I see why the son doesn’t want to be around him anymore. This man bragged about being financially responsible for 6 months out of his son’s life. And tried to embarrass her about being a stripper.
He has no respect for her or their son. I can't believe he called her out for being a stripper. His son has every right now to believe he is an asshole.
@@CerseiLannister999 how?? When she’s giving all her hard earn money to a man that does NOTHING FOR YOU!!! Y’all just gullible af and it shows!!! Y’all love to show pity to people that really don’t deserve it!! 🤷🏽♀️ If she respected herself she wouldn’t have been giving a DEAD BEAT her money!!
Defendant is a SMOOTH TALKER, LOOSER, MOOCHER and a LIAR!!! His son saw him for who he really is to be frank. She NEVER should have loaned him a dime to be frank.
@@akimat418 Quite untrue. Sorry that your life experience leads you to believe that. Now you've become a bigot and racist (whether internalized or other). That is typical behavior.
Defendant seems like the type that likes to work side hustles so he doesn’t have to pay as much child support because the income isn’t being reported 😂 idk
And it’s ways to report the company too and I can guarantee the company would rather report the the employee vs them having to pay knowing it’s illegal / facing possible prison time
The audience member sitting in the red dress behind the Defendant-- her face says it all!!! Got to love how she is trying really hard not to reveal what she thinks of this guy's excuses.🤨
He has a nerve to try and tarnish her...She raised their son, now he says if the his son wants to be in his life, it is up to the son. Please....the man is pitiful 7:04 l.
Or any of those other industries.. and oil is still booming. The bottom of the housing market fell out and came back.. what the hell does that even mean ?
I don't have kids, and I wld want my baby daddy t9 keep his job for my child's sake. I see her point, she thought he wld have matured by now possibly. But most "bad" ppl dont. My older brother 39yrs old, stole my rent money last month. I thought he changed too, so I trusted being around him. But, nope.
@@CerseiLannister999 change is paying towards bills you already had before I even went out and got you a car! Especially if you claim you in and outta work as a serve/waiter. But didn’t put a penny towards your son!? If he can’t finically take care of his son, then he should at least spend time which he wasn’t do either
He defendant says she was a straight A student and was doing well before she started dating him and then she went downhill. He doesn't realize that he is basically saying he contributed to her going downhill. If everything in her life was great before you came into the picture, you just might be a toxic individual who brings people down.
"Every industry that I get into you can be sure is just about to tank" 😒 Mcdonalds ain't never go under, get a job you deadbeat. It baffles me the deadbeat parents are quick to shame the active parent for taking odd jobs to support their kid but don't even do nearly the same.
It's obvious he has no accountability for his actions. I'm sure this is not the first time she has supported him? Attacking her character as a teenager has nothing to do with now! These are the type of women he likes to use (quiet, shy...). He doesn't want to work! Because he knows what the women will do for him! Selfish!
Ain't no way neither one of them 36.... NO WAY!!! Bum! This 🤡:" I don't know what happened?" YOU HAPPENED 🤡 Uuuugh he is repulsive I see why his son doesn't like him.
So sad. Are these men THAT convincing as a pookie/deadbeat or are these women just lonely?? I’m always so torn. At 27/28, I was able to notice men that weren’t worth anything, let alone being a dad.
They were 16 when they began dating and 17 when she had the son so that was her first love and she probably never imagined that he's turn out like🤢...this🤮
You shouldn’t fall in love as a teenager because more than likely that relationship won’t last. It happened to me and I thought it never would. I was going to be the exception to the rule. But I wasn’t.
This is the kind of man that gives good father’s a bad name. Seems like she was a good woman, he think he is more than he is. The kid is the one that suffers. I don’t blame her for stripping, most women will do what they have to to take care of their children. Men get to move on too the next affair. That’s why we need good parents to teach our kids to not fall into this trap.
She was really trying to convince herself she was done.. he is pathetic..but he can only get away with what she allows.. I hope she stands her ground this time 🤦🏾♀️
He doesn't know who he is as a man, that's very clear. Her assessment of him in the beginning was correct, he's childish cause he has no identity. 40 years old and can't "jive" with any solid career path? Yeah he's lost for sure.
