmodern political correctness.
Try to understand the current political scenario in this country. People are being lynched on the streets, jailed on fraudulent charges, being murdered when they protest and every time the minority is made into a villian. And then you come along and say that we as minority should get along with this kind of thinking. Walk a mile in our shoes before saying such things.
I had a close school friend and she turned into an opportunist Bhakt so she always started sharing politically charged sentiments on whatsapp status ..... And I had never pressed the block button so fast in mY LifeEee😂
Still better than a andhnamazi like you
(Bhakt has religious connotation)
This is coming from the place of privilege...well said
EXACTLYYY
Why was there no discussion about the differences between husband and wife due to political ideologies.
How do they react to such situations?
Soumitra Khan best example 😆😆😆😆
Thanks for this Quint! I was looking for such a convo. Great guys!
Yeah...
People used to be having political opinions about politicians but nowadays people have political opinion about politician's religion
Girl in orange "I will stop being friends with you if your political opinion changes"
Also her "...a certain person holding such hate in his heart is not acceptable to me"
Tru
her insta is
hibabotamuss
Maine kaha *"heepocracy ki bhi seema hoti hai"*
Both hiba and Bilal are hypocrites
I think the thing is that it's alright to be friends with a person having a different political opinion as long as it concerns policies and plans. The thing about left-wing and right-wing in India is that it is not a rightly used term. Left-wing is all about Liberalisation and Progressive mindset, while most "left-wing" political parties in India do not have that kind of attitude. I mean even Congress and other parties have top ministers that have very problematic opinions. Similarly, right-wing is associated with Nationalism. Now if someone is progressive in thoughts, a liberal in thoughts if you want to put it that way, but they support BJP only because to them it is a better political party to support when it comes to their policies and bills, but that doesn't mean that their opinions are that of an extremist. They just find Congress or any other party incompetent. Now if a person is orthodox and toxic in their opinion, but still supports left-wing parties, does that make them a better person? It gets complicated because of this. No matter whom they vote for, you can always call them out for their bullshit opinions and try to reason with them, be it a supporter of a party you support or a supporter of an opposition party.
Almost every friend of mine is BJP supporter we often debate on new bills most of the time they were factually incorrect they accept it but sometimes they disagree to me but that doesn't affect our friendship
Well it just your self sueprmacy
Hiba needs to take a chill pill😊👍
conversation between me and my friends suddenly turn ugly and electric when we switch to poltics
I'm Muslim
But I don't stop my children to make friends of other religions
I told them we are INDIAN
And we are bhai bhai
Moreover, difference in political opinion have an impact on any relationship then caste and religion also matters.
You can be friends with a person having different even opposite opinions than you as long as you both are open minded and mature enough to sense when your discussion is turning into argument to stop it.
I had a friend who was nice to me, but one day I found out his tweets and they go back to few years all about Hating a religious community, people like Kapil Mishra, Anurag Thakur, Arnab, Sudhir Chaudhary...I confronted him to discuss politics with me and he declined. I stopped talking cause I know he is messed up inside, even if he doesn't want to hurt me personally but wants to hurt a community systematically through his privilege...
What privilege
Loving those 4 guys is not an achievement
'It matters a lot because mera to ghar ka maamla hai'. That's the thing. Privilege is a huge thing man. Even if I didn't know the names, I could easily make out who all are the hindu ones. Very easily. I've watched Hiba in a few videos here and there, in case you read this, you seem like a really wonderful person. Lots of love.
to judge a person by his or her politically opinion is upright insanity
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Germans know better.
I definitely would talk it out. And if the rigidity is too much, I'd just walk away.
I often have political debates with my best friends, and we disagree too but still I love them, we have been best friends for 10 years...
I doesn't matter
4:31 my friend that's talking at someone. You should learn a thing or two if you are interested in "talking to" someone.
I had a friend text me jai ram mandhir. The day of ram mandhir verdict. And i am Muslim, so that was hurtful.
And it felt bad coz i Never brought politics btwn us. But she thought it was ok for her to text me that.
We are not friends anymore. Lesson learnt.
I also had a friend who unfollowed me coz i posted a anti CAA post. So ya to hell with such ppl.
Choose your friends wisely. Dont accept friends who has hate towards another human without any reason.
Definition of intolerance: unwillingness to accept views, beliefs, or behaviour that differ from one's own. (Irony)
A movie from 1916.
Bilal : kya mast hindu rastra banaya hai🤣
and Hiba : I am a libral but if u don't agree with me you'll be sent to mars
us bechare ko to bolne hi n dia😂😂
We should respect the different political views of anyone. Opinion must be different among us because everyone has different analytical, and observing ability. I have many friends with different opinions but I respect there opinion
I can be friends or date someone with the opposite political ideology unless they are not up for discussion or the reason for me to hate that party collide with the reason they love that party.
I'm from Tamilnadu, a DMK representative youth wing leader and IT wing member in grass root level. For us is general, equality in society had been the main motto. I'm very close to every religious person in our place with out a problem. On a party wise one of my best friend is in AIADMK with whom we compete on. But, personally we don't hold any grudge between us probable the reason being both our party leaders of last generation had similar opinions. Probably that's one reason for our religious harmony. But I'm afraid with the current situational change where BJP is trying to take over AIADMK because of the vacuum that is available after the death of Jayalalitha. It may lead to bring in enmity even with our best friends because of the ideology that they nurture. I spoke to a colleague in Mumbai who is a member of RSS and one point he made was that the next world war might be against Hindus and the only party that can save us in such a situation is BJP. I was like, bro, your brain has to grow. But he is an Engineer with a good designation. Wonder, what is even happening to our education system.
I've also seen leftists/marxists/islamists constantly compare Modi to HITLER & he's currently committing a Genocide on Muslims, this delusion is present in both extremes.
@@Albetroz1415 True
Being friends with people with differences is the essence of democracy.(*goes without saying still mentioning, as long as their opinions are justifiable and rational) :(
but what if they dont even want to associate with u and outcast after hearing out ur views and perspectives
@@sunilpashurai8180 if someone's opinion justifiable and rational and still you want to outcast them, then you my friend are a problem for the system, society and everything in between. Because it can happen only when your prejudices are strong to not let you agree to disgree with them.
Edit:- regarding association its upto them. But it purely being biased because of prejudices wont be right(given everyone has their own preferences and choice of action)
We tell stories no is willing to tell. Good Quint.
To add something, it was not necessary to have party symbolss in the back-ground for you to discuss political opinions.
This is something which rather gives intensity to the contentious atmosphere.
In a whatsapp group of around 100 people which was strongly opinionated about a political party I stood my ground with a counter opinion the group used to bombard with messages has now gone silent or mute it almost feels like they no longer exist or may have formed a parallel group to continue with their political messages and not offend others at the same time.
Good.
Ok, this not a debate friends do
after 2014, i lost many frnds becoz of different political views
Social media is not a best platform to express opposing views to your friend's view if you have such friends. I secretly unfollowing, unfriending and blocking some of my friends who were Bhakts. But when I meet them face to face that is when I engage in discussions. Even if your friend has an extremist view, you don't want to leave them in darkness. I would be friends with those who has extreme view and will keep trying to make them understand what is right and what is wrong.
That's what evangelists believe in
Quint is a group of people with similar ideology ,no doubt why they lack creativity
One ideology lacks creativity
I stay in a saffron stronghold area. I recently became a Congress supporter but I'm having most of my friends who are Hindutvavadis. Most are even Godse sympathizers. Now that I've engaged with Godse sympathizers , I'm ready to engage with anyone. Because of that I have become more tolerant to opposing views. One interesting thing is that I've not yet found anybody who is of the same ideology as mine.
How sad! 😥 some ppl think that hate can bring peace. The irony!
@@smm6756 True😅😅. Hate can never bring peace
I have friends who are extreme supporters of NRC and CAA and one day we were debating about it.
My house is only Muslim house in a hindu majority locality
My friend said agar koi ayega NRC (like govt. officials) hm log tere ghar ko bacha lenge
I was completely shocked like WTF and it didn't go well
We're still friends but the friendship really degraded in terms of amount of time we spend now compared to earlier
Yeah dats twisted..
"I don't want to engage with them" the problem with liberals.
How is it a problem 🤣🤣🤣
Political thinking is really matter for me in a relationship and in a friendship.. According to me.. 💜✨
I used to be a andhbhakt before after seeing hiba I became liberal
Please try to make a video about how political opinions affect in family like with parents.