Certain men just don’t listen to themselves. The man said they got pregnant at 16 and after the baby she changed. What was she suppose to do,that’s inevitable ?! He than confessed he left her and the child to pursue work but every time they start to collect the child support he ironically lose each job. So it takes the system months or years to know he got a new job if he’s using his social. Than he spends his son entirely life disappointing and leaving him feeling fatherless most nights. But he thinks her being 2 weeks older than him and being a secret stripper to make money to provide by any means necessary without him makes her worst than him 😂the circus keeps getting bigger and foolish clowns 🤡Smh
I couldn't believe how he bragged about how smart she was but after messing with him, she ironically had to start stripping 🙄 he didn't see the correlation to her having his child and essentially "changing" her 🤦♀️
He knows u so well even when u say im done he says we'll see about that,because he knows how to manipulate u,its a sad thing when a woman puts more value in holding on to the coattails of a deadbeat man than valuing herself.A beautiful woman as her can surely do better
You should never trust a man that speaks too eloquently or uses unnecessary "big words." For instance...if a man is a waiter and speaks like he should be a college english professor...he's a sleezeball. Just like the judge mathis episode where the tow truck driver sounded like he had a degree from harvard...ironically he ended up being a con artist as well.
He is right, she will loan him more money but he “should “ be ashamed of himself but people not just men but people will try you as long as you let them 🤷🏽♀️
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I've been saying this for YEAAARS!!! Dudes swear that women go for drug dealers and scammers, when in reality, we just be getting burned by "nice guys" and "gOoD" men.
The only thing that made sense to me about her loaning him money and him owing child support is that she wanted to keep the child support money coming and thought that the $1000 for the car will be paid off some other way. But when it wasn’t, she decided to sue him. She knew he wasn’t going to pay it back. I think she’s trying to put forth a facade
I see why the son doesn’t want to be around him anymore. This man bragged about being financially responsible for 6 months out of his son’s life. And tried to embarrass her about being a stripper.
If the child wasn't evidence, I'd pretend I never dated this man. OMG what a terrible person to have a child with
You ain't lyin I would too.
Be very careful who you have kids with.
@@Sephymuffins young and inexperienced
She should have lied like he does... and said 🗣 You are NOT the father! She would have been better off.
This is why teen pregnancy is not a good idea.
He has no respect for her or their son. I can't believe he called her out for being a stripper. His son has every right now to believe he is an asshole.
strippers are all thots..
She don’t have no respect for herself or her son! That’s why he do her like that.
@@moniquebrown7738 the mom don't have nothin to do with HIS OWN son! You sound pitiful
@@CerseiLannister999 how?? When she’s giving all her hard earn money to a man that does NOTHING FOR YOU!!! Y’all just gullible af and it shows!!! Y’all love to show pity to people that really don’t deserve it!! 🤷🏽♀️ If she respected herself she wouldn’t have been giving a DEAD BEAT her money!!
He's 🗑
Defendant is a SMOOTH TALKER, LOOSER, MOOCHER and a LIAR!!! His son saw him for who he really is to be frank. She NEVER should have loaned him a dime to be frank.
You forgot A hole
Right!!!
And she’s a straight A student who got duped by him. Being a straight A student doesn’t guarantee common sense loo
What Frank Got To Do With This? 😂😂
@@Jayred3 that's a figure of speech. Frank means to the point, serious.
HE IS NOTHING BUT HOT AIR AND FULL OF EXCUSES.
Typical sorry BM!!
He's full of Do Do. 😂
Terrible
Full of 💩
@@akimat418 Quite untrue. Sorry that your life experience leads you to believe that. Now you've become a bigot and racist (whether internalized or other). That is typical behavior.
He's spent the last 20 years trying to find a career and still hasn't landed on one. That says it all!
Professional student 😒
One of the Kangs!
@@CerseiLannister999getho kings
Thanks for the chuckle!
That's not true his working in a restaurant.
He wants to tear her down and yet she raised HIS son. He’s so annoying. Kids are not optional to take care of them.
A jack of all trades and a master 🙌 of none. And agregiously a trick and con.
Well put lol
He ain't got no trade and can't keep a job, after persuing careers for 20 years, need I say more?!