The youth needs to be revolutionary in some way or the other but ultimately for the betterment of humanity
I have been watching this post patiently and Nand Kumar is the only sane individual who looks like an ordinary individual . Hiba and Bilal are too intelligent to be living here in India where almost all non-Muslims as per them are drinking gau mootra and running amuck. At least Bilal is gracious enough to tolerate opposing opinion but Hiba indeed is the embodiment of feminism and political correctness(which she assumes). We are living in a country for centuries where despite not liking others religion we "try" to be friendly and never engage much in political discussions as we felt personal relationships are more important. Of course, the country has become toxic and we must not support hate. But belittling friendships who otherwise have the slightest amount of opposing political opinions is nothing but ARROGANCE and utmost naive attitude. HIBA
I think is very very religious and deeply affected by right-wing politics which I can understand. But she must understand that not all right-wingers are Hindutva supporters, maybe she is an Islamic socialist. You have your opinion Hiba that's your wish, but to me, you are Linda Sarsour minus hijab 😏
@I am boss my point is, without bjp half baked lunatics like HIBA would have become irrelevant. Comparing her to jews is very insulting 😂😂🤣🤣
@I am boss wait cos I thought not elongating I made such statements. Yes you can cut friendship with someone who is abusive. There are many out there supporting Bjp or any party for that matter based on their personal and community bias. It's not just with hindu its will people all over the world. Ordinary people don't have ideological consistency or whatever their logic based on which party will benefit them. You know periyar from Tamil nadu( Google him) who hated brahmins not just with brahmanism but his best friend was rajagopalachari who was capitalist and brahmin. There are many examples all over the world like this. Even many nazi collabaraters had siblings who saved jews. Her attitude sucks who is not willing to tolerate even slightest of difference. Let her carry on with her attitude but ppl like her won't be part of solution.
It doesn't affect my friendships, untill I'm drunk 🤷
Wow..Bilal who is a journo and takes people opinion for a living is so closed when it comes to discussions and opinions from different people. If you don't discuss with your closed friends if they have extreme views then how will we reform the society. We need to discuss with people and not avoid them. It's not about proving someone wrong but just a healthy discussion no matter how extreme their views are.
This is a problem in millennials (even am also a millennial) they just don't want to discuss conflicting ideas and listen to others rather they prefer avoiding the topic.
I feel in general people are not wrong or become extremist in their opinions...it's because of their circumstances or might be someone has talked them out showing only the negative aspects of a particular subject.
That's emphathy..
it really depends on how both people take up the political conversation. A decent debate is always welcome when both people hear each other..but if someone becomes an extremist and try to prove you wrong when you are correct then it does add bitterness to the relationship..
Hi iam usman khan.i have multiple other religious friends. They have their opinion about politics and religion but they are not extremist. We dissent each other point of view, we never try to dominate each other. Subjugating and controlling people and confine them in their own identity is wrong. So respect each other.
Dheeksha made more sense cause I've friends who supported BJP. Whenever an issue arises we discuss and we come to a conclusion. For this video, I can see that Hiba just judges the book by it's cover or something and what Bilal said was absolutely true people with no political opinion are the coolest people to hangout with.
I mean you may call me bigot here but the guys who are okay with different political opinions are from a religion and the intolerant pair are from a religion. This say a lot about their brainwashed opinion which are not open to step into others shoes
Poor Bilal mera toh ghar ka mamla hai. 😂❤. He's such a sweetheart.
I just came from video where bilal and hiba talking about how bad is Islamophobia and now seeing this video and comment section full of bhakt bhakt bhakt how saying people bhakt is not hindufobia?
@Hiba why are you trying to change your accent during conversation (e.g. at 2:48)
My personal analysis of this particular video is that both Hiba and Bilal have a very narrow minded personal views where they can't withstand a person having different opinions than theirs. I am sorry to say that but if you are using such people in your team then it's natural that the news will be biased which supports their political inclinations. The other two are pretty cool especially the guy with Hiba he seems more mature to me.
Because u r from majority community,for some time just imagine yourself to be minority,u will get it
Ignorance for majority is a bliss but for minority is total destruction.
Because it is nothing for us but for minority specially Muslims it is whole life, whole existence, someone can just name them terrorist, or say go to Pakistan, mulle, might get lynch, any suggestion any word from them will be anti national, it is like having opposite opinion to them is just hating on them so being with such person who just hate some community is better than having toxic friendship or relationship. I, being Hindu can stay with someone whose opinion is pro bjp and try to change it but if I keep myself in place of some minorities who is facing such thing from Friend then I won't be able to tolerate, specially that friend who changed after election. Our whole life should not be wasted on changing someone's mind just so that they can accept you, it's better to have like minded ppl around you.
True.... There opinions are very narrow minded... In 5th class I got insulted by a Muslim girl just because I asked her 'what is the difference between jhatka and halaal meat'. At that time she made fun of my religion too but I was too young to understand that why she said so...
Ab mai sochta hu ki itni si age mai usme itna hate kaha se aaya?
@@mdzaid594 just cause your a minority you're not not privileged. It is not a excuse to have narrow minded thoughts. I am born in the UK where I am a minority (indian). I've faced discrimination from minorities more then a majority race. People discriminate towards other people, religious beliefs sometimes shape how you think approach situations. If you read the quaran in Islam, you are taught from young to be narrow minded. Never doubt what the book says is one of the first rules you get taught.
It only goes to the next level when you and your friend are drunk...now see...the heated debate..it happened to me many a times..unfortunate is that i used to always calm down myself and move on..dont have different political opinons when you are drunk...its injurious to health
Jo bhi bolo Hiba aur Bilal ki jodi mast hai ...🔥🔥
Hiba is like if you dont have any opinion on politics then i dont know you and if you have different opinion thn me then i also dont wanna b friends with you..she is like hm din ko raat kahe to tumko raat hi kehna pdega..mujse baat karni hai toh..😂😂#achigundagardi
According to QUINT- politics 1st, friendship, relationship secondary..
Public- friendship, relationship 1st.. Politics secondary..
Apne ko friendship mangta he 😀😀
Everybody is opinionated, some to a smaller extent & some to a greater extent. So finding someone with 100% thought match, well impossible.
I think I will say quits when one lacks the ability to keep an open mind to change their opinion if presented with contradictory facts otherwise.
Don't take your opinions, beliefs, religion seriously. You're more than that identity you and this world made up for you. We're all EQUAL. We just build up these exclusive identities to make ourselves feel good and important. To build a game inside our heads that we play everyday, clutching our identities close to our chest and hurting anyone who threatens it. Lose your chains. I'm trying. I hope you start trying too. It's the only way to a better World.
Why did no one noticed sasta dhruv rathee.
I did.
kuch bhi.. kuch bhi!
Whatever leaning she is having, no one would be able to tolerate Hiba mam with all due respect ... she is unable to hide her arrogance and sense of supremacy from her face....
Don't call her ma'am. She is a reporter. Get rid of this master slave mentality. Just caller her Hiba. Yeah she is arrogant and unwilling to listen to the other side. A posh rich American expat who claims to be Muslim and devout.
This shows alot about political opinions. From the very start, the people who are actually against BJP or say left leaning (sitting in video) are actually not open for having people with contrasting opinions but the ones on the right are very much open to sit discuss and still maintain a respectful convo and relation.
That's what everyone must see, the claimed flag bearers of "Liberalism" are not so liberal when it comes to someone having difference of opinion.
Good that you made this video.
I can watch hiba all day long ! 😍
Yeah, she is deceiving you with her looks. Talk with such ppl you will run the next moment
You have a bad liking my friend
She isn't letting the poor guy talk, or even listening to him.
Chup kar sala
@@MrHitchfan ya she man she means pretty dominating even in her circles..
I have broken up with 3 girls, loosen my interest in 5 girls, blocked 2 girls with which everything was going great , been blocked by about 30+ people not because they support BJP. But because they don't even want to talk about it. It's just get offended on anything I say. Because they don't have any strong argument to put rather than hindu rashtra, cow, ram mandir etc.
Dont you have any other thing to talk apart from politics with ur frnds?
@@VishalSingh-rq5fu I didn't started it. It all started when I posted something about current government and they got offended
It's like if ram mandir, cow and hindu rashtra is achieved... We reach nirvana of life... N actual problems will disappear..!! Rajnikant level of Delusion...
@@shubhawarigaikwad I have one question I support everything you said but if you tell the miniorities to not put religion before constitution then we r called communal and non secular and freedom of expression is questioned then how can you expect the majority people to not talk about it. Isn't this hypocrisy? I will wait for ur answer....
@@VishalSingh-rq5fu
1) dude... Why wud u support everything I say just blindly??..
U don't hv to do dat ... U can agree n disagree on things n dats completely normal.
Never ever will you find a person 95 percent perfect so never do dat.
2) if minority does something u find wrong/offensive ... Why not try emphathisizing and understanding wat it comes from ... To actually correct the situation.
You can even try giving ur piece of mind to them on a larger scale... !
Wudnt that make more sense than doing further worse by following their example and validating even more and then preach abt it?!?!🤷 ... How can u expect things to improve?!?..
3) if u cud give a better perspective to watevr this minority communal u said ... In a better way... That wud do less of harm. Just bcoz we dont understand somebody's situation doesnt make us eligible to despise/disregard/demean them.
Example:-
a)just bcoz m straight n don't understand how queer emotion is doesn't make me eligible to despise them.
b)just bcoz I don't eat nonveg doesn't give me any right to despise someone who loves pork.
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4) we in india on mass level end up terming a anything/person/thought that is unknown/unrelated as wrong or bad.
The day we get this straight...many questions will b answered..life will easier n humanity will prevail!!