Egregiously
Only jack he is - is a jack-azz!!!
Becky: "I'm done. I'm done. I'm not loning you anymore money. I'm done."
Pookie: "We'll see about that."
Me: "He probably right."
Hahaha not Pookie!
😂
And some of you black women ain't too far from being like "Becky" yourself so quit it.🤑💀
🤦🏿♀️
I died😂😂😂😂
This man comes out as a fool. No respect for himself. Tries to disrespect his son’s mom by this nonsense stripper story.
It always bothers me when people say that.
She RECEIVEEEED for a whole 6 months out of 18 years. That's really contributing, huh?
Defendant seems like the type that likes to work side hustles so he doesn’t have to pay as much child support because the income isn’t being reported 😂 idk
And it’s ways to report the company too and I can guarantee the company would rather report the the employee vs them having to pay knowing it’s illegal / facing possible prison time
Maybe he need to be a stripper & get his money up 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
LOL LOL LOL
He should try it. He’s tried everything else 🤷🏽♀️
🤣🤣🤣🤣
The audience member sitting in the red dress behind the Defendant-- her face says it all!!! Got to love how she is trying really hard not to reveal what she thinks of this guy's excuses.🤨
🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏾
I know her parents are still pissed off at her to this day for getting with him!!!
😅 she still smitten too.
True
He has a nerve to try and tarnish her...She raised their son,
now he says if the his son wants to be in his life, it is up to the son. Please....the man is pitiful 7:04 l.
Reggie is a LIAR! When did the bottom fall out of MRI Tech? What a dumpster fire😂
Or any of those other industries.. and oil is still booming. The bottom of the housing market fell out and came back.. what the hell does that even mean ?
I’m trying to figure out why would she do anything financial for this guy if he doesn’t take care of his son?? 🤔 Come ladies we gotta do better.
This is what I raised my son NOT TO BE or he'd have to be dealt with...By Me 👍
AGREE..
#truth
I don't have kids, and I wld want my baby daddy t9 keep his job for my child's sake. I see her point, she thought he wld have matured by now possibly. But most "bad" ppl dont. My older brother 39yrs old, stole my rent money last month. I thought he changed too, so I trusted being around him. But, nope.
@@CerseiLannister999 change is paying towards bills you already had before I even went out and got you a car! Especially if you claim you in and outta work as a serve/waiter. But didn’t put a penny towards your son!? If he can’t finically take care of his son, then he should at least spend time which he wasn’t do either
Advice to the defendant: Have a bit of self -respect or at least pretend to... That last remark he made just sums him up for real.
Gotta love judge Mathis ,"you're not a slick talker, you're a soft con" had me rolling.
RUN 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ HE IS SORRY..NO GOOD..
He defendant says she was a straight A student and was doing well before she started dating him and then she went downhill. He doesn't realize that he is basically saying he contributed to her going downhill. If everything in her life was great before you came into the picture, you just might be a toxic individual who brings people down.
Con man fr. Talking bout every endeavor you choose tanks. No sir, you’re the anchor.
😂
"Every industry that I get into you can be sure is just about to tank" 😒 Mcdonalds ain't never go under, get a job you deadbeat. It baffles me the deadbeat parents are quick to shame the active parent for taking odd jobs to support their kid but don't even do nearly the same.
Another high value man.
He doesn’t want to help you out financially so much so that you saved enough money to loan him well done
She actually said she used her credit card(s) to make the loan to him. Either way, she was throwing good money after bad, trying to help him out.
@@jenn_x. rite. As if it mattered. She wanted him to keep the job so thier son wld be OK financially. Rela mom there.
He at the end admitted that he borrows money from a woman who raised their child alone. He is crazy .
and telling her basically she will borrow to him again.
@@suzanne26slinger ??? "lend" to him again.
@@sereneamani1713 yes, at the end she said she will never give him money again and he said we will see about that.
Yeah, but she's even crazier for doing it.
How could you give out a loan to a man that wasn’t there for your child 🙄‼️
Snow bunnies are to soft. This is why bumblack dudes like them. Babby they are not good for any woman.
He sounded intelligent and successful, but clearly is not; pretty narcissistic too
That's why women need to look behind the cover.😊
I’m sitting here wondering if he believes his own lies… classic narcissist presents and speaks well, but is full of ka-ka….
AT THE END SHE SAID THAT SHE DONE LOANING HIM MONEY AND HE HAD THE AUDACITY TO SAY "WE'LL SEE ABOUT THAT". AS IF HE HAS SOME TYPE OF HOLD ON HER. SMH
Probably still dipping in her cookie jar
He definitely TRIED IT with the BS Vocabulary,All of that performance isn’t gonna cover your lack of responsibility!!!!
We see thru alllll that!!!’
Even the preference got the same BM that BW get!! That says it all!!
Lmao!! Not the preference!!!
“We’ll see about that” like ew 🙄
Well nothing goes his way! To hear him tell it😂😂😂
It's obvious he has no accountability for his actions. I'm sure this is not the first time she has supported him? Attacking her character as a teenager has nothing to do with now! These are the type of women he likes to use (quiet, shy...). He doesn't want to work! Because he knows what the women will do for him! Selfish!
He is yet to understand that he can't get a stable job because he is the main architect of his own misfortune.
💯
I hate when men embarrass women on telling that they never love them
You're a juck that's who you are.
“RECEIVEEE SOME” I died completely 😭😭😭
Ain't no way neither one of them 36.... NO WAY!!!
Bum!
This 🤡:" I don't know what happened?"
YOU HAPPENED 🤡
Uuuugh he is repulsive I see why his son doesn't like him.
So sad. Are these men THAT convincing as a pookie/deadbeat or are these women just lonely?? I’m always so torn. At 27/28, I was able to notice men that weren’t worth anything, let alone being a dad.
Both. I like the spelling of your name.
They were 16 when they began dating and 17 when she had the son so that was her first love and she probably never imagined that he's turn out like🤢...this🤮
You shouldn’t fall in love as a teenager because more than likely that relationship won’t last.
It happened to me and I thought it never would. I was going to be the exception to the rule. But I wasn’t.
We all think we will be the exception lol it’s apart of growing up.
@@tgrant6518 I agree.
I hated him from "she's older than I am your Honor"
😳😳 not “well see about that!” That sense of entitlement he has is WILD!
Sounds like he tried everything and failed. I guess he should of tried stripping 😂
52,000 in back child support is crazy and giving deadbeat 😢
He said we will see about that 😅😂
SORRYYYYYYYYYYYYY……. DiD I SAY IT LONGAND LOUD ENOUGH….SORRYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY MAN. Glad she made it
This is the kind of man that gives good father’s a bad name. Seems like she was a good woman, he think he is more than he is. The kid is the one that suffers. I don’t blame her for stripping, most women will do what they have to to take care of their children. Men get to move on too the next affair. That’s why we need good parents to teach our kids to not fall into this trap.
I know he didn’t come into Judge Mathis’ courtroom trying to talk slick. That con isn’t gonna work on him. 🤣😆
She was really trying to convince herself she was done.. he is pathetic..but he can only get away with what she allows.. I hope she stands her ground this time 🤦🏾♀️
Reggie look sweet, he loves men
🤭
He doesn't know who he is as a man, that's very clear. Her assessment of him in the beginning was correct, he's childish cause he has no identity. 40 years old and can't "jive" with any solid career path? Yeah he's lost for sure.
So he's a professional bartender and waiter.
😂😂😂
Right and he is looking down on her
Oh WOWWWWW, at the end when she said that she was through lending him money...And I quote. "We'll see about that"!
LOL, that's priceless.
Why lend him money when he's never tried to help you with his child???
Defendant:She’s older than me your honor
Plaintiff: by two weeks
Defendant:6 weeks
Me: 😑🤦🏾♂️
Certain men just don’t listen to themselves. The man said they got pregnant at 16 and after the baby she changed. What was she suppose to do,that’s inevitable ?! He than confessed he left her and the child to pursue work but every time they start to collect the child support he ironically lose each job. So it takes the system months or years to know he got a new job if he’s using his social. Than he spends his son entirely life disappointing and leaving him feeling fatherless most nights. But he thinks her being 2 weeks older than him and being a secret stripper to make money to provide by any means necessary without him makes her worst than him 😂the circus keeps getting bigger and foolish clowns 🤡Smh
Yeah I knew he was foolish when he randomly said she's older as if that changes anything
I couldn't believe how he bragged about how smart she was but after messing with him, she ironically had to start stripping 🙄 he didn't see the correlation to her having his child and essentially "changing" her 🤦♀️
@@lavidaloca2344 exactly
This case should put a lot of common assumptions to rest.
It should, but it won't because they love their narratives.
He knows u so well even when u say im done he says we'll see about that,because he knows how to manipulate u,its a sad thing when a woman puts more value in holding on to the coattails of a deadbeat man than valuing herself.A beautiful woman as her can surely do better
He’s evil and conniving. Trying to destroy her character.
He lying 😂😂😂😂
You should never trust a man that speaks too eloquently or uses unnecessary "big words."
For instance...if a man is a waiter and speaks like he should be a college english professor...he's a sleezeball. Just like the judge mathis episode where the tow truck driver sounded like he had a degree from harvard...ironically he ended up being a con artist as well.
He makes me want to listen to hootie and the blowfish..lol
She got the same BM…😂😅 😭
I could tell how he was describing her in high school he was still living in a kid mindset. He never grew up.sad
He is right, she will loan him more money but he “should “ be ashamed of himself but people not just men but people will try you as long as you let them 🤷🏽♀️
Judge don’t wanna hear dat 😂😂😂
Idk about yall but its the lady in the pinkish red shirt up front ..her face tells me she was thinking of some thing 😂😂😂
I totally agree! Too funny with them facial expressions!!!
20 year bartender with every state license and zero professional employment history....he is a bum
I love it when Judge calls them soft cons. LOL LOL
Turned her into a single yt mom smh..
If this is how he is most of the time, I see why the son doesn't want to be bothered!
He’s a man now.. you’re correct about that, but I guarantee he peeped you were nothing way before that.
Fit friendly feminine preference got the same blkman.
😂😂😂!!!
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I've been saying this for YEAAARS!!! Dudes swear that women go for drug dealers and scammers, when in reality, we just be getting burned by "nice guys" and "gOoD" men.
"every year i was trying a different career" doesn't really fly once you have a kid, buddy!
Listen if she had to strip to take care of your seed them that should embarass him as man that he wasnt there
Big words big head small brain!!!
Reggie is just as she described.. Peter Pan! Just doesn’t want to grow up!
What's the point of being all clean cut and well spoken if you're gonna sleaze your way through life like trash?
He seems to know how to get her to loan him money.
Dole face when she starting clapping 😂😂
Lord have mercy.....If he didn't sound like a bum" we'll see about that!"🤦🏿♀️
He was one of the most well spoken Pookies i've ever seen. 😂
If y’all think about it it’s a Blessing they separated early because he is a sorry piece of coal 😮
Not the “we’ll see about that” 😂😂😂😂
When he started talking about all his non-existing careers lol
We wanna see the 1999-2005 cases
Hey, Judge Mathis Family!!❤❤
Hey there!
What stripper receives credit card payments?? That’s how they do it now?? I haven’t been in years
He's so silly. I'm sure no one believes him.
They take Venmo and ca$happ
She's a grade A student because she rode horses? I don't understand lol.
The only thing that made sense to me about her loaning him money and him owing child support is that she wanted to keep the child support money coming and thought that the $1000 for the car will be paid off some other way. But when it wasn’t, she decided to sue him. She knew he wasn’t going to pay it back. I think she’s trying to put forth a facade
He is lazy minded and all these schooling, trade school for skills and still morning sticks as to gainful work/employment
so hes a waiter and making fun of her.
Why loan people money when they already aren't paying what they owe? 🤡
He sounds like my baby daddy 🥴 Ain’t Shit…
Which baby?😅😅
@@TopherGrant the one with you foo
@@BeautifulSoulDestiny 😂😂Ya'll are silly.
In true dusty fashion...
“She’s older than that 🤡 “ by two weeks😑 how is that relevant at all tf
I always said, "most women don't go for "bad boys" but we encounter "mEn🤡" who "seem" like they'd make good partners.
What’s 8k to 52k? That didn’t make sense.
He make his self look bad. Just like the loser he asking like. Trying to discredit her character.